The waswas (whispering of shaytân) when praying and doing ablution? - Dr. Haitham Al-Haddad - HD

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  • @fireon1305
    @fireon1305 4 года назад +160

    Only those who struggle with wasvas can understand the struggle of having wasvas. Also only they can get exact meaning of my words too.

    • @Xplus001
      @Xplus001 4 года назад +1

      Trueeee

    • @fathimathulfida698
      @fathimathulfida698 3 года назад +1

      Yess

    • @kissez0104
      @kissez0104 3 года назад

      fr

    • @notmortal_
      @notmortal_ 2 года назад

      Brother everyone has waswas.

    • @Socialbutterfly_02p
      @Socialbutterfly_02p 2 года назад +2

      Exactly sis... I am also suffering from ocd but severe ocd cause due to searching google... Plz one advise I will give uh that is don't search google plz our deen is so easy just consult ulma and tell him all what u have ... U will see how our deen is... Beautiful

  • @abdullahabdulaziz7549
    @abdullahabdulaziz7549 8 лет назад +176

    I never usually post comments.. but Wallahi, I created a new account just so I can type this comment. May Allah reward the uploaded of this video, the sheikh in this video, and everyone involved in this video being made.
    Alhamdulillahirabbila'lamin.
    Ya rabb, indeed you know how bad we needed this video.
    Alhamdulillah

  • @rizz_globetrotter415
    @rizz_globetrotter415 7 лет назад +80

    i've been fighting shaitan and going through this issue for around 14 years now, i had some ideas whats said in the video but i could never actually put them into practice i've seen easy and very hard days, but insha Allah i will start to follow whats said in the video, jazak Allah to the sheikh,, may Allah give you the best reward and help us all overcome our issues,, Ameen

    • @johnrazna2381
      @johnrazna2381 5 лет назад +1

      Yeah I'm fighting it, but I'm a lot better now.

    • @sameerishaque7635
      @sameerishaque7635 5 лет назад

      @@johnrazna2381 assalamualaikum, did u follow his techniques?

    • @johnrazna2381
      @johnrazna2381 5 лет назад +6

      @@sameerishaque7635 yes, and I feel amazing, just don't give one focus to the thought, move on and remember Allah is greater than the shaytan and Allah is not pleased with u listening and entertaining this thought, but shaytan is

    • @johnrazna2381
      @johnrazna2381 5 лет назад +3

      @@sameerishaque7635 the scholars mention a principle to avoid this, it's don't leave or add any act of worship because of the waswas.

    • @abidalhadi5308
      @abidalhadi5308 4 года назад +4

      Hi I don’t know if you’ve resolved this issue inshallah, but I’ve had this issue for a year maybe 4 years ago and I repeated one prayer so many times that it would take me 2/3 hours to finish one prayer. Don’t give up, I kept forcing myself to do the prayer even if I feel it’s not perfect or accepted. Now I look back and I’m happy I went through the suffering of forcing myself to pray only once because now I enjoy prayer alhamdullilah. Don’t give up you will get through it and your struggle with OCD will be counted towards your hasanat. You are doing very well that you identified this issue, you can do it and all your suffering and struggles are not wasted, they are all going towards your life’s good deeds. Don’t give up on your faith either, OCD may drive you away from doing acts of worship, but that’s the shaitan winning so fight him as much as you can. wish you the best.

  • @twahirabasi9765
    @twahirabasi9765 5 лет назад +133

    This is very useful!, Some people get bad thought like cursing Allah and the prophet (Audhubillah) in their minds, what happens is the same like what the Sheikh is speaking here, It is the Shaitaan who is inserting those bad thoughts in your mind to make you feel guilty about yourself. Tell yourself that these thoughts are not mine, It is the Shaytaan. You will see slowly those bad thoughts going away and Insha Allah they will eventually stop

    • @mohammedkhaled7066
      @mohammedkhaled7066 4 года назад +7

      YEAH I FEEL GUILTY ABOUT IT. I DO NOT WANT TO CURSE

    • @hawasalah485
      @hawasalah485 4 года назад +3

      When I saw this post and I worked towards it and is really helping me

    • @MAbbas-or8hf
      @MAbbas-or8hf 3 года назад +3

      May Allah reward you brother. I am currently going through the same think I hope Allah swt helps me

    • @twahirabasi9765
      @twahirabasi9765 3 года назад +4

      @@MAbbas-or8hf May Allah be with you, don't worry, Allah loves you so much

    • @imranaltaf6161
      @imranaltaf6161 3 года назад +1

      IN SHA ALLAH. AAMEEN SUM AAMEEN.

  • @sajjadhossain4161
    @sajjadhossain4161 7 лет назад +59

    Alhamdulillah, this has been very usual problem for the muslims, who pray. Very helpful. May Allah give you a better return, my brother.

    • @vaynakh1318
      @vaynakh1318 4 года назад +1

      watch this video, it will help you in sha Allah:
      ruclips.net/video/nz0fxK7KRkU/видео.html

  • @zuhuraali8810
    @zuhuraali8810 4 года назад +18

    Alhamdulillah I found this video. Cause I've had this problem for so long and it's been challenging for me. Jazakaallah khair. I pray that Allah elevates my imaan and will

  • @tabzq8118
    @tabzq8118 6 лет назад +40

    May Allah reward the sheikh and his family in duniya and akhirah. Ameen
    Very good and clear and a very serious matter.

  • @MirzaYawarBaig
    @MirzaYawarBaig 6 лет назад +38

    Beautiful explanation. Simple solution to a complex and difficult problem. May Allah bless the Shaikh and help those who are afflicted with this problem.

  • @Zone4.
    @Zone4. 4 года назад +17

    Aslakam I have this problem for long time and Alhamdulilah today Allah swt showed my this right path May everyone involved in this video be rewarded it helped me straight away and my dua are been answered through this Alhamdulilah

    • @ayubmohamed2375
      @ayubmohamed2375 4 года назад

      Wsc sister i just started going through this was was like 2 days ago but alhamdulilah I found this video may Allah make it easy for us

  • @sharkpro899
    @sharkpro899 4 года назад +37

    Im suffering from this when doing wudhu/cleansing. Still trying to fight it. Pray for me that Allah swt will cure me in sha Allah..

    • @damirsejdija721
      @damirsejdija721 4 года назад +1

      How is going

    • @Muwahid999
      @Muwahid999 3 года назад +3

      May Allah cure you....go through comments you will see many improved after applying the methods sheikh here mentioned... don't lose hope....

    • @Socialbutterfly_02p
      @Socialbutterfly_02p 2 года назад

      Plz don't search google plz I am also suffering from this but now I am better because of consulting scholar more google u search ocd can be severe so plz

    • @Socialbutterfly_02p
      @Socialbutterfly_02p 2 года назад

      Aur haa our religion is very easy very easy if u consult a molvi uh will see how better and easy is our deen...

    • @dr.md.mizanurrahman6163
      @dr.md.mizanurrahman6163 Год назад +1

      May Allah swt cure all of us

  • @mariyamdukuray9063
    @mariyamdukuray9063 7 лет назад +33

    Thank you a lot . I have been experiencing this for the fast 3 months and it disturbs me a lot . but thanks to Allah that's I have find this video to help me over come it

    • @VileTheGoat
      @VileTheGoat 5 лет назад

      ruclips.net/video/PTCGU8B4uw4/видео.html you will find this helpful

  • @fahadhum
    @fahadhum 9 лет назад +45

    Jazakallah for sharing this...
    My God.
    It's like i just saw my Therapist giving me remedies..
    I have literally the exact same issues.
    Thank you for sharing this video.

    • @vaynakh1318
      @vaynakh1318 4 года назад

      watch this video, it will help you in sha Allah:
      ruclips.net/video/nz0fxK7KRkU/видео.html

  • @zakirishma472
    @zakirishma472 4 года назад +23

    Feeling as if u have read my mind.... I have faced all most all the issues which u have mentioned... Feeling unsecured about wudu, prayers, Quran... I feel tired doing things repeatedly rather than putting the effort which I supposed to do in Salah... Thanks for this Bayan .. may Allah give u sawab through out your life for this Bayan....

    • @Socialbutterfly_02p
      @Socialbutterfly_02p 2 года назад

      Sis dont search too much google... Google cause severe ocd just consult a beautiful ulma.. Who can understand ur problem we'll.... Beleive me our deen is easyy sooo much easyy... Only shaytaan is bad too much bad

    • @Socialbutterfly_02p
      @Socialbutterfly_02p 2 года назад

      I was also in bad condition but alhamdulillah when I consult ulma in my locality he understand my problm ... And Alhamdullilah i am overcome now.......

  • @TheShrouded
    @TheShrouded 5 лет назад +21

    The most important technique is Allah's instruction to ask his protection from was2 - the whole of surah AnNaas

  • @CatsForLife21
    @CatsForLife21 4 года назад +11

    JazakumUllahukhairan Ya Sheikh Wallahi this video is so Beneficial. Brothers and Sisters, we need to ignore the shaytaan quickly before he takes hold of our entire life..
    May Allah (S.W) Protect us all Ameen!

  • @DanwrigCooldude
    @DanwrigCooldude 7 лет назад +53

    Most people have this same issues when dealing with waswas, just do it once and carry on don’t repeat it’s better this way and it will slowly fade insha Allah..

    • @yusufbadat9678
      @yusufbadat9678 4 года назад +1

      Subhanallah this came just when i needed it it clears my doubts Alhamdullilah May Allah reward this Sheikh

    • @fareehashaik-yx5pr
      @fareehashaik-yx5pr Год назад

      ​@@yusufbadat9678should i not repeat it even in salah ..... And move on to the next salah ?

    • @fareehashaik-yx5pr
      @fareehashaik-yx5pr Год назад

      ​@@yusufbadat9678like we did the ruku but i think that no i didn't do the ruku i have to re-read it again...... So in that case i should not repeat?

    • @mashadulislam5586
      @mashadulislam5586 Год назад +1

      ​@@fareehashaik-yx5prIf it is happening very frequently and in almost every rakah then you should ignore it. Try to focus your best when you doing ruku in the first time.

    • @fareehashaik-yx5pr
      @fareehashaik-yx5pr Год назад

      @@mashadulislam5586 oh thank you so much sir ..... I'll try my best to focus

  • @samimalik3745
    @samimalik3745 7 лет назад +159

    Allhamdullilah i am a doctor .. we call this problem as obcessive compulsive disorder in medical science.the Shiekh didnt use any medical terminology or any related stuff. but the Hikmah(wisdom) he said to solve it is purely scientific.... All the praise is for Allah, the all Wise, the all Merciful

    • @abdinasirjamalhashi7517
      @abdinasirjamalhashi7517 6 лет назад +5

      Please I have a problem and I think u can solve it cos u r a Muslim and a doctor.the problem s everytime I finish urinating there s still some discharge(looks like clear liquid).this will even happen to me even if I took like 6 mins in the toilets.once I clean the urine the discharge will still come out.and it's not too much just makes the tip of my penis wet.please give me the answer if u know.thanks

    • @sameerishaque7635
      @sameerishaque7635 6 лет назад

      @@abdinasirjamalhashi7517 send your question to www.assimalhakeem.net. Also you just need to clear the clear discharge with just water by just pouring water on it.

    • @breezeofmadeena6576
      @breezeofmadeena6576 5 лет назад

      @@abdinasirjamalhashi7517ruclips.net/video/PTCGU8B4uw4/видео.html see this bro , you ll get your problem solved, in sha Allah

    • @rani5853
      @rani5853 5 лет назад

      Sami Malik can u help me?

    • @AhmedKhan-iv3fc
      @AhmedKhan-iv3fc 4 года назад

      @@abdinasirjamalhashi7517 Please could u give reply on the problem you r involved. Did u get cured? Do u have to ignore liquid on tip of pennis or u have to wash? thanks

  • @jameelmccline5297
    @jameelmccline5297 3 года назад +7

    Absolutely fantastic reply from Shaykh Haitham Al Haddad. May Allaah Ta 'Ala bless him. I have suffered from the above mentioned problem for over 26 years and I turn 45 years of age on Friday and inshAllah this paradox for me shall finally end - especially after listening to the solution given by the Shaykh and rejuvenating myself with a newly founded will and determination as also mentioned above.💯😇💙🤲

  • @smitasingh1655
    @smitasingh1655 8 лет назад +52

    JazakAllah khaira Shaik now Iam clear it's exactly me it took hrs for me cleaning and cleaning sometimes I get crazy..Becoz Iam New Muslim I try everything to be perfect bit Nobody is perfect Insha Allah I will try my best to be faster..

    • @johnrazna2381
      @johnrazna2381 7 лет назад +4

      Smita Singh May Allah reward you

    • @jojames6621
      @jojames6621 6 лет назад +1

      smita singh what religion were u originally??

    • @chiarablueberrybear291
      @chiarablueberrybear291 5 лет назад +1

      I was 1 hour in my bathroom. What am i doing to my self!! It’s shaytan

    • @vaynakh1318
      @vaynakh1318 4 года назад

      @@chiarablueberrybear291
      watch this video, it will help you in sha Allah:
      ruclips.net/video/nz0fxK7KRkU/видео.html

    • @abuba7
      @abuba7 4 года назад

      This guy is good.

  • @Maldini009
    @Maldini009 4 года назад +7

    3:31
    this video is 7 yrs old, and this it was I was doing up until august 2020.... I stopped Alhamdulillah, but this was me during Wudhu.

    • @thegamerz7992
      @thegamerz7992 3 года назад +3

      Can u give some advice how to overcome this issue I have stomach issues and pass quite a bit of gas throughout the day but not enough to make me excused and I constantly feel I’m passing gas whilst making wudu and salah

  • @Theukaccord
    @Theukaccord 5 лет назад +15

    A tip for the brothers and sisters, something that works for me during wudu, is I tell myself the prophet pbuh washed from 1-3 times, so after the third, that part of the body is finished no matter even if I feel like I haven't fully washed it, it's done next part of the body same thing..

    • @gulzarahmed4271
      @gulzarahmed4271 5 лет назад +1

      There is no need to repeat it. Even if you feel it is dry. I promise it's shaitan

    • @adnanmohammad7276
      @adnanmohammad7276 5 месяцев назад

      @@gulzarahmed4271it’s literally like ignoring someone thats being annoying, you hace to treat shaitan and those thoughts he whispers like an external being; just throw them to the side and pay no attention to them

  • @andrepartfour
    @andrepartfour 7 лет назад +38

    Thank you so much for this ! :) ... I am a (relatively) recent convert who suffers from OCD... this was super helpful and just like Fahad said below, it's like therapy :)

    • @johnrazna2381
      @johnrazna2381 5 лет назад +3

      Shaytan is trying to stop you from practicing Islam.

    • @Klick17
      @Klick17 2 года назад

      @@johnrazna2381 exactly so

    • @Socialbutterfly_02p
      @Socialbutterfly_02p 2 года назад +2

      Don't search more google plz just consult a beautiful scholar and tell him everything u will see how our deen is so easy and beautiful

    • @zouqedard9233
      @zouqedard9233 Год назад +1

      How are you doing brother? Are you fine!

    • @andrepartfour
      @andrepartfour Год назад +1

      @@zouqedard9233 thank you so much for asking :) .. sadly the waswas is still ongoing even 5 years later .. but I see it as a test from Allah praise be upon him .. hoping I get blessings for fighting the waswas :) .. again thank you so very much for asking :)

  • @fathimanuhaza9848
    @fathimanuhaza9848 5 лет назад +42

    Jazakallahu khairan
    I have been suffering this problem since 5 to 6 years.. wallahi this is a huge problem as he said... shaitan convince you to obey him and every time you here azaan you be like “ Oh I need to pray Oh I need to suffer again from waswasa “ You start to hate doing Wudu and salah just because you dont want to face this problem...It really try to take you away from allah and that’s even more worse
    Sometimes it really tiring
    I have missed few of my Prayer because of waswasa
    People make fun of me for repeating my prayer and taking long time to complete my wudu... but allah knows how tough it is to face this problem
    Life becomes miserable as he said...Now I have a solution for this...
    Please include me in your dua
    May Allah help all of us who suffer this problem
    Ameen

    • @missgeorgja6414
      @missgeorgja6414 5 лет назад +4

      I feel u :( people also made fun of me and they don't know how hard it is for us to deal with this problems and it been almost 6years.
      I pray the best for all of the people who are dealing with waswas.

    • @VileTheGoat
      @VileTheGoat 5 лет назад

      ruclips.net/video/PTCGU8B4uw4/видео.html u will find this helpful

    • @eliasdelatorre262
      @eliasdelatorre262 4 года назад

      Same

    • @ayubmohamed2375
      @ayubmohamed2375 4 года назад +2

      Hello sister i just started going thru this kind of was was Wallahi it’s not easy, May Allah make it easy for us ameen

    • @Maldini009
      @Maldini009 4 года назад

      omg, this is so true. u start to hate making wudhu!!!!!

  • @onegod8163
    @onegod8163 2 года назад +4

    most people can overcome OCD if they really want to, you just have to be willing to struggle and you have to be willing to put in the effort and you can all do it. put your trust in Allah and just do it

  • @salahuddinayyubi7895
    @salahuddinayyubi7895 7 лет назад +8

    very very very much nice lecture it helped me lot may Allah reward him.

  • @SaymaAmin
    @SaymaAmin 7 лет назад +17

    But i recovered from this when i studied tahara and salah in detail.
    When I got the very sound knowledge about najs, rukn of wudu, and minimum requirements of wudu, I just tell myself that wudu is done and it is valid. And alhamdulillah i don't suffer this anymore.
    I think, very detailed understanding of tahara and salah can help u to get rid of this problem. Detailed understanding means u need to know the related hadiths directly. Not only which scholar gave what fiqh.

    • @VIP3R-656
      @VIP3R-656 6 лет назад +1

      Can you tell me what it is I need to read? Which hadith regarding tahara and salah, as I am suffering right now and it's gradually getting better. But, I still want to read the hadith.

    • @DigitGangsta
      @DigitGangsta 6 лет назад

      Put your trust in Allah

    • @taranaali6025
      @taranaali6025 5 лет назад +2

      Knowledge of tahara nd salaah
      Ohk i also take knowledge both of them.. I also face dat problm for 5 years..

    • @fariyaabdi3851
      @fariyaabdi3851 2 года назад

      Which book is that about tahara nd salah...name please..

    • @SaymaAmin
      @SaymaAmin 2 года назад

      @@fariyaabdi3851 As a beginner, I watched the basic fiqh by yasir qadhi:
      ruclips.net/video/F73FHnMNsW4/видео.html
      Then I watched some videos of wudu:
      ruclips.net/video/TEJn4Eijwjc/видео.html
      ruclips.net/video/MbVPNvPFAok/видео.html
      And Ayah of Quran, surah maidah (5), ayah 6 really helped me:
      "Allah does not intend to make difficulty for you, but He intends to purify you and complete His favor upon you that you may be grateful."
      And I continued my study of Islam. So, I am always learning.

  • @bakhtyarkhan1258
    @bakhtyarkhan1258 5 лет назад +9

    Great! May Allah bless you, long life

  • @kamarbakrin4779
    @kamarbakrin4779 5 лет назад +2

    Jazaaka'Llaahu khayran for this lifesaving video

  • @anabadow7439
    @anabadow7439 4 года назад +2

    Maa shaa Allah I just realized that our religion has answer to every question

  • @abdul5834
    @abdul5834 8 лет назад +32

    Are there more videos just like this because this is help me a lot.

  • @midoalfaki2860
    @midoalfaki2860 4 года назад +12

    WAUW!!!!Subahanallah.I have been suffering with this waswasa for almost a year and going crazy.I knew this was from shaytan but i kept on feeling bad if i didnt do the act such as repeating wudu to perfection,salat and saying Astagfirulah to anything bad i see,read,hear and think of.This video is very useful mashallah.If anyone else is suffering with this we can talk about this together!

    • @ayubmohamed2375
      @ayubmohamed2375 4 года назад +1

      Asc brother I just started this was was two days ago

    • @midoalfaki2860
      @midoalfaki2860 4 года назад +1

      ayub mohamed what do you mean?waswasa came 2days ago?

    • @ayubmohamed2375
      @ayubmohamed2375 4 года назад +1

      @@midoalfaki2860 yes brother it started like 2 days ago like soo much

    • @mezo2297
      @mezo2297 4 года назад +1

      Yo as

    • @mezo2297
      @mezo2297 4 года назад +1

      Asc

  • @kalim0917
    @kalim0917 3 года назад +8

    I was very upset when it happened to me evil thoughts about prophet's and many other thing ,at a time I felt like I am not a muslim if these kind of thoughts going true my mind during namaz ,it really feels bad after words. 'spit three times on your left side and seek refuge from Allah inshallah everything will be fine'-muhammmed saw.pbuh assalamualaikum.

  • @izy9911
    @izy9911 2 года назад +1

    May Allah reward Dr. Haitham Al Haddad for this video

  • @90i3xiwus
    @90i3xiwus 3 года назад +2

    This is one of the best vids I’ve ever seen on this topic. I personally struggle with this and this helped so much 🥺🥺

    • @90i3xiwus
      @90i3xiwus 7 месяцев назад

      @nostalgicMoonlight much better alhamdulilah, now I just ignore it

  • @Yasmine-br7dk
    @Yasmine-br7dk 3 года назад +3

    JazakAllah brother you have helped me a lot. I have just had a doubt right now but I will just not give in, I may have made a mistake but I will not repeat inshAllah. Allah is the most Merciful SWT and so inshAllah if I have made a mistake Allah SWT will forgive me, inshAllah. Thank you so much.

  • @fauzanfatih2529
    @fauzanfatih2529 4 года назад

    Jazakallahu khairan for brother who shared this, may Allah give barakah for you and your family.

  • @aisatougassama4893
    @aisatougassama4893 6 лет назад +5

    Thank you so much, Brother! I found this video a while back and you helped me so much!

  • @asiya-2131
    @asiya-2131 5 лет назад +11

    i hope this lecture helps me! Please pray for me as this waswas is pushing me to depression and stress..

    • @asiya-2131
      @asiya-2131 5 лет назад +4

      Adnan Bolooshi Always remember that these thoughts are shaytans and not yours. This always pull me through because I know that in my heart I would never ever think bad of my prophet or Allah. If you don’t ignore it then it’s never going to stop EVER. I’m 18 and inshallah I hope with my efforts that I will not fall into depression. You can do this! Please ignore the waswasa even if it’s the hardest thing to do just ignore it and put your mind somewhere else, this is what I do and it helps a lot! distract yourself. Once again, YOU CAN DO THIS!!

    • @asiya-2131
      @asiya-2131 5 лет назад +3

      Adnan Bolooshi thank you! May Allah take this depression and waswasa away from you and give you happiness in both worlds. You are in my duas🤲🏼

    • @missgeorgja6414
      @missgeorgja6414 5 лет назад +5

      I feel u :( it destroys my days.
      I pray the best for all people who suffer with waswas.

    • @vaynakh1318
      @vaynakh1318 4 года назад

      @@missgeorgja6414
      watch this video, it will help you in sha Allah:
      ruclips.net/video/nz0fxK7KRkU/видео.html

    • @razamoe956
      @razamoe956 4 года назад +1

      Assalamoulaikum

  • @layalobeid7565
    @layalobeid7565 8 лет назад +8

    Jazakallah this video was very helpful

  • @moomalsyed1758
    @moomalsyed1758 6 лет назад +6

    Thanku sir for solving my problem I have learnt many more from this lecture

  • @Jamzy789
    @Jamzy789 4 года назад +1

    Alhamdulillah this is a video I have been searching for months jazakallah

  • @alihourag667
    @alihourag667 4 года назад +2

    may allah have mercy on you all. Thanks very much for doing this video

  • @mi7455
    @mi7455 Год назад

    May Allah really bless this sheikh. subhanAllah

  • @AD-xe9pn
    @AD-xe9pn 6 лет назад +3

    Masha’Allah. Incredibly helpful video.

  • @MK-hh6pr
    @MK-hh6pr 4 года назад +3

    May Allah bless him so much

  • @eeshartsaeed6917
    @eeshartsaeed6917 2 года назад

    Jazakallahu khair am really happy with this video may almighty Allah heal us all ameen

  • @ai_kaze
    @ai_kaze 4 года назад

    There are many people facing this kind of problem, thank you very much. Alhamdulillah

  • @jawedpatel5022
    @jawedpatel5022 3 года назад +1

    Walekun salam
    warehmatullahe wabarkatahu
    Subhanallah, very nice explanation

  • @ayubmohamed2375
    @ayubmohamed2375 4 года назад +1

    alhamdulillah I found this video inshaallah pray for me to go through it inshaallah

  • @mukhtarsurajo4760
    @mukhtarsurajo4760 7 лет назад +5

    jazakallahu khair...this is really helpful ya sheikh

  • @icy.diamond
    @icy.diamond Год назад +1

    This is such a huge problem in my life that it even messes with my memory, I’ll do one part of wudu and forget that I did it right after the act or doubt that I did it correctly. I don’t trust myself anymore so I’m always repeating steps, prayer could even take me an hour. This has made me dread prayer and wudu and has made me pray late and procrastinate on it. Even when I try to only to do it once, doubt and guilt eat at me, I get thoughts like ‘but I think I was wrong’ or ‘I definitely skipped something or read that wrong’ and sometimes even ‘Allah will not accept my prayer’ I’m only 15 but it feels like it’s ruining me and I can’t do anything. Im always googling questions related to salat and wudu and then it gets worse. It also feels like lots of people don’t take my problem seriously and everyday I am in immense stress. Everyone please include me in your dua’s, I am so so tired right now.

    • @zouqedard9233
      @zouqedard9233 Год назад

      Listen dear, Do Wudu once ( just follow steps ) and Pray Only Once ( if you forget Verses of Quran , after Surah Al Fatiha recite some new Small surah(if you can easy to memorize it , start memorising new surahs (small ) to recite in Prayer after Fatiha, in this way , you will be excited o, I will now memorise this one , and this will also decrease your doubt in Rakah of prayer like in which Rakah you are, example, you can recite Surah Falaq in first Rakah, Surah Naas in Second Rakah after Fatiha)) then if you get a thought that oh whether I prayed 1 or 2, you will likely remember , oh yes I recited this surah in first Rakah, thus in 2, so I am in 3rd now ,... And if it does not go then, You can do Sajda Sahav (read it's method) at the last , so after Sajda Sahav , one prays 1 extra Rakah to make up , Sajda Sahavs in between so if you were lacking in Rakah , this will be added otherwise, it's okay )
      Also, if in Fateha Verses you keep repeating it , read it's Translation, and can concentrate on translation as well , also , by taking a little pause between verses( you can learn Quran Recitation as well so beautiful recitation would help as well) , may help as well.
      After sometime, you will realize , situation will get better . In Sha Allah.
      Also, I will like to tell you that if you are a female/ sister, you can ask me( because I am also female ) , I will be in contact with you (via Email/ Whatsapp / by whatever means)

  • @هانيالشعلان-ص2و
    @هانيالشعلان-ص2و Год назад +1

    Subhanallah so helpful❤️

  • @zeeabdulsalam1559
    @zeeabdulsalam1559 3 года назад

    Very Clear...
    Alhamdullilah..
    May Allah bless you Sheikh.Aammeen

  • @ahmedmahmmued5113
    @ahmedmahmmued5113 3 года назад +1

    Very helpful...
    Jezakumulahu khyren

  • @Learnworld360
    @Learnworld360 3 года назад

    May Allah give u reward for this love from pakistan

  • @alhajibarry6390
    @alhajibarry6390 3 года назад +2

    it's makes me smile and laugh with hapiness and ease upon hearing this mashaaALLAH. because i'm also related to this problems so much that i got embarassed and got ashame of friends and families who knows me for this habbits. and usually stop praying most of the times because of this.

    • @Klick17
      @Klick17 2 года назад

      Insha'Allah you've gotten over this brother, but please do not quit prayer if you're still going through this, that's the point of wanting to get over wiswas, so it doesn't lead to kufr and these major sins

  • @wowoartz8525
    @wowoartz8525 6 лет назад +2

    Thankful for ur advice
    May Allah bless you
    Ameeen

  • @ibrahimaliyuusman5802
    @ibrahimaliyuusman5802 Год назад

    BarakaLlahu fikum

  • @showora4486
    @showora4486 2 года назад

    Jazak Allahu khairan, truly motivated me to resist more, thank you a lot

  • @Klick17
    @Klick17 2 года назад

    Brothers/sisters running this channel, I'd recommend maybe turning advertisements off since some haram advertisements come up, JazakAllah Khair

  • @samreenkhan8243
    @samreenkhan8243 4 года назад +2

    May Allah reward you

  • @crinklepotato3189
    @crinklepotato3189 Год назад

    this is such a helpful video. I was really in need of it💗

  • @alyunanie
    @alyunanie Год назад

    This happens to many people including myself, but please don't think that you are the only one that this is happening to because then you are gonna feel isolated on this matter and that is also what the cursed sjaytan wants. That you feel that you are the only one that this is happening to, and that you feel cursed and get angry and confused, so that you finally stop praying. And this is exactly what the cursed sjaytan wants and that's his goal, don't listen to him and keep praying your prayers no matter what, no matter what!

  • @rabiajafferi7050
    @rabiajafferi7050 6 лет назад +5

    He spoke to me wow

  • @user-nq9po6zv5g
    @user-nq9po6zv5g 6 лет назад +3

    MashaAllah very good advice.

  • @hussainazad3643
    @hussainazad3643 6 лет назад +2

    Jazak Allah khair ❤️

  • @mohamedasjad3390
    @mohamedasjad3390 5 лет назад +1

    Jazakkallahu Khairan.

  • @omermir84
    @omermir84 3 года назад +2

    Really good speech.

  • @AhamedKabeer-wn1jb
    @AhamedKabeer-wn1jb 3 года назад

    Jazakallah Khair..was very informative..

  • @asaddil7784
    @asaddil7784 5 лет назад +5

    Salaam alaikum, Bismillah, JazakAllah, Allah's blessings, doctors recommend to drink lots of water...

  • @waswasOCD
    @waswasOCD Год назад

    2:58 i will tell you merci sheikh ,in waswas the grip and habitude to constant fear and trauma of past experiences of anxiety in waswas wallahi make the limbs stop responding wallahi wallahi this is why some scholars advice even medical treatment or psychotherapy. They all go hand in hand. Not everyone has slight waswas. Some have a real powerful one and need more than just advice. We have the knowledge we have the strength but the body is not responding and indeed only the one with waswas understands this misery

  • @anabadow7439
    @anabadow7439 4 года назад

    He just talked about my problem about wudhu jazakalah qeir sheikh

  • @tahiraloveabdullahyamta4998
    @tahiraloveabdullahyamta4998 3 года назад +1

    Tnx very much sheikh that's what is destroying me waswas but in sha Allah i will work with your advice

  • @nushratjabeen3577
    @nushratjabeen3577 9 месяцев назад +2

    I thought that i was the only one with this problem.

  • @azharyousaf8816
    @azharyousaf8816 4 дня назад

    Great i must say❤

  • @asiya-2131
    @asiya-2131 5 лет назад +15

    I always have thought that I broke my wudhu and everyone tells me to stop doing wudhu because this is a problem just carry on however I’m afraid that my pray is accepted...that’s what scares me the most that Allah isn’t accepting my prayer

    • @missgeorgja6414
      @missgeorgja6414 5 лет назад +6

      Yeah i deal with the same problems as well and it almost 6years but now im getting much better. All i do is just left those thoughts when it came into my minds. I usually feel like if i don't do this properly, will Allah accept my prayer? I truly feel u :)
      I hope that we can get out from this problems.

    • @asiya-2131
      @asiya-2131 5 лет назад

      Prayer is not accepted***

    • @asiya-2131
      @asiya-2131 5 лет назад +5

      miss georgja inshallah I hope we can get out this problem..it really destroys my mood and day and I feel really sad that prayer isn’t a happy thing for me anymore it’s just filled with anxiety and fear..I also wish I can go back to my normal days.. I hope we all can get better :)

    • @missgeorgja6414
      @missgeorgja6414 5 лет назад +1

      @@asiya-2131 aamiin.. anyways this video really help me :)

    • @volkanvolkan638
      @volkanvolkan638 4 года назад +3

      Sheythan says Allah look for any mistake our ibadah. That is not true. Allah dont need any ibadah. Allah want ease for us. There are lot of hadith about this issue. Shaythan's target is make difficult ibadah to us. May Allah save and protect all of us from the sheythan and our nefs

  • @kiritooooo08
    @kiritooooo08 Год назад +1

    Please make dua for me brothers and sisters

  • @nujudeali1986
    @nujudeali1986 7 лет назад +5

    Jazakallah khair

  • @taranaali6025
    @taranaali6025 5 лет назад +4

    I m in same condition... I took 1 hour in the washroom.. Nd after dat took long time in namaz..

    • @missgeorgja6414
      @missgeorgja6414 5 лет назад +2

      I feel u and i pray the best for people who are dealing with this. :)

    • @ayubmohamed2375
      @ayubmohamed2375 4 года назад +2

      miss georgja thank u brother I go through it as well

    • @applepie7537
      @applepie7537 2 года назад

      R u ok now

  • @Socialbutterfly_02p
    @Socialbutterfly_02p Год назад +1

    Jb waswas mujy attack krtein hn... Allah nai is video ko mera sahara bana dia...

  • @oussama288
    @oussama288 Год назад

    Thanks,great video😊❤

  • @ayubmohamed2375
    @ayubmohamed2375 4 года назад +1

    Thank u soo much brother

  • @shoaibkhattak5793
    @shoaibkhattak5793 5 лет назад +13

    Q: I have been living with a lot of hard ship for the past 8 years
    . I have OCD and I can’t control my thoughts. The more I try to avoid bad thoughts the more they come into my head. So every time before namaz I have to wash myself and do wudu because I am not sure if I had dirty thoughts that would cause vaginal discharge and having OCD makes this worse because I can never tell the difference. So I always have to wash myself and do wudu 5 times a day. I can never keep my wudu because I can’t stop dirty/bad thoughts from coming in my mind and even if they don’t come, if I try to remember if I have broken my wudu or not then they come into my mind and I think my wudu is broken. I can never tell if there is discharge with the thoughts but it is getting to be very stressful. I spend so much time doing wudu my skin is getting ruined from all the water. It is so dry. tell me what my waddu broke

    • @Riz_92
      @Riz_92 5 лет назад +1

      tell your self if you heard any passing of wind, or can smell it then your wudu broke otherwise just keep wudu

    • @shoaibkhattak5793
      @shoaibkhattak5793 5 лет назад

      @@Riz_92 bro this is not my issue
      i have explained above

    • @taranaali6025
      @taranaali6025 5 лет назад +1

      Plz dear u should discuss ur problem with any scholar in ur area... Nd dnt be feel frustrate nd helpless.. It's difficult but Allah give solution for any thing... Nd I think u can use ur 1 wadhu for 2 prayer like zoher nd asar... Or magrib nd esha..

    • @densh6295
      @densh6295 5 лет назад +8

      If you are not sure you should not repeat it. If you have OCD you should see some videos how to overcome it. I have had OCD all my life and it seemed normal to me eating a certain way, walking without steping the lines of the street, having thoughts that sth bad would happen to my family until it became very hard and I was feeling restless. Your thoughts seem to be of a different natyre but in principle the problem is the same.
      I would say to you not to repeat the wodo or salah if you aren't sure, and even if you are sure don't. Repeat it only for other reasons like after the call of nature. Even if you should don't do it and tell yourself that you're doing this to cure yourself from this problem. Don't let OCD make salah so hard that you miss the whole point of it that is talking to Allah or some day lieve it becouse you don't feel worthy. It happened to me when I would start for the first time praying, becouse of my bad thoughts I felt not worthy and didn't offer salah until 5 years later. After 5 years I was grown up and I understood that this was a problem a medical problem, and I said to myself that I will do the contrary of what it seys to me and I did so and today I make wodho really fast, pray salah and every time I have any bad thought I say to myself that it is from shaytan trying to distance me from talking to God and praying and living in peace.

    • @NONAME-ir2ro
      @NONAME-ir2ro 3 года назад +1

      @@Riz_92 کوردیت؟

  • @sunainashahzad4911
    @sunainashahzad4911 4 года назад

    JazakAllah sir.

  • @abdirisaqdh
    @abdirisaqdh 5 лет назад +3

    Maashaa'Allah.

  • @izy9911
    @izy9911 2 года назад

    Very great video allaho akbar alhamdolilah

  • @mohammedodah4274
    @mohammedodah4274 4 года назад +3

    1. Have a strong will and just don't put yourself on the safe side.
    2. Say you're worshiping the shaitan if you answer him, we would never want that, astagfiruallah.
    3. Use as little water as possible, because the shaitan will vanish with less water. The less water you use, the more he will push you to take more water, then just resist and don't take any more water.
    4. Dont take courses of Salah and taharah, begin with islamic history, finance.

  • @Sahilkhan-dh7tt
    @Sahilkhan-dh7tt 6 лет назад +2

    Wa'alaikum-assalam

  • @__--red--__
    @__--red--__ 3 года назад +1

    Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah

  • @ammaraftab2243
    @ammaraftab2243 Год назад

    jazak ALLAHU khayran

  • @Youbettersaysubhanallah
    @Youbettersaysubhanallah Год назад

    سبحان الله وبحمده عدد خلقه ورضا نفسه وزنة عرشه ومداد كلماته
    Subhan Allah wa bihamdihi 'adada khalqih wa rida nafsihi wa zinata 'arshih wa midada kalimatih

  • @fathimathulfida698
    @fathimathulfida698 3 года назад +2

    I'm 19 and is really suffering from these OCD problems 😭😭😭😭

    • @fathimathulfida698
      @fathimathulfida698 3 года назад +1

      Please pray for me

    • @mkr2616
      @mkr2616 3 года назад

      May Allah grant you ease. Please pray for me too to fight against these problems especially during wudhu.

    • @n.a2450
      @n.a2450 3 года назад +1

      i was 18 and i had this problem and i still have it im 19 now

    • @applepie7537
      @applepie7537 2 года назад

      I turned 19 too

  • @suhailmeer7116
    @suhailmeer7116 5 лет назад +2

    Thats best i ever listen

  • @newyear1949
    @newyear1949 4 года назад +1

    Thank you pray for me i have this problem

  • @shamsshanto2853
    @shamsshanto2853 3 года назад

    The seikh is mashaallah great man and Knowledgeable person

  • @fadumoali5027
    @fadumoali5027 Месяц назад

    Wallahi i use so much water...
    Subxanna Allah

  • @tariqsparrow2563
    @tariqsparrow2563 6 лет назад +2

    I have the same prbl (18 almost 19 jazakallah

  • @kssambou8512
    @kssambou8512 Год назад

    Thanks a lot

  • @ligmaballs_69420
    @ligmaballs_69420 5 лет назад +3

    Alhamdullilhah

  • @user-mv5dr4de6o
    @user-mv5dr4de6o 4 года назад +3

    I pray but after praying it feels like i didn’t did anything. What should I do. Has anyone the same problem?? Sorry my English isn’t that good

    • @ayubmohamed2375
      @ayubmohamed2375 4 года назад +1

      i have it too but dont think about and leave it

    • @user-mv5dr4de6o
      @user-mv5dr4de6o 3 года назад

      @@ayubmohamed2375 may Allah swt help you brother. Yes, I think it’s shaytaan. He makes us think that our prayer isn’t sahih I guess..

    • @rifathasan-np5ky
      @rifathasan-np5ky 3 года назад

      Don't repeat