27 years later it is 6 am the day after christmas I come here every year. May you all have a wonderful year. See you all next year same time same place:)
not acording to Ben. "People ask me what this song's about... I was asked about it a lot, and I didn't really wanna make a big hairy deal out of it, because I just wanted the song to speak for itself. But the song is about when I was in high school, me and my girlfriend had to get an abortion, and it was a very sad thing. And, I didn't really want to write this song from any kind of political standpoint, or make a statement. I just wanted to reflect what it feels like. So, anyone who's gone through that before, then you'll know what the song's about." being sad about something isnt the same as regret. Regret implies you would make a diffrent choice and nothing I have seen says otherwise.
It's like clockwork, everyone--the Buns are back. A small nod of respect to everybody else who's here now at 6AM for the annual tradition. Remember: stay kind, friends.
I feel the exact same way. No other line touches me as deeply as the feel of a car seat freezing. That line seems so human to me; I never ever thought about the temperature of a car seat until the day that I was going through my own personal crisis.
@Melmoth191 so you've managed to make Condescension and Snark key components of your personality. Good luck with that. What a garbage take on a reaction to a piece of music.
Yes. I mainly play the first verse of this song as I wake up early on December 26th. It is still dark outside. It is cold. My car is cold. Most people are still asleep. And it does seem like that sort of cold has a smell.
@Melmoth191 Hey, funny boy, I do think they are deep and poignant. They do speak to me. And I will be playing this song in the early morning of December 26th. What is strange is that you don't care about this song, but here you are in the comment section.
Yesterday I had the best Christmas I’ve had in 20 years…after struggling through the hardest year of my life. I just want to say I’m grateful today because of a lot kind people. I hope everyone who didn’t have a blessed Christmas has a better day today.❤
One year later, here we are again at 6AM, day after Christmas. Here's to everybody who keeps coming back to this song year after year. Take care of each other, my friends.
One of the most honest songs I've ever heard. It takes guts to write about an experience like this and release it on the radio with no agenda. I think this song should be remembered for a long time.
chazzatheninja This is about a time when he got his girlfriend pregnant and they went to get an abortion. He's said that he just wanted to be honest about his experience without entering into the larger debate. I'm just impressed that he can totally open up about it to the masses and be honest about how sucky it was for him and his girlfriend.
I recall in the late 90s, I was 14 years old, sleeping on the floor, listening to the radio at my friend's house in the middle of the night, with my friend and his twin brother sleeping in the same room. I stayed up, hoping to hear this song. At 4am this song miraculously played and I struggled to hold back my tears. My mum had just left the country for good to start a new life. I didn't know it at the time but I was numb. This song, and RHCP's Scar Tissue, were the only songs that could make me feel anything. Thanks for getting me through that.
It is 10:54 on December 26th, ut I was finally able to get my yeah, nearly listen in I stopped trying to wake up at 62 listen to the song years ago, and now I just try to get it in sometime during the day God bless Ben Folds and god bless.Another reason to keep living another year
When this song came out I was I dad with two young boys. This song took me back to an episode that I was involved in , back in my 20’s. A girl from college got pregnant( didn’t know who was responsible) but two of her friends called me , asking if I could drive to a clinic. I agreed. I’ll never forget the ride back. This poor young woman was devastated by what had just happened. Her two friends held her and offered what support they could. This memory has never left me. When ever I hear this song , it takes me back to that day.
@@TheMoonwillow23 You missed it. The vast majority of women who have abortions feel relief, not regret. Being in tears like that is pretty common when such a weight is off of one's shoulders, you know. That might not be the case here, but you assume too much.
I lost my daughter as a still born and listen to this song whenever I think of her and gives me a little strength. 1 year later my wife left me for another man and I wanted to end it all. For you people out there who might be going through the same pain, think of those who love you and how much pain you will bring to their life and get professional help. Medication and help doesn't change anything and the pain doesn't go away but it can be the difference between life and death.
I went through a very similar thing. Lost my baby, husband left me (emotionally......and eventually went our separate ways) because of it. But you and I (and others who have experienced a similar thing) are both stronger and better people because of it! And our family and friends will always love us. We need to be here and be strong for them if nothing else.
I hope things have been better since then. You are strong, and those of us who have been to that dark place know what you're feeling. You can turn it around.
It's truly one of the saddest stories put to song. It's difficult to balance the feelings of helplessness/ desperation and regret/guilt in order to preserve one's own ego. It's soul crushing to feel forced to do something you don't want to do but must because you see no alternative solutions
We were the last to experience life as it was meant to be experienced. I feel awful for kids these days. You cant be exposed to the crap they are and come out okay. I have friends with young kids who feel their kids are as exposed to adult themes at 12 years old as we were at 16, 18, or even 20 back then. The innocence lost.
+HuxStee7 a Horse with no Name even that was darker- 2pac, Biggie, NWA (early) Jay Z. What big rappers are actually talking about real issues and struggles now?
I remember just getting my drivers license and my dad bought me an old 1989 for Taurus. I spend a hundred or two on a "skip resistant" portable cd player with a "tape deck attachment". This is a CD that I worre out driving during High School. Nostalgia is a hell of a drug.
I had totally forgotten about this song, when the other day my art teacher put it on in class and I immediately remembered it.. my dad used to play this song while sitting by himself on the couch at 3 am getting drunk off cheap wine. it sounds crazy but now that he’s gone I sometimes wish that I’d hear this song coming from the living room..
@Colin I could never fall asleep knowing he was out there, and the sound of the music on the stereo always rumbled through the whole house making it next to impossible to fall asleep
This came out during high school for me. Our adult neighbor had a paper route to help his family on top of his job. He worked hard. He needed a break during Christmas time. So, my mom and I took over for him for a couple weeks so he could spend time with family. I remember disliking getting up so early during my school break, but I have find memories even 20 years later spending those early mornings with my mom while we listened to the radio and delivered papers. I always loved it when this song came on. Love you mom.
Came here because this song came on the radio the other day, I hadn't heard it for years and I finally got a chance to listen from an adult perspective (I was relatively young when this song was released and didn't really understand what it was about). The heaviness of this song brought tears to my eyes and made me hear it like it was brand new.
Same here.. Very different understanding of it to back when I was in school.. It's a very cold song.. Apparently it was worse when it was first written.. Ben didn't write the chorus another band member did - apparently it breaks up the heaviness of the song because the original version was much too sombre.
heids418 same.....I just listened to it on repeat 5 times and realised how sad it is. I was maybe 15 when this was on the radio. I never really listened to the lyrics, but now I'm hearing it as a 33 year old woman and almost near tears for this girl I've never met. Music is such an amazing conduit for emotions.
I'd be honored if some 90s fans would take a listen to my acoustic piano & vocal performances of Arms of an Angel by SARAH MCLACHLAN, Long December by the COUNTING CROWS, and Mmm Mmm Mmm Mmm by the CRASH TEST DUMMIES on my channel in tribute to 3 great 90s standards. Live acoustic with no digital editing. Thanks and peace out.
I first heard the song Christmas morning. I think it was 1997! I can't explain what the song makes me feel to another person. The song is pretty heavy though.
I love this whole album. I was so fortunate to work with them when I was at Epic Records when they debuted! 38 years later and I'm still in the music industry. It's the best!!!!
Leaving my annual "6AM, day after Christmas" comment at the appropriate date/time. We won't be here at this moment again for another year, so let's take a moment to appreciate it.
I had forgotten about this song until I heard it on The Wilds. So melancholic. The cello is particularly beautiful. I don't identify with the song personally but the sadness is palpable
Ben Folds writes some of the most emotionally wrenching lyrics I've ever heard. I knew this was about an abortion the first time I ever heard it and became an instant fan of his music. Evaporated is another song that takes you to the same emotional place that drove those lyrics. It's an exceptional talent and I think it helps the more sensitive among us feel a little less alone.
The first few chords of this playing and I already have chills. I hear this song and I am 14 again watching video hits on a rainy Saturday morning and catching this for the first time.
my high school crush was obsessed with this band, we've been friends since then, just mentioned the crush and he said he still feels it. here listening to shit he loves to get out those feelings of what could have been when he lived here :/
Here to listen to it morning after Xmas. Giving me the same feels it gives you. I just hope heaven is as cool as the 90s. Id go back for just about anything.
I feel like I'm in good company here. Feeling nostalgic about the 90s with strangers and we are all separated by time. Some years ago, some a few months, me today. Same sentiments though.
I sing this every year this day. Since I was a teen. So sad. Heard them play live in the middle of Atlanta at night about 15 years ago. To have him play a baby grand in the middle of the street and a 1000 people singing this together. Was nostalgic yet heartbreaking.
@@augustmoon5596 I love ❤️ Cake...especially 'The Going the Distance" song. The reason I asked is because I have lived in Atlanta for the past 35 years since I was a college student at Emory and I was/am a frequent concert goer to The Masquerade, Atlanta Symphony, The Fox Theater, Tabernacle, Lakewood Amphitheater (now it something else), Georgia Dome, The Roxy....so on and so forth. I spent a great deal of time in Little 5 Points and at different music festivals like Lalapalooza, Lilith Fair, Pot Festival, Jazz Festival...but somehow I missed this. I was just wondering if it was in one of these spots.
@@augustmoon5596 From my research I think I went to one of the free On the Bricks concerts in Centennial Park about 20 years ago to see Sting. It was wonderful! From an article: "Atlanta Prepares For ‘On The Bricks’ Billboard Staff 4/24/2002 Rising neo-soul star India.Arie will headline the inaugural show of Atlanta’s 2002 On the Bricks free weekly concert series. Set for May 24 in the city’s Centennial Olympic Park, the bill for the opening event will also feature singer/songwriter John Mayer, modern rock act the Calling, and locally based singer/songwriter Chrystina Lloree. While the full schedule for the series is not yet announced, many artists who will perform in the park throughout the summer have been confirmed, including Michelle Branch, They Might Be Giants, Cracker, Blues Traveler, Sister Hazel, former Whiskeytown member Caitlin Cary, Will Hoge, the Smithereens, and Edwin McCain."
This song came out about two years after I got out of high school, when I was going through some serious sh*t in my life. It wasn't about abortion for me, but about a dead end relationship that was destroying both of us. It helped me through it, and helped me move on.
His feeling in his voice and face makes me cry every time I watch this... But it's my favorite song .. the true and honesty in life is what makes this song perfect.
This is one of the most haunting, heart breaking songs ever. Driving back to her apartment For the moment we're alone But she's alone And I'm alone And now I know it That part kills me every time I hear it.
I've been in love with this song from the moment it was released. Few others completely capture the pathos of love gone bad; you hear it in this singer's voice --- the flatness is exactly how one feels at their very lowest point. That this group has chosen a subject matter as important as this deserves kudos. There is a lesson that comes through...without being preachy; that takes skill. A simple yet haunting melody...I listen to this song a dozen times in a row, each time falling deeper and deeper into new shades of meaning.
Australian Army Recruit course Wagga Wagga, N.S.W, Australia 1998. 21St Pl, Delta Coy. The only info we had at that stage was via letters (There was an explosion and Melbourne lost all its gas). Pay phone to call home and that was seldom allowed. About 4 weeks in and the Cpl walked in with a radio in the hallway and all we could get was Triple J. They played this song a few times a day and when I hear this song, it brings back so many memories :)
I've since left the Army. As much as my post is such a nostalgic memory, joining the Army and being exposed to the lack of managers, money and investment in Australian soldiers. I always make sure to tell kids NEVER JOIN THE ARMY. It's just not worth the hassle, money or the realization of how fkd we are next time we go to war..
This song takes me back to winter break in a suburb in Chicago. Mid to late 90s. Shoveling the freaking driveway as fast as I can so I can go back inside and read comics and listen to Q101.
I remember how different this was from every other song on mtv when this came out. I was young but recognized the quality. It is still one of the best songs I’ve ever heard.
@@dottieb718 No, nothing will be as good for any kids like that was... BUT, we have this, and we have those times that get recalled when you hear this song. Be proud you made it to 47. Remembering the time we saved a kid from over dosing at a party we threw the night before, and singing this while going on a road trip to Disney on no sleep and hungover. Just a series of adventures. Our 90's was eventful, and we were more care free, and loved to socialize. Kids nowadays have neurosis and scared to talk to each other the way we did. I really love talking to people in our age bracket, because more than likely they're extremely chill.
Also the counting crowes has a song lyric that goes its 330 am on Tuesday it doesn't get much worse this. In beds in little rooms in buildings in the middle of the lives which are completely meaningless. I seem to think of that when i wake up early on a Tuesday. Bout 330 or so
0:45 You can hear him sigh. I’m sure that wasn’t intentional, but it’s appropriate, and it’s a lot more impactful as an involuntary action than if it were a creative choice.
Beautiful absolutely haunting description of pain of loss and the weight of guilt, lies, loss, and grief that I deeply felt when the song was initially released that is now so close to exactly my experiences in 2016 that it’s a little strange for me but oddly comforting. I’ve always loved Ben Folds Five and this makes me want to play the piano again. Thank you
In The Know: Ben Folds understandably struggled to write “Brick,” a song about his high school girlfriend’s abortion. With such a delicate experience on his hands, he admitted that the choruses he came up with sounded too literal. Luckily Darren Jessee provided the refrain, “She’s a brick and I’m drowning slowly/ off the coast and I’m headed nowhere” for Folds’ distressed falsetto. Carried by a somber piano melody and underscored by Jessee’s subdued drumming, it manages to sound serene in spite of the emotional turmoil behind each of Folds’ troublesome scenes.
I remember hearing the song when I was a kid, and wasn’t really a big fan. Thought it was another dramatic love song. Listening to it now in my 30’s, I never knew how sad and powerful this song is. I’m nearly in tears, such an amazing track.
I heard this song on the radio about 15 years ago, I was at work and I couldn’t here who the artist was or the name of the song. I tried finding it this whole time with some of the lyrics that I vaguely remembered with no luck. Tonight, it came up on my playlist as I was driving home. This is a day of days!!!🎉
Sitting here drowning slowly in my own tears I just lost my wife of 10 years 13 days ago it was all of a sudden and unexplained she did leave me with the best thing I've had in my life so far which is our little 3½ year old boy who is doing more taking care of me than I am taking care of him I still don't know how I'm going to make it but I've got to do it for him
Don't worry, life you gives you angels and he's one of them. You will find your footing and the both of you will be okay, trust me, you'll be okay. Don't give up.
Listening in 2023 ❤️❤️❤️ Still makes me cry. This song hits home. I gave my baby girl to a couple who tried to have a child for 19 years. Her name is Ava. She will be 14 June 5th. I gave birth to her. Two days later, I handed her over. It broke me. But I know I made the right decision. She's happy and healthy. I couldn't give her the life she deserved. She's a constant on my mind 😔❤️
@@TimmyTickle I do! He's 6 years old ☺️ And the light of my life ❤️ I've been clean and sober for 12 years now. I can be the mom I've always wanted to be!
27 years later it is 6 am the day after christmas I come here every year. May you all have a wonderful year. See you all next year same time same place:)
Yeah, anyone else also notice how hard it is to book an abortion on this day? Dude is just lucky I guess 😂
Indeed. Same and sharing tradition with my kids
Happy anniversary
See you then!
@@FlatEarthLogic especially difficult -even impossible depending on where ya live.
Why don't songs like this get on the 90s playlists? This was a big song back then.
Because modern day feminists might find out it’s about the deep regret of having an abortion
This is what they want us to forget..we were young and depressed like the youth today.
not acording to Ben. "People ask me what this song's about... I was asked about it a lot, and I didn't really wanna make a big hairy deal out of it, because I just wanted the song to speak for itself. But the song is about when I was in high school, me and my girlfriend had to get an abortion, and it was a very sad thing. And, I didn't really want to write this song from any kind of political standpoint, or make a statement. I just wanted to reflect what it feels like. So, anyone who's gone through that before, then you'll know what the song's about." being sad about something isnt the same as regret. Regret implies you would make a diffrent choice and nothing I have seen says otherwise.
If Ben could tell you about life...he may have transposed it into a song of death and acquisition...
Cuz most people that weren't really "involved" in the 90's think grunge and Pop punk bands were the only thing around
It's like clockwork, everyone--the Buns are back. A small nod of respect to everybody else who's here now at 6AM for the annual tradition. Remember: stay kind, friends.
6am - Dublin - Ireland, day after christmas, I am here
The first few lines "smell of cold, car seat is freezin" speaks to something so deep in me, it's hard to put into words.
I feel the exact same way. No other line touches me as deeply as the feel of a car seat freezing. That line seems so human to me; I never ever thought about the temperature of a car seat until the day that I was going through my own personal crisis.
@Melmoth191 so you've managed to make Condescension and Snark key components of your personality. Good luck with that. What a garbage take on a reaction to a piece of music.
@Melmoth191True and hilarious!
Yes. I mainly play the first verse of this song as I wake up early on December 26th. It is still dark outside. It is cold. My car is cold. Most people are still asleep. And it does seem like that sort of cold has a smell.
@Melmoth191 Hey, funny boy, I do think they are deep and poignant. They do speak to me. And I will be playing this song in the early morning of December 26th. What is strange is that you don't care about this song, but here you are in the comment section.
Yesterday I had the best Christmas I’ve had in 20 years…after struggling through the hardest year of my life.
I just want to say I’m grateful today because of a lot kind people.
I hope everyone who didn’t have a blessed Christmas has a better day today.❤
Nice.
3.7 billion Christmas songs. Only 1 day after Christmas song!
And theres only one song about "the boys being back in town" 😢
@ Or Dino’s Bar and Grille. Almost feels like the drinks have stopped flowing and the blood has stopped spilling
One year later, here we are again at 6AM, day after Christmas. Here's to everybody who keeps coming back to this song year after year. Take care of each other, my friends.
A few hours late, but I made it.. Thanks for your comment.
Happy new year, friend.
You 2 Country buns lol great name btw.
@@A-RonHubbard I always think of that line when Christmas comes around. I’ll have to join you guys in listening to this song on that day.
@@poultonboys3108 Only 11 months now until X-mas, it's right around the corner!
One of the most honest songs I've ever heard. It takes guts to write about an experience like this and release it on the radio with no agenda. I think this song should be remembered for a long time.
what's it about?
chazzatheninja
This is about a time when he got his girlfriend pregnant and they went to get an abortion.
He's said that he just wanted to be honest about his experience without entering into the larger debate.
I'm just impressed that he can totally open up about it to the masses and be honest about how sucky it was for him and his girlfriend.
wow....
It kind of reminds me of a Crash Test Dummies Song "mmmmmmmmm". Another sad song about experiences released on the radio.
Dunno why everything has to have an agenda. Glad he just let it speak for itself without attaching anything.
I recall in the late 90s, I was 14 years old, sleeping on the floor, listening to the radio at my friend's house in the middle of the night, with my friend and his twin brother sleeping in the same room. I stayed up, hoping to hear this song. At 4am this song miraculously played and I struggled to hold back my tears. My mum had just left the country for good to start a new life. I didn't know it at the time but I was numb. This song, and RHCP's Scar Tissue, were the only songs that could make me feel anything. Thanks for getting me through that.
💖
🥺💔❤️❤️❤️
This song is about abortion.
R/thathappened
music heals
This is actually one of most stunningly beautiful piano intros and compositions I have ever heard.
I watching muted, haven’t heard this song since the 90’s YET as a musician I can still hear the melody of the intro.
It’s a really simple intro.
Beautiful song but that’s pretty standard pop song shit bruva.
Don't forget Counting Crows colorblind.
It's not fancy, but I completely agree. That simple intro invokes emotion very well.
0:21 Every year, I set this as my wake-up alarm on December 26th.
Same! Every year, I have a tradition of sending my best friend a text at 6 a.m., the day after Christmas, always with a link to this song.
I’m glad I’m not alone
"And she's alone...and I'm alone"...kills me everytime
"And now I know it"
I post this song every year at 6 am..day after Christmas ❤
I've fallen down the hole of 90s nostalgia. But that's okay, life is better down here anyway.
Me too
Yep, im here right now... 98-99
Same friend, same
I'm here with you
OMG I literally just looked at my fiancé and said “oh God I’m gone down a 90s black hole right now.” But seriously...it was the epic decade.
It is 10:54 on December 26th, ut I was finally able to get my yeah, nearly listen in
I stopped trying to wake up at 62 listen to the song years ago, and now I just try to get it in sometime during the day
God bless Ben Folds and god bless.Another reason to keep living another year
It's the subtle deep breathe at 0:44. I feel it in my chest every time i hear this song. I love it.
When this song came out I was I dad with two young boys. This song took me back to an episode that I was involved in , back in my 20’s. A girl from college got pregnant( didn’t know who was responsible) but two of her friends called me , asking if I could drive to a clinic. I agreed. I’ll never forget the ride back. This poor young woman was devastated by what had just happened. Her two friends held her and offered what support they could. This memory has never left me. When ever I hear this song , it takes me back to that day.
Jesus understands and forgives. He loves you so much!
...but was it the day after chistmas?
❤❤❤❤
@@TheMoonwillow23 If the church is any indication, Jesus also loves little boys.
@@TheMoonwillow23 You missed it. The vast majority of women who have abortions feel relief, not regret. Being in tears like that is pretty common when such a weight is off of one's shoulders, you know. That might not be the case here, but you assume too much.
I wish this man would get more love. I've seen him play solo, in a band, and with an orchestra. The best musical concert I've ever been to
He played with my local symphony in 2009 and it was a really good show. He's great
Classic 90’s in every way
I lost my daughter as a still born and listen to this song whenever I think of her and gives me a little strength. 1 year later my wife left me for another man and I wanted to end it all. For you people out there who might be going through the same pain, think of those who love you and how much pain you will bring to their life and get professional help. Medication and help doesn't change anything and the pain doesn't go away but it can be the difference between life and death.
I went through a very similar thing. Lost my baby, husband left me (emotionally......and eventually went our separate ways) because of it. But you and I (and others who have experienced a similar thing) are both stronger and better people because of it! And our family and friends will always love us. We need to be here and be strong for them if nothing else.
Stay strong my man
I'm sorry
I hope things have been better since then. You are strong, and those of us who have been to that dark place know what you're feeling. You can turn it around.
I am sorry for your pain. May joy find you in these terrible times.
It's truly one of the saddest stories put to song. It's difficult to balance the feelings of helplessness/ desperation and regret/guilt in order to preserve one's own ego. It's soul crushing to feel forced to do something you don't want to do but must because you see no alternative solutions
90's wasn't a decade. It was an emotion.
Perfectly said.
We were the last to experience life as it was meant to be experienced. I feel awful for kids these days. You cant be exposed to the crap they are and come out okay. I have friends with young kids who feel their kids are as exposed to adult themes at 12 years old as we were at 16, 18, or even 20 back then. The innocence lost.
It was an experience. No cellphones and "platforms" for a holes to say random BS.
....it really was
That’s the realest thing I’ve read in a long time
Back once again with my annual comment. See you all again in one year--keep on keepin' on, my friends.
Was it the day after Christmas? I can't believe I missed this song on the day after Christmas. I never forget but I did this year 😢
Hey, at least you're here now--just re-imagine the lyrics to "month after Christmas," and you're good to go! @@micheller2283
missed you this year
Peace
See you next year
Few decades dare to be as depressing and melancholic as the 90s
Ikue P In other words, as earnest. Less bullshitty.
Yep
+Ikue P Unless your into rap
+HuxStee7 a Horse with no Name even that was darker- 2pac, Biggie, NWA (early) Jay Z. What big rappers are actually talking about real issues and struggles now?
Ell Guy Immortal Technique, JMT, Rite hook etc...
I will never get sick of this song.
Same. One of my favorite songs ever
I remember just getting my drivers license and my dad bought me an old 1989 for Taurus. I spend a hundred or two on a "skip resistant" portable cd player with a "tape deck attachment". This is a CD that I worre out driving during High School. Nostalgia is a hell of a drug.
I still can’t believe how much hate they got for this song. It’s by far my favorite of theirs. Gorgeous, honest, haunting. Timeless.
? Hate?
@@last7509 Because this song is about the song writer's own experience with abortion.
@@danielrivas3241 a few people crying in their echo chamber doesn't mean anything to me
Worst song in history of songdom
@@kentunderwood31 C'mon dude. You know there's worse than this.
Playing this at 6:00 am, day after Christmas
I had totally forgotten about this song, when the other day my art teacher put it on in class and I immediately remembered it.. my dad used to play this song while sitting by himself on the couch at 3 am getting drunk off cheap wine. it sounds crazy but now that he’s gone I sometimes wish that I’d hear this song coming from the living room..
@Colin I could never fall asleep knowing he was out there, and the sound of the music on the stereo always rumbled through the whole house making it next to impossible to fall asleep
Sorry
😥
Sorry for your loss I recently lost my dad and music makes the memories flood in
@@chriseaton7887 it definitely does. Sorry for your loss also
This came out during high school for me. Our adult neighbor had a paper route to help his family on top of his job. He worked hard. He needed a break during Christmas time. So, my mom and I took over for him for a couple weeks so he could spend time with family. I remember disliking getting up so early during my school break, but I have find memories even 20 years later spending those early mornings with my mom while we listened to the radio and delivered papers. I always loved it when this song came on. Love you mom.
Not exactly 6:00 A.M., but it is the day after Christmas...
Damn it, I'm late!
Now that I'm an adult.... I finally understand the whole of this song. So deep and so beautiful. I was such a stupid dumb teenager.
Egh... your good
We all were
Anti-abortion song?
This song and singing is so terrible I don't care what it's about...
@@kellydixson9221 Excuse you
Came here because this song came on the radio the other day, I hadn't heard it for years and I finally got a chance to listen from an adult perspective (I was relatively young when this song was released and didn't really understand what it was about). The heaviness of this song brought tears to my eyes and made me hear it like it was brand new.
Same here.. Very different understanding of it to back when I was in school.. It's a very cold song..
Apparently it was worse when it was first written.. Ben didn't write the chorus another band member did - apparently it breaks up the heaviness of the song because the original version was much too sombre.
heids418 same.....I just listened to it on repeat 5 times and realised how sad it is. I was maybe 15 when this was on the radio. I never really listened to the lyrics, but now I'm hearing it as a 33 year old woman and almost near tears for this girl I've never met. Music is such an amazing conduit for emotions.
Sarah Says same here. I'm slightly older than you, but had that same experience.
Brick , inside ir outside . Wish I broke then . And we broke each other
Hearing this song now gives me so much more appreciation for it and makes me proud of my music choices as a youngster lol
God damn. I miss the 90`s. Almost brings a tear to my eye.
nicholasyoder i feel you. Feeling a bit nostalgic right now and had to play this song.
I'd be honored if some 90s fans would take a listen to my acoustic piano & vocal performances of Arms of an Angel by SARAH MCLACHLAN, Long December by the COUNTING CROWS, and Mmm Mmm Mmm Mmm by the CRASH TEST DUMMIES on my channel in tribute to 3 great 90s standards. Live acoustic with no digital editing. Thanks and peace out.
@@willritter4076 I'm already subscribed lol
Hey me to I know how you feel the 90s was the best now it's just a bunch of bullshit
Same here, I miss this era of music. I watch all these 90's videos and makes me want to cry.
I first heard the song Christmas morning. I think it was 1997! I can't explain what the song makes me feel to another person. The song is pretty heavy though.
I love this whole album. I was so fortunate to work with them when I was at Epic Records when they debuted! 38 years later and I'm still in the music industry. It's the best!!!!
I was, trying to get back in. Merry cmas..happy bolidays.
Judy Ross aka Judith Rosenfarb!! rock on
It’s 6am right now 12/26/24 day after Christmas!
Leaving my annual "6AM, day after Christmas" comment at the appropriate date/time. We won't be here at this moment again for another year, so let's take a moment to appreciate it.
Wow thought I was the only one who listened to this every year day after Christmas.
I'm here though 6 am is too early to be up when you don't need to be!
A few hours late, sorry. See you next year ;)
Awesome comment!
Okay William Montgomery
I LOVE, LOVE, THIS TIME IN MY LIFE. I NEVER KNEW HOW INNOCENT THE WORLD WAS UNTIL IT WASNT..
I had forgotten about this song until I heard it on The Wilds. So melancholic. The cello is particularly beautiful. I don't identify with the song personally but the sadness is palpable
I am literally watching The Wilds right now! Weird, because I haven't heard it in the show yet.
😂
Same
That's a bass, yo. But yes, certainly beautiful.
@@bcz3548 are you on season 2?
That's a bass, my dude.
Such a heartfelt song. I wish people still wrote like this
You don’t like drill beats and mumbling?
I’m listening to this at 6am…day after Christmas
Top ten songs of all time
One of the most beautiful songs ever
Ben Folds writes some of the most emotionally wrenching lyrics I've ever heard. I knew this was about an abortion the first time I ever heard it and became an instant fan of his music. Evaporated is another song that takes you to the same emotional place that drove those lyrics. It's an exceptional talent and I think it helps the more sensitive among us feel a little less alone.
Apparently he didn't write it though. I believe it was the drummer who wrote this song, Darren Jessee
@@duffman18 I think it was a collaboration, with Darren being responsible for the chorus.
6:45 AM 12/26/24. Better late than never. Goodness, I'm certainly not 14 anymore...time files.
This song takes me right back to a specific time and place. ❤
I'm so glad that Ben Folds had a true hit. He's such a great artist, most like him never get a crack at popular radio.
I'm so sorry he was inconvenienced by a woman he had sex with. An abortion? Geez, what an ordeal... for the man.
@michelleeverett8125 what? Lol
The first few chords of this playing and I already have chills. I hear this song and I am 14 again watching video hits on a rainy Saturday morning and catching this for the first time.
6:15am Dec. 26, 2024….but I’m not even heartbroken. Just a vibe ❤❤
my high school crush was obsessed with this band, we've been friends since then, just mentioned the crush and he said he still feels it. here listening to shit he loves to get out those feelings of what could have been when he lived here :/
Can we please go back to having great music like the 90s produced. I miss this stuff so much!
Now she's feeling more alone
Then she ever has before
This hits especially hard today.
I wish I could live in the 90's for eternity
Things will never be like the 90's again. I'm just thankful I was a part of it. Bittersweet
I feel this comment deeply
Such a great decade
But then O.J.Simpson would be sending the California police patrol on an infinite chase.
I thought it would ALWAYS be the 90s
I would just hear this song and wonder what it was about. Then once I figured it out, it just is chilling and gives me such empathy for all involved.
Here to listen to it morning after Xmas. Giving me the same feels it gives you. I just hope heaven is as cool as the 90s. Id go back for just about anything.
Day after Christmas 2019. Atlanta airport on a layover. Thinking of what’s beautiful in my life and what isn’t. God bless all you guys.
I feel like I'm in good company here. Feeling nostalgic about the 90s with strangers and we are all separated by time. Some years ago, some a few months, me today. Same sentiments though.
Here, time becomes space.
Yess sir January27th 1990
And me today
Sentimental feelings resurface while listening to this song. So sad!
I sing this every year this day. Since I was a teen. So sad. Heard them play live in the middle of Atlanta at night about 15 years ago. To have him play a baby grand in the middle of the street and a 1000 people singing this together. Was nostalgic yet heartbreaking.
Where in Atlanta?
@@pagemastrogiovanni9195 yes it was a summer concert called on the Bricks..i also saw Cake there that summer too
@@augustmoon5596 I love ❤️ Cake...especially 'The Going the Distance" song. The reason I asked is because I have lived in Atlanta for the past 35 years since I was a college student at Emory and I was/am a frequent concert goer to The Masquerade, Atlanta Symphony, The Fox Theater, Tabernacle, Lakewood Amphitheater (now it something else), Georgia Dome, The Roxy....so on and so forth. I spent a great deal of time in Little 5 Points and at different music festivals like Lalapalooza, Lilith Fair, Pot Festival, Jazz Festival...but somehow I missed this. I was just wondering if it was in one of these spots.
@@augustmoon5596 From my research I think I went to one of the free On the Bricks concerts in Centennial Park about 20 years ago to see Sting. It was wonderful!
From an article:
"Atlanta Prepares For ‘On The Bricks’
Billboard Staff
4/24/2002
Rising neo-soul star India.Arie will headline the inaugural show of Atlanta’s 2002 On the Bricks free weekly concert series. Set for May 24 in the city’s Centennial Olympic Park, the bill for the opening event will also feature singer/songwriter John Mayer, modern rock act the Calling, and locally based singer/songwriter Chrystina Lloree.
While the full schedule for the series is not yet announced, many artists who will perform in the park throughout the summer have been confirmed, including Michelle Branch, They Might Be Giants, Cracker, Blues Traveler, Sister Hazel, former Whiskeytown member Caitlin Cary, Will Hoge, the Smithereens, and Edwin McCain."
This song still gives me shivers like 20 years later
I haven't listened to this song in so long. It really brings back some intense feelings.
This song came out about two years after I got out of high school, when I was going through some serious sh*t in my life. It wasn't about abortion for me, but about a dead end relationship that was destroying both of us.
It helped me through it, and helped me move on.
The power of art. "don't forget the songs that saved your life."
That is exactly how I interpreted this song. I was a young teenager when this came out in a messy and toxic relationship with my daughters father.
His feeling in his voice and face makes me cry every time I watch this... But it's my favorite song .. the true and honesty in life is what makes this song perfect.
Ben Folds. One of the greatest storyteller musicians of our generation.
Ben Folds has so many more songs than just Brick. Ever heard his cover of Tiny Dancer?
Look up them on "Live on 54th" I believe its called.
@ivanmay7890 ; Always liked this song, never knew about the Tiny Dancer cover......Until I read your post...... Just now watched.....Thank you
This is one of the most haunting, heart breaking songs ever.
Driving back to her apartment
For the moment we're alone
But she's alone
And I'm alone
And now I know it
That part kills me every time I hear it.
+Kiley Willard He's in a conflict of love... To choose the brick or the woman
pat waddington he's talking about how he fell in love and got her pregnant and had to get an abortion
Yea, not sure what pat is going on about. Who would choose a brick over a woman???
Beautiful, even with that same chord played over and over and no vibrato with his voice. Always have loved this song.
Did you's think I was being serious? :\
I've been in love with this song from the moment it was released. Few others completely capture the pathos of love gone bad; you hear it in this singer's voice --- the flatness is exactly how one feels at their very lowest point. That this group has chosen a subject matter as important as this deserves kudos. There is a lesson that comes through...without being preachy; that takes skill. A simple yet haunting melody...I listen to this song a dozen times in a row, each time falling deeper and deeper into new shades of meaning.
its 6am the day after christmas right now for me.
Australian Army Recruit course Wagga Wagga, N.S.W, Australia 1998. 21St Pl, Delta Coy. The only info we had at that stage was via letters (There was an explosion and Melbourne lost all its gas). Pay phone to call home and that was seldom allowed. About 4 weeks in and the Cpl walked in with a radio in the hallway and all we could get was Triple J. They played this song a few times a day and when I hear this song, it brings back so many memories :)
I've since left the Army. As much as my post is such a nostalgic memory, joining the Army and being exposed to the lack of managers, money and investment in Australian soldiers. I always make sure to tell kids NEVER JOIN THE ARMY. It's just not worth the hassle, money or the realization of how fkd we are next time we go to war..
Damn this song takes you back in time
Musicians can be brave and this is a perfect example.
This song takes me back to winter break in a suburb in Chicago. Mid to late 90s. Shoveling the freaking driveway as fast as I can so I can go back inside and read comics and listen to Q101.
I remember how different this was from every other song on mtv when this came out. I was young but recognized the quality. It is still one of the best songs I’ve ever heard.
So sad and so beautiful. This song always makes me cry
This hits particularly hard today.
This is Ben Folds best song in my opinion. Love how deep it is. A story untold but experienced by so many.
It's one-of-a-kind, honest and brave. Underappreciated. Your last sentence is too true and well stated.
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On another depression nostalgic kick again. Being 45 blows. Take me back to the 90’s.
I feel ya, buddy
We had the best years tho. 🙏
#GenX
Growing old sucks..56 is coming up.Ouch.
2 years later im right there with you at 47. Ugh will anything ever be as good again😢
@@dottieb718 No, nothing will be as good for any kids like that was... BUT, we have this, and we have those times that get recalled when you hear this song. Be proud you made it to 47.
Remembering the time we saved a kid from over dosing at a party we threw the night before, and singing this while going on a road trip to Disney on no sleep and hungover. Just a series of adventures.
Our 90's was eventful, and we were more care free, and loved to socialize.
Kids nowadays have neurosis and scared to talk to each other the way we did.
I really love talking to people in our age bracket, because more than likely they're extremely chill.
Always think of this song at 6am day after Christmas.
sisaggie I woke up at 5:50 day after Christmas for no reason. I figured it was fate.
I wonder why?? Lol but you and i both since i heard this song when i was like 11
Also the counting crowes has a song lyric that goes its 330 am on Tuesday it doesn't get much worse this. In beds in little rooms in buildings in the middle of the lives which are completely meaningless. I seem to think of that when i wake up early on a Tuesday. Bout 330 or so
@@samuelwalkingstick2949 Perfect Blue Buildings. I love every bit of that album!
6 Am, every year on the day after Christmas
0:45 You can hear him sigh. I’m sure that wasn’t intentional, but it’s appropriate, and it’s a lot more impactful as an involuntary action than if it were a creative choice.
It's that time of the year. Back here again
Beautiful absolutely haunting description of pain of loss and the weight of guilt, lies, loss, and grief that I deeply felt when the song was initially released that is now so close to exactly my experiences in 2016 that it’s a little strange for me but oddly comforting. I’ve always loved Ben Folds Five and this makes me want to play the piano again. Thank you
probably one of the greatest songs ever written.
Luv this song!!
In The Know: Ben Folds understandably struggled to write “Brick,” a song about his high school girlfriend’s abortion. With such a delicate experience on his hands, he admitted that the choruses he came up with sounded too literal. Luckily Darren Jessee provided the refrain, “She’s a brick and I’m drowning slowly/ off the coast and I’m headed nowhere” for Folds’ distressed falsetto. Carried by a somber piano melody and underscored by Jessee’s subdued drumming, it manages to sound serene in spite of the emotional turmoil behind each of Folds’ troublesome scenes.
This song is about an abortion? How do you know?
Weird, The Verve Pipe wrote a song about abortion too, both were hits around the same. Wonder if it was the same chick.
Best comment on this list. 👍
Anthony Caputo - I thought it was pretty obvious.
"As weeks went by it showed that she wasn't okay" I always thought this song was about HIV/Aids
Just heard about Ben Folds and looked him up. Man. The 90's woulda been a bit better if I'd known about him then. This is a perfect thing.
I remember hearing the song when I was a kid, and wasn’t really a big fan. Thought it was another dramatic love song. Listening to it now in my 30’s, I never knew how sad and powerful this song is. I’m nearly in tears, such an amazing track.
I heard this song on the radio about 15 years ago, I was at work and I couldn’t here who the artist was or the name of the song. I tried finding it this whole time with some of the lyrics that I vaguely remembered with no luck. Tonight, it came up on my playlist as I was driving home. This is a day of days!!!🎉
Sitting here drowning slowly in my own tears I just lost my wife of 10 years 13 days ago it was all of a sudden and unexplained she did leave me with the best thing I've had in my life so far which is our little 3½ year old boy who is doing more taking care of me than I am taking care of him I still don't know how I'm going to make it but I've got to do it for him
Damn man, I’m sorry. I’m a father of 3 boys. Just keep breathing. And take it a moment at a time. It’s going to be sad for a long time.
Don't worry, life you gives you angels and he's one of them. You will find your footing and the both of you will be okay, trust me, you'll be okay. Don't give up.
Much love brother! I'm here to tell you things will get brother your little son needs you..
I sincerely hope you guys are doing okay. Keep fighting bro.
Quite possibly from the clit shot vakkscene
My favourite Christmas classic!
Great song to listen to when selling your gifts!
I didn't know an abortion was a Christmas classic?!
I think the classic Christmas song was a joke hun
Listening in 2023 ❤️❤️❤️
Still makes me cry. This song hits home. I gave my baby girl to a couple who tried to have a child for 19 years. Her name is Ava. She will be 14 June 5th. I gave birth to her. Two days later, I handed her over. It broke me. But I know I made the right decision. She's happy and healthy. I couldn't give her the life she deserved. She's a constant on my mind 😔❤️
I feel you💗💔💗 I have a similar story to yours, same time too. Sending you loads of love
Do you have any kids of your own now?
@@rollmops3113 thank you so much ❤️ I hope you're doing well. I'm sending lots of love right back to you! Merry Christmas/Happy Holidays 🌟🌟🌟
@@TimmyTickle I do! He's 6 years old ☺️ And the light of my life ❤️ I've been clean and sober for 12 years now. I can be the mom I've always wanted to be!
That's beautiful.❤
Good song, raw emotion and a situation i can relate to😔
Went through this with my girlfriend around the time this came out...still brings me to tears to hear this...
Well you did unalive a baby so it probably should do that
This song breaks my heart.
Ben Folds is way under rated. Amazing artist.
this collection of 90s music hits home for me. A lot of great memories in middle and high school.
It's December 26th the day after Christmas and I somehow got this song stuck in my head so I had to go and listen to it.