When I think pseudo independent, I think about Kendall when she used to say that she got into modeling on her own even though we saw on KUWTK that Kris was calling up agencies and designers
Shallon, you are at your best when you dismantle different skills for us. I prefer these videos over the regular ones. The one on job interviews and the such are my Bible; I go back to them all the time. Please do videos on networking, leadership, etc. Such videos are atrociously outnumbered by regular ones WE WANT MOOOORE.
Do me a favor and leave a comment on my most recent Insta (i get too many on here to go back to this one and see if you replied!) and tell me more specifically topics you want to see on jobs and stuff! I GOTCHU BOO
This video made me cry. I remember when I was young and I have no financial freedom, I can't say No to my family members because I live under their care. And that gave me a lot of resentment. I am so mad at them and at my self because I can't even have my own opinion. It is true when Shallon says 'financial freedom is the only freedom'. Good thing I finished my degree and I am earning good right now. I am not exactly where I want to be in life, but I am getting there ❤
Britney was abused so badly by almost everyone around her including the industry she was in - it's no surprise she snapped, who wouldn't?? I think she's on the right track but not in any position to be having more kids. I think she should go "off the grid" and buy a little villa in Italy or something and just live the rest of her days healing and away from the public eye.
Well…. someone never heard of bribery… people say a lot of things that are not true when they are paid for it… judges, doctors, police officers etc etc oh and a president too 🤫
Britney's dad did not step down. His motion was a request to deny the petition for him to step down. Please read the motion. It will really educate you on how much they have convinced themselves that Britney's bondage is in her best interests.
I think Britney needs help (and clearly needed it in 2008 when the conservatorship began). But I feel it goes without saying that she is being exploited by her family. It also seems like Britney is of this thinking on some level because she hasn't exactly been asking (as far as we know) for the conservatorship to end, but rather for her father to be removed from it and for a new conservator. Whatever is truly going on, I hope Britney gets what she deserves.
Britney Spears is bonkers and her instagram is sad to watch. Hasn't she previously admitted that Hypersexuality is a symptom of her mania? Looking at her sexually inappropriate instagram, her rambling ego centric paranoid ramblings...it appears she is in a prolonged state of mania. This is NOT a happy situation. I fear things will end sadly for this girl. She is like Amanda Bynes, completely nuts.
@@lynnpear20 I think both are true at this point. It's hard for me to believe that at no point during the c-ship, her family didn't see dollar signs for themselves. Sure, she needed the help desperately, but I imagine they wanted their meal tickets too. And yes, the delusion stans are supporting the exploitative treatment of her as well.
I don’t think this video is based on facts because Britney’s dad has not yet actually agreed to step down as conservator, and she was never allowed her constitutional rights when being placed in this conservatorship. Also I don’t believe a declaration of capacity was ever filed with the courts. There is a possibility that she is being taken advantage of and used. I think an investigation is warranted and if Britney does not want her father acting as her conservator then she shouldn’t have to withstand that. She should still have rights as an American citizen. Btw I’m a fan of Shallon- not a hater! I’m also a Britney fan who thinks she is getting ROYALLY screwed.
What made you change your mind on covering the story? Genuine question. I am hesitant to watch this one because I know we disagree on this topic and that is okay. In my opinion everyone has a right to mess up their own life and even if Britney has mental health and addiction issues she deserves independence. On your instagram stories you were saying maybe people like this shouldn't be having children and might need this level of care. I think it boils down to a pretty heavy broader debate about disability rights. I hope you can come to see the other side one day and realize we aren't all crazed Britney fans who are following the story lol! (though I do know the type you are referring to). The full story is that Jamie has not stepped down. He has agreed to step down only once the final accounting is taken care of (i.e. Britney pays his 2 million in lawyers fees), which really reads like more blackmail. He has been bartering with her over her freedoms for years and he isn't stopping now. It's a really sad situation all around. Anyways, I'm happy to see you found a topic you were comfortable with from the story. Always appreciate your wisdom!
Keep in mind doctors and judges can be bought and/or threatened, given ultimatums, etc. Wherever there are ppl profiting and power being granted, there will be overturned and "over ruled" decisions. Also, there's a difference between independence and self sufficiency. A person can choose to not be independent, like the British Common Wealth Nations vs. America. Self sufficiency is having the ability to not rely on anybody. Independence is choosing to not join forces.
I honestly just feel bad for her I love love Britney she just makes me sad I love her music and I hope whatever is done in the coming days is what is best for Britney ❤️❤️
My favorite part about becoming a pharmacist was the independence it gave me. I used to be self destructive to please others especially my parents. But when I started making money and stabilized my career, I realized and literally said “I make six figures; I can do what I want”. My dad tried to scare me with a “bird falling out the nest”, and my mom threatened the Bible against me for not respecting my parents. Now I have them blocked, and feel so more peace with myself. I feel the same way with me opting out of dating men and staying childfree. I’m not sacrificing myself anymore.
My father never protected me or provided for me.. so now when I get into a relationship I don't expect that from a man.. I protect and provide for myself... So in relationships I find that the men get away with alot... So I'm just in a relationship with myself now... And it's great
Yeah! I failed and wasted so many years because I wasn't coachable and I was a rigid know-it-all. Now I have improved so much due to your amazing advice 💛💛
I'm a Britney fan who still loves Shallon. We're allowed to have different opinions - you don't have to agree with someone 100% of the time to still respect them. IMO people who live a hyper-sensitive and reactive lifestyle that feel the need to bash others online end up lonely IRL.
Men sleep around and have tons of babies they don’t take care of. So will judges order them to get their stuff neutered? If not then hell no does any judge get to decide that. Make it make sense
Wow, watching this video made me really realize and appreciate how independent I am, how far I've come on my own (truly on my own). I needed to hear this, thank you!
Hi Shallon! Love your channel. All that court doc said was “he’d step down when the time is right.” That could be when he’s dead. So he’ll basically step down when he wants to, not immediately like Britney wants. The FreeBritney movement is tirelessly trying to remove this “he stepped down”narrative from the internet, that was posted to TMZ by Jamie Spears to calm his storm (I think). Can you help the movement retain attention to the urgency by altering this title a little? Thank you!! ❤️
As a support worker and an old fan of Britneys, I want to point out - you can work stupid hours a day, know how to wash and cook, the basics essentially and STILL be deemed to not have capacity in certain areas of your life. From my understanding if this conservatorship is financial, as you mentioned Shallon, she would not know how handle money, she has not been taught meaning no capacity. She may believe she does, many people without capacity believe they have capacity, but then when they have control over certain areas of their lives they are at risk of losing control/financial exploitation. I do think this is what her dad has been doing to her and thankfully he is stepping down, he should never have been anywhere near her finances. Capacity is a very complicated and interesting topic that should be handled by professionals - not overexcited fans. Yes let her live her life - but also keep her safe from herself as well as others.
I would argue that "Reciprocity" comes from an abundance mindset more than anything else, and it comes from a place of inner strength. If you can take pleasure from being generous to people who are not expecting it from you, you'll get more than you could ever buy. Reciprocity s a learned discipline that does not come natural to most people. You have to be intentional with it.
I think so many people that support Britney agree that she can't independently control her finances and needs consistent day-to-day support with mental health, yet are deeply saddened that the person who controls this is her Father. If he thought that she was truly so mentally unwell that he worked with the courts to advocate that she have no autonomy over her own life, why did he schedule her to tour 180 days a year? Why did her family sign her up for a Vegas residency? If she's not well enough to spend over $1000 of her own money every 2 weeks, she's not well enough to make millions for her family to leech off of.
I think Britney was never taught to do anything other than dance, sing and other performing skills. Idk if she even graduated high school. She was told to go here, perform at this time, learn this choreography but not how to manage anything about her life.
Idk what britney's father is like right now. But 2 years back, britney, said herself that she loves her father and would do anything for her (she had to cancel her tour bc her father was hospitalized), she said, her father through conservatorship got control of her life, that is how from her crazy days back in the 2000s, she was able to improve and started doing performances, got back her career and also regained custody of her children. But now britney herself have publicly declared that she's sick of being controlled so I don't know who to trust. Tbh I'm still seeing the good in her father
@Shallon Lester You’re amazing - your videos are the best. They are so insightful and deeply inspiring. You really bring light to the world. Thank you 🙏💕😘
Shallon I swear you are one of the only creators with any sense!!! Brittany does not look or sound okay. You have it right, we have no idea what’s really going on.
This messaging about independence is important and broken down in a way that can be easily understood by anyone. I'm journaling about it now to self-reflect and pinpoint areas of improvement in my own life. I used to be too independent (island unto myself) but for the past few years my partner (who is good and means well) has supported/spoiled me and it felt nice to be able to rest and breath while someone else took care of things. Now, I feel I've become kind of pseudo-dependant and I take responsibility for that. I want to get to a healthy independent place and this criteria is a good place to start.
it is sad how the focus is mostly on the legal mess beside the real problem, that is how her circle should help her. Seems like everyone wants to believe that once the father quits as her conservator, she will be magically cured from whatever she suffers. If she has a clinical diagnosis, she needs help/treatment. Hope the best for her.
I think britney might need a conservator for her own financial safety in the long run as her behavior has been questionable for quite some time, BUT I do think it should be someone separate from her family/friends. It should be a trustworthy person with credibility who could be overseen/questioned by family/friends/maybe even britney herself, but all of those people would not have access to her money. The Spears family needs to watch this, because they definitely need to learn to be independent. That family should live within THEIR means, not Britney's.
I wonder, and maybe this was mentioned in another video/comment, was she in a serious state of PPD all those years ago? She had children one right after the other basically I could see that being a catalyst into so many issues. Along with the working, hardly any privacy, doctors that may or may not have treated the PPD if she was dealing with it. The disorders that are there now could have always been there and the PPD just quickened their appearance.
Being Alone and free is than being surrounded by people but still feeling dependent and needy. Idk man, I think it's better to be dependent on you and only you. I agree when Shallon said that she finds it shocking how some people don't want to become independent and grow themselves first but want to make major life decisions like marry and have a baby. I feel like people (especially us women) want to be whisked away to what they assume is happiness but is really just co-dependency and getting the false-security blanket of never being lonely.
8:20 HARD FACTS 💯 I am working on this now! Thank you and Lo e you for this Shallon!!❤❤❤ -THERE IS NOBILITY THROUGH AUTHENTICITY-Shallon Lester. -I Am A Rich Man, Mom-Also Shallon Lester ... . ... .I need these in necklace and hoodies , PLEASEEE
I just bought my first multifamily! 1,000 down using a CHFA loan. Real estate investing is where it’s at. I have passive income at 23 and I’m so proud of myself
How do I reconcile the fact that I'm disabled and dependent financially with my desire to be independent? I'm trying to start my own small business and invest money in stocks to try and make a tiny bit of passive income. But that is still money that I receive from my husband and the government. I don't want to be dependent, I don't want to be a vampire. I hate my disability but as much as I try, I can't make it go away.
Look into protective annuities...guards against inflation and market volatility. Best wishes...no, not a financial advisor. Please discuss with your financial advisor.
Hollywood is no beacon of mental wellness. Compared to her peers, Brittney in this situation is tragic imo. It would be like if Miley was locked in for her Bangers! era
Rihanna's character in ocean's 8 was quite independent which is btw my the most favourite movie!! She was going to get some 7 or 8 millions dollar for doing the dirty work of hacking the security systems and all that but she had this sexy attitude of not working the whole time throughout even though her cut was an enormous price and she wasn't even rich. To me that was such an independent bossy attitude who prioritised herself more than anything else let it be millions of dollars overnight in your bank account. These are the kinds of people who can't be manipulated or pushed around and they are managers of themselves first of all
I totally agree with you. Brittney is not well and it is quite obvious. She does seem to be stuck at around the age of 15. I have been much too close to mental illness , including my mother who took her life when I was 10 yrs of age. Mental Illness is absolutely ruthless that feels like a curse. I have seen countless lives destroyed by mental illness. Thank you for your common sense observation.
Giving me the motivation to continue on my journey towards financial independence. Im 28 and moving in with my friend in the fall. Im on snap for food help l and in ton of credit debt, im paying all of it off. My mom pays my gym and phone bill and im going to start paying her for those things. Lets go!! ❤️🔥🙌🏽💰
At first I wanted Britney Free but now.....not sure!! If her Instagram is anything to go by she is ERRATIC to say the least! And what is with all these recent topless photos?! Surely if you are trying to prove that you are a responsible adult doing that is not going to help your case! And fans shouldn't be encouraging her to do it. I swear Britney will join Only Fans next but I really hope not - she is better than that!
She probably had sevvere postpartum and how many celebrities have acted so much worse and were not treated like britney has been. I would think the point of conservatorship, which Included her person, should have been to help her learn to be successful in her personal life not control everything she does as if she is still 12. He father could have handled his part so differently with a positive outcome.
The only problem is why did her own father need to put her in conservatorship that handles her money, why couldn’t he and the rest of the family just been there in her life if they truly cared and loved her. I’m one to side with doctors and lawyers, but after what happened with Micheal Jackson and his doctor that went against his own license, who kept giving him a drug that Micheal liked but was illegal to use to put him to sleep, being controlled by his managers I don’t really believe Britney’s aren’t corrupt and being controlled.
When I think pseudo independent, I think about Kendall when she used to say that she got into modeling on her own even though we saw on KUWTK that Kris was calling up agencies and designers
I like these self help videos over relationship ones. The way you explain how to get our lives together is so helpful. KEEP DOING MORE OF THESE
Shallon, you are at your best when you dismantle different skills for us. I prefer these videos over the regular ones. The one on job interviews and the such are my Bible; I go back to them all the time. Please do videos on networking, leadership, etc. Such videos are atrociously outnumbered by regular ones WE WANT MOOOORE.
Do me a favor and leave a comment on my most recent Insta (i get too many on here to go back to this one and see if you replied!) and tell me more specifically topics you want to see on jobs and stuff! I GOTCHU BOO
So true !!! We want more :)
i think both is truth. I think she is sick, but i think her family is taking her money, too.
Same I think It’s both. We don’t have access to her medical records so we don’t know why they keep approving the conservatorship. But they do.
You're right
Agreed. I think she is having an episode and her family takes advantage of her for $
@Malle, I agree with your opinion. I for sure don't know the exact true, but this is what it seems to me as well...
Plenty of people are sick and they are not under conservatorship. She never qualified for one and it was an ILLEGAL arrangement.
Kaney West with the same diagnosis was running for a president.
HAHAH
And Kanye needs treatment terribly.
This video made me cry. I remember when I was young and I have no financial freedom, I can't say No to my family members because I live under their care. And that gave me a lot of resentment. I am so mad at them and at my self because I can't even have my own opinion. It is true when Shallon says 'financial freedom is the only freedom'.
Good thing I finished my degree and I am earning good right now. I am not exactly where I want to be in life, but I am getting there ❤
👍🏼💕
were you able to move out and from under them now it's 2 years?
Britney was abused so badly by almost everyone around her including the industry she was in - it's no surprise she snapped, who wouldn't?? I think she's on the right track but not in any position to be having more kids. I think she should go "off the grid" and buy a little villa in Italy or something and just live the rest of her days healing and away from the public eye.
Yup she’s definitely on the right track (sarcasm)
It's so sad, Britney was really smart and confident when she started her career. She was driven, independent, full of passion... Ahh... So unfair.
Well…. someone never heard of bribery… people say a lot of things that are not true when they are paid for it… judges, doctors, police officers etc etc oh and a president too 🤫
Britney's dad did not step down. His motion was a request to deny the petition for him to step down. Please read the motion. It will really educate you on how much they have convinced themselves that Britney's bondage is in her best interests.
Yes I did not step down
Jamie Spears hasn’t quit, contrary to the PR headlines.
I hear his legal documents indicates he's only willing to quit if he gets a million-dollar payout to cover his cumulative attorney fees.
The battle is far from over.
@@kathleenkelley1928 Absolutely, which is why I've held my breath with cheering about her freedom. I knew this news was too good to be true.
I think Britney needs help (and clearly needed it in 2008 when the conservatorship began). But I feel it goes without saying that she is being exploited by her family. It also seems like Britney is of this thinking on some level because she hasn't exactly been asking (as far as we know) for the conservatorship to end, but rather for her father to be removed from it and for a new conservator. Whatever is truly going on, I hope Britney gets what she deserves.
Britney Spears is bonkers and her instagram is sad to watch. Hasn't she previously admitted that Hypersexuality is a symptom of her mania? Looking at her sexually inappropriate instagram, her rambling ego centric paranoid ramblings...it appears she is in a prolonged state of mania. This is NOT a happy situation. I fear things will end sadly for this girl. She is like Amanda Bynes, completely nuts.
Nah she’s being exploited by her ridiculous fans. Her family was trying to protect her clearly!!!
@@lynnpear20 I think both are true at this point. It's hard for me to believe that at no point during the c-ship, her family didn't see dollar signs for themselves. Sure, she needed the help desperately, but I imagine they wanted their meal tickets too. And yes, the delusion stans are supporting the exploitative treatment of her as well.
'If the pain belongs to me the pleasure does too.' Wow powerful stuff. Thank you for sharing.'
I don’t think this video is based on facts because Britney’s dad has not yet actually agreed to step down as conservator, and she was never allowed her constitutional rights when being placed in this conservatorship. Also I don’t believe a declaration of capacity was ever filed with the courts. There is a possibility that she is being taken advantage of and used. I think an investigation is warranted and if Britney does not want her father acting as her conservator then she shouldn’t have to withstand that. She should still have rights as an American citizen. Btw I’m a fan of Shallon- not a hater! I’m also a Britney fan who thinks she is getting ROYALLY screwed.
What made you change your mind on covering the story? Genuine question. I am hesitant to watch this one because I know we disagree on this topic and that is okay. In my opinion everyone has a right to mess up their own life and even if Britney has mental health and addiction issues she deserves independence. On your instagram stories you were saying maybe people like this shouldn't be having children and might need this level of care. I think it boils down to a pretty heavy broader debate about disability rights. I hope you can come to see the other side one day and realize we aren't all crazed Britney fans who are following the story lol! (though I do know the type you are referring to).
The full story is that Jamie has not stepped down. He has agreed to step down only once the final accounting is taken care of (i.e. Britney pays his 2 million in lawyers fees), which really reads like more blackmail. He has been bartering with her over her freedoms for years and he isn't stopping now. It's a really sad situation all around. Anyways, I'm happy to see you found a topic you were comfortable with from the story. Always appreciate your wisdom!
Urgh, being financially dependent has been one of my toughest challenges. I hate it
I just got accepted into a Medicinal Chemistry 4 year course at 31.
And then you post this ❤️
Love you girl 🥰
Keep in mind doctors and judges can be bought and/or threatened, given ultimatums, etc. Wherever there are ppl profiting and power being granted, there will be overturned and "over ruled" decisions.
Also, there's a difference between independence and self sufficiency. A person can choose to not be independent, like the British Common Wealth Nations vs. America. Self sufficiency is having the ability to not rely on anybody. Independence is choosing to not join forces.
I honestly just feel bad for her I love love Britney she just makes me sad I love her music and I hope whatever is done in the coming days is what is best for Britney ❤️❤️
I love how you present yourself! Unmatched!
One of my favorite videos of yours Shallon! I feel like your videos come through just when I need them the most!
My favorite part about becoming a pharmacist was the independence it gave me. I used to be self destructive to please others especially my parents. But when I started making money and stabilized my career, I realized and literally said “I make six figures; I can do what I want”. My dad tried to scare me with a “bird falling out the nest”, and my mom threatened the Bible against me for not respecting my parents. Now I have them blocked, and feel so more peace with myself.
I feel the same way with me opting out of dating men and staying childfree. I’m not sacrificing myself anymore.
Loving the hair color!
My father never protected me or provided for me.. so now when I get into a relationship I don't expect that from a man.. I protect and provide for myself... So in relationships I find that the men get away with alot... So I'm just in a relationship with myself now... And it's great
Yeah! I failed and wasted so many years because I wasn't coachable and I was a rigid know-it-all. Now I have improved so much due to your amazing advice 💛💛
I'm a Britney fan who still loves Shallon. We're allowed to have different opinions - you don't have to agree with someone 100% of the time to still respect them. IMO people who live a hyper-sensitive and reactive lifestyle that feel the need to bash others online end up lonely IRL.
Same !!! ❤
Men sleep around and have tons of babies they don’t take care of. So will judges order them to get their stuff neutered? If not then hell no does any judge get to decide that. Make it make sense
Wow, watching this video made me really realize and appreciate how independent I am, how far I've come on my own (truly on my own). I needed to hear this, thank you!
I love how direct you are. No sugar coating here. Love it!!
Hi Shallon! Love your channel. All that court doc said was “he’d step down when the time is right.” That could be when he’s dead. So he’ll basically step down when he wants to, not immediately like Britney wants. The FreeBritney movement is tirelessly trying to remove this “he stepped down”narrative from the internet, that was posted to TMZ by Jamie Spears to calm his storm (I think). Can you help the movement retain attention to the urgency by altering this title a little? Thank you!! ❤️
Thank You for this, its really good to see different points of view
"free her!! take that walker away!!" I legit lol
I need to listen to this every now and then, it makes me happy because that's where I'm getting it, so confident about myself like you
As a support worker and an old fan of Britneys, I want to point out - you can work stupid hours a day, know how to wash and cook, the basics essentially and STILL be deemed to not have capacity in certain areas of your life. From my understanding if this conservatorship is financial, as you mentioned Shallon, she would not know how handle money, she has not been taught meaning no capacity. She may believe she does, many people without capacity believe they have capacity, but then when they have control over certain areas of their lives they are at risk of losing control/financial exploitation. I do think this is what her dad has been doing to her and thankfully he is stepping down, he should never have been anywhere near her finances. Capacity is a very complicated and interesting topic that should be handled by professionals - not overexcited fans. Yes let her live her life - but also keep her safe from herself as well as others.
Also, great video Shallon 😊
Wow this was such solid advice I’m legit so thankful 👏
I would argue that "Reciprocity" comes from an abundance mindset more than anything else, and it comes from a place of inner strength. If you can take pleasure from being generous to people who are not expecting it from you, you'll get more than you could ever buy. Reciprocity s a learned discipline that does not come natural to most people. You have to be intentional with it.
I love your reaction to your Mom calling you a narcissist 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I love ya Shallon, you are hilarious af 👑💕✨
I think so many people that support Britney agree that she can't independently control her finances and needs consistent day-to-day support with mental health, yet are deeply saddened that the person who controls this is her Father. If he thought that she was truly so mentally unwell that he worked with the courts to advocate that she have no autonomy over her own life, why did he schedule her to tour 180 days a year? Why did her family sign her up for a Vegas residency? If she's not well enough to spend over $1000 of her own money every 2 weeks, she's not well enough to make millions for her family to leech off of.
But also I 100% loved this video not a hate comment at all just way too into Britney
I swear Shallon keeps getting more and more beautiful by each video 💕
I think Britney was never taught to do anything other than dance, sing and other performing skills. Idk if she even graduated high school. She was told to go here, perform at this time, learn this choreography but not how to manage anything about her life.
This is one of your best videos!! I love when you give this sort of strategic personal development.
Commenting so Shallon can get paid. 👑 ❤️
Whatever opinion u have , ur advice is super good as usual 😎 always learning girl!
Idk what britney's father is like right now. But 2 years back, britney, said herself that she loves her father and would do anything for her (she had to cancel her tour bc her father was hospitalized), she said, her father through conservatorship got control of her life, that is how from her crazy days back in the 2000s, she was able to improve and started doing performances, got back her career and also regained custody of her children. But now britney herself have publicly declared that she's sick of being controlled so I don't know who to trust. Tbh I'm still seeing the good in her father
You always have the best timing.
Thank you Shallon for posting this video.
Thank you shallon for being a friend and mentor and an inspiration for me. I dont think ill ever stop watching you
@Shallon Lester You’re amazing - your videos are the best. They are so insightful and deeply inspiring. You really bring light to the world. Thank you 🙏💕😘
Ahh Shallon, you are stunning! Glowing day by day❤️
Shallon I swear you are one of the only creators with any sense!!! Brittany does not look or sound okay. You have it right, we have no idea what’s really going on.
Shal, your looking magnificent. Video idea: Networking.
All the women who independent!! Throw your hands up at meeee and Shallon! Woot woot!
There is nobility in authenticity...say it again!!! Love this.
I really appreciate that you’re not politically correct and you say what you
think.
Behold the wisdom! LoVE
This messaging about independence is important and broken down in a way that can be easily understood by anyone. I'm journaling about it now to self-reflect and pinpoint areas of improvement in my own life. I used to be too independent (island unto myself) but for the past few years my partner (who is good and means well) has supported/spoiled me and it felt nice to be able to rest and breath while someone else took care of things. Now, I feel I've become kind of pseudo-dependant and I take responsibility for that. I want to get to a healthy independent place and this criteria is a good place to start.
AAHHHHH PERFECT TIMING
it is sad how the focus is mostly on the legal mess beside the real problem, that is how her circle should help her. Seems like everyone wants to believe that once the father quits as her conservator, she will be magically cured from whatever she suffers. If she has a clinical diagnosis, she needs help/treatment. Hope the best for her.
Sorry 😐 it could happen just like you say it.
i like being independent but i like being interdependent as well, sharing my passions and life with a partner makes it twice as happy
Pleeease shallon keep making these self growth oriented kind of videos ❤️
You are so incredibly intelligent!
Thank you for this! Very relevant and helpful reflection
I think britney might need a conservator for her own financial safety in the long run as her behavior has been questionable for quite some time, BUT I do think it should be someone separate from her family/friends. It should be a trustworthy person with credibility who could be overseen/questioned by family/friends/maybe even britney herself, but all of those people would not have access to her money. The Spears family needs to watch this, because they definitely need to learn to be independent. That family should live within THEIR means, not Britney's.
I wonder, and maybe this was mentioned in another video/comment, was she in a serious state of PPD all those years ago? She had children one right after the other basically I could see that being a catalyst into so many issues. Along with the working, hardly any privacy, doctors that may or may not have treated the PPD if she was dealing with it. The disorders that are there now could have always been there and the PPD just quickened their appearance.
Being Alone and free is than being surrounded by people but still feeling dependent and needy. Idk man, I think it's better to be dependent on you and only you. I agree when Shallon said that she finds it shocking how some people don't want to become independent and grow themselves first but want to make major life decisions like marry and have a baby. I feel like people (especially us women) want to be whisked away to what they assume is happiness but is really just co-dependency and getting the false-security blanket of never being lonely.
8:20 HARD FACTS 💯 I am working on this now! Thank you and Lo e you for this Shallon!!❤❤❤ -THERE IS NOBILITY THROUGH AUTHENTICITY-Shallon Lester. -I Am A Rich Man, Mom-Also Shallon Lester ... . ... .I need these in necklace and hoodies , PLEASEEE
I just bought my first multifamily! 1,000 down using a CHFA loan. Real estate investing is where it’s at. I have passive income at 23 and I’m so proud of myself
Congrats!
would love to hear a video on financial advice! thanks shallon
Good for her!
Damn i have said it before and i say it again..this women is smart 👍
This video is truly one amazing piece of information, thank you so much Shallon.
How do I reconcile the fact that I'm disabled and dependent financially with my desire to be independent? I'm trying to start my own small business and invest money in stocks to try and make a tiny bit of passive income. But that is still money that I receive from my husband and the government. I don't want to be dependent, I don't want to be a vampire.
I hate my disability but as much as I try, I can't make it go away.
Look into protective annuities...guards against inflation and market volatility. Best wishes...no, not a financial advisor. Please discuss with your financial advisor.
Wow that time off is doing you well, you look amazing!!!
I prefer these videos over the celeb gossip videos. These ones are amazing! 🥰
Yes!
This top looks great on you
Oh my god. Shallon, you look so gorgeous! I aspire to be as beautiful as you 🥺💜✨
Hollywood is no beacon of mental wellness. Compared to her peers, Brittney in this situation is tragic imo. It would be like if Miley was locked in for her Bangers! era
Rihanna's character in ocean's 8 was quite independent which is btw my the most favourite movie!! She was going to get some 7 or 8 millions dollar for doing the dirty work of hacking the security systems and all that but she had this sexy attitude of not working the whole time throughout even though her cut was an enormous price and she wasn't even rich. To me that was such an independent bossy attitude who prioritised herself more than anything else let it be millions of dollars overnight in your bank account. These are the kinds of people who can't be manipulated or pushed around and they are managers of themselves first of all
I totally agree with you. Brittney is not well and it is quite obvious. She does seem to be stuck at around the age of 15. I have been much too close to mental illness , including my mother who took her life when I was 10 yrs of age. Mental Illness is absolutely ruthless that feels like a curse. I have seen countless lives destroyed by mental illness. Thank you for your common sense observation.
I love you Shallon you are super smart and talented and pretty and I hope you make a lot of money.
Thank you Shallon! I really needed to hear this one. It wasn’t always the easiest pill to swallow though 😅
I love u shallon
Right when i need
Yes please! more videos about finances!
hahah word i love you Shallon im not getting the vac either 💯
I have to say the ending, although looked like technical difficulties, worked out cute!
Your glowing xoxo 😘
Giving me the motivation to continue on my journey towards financial independence. Im 28 and moving in with my friend in the fall. Im on snap for food help l and in ton of credit debt, im paying all of it off. My mom pays my gym and phone bill and im going to start paying her for those things. Lets go!! ❤️🔥🙌🏽💰
This video is very beneficial
I am also working on healthy interdependence! ❣
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I loved this ! Your videos always seem to come at the right time for me.
At first I wanted Britney Free but now.....not sure!! If her Instagram is anything to go by she is ERRATIC to say the least! And what is with all these recent topless photos?! Surely if you are trying to prove that you are a responsible adult doing that is not going to help your case! And fans shouldn't be encouraging her to do it. I swear Britney will join Only Fans next but I really hope not - she is better than that!
She probably had sevvere postpartum and how many celebrities have acted so much worse and were not treated like britney has been. I would think the point of conservatorship, which Included her person, should have been to help her learn to be successful in her personal life not control everything she does as if she is still 12. He father could have handled his part so differently with a positive outcome.
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The only problem is why did her own father need to put her in conservatorship that handles her money, why couldn’t he and the rest of the family just been there in her life if they truly cared and loved her. I’m one to side with doctors and lawyers, but after what happened with Micheal Jackson and his doctor that went against his own license, who kept giving him a drug that Micheal liked but was illegal to use to put him to sleep, being controlled by his managers I don’t really believe Britney’s aren’t corrupt and being controlled.