You should check out Kevin Samuels. Kevin is laser focused on relationships. The OG is more eclectic in his advice. The OG gives advice in a way people who don't know can learn.
Pretty spot on. I say all the time especially to women, I'm not chasing after any woman. That's for boys who haven't matured to that stage of pursuing happiness
"Something that's being chased, doesn't want to be caught". In my 54 years I never considered that fact. You're on point beloved. My approach is always with the attitude "I'm a Prince, that's why...". And they'll end up sweating you, especially if your thorough and staying busy with other obligations. Stay blessed champ...💯💯💯
In any situation, no matter who is, desperation can be sensed a mile away. Some people wonder how a dude dates out of his league. One reason is because that guy has learned how to deal with a woman. You have to give a woman the time to miss you. Don't always be accessible to her. No matter what a woman tells you she wants a guy that she feels like is a mystery. A guy thats an open book, she'll read that book and throw it away and never pick it up again. This is good advice from the OG, gets my stamp of approval.
Real men chase their dream and purpose, not women. My father told me to never chase a woman and I've stuck to that advice ever since. Chasing a woman is like Tom chasing Jerry. Tom would always lose in the end because he wasted his time chasing Jerry. Every time you chase a woman, you will always lose in the end
Speaking from experience, desperation leads to bad decisions when it comes to women. Feeling that need can be very real, and lead to very real heartbreak and even worse. I'm blessed to have found that woman who I didn't chase, and didn't need to chase. I pursued her like you described, and it was the right fit. I am living proof that your words ring very true. Salute, my friend!
I wish I’d had that advice whenI was younger. Took me along time to learn it. Once I stoped chasing women and concentrated on other aspects of my life women actually started to approach me. Women do like a busy assertive man.
This video is soo accurate I can totally relate brotha! I’m 28 years old and I had this banging chick I would chase back in my early 20s and it was good till it wasn’t and it was brief. Long story short I made myself to available and it came off as desperate and it for sure pushed her away. Now that I’m older I keep myself busy and girls aren’t the number 1 priority. If she isn’t giving you the time of day when you do your part and attempt, I just keep it moving. There is way too much out there to get hung up on one.
Great advice OG 😄! Women are really an important addition to your life IF you want them but not need them! Enjoy the ride but always prioritate your purpose! Don't get to involved and be aware that in todays social media world, she's probably not yours, it's just your turn!
Words of wisdom.... And mama used to say "Take your time young man" And mama used to say "Don't you rush to get old" And mama used to say "Take it in your stride" And mama used to say "Live your life"
This is spot on! I have been telling these same things to a friend of mine for years. He is the definition of a “chaser”. I am sending this video to him ASAP
@A R Well sir, if you put your foot down and follow the path of God you want have to worry about that unless you plan on being by yourself and jack off the rest of your life. Mgtow are nothing but a group of soft men that let a few women break their heart now they don't wanna deal with women anymore. That's weak. I still wanna date. You gotta put your foot down bro and if she doesn't want to act right get rid of her and just replace her with someone else. Ijs
Great stuff! Your happiness starts from within. A woman can add fulfillment in your life but like you say, don't chase them. They won't respect you. Find a gem and get the right one. Women can also smell desperation and it's a turn off for them. Self confidence and self worth comes with experience... the right attitude is that you have a lot to offer her and you are the dude she should want.
Definitely needed to go back to this video. I recently broke up with my gf but I do still want to find a new person to be with but my mistake when I first got with my ex is that I was chasing women in high school and stuck in a 5 year relationship. Now I'm more mature and taking care of my mental and physical health more than ever. Thank you O.G. 😁
Man wake up and listen to this man. I’ve had your exact thoughts for several years unfortunately some of my good friends just don’t get it. One things for sure we were not meant to be alone. At the very least guys find a good woman that watches your back
What’s up my bro Og. First thing my G my bro please finish your book . The family needs it. We love and need this wisdom written down to refer back to. Great video as always my bro. Salute my friend.
Great video (as usual) -- with one tweak. I think "have options" also needs to be added to the mix because that helps draw the line between chasing and pursuing -- even if your ultimate goal is to be with one person, working on different projects simultaneously allows the chaff to be separated from the wheat, and for the undesirables to disqualify themselves from the competition, in the end. Be an equal-opportunity employer and not a recruiter, and you'll do just fine 😉.
i told a friend of mine about this girl i found interest in today and he sent me your video. I'm glad I decided to watch it because you broke this down very good. Thanks a bunch Sir I really appreciate it.
Thanks Jeff for another great video. I was in a similar situation recently where a girl I dated was asking to be chased. I didn’t push through with it because I didn’t want to bend over backwards for her after just one date and after watching this video I’m glad I made the right decision. SALUTE!!! 💪🏽
That’s great information but their is only a small separation from the two the only difference is not being taken advantage of and know that you have other options no matter who it is you’ll find yourself in a small chase for them to feel appreciated.
I like your logical approach to this subject. I prefer my freedom, so I can do whatever I want. But if I do see someone that I’m interested in, I would make it be known I’m interested in her. If she’s not with it, I keep it moving, because I not going to burn emotional energy on a woman that’s not interested in me. Now if a woman is interested in me, and if I find some type of attraction her, then I will engage. So that’s how I handle women....
You are 100 % correct ! Women are not possessions . . . good ones are those who will augment your life and will continue to grow with you for years to come. Thanks for sharing . . .
I concur with you on this. It took me some time, but I got to that point. You have to move differently if you want to find that special woman. Great work good Sir. And please keep promoting this type of content, because there is a whole lot of noise out there...
I asked out a girl from my work in person and she said yes! However, she says she has exams going on right now, so I said “No worries, if you want to hangout afterwards, text me.” Since then we just been making small talk with flirting here and there at work. Also texting a little bit but not blowing up her phone. Hopefully it works out between us. Till then I’m focusing on my own life 👌🏽
Yea bro sounds like your doing the right thing. I like how you give her the option to text you. If she does then cool if not then that’s cool too. At least you know how she feels if she does or doesn’t hit you back.
Teach Sir! There are very classy beautiful and loving women out here that will respond to a honorable pursuit.... if you chasing me, it means I’m running and you don’t want anyone running from you.❤️ much love to you men living and loving us correctly.
Wish I could give this video 10 thumbs up. Spent most of my younger life CHASING, not pursuing, unfortunately. Lack of direction and purpose in life creates men who chase, IMO. Thanks Jeff, and Salute.
Intention, perspective, and confidence will help you find the RIGHT women. This is a two way street, so gauge interest and ask yourself if that woman is worth pursuing.
Salute on the vid O.G. Years ago I was once that chaser, hard chaser. Many lessons learned and plenty of mistakes made... Whew boy. Now I'm a very patient pursuer. But more about constant pursuit of my goals and purposes. Keep up the good work sir.
Very subtle differences had to learn to respect my own boundaries and know my true values. Thought needing the woman sounded nicer and shouted the value I gave her and didn’t realize it was devaluing me.
Hey man thanks for this video! This girl I was seeing for 18 months just dumped me and I texted her so many times I realize I was showing weakness . Started chasing her until she blocked my phone #.
Salute Mr Style OG, yes I have been a chaser. I'm learning now to catch red flags early on and not to get attached too soon. Also every woman I did chase or pursue, I ended up better off without.
Please create more videos like these as all men, including a middle age man like myself, can benefit from advice like this....or take a refresher course :) Ravi Peiris M.D.
Love this! Good Stuff! Men are natural hunters. I do believe that a man should pursue. I have used the word chase because there are a lot of hungry desperate woman who chase men. Pursue is much more respectable! Great Job HQOG.🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
Very informative Jeff! I agree if you don't set boundaries and have the right mindset you will experience relationship issues and fall victim to simpin.
You're on point OG... as you mentioned having options until you've finalized your pursuit how do you tell the women? Do you just fade them. Can you drop a video on that subject. How to finalize your pursuit
Hey man! Great video as always. I was curious if you have ever discussed the difference between asking for a girls number. Or you Giving her yours. I PERSONALLY like to give mine out. Do you have a video on this subject O.G?
Excellent breakdown of the difference between the two. I agree 💯 because I've had similar thoughts about this topic except you articulate it waaaaay better than I could. Thank you OG👍🏼
This needs to go viral. Such sound wisdom in a age that desperately needs that.
Sadly, I feel this should be common knowledge.
Thanks!
You should check out Kevin Samuels. Kevin is laser focused on relationships. The OG is more eclectic in his advice. The OG gives advice in a way people who don't know can learn.
Woooorrrd
OG style always dropping that knowledge
The most profound statement I’ve heard in my 56 years on earth: “Something being chased doesn’t want to be caught.” That resonates with me.
True indeed!
Agree
Chasing is desperate and downright unhealthy. When I stopped being desperate my reaction to life improved greatly.
Well said!
Respecting boundaries is key. I totally agree. I am glad you cut to the "chase" to emphasize it should be a "pursuit".
Absolutely!
Pretty spot on. I say all the time especially to women, I'm not chasing after any woman. That's for boys who haven't matured to that stage of pursuing happiness
appreciate the input!
"Something that's being chased, doesn't want to be caught". In my 54 years I never considered that fact. You're on point beloved. My approach is always with the attitude "I'm a Prince, that's why...". And they'll end up sweating you, especially if your thorough and staying busy with other obligations. Stay blessed champ...💯💯💯
In any situation, no matter who is, desperation can be sensed a mile away. Some people wonder how a dude dates out of his league. One reason is because that guy has learned how to deal with a woman. You have to give a woman the time to miss you. Don't always be accessible to her. No matter what a woman tells you she wants a guy that she feels like is a mystery. A guy thats an open book, she'll read that book and throw it away and never pick it up again. This is good advice from the OG, gets my stamp of approval.
Well said!
Real men chase their dream and purpose, not women. My father told me to never chase a woman and I've stuck to that advice ever since. Chasing a woman is like Tom chasing Jerry. Tom would always lose in the end because he wasted his time chasing Jerry. Every time you chase a woman, you will always lose in the end
Speaking from experience, desperation leads to bad decisions when it comes to women. Feeling that need can be very real, and lead to very real heartbreak and even worse. I'm blessed to have found that woman who I didn't chase, and didn't need to chase. I pursued her like you described, and it was the right fit. I am living proof that your words ring very true. Salute, my friend!
Salute!
Totally concur my brother👏🏿✊🏿. Pursue a woman.....never chase a woman.
Salute Raymond!
@@TheStyleOG 🙏🏿✊🏿👍🏿
If you chase.. You will definitely get an advantage taken of.. GREAT VID OG!! SAAAALUTE🔥🔥🔥‼️‼️
Salute!
love the positive message, but please don't spam the comment section
@@TheStyleOG lol
I wish I’d had that advice whenI was younger. Took me along time to learn it. Once I stoped chasing women and concentrated on other aspects of my life women actually started to approach me. Women do like a busy assertive man.
Indeed they do Michael!
Well said, Michael, and very true. Same goes for me. Your experiences in the past reflect my experiences exactly.
Very true, sir! The busier you are with your own affairs, the more women will notice you and strive to become one of your "affairs."
@@Deephouse_Gent66 I like how you put that, and totally correct and on point..
Very well said indeed. You should never chase. Always pursue and even then w/ patience and great care.
True indeed!
I needed to hear this! Get me back focused on PURSUING the woman I've been chasing. Thank you OG!
You got this!
Appreciate it brother! SALUTE!
This video is soo accurate I can totally relate brotha! I’m 28 years old and I had this banging chick I would chase back in my early 20s and it was good till it wasn’t and it was brief. Long story short I made myself to available and it came off as desperate and it for sure pushed her away. Now that I’m older I keep myself busy and girls aren’t the number 1 priority. If she isn’t giving you the time of day when you do your part and attempt, I just keep it moving. There is way too much out there to get hung up on one.
True indeed!
I used to chase women. Then I quit drinking. Boy have things changed.
@Miles can I get uuuuhhhh, spicy chicken sandwich with cajun fries, WAIT A MINUTE THIS AINT POPEYES!!!!!!!???!?!?
Yes when I stopped drinking I realized I was hitting on low quality women.
Great advice OG 😄! Women are really an important addition to your life IF you want them but not need them! Enjoy the ride but always prioritate your purpose! Don't get to involved and be aware that in todays social media world, she's probably not yours, it's just your turn!
YAYYYYY Jeff has arrived!!! Sit back and get these lessons sons, nephews, brothers and uncles.
Salute Queen!
Oh just gotta say your channel is vastly under rated
Thanks Paul!
Words of wisdom.... And mama used to say
"Take your time young man"
And mama used to say
"Don't you rush to get old"
And mama used to say
"Take it in your stride"
And mama used to say
"Live your life"
Classic!
This is spot on! I have been telling these same things to a friend of mine for years. He is the definition of a “chaser”. I am sending this video to him ASAP
My man!
I unsubscribed to all my mgtow channels a couple days ago. Appreciate your content brother 💪
Welcome aboard!
Damn...The Style O.G leading men out of the darkness like Jesus did 2000 years ago...hallelujah
@A R Well sir, if you put your foot down and follow the path of God you want have to worry about that unless you plan on being by yourself and jack off the rest of your life. Mgtow are nothing but a group of soft men that let a few women break their heart now they don't wanna deal with women anymore. That's weak. I still wanna date. You gotta put your foot down bro and if she doesn't want to act right get rid of her and just replace her with someone else. Ijs
Excuse my ignorance... what is mgtow?
@@nmorgan24 you prob know already but Men Going Their Own Way
Great stuff! Your happiness starts from within. A woman can add fulfillment in your life but like you say, don't chase them. They won't respect you. Find a gem and get the right one. Women can also smell desperation and it's a turn off for them. Self confidence and self worth comes with experience... the right attitude is that you have a lot to offer her and you are the dude she should want.
Well said Shawn !
Thanks for the break down Jeff! You're right about having the right mindset!
Any time!
I can definitely say you have it right. Great video OG!
Thanks!
O.G. Is talking FACTS!!!
Definitely needed to go back to this video. I recently broke up with my gf but I do still want to find a new person to be with but my mistake when I first got with my ex is that I was chasing women in high school and stuck in a 5 year relationship. Now I'm more mature and taking care of my mental and physical health more than ever. Thank you O.G. 😁
No problem Wendell!
Man wake up and listen to this man. I’ve had your exact thoughts for several years unfortunately some of my good friends just don’t get it. One things for sure we were not meant to be alone. At the very least guys find a good woman that watches
your back
What’s up my bro Og. First thing my G my bro please finish your book . The family needs it. We love and need this wisdom written down to refer back to. Great video as always my bro. Salute my friend.
Salute my guy!
Yes!! Yes! A book it greatly needed and a perfect gift for a few male friends I know
Great video (as usual) -- with one tweak. I think "have options" also needs to be added to the mix because that helps draw the line between chasing and pursuing -- even if your ultimate goal is to be with one person, working on different projects simultaneously allows the chaff to be separated from the wheat, and for the undesirables to disqualify themselves from the competition, in the end. Be an equal-opportunity employer and not a recruiter, and you'll do just fine 😉.
Great tip!
i told a friend of mine about this girl i found interest in today and he sent me your video. I'm glad I decided to watch it because you broke this down very good. Thanks a bunch Sir I really appreciate it.
That's awesome!
Thanks Jeff for another great video. I was in a similar situation recently where a girl I dated was asking to be chased. I didn’t push through with it because I didn’t want to bend over backwards for her after just one date and after watching this video I’m glad I made the right decision. SALUTE!!! 💪🏽
No problem!
That’s great information but their is only a small separation from the two the only difference is not being taken advantage of and know that you have other options no matter who it is you’ll find yourself in a small chase for them to feel appreciated.
appreciate the input!
I like your logical approach to this subject. I prefer my freedom, so I can do whatever I want. But if I do see someone that I’m interested in, I would make it be known I’m interested in her. If she’s not with it, I keep it moving, because I not going to burn emotional energy on a woman that’s not interested in me. Now if a woman is interested in me, and if I find some type of attraction her, then I will engage. So that’s how I handle women....
I like that approach!
Excellent & Logical
This guy has been through some experiences good stuff bro
You are 100 % correct !
Women are not possessions . . . good ones are those who will augment your life and will continue to grow with you for years to come.
Thanks for sharing . . .
Absolutely!
Been coming with the bangers lately, SALUTE!!!💪
Salute Shawn!
OG always spitting that holy word... From Angola 🇦🇴 with love!!🙌🏽
Salute Lionel!
The OG with another one 💯
All first verse..
Thank you for Explaining the Difference.😎🙌. The Internet show a lot of misconceptions
Happy to help!
I concur with you on this. It took me some time, but I got to that point. You have to move differently if you want to find that special woman. Great work good Sir. And please keep promoting this type of content, because there is a whole lot of noise out there...
Will do Shawn!
You definitely got it right . Wish I had the internet when I was growing up because I’d made better decisions when I came to women
Appreciate that Vegan!
@Miles i like Buddha 😉
Never chase a bus or a women....because when you get left behind the whole world laughs at you.
damn thats good
Absolutely
Professional men do not chase woman; some great looking guys do not chase woman my late female cat got pregnant by neighbors male cat he chase her
Great! Information don't chase, replace in some cases
Thanks Dwayne!
I asked out a girl from my work in person and she said yes!
However, she says she has exams going on right now, so I said “No worries, if you want to hangout afterwards, text me.” Since then we just been making small talk with flirting here and there at work. Also texting a little bit but not blowing up her phone.
Hopefully it works out between us. Till then I’m focusing on my own life 👌🏽
Yea bro sounds like your doing the right thing. I like how you give her the option to text you. If she does then cool if not then that’s cool too. At least you know how she feels if she does or doesn’t hit you back.
Oi what’s the update on this chief?
@@xMikeyHardyx She had a boyfriend 😟
Teach Sir! There are very classy beautiful and loving women out here that will respond to a honorable pursuit.... if you chasing me, it means I’m running and you don’t want anyone running from you.❤️ much love to you men living and loving us correctly.
Well said!
I don't even like running- what I look like chasing a woman? Great video!
Right?!
😂
I don't have much to say, except that you have spoken words of truth, especiallyabout the "kind" and "nice" guys.👍
appreciate the feedback Bryant!
Yes! My sentiments exactly! Life is lived in the gray areas! We must learn to succeed in the areas that aren’t so clear-cut.
Indeed!
Excellent Style O.G.! All men need to see this.
This is the dad talk most men don’t hear!
Wish I could give this video 10 thumbs up. Spent most of my younger life CHASING, not pursuing, unfortunately. Lack of direction and purpose in life creates men who chase, IMO. Thanks Jeff, and Salute.
My man!
Intention, perspective, and confidence will help you find the RIGHT women. This is a two way street, so gauge interest and ask yourself if that woman is worth pursuing.
Well said!
@@stevenwells5069 thanks!:)
Agreed Steve!
That which is valuable does not impose itself
Salute on the vid O.G. Years ago I was once that chaser, hard chaser. Many lessons learned and plenty of mistakes made... Whew boy. Now I'm a very patient pursuer. But more about constant pursuit of my goals and purposes. Keep up the good work sir.
will do Anthony!
Definitely, more men need to understand this.
You are one of the most pragmatic and rationale when it comes to advice.. Salute Brotha style O.G!
Salute to you! May you keep having great success👍🏼
Thank you! You too!
Very subtle differences had to learn to respect my own boundaries and know my true values. Thought needing the woman sounded nicer and shouted the value I gave her and didn’t realize it was devaluing me.
You hit it right on the money OG.
Thanks Howard!
Something getting chased, usually doesn't want to get caught. ⛓
Uncle Jeff always dropping the knowledge. For a 25 year old male, I need to hear information like this.
I try!
Always giving me more knowledge n information that OG
Happy to help!
Jeff, your videos should been seen by all men. It would solve a great deal of problems. Well done
I love watching your videos Jeff you are the MAN!!! Salute!!!😁
Glad you like them!
thank you sir, you just made it all make sense for me now.
Speak that TRUTH , correct Style OG ! 👍🏽🔥🔥.
Thanks for listening!
You've got a very healthy approach that's very refreshing.
Thanks!
I appreciate ur mature look on the attire and female game
Hey man thanks for this video!
This girl I was seeing for 18 months just dumped me and I texted her so many times I realize I was showing weakness . Started chasing her until she blocked my phone #.
This is knowledge that father's don't pass cuz they running the streets. I needed this thank you OG
No problem!
Yet another good one OG... and to add on to your point “a woman should be an asset to your life, not the main focus”
Indeed!
Excellent video great analogy when u said a bank robber doesn’t want to get caught by police
Thanks Darrick!
Salute Mr Style OG, yes I have been a chaser. I'm learning now to catch red flags early on and not to get attached too soon. Also every woman I did chase or pursue, I ended up better off without.
Salute Brent!
Style OG, you continue to drop knowledge. Single men listen up. Pursue and don’t Chase. It’s about finding that special women. Salute to the family.
Salute Pierre!
Well written and well delivered. Good stuff!
That's deep I am recently divorced and find myself leaning towards the chase....
Excellent advice as always. Keep up the great work.
Much appreciated!
This video is on point Jeff.
Huge difference between being chased vs. being pursued. Thank you for clarifying.
Thanks Carla!
Please create more videos like these as all men, including a middle age man like myself, can benefit from advice like this....or take a refresher course :)
Ravi Peiris M.D.
Salute Doc!
Great piece as usual!
Thank you! Cheers!
Love this! Good Stuff! Men are natural hunters. I do believe that a man should pursue. I have used the word chase because there are a lot of hungry desperate woman who chase men. Pursue is much more respectable! Great Job HQOG.🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
You got it Gail!
Girl that's so true!!
Big Facts brotha. I hv stepped my game up in a major way ever since I subscribed 2yrs ago Thanx alot Stylish OG
My man!
Good words of wisdom, sir... Reminds me of the classic R&B song from the early 1980s by Junior: "Mama used to say... Take your time, young man!"
Don't you rush to get to get old!
(High pitch voice) LIVE YOUR LIFE!!! 👊😎👍
Sir, you are a beast, a fountain of knowledge. Have you ever been told you sound like Samuel Jackson?
Very informative Jeff! I agree if you don't set boundaries and have the right mindset you will experience relationship issues and fall victim to simpin.
Thanks David!
You're on point OG... as you mentioned having options until you've finalized your pursuit how do you tell the women? Do you just fade them. Can you drop a video on that subject. How to finalize your pursuit
I learn this at an early age...and I am grateful for it. O.G. keep the content coming my G!
Will do!
Excellent video lil different form your other content. But the delivery and message was digestible.
Glad you enjoyed it!
This video just confirmed I'm on the right path when it comes to this subject
Keep it up!
Hey man! Great video as always. I was curious if you have ever discussed the difference between asking for a girls number. Or you Giving her yours.
I PERSONALLY like to give mine out. Do you have a video on this subject O.G?
Preparation over desperation
Indeed!
Jeff...well said...i was measured in my approach to getting to know my future wife..no regrets...married 41 years..salute....
Salute Kenneth!
Yet another post of very good advice. Anything truly worth having only comes with patience.
Indeed!
Beautifully and articulately said sir. I am sure that there are are lot of men who have benefited greatly from this.
Appreciate the feedback!
What's up jeff.donald from Cincinnati checking in.once again you are so on point.keep up the great work btw I'm a pursuiter as always Salute
Right on!
jeff your videos are so on point.i just wanna know how you have became so successful in dating I hope this is not a dumb question
You are totally right.
Nice presentation... I like the way you explained the difference.
Glad you liked it!
Great Spin on the topic. You get wiser by the day brother.
I appreciate that!
Excellent breakdown of the difference between the two. I agree 💯 because I've had similar thoughts about this topic except you articulate it waaaaay better than I could. Thank you OG👍🏼
💯
Perfect definition. I love all of this.
Thanks!
solid advice on your entire channel, thanks for everything.
I appreciate that!
I just found your channel today and I'm hooked with your videos. Thank you Sir..
Glad you like them!