Therapist Reacts RAW for Father's Day
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- Опубликовано: 5 фев 2025
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For Father's Day, therapist reacts in real time to: Can Dad's Answer Questions About Their Kids, and Dad Swipes 20 Guys For His Daughter. Let's see how these dads do and what my insights are as a therapist watching their performance as fathers.
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I just realized that the dad asked the guys about the Russia/Ukraine situation because his daughter was studying international relations and he wanted to pick someone that she would be able to have good conversations with 🥺
Them why did Cade get through?
That’s so sweet, and makes me love him more
I had such a good dad energy moment yesterday. I went to grab a bite and a very sketchy person came into the restaurant. I saw a family and went over to ask if I could stand with them while I waited for my food. The dad went very dad mode and invited me to sit with them, on the side of the table against the wall where I couldn't be approached from behind, and even went and grabbed my food from the counter when it was ready so I wouldn't have to pass near the very sketchy person.
Amazing!
I really like that the daughter at the begging said that she wanted someone tall because she's 5'10, and then the dad kept that in mind when picking the guys, I think it was really cute and nice that he kept her comment in mind
spell it with me. “beginning.”
My parents would be terrible at this. My dad would pick men that share his interests and they'd probably be controlling and inflexible. My mom would pick musicians that are wildly self-interested in themselves and irresponsible.
Is your dad a musician?
@@kinocrone7275 not at all. I was a graduation party surprise and my two parents never married. Their partner interests for me in no way reflect the interest they would have had in themselves or each other at 19yo.
That's quite the generalization
Mine too they’d pick someone super boring and super religious. I’m religious but not to the point of it being the only thing in my life.
omg saaaaame my mom can't say no to anyone (except me) and my dad I'm pretty sure thinks I need someone spiritual (I'm not) and probably a little more traditional (we don't agree on a lot of societal issues, though he's more liberal than MOST of my family)
Hearing you name 5 birthdays made me happy for some reason! I love big families, and I love you know all their birthdays.
We don't know that he got them right
@@melodyclark1944 why is that cracking me up even more?? He just speed-rolled out 5 random a** specific birthdays at top speed and they're all wrong 😂😂😂
I love that the dad narrowed it down mostly based on personality because he didn't like to discriminate based on looks! Other than narrowing it down based on her hight preference.
My dad would have been awful at this. He absolutely loved a boyfriend I had that was a big muscle-head jock life-of-the-party type, who was very good at flattering my dad but he annoyed the crap out of my mother - she could tell he was fake. He wasn’t terribly smart and was emotionally abusive to me. My mother hated him. We broke up after two years together and dad grieved while mom rejoiced. My next boyfriend was a 180-degree departure: extremely intelligent, dry wit, all-American handsome, kind, sweet, thoughtful, would do anything for me. Mom loved him to bits…I ended up marrying him. 32 years later, we’re still going strong.
Similar with my dad and my mom could tell.
I feel like this does a better job highlighting that Mom's do so much of the invisible parenting that Dad's overlook. We know teachers and schools because of the forms, events and conferences. We know DOB because of all the medical appointments etc.
There are terrible Dad's out there, my son's Dad couldn't tell you literally anything about his son because he isn't present. He forgot he was lactose intolerant and fed him a happy meal with milk the one time he actually showed for a visitation. 🤦🏻♀️
Love your comments about the edits - all the ones that knew stuff didn’t make the video segment
It's nice sometimes seeing good dads doing good dad stuff. Thanks for this uplifting video!
OMG that dad dating guy really went in with the big questions - kudos to him!
My dad and I were super close, so my dad would get most questions right. My dad and I also show our love by roasting each other. He calls me a cheeto, I tell him he looks like Don Quixote.
That's cute :P
Favorite quote from Water for Elephants by Sara Gruen that perfectly captures the joke of the Jimmy Kimmel video: “You call you child by the names of all your other children and finally the dog before you get to his.”
Bahaha! The clarinetist is playing "Echoes of the Void"! A piece written by Harry Kim, from the Star Trek Voyager episode, The Void. Well played sir. Haha
Although it's edited to sell the joke, even the fathers (like those shown) who seem to be quite clueless can still be great fathers. My father used to quite easily forget the grade I was in too, even though he's pretty involved in my school life and events. He's an amazing dad and has always been, we're super close. I also tend to forget my little sister's grade or the names of her friends, but we still spend pretty much every day together and have a great relationship. Funny enough, the closest of my friends have always been the ones I know the least basic stuff about even though I consider them the ones I know best. Funny how that works for some people.
I feel like questions like those r more so a burden on the spousal relationship than it is specifically hard on the child.
For the child as long as u have a fun caring parent that shows up ur not going to notice the small details that get left out.
For the spouse having to carry the weight of all that information, and worry abt whether or not ur spouse would be able to properly take care of the kids without u would be difficult.
So, when I see things where dads r missing information abt their kids I'm not specifically thinking abt the relationship the child and parent has, but the effect that has on the spouse.
Most of those questions r important for medical and education purposes, which would fall on the parents not the child.
This reminds me of a Ted talk I watched by Marilyn York
I highly recommend it
In her talk she discusses that Mums often do much better than dads at the practical questions about their kids - who's their doctor, what school do they go to, what prescription are their glasses… and dads typically do much better than Mums at the fun questions - who's their favourite superhero, what's makes your kid feel defeated/proud?
She also goes on to talk about the importance of those differences and the role that two parents play (in this case male and female) in the development of kids
My dad could remember the English succession going back to 1066 and all the US Presidents, but couldn't remember my name, age, or date of birth. It didn't matter because he loved me unconditionally and we shared so many interests.
He couldn't remember your name?
Melody Clark yeah wtf is that about?
@@hhhhhhhh4802 She probably means that he sometimes called her by a siblings name. My mother still does that to this day and I'm 46! She even calls me by MY daughters name and quite often. Growing up, I was called Jolynn many many times.
@@jennag3226 We've all been in that situation where a grandparent has cycled through the nmaes of all our siblings and cousins before landing on the correct one XD
My dad signed off on my ex…obviously that went great. My current didn’t even ask my dad and he couldn’t be more perfect 🖤
Great dad move knowing all the bdays!
Thank all of you dads
I relate to those dads not knowing birthday. I have to say he gets close, right month and around the day, but usually never the right day. I always give him a hard time that I was highly drugged and cut open to birth this child, but he doesn't remember the day. At the end of the day he is truly there for our son and our son is obsessed with him. Happy Father's Day!
The dad was so sweet haha
My stepdad met my boyfriend before my mother did and his ENTIRE review was “good handshake”. 😅😅
The dad choosing the date is just such a date to everybody he meets I love him
I love when the mom schooled her husband. He needs to do better
I found really funny that the dad ended up picking the one guy who said his entire family was christian
I mean, it seems to be a big part of their life so it makes sense to me 🤷🏼♀️. If you come from a family of vegetarians, the avid hunter/meat eater probably wouldn’t be your first choice, just as another example 👍🏻
@@maxe381 while i don't necessarily disagree it also shows a bit of a blind spot... dating/marrying someone just outside of your typical group is so rewarding and can deepen the appreciation of one's faith as well as give you an understanding of other faiths. all too often there is a strong split when it comes to religion until you break and down and realize the same man Abraham was the sire of 3 major religions of the worlds; Islam, Jewish faith and Christianity.
@@DomesticBliss-ish Yes, but this split is pretty necessary as they all hold different beliefs on what is acceptable and what is not. I (as a former Christian) would never date a religious person because I think it just sets you up for unnecessary debates and hurting. It is fun to speak with a friend about religion, but it isn't that much fun anymore when it is the person that you are raising children with.
That's good. I think it's important to have shared values.
I need more of this 😅 loved this video! What a sweet dad.
Seriously though, the expectations what a mother should do and know and what a father should do and know are vastly different in society. So much so that when a dad is pushing a stroller he's World's best dad, whereas mum is just mum, right? It puts a lot of pressure on the mothers and I wish that would change. Obviously not saying that there aren't truly committed dad's out there, but if mums do the exact same thing, it's just considered normal.
To the first segment, I saw a TedX talk from Marilyn York (she's an attourney for divorced men), and yes trivia questions like these often stump fathers, but guess what kind of questions often stump mothers? Personal ones. And fathers excel at those. Things like "if your son was a super hero, what would his power be? How high is your daughter comfortable flying on the swing? What monsters are your kids afraid of? What makes your son feel defeated? What does your daughter want to be when she grows up?" I feel that is just as important or perhaps more important than knowing all of the trivia facts about your children.
Ah yes, the fun parent! That don't impress me much
@Anna crystal fair enough. It's worth hearing her out though. Check out the video Ted X video if you're curious.
@@melodyclark1944 When Marilyn York brought these up, her point was being in tune with the things that matter to their kids. Feel free to disagree, but she wasn't talking about being "the fun parent". She was talking about having a connection with your children. I'm probably not doing a good job explaining though. I do recommend watching her ted talk.
@@jacobthompson4444 No, I get it and I've seen these parents in tv and movies. The show Frequency is the best example. He knew what his daughter liked and then her likes changed. You should watch the show. Lots of fictional dads connect with their kids about fun stuff and the kids care about that, but it gets in the way of the mom taking care of them.
Im a mom with adhd numbers and names arent what im good so i feel like it just depends i may not be able to tell you my sons doctor but i can tell you that at 4 months his favorite song the gummy bear song i can tell you hos favorite blankey and sadly at 4 months ive forgotten what his birthday is a few times 😂 doesnt mean u dont love him
I love this channel because it is always wholesome. So when you said BDE, I was nervous for a millisecond thinking, "Uh...where's this going?" Whew 😅 I just over thought 😸 It's all good in the hood😸
You know, my dad came to my school events and did know our birthdays even if he did occasionally forget how old we were. He never felt comfortable buying actual presents and preferred just giving us money so we could get what we wanted. He loved us and showed in so many other ways. He was always there when we needed him and took care of our mother when she was dying of cancer. Ably demonstrated in sickness and health, for richer for poorer, etc. That's what matters to me.
This was so wholesome to watch! Love the format
Yaaaay June 10th ftw!!
Lol my dad couldn't pick well for himself, certainly would not let him pick for me.
Neither my father nor my step father would have ever picked my husband for a date with me. I'm glad those two had such a good relationship that she was comfortable and confident enough to trust him with doing so.
Clyde was just so nice!
The moms know every single one. This speaks volumes on the weight the women carry in the household.
Oh, my grandmother tried to set me up with a guy she met at the VA hospital my grandfather was in. The guy was super Christian, in the army, and had broken both legs jumping onto a log that broke and he fell 15 feet into a creek. All of which were red flags to me.
The cherry on top? I was MARRIED and had been for 3 years. Never letting her near my love life.
I would check out other jubilee videos that revolve around dating and why they choose or don't choose a particular person
“I give up” nah man, you GAVE up. Also, I’m September 1st too!!!!
Many people commented that their father could not remember stuff like their birthdays too but where great fathers anyway. I think fathers should still do better, because for every Date or info they don't remember, their partner has to. Forgot birthday? Mum will remember to buy Gifts. Kid is sick? Gotta call mum, she knows the doctor they usually go to. It shouldn't be left to one partner to remember These things.
Hey!! I love your channel, thank you for your time and effort with creating this channel 😁 I wanted to throw out a video idea. A couple years ago I did a 23 and me DNA test and found out my biological father wasn’t the man I thought it was. My husband also had a similar experience so I thought it could be beneficial getting your opinion on how to navigate the emotions that come along with that and maybe how to reach out to the biological parent (that’s a huge bomb to drop on someone). Thanks a ton Alicia and Jonathan ♥️
@13:49 Oh my goodness! Taeyang's "Wedding Dress" in real life!! 😭😭😭👰♀️
I'm starting to realize why my friends think it's fantastic that I remember their birthdays. August gets me though, because I have 5 August birthdays to remember.
I had a guys parents decide I was perfect for their son, set us up on a blind date.... OMG the horror! (He was far right conservative, me a liberal. He looked down on ppl with higher education, I was working on my bachelors. Every topic was just as bad. And he was driving so I was stuck... smile and nod, smile and nod, and gratefully leave with platitudes then lose his number)
Awww, my Juju is June 10th too. I love my Juliette. 💗
I'm 39 years old and my dad doesn't remember my birthday or my age - heck, some years he doesn't remember his own birthday or age. He does remember my brother's because it's Dec 26th.
Hell yeah!!! MARYLAND DAD!!! I love the guy he chose too 🥰 sweet lookin' and sounding dude.
Not knowing your own kid’s birthday is wild
Mhm
my favourite thing my dad does is confuse my brothers name and the dogs name. We are 4 kids in a 5 year timespan so the mans doing the best he can (he will look me dead in the eyes and say my sisters name and will take 30s to realize why I'm not answering him)
You should do a reaction video to the tlc show unexpected ft. Jason and Kylen!
I know my 5 kids birthdays, but my hubby struggles with dates, he remembers months. In all honesty I forget years sometimes and have to do the backward maths of how old they are and what year it is now
I love that he hug all the guys that he swiped left on. That was really sweet!
I was hoping one of the guys played clarinet!!
You're right, they picked a bunch of stand-up guys. Usually when a parent disapproves of a child's pick, they have a legitimate reason for doing so.
My dad forgets me and my sister’s birthday every year😅.. but in his defense, we are 6 years and 6 days apart so, he’s doing his best ❤️
Why do expect the bare minimum for dads? No you do not get a cookie for knowing your kids birthdays or playing horsey with them
As a Black person I immediately picked up on the situation with William and am surprised none of the White people I've seen comment on this video seem to notice or find it worth mentioning
could you elaborate?
@gracep2910 he immediately accepted that the white but directly before William went to the same school, but he made William prove it. He described himself as an "acceptor" and clearly has biases he tried to overcompensate for by choosing William in the end. I say clearly because look how awkward things get right after the college question. He even says he got called out for it
I'd love to see React to the show bluey and primarily bandit healer
Making mistakes and forgetting things happen but I hate how fathers forget/don't care about their children lives sometimes like come on you don't know their birthdays, friend's name and so on ? It's not cute or nice because I feel like the mothers care are actually listening to their children.
Like why bother having children if you're like this.
The second dad was awesome though, very cute.
My father (whom I'm not in contact with for other reasons) could NEVER and I mean NEVER remember my sisters birthday- every year without fail he'd be "it's September 16th right?", the kicker?? My sister was born on HIS OWN FATHERS BIRTHDAY. She was the first kid to make him a grandfather, so in a way she was a lovely birthday gift for him. So why can't he remember his own dad's/daughters birthday? Beats me.
Rejection hugs 🤣😂
Cade had no comment on Russia and a weak handshake
Clyde is just so nice
Is it bad that if I was one of the guys that the dad swiped left on, I would have refused his hug?
Not at all, and he asks for consent each time so no worries.
1:07 Homer Simpson?
I would love for my dad to do this just to see who he would pick or even my mom or older sister
My dad would've known me and my sisters' birthdays, schools, classes and best friends. But I don't think he'd have given the guys an easy time for that swipe left/right thing
I've been my son's primary caregiver his whole life, so I know all of this stuff.
Normally I irrationally hate any guy who looks like my nephew, but I would have totally gone with sideways handshake tattoo Vans guy.
I asked my dad what my birthday was he said September 25th, my birthday is April 18th 😂
Moms answered those questions no problem! Also haha seems like you are the 35 and above choice not the 30 and under choice.
If this was about mothers they would get so mutch hate and feel shamed.Dads get away with anything.
MELVIN IS SO CUTEEEEEE
If I had daughter it would be easier choose for her than choosing for me. I can't use these aps because with my low selfesteen I'd feel ungrateful to reject someone willing to waste their time with me :-D
You have five kids Jonathan? Wow lol.
I'd be scared for my Dad to pick, only because I dont think he'd like anyone!😂
My dad would probably have gotten into a fight with each one of them and kicked them away...
I miss my dad. Haven't spoken to him in 6 years except for one very awkward birthday call that my half sister prompted. I call him each year and leave him a voice mail on his birthday. He never answers. I'm not even sure I'm calling the right number anymore.
I'd love to just go out and have a drink with him at this point. Tell him what's been going on.
I don't think he'd know the answer to any if the questions that street interviewer asked.
How can you not know your children's birthday? Wtf...
nah bro it’s really not okay for men to think it’s okay to not know information about their children. you should know your child’s age. (im not saying this as like a high and mighty thing, im saying it as a i’ve been disappointed so many times before thing)
update: the second video warmed my heart
Woo-hoo! April 27th babies rule!
Both my dad and I would've picked you Jono ;)
I am constantly called by my sisters name
MY BIRTHDAY IS SEPTEMBER 1ST ASWELL
Lol I feel like my dad wouldn't do a very good job in picking a person for me to date my mom might though 🤔
My dad probably would have done ok but my mum would be great at picking a date for me! I’m surprised she hasn’t set me up with anyone yet 😆
Re the Jubilee vid, it seems that the dad chose someone whom HE would date!
okay so bad parent story from my dad: My Birthday is the day after my brother's and on the morning of my birthday when we had a big celebration for my brother's birthday the day before my dad was jelling at me to clean up the house because my uncle was visiting that day ..... He also forgot to pick me up from school on his was home from work several times (I literally stood on the side of the road and he was driving past me) and that's just the biggest things he's done (besides the emotional and verbal abuse). Also I wouldn't judge a parent for forgetting some of these things once in a while because everyone has a bad day now and again but some parents just make it so obvious they don't care
About the dating thing: I don't have children but I have thought about these things and honestly I wouldn't care about what faith they have or where they're from or any of this because that doesn't really matter. The only thing I would care about when meeting the partner of my child would be: Are they treating them right? Are they a good person? And are both happy? Only if one of these things would be questionable would I have a talk to my child and have an open talk to them about what I'm seeing. And hopefully I'll have raised them in a way so they can listen to my concerns and thoughtfully consider them
Hi September 1 birthday here and when I was born Labor day was all way the first so my Mom would say in labor on Labor day now it's the first Monday of the month but give that joke to your wife it's a Mom joke we have them to
My dad might have got my birthday and he would only have known my doctor because we had the same doctor. He would have failed everything else, especially a date for me. He couldn't even tell you my LP's last name after over a decade.
Lol totally random but my birthday is also April 27
To be fair conversations with mom were always very different than conversations with dad.
Mom was more about internal stuff and dad was more about understanding the external.
It's was all fun and games until the dad started asking about faith and the Russian/Ukraine invasion. Where did *that* come from?
I'd say it's all important things to know :)
Man, hated to see the dad’s “it’s a height thing” bias!
I think that was because his daughter specifically told him she wanted tall guys haha
Seen this on Aba and Preach's channel. You should watch their videos.😈
When she said she'd give her Dad's pick a try, she had a one-sided shrug and kind of shook her head 'no.' I'm sure she meant it, but she wasn't getting a vibe.
You... people don't actually judge people by handshakes do they?
If someone shakes my fingers instead of my hand we're off to a shaky start, lol. Seriously though, not really.
you should react to Dhar Mann video
I am really glad my dad didnt get to pick my husband.
I'm going to tell you that my father would do a terrible job but I would be a big fat liar
do you have 5 kids?????
My Dad would definitely pick the guys he'd like, not whom I would want. Because he's right and I'm young and therefore stupid (35). Don't get me wrong, we love each other 3000, and used to have a lot of fun together, but the Russian invasion thing has split us right up.