OMGGG 😭😭😭I LOVED that you mentioned me thank youu🥺🥺🥺wish you all the best in your RUclips and Dj career, you really inspired me to make RUclips videos again, I used to make in the past and enjoy editing sooo much. But I don't have time unfortunately. I'm looking forward to your wedding, I'm sooo excited and happy for you too. I love watching your videos and see how I'm not alone and how we INTJs are so unique.❤❤❤
16:34 ...yes i have not paid to know about my spectrum potential but as an INTJ i've definitely wondered & overthink it until i come back to "it's just an INTJ thing". social interactions have been studied, i've even watched Stanford University's entire "Human Behavioral Biology" course (highly recommend) to help me better understand & navigate human interactions. sounds can be kryptonite, i don't have hearing issues but i cannot understand speech if there are too many background noises & as things modernize... (why does the dryer & the dishwasher & the car & the kettle have to BEEP) & sensory touch: i cannot stand if something is sticky or greasy from the last person who touched it & all i can wonder is, "are you adults even aware that your hands are like that?"
Hi, so nice that you answered my question (about Asperger's Syndrome). I believe there is a large portion of the INTJ people who could find themselves on the spectrum. About acting like a "normal", I know what is to live trying to mimic the "normal" behavior (in the Autism world, this is called "masking"), and at the same time feeling disconnected, distant, something like inside an invisible bubble, just observing the social interactions. That was the cause for a long depression that I had to face when I was 19. At that point, I was so exhausted and, after so many years, my whole world crashed. But I'm fine now, because I finally learned to feel comfortable with all of that stuff. Honestly, I prefer to be different, as I am, and don't care anymore if my behavior is sometimes not what others expect. In the end, no one knows what are doing here. Bye, stay safe!
I have a suggestion for you. I think you need to learn the Indonesian language coz our people love it a lot when foreigners talk in Bahasa and entertain them by talking in Bahasa. (from Indonesian INTJ)
Hey, Lydia, unfortunately, I didn't see the Q&A post... Anyway thank you for sharing the video! I'm always open for trying something new. From saying you like Gladiator's soundtrack, I listened to the album you recommended, and I'm planning to watch Nocturnal Animals too. Thank you for sharing (again)! ♥
I would love to see more fashion/personal style-related videos from you.
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OMGGG 😭😭😭I LOVED that you mentioned me thank youu🥺🥺🥺wish you all the best in your RUclips and Dj career, you really inspired me to make RUclips videos again, I used to make in the past and enjoy editing sooo much. But I don't have time unfortunately.
I'm looking forward to your wedding, I'm sooo excited and happy for you too.
I love watching your videos and see how I'm not alone and how we INTJs are so unique.❤❤❤
thank you so so much nadine!!!!! I really hope you make a youtube comeback ;))) I would love to see your videos
My delusion is that if I grow my hair out and get an all black wardrobe my life will improve greatly
not delusion, just facts
it was very entertaining Lydia, cannot wait for your next one 🤍
Glad you enjoyed it!
I hope you do a part 2 Q&A :)
16:34 ...yes
i have not paid to know about my spectrum potential but as an INTJ i've definitely wondered & overthink it until i come back to "it's just an INTJ thing".
social interactions have been studied, i've even watched Stanford University's entire "Human Behavioral Biology" course (highly recommend) to help me better understand & navigate human interactions. sounds can be kryptonite, i don't have hearing issues but i cannot understand speech if there are too many background noises & as things modernize... (why does the dryer & the dishwasher & the car & the kettle have to BEEP) & sensory touch: i cannot stand if something is sticky or greasy from the last person who touched it & all i can wonder is, "are you adults even aware that your hands are like that?"
Hi, so nice that you answered my question (about Asperger's Syndrome). I believe there is a large portion of the INTJ people who could find themselves on the spectrum.
About acting like a "normal", I know what is to live trying to mimic the "normal" behavior (in the Autism world, this is called "masking"), and at the same time feeling disconnected, distant, something like inside an invisible bubble, just observing the social interactions. That was the cause for a long depression that I had to face when I was 19. At that point, I was so exhausted and, after so many years, my whole world crashed.
But I'm fine now, because I finally learned to feel comfortable with all of that stuff. Honestly, I prefer to be different, as I am, and don't care anymore if my behavior is sometimes not what others expect. In the end, no one knows what are doing here.
Bye, stay safe!
Hi, I stumbled accros your channel today and wow love your vibe ,excited to learn more about you ❤
❤❤love your style:)
I have a suggestion for you. I think you need to learn the Indonesian language coz our people love it a lot when foreigners talk in Bahasa and entertain them by talking in Bahasa. (from Indonesian INTJ)
Hey, Lydia, unfortunately, I didn't see the Q&A post... Anyway thank you for sharing the video! I'm always open for trying something new. From saying you like Gladiator's soundtrack, I listened to the album you recommended, and I'm planning to watch Nocturnal Animals too. Thank you for sharing (again)! ♥
nocturnal animals is dark so just warning you hahahaha but enjoy :))))
I should have asked how to grow my hair as😁 long as yours, im trying to grow it after quitting alcohol completely....
Eating more meat helped but I believe I remember you being vegetarian…. I also sleep with braids!
@@thelydshowthank you!
Lydia, I swear we could be friends!😭 it's scary how similar we are (at least from what I see of you online) lol
much love, an infj :*
Ella es bella hadid?
no, soy su gemela hella badid
😂Better hadid.....
@@thelydshow 🤣 very good