Yes. He is Right. I was in love with a girl from college days. We both were busy pursuing career. We both were going through hardship & meanwhile I decided to marry her. She wanted her career before marriage but I assured her that I will never create problems to pursue her career. We got married in the last month. We are very happy now. We both have improved our recent career & income, She has also become more attentive to her studies to get her dream job. Inshallah the marriage is the key to be happy & content. Marriage is not the problem in the path of career. Most people see the marriage, as an obstacle, but actually it is a blessing. Dua for all & make dua for us....❤️❤️❤️❤️
Although the host was expecting a different response but Sahil said we focus on our careers too much than we should as compared to marriage. He emphasized that first the couple should be trained for marriage and they must be mature enough before marriage because marriage is a bigger responsibility than career. Career is about material things and can be earned back if lost but once marriage is gone wrong, things would be disastrous. So basically Sahil entirely changed the perspective to look at marriage. He didn't answer in stereotypical mindset that we already have about marriage and career i e. we have to choose one. For example, for career you get a degree than a job, that means you are putting alot of effort for it. On the other hand, how much effort do you put in for marriage and to seek maturity that is needed for it? Sahil is talking about that maturity and this must be prime focus of ours, more than career. The entire next generations are dependent on it
@@ahmedabdullah6745 samjhane ka to kisi ne kaha hi nai aurat pasli se bani hai samjhane betho ge to toot jae gi i am married too and it took 5 years for me to understand her and now i have literally like zero problems from my wife as i learned how to deal with it If i can then everyone can ap ko bus deal karna seekhna parta hai thori mehnat dalni parti hai is main
@Saad Bin Masud you are wrong.. my mom is working in a college as a professor.. aur wo meri education ka sara kharcha, pocket money vaghera khud utatein hein.. And my father pays bills and other expenses and save money for our future. marriage is the name of mutual trust.
Good 👍 Marriage is a sacred act,it brings tranquility in life,as mentioned in sura Rum,"And (also) of his signs is that He created for you mates of your own kind so that you acquire peace from them,and He created between you love and mercy .Verily,in this there are signs for those who meditate."
Assalamu alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu ✨ We need to learn value of Quran which teach us how to think and how to make others happy!!! You don't need to fight for your happiness just give happiness and trust the plan of ALLAH Almighty ☝️just do your job and leave rest to ALLAH Almighty ☝️ Alone (May Allah increase our ability of thinking) Alhamdulillah Subhanallah 🤲 HasbiAllah 🥰 Wama taufiqi illah billah Rabbi zidnee ilma 🤲✨
Happiness is from Allah dont show yourself as you are so modern. Muslim means surrender to God then where is the question of fight for your happiness dont follow western culture blindly
@@iramgosiya6956 Masha Allah. kya bat hai apny wo bat kr di jo 2 sy 4 saal lganay k baad mujy deen samaj aya. Isko Islam kehty hain jo bat apny boli hai Hadees e Jibrael hai jis mai Eman or Islam k baray mai Aap (S.A.W) sy pocho gya hai hazrat Jibrael ki taraf sy. I wish mujy aisi soch wali wife milay, please pray for me ! Allah apko deen py qaim rakhy or apko Emaan py zinda rakhy or Eman py mout dy. Allah hum sub ko dono jahano mai balai ata frmaey. Aameen !
Totally agree. Especially after I had kids, I truly cherish my own parents even more on how they took care of kids and managed a household and did all the responsible tasks of life and kept deen our center.
Respected Sir, currently it is one of the most common problems for the whole world, so please do make an English dubbing for it as it'll help thousands of people, who're even non-Muslims.. JazakAllah Khair!
shadi ko jitna b koi bura keh ly at least physical needs k liye idr udr bina nikah k mu marny sy behtr h aj kal bs sasty modern logon ny bura bna rkha h shadi ko
Bro, Let me clear you something. ExCtly you r right in your terms, k modern logo ne shadi ko bura bana rakha hai. But is video me inka ye matlab nahi h bhai , k shaadi buri hai. Inka matlab hai k hamay dekh bhaal kr soch smjh kr step lena chahiye. Aisa nahi hona chahiye k hum shadi krdeyn kisi larki ki , uss larky se jisko sha’oor he nahi ho . Ya hum shadi krdeyn kisi larky ki uss larki se, jisko ghar smbhalna naa ata ho. Aise zindagi tabah hojati hain . Unka sirf ye maqsad hai so dont get it wrong buddy.
When I Was 21 I was very Afraid of this Marriage Topic...K Pehle Meri Income 2lac tak chali jaye phir shadi karoon ga etc etc..But My Gym Instructor Taught me k Rizq Har Insaan ka Likha Hota Hai...I took a Bold Leap of Faith and got Married at Age of 21....Never Had to Regret my decision
Alhamdulillah , meri sister ki shadi hui during graduation 🎓 and now she is doing Post graduation and Inshaallah she will do phd Alhamdulillah . Unke shohar , and unka ghar kaafi Supportive and Allah wale hain pura gharaana deeni hai
He has portrayed things very beautifully, firstly one should ask themselves are they ready to take the responsibility of marraige and committment. That's the crucial part, once they are sure only then they should be married. There is nothing called as Marraige se career or career se marriage. It's always good to prefer marriage over career. But be sure your matured first to handle such a responsibility.
The way the question was framed was very problematic. Marriage is seen as some negative, and restriction but in reality it is the most liberating thing. May Allah guide us all.
I am really surprised to see you Sir! I remember we got some training from you while I was working in Zong. I think you are the same Mr. Sahil. It was a fun time attending your training. God bless you!
Oh my! Shadi or career nhi shadi and career. That touched my heart! I truly understand both things are important in one's lives, you dont have to pick one,coz youll be wanting the other!
I am watching your videos on many channels,, which one is yours sir❓ And please keep making videos,i don't know over what issues but you just keep going, whatever comes through your mouth deserves alot.,
Sab se barri baat ye hy k har insan main sexual desires hoti hain. Jab insan shadi karleta or or apni desires ko halal tariqy se pura karta hy to wo dunya k dusry kaam complete concentration k sath karta hy.
He is absolutely right, but he is talking of a specific segment of people in this case is our Pakistani youth, but not everyone is on the case they are representing. Good topic.
In today's society means 21th centuary, carrier is most important than marriage If your carrier is best than your marriage life is successful because without money you can't raise your family , can't Give your children's quality life and at the end your children's will became slaves of wealthy societies , so best is to divert your attention from fulfilling biological needs!!! Go and Make your carrier and try to uplift your society because it's new Muslim world , we have to compete with other societies also.
Institution of marriage is not for everyone.just some people are just not ment to be married.jis ki honi hoti hai wo chahe kitna na karle ho ke hi rehti hai aur aise bhi hain ke lakh koshish ke bawojood naseeb nahi khulta.
WE NEED LEADER LIKE MOHAMMAD ALI JINNAH. WE NEED SCIENTISTS LIKE ABDUL QADEER KHAN,SUMMER MUBARAK WE NEED POET LIKE IQBAL. WE NEED MAULANA LIKE KHADIM HUSSAIN RIZWI.
Jinnah was the puppet of Britains.Most of the historians believes he even was a well believer muslim.That’s why in Pakistan it’s illegal to do PHD research on Jinnah’s life.with Iqbal I agree and Rizwi was a stupid ignorant man who wanted fame
@@hameedullahkhanzada if there wouldn't be jinnah, you were to be polishing boots of Indians now..Thanks to him, he did all that for muslims..and you say he was puppet of britishers but britishers never wanted partition...so what you will say on this?he proved himself
Maslow in his hierarchy of needs clearly stated in his physioloigical needs (which is the first step towards self actualization) that sex and intercourse are basic needs of a human. How can you achieve self-actualization when you can't even fill the first hierachy properly?? This is theory that is taught in every business school and is the most widespread. Yet carier banana hay bhai... Carier banatay banatay kisi ghalat kaam may lag gaye wo aapko 10 saal piche lay jaye giii... Aut gunah wakhra.. Scientific, social, moral and religious point of view se marriage should be done early in 20's coz data suggests it... Completely agree
Assalam U Alaikum, please let me know about the details of the Sahil Adeem's 4 months Quranic Arabic course outline? He mentioned in one of his vidoes.
I Agree 100% just want to add few points First a man is more responsible in a marriage than a women Secondly a women is to suppose to have mother as her full time job last the more time you take for marriage the more old you will be when you grow up( I have seen people living in their 70s and their daughters are in their teens).
Men and women both should help each other in their career through marriage. But they should have good foundation of manners, religion and professional development. We must be THINKING and REFLECTING people inshallah.
And I request you please write down the tafseer of three Surah's,, Bani Israel, kahf and surah Maryam both in urdu and English as well as record videos insha allah
At least Don't do this in your whole life ... Raja Zia ul haq ruclips.net/user/shorts6KQSjsljM5o?feature=share It's a quality content. Your contribution help me alot.May Allah bless you. Need Support.
I don't mean to make you angry all I'm saying that you should get knowledge of deen from proper scholars and understand the quran how the pious companions of Prophet (S.A.W.W) used to understand it
Yes. He is Right. I was in love with a girl from college days. We both were busy pursuing career. We both were going through hardship & meanwhile I decided to marry her. She wanted her career before marriage but I assured her that I will never create problems to pursue her career. We got married in the last month. We are very happy now. We both have improved our recent career & income, She has also become more attentive to her studies to get her dream job. Inshallah the marriage is the key to be happy & content. Marriage is not the problem in the path of career. Most people see the marriage, as an obstacle, but actually it is a blessing. Dua for all & make dua for us....❤️❤️❤️❤️
may allah bless you both and give me this opportunity 🥰❤️❤️❤️
Greetings
MashaALLAH
Mashallah. May Allah almighty keep u both happy and safe ❤️
Mas allah
Although the host was expecting a different response but Sahil said we focus on our careers too much than we should as compared to marriage. He emphasized that first the couple should be trained for marriage and they must be mature enough before marriage because marriage is a bigger responsibility than career. Career is about material things and can be earned back if lost but once marriage is gone wrong, things would be disastrous.
So basically Sahil entirely changed the perspective to look at marriage. He didn't answer in stereotypical mindset that we already have about marriage and career i e. we have to choose one. For example, for career you get a degree than a job, that means you are putting alot of effort for it. On the other hand, how much effort do you put in for marriage and to seek maturity that is needed for it? Sahil is talking about that maturity and this must be prime focus of ours, more than career. The entire next generations are dependent on it
Golden words: "Career is the most recent word. "
Because we are in a capitalist society.
For more content of Sir Sahil Adeem, follow his channel "a simple argument".
@@yahyakhalid6160 aur deen secondry hai kya
@R ISLAM yes
@@yahyakhalid6160 \\1\1\\1
Shaadi buri nhi hoti bhai log bure hain jinko shaadi chalani nhi aati, ek acha life partner zindagi bna deta hai aur bura tabah kr deta hai
acha partner milta kdr h ab🤔
Sahi kaha
@@ahmedabdullah6745 Koi bhi perfect nai hota per samajh bujh istemal ki jae or tareeke se deal kia jae to har kharab bhi asha ho hi jata hai
@@leou4282 agar koi ap ki baat smjna hi na chahy tou? kitna smjayain gy? kis had tk treeqy s deal kro gy? 🤔
@@ahmedabdullah6745 samjhane ka to kisi ne kaha hi nai aurat pasli se bani hai samjhane betho ge to toot jae gi
i am married too and it took 5 years for me to understand her and now i have literally like zero problems from my wife as i learned how to deal with it
If i can then everyone can
ap ko bus deal karna seekhna parta hai thori mehnat dalni parti hai is main
True shaadi is the only institution ,trained you to be humble with patience tolerance etiquette
But first u need to be mature enough to get married, u must know how to take care of a wife
@Saad Bin Masud you are wrong.. my mom is working in a college as a professor.. aur wo meri education ka sara kharcha, pocket money vaghera khud utatein hein..
And my father pays bills and other expenses and save money for our future.
marriage is the name of mutual trust.
@@Sk-fr8ht marriage is to breed new generation... As said by allah
yeah its it need more patient then becoming Shepard. a noble man would be broken down to earth with this institute. lol
@@bilalansari4138 And bcz of marriage there is a population explosion in the world.
Your quote is golden. Marriage and carrier, Marriage and life...
I applaud how he emphasized on the importance of a compatible match in marriage.
Good 👍
Marriage is a sacred act,it brings tranquility in life,as mentioned in sura Rum,"And (also) of his signs is that He created for you mates of your own kind so that you acquire peace from them,and He created between you love and mercy .Verily,in this there are signs for those who meditate."
Learn to value yourself, which means: fight for your happiness.🌸
Assalamu alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu ✨ We need to learn value of Quran which teach us how to think and how to make others happy!!! You don't need to fight for your happiness just give happiness and trust the plan of ALLAH Almighty ☝️just do your job and leave rest to ALLAH Almighty ☝️ Alone (May Allah increase our ability of thinking) Alhamdulillah Subhanallah 🤲 HasbiAllah 🥰 Wama taufiqi illah billah Rabbi zidnee ilma 🤲✨
Happiness is from Allah dont show yourself as you are so modern. Muslim means surrender to God then where is the question of fight for your happiness dont follow western culture blindly
@@iramgosiya6956 Masha Allah. kya bat hai apny wo bat kr di jo 2 sy 4 saal lganay k baad mujy deen samaj aya. Isko Islam kehty hain jo bat apny boli hai Hadees e Jibrael hai jis mai Eman or Islam k baray mai Aap (S.A.W) sy pocho gya hai hazrat Jibrael ki taraf sy. I wish mujy aisi soch wali wife milay, please pray for me ! Allah apko deen py qaim rakhy or apko Emaan py zinda rakhy or Eman py mout dy. Allah hum sub ko dono jahano mai balai ata frmaey. Aameen !
what is ur happiness
Totally agree. Especially after I had kids, I truly cherish my own parents even more on how they took care of kids and managed a household and did all the responsible tasks of life and kept deen our center.
Respected Sir, currently it is one of the most common problems for the whole world, so please do make an English dubbing for it as it'll help thousands of people, who're even non-Muslims.. JazakAllah Khair!
shadi ko jitna b koi bura keh ly at least physical needs k liye idr udr bina nikah k mu marny sy behtr h aj kal bs sasty modern logon ny bura bna rkha h shadi ko
Bro,
Let me clear you something.
ExCtly you r right in your terms, k modern logo ne shadi ko bura bana rakha hai.
But is video me inka ye matlab nahi h bhai , k shaadi buri hai.
Inka matlab hai k hamay dekh bhaal kr soch smjh kr step lena chahiye.
Aisa nahi hona chahiye k hum shadi krdeyn kisi larki ki , uss larky se jisko sha’oor he nahi ho .
Ya hum shadi krdeyn kisi larky ki uss larki se, jisko ghar smbhalna naa ata ho.
Aise zindagi tabah hojati hain .
Unka sirf ye maqsad hai so dont get it wrong buddy.
He has given the best explanation and answer Allah Almighty always bless him
Amazing speaker very motivational talk he speaks the realities
When I Was 21 I was very Afraid of this Marriage Topic...K Pehle Meri Income 2lac tak chali jaye phir shadi karoon ga etc etc..But My Gym Instructor Taught me k Rizq Har Insaan ka Likha Hota Hai...I took a Bold Leap of Faith and got Married at Age of 21....Never Had to Regret my decision
Now what's ur age?
Although age is just a number
@@dittocto 24 and Still No Regrets 😁
You are blessed💗
Iam here after watching 11th hour of tuaha ibn jalil with sahil
Me too
@Saad Bin Masud astaqfirulla ....allah ko jo behtar lage ga o hi hoga ...
@Saad Bin Masud how can you say anything about me ...are you mad
@Saad Bin Masud its nun of your business ...its between me and my allah
@Saad Bin Masud you know who iam i ...or do you know my husband ...on what basis you are telling me this
Agreed, accepted, great sir, MashaAllah your answers r mind blowing
First time I watched your channel you said positive answer what I was looking for.
The most matured discussed ever heard. May Allah grant him peace. May Allah generate more matured like him.
Alhamdulillah , meri sister ki shadi hui during graduation 🎓 and now she is doing Post graduation and Inshaallah she will do phd
Alhamdulillah . Unke shohar , and unka ghar kaafi Supportive and Allah wale hain pura gharaana deeni hai
He has portrayed things very beautifully, firstly one should ask themselves are they ready to take the responsibility of marraige and committment. That's the crucial part, once they are sure only then they should be married. There is nothing called as Marraige se career or career se marriage. It's always good to prefer marriage over career. But be sure your matured first to handle such a responsibility.
Like the way this women ask question without any hesitation, as it seems she wanted to know and learn. Equally good explanation.
ماشاءالله درست فرمایا
A man and his love can change the world can change the world
thanks for your contribution
Yes I agree with you
Marriage help us to make a good career
We should try to understand it ,it's so important for our community
You words 👌
Marriage and career ..
Marriage is a life long journey of understanding and compromises.
I LOVE ALLAH TALLAH AND HAZRAT MUHAMMAD P.B.U.H
AMEEN SUMA AMEEN AMEEN SUMA AMEEN AMEEN SUMA AMEEN
You r sooo true golden man with golden thoughts 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Clarity of thought is the master key.. Bravo Sahil bhai
The most beautiful and realistic view about marriage I ever listened.
The way the question was framed was very problematic. Marriage is seen as some negative, and restriction but in reality it is the most liberating thing. May Allah guide us all.
I am really surprised to see you Sir! I remember we got some training from you while I was working in Zong. I think you are the same Mr. Sahil. It was a fun time attending your training. God bless you!
Yes he worked in zong
Oh my! Shadi or career nhi shadi and career. That touched my heart! I truly understand both things are important in one's lives, you dont have to pick one,coz youll be wanting the other!
Bechaari ne kitna tanziya sawal poocha lekin sahil bhai ne jawab yahi diya k shaadi is important 🤣
Hann you are right
Wo kuxh or expect krr rhii thii🤣🤣
@@masoodahmed5809 han jali hui hai shadi se 🤣
😂😂😂Sahi Kaha bhai
What's the name of girl... If any one know please reply
@@masoodahmed5809 😂😂😂
I am watching your videos on many channels,, which one is yours sir❓
And please keep making videos,i don't know over what issues but you just keep going, whatever comes through your mouth deserves alot.,
Absolutely true. Specially "اہل اور نااہل والا نقطہ"
Amazing man with golden thoughts.. Sahil sir salute to you
Mashallah bahut hi bahetareen andaaz se explaination diya
MaaShaAllah! Absolutely true!
"Tum nikaa Karo rozi mein doonga" ye mere Raab nay farmaya Hain
Sab se barri baat ye hy k har insan main sexual desires hoti hain. Jab insan shadi karleta or or apni desires ko halal tariqy se pura karta hy to wo dunya k dusry kaam complete concentration k sath karta hy.
Absolutely true it's a natural phenomena
Jazak Allah khair
Dr Javed Iqbal Sahab ki recommendation pe aya and just listed his first video and I liked it very much ❤️
He is absolutely right, but he is talking of a specific segment of people in this case is our Pakistani youth, but not everyone is on the case they are representing. Good topic.
Nice sir ,golden words , confusion door kar diya apne thanxxx.
The person i truly like him love u Alot sir
I agree with him 100% jab insan khud maan ya baap bante hain tb ehsaas hota hai apne parents ka
In today's society means 21th centuary, carrier is most important than marriage If your carrier is best than your marriage life is successful because without money you can't raise your family , can't Give your children's quality life and at the end your children's will became slaves of wealthy societies , so best is to divert your attention from fulfilling biological needs!!! Go and Make your carrier and try to uplift your society because it's new Muslim world , we have to compete with other societies also.
Subhan Allah, jazak Allah khair
Zabardast Ma Sha Allah Bhai Allah ap ko jazai Khair atta Farmain
Masha ALLAH
Wonderful Explanation...
Allah jazaey khair day.
Bohat alaa bat hai
Wah Sir G Good everythink is Best
بے پردہ کل جو آئیں نظر چند بیبیاں
اکبرؔ زمیں میں غیرت قومی سے گڑ گیا
پوچھا جو میں نے آپ کا پردہ وہ کیا ہوا
کہنے لگیں کہ عقل پہ مردوں کے پڑ گیا
Agreed
Well said sir👍👍👍
Absoultely right😊
My Comment is late because today, I watched this video. But this is the real and wonderful truth said by this wonderful person.
Fantastic Very Imotional provoke.
Institution of marriage is not for everyone.just some people are just not ment to be married.jis ki honi hoti hai wo chahe kitna na karle ho ke hi rehti hai aur aise bhi hain ke lakh koshish ke bawojood naseeb nahi khulta.
Agree
yes. Its Best inforative for a new generation. absoultly career is first not a marraige.
بالکل درست
pyari behn pardy ka kheal rkhen. Allah ap ko hdayat dy!
He answered with logics and facts.
WE NEED LEADER LIKE MOHAMMAD ALI JINNAH.
WE NEED SCIENTISTS LIKE ABDUL QADEER KHAN,SUMMER MUBARAK
WE NEED POET LIKE IQBAL.
WE NEED MAULANA LIKE KHADIM HUSSAIN RIZWI.
Jinnah was the puppet of Britains.Most of the historians believes he even was a well believer muslim.That’s why in Pakistan it’s illegal to do PHD research on Jinnah’s life.with Iqbal I agree and Rizwi was a stupid ignorant man who wanted fame
@@hameedullahkhanzada if there wouldn't be jinnah, you were to be polishing boots of Indians now..Thanks to him, he did all that for muslims..and you say he was puppet of britishers but britishers never wanted partition...so what you will say on this?he proved himself
@@hassandaud7149 absolutely right bro
@@hameedullahkhanzada ask Kashmiris what qaid e azam was...afsoos aapki soch p
mujhe to samjh hi nahi aaya keya kahna chah rahe?
career or marriage which is more imoprtant?
Ufff uff what a strong words..its what i believe ..although im a doctor.
Maslow in his hierarchy of needs clearly stated in his physioloigical needs (which is the first step towards self actualization) that sex and intercourse are basic needs of a human. How can you achieve self-actualization when you can't even fill the first hierachy properly?? This is theory that is taught in every business school and is the most widespread. Yet carier banana hay bhai... Carier banatay banatay kisi ghalat kaam may lag gaye wo aapko 10 saal piche lay jaye giii... Aut gunah wakhra.. Scientific, social, moral and religious point of view se marriage should be done early in 20's coz data suggests it... Completely agree
*Sahil is a very smart man maashallah*
Awesome words masha allah
maa sha Allaah
Allah hum sabko naik zoj ata farmaen. Aameen
Brilliant...
Assalam U Alaikum, please let me know about the details of the Sahil Adeem's 4 months Quranic Arabic course outline? He mentioned in one of his vidoes.
Sahi bath hi.. Agree
Career is The most recent word ❤️❤️🇧🇩
From where can I get the link of this complete interview?
Love to listen You sir
You right sir
I Agree 100% just want to add few points
First a man is more responsible in a marriage than a women
Secondly a women is to suppose to have mother as her full time job
last the more time you take for marriage the more old you will be when you grow up( I have seen people living in their 70s and their daughters are in their teens).
Very true.
Masha Allah
Men and women both should help each other in their career through marriage. But they should have good foundation of manners, religion and professional development. We must be THINKING and REFLECTING people inshallah.
One of theBest episode of his intellectual career❤
Amazing lesson
I think that marriage is the ultimate solution of all the social problems
We need more like this
Golder words and truly agreed
He nailed it. Muu dekhny wala hy
Very well explained.
shadi se maturity, sense of responsibility, confidence traquility and satisfation paida hoti hay jo life main wo shadi ka baghair nahen
Beautifully explained. Nailed it actually.
And I request you please write down the tafseer of three Surah's,, Bani Israel, kahf and surah Maryam both in urdu and English as well as record videos insha allah
At least Don't do this in your whole life ...
Raja Zia ul haq
ruclips.net/user/shorts6KQSjsljM5o?feature=share
It's a quality content.
Your contribution help me alot.May Allah bless you.
Need Support.
why are you asking Tafseer of Quran from Sahil Adeem? Go read Tafseer ibn Kaseer
I don't mean to make you angry all I'm saying that you should get knowledge of deen from proper scholars and understand the quran how the pious companions of Prophet (S.A.W.W) used to understand it
Exactly right saying
But sir responsibilities plays most important role , after the marriage,,,,kab tak phir apna father par depend rhe ga
Very good concept by brother sahil adeem
Where can I watch the full lecture?
sir, I think it's not mutation it's heredity. correct me if I am wrong
Ya larki kuch aur suna chah rae thi but sahil adeem shb na sae tika kar jwab dya ha
wonderful words
Name of the interviewer please....?