From Lying & Cheating to Disrespecting Waitstaff: We Reveal What Makes Us Lose Respect for Someone

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  • Is there something someone does that there’s no coming back from? From cheating and lying to tipping poorly and more, we reveal our biggest non-negotiables when it comes to respect!
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Комментарии • 138

  • @littlebean2494
    @littlebean2494 2 года назад +123

    Keep the videos coming! This is my top RUclips channel.

  • @eeb9177
    @eeb9177 2 года назад +55

    Lmao that look loni gave has me dying 😂
    Dont cancel the show!

  • @ashleyrogers1930
    @ashleyrogers1930 2 года назад +35

    I don't trust people that tell someone else something I told them in private. I don't trust people who gossip about everybody cause that tells me they probably gossiping about me too.

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn 2 года назад +70

    I cannot stand people that are so eager to become friends with others by belittling or forgetting the true friends that were there for them ! You would think it s like being in high school but it’s a whole different when we’re grown and it’s being handled like a teenager

  • @prudencek7087
    @prudencek7087 2 года назад +46

    All the ones the ladies said make me lose respect for someone. Another major one for me that causes me to lose respect for someone instantly is parents who use their kids as pawns in their relationship. If the romance between the parents don't work out, and there's a split, but both parents are great with the kids and love them, DO NOT PUT THE KIDS IN THE MIDDLE OF YOUR MESS. And do not bad mouth each other to the children. Just let the kids be kids and let them love and spend time with both parents.

  • @contrinadurant9846
    @contrinadurant9846 2 года назад +50

    I went on a date with a man that made over $100,000 a year and tip the waitress $4 and said that's all she get. That was the end of us.

  • @ollyokoye2258
    @ollyokoye2258 2 года назад +2

    Liar..Cheater.. Deceiver.. Heartbreaker
    It's A's perfect New York accent for me❤

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 2 года назад +20

    I agree with everything they said, especially lying! The way some people blatantly lie to someone’s face is ridiculous.

  • @jordanthornton4440
    @jordanthornton4440 2 года назад +23

    I'm with Adrienne with the lying. Also people who consistently like to interrupt others while their talking in argument or because you really believe what you're saying is so much more important. OH MY GOSH, MY BIGGEST PET PEEVE!!! But another big thing for me is super judgemental people. Whether they're judgmental because they're a "know-it-all" or because they're really religious. It doesn't matter. If you're super judgemental, that truly irks me too. I lose respect quickly from that.

  • @MrLoyalty2me
    @MrLoyalty2me 2 года назад +21

    Loni is not playing! LOL!

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 2 года назад +18

    I pay attention to what people say during an argument. If they start insulting someone’s looks, I lose respect for them. What relevance does that have to the topic? I also lose respect for people when they claim that someone‘s point does not matter because they do not make as much money. (I see this a lot when a celebrity calls out another celebrity for something completely valid, and someone else chimes in and mentions each person’s net worth.) So? Again, what does that have to do with the topic?

    • @2sense110
      @2sense110 2 года назад +4

      You hit a nerve. Especially so called professional comedians who make fun of random people who are not in on the joke. Even if I don't like the person there making fun of I don't approve. And there excuse is that they are a comedian as if that is supposed to make it okay

  • @lionessbeauty_8870
    @lionessbeauty_8870 2 года назад +13

    To pony off what Jeannine said I don't respect when you CHOOSE TOO not be an active and involved parent. The court can say, they can appoint..don't mean they gonna do it...

  • @user-en1zc5vd6y
    @user-en1zc5vd6y 2 года назад +24

    RUDE PEOPLE…. I literally have just finished working at an event and a woman was trying to boss me around and ended up yelling at me when I ignored her. I must confess I yelled back at her though🙈
    Only way she left me alone

  • @jeffrivera3612
    @jeffrivera3612 2 года назад +58

    Loni, don’t worry we still mad for you. I hate the way people spoke about loni and attacked her over something she had nothing to do with.

    • @lynetteJ155
      @lynetteJ155 2 года назад +2

      Same here

    • @Sotica1324
      @Sotica1324 2 года назад +4

      What was she attacked for?

    • @D2J8
      @D2J8 2 года назад +5

      @@Sotica1324 I think Tamar Braxton insinuated that Loni got her kicked off of The Real, but that was years ago. Not sure why Loni’d be referring to that now though.

    • @Sotica1324
      @Sotica1324 2 года назад +1

      @@D2J8 oh, okay I see. Thanks for letting me know what happened

    • @rc2369
      @rc2369 2 года назад +6

      @@D2J8 or it was the former hairdresser that lied on her or somehting

  • @Selin14.03
    @Selin14.03 2 года назад +10

    Please don’t cancel the show🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @LockedInNOW
    @LockedInNOW 2 года назад +4

    I can’t stand people with no manners like a simple “ Thank You “ and “ Please “ isn’t that difficult… it makes me lose respect !

    • @teetawn9454
      @teetawn9454 4 месяца назад

      Same, friend. hate it!!!!

  • @daniterry4922
    @daniterry4922 2 года назад +3

    I will lose respect over 2 things
    1. I find you have ulterior motives
    2. I find that you are selfish

  • @maddieperks4427
    @maddieperks4427 2 года назад +6

    If i notice someone gaslighting someone i lose all respect for them even if someone trys to gaslight me i lose all respect for them.

  • @MnMnBahr.
    @MnMnBahr. 2 года назад +2

    Yes
    When she start looking down on ppl and act like she belongs to rich higher class
    When she was considered poor all her life until she married her husband!

  • @charlesjravery6655
    @charlesjravery6655 Год назад +1

    That's what you want that's what you get pride in mean streams.😡📌

  • @jenaumorgan
    @jenaumorgan 2 года назад +4

    I can't stand bragging and showing off.

  • @mandys1038
    @mandys1038 2 года назад +8

    I agree with Jeannie unless that person is making a genuine effort to change and owning what they did wrong then no I will continue not having respect for that person. It can be anything from cheating to lying to thinking you are above everyone else. It doesn't take much for me to lose respect for someone.

  • @loosenuplivefully1089
    @loosenuplivefully1089 2 года назад +3

    People who disrespect people

  • @jeffrivera3612
    @jeffrivera3612 2 года назад +9

    Bullies or people who use others.
    Very low tolerance for that.
    Or people who use their power to belittle
    Others … specially in the workplace. Be careful what you put out there because that can come
    Back to
    You ten fold.

    • @alanaaguillera6366
      @alanaaguillera6366 2 года назад +2

      I had a boss like tht, after I thought I made significant development with my class, she told me "I am kicking myself in butt for hiring you". She walked around just belittling ppl and never complimented one day for your effort.

    • @Sotica1324
      @Sotica1324 2 года назад

      @@alanaaguillera6366 well that stinks🥴

    • @jeffrivera3612
      @jeffrivera3612 2 года назад

      @@alanaaguillera6366 oh really?! Don’t even stress it. Karma is a real thing. God don’t like ugly.

    • @jeffrivera3612
      @jeffrivera3612 2 года назад

      @@alanaaguillera6366 hopefully whatever job you’re in now, you are much happier and appreciated .

  • @ifeanyi90
    @ifeanyi90 2 года назад +16

    Loni we are all still mad for you!!! So yes apologies publicly

    • @temperamentalqueen
      @temperamentalqueen 2 года назад

      What happened

    • @ifeanyi90
      @ifeanyi90 2 года назад +5

      @@temperamentalqueen it’s probably the tamar situation or people that tried to lie on her publicly. It was not fair at all.

  • @manasseh7777
    @manasseh7777 2 года назад +4

    I respect all people regardless of their behaviour but if they go extreme,I keep a distance.

  • @doneecemcneil7826
    @doneecemcneil7826 Год назад +2

    Pay attention to people that run around makeing friends with sooooo many people just to get what they need from them not a real friend a real user of people sad Linda j. Peace

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 2 года назад +4

    Loni was not talking about Tamar. She also mentioned this topic at the six-minute mark of this video: ruclips.net/video/KJSTa9iPanA/видео.html. What she said made it clear that Tamar was not the one who lied on her.

  • @zenandemhloli
    @zenandemhloli 2 года назад +2

    People who don't honor their word! I have no respect for such 😏

  • @colletampechi9030
    @colletampechi9030 2 года назад +2

    I don't respect people who are one upper always,they always dominate conversations they don't give other people chance to express their views,that's why I always stay silence when I'm around them,also who are don't listen,they hear themselves,people who think that they are better than anyone,who brags a lot,people are not able to respect other people boundaries.

  • @lexie02jones25
    @lexie02jones25 2 года назад +3

    Pls don't cancel this show. I needed it when I was doing my hair. It's like my girl's chat!

  • @drtash21
    @drtash21 2 года назад +4

    The other ppl I don't have respect for is ppl that are willing to step on you to get to the top. Cutthroat ppl. Karma is real and I will never cosign the actions of ruthless ppl. One day it will be you. And you're gonna meet all those ppl you mistreated when you go down.

  • @stefhanyalvarez1082
    @stefhanyalvarez1082 2 года назад +2

    Love this show soooo much !!!
    Don’t cancel the show 😭

  • @nolwazymkhatywa6924
    @nolwazymkhatywa6924 2 года назад +6

    Jeannie🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @حياتيفيامريكا-ر8س
    @حياتيفيامريكا-ر8س 2 года назад +3

    yesss Garcelle! I agree!

  • @lstarsabb
    @lstarsabb 2 года назад +4

    People that take their opinion as facts and aren't open to other people's opinions, people that surround themself with fake people that they know will talk bad about them if they don't do certain things. Parents that always have to have their kid social media ready and won't let them by kids, I can go on lol ...😂

  • @NigelRoweShow
    @NigelRoweShow 2 года назад +2

    I love all of you guys, but Loni honestly needs to practice being a better listener. She literally cuts people off ALL of the time and they never get to finish their point. It’s frustrating as a viewer.

  • @carenasmith7
    @carenasmith7 2 года назад +3

    I’m with Aide. I hate a liar. I don’t know what I’m getting with a liar. Lying is my deal breaker. I cut people off with the quickness the minute they lie to me.

  • @doneecemcneil7826
    @doneecemcneil7826 Год назад +1

    Hi edagdwg people should always respect others because you never know who they can become later in life they could become your boss .pay attention to what you do and say to people god is real being yourself is a real gift from god Linda j. Peace

  • @shreeyag7639
    @shreeyag7639 2 года назад +7

    Does anyone know the Loni tea? What is she referencing?

    • @sarahm9011
      @sarahm9011 2 года назад +1

      Sis I'm still trying to figure it out. This is her 3rd time bringing it up

    • @ssmith3812
      @ssmith3812 2 года назад +6

      Maybe still the Tamar ish idk lol

    • @sarahm9011
      @sarahm9011 2 года назад +1

      @@ssmith3812 True!

    • @melissalitus8879
      @melissalitus8879 2 года назад

      Tamar saying that Loni got her fired perhaps 🍵 idk

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 2 года назад

      Loni was not talking about Tamar. She also mentioned this topic at the six-minute mark of this video: ruclips.net/video/KJSTa9iPanA/видео.html. What she said made it clear that Tamar was not the one who lied on her.

  • @onneetsemoleta9758
    @onneetsemoleta9758 2 года назад +3

    I lost respect for someone yesterday when they had the nerve to disrespect me.

  • @gracemedina1320
    @gracemedina1320 2 года назад +2

    Jeannie dressed like a goddess

  • @diannematthews4436
    @diannematthews4436 2 года назад

    Lie is .may petpea!

  • @trueexclusives
    @trueexclusives 2 года назад

    Is Loni talking about Tamar Braxton? LOL

  • @charlesjravery6655
    @charlesjravery6655 Год назад +1

    Your right 👍 I don't care but conserned but that's even fanna go to mind wise also be Blar Blar Run mouth not interested ok Thank you 😡😝!

  • @Jo_W1988
    @Jo_W1988 2 года назад +1

    Hahah how many articles do they come across.....😄😅

  • @trendalecharon7021
    @trendalecharon7021 2 года назад

    I hope they take they own edvice

  • @jordangaddis9207
    @jordangaddis9207 2 года назад +5

    Oop who loni see at the party? Lmao

    • @abubarrie88
      @abubarrie88 2 года назад +5

      I wanna say Tamar but Tamars dealing with her sister passing away so I doubt she’s at any party recently

    • @jordangaddis9207
      @jordangaddis9207 2 года назад +4

      @@abubarrie88well these episodes were pre taped a couple months ago so u might be right

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 2 года назад

      Loni was not talking about Tamar. She also mentioned this topic at the six-minute mark of this video: ruclips.net/video/KJSTa9iPanA/видео.html. What she said made it clear that Tamar was not the one who lied on her.

  • @vanessamillican8447
    @vanessamillican8447 2 года назад

    Wednesday/August/3/2022
    🔆✳️🔆✳️🔆✳️🔆✳️🔆✳️🔆✳️🔆
    I lose respect for those who lies to me. If a person has to lie to me, then I don't have nothing to do with them.
    🔆✳️🔆✳️🔆✳️🔆✳️🔆✳️🔆✳️🔆

  • @teannabell9945
    @teannabell9945 2 года назад +4

    I love this show

  • @Ronsayy
    @Ronsayy 2 года назад +2

    I love you ladies💖

  • @alanaaguillera6366
    @alanaaguillera6366 2 года назад +7

    I totally lost respect for Jenifer Lopez, I heard on a youtube video whereby she doesn't want "eye contact" with her assistants. She is no better than anyone. Totally disgusting.

    • @joudian
      @joudian 2 года назад +11

      You heard that on RUclips and lost respect for her??? I would think that you would lose respect for someone based on something you've seen or experienced first hand.

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 2 года назад +10

      You cannot believe rumors just like that. Someone could have easily said that because they had another issue with her or simply because they wanted to start drama.

  • @akindabili4449
    @akindabili4449 2 года назад +10

    Is their job Loni they get paid for it, I don't need to tip you I feel is not mandatory I tip when I feel like, but I always remember to say thank you for the service they give.

    • @amarabooker8627
      @amarabooker8627 2 года назад +4

      Yes they get paid…two to three dollars an hour with the exception that they will be tipped for WAITING on you. You can get food from anywhere on your own, if food is served to you by a server you should be tipping for that service.

    • @arianna5270
      @arianna5270 2 года назад +3

      It’s not mandatory to be kind person but it’s the right thing to do. It’s not mandatory to tip but it says ALOT about who you are if you don’t.

    • @sarahm9011
      @sarahm9011 2 года назад

      I think it depends where you are, but if you're in the US and you know these people are getting paid way below minimum wage it's just decent.

    • @2sense110
      @2sense110 2 года назад +6

      This tipping business is so controversial that's why I hate it. If you're going to judge somebody on whether they tip or not I can also judge you whether you give to charity or not. As harsh as it may sound tipping is up to the individual and whether they can afford it or not

    • @Sotica1324
      @Sotica1324 2 года назад +1

      @@2sense110 if you can't tip don't dine. Those workers are already barely paid. Just do the drive through

  • @an.dr.16561
    @an.dr.16561 2 года назад

    Americans and their tips lol .. it's only there where you don't make the owner of the business responsable for an aceptable weiges

  • @doneecemcneil7826
    @doneecemcneil7826 Год назад +1

    Hi edagdwg pay attention to what you do and say to people give people a chance to say I'm sorry linda j. Peace

  • @teetawn9454
    @teetawn9454 4 месяца назад

    People that dont say thank u, really bother me deeply.

  • @tiffanymatsvai
    @tiffanymatsvai Год назад

    If you litter I genuinely lose respect for you.

  • @benluca7332
    @benluca7332 2 года назад

    Pls ppl Lets NOT Cancel " The Real.'..
    We need this kind of show .. and they are Fenomenal..
    Much Love Peace and Respect from The Netherland ♥️✌🏼

  • @ms.krys2835
    @ms.krys2835 2 года назад

    Maybe one of these days Loni will get her apology from Tamar. You can tell it still bothers her especially because they were pretty good friends up until everything happened with the firing. Smh. I honest hated how Tamar acted and did these ladies because they’re good ladies and were her friends.

  • @meaganbianca2978
    @meaganbianca2978 2 года назад

    The lying is most frustrating when you catch them lying and they still swear up and down they aren’t even when you show the proof. Play Rik Rok and Shaggy it wasn’t me

  • @alextop4982
    @alextop4982 2 года назад

    People who don't respect kids and their wishes lose respect from me INSTANTLY.

  • @mennaegypt
    @mennaegypt 2 года назад +1

    موضوع مهم جدا

  • @littlejoe9381
    @littlejoe9381 2 года назад

    How about when someone owes you money, doesn’t pay it back, and can be in your presence and not even mention it. I mean they don’t say one word about why they haven’t given it back to you, or when they might be able to pay it back. And even in those circumstances, some have the audacity to ask for more money. 🤨I definitely lose respect for those kind of people. I don’t treat them mean, but after they have treated me this way, I don’t feel bad about not giving them more money. I don’t even ask for my money to be returned. I just don’t give them any more.

  • @user-DianaR960
    @user-DianaR960 2 года назад +2

    Is Jeannie back or not ?

    • @jaystegall7979
      @jaystegall7979 2 года назад +6

      They filmed this before she left for maternity leave! She’ll be back this Tuesday!!🥳

  • @janwoburn447
    @janwoburn447 2 года назад +1

    Ha! Last time I checked weren't those ladies at the virtual table grown women?! I think if it was high school things would be approached with less thought and that's not it. Acquaintances aren't intimate group of friends and it's ok to be cordial when that's the case. It does not have to be complex in showing respect for people I might not like and showing the golden rule I think includes those people we'd feel might not deserve it

  • @ingrid8994
    @ingrid8994 2 года назад

    Once I lose respect for you, you will never get my respect back. Never. 😑

  • @BubbleGum-uc4rx
    @BubbleGum-uc4rx 2 года назад

    The energy I’m getting from them is that they all seem like they don’t want to be there anymore

  • @CC-si3cr
    @CC-si3cr 2 года назад

    Jeannie just talked all over Adrienne. I liked her question. If you lose respect for someone can they ever gain it back? That was a great question!

    • @Daydreams1995
      @Daydreams1995 2 года назад

      I thought the same thing. I think it was because Jeannie never got to say her piece and she knew the segment was about to end. I really wanted to hear their answer to Ade’s question too!

  • @Melissa001
    @Melissa001 2 года назад

    My ex whistled at a waiter and said "come here boy" as if he were a dog in a park 😫 he also refused to share an elevator with a janitor. Absolutely disgusting human.

  • @kakikarei
    @kakikarei 2 года назад

    Loni need to let that one go! Tamar will never...

  • @destineeallen88
    @destineeallen88 2 года назад

    Jeannie and Lonnie friendship 😂😭😭

  • @justafanfave228
    @justafanfave228 2 года назад

    I can’t stand a liar!!

  • @sarangan1995
    @sarangan1995 2 года назад

    I want juicyyy topicssss

  • @gonzo1953
    @gonzo1953 2 года назад +1

    If you don’t tip at least 20% on your tabs our friendship isn’t going to last. I refuse to look poor by association.

  • @dawncullen0214
    @dawncullen0214 2 года назад

    Loni🤣🤣🤣

  • @loselehauli-latu806
    @loselehauli-latu806 2 года назад

    Loni, I love you and respect you for your journey bit girrrrrl you can tell a story without fabricating ish! A couple of times G Money had to pull you up there!!! All in all love all you ladies and love the work you all do!!!

  • @JuliannaLindsey-x3k
    @JuliannaLindsey-x3k 2 года назад +2

    Loni really isn’t funny..

  • @lookhowshegobbledthat
    @lookhowshegobbledthat 2 года назад +2

    Loni better drag that former co-host! "PUBLICLY"