I swear I love y’all!!! My husband and I crack up listening to y’all 😂😂😂 Y’all stay dropping gems. I finally got my sister listening and y’all have definitely helped her in the relationship area!!!
A woman may be more likely to leave but what did she have to endure to get her to the point of leaving. As bad as many women want relationships, no woman goes in already ready to get out. she wants things to work. A man will take his woman through complete hell just so he won’t be the person that gets blamed for ending things when he’s the reason she wants to jump ship.
Nope not at all. that’s semantics and you know it. if you “check out of the relationship” and your not interested in making it work, you just wasting both your times energy etc..that sh!t is just gonna grow resentment an poison that persons mental.. that’s fake AF to me smh if that’s not bad enough i’d say u were a two-timing gutless coward imo.. that’s something only a manipulative snake would do frfr.. u get NO points for that check out sh!t..be a grown up for crying out loud. Save both parties from the trauma and stress and just GO.
@Jay Clearmen The point of my comment is that the reason women leave physically first1 is that men, often times leave mentally, they check out of the relationship become mean distant /cold but will not remove themselves from the situation. I'm not clear on why u felt the need for your comment. Who hurt you😬🥴
I really felt this one… how do I keep peace with a husband that wants to lead but always ends up controlling? For example, he gets angry because I’m too tired to talk to him( we’re in different tome zones) I’m alone with our new born so I often get so tired especially during that time of the month. I still be trying to talk to him but he also doesn’t like it when I have certain tone of voice when I am tired. He says I’m not being supportive enough when he’s sacrificing everything. I don’t know what he wants from me anymore. I’m just so exhausted.
Yeah, I can care less who get married or not. Not everybody wanna marry bro. It is what it is. But wish them the best. Salute to them...cause I know Rocky didn't get her for her money or status, so I support their relationship.
As a mother of a young nineteen year old.. I tell him the same if you cannot afford a date night . Do not date bc as a young adult he doesn’t have the coins yet, so a movie and chick fila is suitable. But as you get older yeah focus if you can’t afford too date. I wouldn’t want my son to date out of his experience. He watched this podcast and he definitely agreed he even said I can’t even take care of myself let alone a woman.. that’s 💯
She is a billionaire. She don't need anything from any of you. Her children won't live the typical life that non celebrities live. Why do you all worry about women that's not your concern?
I dont agree with dating a woman when you are broke are "beneath you". That woman is able to see you for who you really are not based on what you are doing for her. That's who you need.
Trill was wrong regarding to the broke man not dating, while yes I agree the broke man should be primarily focused on getting more money but just because he is "broke" doesn't mean all the women he would date are beneath him. He also used sports as a reference, where that reference would be incorrect is because while you're at one level and can't get reps at the level you are wanting to head to, you can still get reps at the level that you're at. Example, if I'm a college football player do I get reps against NFL players being the level I want to get to, no. I get reps within the league that I am at because there is still basic foundations that transfer even when you are going to the league above you, just like dating. What is the benefit of getting to the bag and then try to get into the dating market and I have no experience with dating or even talking to women, because just like Trill said the women you want don't want a broke man but guess what they also do not want, a man with no experience!
I agree with you guys on dating when you get your life together. Even if you get your money up and you’re a 4 and you get a 9, most mature women will be with a lame because he treats her right. She doesn’t want to take away from him she wants to add. But a gold digger won’t care she just wants the money. You guys have hit some great points. I’m sharing you guys with everyone I think can benefit from the information
I switched and held myself accountable and ladies when you do that men be shook and they get hooked. Just say you’re right baby I was wrong. I’m sorry.” He ain’t going nowhere
Talk about WHY women leave!!! Some are opportunists, but most leave because they weren’t treated well and got tired of hoping or waiting things would change. Men will stay and cheat but a woman is more likely to LEAVE than cheat.
A man nor woman should be dating while broke and I don't get why people don't get that. You really gotta focus and work on getting your s**t together to make sure you can pour into yourself as well as the person you're with without being consumed with the mindset of what you lack. Just my opinion.
@@biggmixxo that’s why I said “broke” which doesn’t have to equate to that. If you’re in a relationship and fall on hard times, that’s different. But if you’re the latter, meaning your money is all the way in turmoil and you don’t have enough to survive on while trying to survive, then no.
On the subject of the example of “kicking it and the light bill,” can I ask why women and men are asking each other to pay bills? I’m single, and maybe I don’t know this, but isn’t it just “responsible adulting” to handle your own bills? It’s nothing to flaunt, because truthfully, paying your own bills is The Default. Or am I missing something?
Imagine planning 18+ months ago to be on the biggest stage in your career. Once in a lifetime. You get pregnant twice in that time after you committed. Would you prefer her to cancel this major life opportunity??? Have an abortion? That is crap. You get to be disappointed in the altered performance but also must acknowledge that WOMEN MISS OUT on their life opportunities over children everyday. Where are the well wishes? The sentiments of what a hard position that is and kudos for not giving up? Unless you would really prefer her to pass so you can see more skin and her shake her ass? Come on man.
I usually agree with everything yall say but if a woman accepts a man who is a worķ in progress that doesn't mean she has low self-esteem. Maybe she's a God Fearing that can see the King in him and understand the process it takes.
I think it depends - If a woman makes money off social media like a content creator then happy relationship or single…that’s her bread and butter, she gotta post. And then for some women, it’s a creative outlet or photo album so to speak when they use social media. So there’s many nuances but you guys are right too. 👌
Kenny is a GENIUS!!😂 I actually posted this 2 minutes in and had to come back to say that everything he said is facts. If more men had the thought process of you men we'd be a lot better.
Great job Kenny💯 That's how you know a woman is arguing with her emotions because she's not going to want to even hear your side. Logically you have to hear both sides to get a clear understanding but emotionally I don't give AF what you are talking about, not over what im feeling..
My guy ...my guy 🤦🏾♀️ there are single women 🙋🏾♀️who barely have time for social media. Between work,fosters kids, volunteering, workout classes, run schedule, cooking daily, planning future travels, some dating, friends and keeping thyself spiritual grounded ... Hmmm. I was questioned by a guy to why I'm not on social media to him it wasn't normal...soooo I was GHOSTED... Lol
The world need more men that thinks responsibly with a high level of maturity like you. I enjoy listening to all three of you. Don't stop what your doing.
I think people need to know what the point of marriage is and what it means for them. From what I can see a lot of people see marriage as a religious thing and a government thing. And if they aren’t devoutly religious and don’t feel like they need/want the government involved they need to know other reasons/benefits to married.
I feel like the women they allow to speak on these topics are the worse of the worse. They poorly represent the majority of women. This girl just mistreated a nice guy simply because she thought she could and then said the relationship didn’t work. No it didn’t work because she toxic as hell and is a horrible person. She does not represent the majority of black women. I feel like thousands of people will listen to what she said and then say this is “all” black women and it’s really not fair.
34:46 thankfully I’ve been lucky to not like to argue. But I usually don’t know how I feel until after it’s over so I don’t want to overreact and then have to come back and apologize and the. 9/10 I’ll take it too far so I gotta chill. 😅 because we might not talk again if I tap into that.
32:35 Because it definitely hurts and sometimes you want the other person to feel your pain, but it’s best for both parties to not 😮💨 I am guilty of not letting someone end it with me. Whole time I should’ve 😮💨 And you right I had big plans for us and I thought he was going to be my man forever but he never was. Also I was young now I’d never! 😂 What are your plans for us?
I dont agree with categorizing value based off looks nor money you can have both and still be a 4. The problem with society we Equate success with materialism and value with bag . you should base value off morals, character and purpose. a man can have money and no purpose. A man with purpose will always have money
The guy in the glasses is DEAD WRONG saying that women as a whole would prefer to have a kid versus getting married first or at all based on Rihanna WTH!!??? 🤦♀️ You are NOT taking into account the woman like me who have NO children and refuse to until I’m married and I don’t think that CELEBRITIES are automatically role models…🤯😡
I respect y’all’s opinion but what about the women that are doing positive things and looking for good men ? Y’all be bashin women too much for me. And it’s all about black women .. every black woman ain’t looking for a hood dude to have they had on a swivel .. that’s crazy … please speak positive sometimes !!!!
When trill said “Downfall of changing and being a better you, people forget who you’re capable of being! I felt that💯
I swear I love y’all!!! My husband and I crack up listening to y’all 😂😂😂
Y’all stay dropping gems. I finally got my sister listening and y’all have definitely helped her in the relationship area!!!
This podcast is the highlight of my week! These men are always dropping gems 💎
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The guy in the middle can have his own talk show! Everything he says is a 💯!
Krew Season in the building. Salute
A woman may be more likely to leave but what did she have to endure to get her to the point of leaving. As bad as many women want relationships, no woman goes in already ready to get out. she wants things to work. A man will take his woman through complete hell just so he won’t be the person that gets blamed for ending things when he’s the reason she wants to jump ship.
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Thaaaaaaaaannnnnk you 💯👏👏👏👏
Speak on it !
Agreed! 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
I missed y’all last week. Thank you for coming back.
when you leave mentally but the body still there physically is the same as he left.
Nope not at all. that’s semantics and you know it. if you “check out of the relationship” and your not interested in making it work, you just wasting both your times energy etc..that sh!t is just gonna grow resentment an poison that persons mental..
that’s fake AF to me smh if that’s not bad enough i’d say u were a two-timing gutless coward imo.. that’s something only a manipulative snake would do frfr.. u get NO points for that check out sh!t..be a grown up for crying out loud. Save both parties from the trauma and stress and just GO.
@Jay Clearmen The point of my comment is that the reason women leave physically first1 is that men, often times leave mentally, they check out of the relationship become mean distant /cold but will not remove themselves from the situation. I'm not clear on why u felt the need for your comment. Who hurt you😬🥴
I really felt this one… how do I keep peace with a husband that wants to lead but always ends up controlling? For example, he gets angry because I’m too tired to talk to him( we’re in different tome zones) I’m alone with our new born so I often get so tired especially during that time of the month. I still be trying to talk to him but he also doesn’t like it when I have certain tone of voice when I am tired. He says I’m not being supportive enough when he’s sacrificing everything. I don’t know what he wants from me anymore. I’m just so exhausted.
He sounds very selfish
Great show as always!!! I definitely love this panel better than the Wednesday show.
Every time I watch the pod and feel right at home Big Bros
I’m Ouuutttt!!!!!!!!😂
Yeah, I can care less who get married or not. Not everybody wanna marry bro. It is what it is.
But wish them the best. Salute to them...cause I know Rocky didn't get her for her money or status, so I support their relationship.
As a mother of a young nineteen year old.. I tell him the same if you cannot afford a date night . Do not date bc as a young adult he doesn’t have the coins yet, so a movie and chick fila is suitable. But as you get older yeah focus if you can’t afford too date. I wouldn’t want my son to date out of his experience. He watched this podcast and he definitely agreed he even said I can’t even take care of myself let alone a woman.. that’s 💯
Nine times out of ten, she's not leaving for the sake of leaving.
Like R. Kelly says when a woman is fed up there is nothing you can do about it! 😅
Damn, No Timestamp. Damn!
"...gotz ta be mo careful out here..."~~Trill 😆😅😂😉
She is a billionaire. She don't need anything from any of you. Her children won't live the typical life that non celebrities live. Why do you all worry about women that's not your concern?
Thats Judge Lynn her husband died last month
Lmaoooo 1:43:25 Kenny “I’m not your babe.” 😂😂😂 Kenny get on my last nerve
Where’s the time stamp?
Oh my life this entire session took me out 😭😂😂😂 love the rawness & authenticity!! Thank you for sharing some wisdom 🙏
Life in general is way more peaceful when you’re off social media. Personal life should be private!
Thank y'all for keeping it real.
Men only stay longer in bad marriages because they have more to lose in a divorce 🤔
I just love this podcast, Y'all keep me dying all day long 😂😂😂 Keep up the great Work 👍
I dont agree with dating a woman when you are broke are "beneath you". That woman is able to see you for who you really are not based on what you are doing for her. That's who you need.
Y’all are always on period!!!! Love y’all ministry lol!!! ❤😂
Trill was wrong regarding to the broke man not dating, while yes I agree the broke man should be primarily focused on getting more money but just because he is "broke" doesn't mean all the women he would date are beneath him. He also used sports as a reference, where that reference would be incorrect is because while you're at one level and can't get reps at the level you are wanting to head to, you can still get reps at the level that you're at. Example, if I'm a college football player do I get reps against NFL players being the level I want to get to, no. I get reps within the league that I am at because there is still basic foundations that transfer even when you are going to the league above you, just like dating. What is the benefit of getting to the bag and then try to get into the dating market and I have no experience with dating or even talking to women, because just like Trill said the women you want don't want a broke man but guess what they also do not want, a man with no experience!
Yea he was wrong
True
I would love to recommend a great book to my ladies call The Oz Principle.
One helluva show!!! Great conversation and comedic relief.🍁
Letting a man be in a situationship for a year. Is a no! Run! It’ll drag on for forever if you let it.
Great topics gentlemen, keep it up 🍁🍁🍁
I agree with you guys on dating when you get your life together. Even if you get your money up and you’re a 4 and you get a 9, most mature women will be with a lame because he treats her right. She doesn’t want to take away from him she wants to add. But a gold digger won’t care she just wants the money.
You guys have hit some great points. I’m sharing you guys with everyone I think can benefit from the information
As women can we normalize, if someone not wanting to be with us being about us ( meaning making it be about our worth, value, beauty, etc.)
Trill was dead on when he was talking about the mindset when yours broke @1:00:00
TRUE FACTS, WOMEN DO ALWAYS LEAVE, EVEN WHEN THE MAN IS GIVING 4PS AND SHE IS TREATING HIM LIKE CRAP,I SEE THIS NOW !!
Aye Ant, you better put some damn Lubriderm on them knees next time lmao 🤣
Kenny is war ready 5 minutes in
Totally agree Kenny, not a big fan of social media.
What's your opinion about cougars dating younger brothers
Thats young men and women.
I switched and held myself accountable and ladies when you do that men be shook and they get hooked. Just say you’re right baby I was wrong. I’m sorry.” He ain’t going nowhere
Nah, if he wrong he needs his woman to tell him, otherwise you're creating a monster.
Men NEVER admit they are wrong. It's not in their DNA...do what works best for you and your relationship...😊
BERNARD!!!!!!!!
Talk about WHY women leave!!! Some are opportunists, but most leave because they weren’t treated well and got tired of hoping or waiting things would change. Men will stay and cheat but a woman is more likely to LEAVE than cheat.
A man nor woman should be dating while broke and I don't get why people don't get that. You really gotta focus and work on getting your s**t together to make sure you can pour into yourself as well as the person you're with without being consumed with the mindset of what you lack. Just my opinion.
U can be in between jobs
@@biggmixxo that’s why I said “broke” which doesn’t have to equate to that. If you’re in a relationship and fall on hard times, that’s different. But if you’re the latter, meaning your money is all the way in turmoil and you don’t have enough to survive on while trying to survive, then no.
I agree a broke men shouldn’t be dating seriously
On the subject of the example of “kicking it and the light bill,” can I ask why women and men are asking each other to pay bills? I’m single, and maybe I don’t know this, but isn’t it just “responsible adulting” to handle your own bills? It’s nothing to flaunt, because truthfully, paying your own bills is The Default. Or am I missing something?
Imagine planning 18+ months ago to be on the biggest stage in your career. Once in a lifetime. You get pregnant twice in that time after you committed. Would you prefer her to cancel this major life opportunity??? Have an abortion? That is crap. You get to be disappointed in the altered performance but also must acknowledge that WOMEN MISS OUT on their life opportunities over children everyday.
Where are the well wishes? The sentiments of what a hard position that is and kudos for not giving up? Unless you would really prefer her to pass so you can see more skin and her shake her ass? Come on man.
I usually agree with everything yall say but if a woman accepts a man who is a worķ in progress that doesn't mean she has low self-esteem. Maybe she's a God Fearing that can see the King in him and understand the process it takes.
A broke man should date a broke woman so they can build together.
Broke ppl don’t like other broke ppl, same thing with hoeish men do NOT like Hoeish women; you’d think 2hoes would understand one another!
Black women are Still the most disrespected person… Yes, Leave Sis!!! ❤
Trill you tell no lies. “ women have to constantly be chasing for the man’s approval”
Trill bringing back the gold fronts? I see you homie. 😬
I think it depends - If a woman makes money off social media like a content creator then happy relationship or single…that’s her bread and butter, she gotta post. And then for some women, it’s a creative outlet or photo album so to speak when they use social media. So there’s many nuances but you guys are right too. 👌
YESSIR YALL DID IT AGAIN MY BROTHERS
When men start making excuses… red flag 🚩 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
Kenny is a GENIUS!!😂 I actually posted this 2 minutes in and had to come back to say that everything he said is facts. If more men had the thought process of you men we'd be a lot better.
Great job Kenny💯 That's how you know a woman is arguing with her emotions because she's not going to want to even hear your side. Logically you have to hear both sides to get a clear understanding but emotionally I don't give AF what you are talking about, not over what im feeling..
I want the 1st girl to write back with an update real bad!!!
Another dope one 🔥🔥🔥🔥
I need a shirt that says behoove
My guy ...my guy 🤦🏾♀️ there are single women 🙋🏾♀️who barely have time for social media. Between work,fosters kids, volunteering, workout classes, run schedule, cooking daily, planning future travels, some dating, friends and keeping thyself spiritual grounded ... Hmmm. I was questioned by a guy to why I'm not on social media to him it wasn't normal...soooo I was GHOSTED... Lol
I've been told facts over feelings. Provide facts and details to support your argument not what you feel
Is it just me or does the Port Arthur come out of Trill when he got the golds in lol
She wouldn’t leave hahaha 🤣
Does Fantasia seems to be a good example?
Okay! Detroit is in the building.
❤❤❤
No men don’t hold there friends accountable when they’re on the BS.
We tell our friends the consequences as men.
Not a low self esteem woman born everyday. 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️😂😂
The world need more men that thinks responsibly with a high level of maturity like you. I enjoy listening to all three of you. Don't stop what your doing.
I think people need to know what the point of marriage is and what it means for them. From what I can see a lot of people see marriage as a religious thing and a government thing. And if they aren’t devoutly religious and don’t feel like they need/want the government involved they need to know other reasons/benefits to married.
38:57 LMFAO
I feel like the women they allow to speak on these topics are the worse of the worse. They poorly represent the majority of women. This girl just mistreated a nice guy simply because she thought she could and then said the relationship didn’t work. No it didn’t work because she toxic as hell and is a horrible person. She does not represent the majority of black women. I feel like thousands of people will listen to what she said and then say this is “all” black women and it’s really not fair.
34:46 thankfully I’ve been lucky to not like to argue. But I usually don’t know how I feel until after it’s over so I don’t want to overreact and then have to come back and apologize and the. 9/10 I’ll take it too far so I gotta chill. 😅 because we might not talk again if I tap into that.
32:35 Because it definitely hurts and sometimes you want the other person to feel your pain, but it’s best for both parties to not 😮💨 I am guilty of not letting someone end it with me. Whole time I should’ve 😮💨 And you right I had big plans for us and I thought he was going to be my man forever but he never was. Also I was young now I’d never! 😂 What are your plans for us?
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How dare y’all get judge Lynn Toler name wrong lol
I work in construction...nationwide, old heads tell me about how there chick a stay at home mom, left and took half
...so...y'all proved..ego is the issue for Men.
i technically left my 11 year relationship but she mentally left first and i couldnt deal with it anymore especially after a proposal
Please don't get my mouth started where Nick Cannon is concerned....
Everything don’t have to have balance. Men do not leave. It’s women. Simple
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 40:04 y’all acting up today
40:00 Lmfaoooo
The homie Black Noah #P Rock
It’s your body Kenny😭
What causes her to leave
I dont agree with categorizing value based off looks nor money you can have both and still be a 4. The problem with society we Equate success with materialism and value with bag . you should base value off morals, character and purpose. a man can have money and no purpose. A man with purpose will always have money
They really dont speak to all men usually just the young boys
King Salute Kenny on your grown man shxt!! love it!!!
Yeah , Marriage should be the goal. Not being a baby father or mother.
The guy in the glasses is DEAD WRONG saying that women as a whole would prefer to have a kid versus getting married first or at all based on Rihanna WTH!!??? 🤦♀️ You are NOT taking into account the woman like me who have NO children and refuse to until I’m married and I don’t think that CELEBRITIES are automatically role models…🤯😡
These people are odd.the world is petty today
How many women have you asked to make that statement
Y’all silly
On the subject ....dating while broke .... dating or not.. men still need sex.
I was with yall up until you said if that’s your girl whatever she wants give it to her I disagree. Depends on financials.
I respect y’all’s opinion but what about the women that are doing positive things and looking for good men ? Y’all be bashin women too much for me. And it’s all about black women .. every black woman ain’t looking for a hood dude to have they had on a swivel .. that’s crazy … please speak positive sometimes !!!!