The ONE Feminine Energy Shift That Changes Everything

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  • Опубликовано: 4 фев 2025

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  • @DianaNelsonn
    @DianaNelsonn 3 часа назад +280

    The concept of confidence in " The Art of Seductive Power" book completely explains this. I wish I read it sooner.

  • @Sweetpea-2023
    @Sweetpea-2023 2 дня назад +159

    LET THEM! Focus on being the best version of yourself, and let other adults be adults. Self control is the only thing you can control!

  • @arani_3724
    @arani_3724 2 дня назад +97

    I want to be as chill as the dog in the background

  • @laurenfarrell9104
    @laurenfarrell9104 2 дня назад +202

    Honestly, nothing has helped me to get to my feminine energy more than becoming religious over the past year. I learned to stop controlling everything because I have my worries to God and had faith in Him to help me. Since then, surrendering that control to God has helped me to be a happier person. And you know who that has also helped? My husband. Our relationship has been so much better because of all of this. Thank you for your videos! They have been a huge help too with looking at myself and areas that I could change to be better.

    • @maryamjahangir4839
      @maryamjahangir4839 2 дня назад

      MAy you explain from what refrences you study about religion and GOD?

    • @maryamjahangir4839
      @maryamjahangir4839 2 дня назад

      MAy you explain from what refrences you study about religion and GOD?

    • @alliejohnson4392
      @alliejohnson4392 2 дня назад +8

      Totally totally agree! Daily Bible study has changed my life this year!

    • @maryr23
      @maryr23 День назад

      @@maryamjahangir4839she’s a Christian imo and you seems like a Muslim from your name, I would suggest doing your own research according to your religion

    • @eunicemendoza7069
      @eunicemendoza7069 День назад +1

      Exactly 💯 💯 ❤

  • @nickc5577
    @nickc5577 23 часа назад +8

    I love how elegantly this woman carries herself. She definitely has the right energy.

  • @miniiii_th
    @miniiii_th 9 часов назад +2

    As the eldest, I'm used to being the advice-giver, both to my siblings and colleagues. But I've always wished I had someone to offer me the same kind of support and guidance I provide to others. Your videos feel like a conversation with a wise friend who understands my challenges and offers insightful advice that truly resonates. Thanks Jillz. Grateful to you ❤

  • @malakwael1506
    @malakwael1506 День назад +21

    Please, can you do how to stay in feminine energy while you're the leader in college or boss at work. How to stay in feminine energy while still be competent and assertive.
    Please🥺 I'd like to hear your insights on that. I can't find anyone talking about feminine energy as being a leader.

    • @carissa6602
      @carissa6602 День назад +1

      I agree with this! Esp when balancing the need to progress things forward without “taking control”. I could give endless examples where the easier thing to do, is just simply to do the thing. To take the action.

    • @malakwael1506
      @malakwael1506 День назад +1

      @carissa6602 That's right. And when you're the one in charge, you can't help but to take over and take control to get things done.

    • @eviozyra6300
      @eviozyra6300 17 часов назад

      you are a woman, you will always be feminine no matter what you do. Being a leader doesn't make you manly.

  • @albadarling
    @albadarling 2 дня назад +41

    Jillz, this couldn’t come in a better time. Thank you for the video, this is a topic that I really needed to hear. Wish you the best ❤

  • @HopehopehopeH
    @HopehopehopeH 2 дня назад +18

    This channel has changed my life. Love you Jillz x

  • @huttonmurphyhughes4688
    @huttonmurphyhughes4688 День назад +14

    First: I needed this video like I need my next breath. It was right on time for me. Thank you.
    Next: the aesthetic of your video is such a vibe. I see every little thing in the background that suggests elegance, ease, and abundance. The cutesy but somehow also classy pop-ups are now stuck in my mind, with all the key points of this video. And you are so easy to understand and follow that I feel like I’m just sitting on the bed with my best friend talking about life. So-whatever program you use for your videos, if you are doing your own editing or hiring it out, whatever it is-it’s good. It’s really really good. Thank you, Jillz. 💖

  • @KimberleyRiley-n1z
    @KimberleyRiley-n1z 2 дня назад +13

    This is your best video yet! You just keep getting better and better! It's so nice to see an attractive, intelligent woman talk so compellingly about inner growth and flow!

  • @Barbora_Kyskova
    @Barbora_Kyskova 2 дня назад +8

    The divider "trick" works perfectly for me. First it was hard to let the old part of me stay in the past, so I wrote her a letter. And that really helped❤

    • @venusrose1382
      @venusrose1382 День назад +1

      Love this tip! I think that I need to do the same

  • @zaribelle718
    @zaribelle718 2 дня назад +27

    I was just thinking I wanted to start stepping into my feminine again. I’ve been hustling hard lately and have forgotten to show myself love.

    • @annie3131
      @annie3131 2 дня назад +2

      Another great tip she gave me when I was feeling this way was "to just slow down". Walk slower, think and process before speaking, slow your speech, slow your mind, slow down your walk🩷 It has really changed me and even helped with my anxiety! I hope this helps you too~

    • @blablabla-g3z
      @blablabla-g3z 2 дня назад +2

      Acupunture and massages helped me a lot in that situation. Sometimes you have so much stress in your body that you need some help to release. :)

    • @venusrose1382
      @venusrose1382 День назад

      This has been me for the past few years, and I also want to start slowing down and pull myself towards myself a little more.

    • @venusrose1382
      @venusrose1382 День назад

      @@annie3131these are such good tips. Thank you for sharing.

    • @venusrose1382
      @venusrose1382 День назад

      @@blablabla-g3zlove this. Maybe I should book myself a massage. I am sure guided meditation might also be helpful.

  • @mindshiftmami
    @mindshiftmami 2 дня назад +7

    This conversation is so needed!!! I agree with the title. This is the number one thing we as women need to remember, and the more we practice releasing control the more life flows the way it is meant to for us 🥰 can confirm from my own life experience.

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  2 дня назад +1

      So glad you agree! It’s ironic how surrendering is what actually gives us freedom 💕

    • @mindshiftmami
      @mindshiftmami 2 дня назад

      @ Exactly 😁 thank you for your fantastic videos Jillz always so empowering!

  • @evellyncarolinecardoso970
    @evellyncarolinecardoso970 День назад +2

    Your videos are so beautiful and light, that they have reached here in Brazil! ( I am a Brazilian admirer of your videos) 💌

  • @vanessamonster5038
    @vanessamonster5038 День назад +3

    Great topic. I needed the reminder. Learning that I'm responsible for the effort and not the outcome was so freeing.

  • @freetobemeesh
    @freetobemeesh День назад +1

    Listened to this already twice - each time heard different things I needed hear. Thank you for this Jillz 💕

  • @idesigna2956
    @idesigna2956 2 дня назад +9

    You’re the best person talking feminine energy, thank you 🌹❤️

  • @mikki-loramartinez1344
    @mikki-loramartinez1344 День назад +4

    Thank you so much for reminding me stop control everything, it's just drain me everyday😢 Thank you for reminding, I will stop my bad habits😅

  • @IAmAll99
    @IAmAll99 День назад +1

    I needed this reminder to get me back in the Goddess flow.
    Thank you so much ❤😭

  • @JolieMariexo
    @JolieMariexo 5 часов назад

    Hi Jillz, thank you for another great video. I’ve been stepping more into my feminine energy by letting go of the need to control. Yoga & meditation has helped me a lot. 🧘‍♀️ 💕

  • @burntoutbaeee
    @burntoutbaeee День назад +1

    Let go and relax; have faith in best outcomes - thank you so much!

  • @jebin7898
    @jebin7898 День назад +2

    Such a wonderful video for all the women out there❤😊 Thank you so much Jillz.

  • @jenniferc4083
    @jenniferc4083 День назад +5

    "Be like water making its way through cracks. Do not be assertive, but adjust to the object, and you shall find a way around or through it." - Bruce Lee
    Maybe it's from being a water sign astrologically, but letting go of control and going with the flow is usually really easy for me.
    At the same time though, I have a stubbon streak and have been compared to a mule when it's something I really want done.
    Pick your battles. It is what it is. And my personal favorite... Micro-managing everything leads to stress. Stress causes wrinkles. Is it really worth a wrinkle? No!

  • @VickyLashenko
    @VickyLashenko 20 часов назад

    Beautiful Jillz! This was such a wonderful reminder! I’ve learned so much from you over the years!! I’m finally getting back to creating here on YT and am much more mindful about my energy and how I show up for my family and for my audience. I used to be in my masculine and it showed 🙃 thank you for always sharing your wisdom with us! ❤️🙏🏼🥹

  • @mirimirimore
    @mirimirimore День назад +4

    Jillz your content has helped me a lot for the last couple of years that and I´ve been following you and I just resonate so much with your every word! Like at the end of this video, the focus was the letting go of control but at the same time that´s the KEY to manifestation and a happy life and that´s just pure gold information explained in such a simple way, thank you so much. Also, I wanted to say I loveee your new video formats and addtions!! Congrats to you and your team. PS: You´re GLOWING friend, even more than before you look more and more beatiful each new video!♥ PS2, a phrase I read once I think could sum this concept up is ¨A girl must only focus on feeling hot and happy, that´s it¨☺

  • @maisarahkaharuddin9923
    @maisarahkaharuddin9923 День назад +1

    you are literally my comfort person. love you!!

  • @martisha120
    @martisha120 День назад +1

    Smooth sailing sipping champagne ❤ my favourite quote

  • @milomazli
    @milomazli 2 дня назад +1

    Omg Jillz ..
    You are my bright wonderful guardian angel. This video is for meeeee. (Next to billions of women) i send a huuuge wave of positive energy and gratitude to you 🫶🌹

  • @تسنيمشمعه
    @تسنيمشمعه 2 дня назад +1

    Your words come at the right time I need to hear such phrases❤❤❤

  • @hedie9206
    @hedie9206 День назад

    I feel like I'm not ready for this yet. But It's an important message. Thank you. You're brilliant as always🌸💖

  • @commenter2023
    @commenter2023 2 дня назад +2

    There is a time and a place for relaxing, a significant amount of time and brain power goes into staying on top of things in these volatile and expensive times when single...

  • @dearself.iloveyou
    @dearself.iloveyou 19 часов назад

    You are glowing Jillz~

  • @BenBulmash
    @BenBulmash День назад +1

    תודה!

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  День назад

      Thank you ❤️

    • @BenBulmash
      @BenBulmash День назад

      @JillzGuerin This was very helpful :)

  • @skadikatte591
    @skadikatte591 2 дня назад +1

    Jillz, you are really good in what you do. Thank you for all the clips and tips, they really help

  • @nicolettahabsudova6485
    @nicolettahabsudova6485 День назад

    You're the best Jiilz! Thank you so much for your words - this is probably my favorite video from you 😍😍🤗🤗

  • @maryelizabeth6542
    @maryelizabeth6542 День назад

    Amen, Sister! Well said. Thanks for the reminder! I'm way too controlling and I feel exactly the way you describe and not feminine at all.

  • @jaej34
    @jaej34 День назад

    Thank you Jillz for this. I appreciate you very much. I needed to hear this today.

  • @JessicaMamitiana
    @JessicaMamitiana 2 дня назад +3

    Divine timing 🥺

  • @katehyacinthdr
    @katehyacinthdr День назад

    Super love this video!! Really learned a lot, very helpful in reframing my mind and do better. You say the right words I need to hear!

  • @fiercenovahunter
    @fiercenovahunter День назад

    Thank you for this message! Your hair is always so beautiful, I'd love a video about your hair styling routine

  • @Izuvaz
    @Izuvaz 19 часов назад

    Hi Jillz, Thanks a lot for this one i really needed a reminder to myself 🙂 u really made my day

  • @VeronikaBerkova-e9u
    @VeronikaBerkova-e9u День назад

    Thank you Jillz 🫠

  • @linara8085
    @linara8085 5 часов назад

    The video is simply brilliant

  • @katdelfi
    @katdelfi 2 дня назад

    i’m literally so obsessed with you! thank you ❤️

  • @aprajitathapliyal
    @aprajitathapliyal 16 часов назад

    Thank you so much ❤❤

  • @Talymaya
    @Talymaya День назад

    Thanks for an awesome video at just the right time for me. Total game changer!!!

  • @Youareloved511
    @Youareloved511 2 дня назад +1

    Love these topics. Love this channel ❤

  • @lilibaro
    @lilibaro 2 дня назад +3

    Dear Jillz
    i listen often to your evening meditation
    and i rewatch the miami vlog
    thank you
    much love
    💕

  • @EmilyLondt-n1i
    @EmilyLondt-n1i 2 дня назад

    Loved the vid- could u make a winter themed one where u give tips and tricks to avoid the “winter blues”?

  • @kaffe-kaka
    @kaffe-kaka День назад

    One of your best videos❤ really helped me thank you!

  • @kristinalowe4490
    @kristinalowe4490 7 часов назад

    Agree completely 💕

  • @An-yh2bl
    @An-yh2bl 12 часов назад

    It’s an enormous help if a woman has a good partner next to her who helps her, even in small things like cleaning. Doing everything alone is just too draining and too difficult. Not to mention dealing with stress alone… :( Getting hugs when one is stressed or the partner surprises with some relaxing program makes it easier to manage stress…

  • @Lishm28
    @Lishm28 День назад

    Your videos are the best ❤

  • @tamara7156
    @tamara7156 2 дня назад

    Thank you! Your videos are so inspiring and you exude so much vibracy and feminine energy that's a pleasure to watch 😊❤

  • @HarlemShaman
    @HarlemShaman День назад

    Im a first class girly good points made. Thank you Jillz.

  • @MiroslavaSommelier
    @MiroslavaSommelier 2 дня назад

    Felt like you were talking to me. Thank you 🙏🏼✨

  • @EricaAraujo-n2g
    @EricaAraujo-n2g 2 дня назад

    Hi Jillz! Love your videos. I suggest a subject for a new video: how to identify when a cicle ended? In normal life, not only in toxic environments.

  • @PreetiGopal
    @PreetiGopal 2 дня назад

    Thank you ❤. Such a powerful video.

  • @esterkollarova1151
    @esterkollarova1151 День назад +4

    Giiiiirl the quality of your videos just goes up and up 📈

  • @Ava-s1k4h
    @Ava-s1k4h День назад

    Thank you 🤍

  • @SinaSaleeh-qh6yu
    @SinaSaleeh-qh6yu День назад

    Love you sis ❤️🫂

  • @maneeshaakshay4889
    @maneeshaakshay4889 День назад

    I feel I need to watch your videos every 2 weeks because I go back into Hustle energy as my auto mode 😂

  • @JAYD1476
    @JAYD1476 День назад +1

    Well Liz,being raised by a single mom this is how you view life😢:needing controll bc you are the only breadwinner. And if you can't provide you cant feel safe. So you can't be in your feminine energy. My mom is one and was her kid:And I had a very. Very feminine energy even as a kid. But growing up and we are both trying to make ends meet I'm slowly becoming like her😢.My body holds so much tension I barely sleep. My muscles twitch. I remember when I once was a very creative kid and teenager,music singing dancing and painting. And the worst is that all this has been ingrained in my by my mom,that :Life is cruel. Nobody helps you. You have to work hard to barely make a living. That rich people didn't work but inherited their money. That rich men don't fall for girls like me bc im poor. That people won't ever value my talents (artistic)because I'm poor and don't have the artistic background. I'm 29 and nowhere In life. I need to be my own anchor and get out of this rut that my mom thrives in yet at the same time I need healing and a slow life. Seems like I can't have both bc I need financial stability so bad. I see everything as a threat or as disappointment 😞. I have seen this in myself and I promise to try to change all this by myself😢😅🎉

    • @supermoon672
      @supermoon672 День назад +2

      Hey, try finding a slow and easy job even if it's not much, just for you to relax a little bit and can calm your mind.
      Try putting yourself first at everything!
      I send you great things to your path.
      A hug and a kiss. ❤️😘

  • @Jessica-ki8oc
    @Jessica-ki8oc 2 дня назад +5

    Releasing control matters a lot and absolutely, our controlling parts do stem from the lack of a felt sense of safety, but for many women, particularly those who have experienced trauma or a traumatic childhood, it's not as simple as "choosing" to let go because these experiences live in the body and the nervous system, not the mind. I actually think this message to "let go" can be harmful in some cases (and certainly was for me), because if letting go doesn't come easily, as easily as simply choosing, you can feel like there's something wrong with you. You can feel like you're a controlling b*tch, or whatever expletive you want to insert (AKA the worst and most undesirable thing a woman can be). And if you don't understand where the controlling parts come from, well, then you can feel crazy if "choosing" to let go doesn't work, or only works so far. I'd recommend looking at science-backed approaches to healing via attachment styles//patterns alongside lifestyle changes and adopting positive mindsets like the divider concept. Psychotherapist Jessica Baum's book Anxiously Attached is especially good for healing control and understanding why you might control in the first place.

    • @venusrose1382
      @venusrose1382 День назад

      Thank you for the book recommendation 🙂

  • @ericaerica2986
    @ericaerica2986 День назад

    Thank you for sharing!!!! (off the topic can you make a video of you makeup? It's so beautiful!)

  • @Iivaara
    @Iivaara 2 дня назад +1

    Thank you.

  • @shimaamuhammad8510
    @shimaamuhammad8510 День назад

    Hello Jillz, thanks for the video
    Could you make a video about how to balance masculine and feminine energy as a female ?

  • @arandomjourney543
    @arandomjourney543 День назад

    This is such a great video

  • @aaishairfan3767
    @aaishairfan3767 2 дня назад

    Amazing video ❤Thanks jilz for all you efforts

  • @betulapendula2562
    @betulapendula2562 2 дня назад +6

    I released the control and they stole my life.

    • @mindshiftmami
      @mindshiftmami 2 дня назад +2

      That is a belief you need to reprogram in your mind. Start telling yourself NO ONE can steal your life from you. Reclaim your power. ❤

    • @betulapendula2562
      @betulapendula2562 2 дня назад +1

      @ thank you🥹

    • @CatsCatsCats-Fish
      @CatsCatsCats-Fish 2 дня назад

      It can happen with toxic or abusive people for sure! Sending you healing.

    • @betulapendula2562
      @betulapendula2562 2 дня назад

      @ thank you 🧚🏻‍♀️

  • @vidhiharia9546
    @vidhiharia9546 19 часов назад

    Controlling creates anxiety and suffering. Surrendering means choosing to trust rather than controlling. We never have control of anything so we just unnecessarily stress ourselves when we try to control.

  • @Kaymitlit
    @Kaymitlit 2 дня назад

    Thanks you so so much for this I needed it a lot you are amazing and beautiful 💖💖💖

  • @LuP-d4s
    @LuP-d4s 2 дня назад

    Thank you for sharing such inspiring contents 💖✨🎀

  • @noni-u6x
    @noni-u6x 2 дня назад

    Great advise! Thanks a lot!

  • @_scoutfinch
    @_scoutfinch 2 дня назад +7

    How can I be in my feminine energy if I am surrounded by toxic people? I cannot be away from them because I am still dependent on them.

    • @barbi_uy
      @barbi_uy 2 дня назад +3

      I feel you, I've been there when I was younger. The only thing that worked for me was trying to drown the noise around me, stop trying to make toxic people change, and just focus on myself. What can I do to better myself in order to be able to leave this situation as soon as possible? I know it's easier said than done but I promise when you make it happen, it feels liberating

  • @Αλεξάνδρα-δ2φ
    @Αλεξάνδρα-δ2φ 2 дня назад

    Loved that video ❤❤❤

  • @tanyagaisner6146
    @tanyagaisner6146 День назад

    I don’t try to control much, just my dirty dishes and laundry, getting to dentist on time and money overspending - but none of this works, if I let go I will just die in dirt and be late everywhere… I don’t really get how to manage life and constantly feel like I need a nanny (I’m 35)

  • @mhk.20.d
    @mhk.20.d 16 часов назад

    I love your hair

  • @SarinLaskar
    @SarinLaskar День назад

    Short and sweet

  • @hobsyllwin2562
    @hobsyllwin2562 2 дня назад

    Thank You ❤

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 2 дня назад

    Imagine getting a heart comment and reply me nice comment from you Jillz and you are My Big Sister and I really really love how you explain to us and I really really needed this video💖😀💫

  • @august1star
    @august1star 2 дня назад

    Sending love ❤️ I'm a new subscriber and have been catching up with all your videos! Excited for this one too

  • @Yogawithjanierose
    @Yogawithjanierose 2 дня назад

    Love this video Jillz ❤

  • @lilibaro
    @lilibaro 2 дня назад +2

    Dera Jillz ❣️
    thank you very much
    is it possible to teach more about having a more intimate relationship with hubby
    greetings
    blessings
    kisses
    💖

  • @milicamakic3019
    @milicamakic3019 2 дня назад

    The best video eveeeeeer

  • @Sara369
    @Sara369 2 дня назад

    Thanks 🙏🏼🩷

  • @miholiver6191
    @miholiver6191 2 дня назад

    Anxiety is ruining my life, i need to be in control of everything sos

  • @soumyachourasia6221
    @soumyachourasia6221 2 дня назад

    Sister, you are like my elder sister ❤

  • @Acoss527
    @Acoss527 День назад

    Thank you. Really needed to hear this today. This is so relevant for me now… do you talk about numerology as well? Keep on seeing 22:22 and 22:44

  • @falkeys
    @falkeys 2 дня назад +5

    How to be in your feminine energy as a single mom when you have to hustle and do everything 😢 it’s hard to find balance

    • @kathrinscharrer3923
      @kathrinscharrer3923 2 дня назад +2

      Don't believe everything is your fault or job. The problems you face should be considered collective issues. I know many think collective approach is " communist" but I think this the right approach. Where I live single mothers get double paid maternity leave. These are the kind of things we need to think about as a society. If we then as individuals want to work on " feeling feminine" that is fine ( I am watching this after all). But the challenges you face can not be just your business.

    • @Sweetpea-2023
      @Sweetpea-2023 2 дня назад +1

      @@falkeys single mom here. Don’t know how old your kiddos are, but it will benefit them when they see you caring for yourself. Remove any unnecessary burdens and stress where possible and do less for anyone or anything outside of you or your kids. I hope that helps!

    • @lilila2584
      @lilila2584 2 дня назад

      Single mom here and I’ve been in survival mode for me and my child for the last 15 years. I don’t even know where to start. So hard 😞

  • @FatimazahraeRachidi
    @FatimazahraeRachidi 2 дня назад

    Among the first minute ❤

  • @TheBPDFairy
    @TheBPDFairy День назад +1

    Please, don't associate yourself with BetterHelp. I hope you take this kind critique in a constructive way, because I love your videos. But I can't in good conscience support a company like BetterHelp.
    I have serious mental health issues that are a result of traum that I'm working hard on healing, and they can do more harm than good.
    I hope you take your time to actually do your research on them and re evaluate your sponsorship.
    Hugs! ❤

  • @nuna632
    @nuna632 День назад

    quick reminder that asserting control in some environments and situations is neccessary to succeed. also, letting go of control to recharge is quite possible if you're emotionally mature enough. you can have a very soft life and "be in your feminine energy" while asserting control in some areas of your life. unless you are willing to go down the "stay at home gf and influencer" route, find some balance and don't antagonize rather work with your controlling tendencies. it is easy for someone who sits in their living room the whole day and maybe edits a video to tell you that you "just have to let go of control". i would admire this if she was a working as a lawyer full time simultaneously, but ofc she's not. remember, those influencers don't want you to have a soft life, they want you to watch (and indirectly pay them) to have theirs. you have to be rich or have a partner to entertain this delusion and if you don't, don't take this stuff seriously.

  • @nicoleching2388
    @nicoleching2388 День назад

    Ladies, don’t just let patriarchy and societal norms decide for you. A balance of control and being carefree is key.

  • @marixoxo20
    @marixoxo20 День назад

    How does this happen? The average working mother who is not only a going to college and making sure her special needs child is taken care off on top of running a home.

  • @wikkoh
    @wikkoh 2 дня назад

    Blessings

  • @dinukshishiyarabandaranaya6677
    @dinukshishiyarabandaranaya6677 2 дня назад

    What if there is a very real value present reality for you not to feel safe??

  • @TheBPDFairy
    @TheBPDFairy День назад

    Just adding that this is my personal choice, but I click off any video that has BetterHelp as a sponsor, no matter how much I love the video and the creator.
    I hope creators who care about mental health start doing proper research and stop promoting them. I know it's hard to discern the helpful companies from the other kind, but I believe there's enough feedback on comment sections and info online. So at this point I believe it's the creator's responsability to do better. I say this with as much kindness as I can as I do love Jillz's content.

  • @Nb33555
    @Nb33555 День назад

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