American Middle Class Is the New Poor | Renters Are Out of Options

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  • Опубликовано: 27 ноя 2024

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  • @BigSuperFam
    @BigSuperFam 10 месяцев назад +62

    For those wanting to aide... I left her link in the description box.

    • @Cojocarilori
      @Cojocarilori 10 месяцев назад +1

      Can I please ask if the link for her is updated? I’d like to help.

  • @stormchaser419
    @stormchaser419 Год назад +1288

    Working and homeless! The new slogan. It's not always drug addiction that leads to this. We NEED to stop this stereotype. Cost of living, especially rent is far outpacing wages which are not even remotely keeping up.. For people with no roommates or family to move in with and not making more than 75K, it's rough out there.

    • @tinafoxx4507
      @tinafoxx4507 Год назад +68

      Agree ..me and my spouse both are constantly on the grind but we can't move from our house because a comparable place would be six or seven hundred more ...we are older no drugs no drinking and pay all our bills and have less and less at the end of month like the last few days we may have no money

    • @narcissistinjurygiver2932
      @narcissistinjurygiver2932 Год назад +22

      well, move to where you can afford to live like I and many other did. that simple

    • @marywalters1181
      @marywalters1181 Год назад

      @@narcissistinjurygiver2932 Hope you're enjoying harassing all the other commenters on this video. Don't you have a job or something better to do with your time?

    • @amc5926
      @amc5926 Год назад +17

      gig econ jobs are not meant to be a living wage. she is chronically un-housed which means it isnt an "oops i messed up a few months" situation. she is the problem.

    • @narcissistinjurygiver2932
      @narcissistinjurygiver2932 Год назад

      @@amc5926 so sick of perps playing the victim

  • @sct4040
    @sct4040 Год назад +208

    $250 applications fee is ridiculous. A scam. Should not be legal.

    • @Lyra0966
      @Lyra0966 Год назад

      The system is designed NOT for the benefit of ordinary people but for the 10% most wealthy, and particularly for the 1%. This makes no sense at all and is completely unfair, but it's 'the American way'. Go Fund Me now becomes the only way for so many Americans to keep their heads above water. What a monstrously cruel country the US has become!

    • @williambrennan5701
      @williambrennan5701 Год назад +13

      agree unless its refunded quickly if you don't get it

    • @FaithandPurpose828
      @FaithandPurpose828 Год назад +1

      don't agree with it but it's not a scam...a person could always find somewhere else to go to rent...."limited supply meet mucho demand...."

    • @run8196
      @run8196 Год назад +22

      ​@@FaithandPurpose828 Housing isn't optional, if everyone is charging high application fees to pocket some extra $$, you have no choice and must comply with the scam. When is the last time YOU rented to say something like that?

    • @FaithandPurpose828
      @FaithandPurpose828 Год назад

      @@run81961. never said housing was optional 2. people can charge what the market allows. 3. I repeat, it's not a scam. 4. don't get all butthurt over an opinion.

  • @MultiSmash23
    @MultiSmash23 Год назад +217

    I am willing to help! She is so sincere and genuine. Please reach out to me with a way I can contact her. I work at an automotive repair shop and am willing to fix her car on my own dime.

    • @orangefield3171
      @orangefield3171 Год назад +27

      You are a kind and good person.

    • @shelbyrae3715
      @shelbyrae3715 Год назад +15

      she has a go/fundme titled “Escaping Survival Mode and Chronic Homelessness” i just can’t share the link directly here in the comments

    • @marigolds49
      @marigolds49 Год назад +10

      You're a wonderful person

    • @loridontcaretotellu6497
      @loridontcaretotellu6497 Год назад +4

      You are a wonderful person! May God bless you!

    • @craythachef7774
      @craythachef7774 Год назад

      🙌🙌🙌

  • @lra
    @lra Год назад +549

    This is heartbreaking. There's something seriously wrong with this country. It shouldn't be this hard to just survive.

    • @richatlarge462
      @richatlarge462 Год назад +35

      Even in the US, it was always this hard to survive until after World War II. People worked on farms, then in factories, then had the Great Depression. We had a mostly good run for about 60 years (1946-2006). Actually my theory is that this current situation is mostly the unintended consequence of women entering the work force to such an extent, which finally resulted in the housing market pricing out households with one middle class income instead of two.

    • @puppetmaster7479
      @puppetmaster7479 Год назад +2

      I like u

    • @jasonmorgan27
      @jasonmorgan27 Год назад

      Hey thank God Biden us sending billions to others countries wars and says we can afford it. I am seriously to fing point of grabbing the flag and heading south,

    • @lovepink2619
      @lovepink2619 Год назад +25

      Thanks to the politicians this was planned.

    • @brighton09100
      @brighton09100 Год назад +16

      This is called living outside of your means. That’s the problem with people in this country. Everybody feels like they’re entitled to having at all for nothing. If you can’t afford it, you shouldn’t be living in a $2400 apartment. I do not feel sorry for her at all.

  • @larose6551
    @larose6551 Год назад +202

    These high rents make it impossible for people to build disposable income to put toward a safety net. They’re on the fault line and all it takes is one mishap and they’re back to ground zero. It’s really sad.

    • @Spoiled_horsegirl
      @Spoiled_horsegirl Год назад +6

      I agree 😢

    • @peeppeeping1389
      @peeppeeping1389 Год назад +10

      Designed to keep people down too.

    • @javiermp6608
      @javiermp6608 Год назад

      Tell your stupid government to stop printing money!!

    • @DarthSoto78
      @DarthSoto78 Год назад

      It always seems like they know when you actually are starting to do well. I find my rent always seems to increase not long after I get a good raise.

  • @juliusmoore2176
    @juliusmoore2176 9 месяцев назад +33

    This lady is holding on for dear life. Prayers to her and her family. 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @pkawm351
    @pkawm351 Год назад +644

    I feel for her. I’m working middle class and feel so dang poor. Rent is insane! Groceries are insane. It’s so sad the way we are living now.

    • @Cwgrlup
      @Cwgrlup Год назад

      Vote out Biden or we’ll all be poor. Democrats are making the middle class poor. They’re trying to make America a socialist country. That means everyone is poor except for the 1 percent. There is no middle class in a socialist society.

    • @jenniferduvall7100
      @jenniferduvall7100 Год назад +9

      Totally agree.

    • @YOUARESOFT.
      @YOUARESOFT. Год назад +6

      supply and demand is real

    • @lauriekerze3461
      @lauriekerze3461 Год назад +25

      Vote them out

    • @jennywinter3025
      @jennywinter3025 Год назад +18

      Roommates and overtime then death cause of the stress

  • @treyouth2834
    @treyouth2834 Год назад +167

    I thought it was just major cities. It pains me to see our fellow working class citizens being exploited to our limits. Bless her heart for sharing her story.

    • @bgreg6069
      @bgreg6069 Год назад

      she-exploits-herself-cuz-she-is-needy.she-needs-luxuryhouse-she-needs-pool-dogs-car-etc...lower-your-excpectations

    • @JoelUldrych-kh2sc
      @JoelUldrych-kh2sc 11 месяцев назад

      It's all been planned by the globalists. It's the opposite of God's ways. A spiritual warfare worldwide.

    • @laurijohnson7754
      @laurijohnson7754 10 месяцев назад +5

      Phoenix is a major city!

    • @Partysize2
      @Partysize2 8 месяцев назад +1

      Every aspect of the current housing shortage and costs, are directly related to the government destruction of free capitalist control and competition that once prevailed in the rental industry . It is the best example of what happens when socialist controls and practices invade an industry. The only survivors are the large industrial corporations like those now in control of the rental business.

    • @_Meng_Lan
      @_Meng_Lan 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@Partysize2rubbish its the imvestment groups buying up homes and raising rent squeezing families dry. Got absolutely NOTHING to do with socialism. That's completely illogical and insane.

  • @sarahfrey7
    @sarahfrey7 Год назад +544

    Hearing the emotions in this lady’s voice is heartbreaking. Sounds like she is barely hanging on. 😢
    Hope she doesn’t loose hope and the rent situation can somehow improve for those struggling. ❤

    • @narcissistinjurygiver2932
      @narcissistinjurygiver2932 Год назад

      JUST SPRINKLE SOME CRACK ON HER AND SHE WILL BE OK

    • @Spoiled_horsegirl
      @Spoiled_horsegirl Год назад +15

      I'm over here praying for her. I don't have much but I can donate $5 to a GoFundMe if they make one for her.

    • @narcissistinjurygiver2932
      @narcissistinjurygiver2932 Год назад +2

      @@Spoiled_horsegirl yea, pray she finds another victim to rob

    • @Spoiled_horsegirl
      @Spoiled_horsegirl Год назад +1

      @@narcissistinjurygiver2932 I want to help her out with $5

    • @shelbyrae3715
      @shelbyrae3715 Год назад +10

      @@Spoiled_horsegirl she made one but he forgot to attach it to the video! it’s titled “Escaping Survival Mode and Chronic Homelessness” and even shares more details on her story

  • @randombooze
    @randombooze Год назад +646

    For everyone saying she had better options, did you hear her say the rental place only gave her 24hrs to decide and applications are $250! She isn’t lying! Rent starts at $2500 here in Miami for again, a single Mother in a partially safe neighborhood, br ya! This is the new normal until we fight the damn system.

    • @IKARIANOFFICIAL
      @IKARIANOFFICIAL Год назад +65

      Yeah it's HARD out here with trying to rent and almost impossible to even think of buying a home now unless you're rich. My rent went from $1,235 in 2021 to $1,800 now. But if I had to leave this place I would only find more expensive rent around this area. I take home $2,200 per month. So after my rent I only have $400 to cover food, gas, utilities, cell phone, and internet. I am unable to keep going like this.

    • @RussellD11
      @RussellD11 Год назад +34

      agree. we have power if we UNITE and quit blaming the other....

    • @mindfullymessymommin
      @mindfullymessymommin Год назад +19

      Thank you 🙏 there are many more details explaining some of the factors that contributed to extremely limited (almost none at all) options. To have not signed the lease at this complex would have been a huge gamble. And moving to a cheaper place is not nearly so simple as many seem to think. I’ve included deeper details in the gofundme. It’s realllly long lol. Even that however is a very abbreviated version of what we have and continue to face.
      I’ve tried to avoid looking at the comments. It’s just best I think. I happened to just glance at your comment tho and thought I’d take a minute to say thank you for picking up on and pointing out my mention of few options and believing me when I said that. There is so much more to our story than what has been told, and I would gladly move myself and family into a cheaper rental if given the opportunity. I’ve lived with 3 children out of a minivan before and very literally sought out the safest looking bush or dumpster to sleep behind in my past. I have no problem living in smaller places, or out of a van or rv. We’ve survived coping with so much less. Even the apartments we were forced to leave were full of registered sex offenders, criminals, those freshly out of prison, and the meth troubles at that complex were insane. Still tho, I could lock the door and pray for safety. I lived there because my credit and rental history were poor, and this complex had a reputation for taking anyone. Also had reputation for bug infections, mold, very poor maintenance, but was best I could get in that moment.
      I would even listen to the suggestions from those who believe I’ve made poor decisions and could be doing life better. If there’s something they could teach me I would be very open to that and grateful for advice that could truly reduce some of my hardships. I haven’t received feedback yet tho that takes everything into consideration that landed me right here, right now. But I would listen and either put the advice to good use or explain how and why it has not been an option for me in the past.
      It is comforting to know some understand, care, and recognize the need for a major course correction within our society which fuels this cycle. I know it’s important to recognize our mistakes, take responsibility for our actions, and make changes that produce more desirable outcomes. That eternal truth applies not only to individuals, but also groups/communities/nations as a whole. Conditions in this nation have developed and kept thriving that hold families in this pattern. Those who do absolutely everything in their power to escape this cycle remain trapped. It takes so much more than their hard work alone to get out of this. As a nation there has to be a decision to change conditions in such a way that those giving their all have the ability to attain the most bare basic necessities of life in exchange for their labor. Collectively as a nation, responsibility for these problems has not been realized yet and an appropriate level of responsibility assumed to change these conditions. So they persist. It’s easier to point fingers at those in this position as the irresponsible, slothful ones that aren’t doing enough.
      Sorry I’m long winded lol… thanks again though. Every expression of understanding and care really mean a lot. 😊

    • @mindfullymessymommin
      @mindfullymessymommin Год назад +4

      @@RussellD11 so much truth in this ❤

    • @YHWHWILLBEDONE
      @YHWHWILLBEDONE Год назад +1

      Ain't know fightimg the damn system. You all need to wake up! This is what it is and what it's gone be! In fact, it's about to get way worse in the real near future. The problem is some people have burnt bridges and now it ain"t know help to be found. People are now seeing the government ain"t got yah back like you thought they did. It's too late to repair that issue. Best I can tell you is you better figure out how to make some more money, and it better work to BUCKLE-UP because it's about to get bumpy!

  • @franny5059
    @franny5059 Год назад +540

    We are ALL just a few paychecks away of being homeless due to circumstances beyond our control. This woman sounds like she’s doing all she could to keep her head above water. I also was in her position where I had to work all the time, full & part-time jobs, and even though I felt, I was poverty level, according to the government, I was less than five dollars over the limit, and therefore received nothing so I commend this woman.
    Thank God, I am not this woman anymore and I have about two years worth saved up in case of an emergency, but not everyone is that fortunate. I picked myself up & I knew I never wanted to be there again, but it was a long road to get here & I never forget where I came from 🙌🏻

    • @HeatherYoung-fc8pd
      @HeatherYoung-fc8pd Год назад +26

      Same here. Years ago, we made $8 too much to receive food stamps. Working full time, going to college full time, 3 children under 8 yrs old. We are college grads now, kids are grown, and here we are, one paycheck away from losing it all. Damn.

    • @debbieframpton3857
      @debbieframpton3857 Год назад +9

      I don't believe that one paycheck away from homeless

    • @actionjackson7460
      @actionjackson7460 Год назад

      How is this possible? Do you two have degrees in left-handed puppetry? All the advantages and no money. Yet my wife and I only graduated high school. Had run of the mill jobs. (Most years well under 50 thousand combined)! Yet we are net worth millionaires. With a mortgage free house and no debt. This seems like more of a money management issue to me.@@HeatherYoung-fc8pd

    • @francishall9410
      @francishall9410 Год назад +33

      No some of us have emergency funds. I have 2 years worth of funds in savings. The data speaks to the fact that most Americans are irresponsible but some are not.

    • @franny5059
      @franny5059 Год назад

      @@francishall9410 I was definitely not irresponsible, I just chose to walk away from a domestic violence, marriage with a teenager in tow and was given state aid, but still not enough because I was still legally married so I had to work, budget and do without so that my child could have what most teenagers have and I just mean a decent pair of sneakers, jeans, and some new shirts. As I said, sometimes circumstances dictate our lives. Fast forward, I divorced that husband, and a few years later met my forever husband who is very financially secure and took on my child as his own and now I don’t have to worry, but I also never forget where I came from.

  • @SlugSage
    @SlugSage Год назад +34

    Got to watch these videos because it reminds me that you never know what people are going through. If I saw her in passing I’d never know she is struggling so much.

  • @PaintMePretty79
    @PaintMePretty79 Год назад +86

    $500 late fee for being 4 days late?? That’s insane!

    • @yuminglu1161
      @yuminglu1161 9 месяцев назад +4

      These robbers should be put into jail. The way they treated people are horrible.

    • @EricaChavira-on4oz
      @EricaChavira-on4oz 9 месяцев назад +2

      Insane and these people do it all the time. They charge whatever they want.

    • @hisham63polaris17
      @hisham63polaris17 8 месяцев назад

      @@yuminglu1161yes landlord greed

  • @rogerbear5455
    @rogerbear5455 Год назад +264

    You can hear the pain in her voice with every word she says , she’s struggling and the daft she’s still able to smile or crack a laugh is amazing. My heart goes out to her ….I wish her nothing but the best and hopes she is able to make it through.

    • @JimEric-r8f
      @JimEric-r8f Год назад +10

      Right, but this is what she wanted. It was all fun and games 10 years ago wanting diversity, inclusion and equality. Hell, even 3 years ago she was probably saying orange man bad. Hope it's everything you all wanted!

    • @rockrecordreport7136
      @rockrecordreport7136 Год назад +21

      @@JimEric-r8f Orange man did nothing to help with our mess, made promises but ultimately lined his own pockets.

    • @uhhuhyeahsure
      @uhhuhyeahsure Год назад +7

      Her voice sounds like she's been vaccine-injured. And she talks about how they had her on multiple tetanus shots. Doesn't her voice sound like RFK Jr's to you?

    • @g3n0sc1d3
      @g3n0sc1d3 Год назад

      @@rockrecordreport7136 not to suck orange balls but all of this happened under biden my man.

    • @dclaet1135
      @dclaet1135 Год назад

      He gave tax cuts to the rich and stuck it to the middle class.@@rockrecordreport7136

  • @DarrellColemanShamrock7504
    @DarrellColemanShamrock7504 Год назад +68

    So glad to have met you at the Food Truck event in Goodyear. You are a great guy brother. I also do Real Estate here in AZ, and for this woman to be paying $2,400 a month, they should absolutely have their amenities up and running 24/7. The pool being down is not acceptable. This woman is a prime example of doing what you are supposed to, Work, pay bills and try to live your life respectfully, and now it's at the point were she can barely survive. This is horrible.

  • @dbrewer53
    @dbrewer53 Год назад +227

    I’m a 70 yr old retired disabled renter and for the first time in my life I’m struggling with finding affordable rentals that are in a safe area. I’ve never ever seen anything like this😢

    • @independ4416
      @independ4416 Год назад +16

      Move to Fort Wayne, Indiana. There are nice one bedroom apartments for 55 and older in a nice area for $600/month.

    • @peterpatton2867
      @peterpatton2867 Год назад

      ​@@independ4416
      Thanks for telling her that.
      Resources are always helpful and welcomed!❤

    • @astridgalactic9336
      @astridgalactic9336 11 месяцев назад

      @@independ4416 Those type of rentals require one to be at or below the artificially low poverty line. Most on SSA receive just above that which, in turn, disqualifies them for these rentals. The Feds set them at that level on purpose! And then anything through a rental company requires a household income of rent times 3. A very large majority of seniors do not qualify for that. Heck, many from any age bracket do not qualify for that very reason.
      Then you have younger people telling them to go get a job. First off, due to an aging body, many cannot work most jobs. And even those who can and are willing to, cannot get hired because of extreme age discrimination. By the way, just because you do see a lot of seniors working, doesn't mean those places will hire you. You have to keep in mind the saturation factor. There are only so many jobs, but a whole lot more people looking who cannot even get an interview, let alone hired. And just because they have a sign or an ad, doesn't mean that they are actually hiring. That's a whole other nasty can of worms.

    • @kathiemathias212
      @kathiemathias212 11 месяцев назад +5

      Haven’t got your own house yet?

    • @HeavenNY
      @HeavenNY 11 месяцев назад

      And it’s only going to get worse with all of the millions of people Biden has allowed to cross the border illegally.

  • @Bateluer
    @Bateluer Год назад +432

    What our politicians have done to our country is sickening.

    • @jeffreycheng5984
      @jeffreycheng5984 Год назад

      The truth is that they have become the same evil.
      Voter #1: “Who did you vote for president?”
      Voter #2: “I voted for the Zionist, false-flag hiding, vaccine pushing pedophile.”
      Voter #1: “I’m sorry, but you need to be more specific.”
      What I discovered is that nobody I vote for is coming to save me. I unregistered to vote due to the fact that everyone in government has to sign AIPAC's loyalty oath to Israel and no one gets into positions of power unless they are completely controllable. Democrats are Marxist Communists and Republicans are Corporate Communists. They both shit out of the same hole. Government is a privately chartered corporation since 1871, and then along comes the Federal Reserve Act of 1913. The fish rots from the head down.
      1 percenters are child rapists connected to convicted billionaire pedophile Jeffrey Epstein.
      America's leaders are all former associates of sex trafficker Jeffrey Epstein.

    • @lolaloren1773
      @lolaloren1773 Год назад +29

      WE NEED A THIRD PARTY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @CobinRain
      @CobinRain Год назад

      I think the government is quite generous, actually. Over the last 15 months they’ve given $150 BILLION of the money they have collected from American taxpayers and given it to a country in Eastern Europe that’s fighting a war with another country in Eastern Europe. Now they are talking about giving them another $80 billion this year.See? Generous.

    • @Pennychaser1
      @Pennychaser1 Год назад +15

      Yup you voted for it. Enjoy!

    • @lolaloren1773
      @lolaloren1773 Год назад +7

      @@Pennychaser1 ... I didn’t vote near party!!!!!!!! I said we need a third party!!!!!!

  • @Mimlou
    @Mimlou Год назад +32

    I remember when normal rent 4 years ago was $1000 for a 2 bedroom apt. Now I live in beautiful Utah paying $2400/mo for a 4 bedroom/3 car garage house! Never going back to Arizona. Expensive for low value.

  • @grumpyoldlady_rants
    @grumpyoldlady_rants Год назад +525

    EDIT: Let me clarify my comment. Of course it “matters” how she got here in the sense of needing to learn from her mistakes, etc. But what matters the MOST at this point, is people need affordable housing. Period.
    It doesn’t matter HOW she got into this situation. That’s in the past. It’s totally unacceptable that this is today’s reality for so many. Wages have been stagnant, or even lost value while rents, and the cost of living in general, have skyrocketed

    • @seth101-hv4st
      @seth101-hv4st Год назад

      The government is lying about the inflation rate. The price of everything is sky rocketing.

    • @gigigiseleworld
      @gigigiseleworld Год назад +4

      📿🥀🙏

    • @0oohhhlala
      @0oohhhlala Год назад +26

      Landlords have to protect themselves too!! Own a property or work in property management, and you’ll understand. I must support myself, too

    • @grumpyoldlady_rants
      @grumpyoldlady_rants Год назад +28

      @@0oohhhlala - I used to own two rentals so I know being a landlord can be stressful. My last tenants in my last rental property (which was in immaculate condition) caused about $10,000 in damage. We asked them to move because we decided to sell the house. It took us over a month to get the interior back to the condition it was in before they moved in.
      However, private equity firms and hedge funds have bought up massive amounts real estate and they are evil.

    • @archangele1
      @archangele1 Год назад +31

      @@0oohhhlala What most people do not understand is that there is overhead in
      a rental property. Property taxes for a modest single family home alone is
      like $400 - 600 a month. This is in smaller cities where housing prices are
      under 400K. Where this woman is that place looks pretty much upscale.
      There are probably much less expensive places in other areas of that city.
      What I am seeing is that she has decided to live in an area that
      is not affordable for her. Kind of like the guy who buys
      a $70K pickup while making 40K a year and who complains about
      the cost of everything. I see a lot of people like that where I live in
      Florida. People who have $120K worth of vehicles in the driveway along with a boat and
      a couple ATV's while complaining they can't make ends meet. Well?
      It's called living within your budget. I do know some landlords who do screw people.
      The properties are not taken care of yet they charge top dollar for rent.
      But, most are just trying to cover costs and make a couple hundred a month profit.
      The woman in this video seems like a good example of a person not living within
      her budget. A place like that complex would be out of reach for most people I know.
      But the people I know find a cheaper place and have no where near the problems this woman is having.
      I look at the apartment and the stuff they have and again, she is living beyond her means.
      An apartment like that even in Europe would be expensive...

  • @diadora9292
    @diadora9292 11 месяцев назад +79

    I’m 60 and house and cars are paid for. I can’t imagine having to go through this. Prayers to all that are. Something is seriously wrong with America😢.

    • @cjhoward409
      @cjhoward409 11 месяцев назад +17

      Because most people, when times were decent, they weren’t saving. They were going out to eat, buying unnecessary stuff, going on vacays etc. I had some fellow co workers make fun of me for using a flip phone 10 years ago when everyone else was standing in line to pay $1,000 for a new iPhone. That’s just one example. But I was able to put new tires on my car while others didn’t have that money for tires. I prioritized my expenses.

    • @anthonybha4510
      @anthonybha4510 11 месяцев назад +3

      You don't have to. You were responsible. These people couldn't get their Ish together and will now suffer for it

    • @twystedhumour
      @twystedhumour 9 месяцев назад +1

      Living beyond its means? Like the $32 trillion didn't go on the radar or something?

    • @juliusmoore2176
      @juliusmoore2176 9 месяцев назад +2

      America should be ashamed of itself!🙄😒😡

    • @MichaelSattler-f8d
      @MichaelSattler-f8d 8 месяцев назад

      The progressive wing of the Democrat party proposes reducing the Medicare entry age to 60. Republicans have been proposing raising the Medicare age to as high as 70 with 2 proposals to SUNSET Social Security, Medicare, Medicaid, Veteran benefits, and terminate Obamacare/ACA. The top 1% have 16X the wealth of the bottom 50 percent.

  • @larryroddy595
    @larryroddy595 Год назад +293

    This woman is living in living in the new norm of today's society. I give her props for being candid about her situation and letting us in on her personal story. Her situation could happen to anyone of us and I think it 's going to get worse not better. I wish her the best of luck.

    • @MelywoodMedia
      @MelywoodMedia Год назад +18

      Her situation absolutely CAN happen to anyone who makes lousy financial decisions over and over and over again compounded over decades

    • @sneksteppy
      @sneksteppy Год назад +5

      ​@@MelywoodMediaExactly lol. Cause and effect are lost in these people.

    • @narcissistinjurygiver2932
      @narcissistinjurygiver2932 Год назад +11

      @@MelywoodMedia nope. many of us learn marketable job skills and do not have kids out of marriage. many of us are responsible. stop feeling sorry for losers

    • @MelywoodMedia
      @MelywoodMedia Год назад

      @@narcissistinjurygiver2932 The biggest indicator of financial success is children and marriage.

    • @libbyjane700
      @libbyjane700 Год назад

      @@narcissistinjurygiver2932 I was thinking the same thing--no mention of child support or extended family involved, she raised those girls while on the struggle bus. Now her one daughter that is a nurse and has a chance to break this cycle, has become a single parent herself! There is so much to unpack with this lady and so many poor financial choices that it is hard to feel sorry.

  • @joycejackson185
    @joycejackson185 Год назад +117

    This is horrible and sickening at the same time. How much can someone endure. So many people are suffering.

    • @darlenegattus8190
      @darlenegattus8190 Год назад +6

      The landlords are out of control.

    • @soniajulie6465
      @soniajulie6465 Год назад

      $2400 for rent???? This lady might be better off keeping her full time job, living in a tent for a while and INVESTING in BLACK ROCK or VANGUARD, the INVESTMENT GROUPS which are BUYING UP all these apt complexes and taking ALL OUR MONEY !!!! 🙏🙏

    • @krisiluttinen
      @krisiluttinen Год назад +4

      All it takes is 1 million people and a day of bravery.

    • @OM-sb2bd
      @OM-sb2bd Год назад +1

      “How much can someone endure.” ??? Lady is in an expensive large modern apartment that she can’t really afford. She has loving family. Her RN daughter paid off the truck and lets her use it as a daily. She’s not missing any meals. Her kids are all working and/or in school. Clean clothes. Able to work. Now I understand that money is apparently tight …. but is this really a horrific case study about the demise of America?? Yes her voice sounds like it’s about to break down … but that just appears to be her normal voice. She will be okay. Carry on.

    • @bgreg6069
      @bgreg6069 Год назад

      @@krisiluttinen Like-in-Russia?

  • @valeriejones2145
    @valeriejones2145 Год назад +179

    This shit is unacceptable and degrading...you can see she is trying and stressed 😥😫 the greed of corporate America is horrific and shameful👎

    • @tomp1428
      @tomp1428 Год назад +2

      How is corporate America at fault?

    • @leodaman2024
      @leodaman2024 Год назад +25

      @@tomp1428 greed is the root of all evil. Trickle down economics DOES NOT WORK. That's how 'corporate America' is at fault. Get real. Really??

    • @MelywoodMedia
      @MelywoodMedia Год назад +7

      Maybe it is about HER greed and unwillingness to make tough financial decisions that delay immediate gratification. I am a person who has been extremely poor and even had periods without food.

    • @MiaValariea
      @MiaValariea Год назад +11

      @@MelywoodMediaHer greed? How was she being greedy?

    • @MelywoodMedia
      @MelywoodMedia Год назад +5

      @@MiaValariea By making bad financial decisions. Usually that involves living above one's means and wanting immediate gratification instead of long term success. I'm sure there are a great many single women her age in Phoenix with less education who are debt free homeowners.

  • @MarkMartin-t8n
    @MarkMartin-t8n Год назад +178

    I am appalled at the prices these apartments are charging. I am a senior and i am struggling to pay rent. I dont know how long people will be able to hold on. Food is no longer a necessity, since rent must come first. I feel so bad for her. I wish i could help! Seems ridiculous that someone cannot build homes for low income Americans. How in the hell can we support and pay $400 a night for illegals, and pay for other countries wars? Something wrong with this picture!,,,

    • @ferruccio4531
      @ferruccio4531 Год назад +18

      I think with just the money getting into Ukraine you might have all the places rent-free.

    • @johnwebsterification
      @johnwebsterification 11 месяцев назад +9

      Cheaprvliving

    • @ravendixon1099
      @ravendixon1099 11 месяцев назад

      The government doesn't care. If you don't check some kind of box or are an illegal your life doesn't matter.

    • @lynndowless5152
      @lynndowless5152 11 месяцев назад

      Well, when Americans decide to rise up, the US military has an agreement among themselves not to fire on fellow Americans. Observe and understand what I am about to say.... These illegals coming in at 10K a day WILL be the recruits who will do us Americans like the Palestinians did the Israeli back on Oct. 7th, 2023. This pig we have for a president and all of his entire cabinet are trying hard as they can to knock out the US citizen's 2nd amendment rights, and the constitution at large. Can't you see it? THEY, your so-called elected leaders, ARE WORKING WITH ENEMIES OF THE NATION! Evidently something big and very violent is being organized to go down SOON in America, with these sons of bitches sitting back and letting so many aliens walk in completely unchallenged. The US has very finite resources! US citizens do not have enough to go around. There is no other explanation for this. These and their allies are the evil enemy of the citizens within.

    • @MarkMartin-t8n
      @MarkMartin-t8n 11 месяцев назад +1

      What's wrong with this country is the stupid Democratic Party up there that can't run their own d*** life and they wanna run ours and they're screwing everything up killing this counthey need to be stopped

  • @611mellissa
    @611mellissa Год назад +129

    $2400 rent for an apartment is a rip off!! It's ridiculous that you can't even work yourself out of debt. How on earth does our government justify helping everyone BUT the people here!!? I would never talk trash about her situation because most of us are one of two paychecks away from this same situation. Catching up is hard when you're barely making it.

    • @narcissistinjurygiver2932
      @narcissistinjurygiver2932 Год назад +11

      wtf is she renting at a place for nicer than i ever could afford?

    • @YOUARESOFT.
      @YOUARESOFT. Год назад

      shhhhh be quiet, you are trying to reason with liberals @@narcissistinjurygiver2932

    • @sneksteppy
      @sneksteppy Год назад +13

      Lol, who forced her to lease that apartment? You guys are like children, refusing to take even the most basic accountability.

    • @YOUARESOFT.
      @YOUARESOFT. Год назад +5

      THE LIBERAL WAY LOL@@sneksteppy

    • @narcissistinjurygiver2932
      @narcissistinjurygiver2932 Год назад +4

      @@sneksteppy i want to find contact info for this apt and send this video to them

  • @antdub68
    @antdub68 Год назад +93

    The real pandemic. Keep showing the real Big Super!!! At the end of the day, the cost of living is extremely ridiculous.

    • @gaim44
      @gaim44 Год назад

      @@doloresm7396 Good for you

    • @peeppeeping1389
      @peeppeeping1389 Год назад

      The pandemic was the biggest money clean-out in history. Still not ending. They destroyed our lives.

  • @justliss1827
    @justliss1827 Год назад +65

    Can't even say anything bad about this Lady. The hurt and despair is heard in her voice throughout this interview. I pray that things get better for her and her family.🙏🏾

    • @bgreg6069
      @bgreg6069 Год назад +2

      how-about-destroying-her-daughter'sfuture-with-her-debts?How-about-renting-a-home-she-knows-she-cannot-afford?

    • @benstandard
      @benstandard 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@bgreg6069Unfortunately, even moving into a ghetto wouldn't save her that much money. It's getting that bad.

  • @Incognito-vc9wj
    @Incognito-vc9wj Год назад +223

    What a cruel Nation we’ve become. This is absolutely ridiculous what this woman has to endure.

    • @stanleydolan5609
      @stanleydolan5609 Год назад +4

      How about two different senior women whom sleep at a graveyard saying at least they have a running faucet. Keep voting democrat, sure they’ll enjoy the company, at least having protection if unintended intrusion occurs. Absolute stellar domestic policy at its best.

    • @martianproductions997
      @martianproductions997 Год назад +38

      @@stanleydolan5609 you think republicans have these peoples interests at heart? keep dreaming, the whole political system here is broken

    • @KP-go4rp
      @KP-go4rp Год назад

      But we have money for Israel and Ukraine! ANOTHER 100 Billion!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! But no money for Americans.

    • @stephaniepersin4222
      @stephaniepersin4222 Год назад +2

      Everyone has been there done that. We all survived and are posting on here now.

    • @martianproductions997
      @martianproductions997 Год назад

      @@stephaniepersin4222 life =/= surviving

  • @larkatmic
    @larkatmic Год назад +125

    I’m sorry but is it me, or does that apartment complex look like a prison or public storage facility with nice landscaping? $2400.00 a month? She needs to find an older apartment building that is owner occupied for less and save her money. She is so going to get shafted again if she stays there. Corporate owned rental complexes will rape you blind. The rent will always go up.

    • @AEvans36963
      @AEvans36963 Год назад

      I agree. I don't think they'll be there much longer, unfortunately. Those b*stard owners will jack up the rent to $3k. I wonder why she doesn't apply for disability because of her back issues.

    • @ukulelebutterfly
      @ukulelebutterfly Год назад +7

      Can you help her with that need?✌️♥️
      ~ 🦋

    • @janetsmith2104
      @janetsmith2104 Год назад +7

      The age of the property doesn't matter... landlords do it (overcharge) because they can. The laws on the books are for "Corporate America" not the voting constitutes. We need delegates that work on behalf of the typical American.

    • @JohnSmith-ft4fz
      @JohnSmith-ft4fz Год назад +1

      I agree that I would hope they could find more affordable housing. I dont know that area at all, but maybe someone familiar with that area could help them w/ that? It seems like that would be a GREAT place to start.

    • @Courtannica
      @Courtannica Год назад

      ​@@janetsmith2104exactly. Buildings built in the 70s and are falling apart start at 1k a month in my area. :/ it's disgusting.

  • @JF-rz3rh
    @JF-rz3rh Год назад +40

    She is amazing to be willing to talk about her situation on camera. This is happening all over the country. It is so sad, and scary. I am very thankful this is not my situation, but the reality is ANYONE is one emergency, one bad day, one lost job, one horrible situation from ending up like this. No one should be talking shi*, because this can happen to anyone!!

  • @shaipowell743
    @shaipowell743 Год назад +182

    I’ve been where she is. We all are broke and house poor or rent poor. The fed wants us to struggle while they make the fat cats richer. I feel for her. We were homeless for two years at one time.

    • @MelywoodMedia
      @MelywoodMedia Год назад +15

      Or maybe some people just make bad financial decisions. I have friends who have made more money than me who are now in their 50's and don't own a home. I made multiple mortgage payments a month when I could, lived like I was poor and got debt free. I started out as an adult with $40 a box of food, some clothes and a bike. Didn't have a reliable car until I was 31. I never whined like I was owed anything and I always paid my rent before anything else -- even food.

    • @back2the80s
      @back2the80s Год назад +20

      @@MelywoodMedia kudos want a cookie?

    • @leslieannvanhumbeck7630
      @leslieannvanhumbeck7630 Год назад +3

      @@robinsonfamily222 I deleted the remark. It was rude of me.

    • @sneksteppy
      @sneksteppy Год назад +3

      ​@@back2the80sOof. Jealousy ain't cute, baby girl.

    • @gaim44
      @gaim44 Год назад

      @@MelywoodMedia Good for you

  • @WhiteRabbitProphecies
    @WhiteRabbitProphecies Год назад +14

    My brother are Masters of Economics and in 1999 they showed me a scary picture of the coming DEPRESSION !!
    It looked really bad but now that we are here and I project out 5 - 10 more years and it looks like a place I used to visit called " CUBA "
    I have Bipolar and I could not possibly work and function with this rocket ride.
    I can hear the terror in this poor ladies throat.
    Now, up here in Canada we now have homeless people wandering around in our area.
    Never saw that in the suburbs before.

  • @newfoundjoy6021
    @newfoundjoy6021 Год назад +26

    It’s very sad her current situation and her daughter’s credit is on the line. Super you are awesome covering all levels of the community.

  • @diane1390
    @diane1390 Год назад +264

    I was evicted by a private equity firm that bought out our complex and evicted everyone. There wasn't any reason, aside from their excuse to remodel, then they jacked up the rent. These private equity firms should be investigated. This shouldn't happen anywhere in the US. That's what corporate politicians get you, and they're on both sides.

    • @OldManNutcakez
      @OldManNutcakez Год назад

      Ok but most small mom & pop landlords do the same exact thing. The corporate landlords simply reflect & amplify the mindset of the general populace and this whole idea about everybody & their mother wanting be some version of a real estate mogul and live off the rent collected from others.
      Like Adam Smiths said in Wealth of Nations. Landlords are just parasites at the core.

    • @johnnymichael1804
      @johnnymichael1804 Год назад

      Was it BLACK ROCK?
      RAN BY LARRY FINK?
      THE TINY HAT WEARER, WHO HIDES BEHIND HIS RELIGION TO SHIELD HIMSELF FROM CRITICISM?

    • @winluvwinluv3734
      @winluvwinluv3734 Год назад +23

      They are the reason why rents are also high.

    • @Ricky-mo6mv
      @Ricky-mo6mv Год назад +7

      It’s to house immigrants

    • @woodsie315
      @woodsie315 Год назад +16

      The question you should be asking is WHY private equity firms have suddenly been interested in real estate in the last 10 years. Go ask the Federal Reserve. They know why.
      Accomodative monetary policy made speculative investment in real estate uniquely profitable. Don't blame the private equity firms. They are doing exactly what the government incentivized them to do.
      This is 100% the fault of our government which makes it 100% our fault because we elected them.

  • @Polemic-2525
    @Polemic-2525 Год назад +1126

    Interesting

    • @stanleydolan5609
      @stanleydolan5609 Год назад +111

      It’s not a question of what’s in your wallet, its what they can take out of it. Trump 24

    • @MattTaylor-xx7gs
      @MattTaylor-xx7gs Год назад +34

      I would have done the same.

    • @dadsgaminginc621
      @dadsgaminginc621 Год назад +181

      That works when you are the only concern, but when there are children involved, it's not that simple.

    • @thedude5040
      @thedude5040 Год назад +55

      Then move to a different state. My apartment in the pandemic (luxury 700 sqft 1b 1b apartment in wichita ks for $850/mo. Today it rents for $1000/mo

    • @TravisPluss
      @TravisPluss Год назад +116

      @@thedude5040this is a crap argument. A lot of people have family and friends and can’t just pick up and leave.

  • @larkinwalton4360
    @larkinwalton4360 9 месяцев назад +7

    Lord have mercy on this woman and her family. Heart breaking.

  • @ashleyfulghum6139
    @ashleyfulghum6139 Год назад +20

    Good bless this lady and all of those affected by this crisis. Arizona like many other states has become almost impossible. We are all so close to being in her situation.

  • @charlotteanderson2619
    @charlotteanderson2619 Год назад +214

    My heart breaks for this woman because her story is so typical and it only gets worse the older you get.

    • @narcissistinjurygiver2932
      @narcissistinjurygiver2932 Год назад

      your heart breaks for a parasite. says a lot about you. i take it you were raised by a welfare queen on sec 8 right?

    • @Spoiled_horsegirl
      @Spoiled_horsegirl Год назад +7

      It's beyond devastating 😢

    • @wwtjoygbths3993
      @wwtjoygbths3993 Год назад +10

      You best budget and save them pennies.
      The Greatest Economic Depression is upon us.

    • @NoNameToYou
      @NoNameToYou Год назад

      @@wwtjoygbths3993inflation punishes savers

    • @theonewhoknows9615
      @theonewhoknows9615 Год назад +7

      I was thinking the same thing (about her getting older). This is terrible

  • @Oheeeoh
    @Oheeeoh Год назад +25

    Hey Super I saw one of your videos from a NY post article. It's awesome seeing your channel find growth/success.
    It doesn't even seem legal what the landlords did to this lady.

  • @ryan3716
    @ryan3716 11 месяцев назад +40

    The fact they were allowed to mess up their daughter’s credit is deplorable. It’s hard out here I know it is but that’s awful

    • @AndiSpiess
      @AndiSpiess 9 месяцев назад +6

      Agreed it’s disgusting. No excuse for that.

    • @Stu-f592
      @Stu-f592 8 месяцев назад +4

      I can’t believe they messed with their daughters credit! Not exactly mother of the year🤬

    • @oldgeezer8038
      @oldgeezer8038 8 месяцев назад +3

      She said they've experienced homelessness before. They've apparently have a history of making bad decisions. Causing negative remarks on the daughter's history is deplorable.

    • @monicaandraderandom
      @monicaandraderandom 6 месяцев назад +5

      It happens I saw it with my uncle and his son

  • @MK-ft3qt
    @MK-ft3qt Год назад +65

    People are treated like crap in the United States.

    • @monicaluketich6913
      @monicaluketich6913 Год назад

      We are considered less than slaves to the 1%. We make the products but THEY make the money.

    • @Jasonstreamline
      @Jasonstreamline Год назад +6

      Not if you’re here illegally

    • @juliusmoore2176
      @juliusmoore2176 9 месяцев назад

      @@JasonstreamlineThat was an idiotic statement 😡🙄

    • @petercrowther8480
      @petercrowther8480 8 месяцев назад

      Struggling working class, super rich And no middle class, exactly how the WEF have planned for years! ‘You will own nothing, be controlled but happy’

    • @cbiii
      @cbiii 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@juliusmoore2176 The truth sucks 😂😂😂

  • @Zindzdesigns
    @Zindzdesigns Год назад +75

    Not gonna judge..alot of people have it rough these days😮

    • @MK-ft3qt
      @MK-ft3qt Год назад +9

      You're seeing a depression...

    • @mariamathews5312
      @mariamathews5312 Год назад

      this is beyond depressing.

    • @YOUARESOFT.
      @YOUARESOFT. Год назад

      no, youre seeing the extinction of the middle class as predicted @@MK-ft3qt

    • @ukulelebutterfly
      @ukulelebutterfly Год назад +2

      Oh Thank you!!!
      I'm trolling. Guiñty!
      I was so discouraged, disheartened and disgusted how judgemental most of these comments are. And she knew she was going to get them.
      It's so easy for some to sip on a Martini while they tell you what a f up you are.
      Judging isn't going to help her or anyone.
      I read 'she should ' 'she could have'. What about now? Help her! Don't beat her up anymore! Do whatever You can. This woman is asking for help.
      I just stopped and prayed.
      ~ 🦋

  • @Loriburnett
    @Loriburnett Год назад +46

    My God, I thought our situation was dire, but she’s got me beat. I am in a homeless situation with health problems probably stemming from years of stress, so I can’t work and my 23-year-old daughter is running into the same situation here in Connecticut. Everybody is out to take advantage of people. I’ve been sitting crying for days and days. There really isn’t a solution in sight for me and my daughter and I know it could be a hell of a lot worse and that scares the shit out of me every day all day. All of this has put a serious toll on my mental health my depression and anxiety and complete hopelessness is devouring me. I’ve been running like an absolute machine, raising two children and all the issues that come up like the lady with her daughter having MS. I just know this is not going to end well for me and countless others like the lady on this video. Physical health problems, mental and emotional problems, and then they get passed down through the generations like the daughters still have anxiety about being homeless from when they were put in the orphanage. It’s a total catch 22. I’ve always been a dreamer and had hope but society has other plans. I’ll stop ranting and complaining I just am hurting and I feel so bad for everybody in this situation. Kind of seems like it’s easier to live in a tent somewhere where it’s warm then to let these evil money hungry people kill us slowly. One last thing what really kills me is the feeling of complete failure, the low self-esteem, the shame and my feelings of complete incompetence. The lady in this video shows so much strength and all the ways that she works to make extra money. She’s talented and educated and her daughter is even a nurse. And now one small slip one teeny issue, and you could be done and backslide for years and maybe never even recover. So cruel.

  • @michelletribble71
    @michelletribble71 Год назад +350

    This hits home hard. I was raised in the 70's with a single mother who made slightly above all the requirements of assistance. I asked for free breakfast in Kindergarten and my mom told me we did not qualify so we went to school hungry. My mom made us lunch but we went many hours in the am with growling stomaches. People who love to judge have grandparents, aunts, uncles, family friends who help but for many they have no one to help and therefore they fall behind and trust me it does not take much. Life will throw many things at you at once and if you do not have that support system it will knock you straight to the ground and when you are there people will think oh she had drug problems, alcohol problems, mental problems or no morales. My brother and I were alone at home in Kindergarten with no food to many times to count cuz my mom had to work to pay for those over inflated bills. I hate to say it but those times are coming again for many families and so many precious children will suffer.

    • @lindawalker5144
      @lindawalker5144 Год назад +28

      And what's crazy is the child tax credit was discontinued and the house of representatives and the Senate
      continues to kick the can down the road.

    • @michelletribble71
      @michelletribble71 Год назад +23

      @@lindawalker5144 What? I did not know the child tax credit was discontinued. That is what I relied on every year with my own children in daycare.

    • @back2the80s
      @back2the80s Год назад +30

      Exactly many of us have none or limited help. Those criticizing have more support or have forgotten how rough things are for some.

    • @Spoiled_horsegirl
      @Spoiled_horsegirl Год назад +23

      I'm so sorry you had to go hungry

    • @narcissistinjurygiver2932
      @narcissistinjurygiver2932 Год назад +9

      that is because you had a bad mom. a bag of rice is cheap.

  • @dustin883
    @dustin883 Год назад +18

    It’s sad to say it is the same everywhere, it is beyond frustrating to work our asses off just to worry about where to get some food or how to get on top of rent that is unfairly and greedily going up, and what the f___ is that about a $250 application fee…that is greed at its finest and the people who collects those GREEDY GOUGING fees should be ASHAMED of themselves!!!!!!

  • @KM-ip6ir
    @KM-ip6ir Год назад +208

    In 1990 when I moved out of my childhood home, my rent was $350/month for a nice 1 bedroom apartment, and the total bills were about $600. I made $17/hr at the local cable company. I made around $2200 per month. I had a '91 Camaro that had a $230 per month payment, insurance was $100, and plenty of money to spend on food and entertainment. My kids make a little more, but their bills are around $2k with roommates for housing alone. This country is f_cked.

    • @tyrone1544
      @tyrone1544 Год назад

      No one cares jerkoff. We have are own problems.

    • @H.E.M.
      @H.E.M. Год назад

      Yall should’ve voted better and stop blindly following those corrupt old white people that were alive before blacks even had rights. But no don’t take accountability just say the country is fucked while bragging about how better life used to be. Bitch.

    • @arachosia
      @arachosia Год назад +34

      It’s worldwide. The entire world is screwed. Except for the 1% who will have everything.

    • @hugohabicht9957
      @hugohabicht9957 Год назад +5

      The whole world is

    • @WhatsCookingTime
      @WhatsCookingTime Год назад +6

      Very similar I first moved out of his 92 395 nice one bedroom making about 600 bucks a week. Had an older car myself I always had plenty of money. I wasn't unique either

  • @peterpatton2867
    @peterpatton2867 Год назад +7

    Melissa, you are very articulate and perservering.
    You are definitely a survivor out here in life's school of hard knocks!
    I understand. Life is not easy at all for some of us!😢
    It's really fortunate to have your daughter's together with you for love & support to help you through your hard times.
    And the Snoop Dogg shot-out was the cream a la de cremé! 💋👌
    Bless you all!

  • @larose6551
    @larose6551 Год назад +79

    With her daughter having MS perhaps she’s eligible for affordable housing along with Ssi. She could be her caregiver and live with her.

    • @silentrunning9847
      @silentrunning9847 Год назад +12

      Great idea! I hope she's aware or reads this comment. ✌️

    • @BrandanLee
      @BrandanLee Год назад +13

      The only problem being that DES makes you do so much asinine bullshit to get that and keep it, it may as well be a full time job.

    • @tiffanycurtis4794
      @tiffanycurtis4794 Год назад +8

      Her daughter should have disability insurance the system is messed up. I see people they say they stomach hurt and on disability. they make it bad for people who really need it. Because they lying because they just don’t want to work, they lazy, and they live off the system.

    • @BrandanLee
      @BrandanLee Год назад +9

      @@tiffanycurtis4794 How bad does a stomach need to hurt before you say it's reasonable to be on disability?
      On a spectrum of mild occasional heartburn to chronic ulcerative colitis?
      Then a follow up:
      If someone is always in visible agony, is that okay? Or if someone is showing their strength and hides it as best they can, are they not deserving of a break?
      Finally:
      How do you, personally, know they are lying, and what would change your mind?

    • @ukulelebutterfly
      @ukulelebutterfly Год назад +3

      ​@@BrandanLeeTHANK YOU! My stomach cancer wasn't visible to the eye. And I do my best not to reveal the everyday challenges I face. So, people assume I'm normal and healthy. And because I'm so thin, they assume I have a drug problem. I'm med free! My insurance agent Loves me! Hey Brian!(you never know 🤣) ✌️♥️
      ~ 🦋

  • @Mimlou
    @Mimlou Год назад +138

    She should start an Etsy shop and sell her art. I would love to help support through her work.❤

    • @angelajoplin6737
      @angelajoplin6737 Год назад +32

      I own a Etsy shop and I use to bring in really good $$! People aren't buying like they use to. My shop has been suffering for over 2 years now!

    • @irinab7524
      @irinab7524 Год назад +6

      After all the Covid etc people are afraid to spend. They try to save in case of emergency and not buy what’s not necessary.
      Minimalism is new mainstream - decluttering rules

    • @joyful_tanya
      @joyful_tanya Год назад

      ​@@angelajoplin6737I only got 9 sales in 4 years before that because I couldn't afford to advertise so didn't get promoted. I had a knit and crochet business and it wouldn't even cover the yarn!

    • @salemlovesfall
      @salemlovesfall Год назад +7

      Shipping fees are outrageous these days too.

    • @chiaralistica
      @chiaralistica Год назад +1

      That's a cool idea. She's got artistic ability.

  • @lisamcdonald9792
    @lisamcdonald9792 Год назад +25

    What a strong and resilient lady! To keep a roof over your head is a constant survival! I can relate to this lady both as a mom and someone who works hard. No one should have to live with level of stress. God bless her and her family ❤ I also a fan of Snoop Dog 💙💙

  • @adriannathegreat9890
    @adriannathegreat9890 Год назад +107

    I see a lot of comments on here where people are almost bragging about what they've saved up and how well they're doing but word to the wise, you can lose it all. I've seen it happen firsthand. It's crazy how one major event can flip things upside down in a matter of minutes.

    • @ianditwin7443
      @ianditwin7443 Год назад +10

      Facts

    • @imveryhungry112
      @imveryhungry112 11 месяцев назад +12

      one major health issue -- and its all gone quick.

    • @roamin24
      @roamin24 11 месяцев назад +5

      True but thats why you save. Financial stability is possible with the right decisions and a bit of sacrifice. Renting is a death trap. Most apts owned by greedy corps. Buying even the cheapest condo and stuffing it with other family members is better than renting.

    • @noraryan8891
      @noraryan8891 11 месяцев назад +3

      Capitalist system is the worst in the World , all other countries are social Democrat , and with that is free medical ,and so much more , when you vote for someone they are to make your life better( society ) , not give it away to CORPERATIONS

    • @XXXXX8
      @XXXXX8 11 месяцев назад +4

      ​@@roamin24I'm never having kids, so why should I own anything? I love having someone else fix all my shit.

  • @Keepinglivingintruth
    @Keepinglivingintruth Год назад +110

    I'm a full-time employee and I live with one of my parents. She has giving me so much time to find a place to live and I really appreciate her for it. But, its nearly impossible today because so many places are wanting you to pay abnormal prices just for a one bedroom and some are supposed to be the affordable ones.

    • @eriq54321
      @eriq54321 Год назад +22

      Try to live with them long as you can , keep saving your money and building your credit. The housing market is going to crash soon so try to hold off moving on your on

    • @Littlepaw7
      @Littlepaw7 Год назад +8

      That and the fact that you have to make three times he rent to qualify is crazy. If rent is 2500 a month you have to be bringing in 7500 per month two people working blue color or minimum wage don’t come close to that a month.

    • @michellealvarez8160
      @michellealvarez8160 Год назад +2

      @@eriq54321save? 😂😂😂 please come back to reality

    • @garym6459
      @garym6459 Год назад +3

      ​@user-wh5ir4fo4rI live in upstate NY and you can't even get a studio apartment for less then 800 and that's the crappy ones. You want a good studio or 1 bedroom apartment you're gonna pay atleast 1200. I've seen 1 bedroom apartments rent as high as 3500. Its utterly ridiculous

    • @Keepinglivingintruth
      @Keepinglivingintruth Год назад

      @@eriq54321 thank you.🙂

  • @r.flores854
    @r.flores854 Год назад +29

    I was living with my elderly parents and sister in a 3 bedroom apartment in San Diego because I could not afford to pay rent on my own. The 3 bedroom 2 bath apartment was $2400 monthly. When we got a notice that the rent was going up $400 we decided to move. My parents and sister was moving to Las Vegas but I was not going to move with them. I found a room for rent in San Diego for $800 a month. The rent in the 3 bedroom where we lived now goes for over $4,000!

    • @twystedhumour
      @twystedhumour 9 месяцев назад

      And it was your choice not to leave an untenable living situation.

  • @alimmuhammad6306
    @alimmuhammad6306 Год назад +24

    The government must do a better job of taking care of it's citizens. They are helping Ukraine and immigrants, use that energy to help the US citizens, first and foremost!

    • @NarcissismSurvivor
      @NarcissismSurvivor Год назад

      It doesn’t matter who’s in office or us sending arms to Ukraine. This is corporate America now and there’s nothing that the government can do to change it.

  • @ThePaneldiscussion
    @ThePaneldiscussion Год назад +26

    God bless this woman. I hope she and her girls make it through ok. I can hear and feel her anguish, it just feels like the whole world’s snowballing from one disaster to another

    • @ronniemead805
      @ronniemead805 8 месяцев назад

      I hope she get smart and move into a RV, so she can save some of that $2800.00 she makes monthly.

  • @bridgetfigueroa1589
    @bridgetfigueroa1589 Год назад +85

    America is not great...this is heartbreaking. The struggle is real for all of us!!! I know the struggle too well. Getting paid bi-weekly and most of it going to bills. Having to stretch the last couple hundred for daily needs and food for the next twelve days. I have days where I just want to ball up and cry as well. It's nearly impossible to build up my savings account!! God bless this lady ❤

    • @MelywoodMedia
      @MelywoodMedia Год назад +10

      You can build multiple revenue streams. That's what I do. I also don't own a TV or spend money on streaming services. I drive a 13 year old extremely clean and reliable car. I rarely eat out and cook from scratch. That's how you save.

    • @Btn1136
      @Btn1136 Год назад +8

      @@MelywoodMediayou’re talking to a very unskilled crowd

    • @MelywoodMedia
      @MelywoodMedia Год назад +6

      @@Btn1136 They are skilled at whining, being entitled, excuse making and blaming. 🤣

    • @sneksteppy
      @sneksteppy Год назад +4

      ​@@Btn1136Being unskilled is the least of their problems. A skill can be learned any time.
      Their cognitive development has been severely stunted. These people have the same maturity as a 10 year old child. They view the world in terms of what others can do to provide for them. This is their biggest problem. They still have a child-like view of the world, and will wait around their whole lives for someone to come and make things better for them.

    • @scottwatson4584
      @scottwatson4584 Год назад +3

      @@south.central_dawg6083Voting isn’t going to help you. You have to adapt. Get rid of things you don’t need. The party is over. It’s time to begin to live frugally, pay cash, and end your debt.

  • @nieceyv1955
    @nieceyv1955 Год назад +15

    God bless her and her family! It was painful to hear the hurt in her voice! I wish the best for her and I hope that AZ and the rest of the country gets it together because this is ridiculous. Praying for them. Thanks Super!

  • @thekingsdaughter7888
    @thekingsdaughter7888 Год назад +22

    The economy, loss of wage hours in 2020, I was forced to apply for my SSN earlier than I wanted to. If I didnt own my home, still paying for it, there is no way I could afford an apartment in Phoenix. I would need to apply for low income housing or live in a low income senior citizen residence. Every option in my price range is in an unsavory community. Im extremely grateful to the Most High for making my way straight, keeping me healthy and mobile. My vehicle is paid for and Ive been digging my way out of debt these past 3 years. I realize everyday that there are others who are in a more difficult situation then I am. I believe this is the new normal. Buckle up. It's gona be a bumpy ride. Be safe.

  • @nl212ep
    @nl212ep Год назад +28

    Wow she’s working so hard. Praying she doesn’t turn to pain pills to deal with her back pain. God bless her.

  • @vetgirl71
    @vetgirl71 Год назад +109

    Praying for this poor woman & her children. Her story is familiar to so many hard working Americans. It’s getting difficult to survive & pay high basic expenses. So sad, what is happening in society today. Thanks Snoop for taking time out his busy schedule to encourage the young lady! I hope this woman’s situation improves and she has a better quality of life.,👍🏽🙏🏾❤️

    • @Nottallblonde
      @Nottallblonde Год назад +6

      You feel sorry and you’re praying for this woman who destroyed her own children’s credit over and over again, and probably has this problem because she did drugs for many years. How could you possibly feel sorry for her? Do not be gullible..

    • @scottandrews947
      @scottandrews947 Год назад

      @@Nottallblonde Lots of assumptions there. Why do you think she's done drugs for many years?
      I would hate being the child of a nasty, judgmental woman such as yourself.

    • @lisahertel2415
      @lisahertel2415 Год назад +4

      @@Nottallblondeshe’s made bad decisions, been irresponsible, not paid her bills, had many chances and squandered them. Now, her daughter had a child,& where is the baby daddy? Why did this woman choose to have kids as a lifestyle when she couldn’t afford them? Where’s her baby daddy been? Reading the gofundme shows how irresponsible she is. She lives better than I ever will. She will squander the gofundme

    • @JimEric-r8f
      @JimEric-r8f Год назад

      @@Nottallblonde Based.

    • @JimEric-r8f
      @JimEric-r8f Год назад

      @@lisahertel2415 Honestly, it's just typical white women behavior. Wants everyone else to fit the bill, never learns from past mistakes and is just entitled. At least some people have some sense in them to see she's irresponsible and selfish - instead of feeling sorry for her. I mean come on: 4 payday loans? Get out of here. Using your kids for credit? On-top of that, one of the kids already has an eviction on their credit? That's low. I'd feel ashamed. Though, this is what she wanted and I hope it was all worth it 15 years ago.

  • @Enight233
    @Enight233 Год назад +17

    This too shall pass I pray things gets better for you and the kids. ❤

  • @Allinmyworld
    @Allinmyworld Год назад +20

    This lady looks like she's on the verge of tears. I see why if that was me i would be in a precarious situation myself. God bless her. Every time they show the amenities in these places it's always empty. Like no one has time to utilize the amenities because they have to work so much

  • @lachlansmith2212
    @lachlansmith2212 Год назад +63

    The way they are treating the renters is totally insane. They are clearly taking advantage of the renter. You can clearly hear this lady is fearing for her safety everyday. What inhumane way to treat people.

    • @dm-jf5uu
      @dm-jf5uu Год назад +2

      True

    • @MediaMusik777
      @MediaMusik777 Год назад

      Bow to your new overlord , Sadly the land in America was stolen and now being resold at high prices , technically , god and natives own the land not greedy overlords that don’t even live in The same city.

    • @ronniemead805
      @ronniemead805 8 месяцев назад

      Paying $7,000.00 to a landlord is way stupid. I would have used that money to buy a RV and begin to save money. She is going to ruin her health hanging onto that over priced apartment.

  • @sjh60633
    @sjh60633 Год назад +278

    This shit infuriates me when our government rolls out the red carpet for illegals and Ukraine and nothing for our own people!!!!

    • @anybodyoutthere3208
      @anybodyoutthere3208 Год назад

      Yep
      This comment is spot on!!!
      It’s just insanity all that money leaving the US away from our citizens

    • @tundaiclark8154
      @tundaiclark8154 Год назад +20

      Also...given them advantages of having a clean criminal record, driving record and a fresh credit score...nothing they did back in their homeland counts because there is no way to check....if they're going to whip they're backgrounds clean they should do the same thing for American citizens

    • @jeep19
      @jeep19 Год назад

      You should also lay some blame on those white men and women who voted Republican. Because the republicans said and did cut every program to assist lower and middle class, not to mention, give the richest tax breaks. So what do white people gain by keeping certain republicans in office? For one, republican legislation really hurts more brn/BLK folks, in the same boat as them.

    • @marganks
      @marganks Год назад +7

      Exactly! There's no reason why this lady is busting her ass just to be in fear of getting put out. 😡

    • @lauriekerze3461
      @lauriekerze3461 Год назад +8

      Vote them out

  • @leodaman2024
    @leodaman2024 Год назад +26

    So many of us are struggling. Walk a mile in the other person's shoes. We NEED to help each other. Somehow.

    • @lour9348
      @lour9348 Год назад +1

      I agree, we should and are helping each other with our taxes - unfortunately, our govt feels that tax money should go to Ukraine, illegal immigrants, and corporations. Average American is screwed and it will get much much worse.

  • @carlife_710
    @carlife_710 Год назад +30

    Had to move from AZ to Colorado. Couldn’t find a house to get accepted for in the metro area or an hour away that was decent for the price. Moved to Colorado and mannnnnn I wish I would’ve moved sooner. Bought a home in Colorado for 1/3 of the price of PHX and I’m not in the desert I’m close to the mountains and the economy is a little better than Arizona right now as well. Only thing that sucks is Colorado isn’t close to Vegas or California or Mexico for vacations, but I couldn’t afford to vacation living in PHX cuz it was sucking me dry anyway. Now I have spending money and happier than ever thank you Jesus Christ 🎉

    • @carlife_710
      @carlife_710 Год назад +2

      @@Vanessa0707 Denver metro is the same but the thing is if you drive away for 30-45 mins house are going for 80K-250K depending on size and other things. But affordable compared to Phoenix, even house in San Tan or Maricopa were 400K and houses in Coolidge are ridiculously high too and it’s soooo far

    • @jennywinter3025
      @jennywinter3025 Год назад

      What about the 🥶 winter ❄️

    • @carlife_710
      @carlife_710 Год назад

      @@jennywinter3025 Colorado isn’t as cold as other states, it’s not bad at all. I’ll take 3 months of cold winter than 110 degree days for 6 months where you can’t do anything outside until the sun goes down and it’s still 100 degrees. I’m good y’all can keep your summers and overpriced houses in the desert:)

    • @jacobmartinez5461
      @jacobmartinez5461 10 месяцев назад

      Im from Colorado I bet you aren't in Denver. Denver is too expensive I hate it. I'm not moving back to CO

    • @carlife_710
      @carlife_710 10 месяцев назад

      @@jacobmartinez5461 Denver is expensive but if you travel away it get more affordable

  • @diedonner299
    @diedonner299 Год назад +9

    Amenities are not water sewer trash collection etc. and you do not want to opt out of those. amenities are the fitness room and pool - that’s what you’re being charged for.

  • @kellyj817
    @kellyj817 Год назад +44

    This is so tragic. I think I feel the most for the RN daughter Savannah who is bearing a lot of the financial burden of her family. I watched this play out my entire life with my mom constantly taking care of my grandma. My grandma was a drug addict, alcoholic, bounced around from place to place and had bouts of homelessness. My mom continued to clean up her mess (financial, personal, everything!) and be her responsible rock until her death. It angered me because a child shouldn't have to parent THEIR parent. That being said, I would do ANYTHING for my mom so I understand. I just feel bad for Savannah the most in this situation. I read that she had to give up her maternity leave with her newborn daughter to go back to work to support her mom/sisters. How unfair. So much for the "American dream". Wishing this family the very best

  • @rustykatt3870
    @rustykatt3870 Год назад +32

    This is such a painful situation. Hugs to her and her daughter, and all experiencing such pain.

  • @hyruleanraven81
    @hyruleanraven81 Год назад +40

    When you have corporate take overs on larger amount of properties and airbnbs in every corner, this causes a massive increase in prices. No one wants to step up the plate and stop home investments. Homes are to livelihoods and should not be considered as profit centers for the few. This is happening all around the world.

    • @RobertL.Peters
      @RobertL.Peters Год назад +2

      Don't forget population growth and no new house Construction and Rising taxes

    • @MrRatclima
      @MrRatclima Год назад +1

      Don't forget dirty money flowing in from Asia for a little cleansing 😊

  • @RahDreamz516
    @RahDreamz516 10 месяцев назад +1

    This lady is extremely strong .. I hear all the cracks & strength throughout her conversation with you.. even in the mist she held it together & I just pray that she is in a better place/ situation than from now.. I pray the most HIGH truly blesses her

  • @adampolselli597
    @adampolselli597 Год назад +42

    It's the little things, Big Super, that will make me support your channel (and Super Tribe) forever: taking off that repo sticker was pure goodness. You're a good person, my man.

  • @aMissAdventure
    @aMissAdventure Год назад +8

    I really appreciate this woman interviewing and sharing her experience. Very vulnerable. Very helpful.

  • @spiltjuiceboxes
    @spiltjuiceboxes Год назад +50

    it's happening all over the country. I am a paralegal and I had to pick up working at a gas station and I do uber eats and still isn't cutting it! My life savings went to medical bills for my kids and me - autism speech therapies for my kids one is deaf one is autistic and for me lupus treatments. I have owned two houses by age 35 an I am going back to renting. It is too much for basic needs. Food banks has been so helpful in between paychecks. It can happen to ALL OF US. Be kind karma never misses

    • @Allinmyworld
      @Allinmyworld Год назад

      Was it worth it going to school to be a paralegal?

    • @spiltjuiceboxes
      @spiltjuiceboxes Год назад

      yes it was
      @@Allinmyworld

    • @craythachef7774
      @craythachef7774 Год назад +1

      Hang in there!! ❤

    • @LolaSemone
      @LolaSemone Год назад +1

      Yes, it can happen to anyone ❤

    • @kellyj817
      @kellyj817 Год назад +2

      Where do you live? If your child with ASD is in the school system then they should be getting speech therapy provided by the school district. I am an occupational therapist in a school district who conducts ASD evaluations. I'm in Oregon and there are also free early intervention services (which include speech therapy) here for children up to age 5

  • @McIntyreBible
    @McIntyreBible 10 месяцев назад +5

    The title of this video is appropriate! The middle class in America one day will no longer be existent, it will be only the Rich & the Poor!

  • @KTXThrifts
    @KTXThrifts Год назад +29

    "I've had many vehicles over the years and every single one has been repossessed." I think we have a bigger issue here going on...

    • @monicaluketich6913
      @monicaluketich6913 Год назад +7

      Could be. We never hear the complete story when more than one person is involved.

    • @usesumlogicmanlogicman4334
      @usesumlogicmanlogicman4334 Год назад

      Thank you.

    • @BrendaBaBoom
      @BrendaBaBoom Год назад +1

      She should get a hoopty for cash that runs. 🚙

    • @CroisMoi
      @CroisMoi 11 месяцев назад +3

      She will not change. I have struggled to survive and I never had my car repossessed. I lived within my means, whatever that was. You do what you have to do. You are not entitled to a nice 2 bedroom apartment. She would rather feel sorry for herself.

    • @monicaluketich6913
      @monicaluketich6913 11 месяцев назад

      @CroisMoi I agree that some people would rather be the victim than to learn how to be self-sufficient. I've had rough times, but I'm too stubborn to quit! Apparently she isn't.

  • @DesertMav
    @DesertMav Год назад +98

    Renting is outrageous today. I've had multiple co-workers that have actually left Phoenix due to the rising cost of rent. I really do feel for this lady, but I feel like this is the new normal. The worst part is that I don't even bring in enough money to cover the rent in that complex on a monthly basis. I just can't see how people are able to survive on the average income in the valley anymore.

    • @narcissistinjurygiver2932
      @narcissistinjurygiver2932 Год назад

      you feel sorry because instead of her getting sober and learning a marketable job skill she chose to rob people? how about the people she robbed?

    • @Fcreceptor
      @Fcreceptor Год назад +6

      Where are they going? I’ve looked a little bit and it’s expensive all over. I don’t wanna move to a crappy city. Moving is complicated.

    • @narcissistinjurygiver2932
      @narcissistinjurygiver2932 Год назад +4

      @@Fcreceptor well, buy a tent then. sounds like you should enlist in the military since you are incapable of something simple. I moved from ca to fl to afford a place

    • @Fcreceptor
      @Fcreceptor Год назад +9

      @@narcissistinjurygiver2932 incapable? 🤣 WTF. Florida is not a good place to move unless you make a lot of money. In my field, they pay less than they do in Arizona and the cost of living is higher there. I’m not sure what you’re intimating with your comment. My parents are here for one, so I know they wouldn’t like me leaving the state. So yes, it’s complicated.

    • @narcissistinjurygiver2932
      @narcissistinjurygiver2932 Год назад

      @@Fcreceptor not when I moved her 19 yrs ago

  • @angelinspired3333
    @angelinspired3333 Год назад +4

    same! working and living out of my truck with a son, trying to hide it from school! we keep a positive outlook but its no way to live. every time i get close to saving 1st month, deposit and fees, something comes up like car trouble or went over budget for food bc we have no storage or way to garden. its getting chilly and he caught a cold, had to buy warm things... just no way to live!

  • @JDS040
    @JDS040 9 месяцев назад +1

    Man I’ve been binge watching ur videos and I gotta say what a wonderful Man U are. Thank u for showing ppl what’s going on in America its so sad what we’re all going through.

  • @jessikat31
    @jessikat31 Год назад +17

    I live in east Mesa. 2000$ for a 700sqft apartment in the ghetto with no amenities. I’d move if I could save for move in fees and a uhaul. Don’t ask about the electric bills. AZ should be ashamed of this situation..

    • @lollafala2949
      @lollafala2949 7 месяцев назад

      Where ?? I live in east Mesa. 2 bedroom 2 bath nice property 1100 square feet for 1700. What complex are you in ?

  • @TheJhn924
    @TheJhn924 Год назад +53

    I've never understood how application fees are even legal or at least not limited to the real cost of vetting someone... maybe $50 for a credit/criminal check. I'm sure there are "landlords" out there who just collect these fees from several prospective tenants every month and never rent their unit out at all... even though that would be fraud if you could prove it.

    • @KudukUngol
      @KudukUngol Год назад +10

      You're absolutely right. Application fees have become a new source of revenue for landlords. If everyone collectively refused to pay them, they would go away.

    • @fluminesesoc
      @fluminesesoc Год назад +7

      ​@@KudukUngolif people refused to pay them...people would have no place to live.Landlords are the real owners so they make the rules...it's just as simple as that.

    • @Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living
      @Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living Год назад +5

      This is correct. Many times they’ll take the application fee knowing full well that the tenant will be rejected. The kicker is that these application fees are non-refundable. If they’re charging more than $50, be suspicious.

    • @thelight3112
      @thelight3112 Год назад

      ​@@fluminesesoc That's caused by the severe undersupply of housing. Zoning laws, permitting process, and construction codes have made it extremely expensive and time consuming to build any new housing.

    • @starofgalaxies
      @starofgalaxies Год назад

      My apartment complex is using a third party for pet screening, which is fine except the tenant is required to pay the screening company $25 per pet in order to create the online profile in order to be screened on top of a monthly pet rent of $30 per pet and a pet deposit on top of the security deposit for new tenants. I know pets aren't a necessity, but it does feel like landlords are using people's love for their pets to squeeze out more money.

  • @patriciasampier6705
    @patriciasampier6705 Год назад +16

    $2,000 + a month wow,that’s double my house pmt,and I live in west Omaha,great part of Omaha,that’s nuts,but my son lives with my husband and I ,he’s 24 and works full time,he’s saving money to rent a small house with a garage,it’s more too rent a house then us owning! It’s nuts

  • @mojavexen1456
    @mojavexen1456 11 месяцев назад +32

    $2400/mo rent when your monthly take-home pay is $2800 is nuts. Most places require that you make at least 3x the monthly rent but I believe she said the apartment is in her daughter's name who, being an RN, can likely afford this apartment. I checked out rentals in Maricopa County and found many available units, nice ones too, for half of what she's paying. Even assuming there are additional fees, it's hard to believe she can't find anything more reasonably priced.

    • @jtrell4297
      @jtrell4297 11 месяцев назад +6

      Exactly they just living beyond there means i’ borderline 6 figs and id never sign a lease paying this much but it comes down to financial literacy

    • @jacquelinepureromance8375
      @jacquelinepureromance8375 10 месяцев назад +12

      Maybe you missed it. This was the only place they could find with a 90 day window to move from their previous apartment. Then they were late ONCE and the apartment filed for eviction. They were able to stay when they paid all the rent plus fees, but the eviction is still on the credit of her co-signer - her daughter. That means they cannot move because they won’t be approved for another apartment while the eviction is on her credit.

    • @Luwanasue
      @Luwanasue 10 месяцев назад

      @@jacquelinepureromance8375 It’s sad that not only did she ruin her credit she has also done the same for her daughter’s credit. My daughter is an ER nurse for 27 years but I would never ask her to cosign on a loan and then in that running her credit also. I refuse to burden my children.

    • @oldgeezer8038
      @oldgeezer8038 8 месяцев назад +2

      People look harder for excuses versus remedies. It's blatantly obvious this woman and her husband have a history of bad decisions!!!

    • @halftime814
      @halftime814 5 месяцев назад

      They could easily move somewhere cheaper problem is they don't wanna move what they consider is a bad neighborhood

  • @treenamorgan2469
    @treenamorgan2469 Год назад +17

    We are seeing similar in Idaho. More corporations and speculators buying everything up then making impossible standards and astronomical rents. Not too many people earn $6000 plus a month and that’s the REQUIREMENT on most rentals. I pray for our country and this depression. I hope we will all help each other and be compassionate because this is horrid.

    • @narcissistinjurygiver2932
      @narcissistinjurygiver2932 Год назад

      there are people who you should feel compassion for and ones like her who you should not feel sympathy for.

  • @lilbrother45
    @lilbrother45 Год назад +102

    We all have our stories.
    My wife and I were on our way to financial independence. Owned our home. No credit cards. Nice retirement. Daughter in private school. Owned metals. And then divorce happened. I lost half of everything. I got stuck with a huge IRS bill. I’m barely making it on my own. Rent is up to $2400 a month. Paying off the franchise tax board and the IRS, and I’m barely making it. One thing goes wrong and I’m totally F’ed. man, I never thought I would be in this situation.

    • @matthorrocks6517
      @matthorrocks6517 Год назад

      The government targets people in difficult situations. It seems like bad timing but it's planned to knock you down to nothing. I'm not sure why

    • @infectaphibian
      @infectaphibian Год назад +46

      At this point anything that has a 50% failure rate needs to be avoided, marriage included.

    • @SomeUserNameBlahBlah
      @SomeUserNameBlahBlah Год назад +3

      Did she get everything?

    • @la6136
      @la6136 Год назад +7

      Why did you end up owing the IRS?

    • @MG-fn9xw
      @MG-fn9xw Год назад

      That’s where u f’d up. Y’all gave up on eachother. Go listen to what you said in your vows.
      The divorce shet is ruining America.
      Go buy a single family home with 3.5% down fha or 5% conventional an add additional unit (like put finished shed in backyard, or rent out half ur house with partition in between, get a tenant/roomate. Wait a year and refinance that house you rented out half of, and then use that money an buy another house an now you are already getting ahead fast as hell,
      YOU CAN DO IT BUDDY I CAME FROM NOTHING

  • @willowtree470
    @willowtree470 Год назад +37

    I love how humble she is. Hope she keeps fighting. This is the " New normal" for some, but for others, they were always " Keeping their head above water, making away when they can" 🎵 🎶 Its all they have known.🥺

  • @ericscottstevens
    @ericscottstevens Год назад +6

    In Georgia at a large corporate rental agency near Athens I had to go through a criminal check
    As a teacher I told the application manager that sort of seemed odd as if I was a teacher a criminal history would revoke my employment or certificate immediately. Thus I already had undergone a criminal check for decades.
    The manager had no answers for that one as teachers usually did not rent too often from them.
    Still had to go through it and pay $55.00 for the GBI to determine I had no criminal history.

  • @simplysheiks
    @simplysheiks Год назад +39

    What!? They weren’t going to renew leases of people that fell behind!? That’s crazy…and I absolutely hate amenities that can’t be opted out of-my rental added on $30 for stuff I don’t want, but I can’t say no.

    • @sneksteppy
      @sneksteppy Год назад

      Are you fr? You're fr shocked that a landlord wouldn't want to continue doing "business" with a person that has a history of not paying?
      Gurl, go home. You're drunk.

    • @greenearthblueskies8556
      @greenearthblueskies8556 Год назад +2

      Their property, their choice. MOVE

    • @Courtannica
      @Courtannica Год назад

      ​@@greenearthblueskies8556UGH 🙄🙄🙄

    • @youtubeacc
      @youtubeacc Год назад +1

      If you can’t pay your rent why would they want you living there???

    • @danwake4431
      @danwake4431 Год назад

      @@youtubeacc the government forced lockdowns which forced businesses to close which forced layoffs. It was not the employees fault they were laid off and didnt have money coming in. she was one of the few who got back to work and was caught up on her rent and they still wouldnt renew.

  • @halleyh
    @halleyh Год назад +11

    God Bless her and her Family. She persists despite her struggles 😢❤.

  • @Mz.Chingona619
    @Mz.Chingona619 Год назад +17

    Prayers 🙏🏽🙏🏽 for Melissa! Stay strong 💪🏽 ❤️

  • @Megladong
    @Megladong 11 месяцев назад +2

    I was severely struggling this year and lived in my car from jan-nov. I was able to escape it by working fulltime, quit drinking , and rented a 24/7 office to live in. Saved me a ton of money and is better than an appartment.

  • @JuneKovac
    @JuneKovac Год назад +145

    The rents being charged are totally outrageous, tenants need to unite and force state legislatures to have RENT CAPS. This is highway robbery and criminal conduct by property owners and corporate management. Disgusting and immoral behavior.

    • @l2xsniper1
      @l2xsniper1 Год назад +7

      Agreed

    • @jeffreycheng5984
      @jeffreycheng5984 Год назад +8

      Thanks Blackrock!

    • @jlseagull2.060
      @jlseagull2.060 Год назад +5

      Rent control is another game. Sure the rent is capped but maintenance is slow or nonexistent. Living conditions are awful.

    • @tonymartucci7097
      @tonymartucci7097 Год назад +4

      Nope, supply is the problem - allow more building and oversupply will drive down prices

    • @Pennychaser1
      @Pennychaser1 Год назад +9

      Lol rent caps will force small landlords to leave and you're only left with corporate landlords and it'll get worse for tenants

  • @elgenius7536
    @elgenius7536 Год назад +8

    Keep the vids coming. I’m thinking of moving to Phoenix Metro from San Francisco. Rent here is crazy!! $3300 for a 1bed

  • @YawehismyGod
    @YawehismyGod Год назад +135

    I lived better making $14 an hour in 2000-2004 era than I do today making near 4x the amount today. Wife and I have two 2005 year model cars that are near its end. The price of rent and feeding 4 kids is nearly impossible. Had to stop paying credit cards and give up credit to barely survive now. I'm 1 unexpected emergency from becoming homeless. Rents in my area shot up for me from $1700 to $2800 a month in half a decade. Had to move during covid because the owner died and the kids wanted to sell the house. Then had to jump into a less affordable options while overtime at work was slashed. The hamster wheel is just insane now. $200 of groceries feeds a family for a few days unless you eat pure sugar and wonder bread with hotdogs.

    • @francishall9410
      @francishall9410 Год назад +17

      Why exactly did you have 4 kids? Poor choices result in poor outcomes.

    • @pearlperlitavenegas2023
      @pearlperlitavenegas2023 Год назад

      ​@@francishall9410things weren't so expensive a few years ago....Stop being so judgmental. Keep pushing thru for your children

    • @RussellD11
      @RussellD11 Год назад +3

      SAME

    • @seth101-hv4st
      @seth101-hv4st Год назад +11

      You are making almost 4 times what you used to. 4 times $14 equals $56 per hour. If you can't make it on at least $50 per hour that's your problem.

    • @jackbandit2164
      @jackbandit2164 Год назад +13

      I remember back in the time of 2000-2008 a lot of people wanted a $14.00- $15.00 per as minimum wage instead of $7.50- 8.00 because that was that perfect amount back then to at least afford to have your own apartment, car, phone bill and food the basics. Fast forward to 2023... THEY FINALLY ANSWER EVERYONES PRAYERS!!! $15.00 minumim wage!!!!!!!!.. But of course the issue is that the cost of living went up. You need to be making $35.00 per hour to cover your basic expenses these days. When they make $35.00 the minimum wage in 2035 because we demand higher wages the rent will increase to the point where we actually need $60.00 per hour OR ELSE YOU"LL BE HOMELESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @edwardgoodridge714
    @edwardgoodridge714 Год назад +6

    A lot of persons leave wherever they were living in the world, run to the USA, and unless they someone do whatever it take to beat the odds, end up living a miserable life. I empathise with the lady in this video. My heart goes out to her.

  • @galrickgak9615
    @galrickgak9615 Год назад +9

    This is unacceptable!!!! These are Americans. How can we let corporations rush them through the ground like that!!! They should fire all the county government

  • @ChivoGranchito
    @ChivoGranchito Год назад +13

    No one should judge. Can't believe rent is sooo high these days. Along with everything else , cost more in life.

  • @shea1219
    @shea1219 Год назад +191

    This is not her fault, we all don't get paid enough. This can happen to anyone. I wish her the best.

    • @hairyparatestes1183
      @hairyparatestes1183 Год назад +34

      We all don’t get paid enough? I think people live beyond their means. If a person can’t meet their financial obligations then they need to either get more education for a better job, cut back on the crap they don’t need, or move to a less expensive living situation.

    • @shelbyrae3715
      @shelbyrae3715 Год назад

      ⁠@@hairyparatestes1183if you’d take the time to listen, she explains exactly why she had to quickly settle for something beyond her means

    • @wlonsdale1
      @wlonsdale1 Год назад

      What does that mean?

    • @Liimpy
      @Liimpy Год назад +25

      It absolutely is her fault, she made the choice to live above her means, rent should never be more than 30% of your monthly income, he'll I lived in my travel trailer on vacant land for over 1 year to save up a 20% down payment on the house I now own..

    • @MelywoodMedia
      @MelywoodMedia Год назад +17

      I do think people live above their means and end up like this. Culmination of years and years and years of bad decisions.

  • @jcr1382
    @jcr1382 11 месяцев назад +4

    All I’m hearing is a lot of bad choices and the consequences of them.