THE JEZEBEL SPIRIT (NARCISSISM) CAUSES PEOPLE TO HAVE THESE CHARACTERISTICS

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  • THE JEZEBEL SPIRIT (NARCISSISM) CAUSES PEOPLE TO HAVE THESE CHARACTERISTICS
    Jezebel Spirit
    - Controlling (the voices tell them that their decisions are the best and they can’t trust you or others - they feel if they control other people then they will never be hurt again)
    - Manipulative (they will guilt you to do what they want - you know if you don’t watch my child so I can go out to an event then I will have to leave them with my neighbor who is not a Christian and they could get hurt)
    - Charming
    - Cunning / Scheming
    - Anxious / Fearful
    - Very Jealous
    - Prideful
    - Plays the role of a victim to make you feel sorry for them
    - Blames you for all of their irrational behavior as they hate to take responsibility for themselves
    - Angry when you are happy
    - Demanding
    - Defiant
    - Selfish
    - Sexually impure & selfish and will control their spouse if they don’t do what they want through cutting them off
    - Push their victims to have sex before marriage
    - So either a lot of sex or none but never true intimacy and love
    - Master Liar and half truths
    - Desire for power and leadership
    - Wants to shut down true Holy Spirit
    - More dominant
    - No empathy for their victims
    - Job instability
    - Mock you and make fun of you, belittle you
    - Intimidates / threatens
    - Isolate you from family and friends so they can control you better
    - Do not like to be inconvenienced
    - Do not like to share
    - Ruin holidays and birthdays and anniversaries
    - Rebellious
    - Suspicious of your intentions / paranoid
    - Especially Critical / Judgmental
    - Show contempt & disrespect
    - Speak ambiguously so they can deny what they said or wanted and never take responsibility
    - They can cuss at their victims in private while acting godly to the public as their image of appearing godly is everything
    - They take offense easily / hypersensitive and offend people often
    - They accuse you of doing what they actually do
    - Will overtalk you so you can’t talk and talk for hours to wear you down so they will get their way
    - Argue about petty things
    - Rarely ever admit they are wrong or apologize
    - Especially target leaders of ministries or churches to discredit and lie about them to hurt their ministries
    - Compete with their own children
    - Exaggerates everything
    - Cannot stand it when plans change at the last minute because they cannot control
    - Great at acting like they are the victim to get people to sympathize with them over their true victims and will use social media and have private conversations to gain support and get people to believe lies about their godly victim
    - Talk often about exaggerated grandiose future plans that never happen
    - Gossip and spread rumors against their victims
    - They need constant validation because of their insecurities
    - Will compete against their own spouse on most things to try to defeat them
    - They act assured but are very insecure
    - They act sweet and innocent but it’s fake as they are mean and bully their victims behind closed doors
    - Cannot stand to be told no
    - They feel like they are your personal policeman and will report on you if you don’t do what they think you should do
    - Always have drama in their lives and blames others but want sympathy
    - Demand you do whatever they tell you
    - Loves to provoke people until they get them angry and then blame them when their victims can no longer stand it and say things back to them in exasperation
    - Can’t stand it if other people love you more than them
    - Craves attention and adoration
    - Enjoy starting arguments as they never want anyone to have peace
    - Will continue to repeat their version of a story over and over to convince people their lies are truth
    - Women will pursue men aggressively
    - Constant chatter from the enemy in their mind causing them to operate in fear
    - Overly concerned with their physical appearance - in love with themselves - love to be adored and praised - women often wear a lot of makeup to seduce men to like them and get them to do what they want
    - Very secretive to cover up their lies
    - Hate to be rejected because they were often rejected when growing up
    - Want you to spend lots of $ on them and believe they deserve the best. Often need $ and drains their victims of $
    - Love to portray their lives on social media as perfect but also try to get sympathy from people so they can get people to feel sorry for them and give them $
    - They tell you to do something but get mad at you
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Комментарии • 398

  • @I-Am-Prospering-I-Am-Grateful
    @I-Am-Prospering-I-Am-Grateful 2 месяца назад +283

    Narcissist = your pain is their joy, your joy is their pain.

    • @Rachel-i2q
      @Rachel-i2q 2 месяца назад +16

      They seem to thrive off causing you pain

    • @mrknoklene
      @mrknoklene 2 месяца назад +4

      Like Squidward Tentacles to Spongebob

    • @Homelessheartbeat
      @Homelessheartbeat 2 месяца назад

      Thank you I needed this

    • @PhoenixRising251
      @PhoenixRising251 2 месяца назад +3

      Sweet Jesus! I'm gonna remember that one! 💯

    • @phoenixrisin2269
      @phoenixrisin2269 Месяц назад

      Schadenfreude

  • @user-si8gd4ih8g
    @user-si8gd4ih8g 2 месяца назад +332

    I just want to point out victims of narcissistic abuse can also suffer from job instability, being suspicious of people's intentions and paranoias.

    • @jesusreturning3003
      @jesusreturning3003 2 месяца назад +44

      Sometimes...but also don't forget, God also uses these fiery trials to sharpen ur discernment... if ur seeking healing, then u will be more the wiser when u come across narcissistic ppl, and God did say narcissism will be on the rise in these last days.. if a person is not seeking healing then yes if they come across a geniune person they may even get suspicious with them too, but its an individual thing, thats why u need to be careful ur not gaslighting victims too, which is what narcissists do too, ur comment is too broad, and u can not stereotype..
      I can say now looking back I was mostly right about ppl in my journey, most had cold hearts, selfish, had hidden motives, practised witchcraft..but, i always gave ppl the benefit of the doubt, but when God exposed their true colours I would keep a note of it and keep a healthy distance, the enemy can not hide behind a mask forever so soon enough they begin to manifest in these ppl, and usually if u where prayerful and paying attention at the signs, by the time this happens u know to shut the door on them, God reveals everyone and their intentions...sometimes that person might be on a healing journey and u need to keep a healthy distance and pray for them, sometimes u will come to a point you have to shut the door on them and just pray for them to get healed and saved.. its a personal walk with God..but what God has shown me, in these last days, this Jezebel spirit will be on the rise, and God will not tolerate her, he puts her on a bed of suffering... this is why u see in this generation the very thing God prophesied, that ppls hearts will wax cold, there will be no natural affection, ppl will be lovers of themselves, and the list goes on...so pray for ur enemies, and not all victims are paranoid, many have sharp discernment, there is a huge difference, thats why u take everyone up in prayer, let God reveal them in his timing, have healthy boundaries etc..

    • @Rachel-i2q
      @Rachel-i2q 2 месяца назад +19

      That's because of the trauma they have been put through

    • @Rachel-i2q
      @Rachel-i2q 2 месяца назад +14

      Trauma response

    • @karenzilverberg4699
      @karenzilverberg4699 2 месяца назад +17

      The narcissist will have red flags that a wounded person will not have.

    • @user-kv9gs8kb6m
      @user-kv9gs8kb6m 2 месяца назад +17

      It's called reactive abuse.

  • @saluma1447
    @saluma1447 Месяц назад +90

    U forgot to mention: They want to be served as if they were a King or a Queen

  • @preacherbarbie
    @preacherbarbie Месяц назад +19

    The only thing you can do with an unrepentant Narcissist is to leave them and Never turn back. Matthew 10:14🙏

  • @sandraleehurst7350
    @sandraleehurst7350 2 месяца назад +96

    My divorce from a covert narcissist was final yesterday, after 31 yrs 🎉❤

    • @Miamoreemina
      @Miamoreemina 2 месяца назад

      Wow! That's a long time! I'm currently going thru a divorce from one! I'll keep you in my prayers

    • @reneerenee6166
      @reneerenee6166 Месяц назад +8

      God says He hates divorce but He hates abuse of any kind even more. Congratulations on your freedom.

    • @aliciagutierrez8696
      @aliciagutierrez8696 Месяц назад +5

      Congrats 😊😊😊

    • @longcarla8393
      @longcarla8393 Месяц назад +5

      Congratulations im getting mine next month….after 24 years ‼️🎉

    • @alfredochicken5150
      @alfredochicken5150 Месяц назад +1

      💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

  • @angelicab3528
    @angelicab3528 2 месяца назад +24

    That’s why it’s very important to go God before you date anyone! I was in a narcissistic relationship for 9 yrs . That spirit fell upon my daughter and it was a learned behavior! She was 8 when i entered that relationship and now she’s 18 and she saw that abuse done to me ! So she’s picked up on it ! Please anyone , If you are reading this and involved with someone like this - please seek God in prayer and he will show you a way out ! I’ve been out of it for 3 yrs now and now I’m healing from it !

  • @mr.melontoyou
    @mr.melontoyou 2 месяца назад +19

    I was blamed for everything!!!!!!!!!! Everything was my fault!!!! 🤦🏽‍♀️ everything! The over talking, i was never allowed to speak, the level of control was extremely frightening.

  • @-xyz-012
    @-xyz-012 Месяц назад +33

    Due to being raised by a narcissistic mother, I often said and still do say; “Do I have to wait till you die so I can live?” Now she’s old and in my care, and she’s just gotten worse as she’s aged. 😢

  • @mtc-j9i
    @mtc-j9i 2 месяца назад +64

    You listed it ALL. I was raised by one and then married another. I didn’t realize they had the same issues until they teamed up against me when I filed for divorce. They tried to destroy me. Mask off. To this day my ex husband and mother are besties 😂. It’s bizarre. They will never repent. They don’t believe they’re ever wrong. In fact, they’re victims because I think they’re bad people.

    • @catherinecastle8576
      @catherinecastle8576 2 месяца назад +6

      Im.so sorry that jad to be pn your path, but oh how I relate. In my case it's my only child and my mother. It took me awhile to figure it out. No, that's not true. I knew, I just didn't want to see it. I paid for my blindness with my health. But that is in the past and I Iook to the future and the return of Jesus.

    • @tashaetoile2887
      @tashaetoile2887 2 месяца назад +4

      I was raised my a narc mom and I dated a narc too for 4 years!!! Didn’t realize it until after that they shared the same exact traits / spirit! Shows up differently in men and women too

    • @tashaetoile2887
      @tashaetoile2887 2 месяца назад

      @@catherinecastle8576me too 😭 only child raised by a narc mom. So rough. 🫂

    • @jenniferbloh-michael8662
      @jenniferbloh-michael8662 Месяц назад +1

      @@tashaetoile2887 but equally as sucky.

    • @brianadams6628
      @brianadams6628 Месяц назад

      @@mtc-j9i When Christ was crucified, Herod and Pilate became friends on the same Day.

  • @Diamond_Voice_012
    @Diamond_Voice_012 7 дней назад +3

    That’s crazy. I thought the Jezebel spirit had to do with women only like acting whorish, dressing whorish, etc. to attract men. But it’s actually a narcissist. Wow, God opened my eyes.

  • @markhottman2652
    @markhottman2652 Месяц назад +9

    Be VERY CAREFUL around these people.

  • @scorpiosol6234
    @scorpiosol6234 2 месяца назад +75

    I told my narcissist sister that she had a demonic spirit in her and she flipped out, hung up the phone and has never spoken to me again. She also verbally abused me on all social media so I had to block her on everything including phone and email. It’s a very difficult situation now because our parents are elderly and not doing well. 🙏🏻

    • @texaslovelylady
      @texaslovelylady 2 месяца назад

      @@scorpiosol6234 I understand your pain. I am so sorry for what we have been through with "family". 🫂 I find myself agreeing more and more with Jesus Christ my family are those who do the will of my Father.

    • @thesaint3976
      @thesaint3976 2 месяца назад +3

      Sorry to hear that dude.

    • @Dukesparty
      @Dukesparty 2 месяца назад +7

      Sounds like the same scenario with my sister.

    • @upshikagatlewar9807
      @upshikagatlewar9807 2 месяца назад +4

      Why would you do that? 😅 Be careful, she's gonna be vengeful.

    •  Месяц назад +3

      My narc sister became a full demon along with my brother and they hired a lawyer and frivolously sued me. There is something wrong with these people that they feel the need to be ever so powerful, even to lie to everyone and cause harm to carry out their petty vengance on percieved slights that are actually their inability to accept the truth

  • @artwithmamafairybreadd
    @artwithmamafairybreadd Месяц назад +15

    They accuse you of what they already do….this is my narc mum. She’s a pathological liar, her lies are disgusting…but she’s for some reason obsessed with trying to catch people out lying….it’s sick.

    • @anng.4542
      @anng.4542 Месяц назад +4

      They watch carefully for your tiniest flaws, which become weapons to be used against you.

  • @EyesFromAbove73
    @EyesFromAbove73 2 месяца назад +68

    They will be drowning in blood of Jesus they come around me. I fear no one but god🙏🏾

    • @davidlafleche1142
      @davidlafleche1142 2 месяца назад +2

      Yes, but people like that still get on my nerves.

  • @chrisqualls129
    @chrisqualls129 Месяц назад +9

    They also turn all they're bad words and actions on you like you did all the wrong. Very frustrating...

  • @MisterJ.J.
    @MisterJ.J. 2 месяца назад +41

    Uh-oh! I have a bunch of these bad tendancies. I may be a narcissist. I need to change for others so I treat them significantly better. God please help me and especially the innocent people whom I have treated badly. 🙏

    • @zoranpopovic7563
      @zoranpopovic7563 2 месяца назад +7

      Often the victim becomes the perpetrator,
      Learned behaviour
      Do it for yourself and others will benefit
      Trust GOD

    • @MisterJ.J.
      @MisterJ.J. 2 месяца назад

      @@zoranpopovic7563 thanks

    • @lunalongshadow7510
      @lunalongshadow7510 2 месяца назад +10

      I heard awhile ago from a professional psychiatrist that if we’re questioning if we’re narcissistic and looking at whether or not we have narcissistic tendencies or not and are aware of them, it tends to mean that we in fact are not Narcs :) even if you get diagnosed with something like that, you can get a second opinion :)

    • @rickspalding3047
      @rickspalding3047 2 месяца назад +5

      IMO you could label almost everyone a narcissist. There's different degrees and it tends to be the extremes that society doesn't care for. Say in politics, many think christian nationalism is extreme. The generations change, for better or worse, I'd say the reason political approval of politicians is so low is because of malaise and moral decline. I only say all this because not just narcissism, but all bad traits imo may be increasing over time in civilizations.

    • @rickspalding3047
      @rickspalding3047 Месяц назад +4

      ​@@DG-EditsYT You can ask Jesus for wisdom and correction

  • @IndraYule
    @IndraYule Месяц назад +18

    That's alot of good information packed into 3.5 minutes bro

  • @2cats24GOD
    @2cats24GOD 2 месяца назад +73

    I have lived through all of what you described, every bit of it. Both parents were extremely narcissistic. I grew up invisible and with a deep seeded need to please people. My addiction of choice is/was codependency. And like a moth to light, you are drawn to what you know. I call it generational sin. Married for 32 years, together for 27, and within the first three years I realized that I had stepped from the frying pan into the fire. Yet I stayed because it was what I knew. Every description of narcissism that you describe in this video is what I lived through. During our five years of separation I went into intensive Christian therapy and joined a Christian based twelve step program. I am not sure I would have survived if not for God's hand intervening. Divorced 14 years now and the trauma is still hard to shake off on certain days. Oh, and both of our daughters married narcissists and now both are going through a divorce. The upside is that neither ever had children of their own, so the curse stops with them. My older daughter just the other day said to me, "You married your father, Mom, and I married my Dad." I couldn't disagree with her at all, for that was a recognition of truth. A wonderfully bright point is that both of my parents accepted Christ in their later years and they changed, they really did. I forgave both and had several years of knowing love with both of them before they passed. The scary thing is that I lost a brother, who was a narcissistic pastor, to covid in 2022. He used his position to manipulate, belittle and chastise people from all walks of life, including his own family, all the while professing to be preaching God's love, yet all the while claiming that he was more knowledgeable than everyone else about God's standards. He was a modern day Pharisee. I try not to think about him too much. It rends my heart terribly. And I have had to distant myself from my sister, because her narcissistic tendencies have reared their ugly heads, once too often for my blood, since our parents and brother passed and I am quick to retreat these days from any interaction with a person openly showing narcissism.
    It has been a tough road.
    I am so very greatful that God the Father, Christ Jesus the Son and the Holy Spirit have freed me and my daughters from the hold of this generational sin and have been with us every step of the way. 🙏✝️🕊❤

    • @aleah4610
      @aleah4610 2 месяца назад +14

      Thank you for your testimony and keep going✝️💪🙏👏

    • @sandrathomas2893
      @sandrathomas2893 2 месяца назад +7

      " modern day Pharisees" 💥

    • @2cats24GOD
      @2cats24GOD 2 месяца назад

      @@sandrathomas2893 ...it breaks my heart daily. 💔😥

    • @sandrathomas2893
      @sandrathomas2893 2 месяца назад +4

      One parent was destroyed by the narcissist. A narcissist won't marry another narcissist; no supply there.

    • @serenityh.
      @serenityh. 2 месяца назад +3

      I’m so sorry that you had to go through those unfortunate situations and circumstances in life, but I’m grateful that the Lord delivered you and your daughters from them. May God bless you and your loved ones.

  • @andersonnguyen2571
    @andersonnguyen2571 Месяц назад +6

    Every single trait. EVERY SINGLE statement. Lord help me

  • @Jehucurliss2kings
    @Jehucurliss2kings 2 месяца назад +13

    Yashua said don't tolerate that woman ( spirit) Jezebel. Rev 2:20
    Jehu knew how to take care of her 2 Kings 9:33.

  • @dennisryan6370
    @dennisryan6370 2 месяца назад +24

    And on top of all that...THEY STINK 😭

    • @WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd
      @WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd 2 месяца назад +12

      TRUTH! They smell like a moldy mildewy basement mixed with metal and 💩... Or, at least that's how the one I was married to smelled. No matter how much he showered, the stench never left.

    • @4Mikes4Mindset4
      @4Mikes4Mindset4 Месяц назад

      ​@@WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pdsulphur? 👿. Burnt pennies was my recent family demon battle smell

    • @chwayitametele1873
      @chwayitametele1873 Месяц назад

      Why is that though?​@@WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd

  • @mikepowell5094
    @mikepowell5094 Месяц назад +10

    Mine lied all the time. Bring up things from years ago and start an argument. Loved drama. I got rid of her and now there's peace

  • @monabarber2335
    @monabarber2335 2 месяца назад +23

    Wow That is by Far the best most accurate description of these Demon possessed Entities! Thx !

  • @funkymonk542
    @funkymonk542 Месяц назад +7

    And one of the saddest things about them is that some are totally unconscious of their behaviors, you would think after jumping from person to person like fleas they would slow down and self reflect and seek help but no they see no wrong doing , so sad their life

    • @userbev895czx
      @userbev895czx Месяц назад +3

      Unconscious?????not at all . They know what they are doing . They just think that is right and dont wanna change , just like a psychopath.

  • @lisaleone5128
    @lisaleone5128 8 часов назад +1

    I am in a contentous situation with someone who exhibits these qualities. They're a liar through and through. They are currently burning every bridge and destroying their family relationships.

  • @emilysnyder4857
    @emilysnyder4857 2 месяца назад +10

    I've been battling this for years. I'm broken and weary. Need healing of body, mind and soul.

  • @PhoenixCat72
    @PhoenixCat72 2 месяца назад +14

    TRUTH!!! My Mom used to either ruin or attempt to ruin my birthday. It was crazy!

  • @ChildofLightOfficial
    @ChildofLightOfficial Месяц назад +5

    Spot on! And very bitter and unforgiving hold everything against you

  • @DJBenito304
    @DJBenito304 Месяц назад +4

    This was the best most upfront description of narcissism I’ve ever heard from anyone including psychologists and psychiatrists this was spot on

  • @letsgetrealpeople
    @letsgetrealpeople 10 дней назад +1

    I have seen Jezebel and Ahab spirits that came in through trauma change through fasting, prayer, and deliverance. It takes lots and lots of persistence. Years and years even.

  • @angelbeautiful891
    @angelbeautiful891 7 часов назад +1

    Another big thing, a narcissist will talk about how their ex abused them and their ex is a narcissist. Making you feel sorry for them, when really you realize years later it was them that was the narcissist. And dont forget gas lighting! Making you feel like you are remembering something wrong when you know you have it right. Ugh I attract narcissists

  • @rhondakoski2948
    @rhondakoski2948 Месяц назад +2

    Sounds like you're describing my whole family and most of the people I've known in my life.

  • @msp5298
    @msp5298 2 месяца назад +18

    I think some Christian communities are extremely dangerous, from what I have experienced. I grew up in abuse, and wanted to better my life and improve my situation. Unfortunately, the Christian family around me saw this as being a Jezebel and attacked my character, smeared me to others, caused workplace bullying through gossip and smear, and continued to interfere in an potential relationship and friendships I had. I lost everything, financially, jobs, friends, family relationships. I’m now hurt, trying to heal but feel hopeless at times, I’ve become paranoid, negative, unfulfilled at workplaces, all due to what the Christian community put me through. So, no thanks. Perhaps consider healing the Christian community first.

    • @NelsonSchuman
      @NelsonSchuman  2 месяца назад +6

      So sorry yet so true. So many Christians need deliverance from demons and have hurt so many people and do not go to heaven. Our ministry is to the Christian community to try and get them delivered because they all need it.

    • @firstlastname84
      @firstlastname84 2 месяца назад +4

      That's why reading the Bible is extremely important. Jesus showed kindness to sinners. And he was very harsh with the Pharisees. Wicked people are easy to point out so there's no real threat. You just know to avoid them. It is the ones who appear as sheep but are wolves that can waste years of your time and pull someone from the faith. It's satanic and demonic because it's so deceptive. We are called to test them by their fruits.

    • @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484
      @theworkplaceabuseexperts9484 Месяц назад +2

      There is a difference between the " Church clubby" community and the teachings of JESUS CHRIST. ILL TRY TO MAKE A VIDEO ON MY CHANNEL TO ADDRESS THIS.

  • @salomierathbone2925
    @salomierathbone2925 22 дня назад +1

    They look down at you, think they are better than anyone. You constantly have to walk on eggshells and be as quiet as a mouse. They cannot stand noise they have dark eyes and do things behind closed doors all the time. They take your things and lock it away and hide the keys! Are also hoarding all sorts of things, messy and dirty🙈🙈😭

  • @bonnieinthespirit6373
    @bonnieinthespirit6373 21 день назад +1

    Direct HIT. ‘. That’s it folks. Time to trust god, find your joy in the lord gid thy savior get set free. Right now. Let that spirit go. Bind the enemy from yourself from you home, walk in god peace if his peace cannot rest on the home, speak to entrances of the home! You’re not allowed across this threshold . In JESUS . Amen . I receive my healing. My heart my eyes my ears be guarded against any n all that’s not of gid. Amen. 🎉🎉🎉 celebrate Jesus break the chains off you. In Jesus name lift up those holy hands Psl 45

  • @salauerman7082
    @salauerman7082 2 месяца назад +6

    I’m amazed how accurately you described a sibling…!

  • @LatoyaNatural
    @LatoyaNatural Месяц назад +2

    I've always seen women speak of this rarely a man speaking about the women as well.... thank you for sharing it's so important many are unaware of these very dangerous, manipulative people

  • @Rachel-i2q
    @Rachel-i2q 2 месяца назад +10

    I'm in the process of divorcing one only to have walked almost into the arms of another, must be something wrong with me. He certainly ruined my last birthday and the one before and before!!! Charmers that manipulate and control

  • @limfenyuykinyuy4861
    @limfenyuykinyuy4861 Месяц назад

    Wow! Amazing to hear narcissm can be healed.
    I have been following doctors and experts in NPD and they all said it has no cure.
    Thank God! This is such a relief hearing this.

  • @TheArtofBeingAChosenOne
    @TheArtofBeingAChosenOne Месяц назад +3

    3:14 You got just about characteristic, that's amazing!!!

  • @shadygrove316
    @shadygrove316 2 месяца назад +12

    Man o Man... you hit the nail on the head!!!!!!

  • @jada3956
    @jada3956 2 месяца назад +4

    I witness all of this all my life from my mom, dad, grandmother, brothers, aunt, uncle and recently broke up with my boyfriend ( now my ex) after trying so many times of on/off with him. I finally got tried and said its over, he hunged the phone up in my face and left me. I encounter these attacks from random people also. It just feels like the devil id sending spirits to destory me all because i wont give in to him or his agenda. I stand with Christ and he hate that alot from me. So im slowly recovering from the absue i have been facing by attending therapy( online) and maybe attend recovery from abuse facilities in person but im still searching. It hard to do good when you got the enemy after you constantly everyday. Its enough to make you wanna go insane. I just ask for prayer for difficult moments im currently facing.😔

  • @TheRoxanaTijssen
    @TheRoxanaTijssen Месяц назад +5

    Exactly like this was my ex. I hope the son what I have together with him, have my character and not his. 🙏🏻

  • @monroealie4030
    @monroealie4030 2 месяца назад +9

    Sir, you speak of someone i know, to the bone. WOW!

  • @cetriemmmmm7177
    @cetriemmmmm7177 Месяц назад +2

    My ex had every single "quality" you have mentioned. Demonic 100%

  • @flowercolourful4718
    @flowercolourful4718 2 месяца назад +7

    I had such a hard hard time with my ex-asst cell leader. She was a religious malignant covert narcissist. She really suffocated me.

  • @SweetMommaGanj4u
    @SweetMommaGanj4u 2 месяца назад +4

    The jezebel demon tried real hard to break my marriage apart.

  • @13RafaEl777
    @13RafaEl777 2 месяца назад +7

    Thank you for the testimony. It gives hope and brings peace of mind. It also helps to keep peace inside if they dont repent. Because it clarifies the situation by drawing a clear boundry line - they have a chance and they have a choice; it is their task and responsibility, not ours. The Spirit in your message removed the burden of false responsibility. Thank you.
    Also, I want to add - that the features you mention do not always go together. Some people from this group can be covert narcissists, some overt narcissists, etc. Not every narcissist has no stability in the matter of work, etc.
    Also - in the results of narcissistic abuse you can deal with things in your life which resemble these people.
    I hope it will be helpful for someone.

  • @LisaLisa-fm2fx
    @LisaLisa-fm2fx Месяц назад +1

    I appreciate your clear and precise description. I think you did a great job in this video!!!!

  • @MacariaGoldstein
    @MacariaGoldstein Месяц назад +2

    My mother lives with my sister and accuses her of abusing her when she is the abuser, always has been but she is kind to strangers, she is getting worst as she is aging, I don't know if my sister will be able to handle her, she has two cats in a closet, she takes care of them but doesn't see that as cruel, brings cat food and fixes their meals on kitchen counter and cat litter box in the kitchen or dining room, has lost all concept of basic hygiene. Had more than five husbands also.

  • @ManfredFechter-kc7iy
    @ManfredFechter-kc7iy 25 дней назад

    Uoohhh...
    I had to stop at 0.47. Too much facts! My mother, sister, neighbour, etc...i didn't know WHAT they were, often acting like you said, also in church, i only knew something was VERY wrong...
    Thank God i finally found out!
    And thank YOU, sir, for getting on point in literally SECONDS.
    God bless!

  • @valenciawalker6498
    @valenciawalker6498 2 месяца назад +11

    This is spot on 🙏🏽✝️💯God Bless 🕊️

  • @JennyBre-cb2tf
    @JennyBre-cb2tf 2 месяца назад +22

    Sounds like all sinners, Jesus is the answer 🙏

    • @gwichin_girl907
      @gwichin_girl907 2 месяца назад +4

      awareness is still important

    • @americawaters4257
      @americawaters4257 2 месяца назад

      No. We all sin and even an unbeliever can have a heart and compassion. These people are insidious. They knowingly destroy anything good. They are devoted to destruction.

    • @americawaters4257
      @americawaters4257 2 месяца назад +1

      @@chellotrevino7323 OK boss. 👍

    • @americawaters4257
      @americawaters4257 2 месяца назад +2

      @@chellotrevino7323 😂 Billy badass 😆

  • @anng.4542
    @anng.4542 Месяц назад +3

    Such a person lives in the shared house where I now live. In physical form, she actually resembles those small Neolithic idols that are sometimes found at archaeological excavation sites in Europe and the Middle East. It never occured to me that such people would ever seek out deliverance ministry for this affliction.

  • @cayotelives
    @cayotelives Месяц назад +1

    Your points character nailed it. What's shocking they attack the vulnerable ones andthey play victim

  • @hey-ui4ik
    @hey-ui4ik 2 месяца назад +2

    Narcissists will also gp waaaaayyy out of there way to make sure people cant move on and prevent them from getting married again and will say things like "you have to do this in order to be let back in again".

  • @empressowl2817
    @empressowl2817 2 месяца назад +4

    I have 3 children with a Narc and it’s been hell trying to co parent with them

  • @stephenienoel106
    @stephenienoel106 Месяц назад +5

    Im being terrorized by my mother. Im near death and i know demons are everywhere. I have repented my sins. I believe in Jesus. Why cant he get her away from me and restore my health and my years. I have a good heart
    I had a soul. I dont want to die. Especially with this level of evil around me

    • @rochelletheriault650
      @rochelletheriault650 Месяц назад +1

      Get support from professionals and support groups

    • @erinsuzy613
      @erinsuzy613 Месяц назад +2

      Pray while visualizing you are surrounded with the whitest light of God. Prayer works! I know you can do it ❤ I'll pray for you too

    • @stephenienoel106
      @stephenienoel106 Месяц назад +3

      @erinsuzy613 thank you so much. Your praying for me means the world too♡

    • @terrydyer2490
      @terrydyer2490 Месяц назад +2

      PLEASE Get Away from her.... If you really feel your life is in danger and feel like she is killing you.. She REALLY IS... My evil narcissistic demon daughter stressed out my husband, her father so bad that he did die... I'm 💯 % positive that she killed him. 😢 I've been destroyed beyond repair. I hope you can get far, far away from her. ASAP. PRAYING FOR YOU 🙏 🙏

    • @stephenienoel106
      @stephenienoel106 Месяц назад +3

      @terrydyer2490 I'm so sick, there's nowhere for me to go. I'm so sorry about your husband. Can I ask? How do you think your daughter became a narcissist? Did she have trauma? Was she put on a pedestal? I'm not asking to badger you, I've just never talked to a parent of a narcissist before. I'd like to know that side of the coin, please

  • @lettyv3098
    @lettyv3098 Месяц назад +3

    This is so unbelievable true 😫😩 I’ve been deleting with someone with this exact person

  • @deidraannemartinebates1602
    @deidraannemartinebates1602 2 месяца назад +6

    You just perfectly described a senior pastor here in Summerfield Florida.

  • @rickspalding3047
    @rickspalding3047 2 месяца назад +2

    I worked with someone like this, I tried making things copasetic, spelling. Did not work, I left the job. These types make work unenjoyable

  • @andreatocknell593
    @andreatocknell593 Месяц назад +1

    My mom, ex husband and my current partner.
    Not only do they need deliverance but I do too. I no longer wish to attract these types and the damage has caused me to become self destructive

  • @robertjstrand
    @robertjstrand 2 месяца назад +4

    Good teaching. I had a succubus attached too me forever took awhile for God to deliver me from it. Was defiling me while I was praying in my secret place. Now I have have some anger to deal with when people yell at me while im biking and listening to Jesus music. Hard to ignore them I guess I should pray for them instead and get hot coals heaped on them.

  • @Kairos-001
    @Kairos-001 Месяц назад +1

    My wife has grown into this more, like her mom. Sweet and lovely in public but don’t cross her in private. I have had to rebuke my want to defend myself as this fuels it more!
    She will not change because she doesn’t lie, is smart and like the video will say I’m leviathan. I’m trying to leave as you can’t deal with it without change.

  • @staciamiller1896
    @staciamiller1896 Месяц назад +1

    I’m very very familiar with
    A very very very difficult life to endure
    I’m healing from a long time relationship with this person

  • @nathanielankum8623
    @nathanielankum8623 22 дня назад +1

    Blocked them 👿 we cancelled void rebuke stopped.i pled the blood of Jesus Christ 🙏

  • @marysullivan7440
    @marysullivan7440 Месяц назад +3

    You nailed it… lived through it but free now

  • @nathanielankum8623
    @nathanielankum8623 Месяц назад

    It's prohibited 🚫 on this platform .I decree and declare

  • @customerservicetrainer3175
    @customerservicetrainer3175 Месяц назад +2

    Amen this clip is 1000%
    Correct 👍

  • @Div.Eftoski
    @Div.Eftoski Месяц назад +2

    ❤. Nice job

  • @alaynjones2209
    @alaynjones2209 2 месяца назад +3

    Honestly I admire your approach with addressing these

  • @terrydyer2490
    @terrydyer2490 Месяц назад +1

    WOW, this is one of the best videos explaining a narcissist. This is just a part of my long nightmare. My husband and I were mentally and verbally abused by our evil narcissistic demon of an adult daughter, For years. It got so bad that the stress cause an emotional breakdown for my husband, One day he started crying uncontrollably with him gasping for air ( this is a guy that never cried because of his upbringing of men don't cry ) He was asking what he did wrong on raising her to be so evil then he collapsed and took his last breath 4 years and 8 months ago. She always had anger issues since she was a teen, but we chopped it up as just being a teen and hormons since she seemed to be a very well-rounded person overall. We noticed the changes in her as she got older and thought she was bipolar. But it was too late for us to get her help because she was over 18. She wouldn't amit that she has mental problems and get help. By the time I learned about narcissism, it was too late. The trauma damage was already done. In those horrible years of walking on eggshells, she had us under her control because she was kicked out of her ex-husband's home for stepping out on him and the trauma she caused. She ended back with us because she was homeless and 3 months pregnant with another's man child. So, of course, we took her in. She was lying from the start, telling us her marriage failed because he was abusing her physically. I know different now. We tried to help her, going through her pregnancy and the birth, then she couldn't handle being a mother. She wouldn't do what a mother should do and we ended up raising our grandson until he was 6 years old.
    She hunted down for a new supply because my husband became disabled and we couldn't give her a free ride anymore. We asked her to start paying her own way because if she didn't we would end up homeless. That pissed her off, and she really got bad. She finally found a nieve 24 year old guy, 6 years younger than her, Within 3 months, she manipulated and lied to him and they moved in together. Then she trapped him by getting pregnant. My husband I ended up homeless with her stalking us and still messing with our heads using our grandson against us. Then my husband died. She destroyed me beyond repair. I have been abandoned by everyone,... She made sure of that with her lies.. I went no contact but it is slowly killing me from the inside out. I can't have a relationship with my grandson. I can't function anymore. I'm the one who is at fault somehow. And you know what.. I'm starting to believe I must be. I'm just a failure and a lost cause.. I can not heal . It hurts so much. I'm so tired of trying. I just want to die.

    • @tonyg5693
      @tonyg5693 Месяц назад

      I’m sorry that you have gone through all of this. It’s not your fault. It never is when you try to help and care. I’ve gone through similar situations (not to the magnitude of yours), and this scripture helps me a lot.
      Jesus is faithful.❤
      “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”
      Matthew 11:28-30

  • @topenoel1931
    @topenoel1931 Месяц назад +1

    Wow. You are describing someone I used to know exactly!

  • @keirachirello9195
    @keirachirello9195 Месяц назад

    Everything said in video and comments are true! Thanks for posting

  • @Diamond_Voice_012
    @Diamond_Voice_012 7 дней назад

    I’m trynna figure out why I encountered these types of ppl with this spirit a lot in my life whether friends, family, and romantic relationship, or coworkers. I’m a believer of Jesus Christ and do my best to follow Him. I’ve fallen short many times. I feel like since I have a light in me and I follow God the best way I can. Satan sends his agents to try to destroy me. It has worked in the past, but no longer will because I have stronger discernment since I’ve been hurt by these type of ppl in the past. God worked it out for me. And now I avoid these types of ppl the best I can.

  • @brianadams6628
    @brianadams6628 Месяц назад +2

    My stepmother destroyed every relationship on my Father's side of my family. She is a master manipulator & perveyor of false guilt. She's been Like this for decades and now she's old and still evil in my opinion. She was caught beating my helpless Father while he was on his deathbed. She should have been put in prison for that but she got away with it. Pure-👺👹👿

    • @NelsonSchuman
      @NelsonSchuman  Месяц назад

      @@brianadams6628 so horrible and demonic!

  • @saluma1447
    @saluma1447 Месяц назад +4

    If they could ever repent about all the things they do

  • @monabarber2335
    @monabarber2335 Месяц назад +1

    I got Your Book 📕 and it’s really Eye Opening! Thx 🙏

  • @LoraBorys
    @LoraBorys 2 месяца назад +3

    Im not for sure if my sister is a narcissist. And she is "A CONTROL FREAK" I care about her and I know shes lonely and has back problems. I cant take feeling like a guest in my own home. I feel guilty for wanting to move. I dont think she'll change. She wont admit to being wrong

  • @Roosh72
    @Roosh72 2 месяца назад +2

    💯 correct.. I will always pray for them but it’s sooo tragic..

  • @stever507
    @stever507 2 месяца назад +3

    My boss is a Jezebel spirit . I believe her hormones are all screwed up. She is very charismatic and charming but seen her mask come off. I just pray for her and try to stay out of her way

  • @user-kd8hq9wp3h
    @user-kd8hq9wp3h 2 месяца назад +6

    BIG FACTS REPOST!💅🏽💯✨️✨️

  • @theartzscientist8012
    @theartzscientist8012 2 месяца назад +9

    Anyone who lacks integrity is a narcissist.

  • @Bet920
    @Bet920 Месяц назад

    Please pray for me. We have to admit my mother to a nursing home and she is a raging narcissist. I am afraid of her and I need God to intervene.

  • @user-gb8jd5xe1w
    @user-gb8jd5xe1w Месяц назад +2

    Yes that’s what a narcissist do my baby daddy was a narcissist we argue over petty stuff

  • @TRdoFbS
    @TRdoFbS 2 месяца назад +1

    Exactly, Thank you!!! Best, succinct, to the point description I have seen so far!! 🎯🎯🎰 ❤

  • @OptimisticSaturnPlanet-yz8mc
    @OptimisticSaturnPlanet-yz8mc Месяц назад +2

    THANK YOU!!! 😊🙏🏽

  • @floydblack7696
    @floydblack7696 Месяц назад +1

    Fantastically accurate thank you

  • @operationpaperclip3952
    @operationpaperclip3952 Месяц назад

    Makes so much sense, now. My sister is an awesome example of this.
    --Ha! --And she WONDERS Why I won't speak to her.
    Christianity, I tell my mother to relay to her, sn't being a MASOCHIST...A Doormat.
    She has to say sorry to me, when she Messrs up.
    Otherwise, I can't be in relationship with her.
    Het Pride is keeping herself from me.

  • @Cowboy19735
    @Cowboy19735 Месяц назад +4

    You just described my ex-wife!

  • @Rose_Arcana
    @Rose_Arcana 2 месяца назад +6

    Thank You for delivering this message and for the work that you do. May GOD Bless and protect you and your loved ones always... AMEN.

  • @travelred4419
    @travelred4419 Месяц назад +2

    True narcists will not ask for help🎉

  • @monicanostheide7244
    @monicanostheide7244 Месяц назад +2

    Beautyfull speak…!🙏
    💃🏼💚🕺🏼

  • @bonangrens9145
    @bonangrens9145 2 месяца назад +1

    And this video happens to describe my biological father who also wants nothing to do with Jesus... You nailed it ❤

  • @VLM03
    @VLM03 Месяц назад

    wow, that's the widest net I've seen so far Schuman, why won't my abusers see it yet?
    They don't care, that's why
    It's all blackmail

  • @victordaria8135
    @victordaria8135 Месяц назад +2

    Spot on

  • @99sohelmallick19
    @99sohelmallick19 2 месяца назад +4

    You Just Described My Narc Psycho Father.....☺️☺️

  • @Sheri-sb1yr
    @Sheri-sb1yr 2 месяца назад +1

    That RARELY, if ever happens with a narcissist. They can NEVER change. Who are you fooling.

    • @NelsonSchuman
      @NelsonSchuman  2 месяца назад +1

      @@Sheri-sb1yr I’ve helped thousands of narcissists get delivered and changed and become Christlike. Check out my testimonies on my RUclips channel. Go to playlists and Deliverance Testimonies. They had to forgive everyone who hurt them when they were young, repent for their pride and sin. Command demons out.

  • @ayimnasty9986
    @ayimnasty9986 2 месяца назад +1

    Jezebel wants you to worship on those "holy days" I laughed out loud when you said she ruins those days for you. Separate yourself from the ways and times the pagans celebrate brothers and sisters! The traditions and customs are in vain, God bless!

  • @QueenofWands3333
    @QueenofWands3333 2 месяца назад +3

    My sister (classic textbook narcissist) actually did her first and BEST sermon on none other than Jezebel, and she absolutely SOLD it. Lol. She had us loving Jezebel a lil bit after that. 😂

    • @user-gp5yh7eg4z
      @user-gp5yh7eg4z Месяц назад +1

      I always loved the ending the most

    • @QueenofWands3333
      @QueenofWands3333 Месяц назад

      @@user-gp5yh7eg4z 👏🏾 Me too!!! Got her lil self ate to death 😂😂😂😂😂.