SELENA GOMEZ ON: How To Accept Your FLAWS & IMPERFECTIONS To Love Yourself | Jay Shetty

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  • Опубликовано: 25 июл 2024
  • Today, I am talking to a good friend and celebrity, Selena Gomez.
    Selena bravely tells her story about her long battle with mental health and how this led to her life mission to help spread mental health awareness around the world and provide mental health services for the less privileged. I get to deeply understand her inner thoughts on topics such as dealing with pressure of being a celebrity and the gossip that comes with it, finding self healing, embracing change, being one with your inner self, and living day by day being content, kind, and full of love to share.
    Life isn’t a simple journey, but despite the complications, challenges, and struggles, we can always find it in our hearts to tap into our inner good and be compassionate, especially to ourselves.

Комментарии • 246

  • @simranology2001
    @simranology2001 Год назад +440

    Selena so rightly said - "There is a blessing in the breaking" which sums up everything 🥰🥰

    • @gemgen1016
      @gemgen1016 Год назад +10

      Reminds me in her documentary, and in this speech, when she’s talking about Africa or visiting her school: it was sad to visit a school that eventually got shut down, but knowing that you connected with people, people who rose up from a metaphorical broken lake for two weeks, and still rise to teach your community that even through your pain, that connection alone she highlighted when we watching the documentary and that part, The beauty in that breaking of the school led to multiple connections worldwide of mental health, and a more fierce push towards mental health to the education level and presidential level…, even if the African branch got shut down.
      I think she was right, even in her own events and life; blessing in the breaking, and sometimes you don’t realize the blessing until we step back and realize what’s been broken.
      Thanks for capturing this beautiful quote of hers.

    • @vanessacarr6687
      @vanessacarr6687 Год назад +5

      I LOVE HER AND I LOVE RASPAS

    • @allenwong5914
      @allenwong5914 Год назад +2

      At the end of the day “Rejection is Prefection”

    • @SOMAA_11
      @SOMAA_11 Год назад

      Absolutely

    • @roxanalatif949
      @roxanalatif949 Год назад +4

      It's a big loss for Justin that he lost Selena. I don't think he'll ever find a woman who loves him as much as she loved him. She loved him, respected him, and still respects him because after all she's done to him, she still doesn't speak ill of him or hate him. For her it is truly a victory. Justin didn't deserve Selena. Surely, Justin knows that there is no chance of him ever getting back together with her. He thought he could come back to her when he felt like it and she would forgive him as she had done so many times. Surely Selena will find her happiness and find someone who deserves it. She is wonderful and has a big soul❤❤❤

  • @Minmiumew
    @Minmiumew Год назад +257

    I wasn’t ever a big fan of Selena but I’ve come to realize how down to earth and real she is. She got a new fan ❤

    • @radientproductions9799
      @radientproductions9799 Год назад +6

      watch Only Murders In The Building , most underrated show on tv , she's so good in it :)

    • @chongkhemn
      @chongkhemn Год назад

      Add me too❤

    • @selenasuau2613
      @selenasuau2613 Год назад +2

      Listen to her albums Revivile and Tara......u get some Experiance if u r in a relationship

    • @guillerminasolorio1619
      @guillerminasolorio1619 Год назад +2

      Same here I never was a fan of her ❤ now I can see who she is❤❤❤

    • @carmelaes
      @carmelaes Год назад +1

      Same here, I only discovered her last week and now I am obsessed with her.

  • @perfectlessness
    @perfectlessness Год назад +275

    Selena is a real hero in my book, she went through a LOT and how she talks about all this is huge. Thank you Jay for bringing such amazing people for us to listen to!!

    • @emib343
      @emib343 Год назад +6

      Many people went through even worse and never had a chance to become as rich as she did.

    • @stavrostzagarakis5139
      @stavrostzagarakis5139 Год назад

      @@emib343 she is lucky for being rich(in my opinion well deserved) but that doesn’t make her less of a human being with her flaws. Mental illness makes us believe that our problems are bigger than other peoples problems. She is allowed to express her feelings as much as u do. Clad she did she is amazing.

    • @eirlur6748
      @eirlur6748 Год назад +1

      @@emib343that's fair, she's too young when she's investing time put hard work to be one richer person today...

    • @laurieherman1215
      @laurieherman1215 Год назад

      Selena took a vital organ from her best friend and then ditched her right after the transplant. That's grimey on grimey on grimy shit. How would you feel if you gave a vital organ to your best friend only for them to turned around and treat it like some type of prize they won at a goddamn Fair for $10 bucks that ends up at the goodwill or in a rubbish bin. Such bs.

    • @annakatrinamagbanua4580
      @annakatrinamagbanua4580 Год назад

      ​@@laurieherman1215 UPDATE: They still are friends and are posting recent videos. Friends fall off sometimes and fight, like sibkings do but they reconcile and are now besties as ever. Keep posted. 😂😂

  • @jval75816
    @jval75816 Год назад +25

    I grew to become a fan of Selena I’m 47 my kids grew up watching her they are fans of her she is a role model that I can say to the younger generation they can look up to her she is kind and a caring woman. I pray for her health to get better and amazing things come her because she deserves it.

  • @cherylautry478
    @cherylautry478 Год назад +22

    Selena Gomez you are so down to earth. You can tell you will never ever forget where you come from. When your in pain and hurting get excited because something really amazing fixing to happen in your life. Selena is my favorite Artist in the world 😊I admire this woman

  • @indirafisher2752
    @indirafisher2752 Год назад +15

    Selena is so pure humble loving talented intelligent classy

  • @petra4950
    @petra4950 Год назад +73

    I always ask myself "who has decided what's perfect and what's imperfect?
    To me, everything is perfect in its imperfection. ❤️

    • @_.ewoma._
      @_.ewoma._ 10 месяцев назад +1

      This is beautiful ❤

    • @petra4950
      @petra4950 10 месяцев назад

      @@_.ewoma._ 🙏🏻😇

  • @user-pd9zb2tt3j
    @user-pd9zb2tt3j Год назад +8

    She’s so elegant and so charming. The way she talks calms me in a way I can’t explain ❤

  • @vibhutisahu5376
    @vibhutisahu5376 Год назад +19

    my god her patience enhances her voice and maturity with deep meaning😍

    • @ritahnaggs355
      @ritahnaggs355 Год назад

      You are so incredible woman, love you

  • @DiegoOrtiz-jx3ze
    @DiegoOrtiz-jx3ze Год назад +19

    I can relate to her so much. Everyday is a struggle but I’m trying

  • @meggiestephenson
    @meggiestephenson Год назад +8

    Selena Gomez makes me feel so safe. I can’t describe it. ❤

  • @ysmnyz
    @ysmnyz Год назад +63

    I genuinely adore and love this woman since I was a kid. Now I'm 25 and I look up to her even more. Who she was, who she became, who she is. She deserves the world.

    • @shireenramnarain4005
      @shireenramnarain4005 Год назад +2

      My kids grew up watching her on tv n learning sooo many educational lessons on her tv children series with the purple dinosaur ... 🦕 😀 ⭐📺🏆

  • @emms1184
    @emms1184 Год назад +10

    Selena is a truly role model to look up to! She is so young but so wise at the same time that makes her so normal but so extra. She is just perfect! I love this queen 👸🏻

  • @ellenjones6080
    @ellenjones6080 Год назад +62

    I was never a fan of Selena but seeing how she handles adversity and doing it on her own is so inspiring for women and she’s a role model for young girls! I hope parents are guiding their little girls that beauty is only skin deep but courage and character is even more beautiful!

    • @jaqiofalltrades
      @jaqiofalltrades 10 месяцев назад

      I've been indifferent and really didn't follow her, just knew some hit songs. But seeing her be so vulnerable, raw, and honest is such a nice pace! Celebrities, artists, etc. are always putting on a facade for the camera and she isn't. Love the calm soul, the honesty about her mental and physical health. Really becoming a supporter of her. (Her music is still just 'ok' to me, but as a person and what she's standing for is amazing.)

  • @thelmaagondez6860
    @thelmaagondez6860 Год назад +16

    I really love all Selena's interview..I learn a lot about myself ,how to accept all my imperfections...So great to know that she's not different from all of us..

  • @Swearitsdajiavu
    @Swearitsdajiavu Год назад +62

    8:12 I’m embracing the uncomfortableness of change. I was and still am a little terrified of going out and being seeen but it’s getting better for me 😅 so proud of Selena 💛

  • @dariannyv765
    @dariannyv765 Год назад +43

    It is good to know that everybody can go through all of this even when they have a lot of money. Thank you for teaching the importance of mental health ❤

  • @thinklikequeenie
    @thinklikequeenie Год назад +18

    "We can always find it in our hearts to tap into our inner good and be compassionate, especially to ourselves" . This is so beautifully said! Selena is an inspiration 🤩. I love that she's talking so openly about the things she has been through.

  • @betania8489
    @betania8489 Год назад +30

    I love how he re-uploaded this Selena Gomez podcast while the drama is happening. Jay is Team Selena!!!

  • @KhalifaKhush
    @KhalifaKhush Год назад +6

    One thing about Selena.. That is one humble woman. ❤️🙌 Life is precious, remember to take some time, and smell the flowers.

  • @buffygrinXV
    @buffygrinXV Год назад +3

    Selena touches our hearts in different way. I know she knows how wonderful she is and she deserves all the things that she prayed for. ❤

  • @milanols
    @milanols Год назад +4

    Selena is the best. She's so down-to-earth and relatable. Thank you Sel, you make me feel hopeful and safe ❤

  • @deepalisinha9813
    @deepalisinha9813 Год назад +13

    Hope Selena knows she has millions of fans in India ..loads of love to the strong ,sexy,amazing Selena ❤ you are truly an original STAR ⭐

  • @rebeccadaleartthecreativewande
    @rebeccadaleartthecreativewande Год назад +7

    I’m 72 yr. Love your podcast. Keeps me learning.

  • @jeanshelbybooks4154
    @jeanshelbybooks4154 Год назад +6

    I loved her cute examples of imperfection. It really shows how much we need to let go instead of being so critical of every little thing about ourselves. 😊

  • @olgasuner999
    @olgasuner999 Год назад +23

    I felt her pain she has been hurt deeply that her emotions are desensitized. When a person gets hurt over and over again they became numb and that’s what I see and feel in her. She got all the fame and glamour , monetary but God is taking her through battle or as one calls it testing in life by giving illness, broken heart etc.. hope she finds Jesus in her heart and he will heal all your wounds and get you to a smooth sailing.

    • @missbrowniejay
      @missbrowniejay Год назад

      She's not numb. Maybe you're projecting?

  • @bobbib3836
    @bobbib3836 Год назад +2

    Selena you’re perfectly unperfect which makes you so relatable & loved ♥️🙏🏼

  • @TheCasfilms
    @TheCasfilms Год назад +27

    What a great interview. Jay and Selena are magic….such positivity.

  • @relisaabenir8545
    @relisaabenir8545 Год назад +4

    I love the way she handled the situation,, humble down to earth amazing lady

  • @vjairo1221
    @vjairo1221 Год назад +3

    I can listen to Selena talk for hours upon hours ❤

  • @tracy7436
    @tracy7436 Год назад +6

    It’s the imperfections that make people perfect for who they are.

  • @lalalalululu521
    @lalalalululu521 Год назад +39

    She is amazing , thank you for this interview, I was really enjoying. She is so good and talented. Thank you for this opportunity to listen to this conversation.

  • @mommaboombam3764
    @mommaboombam3764 Год назад +8

    Thank you. I know I'm not perfect and I Love that I'm not perfect. Only trying to make myself better and never reaching perfection is just perfect for me. Love to everyone trying to be authentic 💗 mbba.

  • @mariavacacela8314
    @mariavacacela8314 Год назад +1

    God bless you Selena. You are a beautiful human being. Keeps spreading love everywhere you go 🙌🏽♥️

  • @ekasaria.9127
    @ekasaria.9127 Год назад +4

    You are so perfect Selena. You are beautiful, kind, and have warm heart. Thankyou

  • @northerngirl468
    @northerngirl468 Год назад +4

    #selenagomez you have turned into a lovely young woman and great role model. Thank you for being real. People can’t relate to perfect. And most celebrities come across as though they have the perfect life. You being real is such a wonderful testimony to girls who look up to you.

  • @claudiabraga9291
    @claudiabraga9291 Год назад +8

    Selena Gomez é única. Que sorriso lindo!!. Olha que mulher maravilhosa ❤️🇧🇷

  • @foxirin
    @foxirin Год назад +15

    She is lovely girl . I like her and her songs as well. That was nice conversation and cool experience to listen to both of you. Thank you for this opportunity ❤

  • @jennifernargiso5625
    @jennifernargiso5625 Год назад +4

    You not being or acting perfect is what makes you perfect. You are truly a beautiful person ❤ #TeamSelenaforever❤

  • @chongkhemn
    @chongkhemn Год назад +10

    "I don't have to be perfect all the time....".....the thing that I often forget!I feel like all the process for my goals should be perfect,but there is no perfection, all the small mistakes that I am making in the process is something that shows that I am trying though I am not doing perfect like I picture,but somehow a little better than doing nothing

    • @AnnTsungMD
      @AnnTsungMD Год назад

      It's important to remember that progress is not always linear, and there will be ups and downs along the way.
      It's easy to get caught up in the idea that we need to be perfect all the time, but this kind of thinking can actually hold us back from achieving our goals. By embracing the idea that it's okay to make mistakes and learn from them, we can actually become more resilient and better equipped to handle the challenges that come our way.
      Your willingness to try and make progress, even if it's not always perfect, is commendable. Remember to be kind to yourself and celebrate the small victories along the way. You're on the right path, and with persistence and determination, you will reach your goals.
      Peace!

  • @jnrtepania4153
    @jnrtepania4153 Год назад +9

    She's so empowering talented beautiful

  • @wendylbranchfield7959
    @wendylbranchfield7959 Год назад +8

    Brava Selena Gomez. You are a very wise, young woman!♥️🙌🏽🙌🏽👏👏👏👏👏

  • @tammysims8716
    @tammysims8716 Год назад +8

    Dearest beautiful Selena, you, my dear, are delightful and a triple threat! I pray that you know what a precious gift you are! God gave you your gifts, and you are sharing them with the world. Your singing voice is like that of an Angel. Jesus loves you, Selena.

  • @user-oi2gy8cs9c
    @user-oi2gy8cs9c 9 месяцев назад

    selena is such a beautiful and strong person. she doesn't claim to be perfect or that she has everything figured out. I really wish her family nothing but the very best for the rest of their lives.

  • @fergusclarken8437
    @fergusclarken8437 Год назад +5

    Selena is the only person in life I can respect that has wealth success and fame because she is ground with who she is normal but perfect but her

  • @roya250
    @roya250 Месяц назад

    She is a very strong woman... I am proud of her

  • @jennypsarra
    @jennypsarra 10 месяцев назад +1

    We always grow, we always evolve! Growth is the goal!!! We will never be perfect and we should learn from mistakes! ❤❤❤

  • @pearlch74211
    @pearlch74211 Год назад +1

    I feel emotional and calming at the same time

  • @BrendanWoolwine
    @BrendanWoolwine Год назад +17

    I love how this is edited! Not a lot of podcasts cut to reactions this often. I get to see the entire conversation and facial expressions of both people. We’ll done!

  • @Andre778.9
    @Andre778.9 Год назад +1

    She’s a beautiful Angel who inspires the world 🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️💐😍

  • @Naonicat
    @Naonicat 3 месяца назад

    I just love her so much ❤ love her character in only murders in the building. It’s a fun show too

  • @jacey_melody
    @jacey_melody Год назад +2

    Our differences MAKE US who we are 💙 we should celebrate ourselves for who we are 💜

  • @ryandjelloul6744
    @ryandjelloul6744 Год назад

    You are a beautiful lady Selena by the way God loves you cause he is helping you working on your inner part while others are focused only on the outside ... your on top in and out ❤❤❤❤❤ our realy tour on earth is your inner part and you already know that...true it's a very hard work to clean you SOUL

  • @zuardfejer
    @zuardfejer Год назад +4

    I liked her before,now I love her ❣️very inspiring

  • @danabrown7163
    @danabrown7163 Год назад +18

    Selena is wonderful and so thoughtful, thanks for always providing such awesome work

  • @ainoh6403
    @ainoh6403 Год назад +4

    I love you and I love her OMG, I am so excited to listen to this episode!😍🙏

  • @fergusclarken8437
    @fergusclarken8437 Год назад +10

    Selena is amazing human ❤

  • @thatomofolo452
    @thatomofolo452 Год назад +7

    Selena Gomez so elegant and beautiful 👑👸❤️❣️❤️💫😊

  • @leahannwhite1111
    @leahannwhite1111 Год назад +2

    Flaws and imperfections are imagined.

  • @Rider-hw2ts
    @Rider-hw2ts Год назад +2

    I love you soooo much Selena…my favourite celebrity of all time ❤

  • @HuongNguyen-ck5cc
    @HuongNguyen-ck5cc 9 месяцев назад

    This girl is beautiful, talented and brave

  • @senseiplazo9544
    @senseiplazo9544 Год назад +6

    I love Selena's words of wisdom

  • @anaclaudiacarvalho1678
    @anaclaudiacarvalho1678 Год назад +6

    She is precious!❤

  • @arianaaguilar3548
    @arianaaguilar3548 Год назад +1

    She is so beautiful inside and out 😍❤️

  • @roseanneelliott3817
    @roseanneelliott3817 Год назад

    Love you Selena. You are truly an inspiration ❤

  • @celestesantiago280
    @celestesantiago280 11 месяцев назад

    Selena, I love you as a sister and that’s the true keep being wonderful on in the inside and outside, I have lupus too how do I handle it,
    Love, your spiritual sister Maria. God bless you ❤

  • @aryanalfa2444
    @aryanalfa2444 11 месяцев назад

    She's not just a great songer but she haa a lovly "talking" voice!

  • @miximumpop2278
    @miximumpop2278 Год назад +5

    I would definitely marry Selena in the next life 🧬 So matured thinking and concious human beyond status ♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @adrianachavez8911
    @adrianachavez8911 Год назад +2

    We love you Selena!!!!❤🥲🙏🏻 Eres una admiradora para muchas mujeres en verdad gracias por tu ejemplo de mujer Gracias mi niña Dios te bendiga siempre y sabes. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Eres bella por dentro y por fuera. Lloraste sufriste reíste caíste pero dijiste si a Dios y vas por el buen camino si una buena mujer amiga hermana eres increíble Selena. En verdad te admiro mucho adelante mi niña y ser fuerte valiente y Dios está siempre contigo. Que nuestra madre la virgen María te cuide y te protege con su bendito manto. ❤❤❤

  • @sigmarule_s
    @sigmarule_s Год назад +7

    Thank you 🙏
    Jay for everything

  • @kennyaguerrero8636
    @kennyaguerrero8636 Год назад

    I save to gonto New York for 4 days and I didn't want to leave. It is so Beautiful!! And Selena spend months there without enjoying. Life is not fair.

  • @theresawest1696
    @theresawest1696 Год назад +3

    This is such an AMAZING message(s) what a real person!!!! I just subscribed!!!

  • @clairevillanueva2393
    @clairevillanueva2393 Год назад +3

    Love you, Selena! 😘

  • @eriva6
    @eriva6 Год назад +1

    Fame didn’t ruin her just helped the rest of us see that fame fortune and influence can still equal humble, humanitarian and a genuine gentle presence.

  • @VeeAmericanEagle
    @VeeAmericanEagle Год назад +5

    At work and listening to Selena ❤

  • @ElisaReclaLisa-wl8zy
    @ElisaReclaLisa-wl8zy Год назад +1

    In ever pain that we HAVE, WE, should think that there is a purpose on it.just remember that there is God who sees everything. Our enemy would really try hard for us to be discouraged and depressed and think of negative but our God is great and can do anything for us. have always faith in our GREAT GOD.

  • @nfbconnect
    @nfbconnect Год назад +13

    She's inspiring.

  • @gerrimiller3491
    @gerrimiller3491 Год назад

    Jay Shetty is Anointed with The Holy Ghost 🕊⚘🕊i can relate to this video. Much luv to Selena for understanding who she really is❤❤❤❤

  • @aline21o85
    @aline21o85 Год назад +3

    I love selena so much

  • @ro-fz1jt
    @ro-fz1jt Год назад +2

    I've been doing that for years I e always LOVED MYSELF

  • @Israelmama404
    @Israelmama404 Год назад +4

    I love you Selena Gomez you matter 😍

  • @BloodhoundRanch88
    @BloodhoundRanch88 Год назад +4

    stoked for this!

  • @marianameri8322
    @marianameri8322 10 месяцев назад

    We love Selena very much from Ethiopia💚💛❤

  • @odomholden1647
    @odomholden1647 Год назад +3

    She's a strong woman she's been to a whole lot

  • @guillerminasolorio1619
    @guillerminasolorio1619 Год назад +1

    Awesome ❤ Selena you're my favorite person ❤💙 best wishes ❤ to.you😊😊❤

  • @Jen-M.
    @Jen-M. Год назад +3

    she is beautiful!

  • @ashwingonsalves474
    @ashwingonsalves474 Год назад +5

    Love Selena ♥️

  • @gripsimpson
    @gripsimpson Год назад +1

    Selena Gomez Rules in Personality, she accepts and works through adversity, she gives, she loves, she lives.

  • @shiprasiingh
    @shiprasiingh Год назад +3

    I loveeeeee her and so proud of her ✨🫶🏻

  • @masamusa36
    @masamusa36 Год назад

    Just as beautiful as I remember back in 2006 on myspace when you reacted to my comment

  • @ISAE81657
    @ISAE81657 11 месяцев назад

    I love this girl.

  • @tostinette2645
    @tostinette2645 Год назад +2

    So Huge ! TY Selena, TY Jay ! :)

  • @Peep_peep3
    @Peep_peep3 Год назад +3

    She inspired aboundently 🤍🤍🤍

  • @divya._
    @divya._ Год назад +1

    Tq for bringing her up😭❤️

  • @joandmike
    @joandmike Год назад +4

    I have been waiting for this!

  • @chasingthedreams7244
    @chasingthedreams7244 Год назад +2

    Selena ❤❤

  • @daiana827
    @daiana827 Год назад

    Love the fact to watch without ads😊

  • @MaryJane-rz9ry
    @MaryJane-rz9ry Год назад +1

    You are lucky Selena you have a filipino spirit in you. ❤

  • @snowylim6818
    @snowylim6818 Год назад

    People who realize the weight of the world and try to handle them,instead of ignoring them anyway, always live happier,this shows they care what happens surrounding them,not chose to pretend not seeing anything

  • @PEDRO54547
    @PEDRO54547 Год назад +2

    I LOVE YOU QUEEN 👑 SELENA GOMEZ 💞💞💞💞💞