Charleston White: Single Black Mothers Are Pissed, Men Need To Become Step Dads or Pay Women For Box
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I can’t with charleston 😂
I would rather eat my own poop 💩 in a bowl 🥣 than marry a baby momma
Not going to lie I was that little boy thinking the same thing. Now that I'm 25 I most definitely am not messing around with a single mother. 😂
They all single mothers now🤷🏽♂️
@@RoycesRant nah not really
same here G... if she got a kid she aint for me lol
@@RoycesRantthey most definitely are.
Most women my age are single mothers except Dikes and women that can’t have children.
You can find some who are underage that are childless, but I do not date or play with underaged females.
Still possible in your 20s, but if your still dating around girls your age when you’re 30+, good luck
Never become a stepdad if you don’t already have kids. Don’t waste your legacy.
💯
Real spill
Learned that lesson too late
I did that bullsh!t twice. I’m good living the single life in my 40’s now. That step dad sh!t was trash 🗑 asf in the early 2000’s and ultra trash 🗑 in the 2010’s
@@boogieluv247 It go sideways dont it,
I feel what Charleston saying but a lot of these single moms don't appreciate when you help their kids and feel entitled af.
You feel a self admitted grapest?
why do you need appreciation? It's for the kid.
@@Nick-mg9nm that isn’t his..
@@ryanc7652 I'm not saying you take care of him. Imagine men fucking your mom and just walking out.
Cuz ur in a servants position. She failed at womanhood to keep the biological father around and is pissed. U just Ina crossfire🤷♂️
Being a step father is like working another man’s shift…and not getting paid for it!
Dam well said
Not if the step child appreciates you and looks up to you!
😂😂😂
😂 totally agree
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂graveyardshift ontop of that too
Kevin Samuels said women need to go apologize and make up with they baby father before going to try to make another man take care of they kids. We need to watch who we taking advice from, we should advocate and incentivize keeping families together and putting families back together instead of guilt tripping men into raising somebody else seed.
thats big facts
Well said 👍🏾
A lot of fathers have went through hell with the child's mother I don't think apologizing would solve anything.
💯 all the single moms I smash I tell ‘em get back with the kids father, if he ain’t no bozo, pedo, or bum. A lot these chicks be leaving these dudes for goofy reasons. “I’m just not happy”. Work with the man.
For real
Being a step dad is a last resort option for men who don't have better options especially if he don't have kids! Before I got married and had kids, it didn't make sense no matter how good of a woman she was. As soon as I met a milf, I usually met a single female without kids and moved on.
Thats not the point. He's saying if you fuck on the mom and see the kid be positive and interact, that shit goes a long way. If you dont see the kid then do your thing.
I chose the woman with kids who really loved me over the single women with no kids and a big bag who was just running game. I didn’t have kids and it worked out for me. So good luck!
@@jayosay007 Wait!! So the chick with the Big bag running game but the single mother love you?? 😩😩
@@501Caution Yea man I jumped out the Porsche and took the kids to Chuck E Cheese. Mommas know how to nurture and feed a man.
@@jayosay007 I'm sure she do!! Especially hoping out of a Porsche truck! Be careful my guy!
Never NEVER reward bad behavior. NEVER take care of a kid that isn’t yours
💯💪🏾
So who’s all the dudes supportin these hoes on only fans, Instagram, snap chat, TikTok , etc ? All I see is hella thirsty mfs everywhere
Very disrespectful and a woman don't need to fw no man like that
@@khandiblack5149 He told the truth
Yet y’all don’t hold men accountable that just run around leaving kids everywhere, the family structure is collapsing especially in black and Latino families. The father and the mother should both be responsible.
As a step dad and a father as much as I love my family I wouldn't recommend it to any young man.
Bruh💀
Same here Bro
I am a stepfather as well he’s right it just feels weird even years later I have two kids of my own and she has two and it just feels weird the kids love me to death but I just always wonder what it could of been like to have had a woman with out kids and made them all on my own … never NEVER BE A STEPDAD it’s silly
Definitely feel the same. Single guys should never get with single mothers mothers.
I have 4 kids from 2 women. If I ever became single again I still wouldn’t date a woman with kids. Too many single women with no kids to be playing step daddy. I never understood why men wanted a woman with kids
I’m a step dad their dad passed away a last year. My mom was a single mom and the very few men I met embraced me and treated me with the utmost respect. And I’m forever grateful. For em
There are exceptions!!! A widow would be one!!! Nothing wrong with it if u happy
My dad was a stepdad to my brother. He raised him well, my brother gets him a nice Father’s Day gift every year. He’s 42 now, my dad been in his life since he was 1.
My dad was a step dad as well and my brother look at him as a dad and I look at his dad as a dad. I’m a step dad at 29 they dad not even in the state
@@T.Denise sounds like a great Man
Ninja! Your a sucker...🤔
No man is obligated to a woman until she is his wife.
Tell it!
Exactly!!!!
My dad told me , don’t take care of another man’s problems.
That's true.... as long as you don't creat any.
@@zach3841 exactly!
Sometimes they don't even know and it works out. My ex gf husband is doing a wonderful job raising my kids. What he don't know won't gurt
@@josecervantes1362 🤣
My mother told me that and she is a single mom
Bruh I died when he said you gotta rub him on the head 😂😂😂😂
Rubber head he said lol
Why would a man who did the right thing worked HARD to put himself in a good position(Good Credit,Money in the Bank,Home and a Nice Car) lower himself down and date a single mother AKA Tyrone’s Baby Mama when he can start fresh and date a woman with no kids? 🤔🤔🤔
Say that all the time
What if she was a white woman with money.but single mom
As a veteran and young black man with no kids I'm not stepping up to take care of anybody else's hard headed a** kids.
And I'm not having a kid with a woman that already has kids either! Men get your s*** together handle your responsibilities!
Women stop lying with s***bags blaming, then blaming men cause the father ain't around!
Hell no, If it's meant to be and that what God wants so be it, until then I'm staying single, stress free, and taking care of my own well being and health and enjoying my benefits. Just because you have kids that's not a damn promise to happiness. AT ALL, AND I QUOTE THAT!
Celibacy is my best friend. I've had my fair share and trust me I ain't missing out on a damned thing I haven't had 10 times over.
And it doesn't make you weak as a man or woman.
And so far I'm not disappointed I'm what God has done for me. LORD THANK YOU!
Exactly… ain’t nobody asking the woman to step up and be step moms 🤷🏾♂️
Smart man plant your seed in fresh soil that doesn't already have plants growing
@@jhonezcronic and I wouldn't blame them if they didn't, dont do what it takes to have kids if you not ready for what it takes to provide for them as you should
Don't do it bruh, I'm older and have some horror stories. Find you a women with no children morals structure standards and no baggage. You will live longer 🤣
Smart man don’t be a fool!!
He not lying 😂! Those kids definitely seeing everything!
If you don’t wanna be step daddy don’t mess with single moms, real simple
No don't try to wife no single moms. You just fuck single moms bro.... no attachments no dates don't want to meet your kids. Just fuck single moms the worse thing you can do is spend your hard earned money on a kid that isn't yours it's not your legacy
Facts
Being a step-dad is a thankless job to me
You want to be thanked everyday?
Y’all are some of the most ungrateful men on the planet. This is hilarious.
I am a woman. Single no kids attractive… I don’t expect my partner to constantly thank me. You are with someone because you want to grow with them, not for constant thank yous.
@Too true if I'm taking care of a child that ain't mine I want alllllll my respect
@@tootrue7599 you sound dumb as hell. How do you sound ungrateful as a man for wanting a simple thank you and some respect for providing for and raising a child that you did NOT create??? I know women are getting out of hands these days but is this some new standard or something??? 😂
You don't praise a fish for swimming lol
Being a step parent period is a Thankless job.
You can mentor the boy or just be nice to him. You don't have to be his daddy's replacement
Fax!! That’s all he’s saying!!
Agree
I ain’t mentoring a damn thing. Her kid, her responsibility
@@Colt19 exactly!!
@@Colt19 lolol 🤣
I won't even entertain single mother about being a step Dad 😂
You know we in a failed society when you have to advise men how to be fathers to illegitimate children because the family structure has completely broken down 😅
Especially when those same fathers got children of their own somewhere too.
He not lying though, if you don't want to do nothing with the kids, take her to your house or a hotel!!! DO NOT BE AT HER HOUSE AROUND THE KIDS!!!! THEY WILL GET ATTACHED TO YOU FROM THAT LITTLE INTERACTION!!!
Facts 💯
She ain’t got a babysitter
I've been a step dad im not with their mothers no more...they are grown now but they still love me and still will call. Not often but they will remind me how good of a dude I was to THEM.
I’ve been stepdad for a few single moms, the issue was always the mom… even had a BD stop me in the store and say how much his daughters appreciated my efforts… never the less, the”hey big head or the kids asked about you “ is a tool when the p#ssy lose power over you ..
Women need stop leaving the man they were with
I’ll stay single, for the rest of my days before I raise another man seed and I don’t have none myself. I also rather pay for box if I had to choose
You get look at crazy when you say I don't want to be a stepdad you see the glare stares leaser eyes and everything I rather the rest of my life building my ambition untill it becomes a reality through dedication and hardwork
@@mrjonnybravo21Because we say it wrong. I remind single moms that there is no shortage of women without kids.
Being a father is a thankless job. It's a million times worst being a step-daddy.
It's only God who can help us do anything
🚮🗑️🚮🗑️🚮🗑️
Step fathers are the best ❤ my stepfather was so awesome to us an my mother…. He Did a job my real daddy didn’t wanna do… step father don’t get enough praise
Never be a stepsimp
Respect
Step dads are suckers
😂Yall do know he trolling right this is too funny, being a step-dad is not for the kind hearted
I don't think he trolling.
He not trolling he a simp for real that older generation really tricks and simps like that
@@Bam905u know him personally
When more men accept being stepdads they set a precedence for the generations after them. The quality of women drops because now they grow up knowing that a man will be there no matter what kind of mistakes they make. Just like a spoiled and entitled kid. There’s too much of a safety net. This is literally what has happened in the past recent generations … that’s one of the contributors as to why we are here today.
That being said. Having a healthy male figure in a boy’s life if very important. This is the chicken and the egg situation. Which comes first but answer for this is obvious. If women picked better mates especially in the black community. We would not be in this situation. I can understand why in certain cultures, the father picks the mate for the woman. Women determine the next generation by who they choose to open their legs for. Unfortunately a lot of them are making highly consequential bad decisions nowadays. Wisdom is absent at youth for most people.
Men are standing up saying NO
In my father's words! Don't go for no already made family...⚠️
If you’re a man & don’t have kids &&& you really want a kid , just adopt bro, they’re are the ones that really need a stepdad/dad in their life 💯
💯
Fostering children is even easier than adoption and those are the kids that REALLY need fathers
That’s real bruh. The kids are scared in this world today.
i stayed with a chick for 2 years cause i didnt want to leave her kids. she was a bad mama and i felt bad for the babys. 1 of them dead and the other in jail.
My Brother was a single successful guy. Married a single mother and even though they have a beautiful family he regrets it. He says it's a thankless job. Charleston gives horrible advice, he was the one giving money to momma duck in Chicago paying her bills when her and her friends was clowning him behind his back.
He’s a troll. Just say stuff that generates views. He’s not a step dad. Enough said
Being a parent is a thankless job most of the time 😂
@@Keviekev115 he is though. His wife had children when they got together. Udk what u talking about and if u laying up in somebody house u should show respect to the kids
@@AustinJLewis19 I have children so I Understand what you are saying but having your own and raising somebody else's are two different things.
@@jsanders9975 did he ever say why he regrets it?
Call me what you want, I'm not taking care of another man's kids. I didn't make them, I'm not taking care of them.
That simple ain’t up for debate
notice the topic isn’t double sided… women aren’t being asked to be step mothers… #SYSBM
Men: If you work to become your best, Do Not choose to become a Step Father! The kids are Not yours and you will.be reminded before, during and after. You will spend your Focus, Time and funds on them vs only you. You will Neglect any time or chanve for you to create your own.
How many times did Kevin Samuel’s ask women on his platform who left the relationship her or the child’s father? Almost 100% of the time it was her, I rest my case.
Most of the time it’s guys that leave, especially in the black community
This definitely goes both ways. Men and women need to pick a partner that has the same morals about parenting, before children come along. Men leave for different reasons and women leave for different reasons. Step father's and mothers can be a blessing. ❤️ I've been a step mother in every relationship. Pros and cons to it. I have no kids. But love my step kids. 🎉❤
Adults are supposed to be a child's safety net.
The biological parents
If today’s women was more appreciative i think men wouldn’t care about being a step dad but the fact another man gets to live his life while you stay and provide for his offspring nah man stop it
Yep. It seems a woman of the past would be on her hands and knees in gratitude for a man who played step daddy. Today? They pretend they are doing you a favor. Crazy.
@@candorsspot2775 She could have full blown h*v and still think she got value. Mental issues are everywhere.
If women were more appreciative they would stay with the father. Wouldn’t be a conversation about stepdads in mass
Being a step dad is like drinking another man’s leftover beer 🍺
lmfaoo
I am screaming laughing! "Touch'em on his head.." 😂
“You and ha wrong…” “You ain’t gon have no good luck ! “ 😂😂😂
Naw Charleston. Don’t have these men out here running towards being the parent of a child that ain’t his.
I love my stepdad to death but I ain’t start to appreciate him until I was 25 and he came around when I was 6. I’m damn near 30 and I’m just now understanding the amount of sacrifice he made and we ain’t ever have a problem w/ eachother.
Same....I didn’t appreciate my stepdad until adulthood.
Leave the leftovers where they at simple as that
Naw Anton, tell CW what you said on the Lapeef show! F them kids! Don't laugh, keep the smoke!🤣🤣
You know that dude out of anybody not gone keep it 💯. He will flip flop anywhere on any side especially if some money there.😂
I tell my youngins all the time , if you trying to get yo shit together and you have no kids, don’t get with a female with with a kid(s) especially if you don’t feel the relationship will last. It’s almost hard because most females have kids, when you jump from one female to the next, you wind up walking in out of these kids lives. My step father raised me and my lil bro since I was 8-9 years old , my brother 3 years younger than me ,he passed when I was 24 but he held it down
Out of respect for them kids. I will respectfully decline to try and impersonate their BIOLOGICAL father.
We step up an out of the way
I believe there should not be men wanting to be step dads
No more step daddy anything
Life is full of lessons and mistakes. I’m sure these single moms have met plenty of good men whom they could have built with. Yet they declined. For someone to expect another party to come in and play clean up is insane. Especially when it’s doubtful you’ll get any cooperation/appreciation. And they will still be dealing with the person who they created the child with. I say satay away…don’t deal with them at all. Unless you want to join their misery
What’s a good man to you?
Men in suit and ties can make horrible partners. Blue collar men can make horrible partners. With black men especially you have no idea what you are getting.
I swear this is the only flex y’all have is bashing women who decided to raise their children. I also believe the majority of y’all who talk like this are undesirable men who haven’t been granted to luxury of being chosen. Whether or not y’all are really as good as you comment remains to be seen.
No no.....it's survival to them
😂🤣😂🤣 mane Charleston a foll talkin bout "you in his habitat" … pat his head😂😂
Never ignore kids when you see them. Be nice and say hi…. They will remember you for a long time to come.
Being a step daddy is a lose-lose for the brother man. Females have to accept what they chose. They chose a deadbeat father. They have to live with that. The day and time of a black man being shamed into being a stepfather is over. Men with their stuff in order have options. You can get a female that doesn't have any children and create your own legacy. No need to date a female that is unappreciative and the children will never respect you. There are too many examples of dating females that have gotten men killed set up and robbed and their pockets ran by the female and the kids. Charleston says some good things but this is not one of them. It's a free exchange men don't have to pay for females. That is a trick and a simp mindset. A lot of men would tell you that was the worse mistake of their life dating these single mothers and trying to be a stepdad to her kids. Women were more respectable 30 years ago when black men were being step daddies. And even then they weren't being appreciated. But it was a little better than it is now. Salute Anton Daniel's and
Charleston. But men with your stuff in order and don't have low self-esteem and can actually get a female with no children. Please do that it'll be better for you in the long run.✍️🤔🥱🥱🥱🫡🫡🫡😆🤣
Not true .
@@Pop-lr6yb allegedly 🥱. Is this pops from fort Worth? Because I don't want any beef with you. People have to have discipline females and males. People need to try to get married and stay with the ones that they created life with. It's not every man's responsibility to save the day. A lot of men have been misused and abused trying to play step daddy. That's not good advice for the young gentleman that are trying to achieve something great in life.
@@92dolo28 what u saying doesn’t account for the women with kids who aren’t bad people, and it dismissed the notion of a village raising a child, which has been proven to be truth.
Bigger than that, having that mindset of not caring for the fatherless child could lead these troubled kids to end up taking the life of another kid down the line, maybe even the one u end up having…
The remedy is simple bruh. If ur single and have no kids that's the lane u stay in when dating. Period.
💯
NEVER RAISE ANOTHER MANS CHILDREN PLAYER. DOSE OF THE DAY 😂
Remember stepdad does not mean father.... they will turn as soon as momma get a new man or woman these days. I learned, if you can't discipline em, keep it moving no strings attach. Its all about respect on both ends💯 Grandma usually play devil's advocate especially if she's is a loser✌
That's why Christ said it's best to remain celibate if you can💯✌️
Right once you start having sex you’re life will never be the same
🤘🏽💯true they get older, u never know when might run into them..dont treat children bad
My first child got to be your first and I’m getting a dna test at birth . I got to be secure 😂
I married a woman with a kid and I was single with no kids. I have no regrets because my wife can Cook, like throw down cook, grandma throw down cook. I fell for the cooking!
I love my stepdaughter too and now we expecting twins 🤷🏾♂️.
Regardless of how you feel, I get feed well 🥩🍱🍗🤤
That's you. I don't care how good her cooking is I ain't marrying a single mother. I rather marry a single woman with no kids that can cook.
@@JoseSanchez-sp2ex may your search be fruitful
Good standard
May God continue to Bless and keep your family ..
A man does love a good meal ❤
Men have to stop messing with these women altogether.
You must be LGBTQ 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Right! And women need to do the same
@@lovelykv123 Momma got to have a life too 👍🏽👀
My nigga ain't lying about none of wat he said
Majority of step fathers lose terribly why tell ppl to play the odds when historically it’s a 80% fail
It's all about the kids. Either you make a friend or an enemy--with every kid you meet.
I fell in love with some kids from single mothers.
But can’t get attached I dipped quick
Never deal with single mothers if this is the case, and this is whether you have kids yourself or not.
Being a step dad can open pandoras box of trouble I won’t condone it …but if it works well for you then so be it…
Bruh to deal with “wait they are up”. Or “I gotta go pick such and such from school”. Or going out and having to look like a family and completely eliminating dating options being seen in that light just for some cat is wild. You must not have no options AT ALL to insert yourself into that position in life when you never had kids of your own.
Facts
Bars.
Bruh very well said. 😂 im reading some comments on here some fools trying to justify that theyre smashing a mom 😂 youre wasting your time is what youre doing
@@dewmontain123 Facts
Say that!
In the black community we just have the same on going debates …. When YOU don’t have kids it’s more than fair to demand someone who also doesn’t have kids. This goes for Men and Women. It’s a unnecessary life complication.
But when YOU have kids , you look crazy having that criteria.
You also look crazy if you’re 35-45 debating this.
And the main difference is you don’t have down or demean someone that is a single parent , karma is crazy. I know all y’all think it could never in a million years be you because you have a plan but tap in with me in 10-15 years . Life doesn’t always go as scheduled
How can I tap in witcha? On this post here? ? Email me
Finally, some common sense, because some of these haters will end up single parents or single with kids and let's see what they say then,🤣 like the old folks say" JUST KEEP LIVING". YOU'LL SEE
@onestraightroad step dads are not rare they just aren’t in your age bracket . If you’re single and you’re over 40 you’ll be a step parent . It is what it is .
Y’all love each other so much except if it’s time to mentor and help with the little boy . That’s what’s odd.
But any PERSON ( male or female ) that is younger than 35 and doesn’t have kids should date someone that doesn’t have kids.
I don’t get the need for this on going debate where everyone gets so huffy and puffy about it
@@nekneversleep The commenter above is right. Step fathers are becoming a thing of the past real quick. Men are also realising they have better options outside of America. I'm 37, no kids and currently living in Kenya. My wife is 28 with no kids. Instead of settling for less, black men need to understand that black women are all over the globe. Why settle for a woman with multiple kids?
@@Yahawadah70ad no one should date anyone they deem as settling . The key to what you said was YOU didn’t have kids and SHE didn’t either. Also you’re currently 37 so I’m guessing you were younger when you met.
Now God forbid it doesn’t work with her , in 10 years and now y’all have 2 kids and you’re 47. Do you think you can still demand a 28 year old with no kids?
Do you think a 28 year old woman should settle for you being 47, divorced and however many kids you have.
And again this is hypothetical , I hope you and you’re wife have a lifetime of happiness!
You and I literally said the same thing yet you felt the need to comment and debate with me like I’m advocating for adults with no kids to date people with kids.
It's a man's destiny to provide, but this is really about poor choices of women. If ladies stop picking the wrong types, they won't need to look for 2nd string dads
Thank you
I disagree there are many women who do everything right even wait until marriage for intimacy and still end up being single mothers. I think it’s just from black men not being active fathers in homes for decades and having multiple kids with multiple women this has been going on since slavery, it’s the lack of an example of a proper father figure. Black men are taught how to use and manipulate women to get what they want other cultures are taught family values, to take care of home. Even when black men date their preference she becomes a single mother.
Kids be like:
"Get off my momma."
Or if mom's is a screamer... "Stop hurting my momma."
Being a step daddy is being a good man
Being a Step-dad is a very difficult job! Raising another man's child from birth doesn't guarantee he will be like you. The genes are a powerful thing. The children's blood makeup ultimately decides who they are going to be. You instill good morals in them and be a great role model; just for them to turn into the no character individual who left them fatherless. Shit it deep, I tell you!
Being a step father is very deep because it mirrors what God did and does for us, but with the power of Christ Jesus and avoiding certain besetting sins in your life like pornography, drunkenness, slothfulness, adultery, fornication, wrath, gossip, gambling, idolatry, criminal activity, and obviously anything occultish, and instead submitting your life to service of God by loving your family, ministry, and others, can plant a root of hope in the children through your relationship with Jesus that will grow into power as they become adults and live their own lives while making mistakes along the way ....in this world with the selfishness and non-accountability of the extended family and the community shattered as it is, if I A. didn't have a child with the woman first, or B. if I planned on having children in the future, I wouldn't do the marry-the-single mother step daddy thing unless he was all the way out the picture. I won't be flirting, touching, or having sex with her or toying with her emotions by being around either. I'd give her some money or a gift for her and the kids an keep it pushing. Possibly sharing a woman s_xually with the baby daddy/ies is....just too pitiful for my regal upbringing when there's other women out there, I'm sorry God LOL
Charleston had a single mother that’s why he feels like this if them not biologically yours forget them kids
Exactly he's telling his story
I actually get conflicted here because my dad was raised by a man who adopted him and gave him the last name I have now when his father left him, I carry his legacy and everything I do is in his name. He was very high status and a capable man as well so he did not have to do that.
It all depends on a woman
@@classytwnty1 i think its more so for the child, he self sacrificed and helped raise my dad into a man, who self sacrificed to raise me to value sacrificing myself for my future family. I think thats a mans purpose in life is be willing and ready to sacrifice for your people even without appreciation or reward, thats for women and children.
@@classytwnty1 Agree, it depends on the situation.
I think we are just saying it's not Idea for men to marrying baby mothers, it's going to happen regardless. And if the Man already has children then it goes both ways. But if you a single man no children, marrying a single mother should be your last resort.
@CariTurner hit it on the head. My mom wasn't in love with my father and the man(Stepdad I hate that word) who loved her loved her kids as well. I agree with Charleston just build with a woman who ain't playing games you can tell when someone is over someone...don't be deceived
Anybody talking down on stepdads can kiss my ass. My step dad made me the woman I am today. If it was just my mom raising me, she would have ruined me, and I'm a woman. I mean that. He didn't have to step in and raise me, but he did. Shows what kind of man he is. It may be a thankless job to some step dads when they encounter ungrateful children, but I'm forever grateful.
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That’s a great success story. Bottom line men stop tryna step up to take care of another man’s kids and tell her to go work things out with their father ! If she laid down willingly with that man she needs to be with that man or at least allow him to be in his child’s life don’t be a sucka !
That’s nice. Men shouldn’t be step father to black single mothers. She would’ve ruined you? Sounds like she was a headache for your step father also these women shouldn’t be getting in single mother situations in the first place.
Where at in nature is step farthers is acceptable
Gos bless y’all I respect that but not for me
Im a 33 year old man and I went years without sex. There are real men out here, these women dont know how to pick. They usually end up with PTSD from that experience.
I believe in blending families
But I dont believe a real man should pick up where another left.
Fellas if you aint got no kids
Start your own legacy no matter how long it takes!!!!
Single mothers are good for pussy nothing else. Why would you even step up the be a step dad 😅
Are you that desperate?
Get a freaking passport and travel!
9:40 the realest shit he said
Desperation is a matter of perspective I was pulling bad broads but I chose my girl. She has 1 kid and I have one now we have a son. I choose loyalty and shes showed me that. We're married btw. Its a matter of preference for me and some of you dudes would have hard luck gettin pussy so why judge another nigga? Yall sound like a bunch hoes worryin where a nigga dick goes.
That part!
That’s why God made it so convenient to beat off as a man. Women need sex more then a man who’s focused on money power respect
You speakin factsss lol im 24 goin on 25 and I've witnessed this it's no point I'd rather start off fresh than to play a role that the original man should've played consistently in ...along wit that half these babymothers be bouncin right back to they exs anyways so once I seen that I took a huge stepback
Much respect sir….I think the only way I could go year’s without snatch is 23 hour lockdown for a bid
As someone who was the little boy that just wanted to be acknowledged by my moms boyfriends, he’s absolutely right. He’s not saying to adopt the lil dude but giving him a dollar there and speaking to him when you see him goes A LONG WAY!!
Never ever be a step dad, especially if you have no kids, I fuck wit CW but he trippin, make her pay for her decisions foh
I totally fucking agree
It's not the way of the world. It's the lack of masculinity and guys by stand up individual living by moral, principles, character
Charleston talked some real mf convo right here 💯
that ending was too cold
He said it right at first, SHE WRONG lil boy shouldn’t even see the dude 🎯
He, he is absolutely right. You have to acknowledge those kids. Because they exist. But the mother should be. A lot more grateful and cooperative and feminine if she wants another man to raise another man's child.
"I'll holla at ya next time."😂😂😂
Donuts for dads is wild 😂😂😂
That closing statement left me speechless
I ain’t doing it! Her and the father failed those kids. I’m focused on my future.
You be on real shit bruh. Your bringing this brother on your platform is resonating wit me. Respect…
I was a young single mother and majority of my past long term relationships where with men without children. All of them told me that they didn’t mind dating me because my son’s father wasn’t around so there was so drama!
I have a problem with a women who don’t have their children’s father around now that I’m a father because we dads really be there to raising our kids n moms make it so hard at times if she’s hurt or bitter so when I don’t see dads around I assume it’s the mom!!! And I’m a real father! Been jailed stabbed lied on in custody court countless times and I’m still my baby girl favorite lol n girls need real dads!!! If I can be in my child life after everything I been through other fathers can to and not be Deadbeats but a single mom no dad involved red flag for me!
They were telling you that because of the p, take that away and them kids don't mean shit to him.
@@willmurphy-hg5hvand you can not put your one situation and view it as a whole. Lets not pretend that black men have not been active in homes since slavery, creating babies in multiple homes by multiple women. Yall dont even treat your preference right she gets the same treatment pumped up and left. Black men are taught how to manipulate and control women instead of how to lead, go to college and leave a legacy. I gave black men a try and finally decided to date outside my race been happily married for 11 years to a man that values family, best decision of my life.
Say what you want but this dude is a good guy! He say a lot of crazy shit!! But he 💯💯
Yeah I am not going to become a stepfather for anybody just for the simple fact that I probably know the baby daddy cuz we live in the same neighborhood I'm not going to be responsible for somebody else's child I wasn't there when she opened her legs for him so why should I have to take responsibility for somebody else's child that out am good
i did that at 20 because i thought my mom was left and it looked like she was left with two kids . i did not think it would turn out this way years later i have two daughters with her along with the first two however, sshe has 10 now altogether what i found was that she was being rewarded the more she had ironically i spent more time with the 1st two and not much with my own she moved state to state sec 8 and i couldnt keep up so they are 22 and about to be 24 two daughters who hate me which i find funny and now starting to lie like the mom smh. i saw the whole way it works. the women are changing kids lives and it's wild to see how it starts i did in real time.
I think the opposite if we 🛑 simping and they knew they couldn’t get a replacement they wouldn’t be so quick to leave breaking up the family
Step dad. Hahaha 😆 is that a dancing father???
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Never pick up another man’s saved game
Out of any and all things we all may disagree wit Charleston on we can all and should always agree that children are the most important out of everything
Charleston white need his OWN channel....
Y’all better chill before “lil man” turn into a opp 😂😂😂