I loved that you brought up that relationships shouldn’t be competitions. Both parties in a relationship should be each others cheerleader which therefore benefits the man and the woman. By the way, keep up recording videos. I love how intellectually stimulating they are :))
very interesting! Just a quick bio, I'm 35 now, I retired from boxing at the ripe old age of 28 because of suspected neurological issues, went back to school and recently got a good career job in IT. At work I meet a lot of women, both married and single, and for now am happy just to keep things on a friendship level with all of them. One thing I find is both men and women seem to have unrealistic expectations of the other. In talking with married women, it seems a lot (I'm tempted to say all) feel they are not really listened to by their spouse, and married men feel that sex (or sexy-ness) has disappeared from their lives. I'll stop here before I ramble on, very good video, have an awesome day!
No guy is simple, its just the way we express ourselves can be simple even when in a serious relationship. I feel like some of your advice is for a specific group of people although I understand you're not saying this should apply to every woman. I do really like your advice about not always having to fill silence though lol
Ohhh you don't knoww how much I needed such video! Also I wanted to ask, what's the issue with men that don't exactly have this masculine energy what do they do what do they want what does as relationship with them look like?
I think you can help enable their masculine energy. By allowing them to take more of a lead you can guide them to becoming more of a man with time. Little steps like allowing him to pay more, holding stuff for you, asking him advice are a great start :)
I've been in about five serious relationships until I found my current bf, and the one thing I learned from gathering information throughout my life is you can find women who will date men and not have it based off looks, but I know for a fact when it comes to looks this is 90 percent of what matters to men, sometimes even more, before I met my current bf I almost decided to swear off relationships forever I decided it didn't matter to me because I knew a man couldn't bring me much more joy in life than I couldn't experience on my own, I felt sorry almost for people who had to date like my brother it seemed torturous and pointless when we had so many other aspects of life that can bring 3 folds the happiness, when you are an artistic type and a person who sees life in a different way almost an eccentric be prepared for most of society especially men to shun you, I pretty much look like the average woman but I carry myself with a masculine energy I have long hair wear some makeup and womens clothing and I'm straight but it's my energy that men receive and divert into a different direction, I never had the weakness the feminine energy the holly go lightly air about me that men seek, this is just what it is, only less than 2 percent of men would pick a woman like me and I get it, some of us are different some of us for some reason have an air of arrogancy and self assurance I have tried to bury it in the past and then became depressed for surpressing it so I no longer do, the men I meet are in fear of me being more intelligent more questioning of motives, more quick to spot lies, and that's just something that men don't like, would I ever change? Nope never I must have been made this way for a reason perhaps in a past life I was in a tribe like the amazons😅who knows but the most important thing is to me just be yourselves if possible and you will be happier, thank you for yet another excellent topic and video I absolutely loved it!!💜💜💜💜
I'm in these 2%. I like masculine energy in women. But I understand that most men don't like that. I also like intelligence (or should I say 'demand'?). Therefor thanks for staying who you are :)
I'm the exception to your rule. I would like to be approached by a woman and it wouldn't change how I see her. (I don't want to say that your rule is bad or false!) But I also like women with masculine energy, therefor this might be the reason why.
Men love to be asked some simple questions to start a basic conversation that could end into a relationship. Men love to be respected for their decisions. And if its a wrong one, they love to discuss and calmly change their mind. I agree with all the other points.
Mostly all pretty accurate. I would say nothing wrong and actually very helpful these days if the woman “chases” but I think we have to use the same definition of chase. By chase I mean initiates interaction…because if the man is interested he will not run and will make it easy. So there really is no chase. If he doesn’t make it easy then yeah probably not interested. I saw a meme before that showed a woman talking to a man with words swirling around his head and a blank bewildered expression on his face. With a stat of how many more words a woman uses in a day or something like that. A man just can’t process so many words especially when they’re often about nothing and then they just zone out as a bit of survival mechanism. I’ve definitely felt like that before. Sometimes I’m like “Would you PLEASE stop talking?!”
Any advise for INTJ men? who usually find approaching women waste of time, not because im resentful but i hardly see future with them? Sometimes i kind of prefer women approach me, who is clear about what they want in men.
I'm a traditionalist and still think men should approach women as a bare minimum. You can find out in one date whether your values align and if your ideas for the future are compatible.
Would anyone like to explain how they deal with competing with men and how to stop? 🥲 I'm competitive in general and I do think I've had a streak of emasculating men, but I know that's not what I want. Ideally they would be very masculine, but I'm incredibly high energy and can't seem to make the competitiveness stop 😅
As a man, I wholeheartedly endorse everything covered in this vid.
Including the banana bread!
I loved that you brought up that relationships shouldn’t be competitions. Both parties in a relationship should be each others cheerleader which therefore benefits the man and the woman.
By the way, keep up recording videos. I love how intellectually stimulating they are :))
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You've probably heard this on multiple occasions but you look like a pre Raphaelite painting, girl 🥰
Actually first time I’m hearing this but thank youuuu
very interesting! Just a quick bio, I'm 35 now, I retired from boxing at the ripe old age of 28 because of suspected neurological issues, went back to school and recently got a good career job in IT. At work I meet a lot of women, both married and single, and for now am happy just to keep things on a friendship level with all of them. One thing I find is both men and women seem to have unrealistic expectations of the other. In talking with married women, it seems a lot (I'm tempted to say all) feel they are not really listened to by their spouse, and married men feel that sex (or sexy-ness) has disappeared from their lives. I'll stop here before I ramble on, very good video, have an awesome day!
No guy is simple, its just the way we express ourselves can be simple even when in a serious relationship. I feel like some of your advice is for a specific group of people although I understand you're not saying this should apply to every woman. I do really like your advice about not always having to fill silence though lol
This channel is literally my safe zone!
I loveeeeee it sis .
Mush appreciated sharing your experiences and wisdom❤
Of course :)))))
That’s funny you compared us looking in the refrigerator randomly to hunter gatherer activity 😂 now I’m having a midlife crisis.
She’s reaching the third shelf. 6”3 confirmed
6'4
Ohhh you don't knoww how much I needed such video!
Also I wanted to ask, what's the issue with men that don't exactly have this masculine energy what do they do what do they want what does as relationship with them look like?
I think you can help enable their masculine energy. By allowing them to take more of a lead you can guide them to becoming more of a man with time. Little steps like allowing him to pay more, holding stuff for you, asking him advice are a great start :)
Do they want to be more masculine?
I've been in about five serious relationships until I found my current bf, and the one thing I learned from gathering information throughout my life is you can find women who will date men and not have it based off looks, but I know for a fact when it comes to looks this is 90 percent of what matters to men, sometimes even more, before I met my current bf I almost decided to swear off relationships forever I decided it didn't matter to me because I knew a man couldn't bring me much more joy in life than I couldn't experience on my own, I felt sorry almost for people who had to date like my brother it seemed torturous and pointless when we had so many other aspects of life that can bring 3 folds the happiness, when you are an artistic type and a person who sees life in a different way almost an eccentric be prepared for most of society especially men to shun you, I pretty much look like the average woman but I carry myself with a masculine energy I have long hair wear some makeup and womens clothing and I'm straight but it's my energy that men receive and divert into a different direction, I never had the weakness the feminine energy the holly go lightly air about me that men seek, this is just what it is, only less than 2 percent of men would pick a woman like me and I get it, some of us are different some of us for some reason have an air of arrogancy and self assurance I have tried to bury it in the past and then became depressed for surpressing it so I no longer do, the men I meet are in fear of me being more intelligent more questioning of motives, more quick to spot lies, and that's just something that men don't like, would I ever change? Nope never I must have been made this way for a reason perhaps in a past life I was in a tribe like the amazons😅who knows but the most important thing is to me just be yourselves if possible and you will be happier, thank you for yet another excellent topic and video I absolutely loved it!!💜💜💜💜
I'm in these 2%. I like masculine energy in women. But I understand that most men don't like that. I also like intelligence (or should I say 'demand'?). Therefor thanks for staying who you are :)
I'm the exception to your rule. I would like to be approached by a woman and it wouldn't change how I see her. (I don't want to say that your rule is bad or false!)
But I also like women with masculine energy, therefor this might be the reason why.
hmmm yeah thats exactly the reason why
Men love to be asked some simple questions to start a basic conversation that could end into a relationship.
Men love to be respected for their decisions.
And if its a wrong one, they love to discuss and calmly change their mind.
I agree with all the other points.
Happy new Year to everyone! 🎉
Wow what a beautiful and refreshing video 😍
Mostly all pretty accurate. I would say nothing wrong and actually very helpful these days if the woman “chases” but I think we have to use the same definition of chase.
By chase I mean initiates interaction…because if the man is interested he will not run and will make it easy. So there really is no chase. If he doesn’t make it easy then yeah probably not interested.
I saw a meme before that showed a woman talking to a man with words swirling around his head and a blank bewildered expression on his face. With a stat of how many more words a woman uses in a day or something like that.
A man just can’t process so many words especially when they’re often about nothing and then they just zone out as a bit of survival mechanism. I’ve definitely felt like that before. Sometimes I’m like “Would you PLEASE stop talking?!”
You look like Morticia Addams❤
I was going to say the same.
As a hyper aware man, I think most men are NPC’s cuz the way they act like they’re simple is fascinating to me.
Thank you for sharing!
Any advise for INTJ men? who usually find approaching women waste of time, not because im resentful but i hardly see future with them? Sometimes i kind of prefer women approach me, who is clear about what they want in men.
I'm a traditionalist and still think men should approach women as a bare minimum. You can find out in one date whether your values align and if your ideas for the future are compatible.
You're not wearing all black.
That reminds me, I need some milk.
Nice video ✌️✌️✌️
I wish every woman on the planet watched this video. Don’t agree 100 percent but I agree on most points.
Would anyone like to explain how they deal with competing with men and how to stop? 🥲 I'm competitive in general and I do think I've had a streak of emasculating men, but I know that's not what I want. Ideally they would be very masculine, but I'm incredibly high energy and can't seem to make the competitiveness stop 😅
Do I understand you well in that you say that you compete with men as a woman?