That swirller that called asking about White men then cutting you off and pretending to not hear the whole question. She was chomping at the bit to go in on Black men. You played it cool.
Those women were delusional. Especially the first caller who said that a woman with 2 kids by 2 different men is = to a woman with no kids.. 🤦🏾♂️ Then when you asked her if she would want her son to date a woman with the same situation; she said no but when you referred the question back to her.. she responded that “people make mistakes and should overlook hers”... 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
What's up Kevin? Was watching an episode of Half and Half (love that show) on Netflix and on this episode Dee Dee is dating this high value cat that starts talking to her about their future wedding and what does Dee Dee do? She gets scared and bolts! She's in her mid 20's studying to be a lawyer and says maybe one day she'll be ready...just not now. I saw that episode years ago but it really resonated now watching your show. This show was almost 20 years ago but sadly still rings true.
I’m a 45 year old white guy, professional engineer, married with one daughter. I am not the target audience by any means. Nor would I claim to have a valid opinion on Black culture or relationships. But I find this man and his perspective FASCINATING. Wow. What a wonderful resource for people of all skin colours. Keep up the great work Kevin!
Agreed ( 1st Gen Mexican American, married with 4 kids) Kevin empowers me by reinforcing the value I always believed I had. Modern society had lied to me too and made all of us men believe we were not the asset.
Women with sons who say they see nothing wrong with their situations. But say they wouldn't want their sons dating women who are in said same situation are funny. 😂
Yep the single mothers (who also glamorize single motherhood) raise their sons to pedestalize women will eventually realize why their sons grow up to be friendzoned.
@@takahashii5854 You are *mostly* right. Kevin said a marriage minded man does not need to wait 3 years - he will marry inside 6 months. He repeatedly warns ADOS [american black] women about (white, latino, middle-eastern and asian women) attending black male studies courses; that those women are coming for black men (not just athletes & entertainers - that was first-wave); he advised black women that they have to compete. He said (paraphrasing) to assess the situation and act accordingly, and to increase your value so you are NOT limited yourself to ados women. Whoever can speak Japanese & Hangul (I am a web/database/systems programmer, get in touch) is going to make a killing matchmaking Korean and Japanese women with black men.
The PR women have a high opinion....of themselves. I'm a subject matter expert and they just set me up for presentations. They don't know or do a lot (don't tell them this)
The woman who had a whole bunch of men wanting to marry her...she was definitely pretending not to hear the questions so that she would have a chance to come up with her lies. LMAOO
Facts because no woman in her right mind is going to sit there with men wait in to marry her would be single for a 1 year or 2 and then pop up and say ok am ready to married now when the right guy is there she is going all in for that one man
My favourite trick of hers is when she says "just because...". Like "just because i have 3 kids, that doesnt mean i have baggage". Imagine a guy saying "just because i dont make a lot of money, that doesnt mean i cant get a pole vaulter virgin wife".
A couple of years ago, I became friends with a young Chinese woman, who owned the corner store where I lived at. I remember her telling me she was unhappy in her relationship with her fiance, but she was afraid that if they ever split, no one would want her because she had a child out of wedlock. She said in their culture AKA Chinese culture it was frowned upon to be a single mother... I remember thinking about how common that is here, and in our culture in america, it's really not that big of a deal. But now listening to Kevin's videos, and thinking about other cultures in africa, and Asia, now I realize just how bad it is to have kids out of wedlock. It creates so many problems in society. I have two kids out of wedlock myself, and I'm raising them on my own. And it's definitely affecting my children in a very negative way. Like, we really be sabotaging ourselves by having kids so willy-nilly.
@@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp can something be sacred without having anything to do with god?. If you respect some thing at a deeper level, then it is sacred to you. Has nothing to do with god.
@SeventhkeyOmega Revenge Unapologetic, delusional, unaccountable, mean, lazy, despicable, masculine, narcissistic, obstinate... (anyone else?) ** If the shoe fits. Too bad Mrs. Doc isn't a counselor. Oh, I forgot: STUBBORN, so even Mrs. Doc can't help them.
@@LamontAdair And it's going to get worse. The 80%.then the 85% barrier for single black women is going to be broken..and they will STILL run that mouth and attitude. What do they say about insanity???
And these callers are just a minute FRACTION of what's really out there. At least most of these women are somewhat respectful, the vast majority are 100% WORSE. It's terrifying.
My mother was married at 19 and had me a year later, and she and my father have been married 60 years. If you are old enough to have a kid, you are old enough to commit to marriage. And why, why, why would you bring children into the world without marriage? They didn't get to choose, but no child would choose that.
@@pqc7959 Stop it! 🙄🤯 I think one can assume I'm talking about women who choose to get pregnant and have a child out of wedlock-not a child who has been raped!
You’re thinking in terms of logic, and marriage being a vow between two people to work together to build the next generation. This is the 2020’s and women have to hop on that D by date 2. Then when the kids come out, well, whats best for the kid isn’t important. It’s all about whether the parents are “happy”. Just do what gives you the most short term gratification, and completely ignore the needs of people around you. It’s the 2020’s! We’re enlightened now. /sarcasm
Kevin is doing Satans work at best & any woman in her right mind that listens to him & believes in his hype is crazy!!!!! This dude will have u jumping off a cliff. Ppl like this man should just b stopped... lol
@@vibe2248 You are exactly right. Instead of telling young men to take care of their children, get married, start getting resources for their own communities, start building in their own communities and compete with other men and not their females, he is telling these men that they are high quality when that is an impossibility for Black men in the System of Racism White Supremacy.
@@vibe2248 If he is doing Satans work and hes so dangerous that he will have you jumping off a cliff, why are you laughing then? Im talking about the "lol" you just had to put at the end. I dont think you were laughing when you wrote that. Using lols, lmaos, laughing emojis etc. when you dont really mean it is a tell tale sign of a stupid person who spends a lot of time on Shitter.
Ladies it simple, be classy , interesting, fun, freaky and fit, intellectual, friendly /approachable , spiritual /submissive/ a listener , genuine; you either got it or you don’t but there’s someone for everyone.
Much respect to you sis, and (not but) being all you said is far easier said than done. It's simple to write that list out, but it's not simple being all of the above. My question is... what are all the things men "simply" have to do/be in order to get us? Their list never seems to be a long as ours. And can us ladies just be honest... men really aren't all that interesting nor are they all that deep. Women who really elevate their consciousness often discover just how "optional" men are in their lives. We usually experience more joy-filled living without them than with them. But I know this isn't the channel to be talking like this. So I'm going to exit and get back in my lane. Lol.
@@branessakunitz for all the women who love posting spiritual quotes, I've never met a woman a could seriously have a deep conversation with. Women wear virtues like an ornament. Men HAVE TO be virtuous, so all of that talk about us not be any of those things or not being "deep" is bullshit. We have to be ALL of the things she said above, and then some. You show me a man who isn't, and I'll show you a man who isn't getting his woman's respect, and most certainly isn't getting her love. The shit we do looks like it comes easy to us because you guys aren't seeing the work that we have to put in.
Literally that's ALL we ask for sis. We ain't asking for you guys to be CEOs of a fortune 500 company or anything. Shit is basic. Problem is that some of the things that you just mentioned require work, and most women don't wanna do the work.
Well, she buried the question under tons of rambling and then she tried to dig it up when she was done. I wouldnt have repeated it either. She needed to be taught a lesson.
"He's about 50 and his name is John. He lives in jersey. We havent dated but he wants to marry me..." wooooow! That woman was sooooo full of ship. It is sad that she actually believes her own crap. Smh.
I’m with a Korean woman now and she’s great because she wants and values having A MAN. I respect that about her and treat her well because she treats me like I’m valuable and I do the same for her in return.
salute. They don't tolerate STUPID ass "swag" dudes.. I am recruiting guys like you and women like your wife, to help match Korean and Japanese women with black dudes. We will breed a superior race. (KIDDING) we can make happy couples..
That last caller has horrible conversation skills. She listened just long enough to respond. Didn’t let the words settle didn’t let it ruminate, nothing.Why would anyone choose that!?!
You're right!!! That last caller was so combative and had to have an answer to rebuke everything Kevin tried to say. Anytime a woman says, she's happily single, you just met a unhappy woman who can't thrive in a committed relationship. It's dog buying time for her.
Great work, Mr Samuels. This episode specifically, is one of the main reasons why Kevin asks the women if their fathers raised them. When men make mistakes in dating, it’s usually something that can be corrected. When women make dating mistakes, those mistakes (kids out of wedlock, high body counts, abusive pasts, youth/fertility/beauty wasted) are usually irreversible. This is why I don’t blame dads for being overprotective of their daughters.
I definitely wasted my youth,fertility and beauty listening to my big sisters and dad scare me about men till I found myself in the danger zone, on the other side of 30, then they started asking me why I wasn't married and my sisters pushing me to " just" have a kid!
My biggest take away from this episode is how many women are willing to ignore or get rid of a guy for any minuscule reason using bad faith, then later on in life look around to see that there are no good buyers for what they're selling any longer. Ladies at what age do you think most guys stop falling for manipulation?🥴⏰🎺💯
The part with the doctor lady who described the appeal of Marilyn Monroe.. that really resonated with me! I’m a 27 yr old female who has a chemical engineering degree from good school, has a snatched waist and cute face, a competitive Brazilian jiu jitsu athlete, is debt free, and was able to land a full time job in Europe. I have always felt I was a catch (still do), but I have had a hard time holding down a man the last few years. So I started watching Kevin’s vids and I will say they definitely helped me realize that while I am a catch, I have lost touch with my femininity and my excitement for life! As she said, I think we as women do lose touch with that through our jobs and stuff and I agree with her, we need to get back in touch with that. Thank you so much Kevin and that lady for this bit! I am going to work on having that more feminine side again :) I am happy I found this out now while I’m still quite young.
"I feel like me having 2 kids by 2 men is still equal to women who don't have kids." BW logic for you. Stay far away from them and watch how much better your quality of life becomes.
@alicia simmons I agree that you should be married when you have children. But do not allow these men to devalue you are co-sign them devaluing females who do have children when the men are not taking responsibility. Black men are NOT marrying. They refuse to do what would stop a lot of the ills in our communities. Getting married, providing resources, building up their communities, compete with other men, etc.
@@EdenSophia118 most BW single mothers do not want to be married to the father of the child. Because he will have the authority, and most BW want the authority of the man and the woman. BW want husband's and fathers of the children to have no authority, influence, and control over anything, but want them to build a world for women that want all of the authority...smh. Keep talking your bs, we know the truth today!
A few of millionaire guys I know say that professional women worry about work too much and competing. They also say they are not good in relationships them although at times they wish they could date a millionaire as well for the benefits of their lifestyles. Others just want a younger woman to stay home and be there for them.
The professional woman MUST posses "Trait Disagreeableness" in order to compete in the workplace, lest they fall behind. -(sic) Dr. Jordan Peterson "T.D" while required for success in workplace, tends to destroy relationships
While it may be very true , it’s also a great line to use on a younger pretty girl as bait… it’s the same level of man talk as “my wife doesn’t understand me”…. It’s remarkable how many affairs start this way at the office…it’s a door opener … I have been there, done it, seen it ……I don’t condone it , just saying it is a real thing…it’s a slippery slope ..
The way Kevin speaks and can bring chaotic woman's speech and put it in a clear concise statement is amazing. The way he pauses and thinks what comes out his mouth is a gift. This man has taught me loads. Respect to you Sir
I do not understand why women who are married call to get advice about their husband. I do not feel that is productive for a relationship. You married him deal with it or at least go a professional counselor. Why are they wasting time trying to convince Kevin he a good guy? It does not look good for the success of your relationship calling someone on the internet for advice.
@Geechie82 so why is she worried about a 52 year old man on RUclips? A few shows ago he told black female attorneys and PhDs to lower their standards for a HENRY. She obviously did that, she called in for advise to navigate but he told her to run basically. Walking contradiction. All he had to say was seek professional marriage counseling and a very good family financial planner. Everything has to be planned because she will eventually become a higher earner than her husband. He's a Walking contradiction. Every show something different.
@@7fb7383f I'm definitely not misunderstanding. I got all that. What you and him fail to realize or maybe you just didn't listen to her. She mentioned he had mentors and a few friends with the same profile and career path who progressed to high 6 figures. Women don't need to call RUclips to discuss their man with a 51 yr old man who has no licenses, credentials, or experience in relationship counseling or therapy. From watching these videos all the answers are the same regardless of their situation. Her situation is more common than not with black women. KS is marketing high value men with specific criteria that he scoped for his own niche market, selling it to BW when the data shows that is less than 4% of the population of black men. Most black women will be working after marriage. So give better advise to someone who has already planned their wedding. She already knew this could be a potential issue. She asked How to maneuver. Why give her back what she already assessed, insult her and hang up. These women calling need validation their man is good from someone on RUclips in suit. Stay in marriage counseling with someone trained and experienced and get with a financial planner.
Professional women succeed in their careers because there are steps, rules , and paths to follow in order to do a task/job correctly. There's no playback for a relationship.
2 kids by 2 different men you hit the wall. U would never tell your son to date a woman with 2 kids by 2 different men she is delusional. Sad. And I bet she say there are no good black men. She should try to work it out with one of them.
If the lady is a single mother. Isn't the BM a single father? How are you all, THE MEN, exempt from the equation? If men are the head of the household, why are they not the head of feeding their children?
@@EdenSophia118 stop shifting accountability maaam.Alot of singles mothers are given full responsibilty of the child and out of vengence decide to not let the man in their life..And as you said a single father cannot be a head pf the household because the single mother lives in a different house😂😂😂
Older bw hate to see me out with my man (they roll they eyes or stare us down ) cause he’s 15 yrs my senior and it’s obvious cause he looks older, while other races smile including bm and are polite , bw need to relax and change their mind sets. Enjoy life (live, love and laugh baby)!
Bw like the ones last night are the reason others of us have to work twice as hard to prove all of us aren't obnoxious, childish, delusional, and totally self-absorbed. The giggling, cackling, and raising their voice is reason for them not to be taken seriously by anybody. That was nothing short of embarrassing. I've said countless times (because there's such difficulty understanding), hvm for the most part don't want instant families. Henrys and average men with no kids don't want them either. To insist on a man still be interested in you with your current state of affairs just because "it's a mistake", is entitlement at best. Being accountable requires acknowledging that past decisions affect your future and no one is obligated to be understanding or accepting of it. Insisting that you're "fine" doesn't matter if the men you want don't want you back.
They are not proving anything to you. BW who have worked hard to get their degrees, see about their children, work hard, etc can laugh, giggle, or whatever as much as they choose. Honestly, BM could care less. Are they providing resources for you? Are they building up their communities or crying about gentrification? They are being plucked off one by one EVERYDAY. Do they have a recourse? Are they competing with other men making things better for their communities? No. Because they do not care.
@@detroit6363 How can we be feminine when we are constantly working, going to school, providing, feeding children, paying for resources other men from another nation provides and being discriminated against while using facilities that other nation of men provide?
Time after time these callers prove that they have made their choice to die alone because, in their heart of hearts they know the men that they want and desire does not want them. So it’s either die alone or marry someone that you would not be happy with. They would rather die alone if they had to actually do what men have to which is take care a family. And out all the callers the lawyer that call to confirm she was settling was the most heart breaking call to me because the hell she is going to put that man through because of her choices is sad😔. Great job Kevin👏🏽👏🏽
I almost settled and couldn't. I felt like a failure being a baby mama but I did seek therapy to work on my relationships with others in general (romantic and friendship). Met a high earner that I didnt feel worthy of but we are still together and I'm happy. The gentleman that wanted to marry me, was a mommas boy unfortunately and I couldn't settle for someone that was accustomed to being emasculated by women. He would say "yes ma'am " to me during our disagreements and hold his had down. I wanted him to speak up so bad. It was sad and he came from a 2 parent household.
@@Ruckerpark98 But you acknowledge the men who fathered them are not taking care of the children, fair enough 🤔. Also you said grandmothers instead of grandparents--second acknowledgement, women doing the work.
This doctor who CONSTANTLY keeps calling...... i cant lie; i like her energy/aura/2pence....!! Shes nailed everything on the head what it takes to be a successful woman; yet you can tell she understands how to be submissive to her man! Beautiful 🙌🏾
I feel the most empowered as a woman in my home. I enjoy creating a supportive healthy environment for my family. My husband admired me most when he saw me raising his children well. I pitched in working when we needed it. Now, we live off the money he earned all these years and enjoy our well adjusted adult children and happy, healthy grandbabies. Simple, balanced, imperfectly, beautiful. Don't believe the lies, ladies.
Amen to that!!! It's like women see other women messing up and they go do the exact same thing the other women did thinking, she we will have a better outcome. LoL!!! I was always taught to learn from other's mistakes and never make the same mistake twice. I thank God for making me a Male!!! LoL!!!
Honestly, this show kind of hurt my spirit. I’m 25, and was engaged to a 22 year old woman up until a month ago. And even though she doesn’t fit the definition of “career woman” there was so much of her I saw in these calls that it’s depressing. Little comments she would make would set my jaw tight, not because they were disrespectful, but because I saw this same mentality in her of having a complete obliviousness to knowing how to move with a man without really understanding the full implications of it, but knowing on an instinctual level that I couldn’t marry a woman who thinks and acts this way. And hearing this show just made so many past arguments and situations come into clarity. And for the longest time, I thought she was a diamond in the rough. Fit, pretty, came from a married household, with an extended family with a history of successful marriages, fatherly guidance, fairly agreeable. Yet she knew nothing about actually being wife except cooking a dinner every now and then. And she even acted like doing that much was something so significant for a woman to do without being married. Now I have to wonder just how small a target I’m really aiming for. Yeah, men making 6 figures or better make only 10%. But the number of women who are fit, feminine, friendly, and fully understand what it means to be a wife within the black community must be... abysmal. I’d hesitate to even say 5%. Do I really *have* to get a non-black woman? Because the very first one I dated understood what to do and how to move from the first date. Yet I want a black woman still.
No. But understand one thing. Black women are all over the world. Go get you a French black woman. Or a Brazilian sista. Your options are only as limited as you make them. In California it’s latinas who are scooping up most of the brothers. Main thing is to find a woman that’s cooperative and feminine.
@jonasbabe75 That was a consistent argument we had in the first few months. Me telling her “All that ‘I won’t do x, y, and z until you marry me’ stuff doesn’t fly with me, because I’m not that way towards you. I’ll deal with someone else if you think you’re gonna hold your full effort hostage against me for a ring.” Knowing what I know now, I would’ve ended things there instead of going through all the arguments and ultimatums. I understood that a woman’s heart can’t be in the right place if she thinks in those terms, but I didn’t fully understand how deep that problem ran. And this show tells me that even some of the best looking sisters on paper have this same issue.
@jonasbabe75 98% of your peers are not. So keep and preserve that, it is special. Join Kevin's group to find your HVM if you want one. Good job and good luck!
I feel this. I have lived this exact reality. I was at the same crossroads as you. Then one day in the stock market a few months ago, I asked for a meal, and she gave me that “I’m not your mom” talk. I had a stock I wanted to day trade because I felt a big pop coming but I had a headache so I went inside thinking I can make something in 5 mins and nothing would happen. Didn’t set an order because it was teetering both directions. When I came back to my home office from the kitchen it quintupled..... I missed out on 5 times my money in 5 mins. She hears me screaming in the room and asked what happened. I said that I decided to “not be a mommas boy” and make myself for and missed my pick of the year over it. Her face froze. I told her I can’t keep living this way and that I don’t need a woman who’s competing with me. I need one that does what I can’t do. She felt the pressure that I was checking out and day by day is becoming a true wife. Never misses a meal, massages, pep talk, best wap I’ve ever had, supportive, almost eradicated her need to be right and always acts girly and adorable when she knows the days been rough in the market. I know my experience is anecdotal but you said that she was fairly agreeable and came from good pedigree. Sounds like there’s a chance if you find a way to word the importance of why the tradition roles are CRUCIAL for both of you to see your highest heights. My portfolio has doubled in the last 3 months since this crossroads. I wish you well my brother. You’d be surprised how much can be accomplished if men and women actually speak their peace and state their purpose. God bless
I work in biotech. Im surrounded by married asian women who are fit and super feminine. I have a colleague who followed her husband and took years off work despite having 2 masters degrees while she was a stay at home mom. She's smart as hell but still feminine and knows how to play her role. Why are black women who call in have so much trouble with this?
I think most black women view a woman being feminine as weak. Or maybe they don't know how. I stopped trying to figure it out long time ago. I'm mainly attracted to Latina women and white girls. They are more feminine, friendlier, usually have better bodies and attractive faces and treat a man better. Non-black women are snatching up black men left and right and I see how/why.
Asian women are encouraged as kids to be with a man. I was encouraged to be with a man by my mom but somehow still believed some of the feminist bull in my marriage. Now, as a married woman I don’t really trust Black women as friends. They say stupid crap about marriage all but two very religious ones. Now, just like the men, I can only get along well with Latina, white or very white like mixed chics.
@Ase Kavy these black women have a lot of nice guys in the friend zone or basically walk away from stable guys because they are boring or are not sexy or don't make enough money let's be honest a lot of these callers have chosen to chase HMVs who can choose more agreeable women and don't have to prove themselves first before getting decent treatment. Which is why we are seeing lots of interracial relationships from black HMVs.
This world needs more people like him to teach our culture. We need healing in a major way, our woman are beautiful but are unwilling to follow anyone but their own opinions, don't really like the truth at all.
He's probably eye candy and she's willing to compromise on his lack of ambition for the chance to strut him off in front of her older, overweight friends.
"black men are the bottom socio-economically but are the second most sort after men" -- thats powerful and call for us BM to be more competitive, improve and increase.
@jonasbabe75 Black men are second only to white men in desirability and that's only because of economics. You notice when black men are athletes, entertainers or high value businesses men the playing field levels out completely.
At first I thought these calls were staged, but watching many & learning 2 of the callers are trying to sue told me they're real. Undiagnosed mental conditions, escapism, fantasy, alternate reality...... Scary stuff!
The 25 year old attorney will regret marrying her 28 year old service advisor husband with an Associates degree when she starts working in the private sector. She'll begin earning $125K/year and meeting HVM earning $200K - $350K/year everyday: senior associates, junior partners and senior partners. She's already becoming proficient in Family Law. She'll be divorcing him before the second child.
To the women that don't understand how a kid or 2 decreases their value... Look at it this way. I go to the dealership to buy a Mercedes Benz. I'm about to buy the Mercedes but before I sign the papers, the salesman says "oh by the way, the Mercedes comes with a kid that you have to take care of." Me: No thanks man, I'll just go to another dealership... Salesman: But sir, this is a special Mercedes.. Me: what can this Mercedes do that others can't? Salesman: crickets 🦗🦗🦗
@@danielle1959 the child's life is most likely ruined by being raised with one parent. You obviously think that this is acceptable and don't like the stats of grown children that were raised by single mothers 🙄.
There is a method to Kevin's work.. He patiently took his time to dismantle that first caller... That funeral salute doesn't come out for nothing... 😂😂😂
If he’s a service advisor at a luxury car dealership then that’s possible. At least in the northeast. They make lots of commission and bonuses. When they up sell you on work they make money. Buddy of mine is a Volvo service advisor and makes over $80K Edit: In GA no way he’s making 80K. 50K if he’s lucky
I really feel sorry for them , they won't listen, they could actually turn everything around and have a future with a good provider. May not be a hvm but a good high paying blue collar man or even a average earning man. Who wants to come home to a combative woman every day or even 3 times a week .
My take waya about this video were many, but what resounded to me was the weave comment. The moment I went natural, my man was excited. No more wigs/weaves or braids and my head has never been happier!🤗
@ANUPTAH Yes, also a talented Artist. Glamorous Life was written and composed by Prince and they produced it together. Indeed, great things can result when a man and woman work in harmony.
Men that are competing and high earners leave this power couple fantasy alone. You may think that you 80k plus her 70k will make for a story book ending but in most cases she will despise you because she hard to work and contribute for the rest of her life. Don’t put yourself through that fellas. Since watching Kevin’s show I really get my brothers are marrying out. I was talking to a friend the other day and I was like man you know the last time I dated a feminine black women? Middle school😳. That’s just 😞 young Brothers save yourself by avoiding these career motivated black women! All that hard and aggressive behavior is such a turn off.
I disagree. Are you saying that the wife in a Black family making 150K a yr (DOUBLE the average in the US) will despise the husband because she has to work? But women of other races wouldn't?
@@FalaqX at this point I don’t give a flying fuk what you women think. Kevin plays those games with you all to show men what females really think when they are held to the fire. Instead of you women listening to some real game. Y’all wanna fight. Nall I’m good. Do what you do and keep it moving. Best of luck to you sis✊🏾 My comments for brothers and women that get it. I’m not here to convince failures that that are not failures sorry I’m not.
@@Ruckerpark98 look at my picture. (Me & my daughters) look at my page (a bunch of Farrakhan videos) I'm a dude, what about my page makes you think im female?
OMG, the 1st caller was absolutely rediculous, no accountability what so ever, and the mindset is insane...😲😳 🏇🏊♂️🏃🏾♂️👨🏽🦽Whoever dates her will have 0 peace.☠
@Ted Tillman I'm loving to hear that. And please be consistant on your path and leave single mothers for single fathers or anyone who really want them. See I saw too many men who were messing with the single mothers' minds in order to build a soul tie which obviously leads to the easy access to her body....in the end the single moms are being called "stupid for thinking this could be something".
@Ted Tillman yes I get your point. Well I am a divorcee myself left with 4 children from marriage one father obviously and I'm having a custody.....according to many coaches I am no value at all! Yet I saw men taking off them wedding ring before come talk to me, others hiding them age to actually get close to the single momma! I believe even in the USA there are women with kids, women left alone who never aimed for it. This is why I'm pointing here "great you are aware of what you want and you not gon deal or use any hot single mom....see you like it or not single mothers are easy targets and must be protected, given advice on how to read the manipulation. It is a different thing if she herself decides to be a MILF lets say, yet a different game if MEN give hopes for the relationship without actually planning it. This is why I'm putting thumbs up on your comment with honesty. I do not like the idea of throwing stones of blame on women who decided to "keep it". They def lowered their time and availability and completly do not match a single childless man but still can be roses! Mothers hold amazing value. And if you guys start saying it loud maybe they will eventually start believing it what do you think?! I really would love the society to help them navigate the life so they don't feel loosers out there. And this is how some coaches describe them. A looser for bringing the new life into the world. This aint right.
I ❤these insightful shows. Ran across them after his passing but still bringing light into darkness. ‘II’m a PHD’. (Problematic, Heartless and Demanding). KS, you’re the Best of the Best.
Because they’re bored... life is actually too easy for them. If they are in shape, and lively and smile often, then a man will simply give them what they want. Imagine living in a world where all you have to do is ask for something using a soft voice, and you will receive it? That’s a woman’s world. As men, we have to work and earn everything that we have. Women actually have envy for the discipline that it takes for a man to be successful in life. Because they lack discipline naturally.
This man is doing the lords work ...I'm a diesel mechanic apprentice if the average woman don't get me now once I get the pay raise and own my own mechanic shop I will not settle for nothing but 9s and 10s from that point..js
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What is your biggest takeaway or "Aha!" moment from this video? Please comment below. Keep it respectful.
That swirller that called asking about White men then cutting you off and pretending to not hear the whole question. She was chomping at the bit to go in on Black men. You played it cool.
Those women were delusional. Especially the first caller who said that a woman with 2 kids by 2 different men is = to a woman with no kids.. 🤦🏾♂️
Then when you asked her if she would want her son to date a woman with the same situation; she said no but when you referred the question back to her.. she responded that “people make mistakes and should overlook hers”... 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
What's up Kevin?
Was watching an episode of Half and Half (love that show) on Netflix and on this episode Dee Dee is dating this high value cat that starts talking to her about their future wedding and what does Dee Dee do?
She gets scared and bolts! She's in her mid 20's studying to be a lawyer and says maybe one day she'll be ready...just not now.
I saw that episode years ago but it really resonated now watching your show. This show was almost 20 years ago but sadly still rings true.
Avoid career driven women at all cost!
I’m still tripping off her saying it wasn’t the cdc that posted that data. Very weird, indeed.
I’m a 45 year old white guy, professional engineer, married with one daughter. I am not the target audience by any means. Nor would I claim to have a valid opinion on Black culture or relationships. But I find this man and his perspective FASCINATING. Wow. What a wonderful resource for people of all skin colours. Keep up the great work Kevin!
It's become a universal issue, comments from many countries on different vids. I'm learning from these vids & rethinking priorities.
Preach🔥🔥
@Sleep Sounds okay you do the talking then. Come up with a better channel to show how it's done.
@Sleep Sounds I see some truth in a lot of what he says
Agreed ( 1st Gen Mexican American, married with 4 kids) Kevin empowers me by reinforcing the value I always believed I had. Modern society had lied to me too and made all of us men believe we were not the asset.
60yo white married dude from Spain... still watching these videos....what a legend
Somebody, please give this man The Man of the Year award, already. The best in 2020.
good idea
Man of the decade
Wish I could hit the like button the entire video!!!!!! 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
He deserves that 💯.
Yes 🙌🏾
5'2" 175 lbs. ' I'm shapely ' A circle certainly is a shape...
Girl stop
She big boned and heavy structured !
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😂😂😂
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„The older you are, the more you have to impress.“ that’s pretty deep and accurate.
Most women know this. The new women r in total denial & selfish
Women with sons who say they see nothing wrong with their situations. But say they wouldn't want their sons dating women who are in said same situation are funny. 😂
I’ve noticed the same problem and like Ted, I avoid them too.
been hearing that a lot lately on this channel
Yep the single mothers (who also glamorize single motherhood) raise their sons to pedestalize women will eventually realize why their sons grow up to be friendzoned.
@@takahashii5854 You are *mostly* right. Kevin said a marriage minded man does not need to wait 3 years - he will marry inside 6 months. He repeatedly warns ADOS [american black] women about (white, latino, middle-eastern and asian women) attending black male studies courses; that those women are coming for black men (not just athletes & entertainers - that was first-wave); he advised black women that they have to compete. He said (paraphrasing) to assess the situation and act accordingly, and to increase your value so you are NOT limited yourself to ados women.
Whoever can speak Japanese & Hangul (I am a web/database/systems programmer, get in touch) is going to make a killing matchmaking Korean and Japanese women with black men.
Agreed
First caller starts at 1:14:33.
Second caller at 1:39:07
Doc's story 1:43:25
4 th one at 1:47:53
Another one at 2:01:51
Last one 2:35:24
Thank you!
Insane!!!
You Da Goat 🐐 4 this!🥃😎🚬
Call time stamps FTW!!!
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Kevin: “That’s rude. Thats disrespectful.”
Caller: “I have a degree in communications.”
Kevin: pushes button “I’m a PHD”
Me:🤣🤣🤣☠️😭
Eve is so delusional I'm telling you.🙄
I hollered repeatedly throughout this whole video 😄😄😄
😂‼️😂
Some women just don’t Realize that they have one foot in the grave, and the other sliding in on a banana peel. “Indubitably”
The PR women have a high opinion....of themselves.
I'm a subject matter expert and they just set me up for presentations.
They don't know or do a lot (don't tell them this)
The woman who had a whole bunch of men wanting to marry her...she was definitely pretending not to hear the questions so that she would have a chance to come up with her lies. LMAOO
Facts because no woman in her right mind is going to sit there with men wait in to marry her would be single for a 1 year or 2 and then pop up and say ok am ready to married now when the right guy is there she is going all in for that one man
My favourite trick of hers is when she says "just because...". Like "just because i have 3 kids, that doesnt mean i have baggage". Imagine a guy saying "just because i dont make a lot of money, that doesnt mean i cant get a pole vaulter virgin wife".
Just a compliment, nothing funny
But I love your beautiful brown skin sister 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
her definition of "wanting to marry" is apparently texting with her but never even going out on a date. yikes
@@kaykaysthoughtfuldays you gotta big ass forehead but you cute tho lol
A couple of years ago, I became friends with a young Chinese woman, who owned the corner store where I lived at. I remember her telling me she was unhappy in her relationship with her fiance, but she was afraid that if they ever split, no one would want her because she had a child out of wedlock. She said in their culture AKA Chinese culture it was frowned upon to be a single mother...
I remember thinking about how common that is here, and in our culture in america, it's really not that big of a deal. But now listening to Kevin's videos, and thinking about other cultures in africa, and Asia, now I realize just how bad it is to have kids out of wedlock.
It creates so many problems in society. I have two kids out of wedlock myself, and I'm raising them on my own. And it's definitely affecting my children in a very negative way.
Like, we really be sabotaging ourselves by having kids so willy-nilly.
Same boat fam, I'm definitely feeling it now!!! And feel for my children
Sex and being able to bring in life into this world are sacred acts but we've reduced them to lust and politicized them.
Simple math , one is NEVER better then two.
@@Reotha nothing sacred about sex. Keep your god out of the bedroom.
@@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp can something be sacred without having anything to do with god?. If you respect some thing at a deeper level, then it is sacred to you. Has nothing to do with god.
- I have a communications degree.
-Ok, go ahead and answer the question.
-I don't remember the question!
😂
They only get degrees to come out educated stupid.
She knew the question, she just didn't want to answer it.
I was like .. 😳😂
That was Classic!!!
Nelly Nel insane!!!
The word of today is “Delusional”... the calls today were crazy 😜😂😂😂😂😂
today?
@SeventhkeyOmega Revenge Unapologetic, delusional, unaccountable, mean, lazy, despicable, masculine, narcissistic, obstinate... (anyone else?)
** If the shoe fits.
Too bad Mrs. Doc isn't a counselor. Oh, I forgot: STUBBORN, so even Mrs. Doc can't help them.
@@LamontAdair
And it's going to get worse. The 80%.then the 85% barrier for single black women is going to be broken..and they will STILL run that mouth and attitude. What do they say about insanity???
And these callers are just a minute FRACTION of what's really out there. At least most of these women are somewhat respectful, the vast majority are 100% WORSE. It's terrifying.
🤣🤣🤣They were so delightful I even thought they were trollin
The first caller is very delusional 5'2 with two babies daddy and she wants a brother to impress her WOW!
WOW 😂
She's a queen
@@Hunter_Bidens_Crackpipe_ 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 bruh I'm dead. If I hear that shit 1 more Time
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂WTF
He called her Obese 😂😂
My mother was married at 19 and had me a year later, and she and my father have been married 60 years. If you are old enough to have a kid, you are old enough to commit to marriage. And why, why, why would you bring children into the world without marriage? They didn't get to choose, but no child would choose that.
Well said. Sadly two people staying together for 60 years in this day and age will be a SPECIAL EVENT. That should have an award ceremony.
@@pqc7959 Stop it! 🙄🤯 I think one can assume I'm talking about women who choose to get pregnant and have a child out of wedlock-not a child who has been raped!
My parents have been married for 49 years. Since she graduated high school. Father engineer. Mother a nurse. Both play their roles.
Because most of those people back from those times were all about commitment.
You’re thinking in terms of logic, and marriage being a vow between two people to work together to build the next generation. This is the 2020’s and women have to hop on that D by date 2. Then when the kids come out, well, whats best for the kid isn’t important. It’s all about whether the parents are “happy”.
Just do what gives you the most short term gratification, and completely ignore the needs of people around you. It’s the 2020’s! We’re enlightened now. /sarcasm
Not sure where he got the idea for the sound effects but when I say hilarious!! I couldn’t stop 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Skilled in his craft and body of work..exceptional talent and wisdom
Kevin is doing the lord’s work. Give the man his props. Kevin is the truth mirror for men and women.
Kevin is doing Satans work at best & any woman in her right mind that listens to him & believes in his hype is crazy!!!!! This dude will have u jumping off a cliff. Ppl like this man should just b stopped... lol
@@vibe2248 You are exactly right. Instead of telling young men to take care of their children, get married, start getting resources for their own communities, start building in their own communities and compete with other men and not their females, he is telling these men that they are high quality when that is an impossibility for Black men in the System of Racism White Supremacy.
@@vibe2248 If he is doing Satans work and hes so dangerous that he will have you jumping off a cliff, why are you laughing then? Im talking about the "lol" you just had to put at the end. I dont think you were laughing when you wrote that. Using lols, lmaos, laughing emojis etc. when you dont really mean it is a tell tale sign of a stupid person who spends a lot of time on Shitter.
@@EdenSophia118that's right blame VVhite people for the g unnz and droogs and violence and single parent household 😁😁😁😁
This show is depressing. I wish my nephews the best of luck. These broads are crazy.
LMAOOOOOOOOO!!!!
These bastards are lunatics!
Lol
You said omg I'ma have to go psychiatrist show after this it gets worse every caller 🤔
Ladies it simple, be classy , interesting, fun, freaky and fit, intellectual, friendly /approachable , spiritual /submissive/ a listener , genuine; you either got it or you don’t but there’s someone for everyone.
Much respect to you sis, and (not but) being all you said is far easier said than done. It's simple to write that list out, but it's not simple being all of the above. My question is... what are all the things men "simply" have to do/be in order to get us? Their list never seems to be a long as ours. And can us ladies just be honest... men really aren't all that interesting nor are they all that deep. Women who really elevate their consciousness often discover just how "optional" men are in their lives. We usually experience more joy-filled living without them than with them. But I know this isn't the channel to be talking like this. So I'm going to exit and get back in my lane. Lol.
Don't give it away. They won't even take free advice.
@@branessakunitz for all the women who love posting spiritual quotes, I've never met a woman a could seriously have a deep conversation with. Women wear virtues like an ornament. Men HAVE TO be virtuous, so all of that talk about us not be any of those things or not being "deep" is bullshit. We have to be ALL of the things she said above, and then some. You show me a man who isn't, and I'll show you a man who isn't getting his woman's respect, and most certainly isn't getting her love. The shit we do looks like it comes easy to us because you guys aren't seeing the work that we have to put in.
Literally that's ALL we ask for sis. We ain't asking for you guys to be CEOs of a fortune 500 company or anything. Shit is basic. Problem is that some of the things that you just mentioned require work, and most women don't wanna do the work.
Smart woman
“Would you like to enlighten me?”
“No I really wouldn’t” 🤣
Between that call and the Manhattan Secretary got me weakkk af
I know right.😆🤣🤣😂
Well, she buried the question under tons of rambling and then she tried to dig it up when she was done. I wouldnt have repeated it either. She needed to be taught a lesson.
I love Doc! She is so classy, intelligent, and very knowledgeable about being Feminine. Taking notes 📝 ❤️
Woah. That step dad/ baby momma dynamic is a hard pill to swallow. Thank god I have no kids .... whew !
"He's about 50 and his name is John. He lives in jersey. We havent dated but he wants to marry me..." wooooow! That woman was sooooo full of ship. It is sad that she actually believes her own crap. Smh.
I know, what a loser.
Yeah that was pretty pathetic!!
Ace Ventura voice: Loooooser!
First of all, they talk. They don’t date 😂
But hey,"John" wanted to marry her
I’m with a Korean woman now and she’s great because she wants and values having A MAN. I respect that about her and treat her well because she treats me like I’m valuable and I do the same for her in return.
That's a beautiful thing! Cherish that.
Wise decision
You and your wife will make a killing if you set up a meet / marry company between black men and korean women. Was stationed at Camp Howze in 97.
I don't get it, bm get with all these so called wonderful nonbw but still don't marry.
salute. They don't tolerate STUPID ass "swag" dudes.. I am recruiting guys like you and women like your wife, to help match Korean and Japanese women with black dudes.
We will breed a superior race. (KIDDING)
we can make happy couples..
That last caller has horrible conversation skills. She listened just long enough to respond. Didn’t let the words settle didn’t let it ruminate, nothing.Why would anyone choose that!?!
You're right!!! That last caller was so combative and had to have an answer to rebuke everything Kevin tried to say. Anytime a woman says, she's happily single, you just met a unhappy woman who can't thrive in a committed relationship. It's dog buying time for her.
Great work, Mr Samuels.
This episode specifically, is one of the main reasons why Kevin asks the women if their fathers raised them. When men make mistakes in dating, it’s usually something that can be corrected. When women make dating mistakes, those mistakes (kids out of wedlock, high body counts, abusive pasts, youth/fertility/beauty wasted) are usually irreversible. This is why I don’t blame dads for being overprotective of their daughters.
100% facts!!
I definitely wasted my youth,fertility and beauty listening to my big sisters and dad scare me about men till I found myself in the danger zone, on the other side of 30, then they started asking me why I wasn't married and my sisters pushing me to " just" have a kid!
@@penelope9455did you just have a kid like they said? Honest inquiry with all due respect 🙏
My biggest take away from this episode is how many women are willing to ignore or get rid of a guy for any minuscule reason using bad faith, then later on in life look around to see that there are no good buyers for what they're selling any longer. Ladies at what age do you think most guys stop falling for manipulation?🥴⏰🎺💯
Great question Rob.... the internet has become the equalizer it has pulled back the curtain on true female nature. [Most of us knew this already]
@@everyonedeservestogohome2949 that is terrible. i feel bad, then i remember how hard it is to wake some of the guys i know, they say i hate women
I hear ya, but there's a sucka born every minute and women ♡♡ have ♡♡ breasts!! Whattaya-gonna do !!?!! But try to avoid those appearing narcissistic.
I was actually dumped for a miniscule reason. She now posts depressing messages on FB.
@@theskeamshow2601 o
The part with the doctor lady who described the appeal of Marilyn Monroe.. that really resonated with me!
I’m a 27 yr old female who has a chemical engineering degree from good school, has a snatched waist and cute face, a competitive Brazilian jiu jitsu athlete, is debt free, and was able to land a full time job in Europe. I have always felt I was a catch (still do), but I have had a hard time holding down a man the last few years. So I started watching Kevin’s vids and I will say they definitely helped me realize that while I am a catch, I have lost touch with my femininity and my excitement for life! As she said, I think we as women do lose touch with that through our jobs and stuff and I agree with her, we need to get back in touch with that.
Thank you so much Kevin and that lady for this bit! I am going to work on having that more feminine side again :) I am happy I found this out now while I’m still quite young.
Good luck sis. Can u call in when u get engaged? Love to hear it. I'm 42 and single. Just wish I had this in my 20s too.
QUITE YOUNG ? KEVIN CLEARLY STATES YOUVE ENTERED THE DANGER ⚠️ ZONE
BJJ athlete AND debt free?!? Shit that’s wife material right there!!! 😁
Kevin is a rare voice of truth against the tidal wave of lies being fed to our unsuspecting women. Keep it up
You know you catch people in a lie when they play dumb... Act like they can't hear... Or they repeat the question to buy time for an answer 🤣🤣🤣
As this holiday season rolls around, KS’s words are ringing true as ever. Wow!
"I feel like me having 2 kids by 2 men is still equal to women who don't have kids." BW logic for you. Stay far away from them and watch how much better your quality of life becomes.
And she’s 5’2” and 180 pounds. 💀
@alicia simmons I think he was talking about BW or women in general with kids
@alicia simmons I agree that you should be married when you have children. But do not allow these men to devalue you are co-sign them devaluing females who do have children when the men are not taking responsibility. Black men are NOT marrying. They refuse to do what would stop a lot of the ills in our communities. Getting married, providing resources, building up their communities, compete with other men, etc.
@@EdenSophia118 most BW single mothers do not want to be married to the father of the child. Because he will have the authority, and most BW want the authority of the man and the woman. BW want husband's and fathers of the children to have no authority, influence, and control over anything, but want them to build a world for women that want all of the authority...smh. Keep talking your bs, we know the truth today!
@@EdenSophia118 the ones you date
A few of millionaire guys I know say that professional women worry about work too much and competing. They also say they are not good in relationships them although at times they wish they could date a millionaire as well for the benefits of their lifestyles. Others just want a younger woman to stay home and be there for them.
The professional woman MUST posses "Trait Disagreeableness" in order to compete in the workplace, lest they fall behind. -(sic) Dr. Jordan Peterson
"T.D" while required for success in workplace, tends to destroy relationships
Trait Disagreeableness == Don't be a pushover, insist on promotion, etc... This is different from a disagreeable person that is despised by everyone.
True thats why playing the lotto tonight ..lol😘
Hello phoenix Sun can we rise together 😘
While it may be very true , it’s also a great line to use on a younger pretty girl as bait… it’s the same level of man talk as “my wife doesn’t understand me”…. It’s remarkable how many affairs start this way at the office…it’s a door opener …
I have been there, done it, seen it ……I don’t condone it , just saying it is a real thing…it’s a slippery slope ..
The way Kevin speaks and can bring chaotic woman's speech and put it in a clear concise statement is amazing. The way he pauses and thinks what comes out his mouth is a gift. This man has taught me loads. Respect to you Sir
I do not understand why women who are married call to get advice about their husband. I do not feel that is productive for a relationship. You married him deal with it or at least go a professional counselor. Why are they wasting time trying to convince Kevin he a good guy? It does not look good for the success of your relationship calling someone on the internet for advice.
Agreed! The woman who is an attorney should not be calling. Her guy is making $80k, in Georgia, and is acting like that is average.
I HUNDRED PERCENT agreee oh my gosh. You chose him! Worry about your husband and NOT RUclips.
FACTS!!!!
@Geechie82 so why is she worried about a 52 year old man on RUclips?
A few shows ago he told black female attorneys and PhDs to lower their standards for a HENRY. She obviously did that, she called in for advise to navigate but he told her to run basically. Walking contradiction. All he had to say was seek professional marriage counseling and a very good family financial planner. Everything has to be planned because she will eventually become a higher earner than her husband. He's a Walking contradiction. Every show something different.
@@7fb7383f I'm definitely not misunderstanding. I got all that. What you and him fail to realize or maybe you just didn't listen to her. She mentioned he had mentors and a few friends with the same profile and career path who progressed to high 6 figures. Women don't need to call RUclips to discuss their man with a 51 yr old man who has no licenses, credentials, or experience in relationship counseling or therapy. From watching these videos all the answers are the same regardless of their situation. Her situation is more common than not with black women. KS is marketing high value men with specific criteria that he scoped for his own niche market, selling it to BW when the data shows that is less than 4% of the population of black men. Most black women will be working after marriage. So give better advise to someone who has already planned their wedding. She already knew this could be a potential issue. She asked How to maneuver. Why give her back what she already assessed, insult her and hang up. These women calling need validation their man is good from someone on RUclips in suit. Stay in marriage counseling with someone trained and experienced and get with a financial planner.
Thank you Kevin. Big thank you for wanting better for our community. Raising the bar 🙏🏽
Professional women succeed in their careers because there are steps, rules , and paths to follow in order to do a task/job correctly. There's no playback for a relationship.
Playbook
Playbook
Just telling the truth is how relationships work and as well emotional intelligence
Ehh not really alot of women sleep with the CEO or their boss to get in position.
Lord..I needed this in my life...this should be a course in highschool before graduation...
I need a joint & a few shots after this episode 🤦🏾♂️
1.04 millions subscribers and keeps going up 📈📈📈 that proves the efficiency and the value of the show. This is gold
This episode is a masterpiece
I miss this man ! Still listening, still learning ! Rip
2 kids by 2 different men you hit the wall. U would never tell your son to date a woman with 2 kids by 2 different men she is delusional. Sad. And I bet she say there are no good black men. She should try to work it out with one of them.
Exactly
If the lady is a single mother. Isn't the BM a single father? How are you all, THE MEN, exempt from the equation? If men are the head of the household, why are they not the head of feeding their children?
@@EdenSophia118 stop shifting accountability maaam.Alot of singles mothers are given full responsibilty of the child and out of vengence decide to not let the man in their life..And as you said a single father cannot be a head pf the household because the single mother lives in a different house😂😂😂
@@Abdirahmanabufudayl you are both correct in the description of the same "broken house" viewed at different angles.
@@dasmith1207 agreed us black people need to fix up
Older bw hate to see me out with my man (they roll they eyes or stare us down ) cause he’s 15 yrs my senior and it’s obvious cause he looks older, while other races smile including bm and are polite , bw need to relax and change their mind sets. Enjoy life (live, love and laugh baby)!
Keep winning sis!!
Yesss same here! Misery loves company 🙄
True indeed sis
Iam a successful BM and i dated an younger bw iam 45 she was 26 and i got shame for it. So you go girl and God bless you both.
Do you don't play mind to those haters
Bw like the ones last night are the reason others of us have to work twice as hard to prove all of us aren't obnoxious, childish, delusional, and totally self-absorbed. The giggling, cackling, and raising their voice is reason for them not to be taken seriously by anybody. That was nothing short of embarrassing. I've said countless times (because there's such difficulty understanding), hvm for the most part don't want instant families. Henrys and average men with no kids don't want them either. To insist on a man still be interested in you with your current state of affairs just because "it's a mistake", is entitlement at best. Being accountable requires acknowledging that past decisions affect your future and no one is obligated to be understanding or accepting of it. Insisting that you're "fine" doesn't matter if the men you want don't want you back.
If only THEY would provide resources, build up their communities, compete with other men, marry, etc.
They are not proving anything to you. BW who have worked hard to get their degrees, see about their children, work hard, etc can laugh, giggle, or whatever as much as they choose. Honestly, BM could care less. Are they providing resources for you? Are they building up their communities or crying about gentrification? They are being plucked off one by one EVERYDAY. Do they have a recourse? Are they competing with other men making things better for their communities? No. Because they do not care.
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That slap and military music kills me EVERYTIME 😂😂
Never fails 🤣🤣
🤣😂🤣😂😂😂😂
Still listen to this man work . This man work is eternal .
I’m a PHD ! Lol ! A high value man is not attracted to your degree . He attracted to a woman’s femininity ,fertility & submission.
And that’s the problem, BW claims to be the most educated, but has no femininity, submission, and most of all no common sense!
I'm a PhD. Congrats you qualify to be a feminist lesbian.
That BW on housewives of Potomac has a phd, but is ignorant and annoying.
@@detroit6363 Submit to men who are dominated? Oppressed? No resources? Refuse to build up their communities? Refuse to compete with other men?
@@detroit6363 How can we be feminine when we are constantly working, going to school, providing, feeding children, paying for resources other men from another nation provides and being discriminated against while using facilities that other nation of men provide?
Time after time these callers prove that they have made their choice to die alone because, in their heart of hearts they know the men that they want and desire does not want them. So it’s either die alone or marry someone that you would not be happy with. They would rather die alone if they had to actually do what men have to which is take care a family. And out all the callers the lawyer that call to confirm she was settling was the most heart breaking call to me because the hell she is going to put that man through because of her choices is sad😔. Great job Kevin👏🏽👏🏽
@CoolNappyHead grandmothers and the state😂
I almost settled and couldn't. I felt like a failure being a baby mama but I did seek therapy to work on my relationships with others in general (romantic and friendship). Met a high earner that I didnt feel worthy of but we are still together and I'm happy. The gentleman that wanted to marry me, was a mommas boy unfortunately and I couldn't settle for someone that was accustomed to being emasculated by women. He would say "yes ma'am " to me during our disagreements and hold his had down. I wanted him to speak up so bad. It was sad and he came from a 2 parent household.
@@nicolesmith7611 well at least you understand your position.
@CoolNappyHead based on the data that’s out women are leaving them.😂
@@Ruckerpark98 But you acknowledge the men who fathered them are not taking care of the children, fair enough 🤔. Also you said grandmothers instead of grandparents--second acknowledgement, women doing the work.
Marjorie in Chicago Illinois age 70, thank you K S , keep smiling and preaching truth
I hear you. I miss you. Thanks for it all Kevin. 🙏🏾🕊👑
This doctor who CONSTANTLY keeps calling...... i cant lie; i like her energy/aura/2pence....!! Shes nailed everything on the head what it takes to be a successful woman; yet you can tell she understands how to be submissive to her man! Beautiful 🙌🏾
Yeeeeeeah Buddy👍🏿
Yes! I am wondering what line she said
She talks to much she would drive a man crazy living in a fantasy land 1950s
I feel the most empowered as a woman in my home. I enjoy creating a supportive healthy environment for my family. My husband admired me most when he saw me raising his children well. I pitched in working when we needed it. Now, we live off the money he earned all these years and enjoy our well adjusted adult children and happy, healthy grandbabies. Simple, balanced, imperfectly, beautiful. Don't believe the lies, ladies.
What lies?
Lmao, first caller said people make mistakes.. women make the same mistakes over and over.. I never made the same mistake twice in anything..
Amen to that!!! It's like women see other women messing up and they go do the exact same thing the other women did thinking, she we will have a better outcome. LoL!!! I was always taught to learn from other's mistakes and never make the same mistake twice. I thank God for making me a Male!!! LoL!!!
Besides, a mistake is taking the wrong keys or someone's pen. Having sex and Being pregnant are CHOICES.
Kevin's monologues are the best on the web right now. Best part of show. Straight wisdom without interuption fm later phone calls.
I am quoting Mr. James Edwards: Somebody, please give this man The Man of the Year award, already. The best in 2020
Honestly, this show kind of hurt my spirit. I’m 25, and was engaged to a 22 year old woman up until a month ago. And even though she doesn’t fit the definition of “career woman” there was so much of her I saw in these calls that it’s depressing. Little comments she would make would set my jaw tight, not because they were disrespectful, but because I saw this same mentality in her of having a complete obliviousness to knowing how to move with a man without really understanding the full implications of it, but knowing on an instinctual level that I couldn’t marry a woman who thinks and acts this way. And hearing this show just made so many past arguments and situations come into clarity.
And for the longest time, I thought she was a diamond in the rough. Fit, pretty, came from a married household, with an extended family with a history of successful marriages, fatherly guidance, fairly agreeable. Yet she knew nothing about actually being wife except cooking a dinner every now and then. And she even acted like doing that much was something so significant for a woman to do without being married. Now I have to wonder just how small a target I’m really aiming for.
Yeah, men making 6 figures or better make only 10%. But the number of women who are fit, feminine, friendly, and fully understand what it means to be a wife within the black community must be... abysmal. I’d hesitate to even say 5%.
Do I really *have* to get a non-black woman? Because the very first one I dated understood what to do and how to move from the first date. Yet I want a black woman still.
No. But understand one thing. Black women are all over the world. Go get you a French black woman. Or a Brazilian sista. Your options are only as limited as you make them.
In California it’s latinas who are scooping up most of the brothers. Main thing is to find a woman that’s cooperative and feminine.
@jonasbabe75 I'll give you that. So why do they give up the "wife" treatment in the bedroom?
@jonasbabe75 That was a consistent argument we had in the first few months. Me telling her “All that ‘I won’t do x, y, and z until you marry me’ stuff doesn’t fly with me, because I’m not that way towards you. I’ll deal with someone else if you think you’re gonna hold your full effort hostage against me for a ring.”
Knowing what I know now, I would’ve ended things there instead of going through all the arguments and ultimatums. I understood that a woman’s heart can’t be in the right place if she thinks in those terms, but I didn’t fully understand how deep that problem ran. And this show tells me that even some of the best looking sisters on paper have this same issue.
@jonasbabe75 98% of your peers are not. So keep and preserve that, it is special. Join Kevin's group to find your HVM if you want one. Good job and good luck!
I feel this. I have lived this exact reality. I was at the same crossroads as you. Then one day in the stock market a few months ago, I asked for a meal, and she gave me that “I’m not your mom” talk. I had a stock I wanted to day trade because I felt a big pop coming but I had a headache so I went inside thinking I can make something in 5 mins and nothing would happen. Didn’t set an order because it was teetering both directions. When I came back to my home office from the kitchen it quintupled..... I missed out on 5 times my money in 5 mins. She hears me screaming in the room and asked what happened. I said that I decided to “not be a mommas boy” and make myself for and missed my pick of the year over it. Her face froze. I told her I can’t keep living this way and that I don’t need a woman who’s competing with me. I need one that does what I can’t do. She felt the pressure that I was checking out and day by day is becoming a true wife. Never misses a meal, massages, pep talk, best wap I’ve ever had, supportive, almost eradicated her need to be right and always acts girly and adorable when she knows the days been rough in the market. I know my experience is anecdotal but you said that she was fairly agreeable and came from good pedigree. Sounds like there’s a chance if you find a way to word the importance of why the tradition roles are CRUCIAL for both of you to see your highest heights. My portfolio has doubled in the last 3 months since this crossroads. I wish you well my brother. You’d be surprised how much can be accomplished if men and women actually speak their peace and state their purpose. God bless
Best thing on RUclips right now. You gonna have to put that truth in pill form and sell it. 💪🏽
I work in biotech. Im surrounded by married asian women who are fit and super feminine. I have a colleague who followed her husband and took years off work despite having 2 masters degrees while she was a stay at home mom. She's smart as hell but still feminine and knows how to play her role. Why are black women who call in have so much trouble with this?
I’ve dealt with several Asian women and NOT one was masculine. Sounds accurate bro!👊🏽
I think most black women view a woman being feminine as weak. Or maybe they don't know how. I stopped trying to figure it out long time ago. I'm mainly attracted to Latina women and white girls. They are more feminine, friendlier, usually have better bodies and attractive faces and treat a man better. Non-black women are snatching up black men left and right and I see how/why.
Asian women are encouraged as kids to be with a man. I was encouraged to be with a man by my mom but somehow still believed some of the feminist bull in my marriage. Now, as a married woman I don’t really trust Black women as friends. They say stupid crap about marriage all but two very religious ones. Now, just like the men, I can only get along well with Latina, white or very white like mixed chics.
@Ase Kavy these black women have a lot of nice guys in the friend zone or basically walk away from stable guys because they are boring or are not sexy or don't make enough money let's be honest a lot of these callers have chosen to chase HMVs who can choose more agreeable women and don't have to prove themselves first before getting decent treatment. Which is why we are seeing lots of interracial relationships from black HMVs.
Natasha Jones I agree.. What about African and Caribbean American?
That's a DOCTOR still acting soft and feminine with all her accomplishments in pocket.. Humble yourselves and learn a thing or two Baby Mamas..
Why if nobody is checking for baby mama's
The doctor always calls in to tell Kevin what he wants to hear. Not sure why she wants so much validation.
Phillip Allen she definitely does. Always finding reasons to talk to him and agree with him
@Phillip Allen I think it's mutual. She is the ONLY person on the show that has her own soundbite without dropping big $$
@@politicallyincorrect1546 A Black male not checking for a Black woman that had a Black male.
This world needs more people like him to teach our culture. We need healing in a major way, our woman are beautiful but are unwilling to follow anyone but their own opinions, don't really like the truth at all.
Mattress material & Marriage material will always be 2 different things
There not the same..😏🥴
💅
Oh snap! I’m gonna start using that
Jay Jay C the problem is women that are mattress material equate that to them being marriage material. " I got options!" You are an option.
Nicely put words 👍🏾
😄😅😁
The attorney chick was really hurt, hearing she is dating unskilled labor
@@LamontAdair She did him a favor..
All the husband needs is a plan, he got the dough and a strong partner. If he executes, he'll do just fine.
He's probably eye candy and she's willing to compromise on his lack of ambition for the chance to strut him off in front of her older, overweight friends.
He will treat her like the queen she is he is still the man and should be treated as such
She knew who and what he was and if you let people get in your head a out your mate you will be by yourself with a dog
"black men are the bottom socio-economically but are the second most sort after men" -- thats powerful and call for us BM to be more competitive, improve and increase.
We are at the bottom socio-economically by design. Not because we aren't competitive.
Black men are actually not at the bottom socioeconomically...latinos make less...
@jonasbabe75 Black men are second only to white men in desirability and that's only because of economics. You notice when black men are athletes, entertainers or high value businesses men the playing field levels out completely.
and raise our standards of what we WILL NOT tolerate.
jonasbabe75 I think studies say (interracial dating)
1 AW
2 WM
3 BM
4 WW
5 BM
6 AM
Funniest thing about it is that AW are the most unattractive 😂
Lady : Alot of men want to marry me
Kevin: Tell me about it?
Lady : (Crickets)...
I DIED! 😂😂😂
At first I thought these calls were staged, but watching many & learning 2 of the callers are trying to sue told me they're real. Undiagnosed mental conditions, escapism, fantasy, alternate reality...... Scary stuff!
Hearing loss in full effect
The 25 year old attorney will regret marrying her 28 year old service advisor husband with an Associates degree when she starts working in the private sector. She'll begin earning $125K/year and meeting HVM earning $200K - $350K/year everyday: senior associates, junior partners and senior partners. She's already becoming proficient in Family Law. She'll be divorcing him before the second child.
And NONE of her professional colleagues will wife her.
This part ⬆️
@@landychapman3 Exactly. 💯
This is true too often. As soon as she gets more money than him.
@@landychapman3 isn’t that the truth
"I'm a PhD" NEVER gets old lmao
Tha First Lady is wild
All of them are
She was off the chain!!! 😂😂😂😂
Your opening theme Music has to go, as much funk and groove you pick Latin opening theme?
Like James said ALL of them lol! Their minds were gone. These women seem surreal, like they’re cartoon characters and they don’t really exist.
Every now and then we need that comic relief😂
To the women that don't understand how a kid or 2 decreases their value... Look at it this way.
I go to the dealership to buy a Mercedes Benz. I'm about to buy the Mercedes but before I sign the papers, the salesman says "oh by the way, the Mercedes comes with a kid that you have to take care of."
Me: No thanks man, I'll just go to another dealership...
Salesman: But sir, this is a special Mercedes..
Me: what can this Mercedes do that others can't?
Salesman: crickets 🦗🦗🦗
@@danielle1959 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@@danielle1959 the child's life is most likely ruined by being raised with one parent. You obviously think that this is acceptable and don't like the stats of grown children that were raised by single mothers 🙄.
There is a method to Kevin's work.. He patiently took his time to dismantle that first caller... That funeral salute doesn't come out for nothing... 😂😂😂
Man this was the realest lol. I gotta meet Kevin and put cash money in his hand lol
"it's a WRAP on that WAP"
man I love the comment section
I’m sorry , but the behavior of the women this episode was horrible . Like grow up , the ladies in their late teens and 20s didn’t act like this .
Agreed! However, there is no need to be sorry.
The older the more problematic they get man!!!
They act worse actually
They want to talk over him, and take over his broadcast.
5'2" 175 lbs talmbout some "shapely"
you shaped like a town-sized pokemon
True indeed
😂😂😂😂🤷🏾♂️
😂😂😂
Frickin snorelacks... lmfaoo
Omg
“You have a degree in communications but you can’t keep up with the communication.” 🤣😭😅
Kevin should have his own court show where he's the attorney, jury, prosecutor and judge. What a performance
That dude doesn’t make 80k checking in cars to get service done. If that was the case everyone would want that job.
If he’s a service advisor at a luxury car dealership then that’s possible. At least in the northeast. They make lots of commission and bonuses. When they up sell you on work they make money. Buddy of mine is a Volvo service advisor and makes over $80K
Edit: In GA no way he’s making 80K. 50K if he’s lucky
This show was great Godfather..
These BW's call in and consistantly prove Kevin right!
Can't make this stuff up...Smh.
I really feel sorry for them , they won't listen, they could actually turn everything around and have a future with a good provider. May not be a hvm but a good high paying blue collar man or even a average earning man. Who wants to come home to a combative woman every day or even 3 times a week .
My take waya about this video were many, but what resounded to me was the weave comment. The moment I went natural, my man was excited. No more wigs/weaves or braids and my head has never been happier!🤗
"2 kids from 2 different man , 5ft2 obese " - I am a Queen & Men should impress me.
😂😂 omg
She wants to lead the glamorous life, she don’t need a
man’s touch, she wants to lead the glamorous life, without love? It ain’t much.
- Prince 1984
@ANUPTAH Yes, also a talented Artist. Glamorous Life was written and composed by Prince and they produced it together. Indeed, great things can result when a man and woman work in harmony.
That was Sheila "E" Escovedo. The Queen of Percussion.
You deserve a thumbs up today! This is good info.
Yes! I'm trying to come up. That's why I listen to you.
First caller is a good example of what many men have to deal with. I don't know how this happen to some of our women but it's so sad.
1:14:18 Gabriel omg you had me dying when you were talking about John Doe wanting to marry you 😂😂😂
funniest phone call of the night
3rd time rewatching this segment 😂
As a vet I love when he hit em with the taps.
As a vet it is funny 😄
At 1st it was entertaining, now this some scary ass 💩 that we're going through. Black family values are needed
Im just so amazed by the fact that Kevin shuts them down every time but they still keep calling for "advice". Almost feels like they love it LOL...
Men that are competing and high earners leave this power couple fantasy alone. You may think that you 80k plus her 70k will make for a story book ending but in most cases she will despise you because she hard to work and contribute for the rest of her life. Don’t put yourself through that fellas.
Since watching Kevin’s show I really get my brothers are marrying out. I was talking to a friend the other day and I was like man you know the last time I dated a feminine black women? Middle school😳. That’s just 😞 young Brothers save yourself by avoiding these career motivated black women! All that hard and aggressive behavior is such a turn off.
I disagree. Are you saying that the wife in a Black family making 150K a yr (DOUBLE the average in the US) will despise the husband because she has to work? But women of other races wouldn't?
@@FalaqX at this point I don’t give a flying fuk what you women think. Kevin plays those games with you all to show men what females really think when they are held to the fire. Instead of you women listening to some real game. Y’all wanna fight. Nall I’m good. Do what you do and keep it moving. Best of luck to you sis✊🏾 My comments for brothers and women that get it. I’m not here to convince failures that that are not failures sorry I’m not.
@jonasbabe75 I’m not here to convince failures that they are not failures. Best of luck to you sis!
@@Ruckerpark98 look at my picture. (Me & my daughters) look at my page (a bunch of Farrakhan videos)
I'm a dude, what about my page makes you think im female?
@jonasbabe75 best of wishes sis. I’m not going to fight with you. Go fight with your husband/bf/smash buddy/ dog or whatever you have.
OMG, the 1st caller was absolutely rediculous, no accountability what so ever, and the mindset is insane...😲😳
🏇🏊♂️🏃🏾♂️👨🏽🦽Whoever dates her will have 0 peace.☠
They are very much baggage and yes kids will ruin it.
@Ted Tillman I'm loving to hear that. And please be consistant on your path and leave single mothers for single fathers or anyone who really want them. See I saw too many men who were messing with the single mothers' minds in order to build a soul tie which obviously leads to the easy access to her body....in the end the single moms are being called "stupid for thinking this could be something".
@Ted Tillman yes I get your point. Well I am a divorcee myself left with 4 children from marriage one father obviously and I'm having a custody.....according to many coaches I am no value at all! Yet I saw men taking off them wedding ring before come talk to me, others hiding them age to actually get close to the single momma! I believe even in the USA there are women with kids, women left alone who never aimed for it. This is why I'm pointing here "great you are aware of what you want and you not gon deal or use any hot single mom....see you like it or not single mothers are easy targets and must be protected, given advice on how to read the manipulation.
It is a different thing if she herself decides to be a MILF lets say, yet a different game if MEN give hopes for the relationship without actually planning it. This is why I'm putting thumbs up on your comment with honesty.
I do not like the idea of throwing stones of blame on women who decided to "keep it". They def lowered their time and availability and completly do not match a single childless man but still can be roses! Mothers hold amazing value. And if you guys start saying it loud maybe they will eventually start believing it what do you think?! I really would love the society to help them navigate the life so they don't feel loosers out there. And this is how some coaches describe them. A looser for bringing the new life into the world. This aint right.
I ❤these insightful shows. Ran across them after his passing but still bringing light into darkness. ‘II’m a PHD’. (Problematic, Heartless and Demanding). KS, you’re the Best of the Best.
Love your videos Kevin. The psychological depth of your exchanges with callers is fascinating. Thanks for sharing!
Sir Samuels, why do ladies subconsciously enjoy struggling? The sad thing is that they don't even realize it.
You are correct
Because they’re bored... life is actually too easy for them. If they are in shape, and lively and smile often, then a man will simply give them what they want. Imagine living in a world where all you have to do is ask for something using a soft voice, and you will receive it? That’s a woman’s world. As men, we have to work and earn everything that we have. Women actually have envy for the discipline that it takes for a man to be successful in life. Because they lack discipline naturally.
@@Dbo_Sports that is a razor sharp point you made. Bullseye.
That “I’m a PhD” tag be killin me 😭😭😭😭
That first caller just sad🤦🏾♂️ God why’d you take Unc so soon 😩😭
R.I.P 🙏🏾❤️
R.I.P God father they chopping your vids up and making money. The message was and is real. ✌️
This man is doing the lords work ...I'm a diesel mechanic apprentice if the average woman don't get me now once I get the pay raise and own my own mechanic shop I will not settle for nothing but 9s and 10s from that point..js
I wish we had a swear Jar for the phrase “ but I was young “ $50 super chat every time you say it !!!!
That alone would fund the content.
That's such a lame excuse
@@imandalton4227 What excuse does the men give who fathered those children?
@@EdenSophia118 I like to know too.
No lie and roll that into cryptocurrency. Kevin would be a multimillionaire.