To me, it seems you dodged the bullet. This means the bullet (your girlfriend) missed hitting and ruining your life. Better you found out early that she is not forgiving and understanding, then later. She was not a keeper, move on your better off Fabio.
I agree with you, @user-Im7iq2dc3n. When a lady does not talk to or respond to you within 48 hours, it's not a good sign. It's time to move on, Fabio @FabioandBen , and never look back. It looks like she wants to control you. You better Run.
@@_mygoddess_ that's the thing about boundaries. When people cross them, if you forgive it, they continue to do the same thing. She's not controlling for setting a boundary and walking away when it's crossed. He knew that was her boundary. Ben was a jerk for tricking Fabio to go into an establishment that is founded on having girls dress sexy and flirt with men. It IS disrespectful to go to a place like that when you're taken. To Fabio's credit he recognized that. But he should have walked out the moment he realized that it was that type of place. So saying it's not his fault, isn't entirely accurate either. He chose to stay there. Should you leave your friends and go back home? YES. Not only because you don't want to disrespect your relationship, but those friends just disrespected YOU.
@@MistyfaeryI thought we were championing equality and equal standards nowadays. I'm sure guys wouldn't break up with girls if their girlfriend sat down to have a meal at Hooters
I’m sorry to hear you are in pain. As a girl , I can tell you that if she was the one for you she would understand you and who you are as a person and that goes for your intentions as well. People know who they are with. People also see what they want to see. If she wanted to see a reason for this to end then she found one. If she wanted reasons to be in this with you she would find those too and communicate. What I’m saying is- it’s clear that your intention wasn’t to hurt her - and that you’re not out there looking for attention - but if she wants to see otherwise, maybe it’s her way of leaving this relationship and making it your fault. Idk I know you’re hurting and that this absolutely sucks. Being in love with someone and loving them after a break up is hard. I’m sorry. It’s also hard to accept that someone is willing to let you go when you want to be with them. I think that’s the hardest to be honest. I am sending you a giant hug. Be kind to yourself right now.
I don’t necessarily agree. I’d have reacted the same if it was my bf even if it wasn’t his idea to go and even after seeing the video. He had the option to leave but stayed, I really like Fabio no hate towards him at all, but he could’ve made a better decision if he weren’t comfortable... It’s just basic respect to ur partner imo to not go to places like that
Yeah, as a woman, I 1000% *disagree* with your comment. If you're going to a place like that when you're taken that's a slippery slope. It's literally founded on women dressing sexy and being flirty with men. That's not an unreasonable boundary to set that you'll leave if your boyfriend goes to a place like that.
Communication and grace are a massive part of a relationship, and it sounded like your voice needed to be heard more fairly. Being young (in your twenties) is all about growth. Keep your head up.
Hi Fabio! I am a girl and i can tell you that if she truly loved you,she would've find reasons for you,and would've forgive you. I loved a boy 2 years,although we weren't together,and i saw him being with other girls,i saw him bringing flowers to other girls and he did a lot of things that could've make me to stop love him. I repeat,WE WEREN'T TOGETHER,we were last summer for a month. 2 years I found any excuse to not gave up on him. Until I met a boy,which cured me of him. I don't know how but he did and now I love him 100% . My point is,if you truly love someone,you will find excuses for that person because you don't accept the fact/the ideea to lose her. She wasn't the one if she ended up everything if you didn't cheat or did anything else. I don't know you very well but... I know you are a strong person and you will be ok. You will find her😊
Not true she was right to react badly to disrespect you girls have to stop acting like is normal to accept disrespect it is not and with this kind of comments you incetivate man to disrespect yo7 talking about she should have been more understanding self respect is priceless respect to the girl because she did what she had to do when the hole world is watching her new bf running around like that if you don’t have self respect don’t act like you’re the one to give advice I love the fact that he took responsibility as a good man and understand what he did was a mistake I feel bad for him as I thing he’s amazing and I hope people like yo7 don’t affect he’s real self witch is a traditional respectful Italian man he dose t need to be out there like the 1000 American man acting like their single and disrespectful to women there is enough of that in this world and you as a woman should know better
Goodness Fabio, it's not like you're innocent or naive but what I love most about watching your story is that you're PURE. Please don't allow people to control you.
You did everything right, I’m impressed as to how mature you are for your age…If it is meant to be, this girl will be part of your life in the future n if not then it wasn’t meant to be..however, enjoy your young healthy life now, you only get one life n time is on your side, make the best of everyday, you deserve it…❤
I’m so sorry this makes my heart hurt a lot for you! Honestly if I was in that situation it would be hard for me to forgive my roommate for that. He knew that you were very uncomfortable but still stayed at the restaurant and posted content about that. I think that was definitely crossing a lot of boundaries and I understand you two are very close but at the same time, you do not deserve that. Please just think about how important it is for you to continue having a friendship with him, because from my point of view I don’t know if it’s worth it to continue putting energy into that relationship with him if he isn’t respecting you as a person. Just my thoughts. I’ll be keeping you in my prayers! :)
Her loss. Maybe for the best, although I understand your distress. You're a good looking young buck; moreover, you sound honest and genuine. You'll be fine. Amore e abbracci.
Fabio, if she was so insecure to break up over a visit to Hooters, it is definitely for the best. Nobody thinks men go to Hooters to actually pick up on women. That place is not the place for that. Women who are secure in their feelings and their relationship might joke about it, but will never actually get mad over it. Find one of those women.
Fabio is better off without her! It's like men getting pissed at their wives or girlfriends because a group of her friends went to go see Magic Mike Male review!! It is NONSENSE! True healthy & loving couples don't get pissed at each other over one of them going out with friends to a Hooters Restaurant or a nightclub with a male or female review. This just shows how YOUNG & IMMATURE she is.
I’m so sorry to hear this. Also thank you for sharing. Of my point of view… I think the situation took over the proportion in a way… I understand her… if you felt uncomfortable you could leave to respect her… but at the same time, you were with your friend… eating your food and it was also to do some content. I guess you are right… if in the begging of a relationship… you cannot pass through a situation without talking and fixed tings… it was not meant to be in a long run. I know it’s sad. I know you feel bad. Also… it can be hard for your roommate/friend. I can understand that you are mad at him… but he hadn’t bad intentions. I think in this situation… you know what to do. I know it’s sucks but you have to go through the pain and just learn about the situation. It’s okay to have time for yourself and isolate yourself if needed… but it’s not okay if you stay in this dark place. Continue to do what you’re doing… be with your friends, go out… and everything. Much love. You’re doing good. Keep it up. It’s a hard moment to go through but you got this. Thank you again for sharing and I hope everything will get better soon. 🙏🏼
It's alright, I think most will understand, after all you did not mean it and getting into situations like these are common. Hope you can get better ❤❤
Aw I am sorry that you’re in pain. I hope you feel better soon. At least you were being honest to your ex. It takes time to heal your heart. I believe in you that soon your heart will heal.
Fabio still been this understanding and still thinking about fixing things with Ben is such a top tier energy >>> His parents raised such a great person ,they must be very proud. I hope he finds a girl as understanding and good hearted as he is ❤
Caro Fabio, so che stai attraversando un momento difficele e doloroso, ma voglio ricordarti che ogni fine è solo un nuovo inizio. La vita è piena di sorprese e opportunità, e questa esperienza ti renderà più forte e più saggio. Non dimenticare mai il tuo valore e ne quanto sei speciale. Circondati di persone che ti amano e che ti sostengono, e prenditi il tempo necessario per guarire. Ogni giorno che passa, ti avvicini a una nuova felicità e una nuova serenità. Ricordati che meriti tutto il meglio e che il futuro ha in serbo per te cose meravigliose. Non perdere mai la speranza e continua a credere in te stesso. Con affetto
I'm really sorry you're going through this. Getting so upset over this situation stems from her being truly insecure in herself, in the relationship you were building and in you as well. To me it seems like she wasn't ready for you and no matter how hard you try if she's not committed there's no chance for you to help change that. I think you deserve someone who truly trusts and values you for who you are and who's willing to put in the work to make a relationship be beautiful. I'm sure you'll find someone who deserves all the love you're giving!
She’s not insecure she has a lot of self love and doesn’t accept disrespect you should learn from it do better stop teaching man how to disrespect you wake up
@@susyg6768 self love and not letting men disrespect women is absolutely a mindset that should be highly valued, I do agree with it! But getting upset over your partner visiting such a place and not accepting to hear them out just shows huge insecurity. If she's not willing to hear him out on this, god forbid how she'd react if he'd talk to other women. This is no self love behaviour, this is "I don't trust you, nor our relationship and cannot deal with other females being around you". That's insecurity and no foundation for a healthy growth as a couple. Now we don't know the whole story of their relationship, we just know what Fabio has said and there might've been other factors that added to the situation. My comment is solely based on what he told us in the video!
@@meldemay4727 se the problem is thinking that the behavior he display is not disrespect that’s not insecurity it is disrespect and he knew it that’s why when he was there he was feeling guilty and knew he was doing wrong, this is why he’s been attempting to fix it the fact that you don’t even recognize disrespect when you see it it’s concerning you girls and in this comenta giving him advice acting as if this is no big deal but it is and that the reason why so many woman get mistreated cause at this point you don’t even know what self respect is you’re calling the girl insecure and all kinds of names base on the video he just made stop having man believe they can disrespect you and it’s ok have higher standards for yourself and don’t push this be behaviors on him he’s a good man he know he did wrong he will be ok and do better you can totally tell he’s European like me we have different values and it matters
I’d say that’s a red flag dodged. It’s very immature and insecure of her. A relationship builds on trust and understanding. There should be a balance. Like I most of my friends are male and my partner has a very jokey, flirty and affectionate personality. So actually we both get hit on a lot even though we are together. It’s nothing to get jealous over. Stay strong, forget her and move on, she’s not worth it. It’s very possessive behaviour, how’d she react at the beach, or like if you ever visit Vegas?
@@aroad2788 it’s not small tho, it’s a boundary and ppl break up when it’s crossed. I’d have done the same cause he could just walk away if he really didnt want to be there, this was just disrespectful
This is really heartbreaking. We all know the effort fabio put into this relationship what we saw on camera and probably even more off camera. It's sad that ben just wanted to have some fun, and it ended in such a horrible way. It's not easy, and we are all here to support you. Sending strength and love to get thru this difficult time. And remember to take care of yourself that the most important thing right now. ❤❤❤
Her self esteem is not even low- it’s not existing (!) if she takes this situation sooo personally…. You need a stronger and more confident girl in your life!
I personally don’t think she was in the wrong for being upset about where he was. I do think she was in the wrong for not seeing his point of view and blowing him off
Marty shut up. They werent together for long enough for that trust to be built, never the less, its not about confidence or self esteem its about knowing what you need for you. Just as a man wouldnt want his gf being a hooter girl for a reason. Why would he be allowed to go to hooters then.
Im sorry but your roommate put you in such a bad spot knowing that you didnt know this place and knowing you have a girlfriend. I can see what went wrong from everyone's point of view but your happiness was sabotaged by your friends. They posted a video before you could even explain yourself as well. Please do not allow your future relationships to be sabotaged for the sake of content.
I agree. Your roommate doesn't have any boundaries regarding you. The moment that he saw that you were uncomfortable and why, he should have gotten you out of there. He filmed you talking to your girlfriend. Private matter... boundaries. Handcuffing himself to you so that you missed a business meeting... boundaries. I'm not sure if the handcuffing was a mutually planned content or not but boundaries. Hang in there My Friend.
Yes it was his roommates fault but at least his girlfriend could trust him because relationships are build on trust rather than breakup on this, also if I put myself on that girls situation I would have understand his situation, would breakup only if any thing like this kept happening because everyone deserve a chance.
Dear brother! Yesterday night I saw your video and it touched my heart in its deepest part. A joke turned into a "tradegy" , in a way i feel bad for Ben , because I think he didn't had a bad intention. That kind of situation is very common nowadays. The love is being crushed by sex and physical connection. Human body is deceived to what this world offers. USA is the country of liberty, but liberty has consequences. You are free to do whatever you want , but every action has a consequence. What love can give , sex can't even give 1% of it. The one night stands are very very common and this is normal for the majority, but in fact it's something very wrong! You kinde broke my heart of what you said in this confession 💔! You were sincere of your feelings to her so in my opinion it's crystal clear that you loved her. I just don't even understand her attitude. The minimum is that she had to listen to you ( maybe not in the first moment because of her anger), but in a second moment she had to do it. I don't think that it was jealousy , as you said she wasn't for you and God created this situation to " save " you from her. Brother , I understand you perfectly, cause I have suffered something similar. I fell in love with a girl from Valencia Spain in 2018 . She promised me that she changed and that was a better person. I trusted her cause she mentioned God in her promise. 7 months filled with love , dreams , plans, desires to be in her arms, nothing sexual; but she was playing with my filling making me believe a future in her arms! Thanks God i decided to end that hypocrisy and to respect myself! Just be optimistic, because God will make a way to your happiness! May God bless you !😇🙏 I'm leaving here my instagram and my what's up if you wanna talk with someone IG: anesti_jackson WhatsApp +355 688824814
Advice even tho you just broke up start going outside so you can meet new people and then you will see who actually is the right one for you As well as if you have the same hobbies
So sorry that you’re having to go through this. Breakups suck. But it’s absolutely ridiculous for anyone to be upset over their boyfriend going to Hooters with friends. There is so much insecurity, jealousy and possessiveness with that. Like seriously, she needs to grow up. You totally dodged a bullet. Ben totally did you a favor. Hope you feel better soon 🫶🏻
Oh my gosh I remember the time where he used to be excited where he would dance in the rain or where he had his first kiss man he was so happy and she had to do this to him just because he went to hooters 😭😭 always with you Fabio 💔
I was sad to see this, given how excited you were when you met her.Sometimes things don’t work out ( could be past experiences) it’s not anyone’s fault, but it does hurt ( if I’d put myself in shoes of you and her).Time will heal things, you can use your time to find your self :)
Do not think about it too much. If she left, it means that things had to happen like this, she just isn't the right person for you. Just go out and enjoy some time, don't overthink, and all the best for you, take care❤❤
Honestly its a process we all go through. Not everyone is going to be the one, and challenges will arise. Early on in the relationship, boundaries are not set, you both get to know each other. Loyalty lies with your friend Ben, qnd I bet he feels terrible. However if this broke you up... in a week or two it would be something else. It was an experience, you won't feel down for long. And keep it moving
I’m so sorry for u Fabio, this is a Sad thing, and I can relate to that cuz I’ve been in the same situation and it feels sucks to be not understandable!💔 But It may be good, like maybe u r not good to each others! 🤷🏻♂️ Hope you’ll get better and get over it, and hope to see u with Ben again! 😔 Stay safe bro! 🫶🏻
I'm so sorry to hear about the breakup. It sounds like it's been really tough. The breakup didn't happen just because you went to a restaurant, no matter which restaurant. There were likely underlying insecurities and a multitude of thoughts and feelings that led to this decision. At the end of it all, you both weren't right for each other and that's okay. It might be helpful to take some time to reflect on the relationship. Maybe make a list of all the things you enjoyed about it, and all the things you didn't. And think about the qualities and experiences you want in your next relationship to help you recognize what you like vs. don't like in a partner. Right now, it's important to allow yourself to grieve the end of this relationship. It's okay to feel sad, angry, or confused. Cry if you need to, find healthy ways to take out your aggression (like running, etc.). It's important to feel your emotions so you can heal. And don't forget to keep doing the things that bring you peace, happiness, and joy. Spend time with friends and family, pursue your hobbies, and take care of yourself. I know it may not feel like it now, but you will move on. Eventually, you'll meet the right person to share your life with. Someone who appreciates you for who you are. And for your friends, I hope they learn from this too. Don't put your friends in difficult situations that can get people hurt. It's not about going to a restaurant. It's about respecting boundaries.
Be strong my friend, don't let this put you down. I'm sure you will find someone better who will understand you better even if you don't think that right now. Just keep going
I’m sorry you’re going through this. It’s understandable she got mad and everything and it’s not your fault but she should have tried to be a little more understanding. In my opinion your friends shouldn’t bring u to a place like that they should have thought of the consequences. I hope u get better soon ❤
Do not be hurt by her because it is not how she was in the good times but how she was in the bad times, she failed you. She does not deserve you, forget her already. It is her loss. Do not lock yourself away. If you want to patch things up with your roommate do it. If not forget him and move on. Do not hide yourself away, it is not the way forward. Better days are ahead, you are young and have your whole life ahead.
Those friends are NOT your friends to have even put you in that situation in the first place. She on the other hand refused to understand or even listen so she wasn't the one for you. Spend time taking yourself on dates and learning who you are and what your friendship and relationship standards are then find new people to surround yourself with.
Hello, I am so sorry for you Fabio, but we all believe and hope you will get over this tough time soon! To Ben, maybe u are struggling so hard, yeah it’s your fault but we understand that u didnt mean to cause this situation so far off. So comeback soon guys. I watch your videos mainly to practice English and I also love your contents guys
It was not right for your friends taking you somewhere you don't feel comfortable in and you know that too. But everything happens for a reason . Hopefully you get your confidence back like you always used to be, cos it's kind of sad that you lost it.😢 You are an amazing Italian always believe in yourself , when you're more comfortable go try somebody new because it's better be to be with somebody then be alone hopefully this advice will help and hopefully then we'll come around. Love you fabio
I recently read something, and it has stuck with me. Along your journey, you will experience love and heartbreak. Within that time you gain moments that will stay with you in your heart forever. These are moments to learn from and take into the next chapter of your life. Most importantly, each love and heartbreak is the next step closer to who you are meant to be with in this lifetime. Keep moving forward through the pain as hard as it is..dive deep into it to get to the other side to find your princess ❤ I have been through my own journey only to find my happily ever after..(and now i get to spend my summers in Italy!!😊😍)
She is right, you should have left as soon as you realized the situation you were in. You are responsible for choosing to stay. Friends will influence you in doing good or bad, you really need to consider what kind of man you want to be and see if the friends you have will have a good influence on you.
What situation was he in? He went to a restaurant with his friends. Hooters is not a stripper bar, it's not a pickup joint, and it's not a whore hose. It's a restaurant and going there is not a bad thing because absolutely nothing goes on in there other than you're served food and drinks. Have you ever even been inside of one? The only one who did anything wrong was the girlfriend for jumping to conclusions without knowing what she was talking about... Just like you!
😢😢 it feels like I'm going through a breakup. I'm so sad for you. It really isn't a big deal in the US you know. I am girl, I've been to Hooters with friends, with family. It's just a fun experience. Why she took it so badly I don't know 😕 maybe everyone is right... it's not Ben's fault and in fact it ended up showing you how she really is. Insecure and nuts. It's her loss because you Fabio, are fabulous and a catch! You treat her so well and you even apologized for it but demanding that you leave your friends and walk out is a lil extreme.. she broke up with you for going to Hooters, imagine if you had gone for a massage or to a club with ur friends 🤔 She sounds like someone you could do without but I understand how you feel. It's hard to see flaws in the one you love. Hoping you can see she doesn't deserve you though... Lotsa hugs 🤗🤗🤗
Fabio, just send her a huge amount of roses and a love letter saying sorry and how much you love her. If you want her back. If not, then move on, we support you and everything is ok.
I have some advice for you man! I’m sorry you’re going through this and that’s not fun. I started following you guys a few months ago and I’m really sorry this is going on in your life. One I think the girl is very insecure about the relationship and you probably are better off because if she can’t trust you then there is no need to be in a relationship. The point of a relationship or even friendship to trust. As for your roommate, maybe you guys need to talk over specific boundaries next time and also tell him how you feel that if he keeps doing the silly stuff he does then it’s gonna cause division and I don’t want your relationship with your friend to go south either. Praying for you.
I already commented on Instagram but I saw this in its entirety. Look, I have an Italian man as my partner and he would have reacted the same way as you. Ben may not have meant harm but he went against how you were raised. It’s so complicated to explain but I feel like I truly understand how you’re feeling and my heart breaks for you. It can only go up from here hun ❤
Fabio i really pray that u heal yourself, u are an absolutely amazing person which i understand from all the video's of you and the way u did take responsibility for something that wasn't even youe fault. Guys like u are really less and u are a gem. As a girl i understand she would have been hurt seeing it but i also know that if i truly love the person i would have allowed them explain themselves entirely and also given them one chance. Because everyone deserves a 2nd chance. Maybe u are yet to find something more beautiful so plz just stay the way u are . We love you a lot❤
Bro keep your head high! I’m sure your friend never meant this to happen. It’s understandable for the girl and it’s understandable for you as well. It’s hard to draw the line in these situations. You are young and the ocean is wide, you will find someone always. I root for you guys.
Fabio, sono vecchio abbastanza per dirti ciò che penso. Fa un esame di coscienza e se sai di avere fatto tutto il possibile per tenere quella ragazza, beh voleva dire che non era alla tua altezza. Sono i sensi di colpa che ci fanno soffrire. Se sei a posto con te stesso, cammina a testa alta e sii felice della splendida vita che hai! Un abbraccio. Franco
From my experience, I'd say focus on what makes you happy. Discover yourself even more, find that self-love again. When we fall in love, we forget ourselves and neglect, because the best people always give too much. And that's what hurts most. Don't blame yourself, there's a good side of this. Try to think more positively, that everything will be alright. You just believe it. You will get through this! Don't give up ❤❤
I been like that! But over relationships I think has to talk about anything wrong n go from there im sorry for loosing someone who don’t understand ur situation! You did the right thing amigo, no worries there is so many girls who will come to u!
Okay, from my prospective.. What happened was a foul from both sides. Ben should've informed you about the place you were going to go because when someone's in a relationship with somebody, that person must stay loyal. BUT I don't think that it's 100% wrong, because you should know what kind of person you have by your side, right?.. I know I'm not much of a help, because I'm a teenager but I would advice you to look at the future from now on. Okay, bad things happened. Your girlfriend reacted just like all women would've react in her position but it's a huge foul to not let your man explain what happened. I personally know that you're a good guy and that you don't mean to warm anyone, I'm proud of you because you actually wanted to talk it out with her, even if she didn't want to talk about it. You should take your time. Also you should always look out for yourself first and then worry about others. You're awesome and whatever happened, it happened for a good reason. Have a nice day/night and stay safe 🫶🏽🙂
This guy is so pure hearted. Don't let this drag you down too much Fabio. If she was unwilling to hear you out and understand your intentions weren't to hurt her then shes not the one for you. You seem like a truly genuine, honest, and respectful guy. You will find someone better who will give you the benefit of the doubt and talk to you like an adult when somethings wrong rather than lashing out. Keep you head up and your heart open. You deserve the best 🫂🤍
I can't say I've been to hooters but I've seen clips of what the place is like and it seems like that's their dynamic with the way girls are dressed, they're looking to attract certain people. Times a healer, give yourself some time to think properly. As a girl she was no doubt feeling super insecure about that situation but to break up doesn't seem mature if she wasn't giving you the chance to explain why you went there. It's equally wrong for your room mate to not realise you didn't feel comfortable. Even if he just wanted to go there as a joke to have a laugh. It looks like you had so much love for this girl for you to feel this way. She must have felt really off about you being there but maybe there was a lack of that trust or something that made her think it wasn't worth the relationship. Keep your head high Fabio 😊
I hate to see you like this... We all are here for you :) we understand you so well and we will help you as we can:)... Pls be careful with yourself boy. Everything's gonna be alright :) i promise... ❤️
Next time, be strong and take responsibility for yourself and don't go with them. Don't do wrong things to please your friends one time but at the same time hurt your relationship. Your friends should be mature and understand consequences for you and not be selfish to pressure you into going with them. Go do another activity you love in the meantime.
I once loved a guy and I tolerated a lot of bad stuff that he did (and when I say bad stuff I mean really really bad stuff). I only broke up with him after he crossed the line and did hundreds of bad stuff, not one, not even 10. So if she really loved you, she would at least give you another chance to show that you are not going to do that again. Cause that's what people in love do, they forgive. So what I am trying to say is, you are better off without her and find yourself someone who will really love you. I am sure there will be a person like that :)
Oh Fabio i can feel you i know this is absolutely horrible but please know that it wasn't your fault and you did your best to apologize her. It's sucks but just know that you're gonna find someone better that deserve you and deserve your love:)🥺✨️ I promise everything is gonna be ok just try to be strong and move on, we will be here for you and support you🫂💜
I'm so sorry that this had to happen, Fabio. I know it hurts, but please dont overthink because it will make it harder for you. Things happen and sometimes, we really can't do anything. But I hope you heal from everything. You will have better days. We're here to wait and support you.
Ei Fabio, ti parlo direttamente da l’Italia, credo che se questa ragazza ti amasse veramente non ti lascerebbe per una cosa così superficiale perché non hai fatto nulla di male tu e se dobbiamo essere tutti sinceri ci ha perso lei sicuramente. Son sicura che troverai tantissime altre ragazze che amerai probabilmente ancora di più.Ti auguro veramente il meglio e spero tu stia meglio presto!!
:( I'm sorry this happened, Fabio! You seem like a good guy and I know you'll come back from this. For now, I hope you can take care of yourself and go through any grieving process you need to go through. ❤
She broke up with you over a visit to Hooters? Seriously? Good riddance I say. You don't need such an insecure person around you. Don't blame your friends, they actually helped you weed this one out. You will realise that soon.
If she can not understand your situation your friends put you in, it is better to find out how she reacts now than later in the relationship. You are the better person in your situation. Ben owes you a big big apology.
I have always felt that she has always said no to your genuity. So did Benedict (who you referred to as merely "roommate" and "this guy here" which is telling of betrayal). You deserve a much better woman and bros. Your genuity showed even more powerfully in this video, and I have gained even more respect for you.
She was not just insecure she was simply not trusted in you. If a woman trusts in his man she laughs at this situation, possibly laughs together with you. And under no circumstances you have to apologise. You will find better.
It's ok to feel sad, allow yourself to feel all the emotions that you feel, don't suppress them. This rough period will pass and you will smile again! Be with your friends, do things that you like and make you happy 😊 Ti voglio bene!
I’m sorry Fabio to learn about this. I hope you will be okay. Take all the time you need to recover from this pain. Do something that you love and enjoy to help take your mind off of things just now. You are an amazing guy and we love the content you share. ❤
I know this might not relate to this situation but I just left a toxic relationship of 10 years and I wanted to leave from the second it started but I’m telling you right now that relationship would have turned toxic real fast and even though I know it doesn’t seem like it right now it is a blessing in disguise because I am so much happier now I’ve left I wasn’t to begin with obviously but with time you start to realise how bad your relationship had really gotten but I’m telling u Fabio you seem like one of the most genuine guys ever so u will definitely find someone who appreciates you for that don’t let this get you down even if it’s just a walk outside get moving and that will help u out a lot ❤❤
I'm really sorry for you 🥺 I've had my heart broken several times and I can promise you that the sun will shine again. Give yourself a few days, allow yourself to be sad for a few days, it's completely natural. But please promise me that after these days you will get up 💪🏾 the show must go on with or without her..... Everything may seem lost rightnow, but I would like to write you something my nonna always told me: "Quando si chiude una porta, si apre un portone." I'm still waiting for that f*cking door to open 🤣but I will never lose faith and so should you🥰
Fabio...the Bible says "to guard your heart". I wish I would have. I was ghosted too after being with someone. Take some time for you , heal your heart. If you have a car always drive yourself. If your best friend is a good person make up with him. Life is soooo short. Enjoy yourself but take heed. There is so much bad out there. You will heal eventually. ❤Sending lots of Italian love your way paisan! ❤
Your girlfriend is missing out a lot you are such a sweet guy and pays attention to every single detail hope you feel better soon your gf missed out on a lot with a guy like you hope you find someone better
Ben was in the wrong for putting Fabio in this position. Fabio could have left the restaurant, he didn’t; he didn’t have bad intentions. I don’t agree with calling the ex insecure just because she didn’t like the visit to Hooters; it’s completely valid of her to feel uncomfortable with it. But indeed, if she wanted the relationship to continue, she should allow Fabio to explain himself, and at least consider his words. If they were just starting, she might have felt that the relationship wasn’t strong enough yet and he might actually go for it. She should have explained how she felt and why it made her uncomfortable. Sending you hugs 💙
@@monk4ever Correct. If a person is too immature to deal with the concept of other attractive people in a public setting, they 100% should *not* be in a relationship.
Fabio and Ben are one of my favorite people in the World, don't be sad I love you guys soooooooooooooooooooooooo much ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ This viedeo literally Broke my heart ❤❤❤
Its all about trusting your partner. You can clearly tell in the other video that you were uncomfortable in that situation. I understand her being annoyed but you didn't know where your friends were taking you. She just clearly didn't trust you. I split from a long term relationship last year and a thing that helps is focussing on yourself doing things you love and make you happy and sometimes doing things you really want to do but felt you couldn't in a relationship because your partner didn't have the same hobbies. I hope this helps. You will get through this there is always a light at the end of the tunnel xx
you should let yourself feel the pain and process it how you need to. her not giving you the respect to communicate with you properly or trust you enough shows volumes that she was not ready for a real relationship. this would not have ended a real relationship that was worth fighting for.
Gosh, Fabio, she was harsh! Hooter's is not a strip joint, it could be much worse. If your heartfelt apology is not enough for her, nothing ever will be. You can and will find someone who adores you. Hang in there and feel better. Heartbreak just sucks.
All happens for some reason. I know and you know that it will be hurt💔, but the good news is that you have the opportunity to learn from this.( I am not here to blame you).Take all of your time. When you will go over it, you will be the best version of you, because you deserve it🎉
I LOVE that you felt immediately uncomfortable in Hooters… not cool anyhow… but as a gentleman to feel uncomfortable is normal… especially in a relationship. You have a lot of honesty and integrity as a person… it is shown via your reaction. So your ex missed out on a good guy. Keep being you and don’t let this exp change you or harden you ❤
As a girl I think the communicatuon is the key and if she did not understand your point of view, it’s the best Better in the beginning Hope you will get better ❤️
![Quando Rondo - Life Goes On [Official Music Video]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/eIf3fhMXAow/mqdefault.jpg)
To me, it seems you dodged the bullet. This means the bullet (your girlfriend) missed hitting and ruining your life. Better you found out early that she is not forgiving and understanding, then later. She was not a keeper, move on your better off Fabio.
I agree with you, @user-Im7iq2dc3n. When a lady does not talk to or respond to you within 48 hours, it's not a good sign. It's time to move on, Fabio @FabioandBen , and never look back. It looks like she wants to control you. You better Run.
She's never your girlfriend. It's just your turn.
@@_mygoddess_ that's the thing about boundaries. When people cross them, if you forgive it, they continue to do the same thing. She's not controlling for setting a boundary and walking away when it's crossed. He knew that was her boundary. Ben was a jerk for tricking Fabio to go into an establishment that is founded on having girls dress sexy and flirt with men. It IS disrespectful to go to a place like that when you're taken. To Fabio's credit he recognized that. But he should have walked out the moment he realized that it was that type of place. So saying it's not his fault, isn't entirely accurate either. He chose to stay there.
Should you leave your friends and go back home? YES. Not only because you don't want to disrespect your relationship, but those friends just disrespected YOU.
Agree
@@MistyfaeryI thought we were championing equality and equal standards nowadays. I'm sure guys wouldn't break up with girls if their girlfriend sat down to have a meal at Hooters
Fabio calling Ben just his room mate speaks really loud to how he feels about him right now.
Exactly
Nope. Every video is titled like that
Rightfully so...?
I’m sorry to hear you are in pain. As a girl , I can tell you that if she was the one for you she would understand you and who you are as a person and that goes for your intentions as well. People know who they are with. People also see what they want to see. If she wanted to see a reason for this to end then she found one. If she wanted reasons to be in this with you she would find those too and communicate.
What I’m saying is- it’s clear that your intention wasn’t to hurt her - and that you’re not out there looking for attention - but if she wants to see otherwise, maybe it’s her way of leaving this relationship and making it your fault. Idk I know you’re hurting and that this absolutely sucks. Being in love with someone and loving them after a break up is hard. I’m sorry. It’s also hard to accept that someone is willing to let you go when you want to be with them. I think that’s the hardest to be honest. I am sending you a giant hug. Be kind to yourself right now.
Thank you so much 🙏🙏🙏
@@FabioandBen of course 💙
I don’t necessarily agree. I’d have reacted the same if it was my bf even if it wasn’t his idea to go and even after seeing the video. He had the option to leave but stayed, I really like Fabio no hate towards him at all, but he could’ve made a better decision if he weren’t comfortable... It’s just basic respect to ur partner imo to not go to places like that
just to be clear, I dont blame him for going he didnt know, I just think he could’ve left if he really wanted to
Yeah, as a woman, I 1000% *disagree* with your comment. If you're going to a place like that when you're taken that's a slippery slope. It's literally founded on women dressing sexy and being flirty with men. That's not an unreasonable boundary to set that you'll leave if your boyfriend goes to a place like that.
Communication and grace are a massive part of a relationship, and it sounded like your voice needed to be heard more fairly. Being young (in your twenties) is all about growth. Keep your head up.
Friends shouldn't put you in situations you are uncomfortable with once they're aware of it. Period.
I think they were doing it for a video, but I agree with you.
Hi Fabio! I am a girl and i can tell you that if she truly loved you,she would've find reasons for you,and would've forgive you. I loved a boy 2 years,although we weren't together,and i saw him being with other girls,i saw him bringing flowers to other girls and he did a lot of things that could've make me to stop love him. I repeat,WE WEREN'T TOGETHER,we were last summer for a month. 2 years I found any excuse to not gave up on him. Until I met a boy,which cured me of him. I don't know how but he did and now I love him 100% .
My point is,if you truly love someone,you will find excuses for that person because you don't accept the fact/the ideea to lose her. She wasn't the one if she ended up everything if you didn't cheat or did anything else.
I don't know you very well but... I know you are a strong person and you will be ok. You will find her😊
Not true she was right to react badly to disrespect you girls have to stop acting like is normal to accept disrespect it is not and with this kind of comments you incetivate man to disrespect yo7 talking about she should have been more understanding self respect is priceless respect to the girl because she did what she had to do when the hole world is watching her new bf running around like that if you don’t have self respect don’t act like you’re the one to give advice I love the fact that he took responsibility as a good man and understand what he did was a mistake I feel bad for him as I thing he’s amazing and I hope people like yo7 don’t affect he’s real self witch is a traditional respectful Italian man he dose t need to be out there like the 1000 American man acting like their single and disrespectful to women there is enough of that in this world and you as a woman should know better
Choosing to be a victim is not love you’re story is trash not and example but a warning sign work on you’re selfsteam
Goodness Fabio, it's not like you're innocent or naive but what I love most about watching your story is that you're PURE. Please don't allow people to control you.
You did everything right, I’m impressed as to how mature you are for your age…If it is meant to be, this girl will be part of your life in the future n if not then it wasn’t meant to be..however, enjoy your young healthy life now, you only get one life n time is on your side, make the best of everyday, you deserve it…❤
I’m so sorry this makes my heart hurt a lot for you! Honestly if I was in that situation it would be hard for me to forgive my roommate for that. He knew that you were very uncomfortable but still stayed at the restaurant and posted content about that. I think that was definitely crossing a lot of boundaries and I understand you two are very close but at the same time, you do not deserve that. Please just think about how important it is for you to continue having a friendship with him, because from my point of view I don’t know if it’s worth it to continue putting energy into that relationship with him if he isn’t respecting you as a person. Just my thoughts. I’ll be keeping you in my prayers! :)
Her loss. Maybe for the best, although I understand your distress. You're a good looking young buck; moreover, you sound honest and genuine. You'll be fine. Amore e abbracci.
We will support you forever Fabio 😢❤❤
Fabio, if she was so insecure to break up over a visit to Hooters, it is definitely for the best. Nobody thinks men go to Hooters to actually pick up on women. That place is not the place for that. Women who are secure in their feelings and their relationship might joke about it, but will never actually get mad over it. Find one of those women.
Fabio is better off without her! It's like men getting pissed at their wives or girlfriends because a group of her friends went to go see Magic Mike Male review!! It is NONSENSE! True healthy & loving couples don't get pissed at each other over one of them going out with friends to a Hooters Restaurant or a nightclub with a male or female review. This just shows how YOUNG & IMMATURE she is.
Always support you, Fabio
I’m so sorry to hear this.
Also thank you for sharing.
Of my point of view…
I think the situation took over the proportion in a way…
I understand her… if you felt uncomfortable you could leave to respect her… but at the same time, you were with your friend… eating your food and it was also to do some content.
I guess you are right… if in the begging of a relationship… you cannot pass through a situation without talking and fixed tings… it was not meant to be in a long run.
I know it’s sad. I know you feel bad.
Also… it can be hard for your roommate/friend.
I can understand that you are mad at him… but he hadn’t bad intentions.
I think in this situation… you know what to do. I know it’s sucks but you have to go through the pain and just learn about the situation.
It’s okay to have time for yourself and isolate yourself if needed… but it’s not okay if you stay in this dark place.
Continue to do what you’re doing… be with your friends, go out… and everything.
Much love.
You’re doing good.
Keep it up.
It’s a hard moment to go through but you got this.
Thank you again for sharing and I hope everything will get better soon.
🙏🏼
It's alright, I think most will understand, after all you did not mean it and getting into situations like these are common. Hope you can get better ❤❤
I will.. thank you Osmau
Did Fabio break up with his girlfriend or did Fabio break up with Ben and also Fabio? I’m so sorry for whatever happened
@theameensworld2070 his girlfriend 😂
Aw I am sorry that you’re in pain. I hope you feel better soon. At least you were being honest to your ex. It takes time to heal your heart.
I believe in you that soon your heart will heal.
You're such a gentle and kindhearted person, you deserve all the happiness of the world
Fabio still been this understanding and still thinking about fixing things with Ben is such a top tier energy >>> His parents raised such a great person ,they must be very proud. I hope he finds a girl as understanding and good hearted as he is ❤
Caro Fabio, so che stai attraversando un momento difficele e doloroso, ma voglio ricordarti che ogni fine è solo un nuovo inizio. La vita è piena di sorprese e opportunità, e questa esperienza ti renderà più forte e più saggio. Non dimenticare mai il tuo valore e ne quanto sei speciale. Circondati di persone che ti amano e che ti sostengono, e prenditi il tempo necessario per guarire. Ogni giorno che passa, ti avvicini a una nuova felicità e una nuova serenità. Ricordati che meriti tutto il meglio e che il futuro ha in serbo per te cose meravigliose. Non perdere mai la speranza e continua a credere in te stesso. Con affetto
I'm really sorry you're going through this.
Getting so upset over this situation stems from her being truly insecure in herself, in the relationship you were building and in you as well. To me it seems like she wasn't ready for you and no matter how hard you try if she's not committed there's no chance for you to help change that. I think you deserve someone who truly trusts and values you for who you are and who's willing to put in the work to make a relationship be beautiful. I'm sure you'll find someone who deserves all the love you're giving!
She’s not insecure she has a lot of self love and doesn’t accept disrespect you should learn from it do better stop teaching man how to disrespect you wake up
@@susyg6768 self love and not letting men disrespect women is absolutely a mindset that should be highly valued, I do agree with it! But getting upset over your partner visiting such a place and not accepting to hear them out just shows huge insecurity. If she's not willing to hear him out on this, god forbid how she'd react if he'd talk to other women. This is no self love behaviour, this is "I don't trust you, nor our relationship and cannot deal with other females being around you". That's insecurity and no foundation for a healthy growth as a couple. Now we don't know the whole story of their relationship, we just know what Fabio has said and there might've been other factors that added to the situation. My comment is solely based on what he told us in the video!
@@meldemay4727 se the problem is thinking that the behavior he display is not disrespect that’s not insecurity it is disrespect and he knew it that’s why when he was there he was feeling guilty and knew he was doing wrong, this is why he’s been attempting to fix it the fact that you don’t even recognize disrespect when you see it it’s concerning you girls and in this comenta giving him advice acting as if this is no big deal but it is and that the reason why so many woman get mistreated cause at this point you don’t even know what self respect is you’re calling the girl insecure and all kinds of names base on the video he just made stop having man believe they can disrespect you and it’s ok have higher standards for yourself and don’t push this be behaviors on him he’s a good man he know he did wrong he will be ok and do better you can totally tell he’s European like me we have different values and it matters
Unlucky brother shes just not for you. Relationship must have understanding and she has none. Wish you the best brother.
I’d say that’s a red flag dodged. It’s very immature and insecure of her. A relationship builds on trust and understanding. There should be a balance. Like I most of my friends are male and my partner has a very jokey, flirty and affectionate personality. So actually we both get hit on a lot even though we are together. It’s nothing to get jealous over. Stay strong, forget her and move on, she’s not worth it. It’s very possessive behaviour, how’d she react at the beach, or like if you ever visit Vegas?
No we love you don't do that pls try to settle it
I tried a lot, with no results 😢
No, her getting that upset over something so small is a huge red flag. It's great that they broke up
@@aroad2788 it’s not small tho, it’s a boundary and ppl break up when it’s crossed. I’d have done the same cause he could just walk away if he really didnt want to be there, this was just disrespectful
This is really heartbreaking. We all know the effort fabio put into this relationship what we saw on camera and probably even more off camera. It's sad that ben just wanted to have some fun, and it ended in such a horrible way. It's not easy, and we are all here to support you. Sending strength and love to get thru this difficult time. And remember to take care of yourself that the most important thing right now. ❤❤❤
Her self esteem is not even low- it’s not existing (!) if she takes this situation sooo personally…. You need a stronger and more confident girl in your life!
I agree she needs to get over herself lol she sounds so young lol
I personally don’t think she was in the wrong for being upset about where he was. I do think she was in the wrong for not seeing his point of view and blowing him off
Marty shut up. They werent together for long enough for that trust to be built, never the less, its not about confidence or self esteem its about knowing what you need for you. Just as a man wouldnt want his gf being a hooter girl for a reason. Why would he be allowed to go to hooters then.
Im sorry but your roommate put you in such a bad spot knowing that you didnt know this place and knowing you have a girlfriend. I can see what went wrong from everyone's point of view but your happiness was sabotaged by your friends. They posted a video before you could even explain yourself as well. Please do not allow your future relationships to be sabotaged for the sake of content.
I agree. Your roommate doesn't have any boundaries regarding you. The moment that he saw that you were uncomfortable and why, he should have gotten you out of there. He filmed you talking to your girlfriend. Private matter... boundaries. Handcuffing himself to you so that you missed a business meeting... boundaries. I'm not sure if the handcuffing was a mutually planned content or not but boundaries. Hang in there My Friend.
Exactly. Quality of life > Click worthy content.
I wouldn't call them friends.
To me, it's the opposite. She sounds insecure, jealous, and possessive. Quite ridiculous 🙄.
Yes it was his roommates fault but at least his girlfriend could trust him because relationships are build on trust rather than breakup on this, also if I put myself on that girls situation I would have understand his situation, would breakup only if any thing like this kept happening because everyone deserve a chance.
Dear brother! Yesterday night I saw your video and it touched my heart in its deepest part. A joke turned into a "tradegy" , in a way i feel bad for Ben , because I think he didn't had a bad intention. That kind of situation is very common nowadays. The love is being crushed by sex and physical connection. Human body is deceived to what this world offers. USA is the country of liberty, but liberty has consequences. You are free to do whatever you want , but every action has a consequence. What love can give , sex can't even give 1% of it. The one night stands are very very common and this is normal for the majority, but in fact it's something very wrong! You kinde broke my heart of what you said in this confession 💔! You were sincere of your feelings to her so in my opinion it's crystal clear that you loved her. I just don't even understand her attitude. The minimum is that she had to listen to you ( maybe not in the first moment because of her anger), but in a second moment she had to do it. I don't think that it was jealousy , as you said she wasn't for you and God created this situation to " save " you from her. Brother , I understand you perfectly, cause I have suffered something similar. I fell in love with a girl from Valencia Spain in 2018 . She promised me that she changed and that was a better person. I trusted her cause she mentioned God in her promise. 7 months filled with love , dreams , plans, desires to be in her arms, nothing sexual; but she was playing with my filling making me believe a future in her arms! Thanks God i decided to end that hypocrisy and to respect myself! Just be optimistic, because God will make a way to your happiness! May God bless you !😇🙏 I'm leaving here my instagram and my what's up if you wanna talk with someone IG: anesti_jackson WhatsApp +355 688824814
Mi spiace un sacco Fabio non so cosa dire ma di certo so che ti devi riprendere.
VAI UOMO!!
Advice even tho you just broke up start going outside so you can meet new people and then you will see who actually is the right one for you
As well as if you have the same hobbies
I think the same, thanks
So sorry that you’re having to go through this. Breakups suck. But it’s absolutely ridiculous for anyone to be upset over their boyfriend going to Hooters with friends. There is so much insecurity, jealousy and possessiveness with that. Like seriously, she needs to grow up. You totally dodged a bullet. Ben totally did you a favor. Hope you feel better soon 🫶🏻
Oh my gosh I remember the time where he used to be excited where he would dance in the rain or where he had his first kiss man he was so happy and she had to do this to him just because he went to hooters 😭😭 always with you Fabio 💔
I was sad to see this, given how excited you were when you met her.Sometimes things don’t work out ( could be past experiences) it’s not anyone’s fault, but it does hurt ( if I’d put myself in shoes of you and her).Time will heal things, you can use your time to find your self :)
Do not think about it too much. If she left, it means that things had to happen like this, she just isn't the right person for you. Just go out and enjoy some time, don't overthink, and all the best for you, take care❤❤
Honestly its a process we all go through. Not everyone is going to be the one, and challenges will arise. Early on in the relationship, boundaries are not set, you both get to know each other. Loyalty lies with your friend Ben, qnd I bet he feels terrible. However if this broke you up... in a week or two it would be something else. It was an experience, you won't feel down for long. And keep it moving
I'm sorry, man. This kind of situation sucks. Honestly, this is the time you need to surround yourself with your friends and take it day-by-day.
I’m so sorry for u Fabio, this is a Sad thing, and I can relate to that cuz I’ve been in the same situation and it feels sucks to be not understandable!💔
But It may be good, like maybe u r not good to each others! 🤷🏻♂️
Hope you’ll get better and get over it, and hope to see u with Ben again! 😔
Stay safe bro! 🫶🏻
Hi fabio i wanted to tell you that it shouldn't put you down bc its part of life keep up the good work
You are the best
I'm so sorry to hear about the breakup. It sounds like it's been really tough.
The breakup didn't happen just because you went to a restaurant, no matter which restaurant. There were likely underlying insecurities and a multitude of thoughts and feelings that led to this decision. At the end of it all, you both weren't right for each other and that's okay.
It might be helpful to take some time to reflect on the relationship. Maybe make a list of all the things you enjoyed about it, and all the things you didn't. And think about the qualities and experiences you want in your next relationship to help you recognize what you like vs. don't like in a partner.
Right now, it's important to allow yourself to grieve the end of this relationship. It's okay to feel sad, angry, or confused. Cry if you need to, find healthy ways to take out your aggression (like running, etc.). It's important to feel your emotions so you can heal.
And don't forget to keep doing the things that bring you peace, happiness, and joy. Spend time with friends and family, pursue your hobbies, and take care of yourself.
I know it may not feel like it now, but you will move on. Eventually, you'll meet the right person to share your life with. Someone who appreciates you for who you are.
And for your friends, I hope they learn from this too. Don't put your friends in difficult situations that can get people hurt. It's not about going to a restaurant. It's about respecting boundaries.
Be strong my friend, don't let this put you down. I'm sure you will find someone better who will understand you better even if you don't think that right now. Just keep going
I’m sorry you’re going through this. It’s understandable she got mad and everything and it’s not your fault but she should have tried to be a little more understanding. In my opinion your friends shouldn’t bring u to a place like that they should have thought of the consequences. I hope u get better soon ❤
Do not be hurt by her because it is not how she was in the good times but how she was in the bad times, she failed you. She does not deserve you, forget her already. It is her loss. Do not lock yourself away. If you want to patch things up with your roommate do it. If not forget him and move on. Do not hide yourself away, it is not the way forward. Better days are ahead, you are young and have your whole life ahead.
Those friends are NOT your friends to have even put you in that situation in the first place. She on the other hand refused to understand or even listen so she wasn't the one for you. Spend time taking yourself on dates and learning who you are and what your friendship and relationship standards are then find new people to surround yourself with.
Hello,
I am so sorry for you Fabio, but we all believe and hope you will get over this tough time soon!
To Ben, maybe u are struggling so hard, yeah it’s your fault but we understand that u didnt mean to cause this situation so far off. So comeback soon guys. I watch your videos mainly to practice English and I also love your contents guys
It was not right for your friends taking you somewhere you don't feel comfortable in and you know that too. But everything happens for a reason . Hopefully you get your confidence back like you always used to be, cos it's kind of sad that you lost it.😢 You are an amazing Italian always believe in yourself , when you're more comfortable go try somebody new because it's better be to be with somebody then be alone hopefully this advice will help and hopefully then we'll come around. Love you fabio
It is his choice in the end whether he still goes or not he is not a child lmao.
Hey, Fabio. I’m sorry to hear you being so sad. We all still love you! Get better!
I recently read something, and it has stuck with me. Along your journey, you will experience love and heartbreak. Within that time you gain moments that will stay with you in your heart forever. These are moments to learn from and take into the next chapter of your life. Most importantly, each love and heartbreak is the next step closer to who you are meant to be with in this lifetime. Keep moving forward through the pain as hard as it is..dive deep into it to get to the other side to find your princess ❤ I have been through my own journey only to find my happily ever after..(and now i get to spend my summers in Italy!!😊😍)
I am so sorry you don't deserve this :(
Love you ❤ take it easy
It's truly sad. You didn't deserve this. A small mistake can be forgiven. I am sure you will find the perfect girl to mend your heart. ❤❤❤
She is right, you should have left as soon as you realized the situation you were in. You are responsible for choosing to stay. Friends will influence you in doing good or bad, you really need to consider what kind of man you want to be and see if the friends you have will have a good influence on you.
What situation was he in? He went to a restaurant with his friends. Hooters is not a stripper bar, it's not a pickup joint, and it's not a whore hose. It's a restaurant and going there is not a bad thing because absolutely nothing goes on in there other than you're served food and drinks. Have you ever even been inside of one? The only one who did anything wrong was the girlfriend for jumping to conclusions without knowing what she was talking about... Just like you!
This cannot happen twice. I hope both of you find a way to make peace. Especially Ben.
😢😢 it feels like I'm going through a breakup. I'm so sad for you. It really isn't a big deal in the US you know. I am girl, I've been to Hooters with friends, with family. It's just a fun experience. Why she took it so badly I don't know 😕 maybe everyone is right... it's not Ben's fault and in fact it ended up showing you how she really is. Insecure and nuts. It's her loss because you Fabio, are fabulous and a catch! You treat her so well and you even apologized for it but demanding that you leave your friends and walk out is a lil extreme.. she broke up with you for going to Hooters, imagine if you had gone for a massage or to a club with ur friends 🤔 She sounds like someone you could do without but I understand how you feel. It's hard to see flaws in the one you love. Hoping you can see she doesn't deserve you though... Lotsa hugs 🤗🤗🤗
Fabio, just send her a huge amount of roses and a love letter saying sorry and how much you love her. If you want her back. If not, then move on, we support you and everything is ok.
I have some advice for you man! I’m sorry you’re going through this and that’s not fun. I started following you guys a few months ago and I’m really sorry this is going on in your life. One I think the girl is very insecure about the relationship and you probably are better off because if she can’t trust you then there is no need to be in a relationship. The point of a relationship or even friendship to trust. As for your roommate, maybe you guys need to talk over specific boundaries next time and also tell him how you feel that if he keeps doing the silly stuff he does then it’s gonna cause division and I don’t want your relationship with your friend to go south either. Praying for you.
I already commented on Instagram but I saw this in its entirety. Look, I have an Italian man as my partner and he would have reacted the same way as you. Ben may not have meant harm but he went against how you were raised. It’s so complicated to explain but I feel like I truly understand how you’re feeling and my heart breaks for you. It can only go up from here hun ❤
Fabio i really pray that u heal yourself, u are an absolutely amazing person which i understand from all the video's of you and the way u did take responsibility for something that wasn't even youe fault. Guys like u are really less and u are a gem.
As a girl i understand she would have been hurt seeing it but i also know that if i truly love the person i would have allowed them explain themselves entirely and also given them one chance. Because everyone deserves a 2nd chance.
Maybe u are yet to find something more beautiful so plz just stay the way u are . We love you a lot❤
Bro keep your head high! I’m sure your friend never meant this to happen. It’s understandable for the girl and it’s understandable for you as well. It’s hard to draw the line in these situations. You are young and the ocean is wide, you will find someone always. I root for you guys.
Fabio, sono vecchio abbastanza per dirti ciò che penso. Fa un esame di coscienza e se sai di avere fatto tutto il possibile per tenere quella ragazza, beh voleva dire che non era alla tua altezza.
Sono i sensi di colpa che ci fanno soffrire. Se sei a posto con te stesso, cammina a testa alta e sii felice della splendida vita che hai! Un abbraccio. Franco
You'll get through it man don't worry
From my experience, I'd say focus on what makes you happy. Discover yourself even more, find that self-love again. When we fall in love, we forget ourselves and neglect, because the best people always give too much. And that's what hurts most.
Don't blame yourself, there's a good side of this. Try to think more positively, that everything will be alright. You just believe it. You will get through this! Don't give up ❤❤
I been like that! But over relationships I think has to talk about anything wrong n go from there im sorry for loosing someone who don’t understand ur situation! You did the right thing amigo, no worries there is so many girls who will come to u!
Pls dont be sad fabio...Love from India 💝❤️😍
Okay, from my prospective.. What happened was a foul from both sides. Ben should've informed you about the place you were going to go because when someone's in a relationship with somebody, that person must stay loyal. BUT I don't think that it's 100% wrong, because you should know what kind of person you have by your side, right?.. I know I'm not much of a help, because I'm a teenager but I would advice you to look at the future from now on. Okay, bad things happened. Your girlfriend reacted just like all women would've react in her position but it's a huge foul to not let your man explain what happened. I personally know that you're a good guy and that you don't mean to warm anyone, I'm proud of you because you actually wanted to talk it out with her, even if she didn't want to talk about it. You should take your time. Also you should always look out for yourself first and then worry about others. You're awesome and whatever happened, it happened for a good reason. Have a nice day/night and stay safe 🫶🏽🙂
This guy is so pure hearted. Don't let this drag you down too much Fabio. If she was unwilling to hear you out and understand your intentions weren't to hurt her then shes not the one for you. You seem like a truly genuine, honest, and respectful guy. You will find someone better who will give you the benefit of the doubt and talk to you like an adult when somethings wrong rather than lashing out. Keep you head up and your heart open. You deserve the best 🫂🤍
I can't say I've been to hooters but I've seen clips of what the place is like and it seems like that's their dynamic with the way girls are dressed, they're looking to attract certain people. Times a healer, give yourself some time to think properly. As a girl she was no doubt feeling super insecure about that situation but to break up doesn't seem mature if she wasn't giving you the chance to explain why you went there. It's equally wrong for your room mate to not realise you didn't feel comfortable. Even if he just wanted to go there as a joke to have a laugh. It looks like you had so much love for this girl for you to feel this way. She must have felt really off about you being there but maybe there was a lack of that trust or something that made her think it wasn't worth the relationship. Keep your head high Fabio 😊
I hate to see you like this... We all are here for you :) we understand you so well and we will help you as we can:)... Pls be careful with yourself boy. Everything's gonna be alright :) i promise... ❤️
Next time, be strong and take responsibility for yourself and don't go with them. Don't do wrong things to please your friends one time but at the same time hurt your relationship. Your friends should be mature and understand consequences for you and not be selfish to pressure you into going with them. Go do another activity you love in the meantime.
I once loved a guy and I tolerated a lot of bad stuff that he did (and when I say bad stuff I mean really really bad stuff).
I only broke up with him after he crossed the line and did hundreds of bad stuff, not one, not even 10.
So if she really loved you, she would at least give you another chance to show that you are not going to do that again.
Cause that's what people in love do, they forgive.
So what I am trying to say is, you are better off without her and find yourself someone who will really love you. I am sure there will be a person like that :)
Oh Fabio i can feel you i know this is absolutely horrible but please know that it wasn't your fault and you did your best to apologize her. It's sucks but just know that you're gonna find someone better that deserve you and deserve your love:)🥺✨️
I promise everything is gonna be ok just try to be strong and move on, we will be here for you and support you🫂💜
The only people you have and you need are friends and family
I'm so sorry that this had to happen, Fabio. I know it hurts, but please dont overthink because it will make it harder for you. Things happen and sometimes, we really can't do anything. But I hope you heal from everything. You will have better days. We're here to wait and support you.
Move on... youre still young and you will meet matured woman in your life..stay happy and may God be with you always..ciao
Everything is going to be alright just wait for the right time fabio❤️
We love you Fabio. Don't overthink. Keep going... ❤
We will always support you.Stay strong Fabio because you know you can stay strong ❤
Ei Fabio, ti parlo direttamente da l’Italia, credo che se questa ragazza ti amasse veramente non ti lascerebbe per una cosa così superficiale perché non hai fatto nulla di male tu e se dobbiamo essere tutti sinceri ci ha perso lei sicuramente. Son sicura che troverai tantissime altre ragazze che amerai probabilmente ancora di più.Ti auguro veramente il meglio e spero tu stia meglio presto!!
Whatever you feel right now is right, whether you feel mad or sad or confused. Everything will be alright.❤
:( I'm sorry this happened, Fabio! You seem like a good guy and I know you'll come back from this. For now, I hope you can take care of yourself and go through any grieving process you need to go through. ❤
She broke up with you over a visit to Hooters? Seriously? Good riddance I say. You don't need such an insecure person around you. Don't blame your friends, they actually helped you weed this one out. You will realise that soon.
Right! It's not like it's a tittie bar or nude club. It's a dang restaurant
If she can not understand your situation your friends put you in, it is better to find out how she reacts now than later in the relationship.
You are the better person in your situation. Ben owes you a big big apology.
I have always felt that she has always said no to your genuity. So did Benedict (who you referred to as merely "roommate" and "this guy here" which is telling of betrayal). You deserve a much better woman and bros. Your genuity showed even more powerfully in this video, and I have gained even more respect for you.
Fabio mi dispiace un sacco.
So che sei una Persona con cuore grande. Dai bro andrà tutto bene
She was not just insecure she was simply not trusted in you. If a woman trusts in his man she laughs at this situation, possibly laughs together with you. And under no circumstances you have to apologise. You will find better.
It's ok to feel sad, allow yourself to feel all the emotions that you feel, don't suppress them.
This rough period will pass and you will smile again!
Be with your friends, do things that you like and make you happy 😊
Ti voglio bene!
I’m sorry Fabio to learn about this. I hope you will be okay. Take all the time you need to recover from this pain.
Do something that you love and enjoy to help take your mind off of things just now. You are an amazing guy and we love the content you share. ❤
I know this might not relate to this situation but I just left a toxic relationship of 10 years and I wanted to leave from the second it started but I’m telling you right now that relationship would have turned toxic real fast and even though I know it doesn’t seem like it right now it is a blessing in disguise because I am so much happier now I’ve left I wasn’t to begin with obviously but with time you start to realise how bad your relationship had really gotten but I’m telling u Fabio you seem like one of the most genuine guys ever so u will definitely find someone who appreciates you for that don’t let this get you down even if it’s just a walk outside get moving and that will help u out a lot ❤❤
Thats okay. We understand you. Dont worry Ben will come back and he will be there in your life. We want hug you so bad.
I'm really sorry for you 🥺 I've had my heart broken several times and I can promise you that the sun will shine again. Give yourself a few days, allow yourself to be sad for a few days, it's completely natural. But please promise me that after these days you will get up 💪🏾 the show must go on with or without her..... Everything may seem lost rightnow, but I would like to write you something my nonna always told me: "Quando si chiude una porta, si apre un portone."
I'm still waiting for that f*cking door to open 🤣but I will never lose faith and so should you🥰
Sei un ragazzo molto bello dentro e fuori, meriti tutto ciò che è bello❤
Fabio...the Bible says "to guard your heart". I wish I would have. I was ghosted too after being with someone. Take some time for you , heal your heart. If you have a car always drive yourself. If your best friend is a good person make up with him. Life is soooo short. Enjoy yourself but take heed. There is so much bad out there. You will heal eventually. ❤Sending lots of Italian love your way paisan! ❤
Your girlfriend is missing out a lot you are such a sweet guy and pays attention to every single detail hope you feel better soon your gf missed out on a lot with a guy like you hope you find someone better
You were too good for her anyway. Keep being the wonderful guy you are. The right girl is right around the corner
Ben was in the wrong for putting Fabio in this position. Fabio could have left the restaurant, he didn’t; he didn’t have bad intentions. I don’t agree with calling the ex insecure just because she didn’t like the visit to Hooters; it’s completely valid of her to feel uncomfortable with it. But indeed, if she wanted the relationship to continue, she should allow Fabio to explain himself, and at least consider his words. If they were just starting, she might have felt that the relationship wasn’t strong enough yet and he might actually go for it. She should have explained how she felt and why it made her uncomfortable.
Sending you hugs 💙
People who become uncomfortable so easily do not belong in relationships.
@@monk4ever Correct. If a person is too immature to deal with the concept of other attractive people in a public setting, they 100% should *not* be in a relationship.
You don’t only should be happy to get rid of your girlfriend, you should also get a new friend who doesn’t put you in that position…..
it was just a joke…
@@just.sara.13 Yeah I can see how
much Fabio is laughing about it! 🙄🙄🙄
Fabio and Ben are one of my favorite people in the World, don't be sad I love you guys soooooooooooooooooooooooo much ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
This viedeo literally Broke my heart ❤❤❤
Its all about trusting your partner. You can clearly tell in the other video that you were uncomfortable in that situation. I understand her being annoyed but you didn't know where your friends were taking you. She just clearly didn't trust you. I split from a long term relationship last year and a thing that helps is focussing on yourself doing things you love and make you happy and sometimes doing things you really want to do but felt you couldn't in a relationship because your partner didn't have the same hobbies. I hope this helps. You will get through this there is always a light at the end of the tunnel xx
you should let yourself feel the pain and process it how you need to. her not giving you the respect to communicate with you properly or trust you enough shows volumes that she was not ready for a real relationship. this would not have ended a real relationship that was worth fighting for.
Gosh, Fabio, she was harsh! Hooter's is not a strip joint, it could be much worse. If your heartfelt apology is not enough for her, nothing ever will be. You can and will find someone who adores you. Hang in there and feel better. Heartbreak just sucks.
All happens for some reason. I know and you know that it will be hurt💔, but the good news is that you have the opportunity to learn from this.( I am not here to blame you).Take all of your time. When you will go over it, you will be the best version of you, because you deserve it🎉
I LOVE that you felt immediately uncomfortable in Hooters… not cool anyhow… but as a gentleman to feel uncomfortable is normal… especially in a relationship.
You have a lot of honesty and integrity as a person… it is shown via your reaction. So your ex missed out on a good guy. Keep being you and don’t let this exp change you or harden you ❤
As a girl I think the communicatuon is the key and if she did not understand your point of view, it’s the best Better in the beginning Hope you will get better ❤️