Intro: 0:00 Show Starts: 15:17 The Godfather's Monologue: 19:31 & 24:11 speaks on the one thing keeping ladies single/unmarried. Money World🌎💃🏿💰: 1:05:31 First Caller: 1:14:03 32y/o woman says her list isn't long but says she's religious and wants a family of FIVE? 😳 Second Caller: 1:37:06 26y/o woman asks how she can "connect with an older guy"👴🏾? Has a college degree👩🏾🎓 but underemployed?! Third Caller: 1:59:05 38y/o woman says she's an 8.9, Single, fertile & says it's difficult to find Men that are ready to settle down! The Godfather investigates🧐 Ends in taps😩🎺! Fourth Caller: 2:21:07 calls in to give perspective, says she agrees and disagrees with somethings The Godfather says. Fifth Caller: 2:23:03 43y/o woman says she regrets not dating seriously when younger says she's Cold 🥶? not asks The Godfather for advice. Sixth Caller: 2:32:17 34y/o woman single asks The Godfather for advice on when to disclose having HSV🦀? The Godfather summarizes the show!/End of the Show: 2:34:37
Meeee toooo oh Kevin I hate I didn’t catch you while you were here but you were such a teacher and a master at this thank you so much you’ve taught me so much as I continue to walk in my feminine energy and it feels amazing!! It’s all about family to me!! Man, woman, children, family ❤️
I’ve been married for 9 years and he is 💯 correct at 52:00 where he says “MEN WANT SEX, SANDWICH AND SILENCE” early in my marriage my husband said almost this exact same thing, it’s really that simple. I increased the sex, cooking and toned down the unnecessary bicker. I pick and choose my battles and it’s significantly improved our marriage.
@Klyne Fitness facts. But even your not rich . If you don’t have your own place to stay or car I don’t want you . You just feed off all these dudes that’s going to accept that not me. She has to to he 50/50 or imma treat them like they are
I’m in the gym everyday. I’m more submissive to my husband. My life is getting much easier & happy by simply taking this free advice from an expert. Thanks Kevin for helping our community because we need it!
I'm even loving cooking more for my husband. The children are all grown & gone and after 25 yrs. we are still growing in love as a couple. Tell more of your married friends about KS.
We as women have to be respectful to our relationship/ a man , respect our selves as well. When your married to a man or in a serious relationship with a man heading in the direction of marriage to a Alfa male that value you .We have to be submissive, by respecting everything he brings to the table to the relationship .God created the man as the protector ,and king 👑 to his woman and household! This applies to decent men....
Been listening for the past year or close to a year and still listening to shows while commuting for work. About 30 shows in and he really helped me changed my perspective on things as well as the people around me. Truly a tough loss, he definitely was drinking down those Red Bulls tho :(
I miss this man! He was like a older wiser uncle that gave good ,hard, fatherly advice! Now if we could only get some of this in our failing schools! More kids would be actually excited to go to school! God bless you Kevin,thanks for giving the last few years of your life for us! He could have spent those last years serving himself! We need more like him!
Brutally honest and straight forward..he says things that most people are afraid to admit...I absolutely love this guy...he really forces us to reflect on ourselves, our relationships and just life in general..its definitely appreciated...
@LibraTee Agreed. I'm not saying that you're always gonna agree with 100% of what somebody says. If you watch the entire podcast, take your personal emotions out of it, and listen objectively... most of what he's saying makes logical sense. A lot of people need to understand that he's not a pastor or a therapist. He's a relationship expert who has hours of content talking to both men and women. He's not here to tell you what you want to hear. He's gonna say what your friends and family are afraid to tell you. And he's not going to sugarcoat it either. That's why a lot of people think he's "harsh" because they're not used to hearing the truth. Self-accountability.
Or maybe it's because family or friends can have their own agendas and be jealous of your relationship/marriage. You'd be surprised. They might want to relive what they missed out on through you or a friend might take what you have. I'd say I'm fine with my man having family and friends around as long as they aren't in our personal lives and he's not sharing anything too private between me and him with them.
I know I'm not your demographic, being a Caucasian male, but brother you hit the nail on the head regardless of race....keep it classy and keep those fragrance reviews coming. My collection is getting unruly.
@Watch Video don’t think it’s that far off. They all operate under the same rule book. A slightly different edition to BW but more in common than not unfortunately.
People who can fight don't feel the need to advertise it. People who are wealthy don't feel the need to advertise it in everything they do. People who are truly educated and wise never feel the need to let people know what "degrees" they've earned. Only individuals with insecurities and vanity in their souls advertise. True confidence is still and strong. In a womb-man, true confidence is revealed in their grace, elegance and the true embrace of her femininity.
A bit short-sighted, I think. When it comes to Millennials, anyone trying to do something great with their lives other than just living for the weekend and getting laid...we're surrounded by haters who would rather cut you down than be inspired to get up to your level. In my world, you have to advertise yourself in some way or fashion. Even "putting yourself out there" to find a mate is a form of advertisement. You have to prove yourself because others will do their damnest to diminish and slight anyone who stands out...such as Christians who refuse to give into temptation, who choose to worship God instead of money and women.
@@StageInTheSkyCreations Ahhhh abit arrogant if you may , Because you are short sighted ! What you fail to realize, is that just because you made it in a educational world it doesnt mean average Men don't have a chance with Women that have this Mindset And im reluctant to know what you are , Im not here to judge but what you just said awhile ago has no Merit whatsoever , those are facts ! But in my opinion, to be inspired by people of your caliber means you have gone through hell and high water, to earn your degree despite hardship throughout the years , and Christianity should nt be about what fraternity your from or how much Money your earning It should be about Charity about perseverance and having Love for those Lost Souls
I never had a list. I met my husband in high school. We both ran track. He walked me home and was very protective of me. He met my grandfather since I was raised by my grandparents (married over 30years) when I was 19 he proposed. We’ve been married for four years and there’s a two year difference ❤️ I couldn’t imagine dating, especially when I talk with other females who are out there doing it😬
When you find someone good and keep it simple. Life is easy. I don't know why some people always want something better around the corner. Work on what you have. And build on it. You did that. And the garden grew. You planted seeds. And flower blossom. Good work.
I wish I would have known of him when he was alive. I just learned of him in May and have been HOOKED! God bless him. He definitely left behind a blueprint for success for men. Thank you sir!💪🏾😎🙏🏾
@@hanselbeckfordjr7530 we have been facing reality as boys. Boys learn really quick where we rank. Women stay in denial because their friends wont tell them the truth for fear of hurting their feelings. Men don't care about other men's feelings. We just let know. Told my friend once, at his wife' s party, if he was bearing twins. Had a gut. Fast forward. No more beer. No gut.
I believe in intentional dating. which means i date with a purpose, to cause a marriage. i believe in a list of the top 5 attributes you want in your wife or husband. If you have a list of more than 10, narrow it down to 5. Ranking the most important attribute as number 1. This really helps you date the right person. My nephew was dating aimlessly and just couldn't meet the right one for him. I invited him to breakfast one morning, and ask him to write down 10 things that is important to him, when dating a woman. He looked at me like I was crazy, but since I was buying, he did it. When finished that, I ask him to select the top 5, out of those 10 that was most important, that outweighed the others. When he finished with the list, I told him to keep it in his pocket, and going forward to date only the women that meet those top 5. My nephew was married within a year.
Oh my Marlena!! Really? Wasn’t expecting that. He got married in less than a year. You are a smart woman. Maybe it’s easier for men. Being a lady, I have to wait for the guy to take initiative.
@@wshelby83 they met a bible study. and i remember one day he was wearing a really nice black knit v neck zip up sweater. it matched his black wavy hair and set off his complexion. i ask him where he got the sweater from. he said he took a classmate to lunch and also to dinner, and she gave him the sweater as a gift. he then said he never received a gift from a woman he ever dated. i knew then she would become his wife. i was like, betcha by golly wow. they are still married.
I wouldn't even mind if their degree was in a 'real' subject such as STEM or Classical Humanities. A Communications or Education degree is about as difficult as learning to maintain a bicycle. And learning to maintain a bicycle isn't a bad thing and there are jobs out there for that but it DOES NOT make one a mechanic.
Neither has Kevin. Stupid inflated figures. Kids don't need Italian shoes. He's a poser and thinks everyone should live like him. Kids need basic food, love and attention not perfume and cricket balls in a vase.
About 3 years ago I went out on a date with a pretty attractive woman. 5'6, 125, track body. Seemed decent, liked to laugh, and smiled a lot. But then, I asked her, "what would you like in a man". She named 37 things, I counted. I said "ok that sounds fine, what would you do for a man?". She stated "oh, men don't need much, they're easy. I will listen to him, be there for him, of course care, I'm his gf, but yea, men don't need much". 37 to maybe 3. This episode just made me laugh thinking about the list. It's as if ladies make a big list to a perfect man but, at the same time deep down inside know for a fact they'll never get the whole list. Ladies believe they deserve a lot and men don't deserve much. Point being, they really don't think much of men, and the list just kills they're chances of ever mating with someone.
The list allows them to fantasize about their dream man and when they don’t get him or things end with a lesser man the women can say “at least I didn’t settle”
The women who talk about having lists are the same ones who lose it when men state their lists/preferences. They don't even try and hide their hypocrisy. SMH
@Lori Joy Fine Art Channel I have zero problems with a "list". Everyone has certain things they want in a partner. But its when people have a 300 page book of requirements is when its ridiculous. That goes for men and women.
@@tebelleh If you love God you fear him. If you fear him you respect him. & out of that respect you will do honor to your wife or your husband as he commanded.
@@SplashWaveBeats wouldnt call it overused, but it is a term that can easily be misused. You got so-called exposers calling men on their purpose simps for giving out free game or wanting to marry
Just like the dude SDC above said. They’re simps, and we can’t worry about them. We can only try to educate them. If they don’t listen, then welcome to hell when their women screw them over.
Guys you don’t have to take these bad deals. When you see the signs move around. I wish I didn’t rush into it. Take your time! You have time and get your money!
@@Wholelottarosie-lc8ed Spot on. I think we're all realising why all major religions and spiritual teachers emphasise self discipline when it comes to sex: If you're not in control of your bodily desires, someone else is.
Your absolutely right and I just committed to taking a year off no dating no women . I’m working 60 hours a week , I’m working out , studying and making myself a better version of myself simply cause of what your message says .......... great message !!!!
Talk about life lessons! I know this program is geared towards single woman but as a man, I’ve taken bits and pieces of what Kevin preaches and apply to my marriage with my wife.
I FOUND THIS CHANNELL TODAY ,THIS IS ACTUALLY MY FOURTH VIDEO TO WHATCH AND I MUST SAY THIS IS THE MOST RESPECTFULL GUY I HAVE SEEN ON YOU TUBE LIKE EVER,HE IS LIKE WISE WHEN ARGUIN A MATTER WITH SENSITIVE WOMEN AND EVEN THOUGH EVERYONE GOES OUT WITH WHAT THEY SAY WE ACTUALLY LEARN ALOT,THIS IS THE RIGHT PLACE TO KNOW WHAT WOMEN TAKE MEN AS,I HAVE SEEN ANOTHER SIDE OF WOMEN THAT HAS BEEN HIDDEN FROM ME,NOW IM WISER WHEN HANDLING THESE LOVELY BEAUTIES
I recently called off a relationship with a woman who did the very thing you mentioned. She came from out of town to visit for one week. Three days in she started barking out orders. I literally sent her packing. That was months ago. We haven't spoken since.
*Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !* _Tappin' in from South Central LA_ *2/2/23* This is timeless information. DAMN I miss getting these notifications. 🤝🏾 Rest easy KS 🙏🏾 You are appreciated. 🤜🏾💥🤛🏾
If you ask majority of women why they actually want to be in a relationship other than procreating, a lot of their answers would show you they should stay single.
In western culture, women and men are equivalently the same no matter of strength, size, and obligations in the realms of protection even danger. The media and liberal collegiate environments promote the ideology that feminism can trump all moral logic when it comes to male and female relationships.
In Kansas City, the cost of living is lower and $350k is definitely not needed to support 3 kids and a wife. It would be more than comfortable, but not a necessity.
Great point. To be fair, Kevin had a show discussing the "living comfortable" which takes $50K per person in house hold. Basically 2 family trips each year 1 to 2 weeks in length. Passports needed. Full immersive experience. Top resturaunt. Private schools. College paid for, for each child. Wife not having to work. Ability to shop. Parent vehicles paid for and a car for a child as they hit driving age. Big house with solid savings etc. Basically... think Johnson County Leawood type. To be sure I agree with you sis that it could be done in KC Metro for less ($150-200K 3 to 4 children and parents) but Kevin has a standard that is upper middle class w/o financial stress. That's $300-350K.
@@nbcricketnumber this was such a thorough explanation thank you so much!!! Idk where u got it from but thank you for sharing it! Cause this whole time i was sitting here like where does it go to? 😆
I remember watching that episode. Steve arranged a date for her after the show. When the producers did a followup program to find where she was at with dating, she was alone drinking her wine and stating she was just fine alone. 🙄
Hi Kevin, I just became aware of your show on 12/10/2020, and I was very angry at first. It wasn't what you were saying it was how you were saying that rubbed me wrong but after watching multiple videos, I can't get enough. I have shared this video hoping and praying my younger female cousins will watch and learn.
I'm 61, in very good shape (hit the gym every other day), semi retired, house. Not rich, but comfortable. I haven't dated in 14 years. Best decision I have made. I'm after peace. Why would I invite today's woman into my life to mess that up?
Women can be some of the hardest to please people. You don't hear men being referred to with descriptions like "high-maintenance" or "needy" to the same extent as women. And more than half the time, can't even meet her own requirements. Don't ask for or demand what you can't offer.
It’s just a blueprint. You can’t build a house without one. How are you going to build the foundation of a friendship, courtship, relationship, or marriage, without a plan?
@@pdead0624 It's referring to the fact that a lot of women who have PhDs or are educated usually end up alone with only a pet to keep them company due to their "lists".
Outstanding K,S, Everything you have said 👏 is 100% CORRECT about these LISTS, Most women like this have NOTHING to Offer a man Anyway, This is one of MEANY REASONS why a lot of them will REMAIN SINGLE ! ! !
Man I needed this conversation about the degree thing. I did the same thing she did got my degree and couldn't get a job in my field for couple of years and just stopped looking. I'm in healthcare administration now with a Marketing degree. Wow I wish I had someone to tell me what he told her. I did waste a lot of years but it's hard when all the jobs are asking for 3 years of experience.
Kevin, is great to finally see someone bring these topics to the spotlight, I honestly thought it would take another generation before women started getting this. I think another topic that could should be addressed to women are the dangers of excessive sexual partners and how damaging that can be a woman's ability to bond with a man. Its not something a woman can just turn on. A woman needs to be careful who she shares that with because it weakens with every man she sleeps with and weakens her ability to love a man. For those of you who walk in the faith, you are familiar with the verse: ...and they should become one flesh; that explains why modern women become so broken, constant sexual bonding and breaking they become a broken mess. How can you build something solid with something that is broken?
I can’t believe you’ve been gone for two months now. I miss your LIVE SHOW and Discussion on IG and RUclips🥹💯😢 Rewatching old videos helps with getting through tough times like today. You are forever missed Mr. Samuels 🫡🙏🏼
As a dog trainer, nothing can be more dangerous than getting the wrong dog from the shelter, you don’t know Whatchu getting sometimes, while from a responsible breeder you know exactly what your getting, health, temperament, everything
Got my 1st accounting job after 2 years of schooling... It paid well enough to take care of my then family...did additional courses, and got real-world experience. 10 years later. I've finished my degree, I earn 60k a year, and I will be going for my designation. I get paid between 50-60k; as a consultant, I make over 100k with the programming skills I developed doing business intelligence work. She didn't try; Kevin is 100% correct. A degree in accounting is worthless without experience. 5 years of experience guarantees a starting wage in the mid-'20s per hour. Having a professional designation and 5 years of experience guarantees in the mid-30s in hourly pay..... SHE DIDN'T TRY!
18 years ago I approached my husband in high school... I went after I wanted...meaning I was his friends for close to years...he was super shy...but he was def feeling me for sure. I asked him out😍 Grew up christian not no a Christian now though...but I wasn't afraid of rejection though. 🤣🤣🤣 anyways 18 years later married for 13 years... With two kids 5 year boy and 4 year old girl❤️❤️. I got married at 21 and he was 23... We are madly in love... Business partners and bestfriends. He makes 50,000 a year... we definitely built and support each other through our journey.❤️❤️❤️💋
@@vxcvfyutube4957 bc I am not and it is my right... I believe in the higher power but I do not do Christianity... I guarantee... I am goodT without being a Christian...
I'm 24 and I have a list as well, but it is very realistic and does not include ANY physical characteristics. We need to redefine our lists to personality traits: High Integrity, Financially Stable, or Family Oriented.
Over the yearss I attained four university degrees including a MBA and a law degree. I have dated women who are medical doctors, lawyers, and in business. Many of them own larger homes, fancier cars and have bigger banks acounts than I do. However, the aforementioned are not controlling factors. If we don't really like each other none of the rest really matters.
She got a real dose of reality for the first time in her life. You can tell how she reacted. Kevin hit her with some cold hard facts!! She probably had to go back the the gram for fake validation after this convo. Lol
I feel so sorry for these women, they seem not to fully understand the math of life or having a family. It's like they are walking blindly into a dark room, without a care in the world. How can they not be aware of this level of reality?
These old delusional ladies and especially the single moms with unreasonable demands think of men as a ATM and errand boys. They don't understand money, value, how to earn money, time, age, what men do, how things get done, etc. This series is very eye-opening.
I love women with list like this. They are telling you upfront that they are crazy. You know right away that you should avoid them. Marriage is the goal, but this is so common that living separate is often the best option. That way it doesn't matter what bad habits he have. You don't have to live with it.
no one should disclose their list, as you want that person to naturally meet your list. you don't want someone that will conform to meet the list. because it makes them a fake person. and you don't want a conformist.
I’m married , this is my second marriage . I was married for 15 years and now married for 9 years . I NEVER had a list . I meet a person and get to know them and take it from there , is this not normal anymore . I’m 45 now and the only one thing is I ever expected from a man was to have his own transportation and his own place and hold his own . Like a grown man riding a bicycle is ridiculous but other than that these list are crazy 😜
The comments regarding women with dogs really hit home for me as I've experienced it first hand a number of times. I absolutely will not submit myself to an animal, let alone someone else's animal!
Intro: 0:00
Show Starts: 15:17
The Godfather's Monologue: 19:31 & 24:11 speaks on the one thing keeping ladies single/unmarried.
Money World🌎💃🏿💰: 1:05:31
First Caller: 1:14:03 32y/o woman says her list isn't long but says she's religious and wants a family of FIVE? 😳
Second Caller: 1:37:06 26y/o woman asks how she can "connect with an older guy"👴🏾? Has a college degree👩🏾🎓 but underemployed?!
Third Caller: 1:59:05 38y/o woman says she's an 8.9, Single, fertile & says it's difficult to find Men that are ready to settle down!
The Godfather investigates🧐 Ends in taps😩🎺!
Fourth Caller: 2:21:07 calls in to give perspective, says she agrees and disagrees with somethings The Godfather says.
Fifth Caller: 2:23:03 43y/o woman says she regrets not dating seriously when younger says she's Cold 🥶? not asks The Godfather for advice.
Sixth Caller: 2:32:17 34y/o woman single asks The Godfather for advice on when to disclose having HSV🦀?
The Godfather summarizes the show!/End of the Show: 2:34:37
The Goat is in the comment section with the time stamps.
Appreciate the dedication 🙏🏾
🥃 toast
U deserve more likes
Lowkey I wait for your breakdown before I begin watching majority of the time. Thanks
He is gone and I still hit the like button.
Big facts
Me too
Meeee toooo oh Kevin I hate I didn’t catch you while you were here but you were such a teacher and a master at this thank you so much you’ve taught me so much as I continue to walk in my feminine energy and it feels amazing!! It’s all about family to me!! Man, woman, children, family ❤️
Me to
i do too, hehe
I’ve been married for 9 years and he is 💯 correct at 52:00 where he says “MEN WANT SEX, SANDWICH AND SILENCE” early in my marriage my husband said almost this exact same thing, it’s really that simple. I increased the sex, cooking and toned down the unnecessary bicker. I pick and choose my battles and it’s significantly improved our marriage.
Tone it down even more...
Viva Good Woman!! That is the secret to the man’s Heart!!!
You’re 1 in many. They will never understand
And what did he do?
Bars!🔥🔥🔥
KS is the GOAT!🔥🔥🔥
You ever notice that, regardless of gender, the people who ask for the most is offering the least?
Right 😂. 600 page list of demands yet when they tell what they're bringing to the table its barely a complete sentence. 😂
That’s why I only date women on the same level as me. Too many users men and women.
And they go out their way to tell the whole world about their preference that doesn’t even want them back😂
Always!
@Klyne Fitness facts. But even your not rich . If you don’t have your own place to stay or car I don’t want you . You just feed off all these dudes that’s going to accept that not me. She has to to he 50/50 or imma treat them like they are
I’m in the gym everyday. I’m more submissive to my husband. My life is getting much easier & happy by simply taking this free advice from an expert. Thanks Kevin for helping our community because we need it!
Congrats on your health journey and happier life! I'm listening and making changes too. Yes KS is right.
I'm even loving cooking more for my husband. The children are all grown & gone and after 25 yrs. we are still growing in love as a couple. Tell more of your married friends about KS.
@@pamelathompson2222 10 years in but 25+ is definitely the goal. I tell the single and married black women to tune in. Congratulations!!
Tell your female friends. More need to know
We as women have to be respectful to our relationship/ a man , respect our selves as well. When your married to a man or in a serious relationship with a man heading in the direction of marriage to a Alfa male that value you .We have to be submissive, by respecting everything he brings to the table to the relationship .God created the man as the protector ,and king 👑 to his woman and household! This applies to decent men....
How I wish I got to listen to him before he passed.. I never heard of him until his passing I still listen to him every night May he RIP 🙏🏿
Welcome!! I started listening to Kevin in March 2021. I was inspired to lose 50lbs b/c of him. The good news is he has hundreds of videos.
Been listening for the past year or close to a year and still listening to shows while commuting for work. About 30 shows in and he really helped me changed my perspective on things as well as the people around me. Truly a tough loss, he definitely was drinking down those Red Bulls tho :(
Same here, he’s a beacon of hope to men and women of all communities
Me too 🤧
Same here.. 😔🙏🏻KS
“Cooperative women tend to have relationships.” Dude is sharp as hell. I hope the women are learning from him.
They can't because it's coming from a man.
They won't because logic isn't their thang.
@@richcook2007 factz
We are
@@richcook2007 time to make it their "thing"
I miss this man! He was like a older wiser uncle that gave good ,hard, fatherly advice! Now if we could only get some of this in our failing schools! More kids would be actually excited to go to school! God bless you Kevin,thanks for giving the last few years of your life for us! He could have spent those last years serving himself! We need more like him!
Man, you definitely my long lost uncle. As a mid 20’s male. My generation of black men need to hear this sort of dialogue. Very helpful.
True
Put them brothers on bro to KS the godfather
It’s not just black men that need to hear this sort of dialogue.
you all need to here him go in on med
She feels she is entitled because she has her own business this is sad
Brutally honest and straight forward..he says things that most people are afraid to admit...I absolutely love this guy...he really forces us to reflect on ourselves, our relationships and just life in general..its definitely appreciated...
@LibraTee Agreed. I'm not saying that you're always gonna agree with 100% of what somebody says. If you watch the entire podcast, take your personal emotions out of it, and listen objectively... most of what he's saying makes logical sense. A lot of people need to understand that he's not a pastor or a therapist. He's a relationship expert who has hours of content talking to both men and women. He's not here to tell you what you want to hear. He's gonna say what your friends and family are afraid to tell you. And he's not going to sugarcoat it either. That's why a lot of people think he's "harsh" because they're not used to hearing the truth. Self-accountability.
"The World doesn't owe you understanding "
Great line.
"Can't be too close to family or friends"
RED FLAG 🚩
She wants to isolate you to make you easier to control.
Yea a requirement like that is ridiculous
YES.. that raised my eyebrows.
Or maybe it's because family or friends can have their own agendas and be jealous of your relationship/marriage. You'd be surprised. They might want to relive what they missed out on through you or a friend might take what you have. I'd say I'm fine with my man having family and friends around as long as they aren't in our personal lives and he's not sharing anything too private between me and him with them.
It is literally one of the signs of an abuser .
He can't be stronger than her... Huge red flag.
I know I'm not your demographic, being a Caucasian male, but brother you hit the nail on the head regardless of race....keep it classy and keep those fragrance reviews coming. My collection is getting unruly.
All views and subs count the same for the algo 😎👍 (probably)
@JK 🎯
@Watch Video don’t think it’s that far off. They all operate under the same rule book. A slightly different edition to BW but more in common than not unfortunately.
It's happened in all races. It's in Indian,Sri Lankan, Chinese all of Western Immigrant cultures
Welcome to the brotherhood
People who can fight don't feel the need to advertise it. People who are wealthy don't feel the need to advertise it in everything they do. People who are truly educated and wise never feel the need to let people know what "degrees" they've earned. Only individuals with insecurities and vanity in their souls advertise. True confidence is still and strong. In a womb-man, true confidence is revealed in their grace, elegance and the true embrace of her femininity.
Very wise words.
Yes yes yes
A bit short-sighted, I think. When it comes to Millennials, anyone trying to do something great with their lives other than just living for the weekend and getting laid...we're surrounded by haters who would rather cut you down than be inspired to get up to your level. In my world, you have to advertise yourself in some way or fashion. Even "putting yourself out there" to find a mate is a form of advertisement. You have to prove yourself because others will do their damnest to diminish and slight anyone who stands out...such as Christians who refuse to give into temptation, who choose to worship God instead of money and women.
@@StageInTheSkyCreations Ahhhh abit arrogant if you may , Because you are short sighted ! What you fail to realize, is that just because you made it in a educational world it doesnt mean average Men don't have a chance with Women that have this Mindset And im reluctant to know what you are , Im not here to judge but what you just said awhile ago has no Merit whatsoever , those are facts ! But in my opinion, to be inspired by people of your caliber means you have gone through hell and high water, to earn your degree despite hardship throughout the years , and Christianity should nt be about what fraternity your from or how much Money your earning It should be about Charity about perseverance and having Love for those Lost Souls
@Lori Joy Fine Art Channel After reading a lot of your comments, you seem to have a good head on your shoulders. 👍
ALL OF KEVIN'S ADVICE AND CONTENT truly truly works people.
"The world doesn't owe you understanding, and it's time to wake up" = Gold
I never had a list. I met my husband in high school. We both ran track. He walked me home and was very protective of me. He met my grandfather since I was raised by my grandparents (married over 30years) when I was 19 he proposed. We’ve been married for four years and there’s a two year difference ❤️ I couldn’t imagine dating, especially when I talk with other females who are out there doing it😬
Smart woman. Dating is like skipping through a mine field while blindfolded and wearing snow shoes.
When you find someone good and keep it simple. Life is easy. I don't know why some people always want something better around the corner. Work on what you have. And build on it. You did that. And the garden grew. You planted seeds. And flower blossom. Good work.
You won early!!
@@Mylc03 for real!! She really won early!
My grandparents was married 60 years before my grandpa died and I was raised by them to .
I’m so glad that I have my husband of 26 years, and my parents been married 46 years. My mother taught me well . An I’m teaching my daughter the same.
That’s awesome!! You’re blessed
I wish I would have known of him when he was alive. I just learned of him in May and have been HOOKED! God bless him. He definitely left behind a blueprint for success for men. Thank you sir!💪🏾😎🙏🏾
“You own a frosting company, you’re not curing cancer” 🤣🤣🤣
She is the source of all those Diabetes. The CDC should arrest her. :)
Lol
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@757 Trucker 😂
Actually she is creating one😃😃😄
Sweet Jesus, Even God himself only had 10 commandments.
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Oh my goodness 🤣
Boom! LOL
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Man frfr
Every single podcast brings me to 😭. Self Reflection is difficult.
It’s a reality that most women don’t want to face. Men face it DAILY
Yup same here
@@hanselbeckfordjr7530 we have been facing reality as boys. Boys learn really quick where we rank. Women stay in denial because their friends wont tell them the truth for fear of hurting their feelings.
Men don't care about other men's feelings. We just let know.
Told my friend once, at his wife' s party, if he was bearing twins. Had a gut. Fast forward. No more beer. No gut.
I cry too thinking back on my actions and behavior like wtf was i thinking.
At least your reflecting and so am I. Stay up sis, much support keep up the work it will pay off 😉
Ladies everything you want in a man, be it as well. Be your list
EXACTLY!!
Solomon, my family is Solomon's in Perry Georgia ?
Truth.
Ok. Be masculine. Got it. Thanks
@@daniella3286 Ok if thats what you got from what i said. Suit yourself
I believe in intentional dating. which means i date with a purpose, to cause a marriage. i believe in a list of the top 5 attributes you want in your wife or husband. If you have a list of more than 10, narrow it down to 5. Ranking the most important attribute as number 1. This really helps you date the right person. My nephew was dating aimlessly and just couldn't meet the right one for him. I invited him to breakfast one morning, and ask him to write down 10 things that is important to him, when dating a woman. He looked at me like I was crazy, but since I was buying, he did it. When finished that, I ask him to select the top 5, out of those 10 that was most important, that outweighed the others. When he finished with the list, I told him to keep it in his pocket, and going forward to date only the women that meet those top 5. My nephew was married within a year.
Oh my Marlena!! Really? Wasn’t expecting that. He got married in less than a year. You are a smart woman. Maybe it’s easier for men. Being a lady, I have to wait for the guy to take initiative.
@@wshelby83 they met a bible study. and i remember one day he was wearing a really nice black knit v neck zip up sweater. it matched his black wavy hair and set off his complexion. i ask him where he got the sweater from. he said he took a classmate to lunch and also to dinner, and she gave him the sweater as a gift. he then said he never received a gift from a woman he ever dated. i knew then she would become his wife. i was like, betcha by golly wow. they are still married.
@@marlenahall590 that’s awesome!
@@wshelby83 true story.
Aggressive with their degree, but passive in their personal life
@@hiddenclassics wow! Can I steal this comment... 'women only go for what they can achieve' 🤣
Dude with a cat might have the patience to deal with her
Passive at best
I wouldn't even mind if their degree was in a 'real' subject such as STEM or Classical Humanities. A Communications or Education degree is about as difficult as learning to maintain a bicycle. And learning to maintain a bicycle isn't a bad thing and there are jobs out there for that but it DOES NOT make one a mechanic.
@@darthkek1953 Don’t knock education majors. Special needs teachers are a different breed.
They literally have no clue on the cost of their lifestyle...WOW
@Techno Master Tv and media is the problem. They think it is real life until REAL life passes them by
Neither has Kevin. Stupid inflated figures. Kids don't need Italian shoes. He's a poser and thinks everyone should live like him. Kids need basic food, love and attention not perfume and cricket balls in a vase.
Missing you every day Godfather 💖 R.I.P & thank you
Thank You Mr. Samuels. You will be missed RIP
About 3 years ago I went out on a date with a pretty attractive woman. 5'6, 125, track body. Seemed decent, liked to laugh, and smiled a lot. But then, I asked her, "what would you like in a man". She named 37 things, I counted. I said "ok that sounds fine, what would you do for a man?". She stated "oh, men don't need much, they're easy. I will listen to him, be there for him, of course care, I'm his gf, but yea, men don't need much". 37 to maybe 3. This episode just made me laugh thinking about the list. It's as if ladies make a big list to a perfect man but, at the same time deep down inside know for a fact they'll never get the whole list. Ladies believe they deserve a lot and men don't deserve much. Point being, they really don't think much of men, and the list just kills they're chances of ever mating with someone.
These are the same ladies that get mad at men chasing them for one thing when they’re mostly trying to sell us one thing.
@@thesaintsification You mean advertising their body, but mad that men try and have sex with them? 😂
@Kevin Lee
Mane 😂😂😂 They get high off max exposure and plausible deniability.
@@thesaintsification that’s why they wear shirts with cleavage then cover it up with their hand when they bend over. Smh
The list allows them to fantasize about their dream man and when they don’t get him or things end with a lesser man the women can say “at least I didn’t settle”
If you Think You're Lonely Now
Wait until Tonight Girl
Too Far Gone!!!!
" Bobby Womack " RIP
Hilfuckinlarious
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I love that song
Lol yall are a mess
One of the hardest cuts ever to this day!
The women who talk about having lists are the same ones who lose it when men state their lists/preferences. They don't even try and hide their hypocrisy. SMH
Facts
Facts
Facxxx
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@Lori Joy Fine Art Channel I have zero problems with a "list". Everyone has certain things they want in a partner. But its when people have a 300 page book of requirements is when its ridiculous. That goes for men and women.
You are a very classy honest man ! You speak the truth and ladies should listen !❤️
Her list is hilarious!!! I would be honored to just find a partner who loves God, respects, loves, and protects me. 🥰🙏🏽
What state are you in?
Amen.
Love God. Loving God has nothing to do with Relationship.
@@tebelleh If you love God you fear him. If you fear him you respect him. & out of that respect you will do honor to your wife or your husband as he commanded.
That's it right there
The problem is there are too many thirsty dudes out here trying to match what these women have on their list.
@@_SDC We all know what the proper term for these guys are, but you have to elaborate specific actions because that's such an overused term. 🙄
@@SplashWaveBeats wouldnt call it overused, but it is a term that can easily be misused. You got so-called exposers calling men on their purpose simps for giving out free game or wanting to marry
Facts
Sarah2988 Sunrise what lists, be nice, be in shape, be on our side. What’s so hard about that?
Just like the dude SDC above said. They’re simps, and we can’t worry about them. We can only try to educate them. If they don’t listen, then welcome to hell when their women screw them over.
Ladies I am a 6 figure 6 ft single man and I’m here to tell you that this dude is 100000000% right about everything!
How much do you weight.. you know that's a factor per the god father.. I'm joking.. Couldn't resist..
@@TanyaScorpio I’m 6’2 233. 8lbs lighter would be nice but I am definitely not sloppy. 😂
What are you looking for in a woman? Asking for myself. Taking notes 📝 👁😅
Guys you don’t have to take these bad deals. When you see the signs move around. I wish I didn’t rush into it. Take your time! You have time and get your money!
But dat a$$ doe...these dudes lose all control for the physical. Thats why we are in the state we are in
@Ronald Hitson yea that’s what I’m saying. Guys need to know they have all the leverage even when she might make more money then them in their 20s.
@@Wholelottarosie-lc8ed Spot on. I think we're all realising why all major religions and spiritual teachers emphasise self discipline when it comes to sex: If you're not in control of your bodily desires, someone else is.
@@Wholelottarosie-lc8ed BUT those plan b(s) for a dozen on Amazon....$45 for 12 or $45 for one. You make the call....dissolve instantly in soda 🥤
Your absolutely right and I just committed to taking a year off no dating no women . I’m working 60 hours a week , I’m working out , studying and making myself a better version of myself simply cause of what your message says .......... great message !!!!
Talk about life lessons! I know this program is geared towards single woman but as a man, I’ve taken bits and pieces of what Kevin preaches and apply to my marriage with my wife.
Let me know how it turns out.
I FOUND THIS CHANNELL TODAY ,THIS IS ACTUALLY MY FOURTH VIDEO TO WHATCH AND I MUST SAY THIS IS THE MOST RESPECTFULL GUY I HAVE SEEN ON YOU TUBE LIKE EVER,HE IS LIKE WISE WHEN ARGUIN A MATTER WITH SENSITIVE WOMEN AND EVEN THOUGH EVERYONE GOES OUT WITH WHAT THEY SAY WE ACTUALLY LEARN ALOT,THIS IS THE RIGHT PLACE TO KNOW WHAT WOMEN TAKE MEN AS,I HAVE SEEN ANOTHER SIDE OF WOMEN THAT HAS BEEN HIDDEN FROM ME,NOW IM WISER WHEN HANDLING THESE LOVELY BEAUTIES
That “danger zone” drop is hilarious.🤣🤣🤣
You are speaking all facts. A reality most women are not ready to face.
1000%
Women, facts, and reality do not go well together in the same sentence.
Yes! Instead they call this abuse wth? 🤷🏻♀️
“Don’t come in a grown man house trying to tell him what to do!”
"You better go sit your ass down somewhere. " classic
I recently called off a relationship with a woman who did the very thing you mentioned. She came from out of town to visit for one week. Three days in she started barking out orders. I literally sent her packing. That was months ago. We haven't spoken since.
Exactly. That’s why women can’t stand me. I put my foot down!
@@2Tall03XX funny thing enough. Kevin made this comment to a MAN. yet.....you some how made it about a woman. Weird🥴
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Lol @ yo mamma comment. RIP Kevin. You were a real one!!! Thanks sooooo much. Miss you🙏🏾🤴🏾🕊⚘
*Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !*
_Tappin' in from South Central LA_
*2/2/23*
This is timeless information. DAMN I miss getting these notifications. 🤝🏾
Rest easy KS 🙏🏾 You are appreciated.
🤜🏾💥🤛🏾
If you ask majority of women why they actually want to be in a relationship other than procreating, a lot of their answers would show you they should stay single.
She would drop that list in a heartbeat for “Chad”, we all know that
SNL “chad”...? JLo bent the knee
@Third Tucker true!
😂you know it 😉
Facts
All too true. RIP KS you're missed.
The masculine energy in today’s woman 💃🏾 is very strong and prevalence
where does that masculinity come from i wonder
In western culture, women and men are equivalently the same no matter of strength, size, and obligations in the realms of protection even danger. The media and liberal collegiate environments promote the ideology that feminism can trump all moral logic when it comes to male and female relationships.
Lol that shit pass masculine now it's just stupid cause masculine doesn't means being hard headed cause that's what I see in alot of em
They masculinity on another level that solid men not even trying deal with.
Depends on the race of the women your dealing with
In Kansas City, the cost of living is lower and $350k is definitely not needed to support 3 kids and a wife. It would be more than comfortable, but not a necessity.
Great point. To be fair, Kevin had a show discussing the "living comfortable" which takes $50K per person in house hold. Basically 2 family trips each year 1 to 2 weeks in length. Passports needed. Full immersive experience. Top resturaunt. Private schools. College paid for, for each child. Wife not having to work. Ability to shop. Parent vehicles paid for and a car for a child as they hit driving age. Big house with solid savings etc. Basically... think Johnson County Leawood type. To be sure I agree with you sis that it could be done in KC Metro for less ($150-200K 3 to 4 children and parents) but Kevin has a standard that is upper middle class w/o financial stress. That's $300-350K.
Yea I agree his cost of living with a family is wayyy off.. Not sure he’s getting this info
@@THSLast he is adding cost for college
@@nbcricketnumber this was such a thorough explanation thank you so much!!! Idk where u got it from but thank you for sharing it!
Cause this whole time i was sitting here like where does it go to? 😆
A man with $350k won't support your 3 kids and you. He'll support his 3 kids and super hot 25 year old.
I remember watching that episode.
Steve arranged a date for her after the show.
When the producers did a followup program to find where she was at with dating, she was alone drinking her wine and stating she was just fine alone. 🙄
I tell women to never said you are happy alone!! That’s the most idiotic thing to say if you ever want to get married.
She deserves to be alone. I wouldn't wish her on any man.
FFWd 5 years she's fat and alone.
All women who say they're fine alone are not. They just can't have a man.
Yeah.. who would have guessed.. :D
“Can’t be stronger than me” She sound like Vegeta, who wants to deal with that
😂😂😂😂 Not Vegeta though
Goku
Vegeta: “you see ladies, you’re not dealing with the average single mother anymore”
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🤣🤣🤣 no dragon balls for you...
"Im gonna walk ah way from love... time to play it smart."
David Ruffin-
Comment is super underrated
You’ll be missed GF! Wow! What a great show!
Hi Kevin, I just became aware of your show on 12/10/2020, and I was very angry at first. It wasn't what you were saying it was how you were saying that rubbed me wrong but after watching multiple videos, I can't get enough. I have shared this video hoping and praying my younger female cousins will watch and learn.
Women hate truth!
Yeah women want you to talk to them like they are 5 year olds with fragile constitutions.
how is that going
Kevin, you should be on international TV. Your message should be heard here in Germany as well..
Agreed.
RUclips is doing the job .cause normal network tv wont let him tell the truth
It's the internet. The internet is international. He's not on tv anywhere. I'm in Germany too. I can watch him without any problem.
These ladies are out of touch with reality.
Yes!!!!!!
They are not ladies, just women
They may be out of touch with reality, but they're certainly in touch with their delusions.
@@bathombre9739 correction noted my man
I'm surprised that she hasn't added he has to be a good singer & a good dancer.
If ur angry at this peace of classic teachings. You can’t be saved, your too far gone. Bravo KS. Keep teaching brother 💪🏾
I'm 61, in very good shape (hit the gym every other day), semi retired, house. Not rich, but comfortable. I haven't dated in 14 years. Best decision I have made. I'm after peace. Why would I invite today's woman into my life to mess that up?
Women can be some of the hardest to please people. You don't hear men being referred to with descriptions like "high-maintenance" or "needy" to the same extent as women. And more than half the time, can't even meet her own requirements. Don't ask for or demand what you can't offer.
Facts 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾
Did a black woman just make sense, where is Jesus Christ 😅😭
1000%
All Nigerian women should read this. Key words"don't ask what you can't give"
@@dahnaustin4540 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you aint right lol
Every time the salute comes out, I’m rolling. I love it!
20:50 "Can't be stronger than me" wtf she tryna do that she needs to be stronger.
She's trippin'
@Bachata Heat Don't blame it on the rona - a lot of women have unrealistic expectations like her.
That was my favorite one
She wants a man not strong enough to overthrow her BS
My interpretation of that is that she wants to be in control and doesn't want a man to control her.
Women be engaged for 5 years and the courthouse be 30 minutes away! ⚰️ ⚰️⚰️
God, I miss this man. 😔
The list is a defense mechanism. These people are scared of a relationship they can't call all the shots on.
Even if they got that perfect relationship they would still complain
It’s just a blueprint. You can’t build a house without one. How are you going to build the foundation of a friendship, courtship, relationship, or marriage, without a plan?
@@chunmcrae1413 Haha, just a blueprint... go 3D print your man then.
@@Likexner Sir, line I said, it's mine. Thanks!
She mentions all her past relationships that didn't work, never took responsibility for why it didn't last.
"Are you PhD" no "but you got a🐕" 😂 only Godfather...
I lost it when he went there!
I’m new here what’s the joke?
@@pdead0624 It's referring to the fact that a lot of women who have PhDs or are educated usually end up alone with only a pet to keep them company due to their "lists".
@@kittenchristmas4194 yoo thanks for answering... now i can join in on the joke lol
That shiiiii was heeeeelarious too!!!!🤣🤣🤣
So true. This woman can say this stuff so freely. If any black man said anything like this they would be scrutinized to the highest degree.
Brilliance is transcendental.Thats why KS ability to communicate complexities feels present. Life love you good sir 🙏
This is why I find the Reddit thread "Where are all the good men" so entertaining.
The clock ticking to emphasise time is running out was on point!
Outstanding K,S, Everything you have said 👏 is 100% CORRECT about these LISTS, Most women like this have NOTHING to Offer a man Anyway, This is one of MEANY REASONS why a lot of them will REMAIN SINGLE ! ! !
Man I needed this conversation about the degree thing. I did the same thing she did got my degree and couldn't get a job in my field for couple of years and just stopped looking. I'm in healthcare administration now with a Marketing degree. Wow I wish I had someone to tell me what he told her. I did waste a lot of years but it's hard when all the jobs are asking for 3 years of experience.
Kevin, is great to finally see someone bring these topics to the spotlight, I honestly thought it would take another generation before women started getting this. I think another topic that could should be addressed to women are the dangers of excessive sexual partners and how damaging that can be a woman's ability to bond with a man. Its not something a woman can just turn on. A woman needs to be careful who she shares that with because it weakens with every man she sleeps with and weakens her ability to love a man. For those of you who walk in the faith, you are familiar with the verse: ...and they should become one flesh; that explains why modern women become so broken, constant sexual bonding and breaking they become a broken mess. How can you build something solid with something that is broken?
When he started singin "ima phd" over money world I lost it 😂😄
That list will keep her single forever
I can’t believe you’ve been gone for two months now. I miss your LIVE SHOW and Discussion on IG and RUclips🥹💯😢 Rewatching old videos helps with getting through tough times like today. You are forever missed Mr. Samuels 🫡🙏🏼
I feel yah bro. Im doing the same.
This is show is the best in exposing the delusions of women
Jesus himself doesn’t fit the requirements on that list 🤣
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literally
JC doesn't fit the list requirements because he's not "perfectly imperfect".
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I know...he even had a boat😁
As a dog trainer, nothing can be more dangerous than getting the wrong dog from the shelter, you don’t know Whatchu getting sometimes, while from a responsible breeder you know exactly what your getting, health, temperament, everything
Got my healer pup from an Amish farm breeder. The bonding from a pup is a must for a lifelong companion
Got my 1st accounting job after 2 years of schooling... It paid well enough to take care of my then family...did additional courses, and got real-world experience. 10 years later.
I've finished my degree, I earn 60k a year, and I will be going for my designation. I get paid between 50-60k; as a consultant, I make over 100k with the programming skills I developed doing business intelligence work.
She didn't try; Kevin is 100% correct. A degree in accounting is worthless without experience. 5 years of experience guarantees a starting wage in the mid-'20s per hour. Having a professional designation and 5 years of experience guarantees in the mid-30s in hourly pay.....
SHE DIDN'T TRY!
They want it easy and handed to them STRAIGHT outta college.
This man is wonderful. Much appreciated
Sir u are teaching valuable lessons on both sides!
Just discovered your channel. Brilliant stuff.
It is great that this lady is putting it all out there, so all men can stay clear away from her period!
18 years ago I approached my husband in high school... I went after I wanted...meaning I was his friends for close to years...he was super shy...but he was def feeling me for sure. I asked him out😍 Grew up christian not no a Christian now though...but I wasn't afraid of rejection though. 🤣🤣🤣 anyways 18 years later married for 13 years... With two kids 5 year boy and 4 year old girl❤️❤️. I got married at 21 and he was 23... We are madly in love... Business partners and bestfriends. He makes 50,000 a year... we definitely built and support each other through our journey.❤️❤️❤️💋
Why are not a Xstian now? We all know atheism is the root cause of all these modern day superficial...
@@vxcvfyutube4957 bc I am not and it is my right... I believe in the higher power but I do not do Christianity... I guarantee... I am goodT without being a Christian...
@@AuthorBougieQue I agree, organized religion is a great control mechanism. GOD and organized religion are not the same thing.
@@lpg12338 people just don't see the difference though... They problem not mine 😂😂😂
@@vxcvfyutube4957 Only weak minds need to be religious to not be problematic.
I'm 24 and I have a list as well, but it is very realistic and does not include ANY physical characteristics. We need to redefine our lists to personality traits: High Integrity, Financially Stable, or Family Oriented.
So what if all the men that come your way in 10 years dont make it on your list
@@richmondboahene6536 then it’s a truly sad world we live in when we can’t encounter men with these 3 high quality traits
We don't want to know. Nice try tho
@@richmondboahene6536 you know what's going to happen. She will die alone. Lol
ok i will bite, so what is your list that you want in a man ?
Over the yearss I attained four university degrees including a MBA and a law degree. I have dated women who are medical doctors, lawyers, and in business. Many of them own larger homes, fancier cars and have bigger banks acounts than I do.
However, the aforementioned are not controlling factors. If we don't really like each other none of the rest really matters.
She wants a damn superhero..also known as a fictional character which by definition makes her delusional.
She needs a blank slate to program
Funny thing is, if she got someone who checked off everything on that list, she'd be bored with him. Lol
Single and 42, I can totally relate to the 43yr old caller and the advice Kevin gave... wakeup call
Hope you Still keeping the advice
I miss you Mr.Samuels 🥹I will keep spreading your word. Salute to you
I'm glad she called in. I wish her well. I'll keep her in my prayers.
So Jack must be nimble, Jack must be quick, and Jack must jump over the candlestick for these tricks? I’ll pass
I like that!!!!! Lmao
😂😂 yep-yep👍🏽😂
Hey, some people are into wax play.
Lol 😂
LMFAO!!!!
"He can't be stronger than me." WTF!!
Sick
She wants a beta provider. No way shes gonna be attracted to such a guy.
Chad is benging that for free. Does not sleep over though.
I’m a massage therapist, photographer and work at the post office ... Superwoman AKA Agent of chaos smh 🤦♀️
More like some woman who have no direction in her life..
She got a real dose of reality for the first time in her life. You can tell how she reacted. Kevin hit her with some cold hard facts!! She probably had to go back the the gram for fake validation after this convo. Lol
I feel so sorry for these women, they seem not to fully understand the math of life or having a family. It's like they are walking blindly into a dark room, without a care in the world. How can they not be aware of this level of reality?
These old delusional ladies and especially the single moms with unreasonable demands think of men as a ATM and errand boys. They don't understand money, value, how to earn money, time, age, what men do, how things get done, etc. This series is very eye-opening.
I love women with list like this. They are telling you upfront that they are crazy. You know right away that you should avoid them. Marriage is the goal, but this is so common that living separate is often the best option. That way it doesn't matter what bad habits he have. You don't have to live with it.
True
Interesting! 🤔
Just sex. Nothing else
Facts
no one should disclose their list, as you want that person to naturally meet your list. you don't want someone that will conform to meet the list. because it makes them a fake person. and you don't want a conformist.
I’m married , this is my second marriage . I was married for 15 years and now married for 9 years . I NEVER had a list . I meet a person and get to know them and take it from there , is this not normal anymore . I’m 45 now and the only one thing is I ever expected from a man was to have his own transportation and his own place and hold his own . Like a grown man riding a bicycle is ridiculous but other than that these list are crazy 😜
yup and here we go again, with those crazy list's from women hehe
She made that list as a scapegoat and so that she doesn't have to compete for what she wants. In fact, this is typical, because it is fear based.
wow! 🤔
I just went through trying to court a girl who had a list and your comment is SPOT. ON!
The comments regarding women with dogs really hit home for me as I've experienced it first hand a number of times. I absolutely will not submit myself to an animal, let alone someone else's animal!
Some people just want everything and they don't offer the same in return.