Women have D&C’s for many reasons, not all of which involve killing a living human being. The ultrasound revealed that I had a missed miscarriage. My baby’s heart had stopped beating 3 weeks before I had a D&C. (Btw, this was not my first D&C- it was my second. My first was 2 weeks postpartum Ivy’s birth for retained placenta.) Each person is created “in the image of God” (Gen 1:27), and to purposefully destroy a baby in the womb is an affront to the God who created that life. There’s a world of difference between someone dying and someone being killed. To equate one to the other- and to a mother grieving the loss of her baby no less- is severely distasteful. There is a world of difference between a mortician and a murderer. Even a child understands the difference between the two.
Beautifully said, we have 3 beautiful babies on earth with us and 3 beautiful babies in heaven that God took home before we met. 1 D&C and 2 natural passing, people assume the worst when I say I had a D&C they don’t understand a little life was gone before that procedure. God bless you and your journey to healing.
Fetuses are not living human beings. They cannot live outside of the womb until 24-ish weeks gestation. Very unfortunate you would use this type of language. And I am so very sorry you suffered a loss . Sending love.
@@bluesamg It's not the same thing! D&C is done when the baby is already dead. Abortion is when you choose to kill your baby because you don't feel like taking responsibility for your own actions.
Thank you for sharing. More women need to be like you, it's hard to open and share the hurtful parts of life but sharing helps so many others. I know your video made me feel that I'm not alone in my experience! Bless you
I am SO sorry for your loss Jessa!😢. I am also so thankful for you sharing and proud of you for having the courage to do so! Love seeing a new side of you that we haven’t ever seen! Thank you for being so real, raw and vulnerable!! ❤️❤️
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I had a miscarriage at 11 weeks as well and then a D&C. 💗. It is truly heartbreaking 😢. I am glad you are still able to say God is good. He's also close to the brokenhearted, Amen ✝️.
Oh my, I paused the video and zoomed in to see Spurgeon's drawing and tears started flowing. That beautiful picture is one of the sweetest, heartwarming things I've ever seen. God bless him and your whole precious family. You are doing such a good job mamma.
Ben and Jessa, My heart goes out to you for your loss. I’ll be praying for you. Thank you for your transparency. You just never know who you might be helping along the way. God bless you both, and your precious family. Keep shining for Jesus 🌟
What a powerful video. So many of us can relate. Quite literally to every single word you said. Very brave of you to share. Thinking about you and Ben, the kids. Keeping you all I prayer.
My heart breaks for you. That same verse I quoted over and over during the final days and hours of my 10 year old sons life. I’m so glad you have Jesus. Y’all are in my prayers.
I am soooooo sorry for your loss. This video made me sob and reminded me of my d&c after my third child. It is such a difficult experience and I while I struggled, I was amazed at the strength that the Lord gave me. I’m so glad you found comfort in Job’s story and hope that you are blessed with a sweet rainbow soon! You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers!! 💜💜
My heart breaks for you and your family... You are such a wonderful Mommy and Daddy... I'm happy that you told they little ones that way they had time to fall in love with their little sister and brother... I feel confident that you will lead them properly with their grief. Prayers and Love being sent your way!
I’m sorry for your loss and I appreciate you sharing this to others that have lost a baby during pregnancy. I hope your soul can heal asap because it’s a pain that is indescribable.
Jessa your story has brought me so much comfort! Thank you for sharing your story with all of us! Our family loves to follow your family. I started spotting with my first miscarriage on my birthday in 2020 (my 6th baby) and I had a second miscarriage in March of 2021 (twins; babies 7&8). With the second I hemorrhaged and had to have an emergency D&C. It's been two years on March 5th and I'm still grieving due to so much trauma. I just want to thank you for sharing the hymn that you guys sang, Day by Day. Thank you for reminding me that I didn't do anything to intentionally harm my babies because I've asked myself a thousand times what I should've done differently. Last, thank you for reminding me of Job. I've thought of him a lot throughout this but I appreciate the reminder again. A really cool song in relation to the scripture of Job's conversation with the Lord is Where Were You by Ghostship. A fellow brother in Christ shared it with me and it's a beautiful reminder of who is in control. I'll be praying for your family as you continue to walk this healing journey! We love you guys as brothers and sisters in Christ.
Oh Jessa , I am so sorry to hear this!! This made me cry. My heart is hurting for you and your family!! Thank you for sharing your heart about this !! I am sure God will use this to help others in many ways!!! I am praying for all of you 🙏!! I lost my first baby, and like you said, I am so grateful to God and Jesus that we will get to meet and spend eternity getting to know our son one day!! It is so painful, but we have such hope in Christ !!!
Just popping in after having watched this video the day it was posted a while back… I want you to know I have been praying for you and your family. I really hope you continue videos! I loved seeing all your house plants and would love tips/tricks to care for them. ❤️
Oh Jessa ❤️ You put this together soo beautifully 💕 I felt this while watching, as I've been there too. Your positive words are very inspiring. It's hard to see God's plan when we go through these things, but there's love and purpose in everything we go through ❤️ Hugs to you and your beautiful family 🤗 Thank you for sharing this 💕💗
A loss is never easy…..I’m so sorry you had to experience this especially over the holidays. Your openness and transparency was so heartfelt. I sat here and cried with you as I watched this. I have lost 4 babies and it’s not easy, but nothing you did caused it. Please don’t blame yourself. Heaven is going to be that much sweeter when we get to go hold our sweet babies we never got to me. Praying for you and your family during this time.
So VERY sorry for your loss... may God surround you with His LOVE, His PEACE, and healing. THANK YOU for sharing such a personal ordeal with us. Love you!!!
Thank you for being so willing to share your life with the world. I’m sorry for your loss and I want you to know that your mom recited the same scripture when they lost Jubilee and hearing you recite it impacts me today as it did back then. God is good, please continue to share your story ❤️
Thank you so much for sharing this and for being so vulnerable.❤️ I am so, so sorry for your loss. It is one of the most painful things you can ever experience. I appreciate you talking so openly about your spiritual experiences through this. I have always been encouraged by the verse in Scripture where David says (in regards to his first son with Bathseba) “he will not return to me but I will go to him.” I will be praying for you and your sweet family.
I am so sorry Jessa!! My daughter went through this in November and had all the same thoughts. I kept reassuring her that she could have done nothing more or less than what she had done. Bless you and your family!
I am so sorry for your loss, truly. Thank you so much for sharing this with us in a very raw and real way, it is such an honour to be able to hear what you had to say during this time. I hope you are okay and healing alright. Also, the part where Ben brought in the doll house and Ivy was like "thank you Daddy, thank you" was honestly just the sweetest!
I was going thru a tough week last month and Job’s story also strengthened my faith during that time. Thru everything always praise the Lord! 🙌🏼 Blessed be the name of the Lord. Praying for strength and peace in your spirit ❤️
I’m so so sorry for your loss Jessa. I cried right along with you. Praying for your broken heart. Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your story.
So sorry you & your had to go through this sad experience. So grateful to hear you still know that God is good even when we are going through the valleys. I know I could not do life without Jesus by my side. Prayers for much comfort, peace & strength for all of you. Also sending big hugs. Remember He turns our ashes into beauty, our graves into gardens. He is just oh so faithful. 🙏🙌💜
I’ve been battling infertility for the last 5 years. I lost my first baby at 11 weeks last summer and it still hurts so bad. I’ve questioned whether I’d ever become a Mom but then I remember Gods promise. He promised I’d become a Mom & that’s what I’ve held on to. ❤
my brother had a friend that said she couldnt have kids because everytime she got pregnant she would lose the baby and i told her something that rose up in my spirit that God reminded me of is that my mom told me that when my sister and me get pregnant, since we have B negative blood, were gonna have to get a shot at i think 4 weeks. because if you dont get that shot, your body will fight off the baby and think its a virus. when i told her that i think she said i think i do have negative blood and said she needed to get checked by a doctor. i think two years after that she got pregnant and the baby stayed, shes a mom of two now . i dont talk to her anymore because my brother and her boy friend had a falling out
Ivy’s excitement over the dollhouse was precious!! How she keeps thanking Daddy🥹 SO sorry for y’all’s loss😢 praise Jesus we have the hope of eternity ❤
YES! One day you will get to see and hold your sweet baby in your arms. That is one of the things that helped me so much many years ago when I had my miscarriage…. Was having the knowledge that one day I would be able to have this beautiful moment of meeting my precious little one and never be separated again. Lean into that knowledge and the comfort of our Heavenly Father for that peace that surpasses all understanding. Prayers for continued healing for you and your whole family as you walk through this season. 🙏 🕊 💔❤️🩹❤️
It’s difficult to see your pain, but your faith is very inspirational! My prayer is that you & your loved ones strengthen each other. Father God will bring you through. What courageous it took to tell this story. TYTY for sharing. ❤️❤️🙏❤️❤️
I lost my first right after the first trimester as well. It was so heartbreaking. I’m so sorry for your pain. Thank you for your willingness to share, and help other women in doing so. The Lord gave me five babies after that devastating loss. My oldest is also Named after Charles Spurgeon.. Riley Haddon. God bless you Jessa! You are in my prayers today.
Thank you for sharing such a vulnerable moment. Your strong faith is so inspiring. I've never gone through what you have, but I've been battling serious health problems for months. How you explained your suffering and tied it into faith really brought me to tears. I'm praying for you and your family 🙏❤️
Jessa (and Ben), thank you so much for sharing such a private experience. I’ve had my own loss and it took quite some time to really heal from. My wish for you is that with each passing day, you feel more healed. I’m so sorry for your loss. With love from Michigan, Annie ✨
17:40 minutes. “I felt His presence, I felt His peace”, powerful words dear Jessa. I am so sorry for your loss, this made me cry. I had my two daughters when you had yours (same year) March 2019 and July 2021. Fern is born on my husband’s birthday and just 5 days after our youngest. Maybe a bit silly but I have felt a bond with you over that.❤Struggled to have children. I am so glad you were not alone. You keep saying God is good. What a wonderful testimony, especially because this is hard! You are helping so many by sharing. I am glad you have help and take good care of yourself, no self blame. You are so loved by your Heavenly Father!❤
I am so sorry sweetheart. May God comfort you all and give you peace. Take time for yourselves- as much as you need. Thanks for sharing and being so brave 😢🙏🙏❤️
Jessa, please continue with your videos. Don't let criticism of your brother, family or the procedure you had after the miscarriage stop you. Your family is unique and Charming. I know I look forward to your videos and thousands of others do too. Hope you are feeling better.
As someone who’s suffered from infertility for 20+ years, never able to have children, watching every single person around me receive blessing after blessing…. I have to say this is probably the most meaningful and moving sharing I’ve seen. My heart breaks for you and my prayers are with you. Thank you for sharing your heart and showing how real and raw this is.
I lost my baby in 1998. Never was able to conceive again. Recently diagnosed with Lupus & MS. I think both we're hiding in my body back in 1998! I know how you feel!
I understand and feel for you. I wanted children since i was a child and i never had them. Breaks my heart, so i follow many families here and on instagram. I am blessed with 5 siblings who allowed me to spend as much time as i wanted with all my nieces and nephews.
So sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family.🙏🏼❤️ My son and his wife are pregnant with their first child and are going through a rough time with the pregnancy. This video and your news is extremely heart breaking but your faith is strong and shines through even through this difficult time. It’s a reminder to me to be faithful and have trust in God even during uncertain times. Thanks for that reminder Jess.❤️❤️❤️
I'm so deeply sorry for you and your family's loss!! I pray for you and your family to get through this difficult time. Thank you for sharing because I know it helped comfort someone in some way. Thank you for sharing all that you do. I enjoyed your videos and seeing you and your beautiful family . ❤️🙏🏼
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So sorry for your loss, we’ve been there. Pastor Jack Hayford wrote a book, “I’ll Hold You in Heaven”. Helpful with this type of loss. Praying for you. 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
Also, I just want to add that your vulnerability is precious before the Lord and such a beautiful display of honesty! Additionally, Ivy's verbal expressions of gratitude to her Dad for her doll house touched my heart! Every inflection in her voice and every word of gratitude was precious!
Thank you so much for sharing so much of yourself with us today. I cried right along with you. I know how hard it is to lose a baby, as I lost one right about the 3 month mark. The sadness and sorrow somehow made me closer to God and it made me appreciate everything I did have so much more. All of the trials we experience in this life, make us into the person God wants us to be. To God, who numbers the hairs on our head, nothing is a surprise and all are designed to work for our good. You did nothing wrong. I admire your courage to share what you are feeling and going through. I’m sure countless women will be helped by your story and your tears. Take comfort in knowing your testimony will soothe the hearts of many. God bless you, Jessa. ❤️🙏❤️
May God's arms of love be felt by all. Thank you for sharing. As you shared your thoughts and feelings, it took me back to the loss of my baby over 20 years ago. Every fiber in me screamed that same, "What if they are wrong." I knew they weren't and knew God was already holding my baby in heaven. Again, thank you for sharing. Our heartfelt love and prayers for you all for God's peace and comfort.
I’m so sorry Jess!! I feel your pain. I lost a baby girl at 16 weeks last year and ended up with a D&C after I delivered her. I wasn’t able to push out the placenta. I cried through so much of your video. I felt all of those same things… also the peace that comes from God alone. Thank you for sharing! It means a lot. 💕
I'm so sorry!! Let your family go through the grief time, This happened to me too, your family will comfort you, I found it to be time to be closer together as a family too, but very emotional 😢 ❤️ yes, thank God for your family and our Comforter!!! It softens us for sure!! Praise God!! Thanks for sharing such a hard experience!!
Oh Jessa, I just cried with you. You showed your true self and feelings and I appreciate that. One thing that I always have to remind myself through struggles is that everything is God's timing, not ours. He needed another little angel.
I’m so sorry you went through this. I feel you ❤. Sometimes we don’t listen to our bodies but luckily you did. This is your time now sweetie. You are precious. 🤗
Thank you for sharing your story. I resonated so much with this because my first baby ended in miscarriage and proceeded with a D&C. So many of the thoughts you shared I also wrestled with during that time. The sense of loss, grief, sorrow was so strong. But by God’s grace, He brought me out of the grief and gave me joy in the sorrow. I now have two babies on earth and two in heaven. I can’t wait to step into glory to meet them one day.
Hi Jessa! I’m soo sorry about the loss of your baby… I know I’m months late but I watched this today and your openness when you read the song really touched my heart. Thank you for sharing your journey and how you feel Gods faithfulness- in the hard times and the bad. God bless you and your beautiful family!
Prayers for you and your family Jessa! Losing a baby is extremely heartbreaking.. I lost my first baby at 9 weeks and it was also a missed miscarriage. I agree with what you said about how a missed miscarriage could feel worse. I was caught off guard because I had absolutely no symptoms and I actually went in for an early ultrasound a week and a half before and baby girls heartbeat was strong... And then I went in for my actual doctor's appointment and it had stopped. We found out she was a girl the day we found out she passed. After 3 long weeks my doctor ended up having to do a D&C as well. I can relate to every feeling you described. God is good though as you said and hopefully if you guys choose to you'll have your rainbow baby one day. So sorry you had to post an explanation for the D&C... People need to educate themselves on this because abortion and a D&C are not the same at all. In some cases it is medically needed just like you described for you. I'm grateful I was able to have the option because I had a miserable long 3 weeks and it was truly awful.. we named our baby and made a memory box for her which helped me through my recovery.
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How I feel for you, Jessa! I can really relate with what you said about Heaven getting sweeter as loved ones go on before us. I lost my mom last April after a short battle with cancer and then l had a missed miscarriage (my first and only pregnancy so far) at 16 weeks in June. Not a day goes by that I don't long to be in Heaven with them! Someday. I love your videos. I discovered your family's show on Discovery+ while I was so sick during my pregnancy and I watched it for hours on end. I love you all and feel like I know you personally. I occasionally drive through your area on my way to visit my family in Missouri and often wish that I could meet you. Please know that you are in my prayers!
Thank you for sharing your story. My heart breaks for you and your family. I admire your faith in God. You are an inspiration and such a strong woman & mother & wife.
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Jess , I’m praying for you right now. You are absolutely amazing. Even though you are going through a very painful difficult time, you end up encouraging me and reminding me that God is right there with me while I am grieving over a loss. Thank you. You are a Blessing to me. 🙏💕
This made me cry. You are so strong Jessa!! Don’t blame yourself. My first and third pregnancies were miscarriages and it was so crushing. I had healthy babies following each miscarriage and a healthy third baby with no miscarriages. It’s incredibly hard to understand miscarriage but I pray that you and Ben and your children will have peace about this. It is a bad dream but it gets easier with time. I don’t know if my two miscarriages were my first two kids trying to come to earth or if I lost two additional spirits but I know that we’ll understand all of this after this life. I’m so grateful I was able to go on to have three beautiful children. They are everything to me now as a single mom. Hugs and prayers!! ♥️
Hey Jessa, I know you’ve been through a lot these past 3 months……But I want you to know you are greatly missed!! Please post a new video so we know how you’re doing! Worried about you & praying for you too! ❤
Jessa thank you for showing us your vulnerability. You were so honest and real. We really saw your true heart and it truly spoke to me. You are usually very strong and put together in front of the camera. Today we shared in your grief and your humanity. it is painful but also a beautiful part of life. Something strangers can share and bond over knowing we are not alone as we all know that feeling one way or another. I don't know you but I wept for you. your tears touched my heart as I struggle with my own difficulties in having the family that I dream of . I know we will both see happier times again
I’m so sorry, Jessa! I remember watching your mom in the first moments of learning of the loss of Jubilee and she also spoke aloud that same verse from Job. It had such an impact on me to see her immediate praise of God in the midst of a devastating situation. Seeing you echo her words a decade later brought me back to that moment. I am so grateful for your family being an example of living out your faith in both moments of sweetness and sorrow.
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Jessa, I lost a sweet boy to a stillbirth and another sweet boy to SIDS. I was given this poem when I lost my first one and it really helped me with the grieving process. I truly hope it brings you some peace as it did me. Keeping you all in my thoughts & prayers! LAND OF HEAVEN When God calls little children to dwell with him above We mortals always question the wisdom of his love. For no heartache compares with the death of one small child. Who does so much to make this world seem wonderful and mild. Perhaps God tires always calling the aged to his fold and so he picks a rosebud before it can grow old. God knows how much we need them and so he takes but few. To make the Land of Heaven more beautiful to view. Believing this is difficult, still somehow we must try. The saddest word that mankind knows will always be good-bye. And so when little ones depart, we who are left behind must realize how much God loves little children, for Angels are hard to find.
Praying for you and your beautiful family! Loss is so incredibly hard. You are so brave to post this and bring awareness about loss. It makes those of us who have been there feel seen, heard, and not so alone. My husband and I have suffered two losses ourselves and fought secondary infertility for many years. I thank god for my precious 6 year old daughter and this new blessing god has given us that is growing in my belly now. Praying that we get to see him grow up! Pregnancy after loss is filled with anxiety but so worth it. Praying god sees to continue to grow your family when and if you get ready to try again! 💕🙏
@@thebibleisright100 If you are speaking about me. I MYSELF will admit that I almost died from an ectopic pregnancy rupturing my tubes. The pregnancy was not viable and did not have a heartbeat but the tissue was still growing to the point that it almost killed me. That would have left my daughter without her mom. I sympathize with Jessa for having to have a WANTED Pregnancy removed from our WOMBS! I have lost two very wanted children of my own. If you are speaking of Jessa... Her poor baby passed away in her womb three weeks before she had to have her precious little one removed from her own womb, due to it being life threatening. She made the only choice she could to continue safely mothering the 4 precious little ones she has at home. She is a woman of god, as am I. We all have to do things that haunt us at times. We survive the best we can and will lord willing get to see our children in heaven one day. I pray for you too. And your insensitivity to mothers of loss!
Women have D&C’s for many reasons, not all of which involve killing a living human being. The ultrasound revealed that I had a missed miscarriage. My baby’s heart had stopped beating 3 weeks before I had a D&C. (Btw, this was not my first D&C- it was my second. My first was 2 weeks postpartum Ivy’s birth for retained placenta.)
Each person is created “in the image of God” (Gen 1:27), and to purposefully destroy a baby in the womb is an affront to the God who created that life.
There’s a world of difference between someone dying and someone being killed. To equate one to the other- and to a mother grieving the loss of her baby no less- is severely distasteful. There is a world of difference between a mortician and a murderer. Even a child understands the difference between the two.
Beautifully said, we have 3 beautiful babies on earth with us and 3 beautiful babies in heaven that God took home before we met. 1 D&C and 2 natural passing, people assume the worst when I say I had a D&C they don’t understand a little life was gone before that procedure.
God bless you and your journey to healing.
Fetuses are not living human beings. They cannot live outside of the womb until 24-ish weeks gestation. Very unfortunate you would use this type of language.
And I am so very sorry you suffered a loss . Sending love.
@@bluesamg The fact that you could say such a thing says it all.
@@John-pt4xv Abortions and D&Cs are not the same thing. Abortion is when you choose to kill a baby. A D&C is when you remove a baby who already died.
@@bluesamg It's not the same thing! D&C is done when the baby is already dead. Abortion is when you choose to kill your baby because you don't feel like taking responsibility for your own actions.
It is so refreshing to hear a child say thank you, with enthusiasm as well. You have beautiful children, inside and out.
Those kids are just precious! What good parents
Thank you for sharing. More women need to be like you, it's hard to open and share the hurtful parts of life but sharing helps so many others. I know your video made me feel that I'm not alone in my experience! Bless you
The excitement and enthusiasm and gratefulness of your children was so amazing to watch! Great parenting right there !
I am SO sorry for your loss Jessa!😢. I am also so thankful for you sharing and proud of you for having the courage to do so! Love seeing a new side of you that we haven’t ever seen! Thank you for being so real, raw and vulnerable!! ❤️❤️
I’m so sorry you had to go through all this. Thank you for sharing your story with us. ❤
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Thanks for sharing something so vulnerable Jessa. I really appreciate the knowledge sharing so that I'm not extra shocked if I ever go through it.
Your kids are adorable! So well mannered. I love how they share and are so grateful for their gifts. Love your family Jessa. ❤️
I had a miscarriage at 11 weeks as well and then a D&C. 💗. It is truly heartbreaking 😢. I am glad you are still able to say God is good. He's also close to the brokenhearted, Amen ✝️.
Oh my, I paused the video and zoomed in to see Spurgeon's drawing and tears started flowing. That beautiful picture is one of the sweetest, heartwarming things I've ever seen. God bless him and your whole precious family. You are doing such a good job mamma.
Thank you for sharing your deepest feelings. I’m sure this will help so many others. I’m sorry for your loss.
Ben and Jessa,
My heart goes out to you for your loss. I’ll be praying for you.
Thank you for your transparency.
You just never know who you might be helping along the way. God bless you both, and your precious family.
Keep shining for Jesus 🌟
What a powerful video. So many of us can relate. Quite literally to every single word you said. Very brave of you to share. Thinking about you and Ben, the kids. Keeping you all I prayer.
You are an amazing mother thank you so much for sharing your story with us much love to you
So glad that you could get the care you needed without complication or delay. May your baby's memory always be for blessing.
My heart breaks for you. That same verse I quoted over and over during the final days and hours of my 10 year old sons life. I’m so glad you have Jesus. Y’all are in my prayers.
I’m so very sorry for the loss of your son! ❤
@@mmoore3743 thank you
I am soooooo sorry for your loss. This video made me sob and reminded me of my d&c after my third child. It is such a difficult experience and I while I struggled, I was amazed at the strength that the Lord gave me. I’m so glad you found comfort in Job’s story and hope that you are blessed with a sweet rainbow soon! You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers!! 💜💜
My heart breaks for you and your family... You are such a wonderful Mommy and Daddy... I'm happy that you told they little ones that way they had time to fall in love with their little sister and brother... I feel confident that you will lead them properly with their grief. Prayers and Love being sent your way!
i love that you and Ben both have faith in God and can share that together.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing in a real way the thoughts and feelings that you're going through, and the Lord's comfort and peace. 💕
I’m sorry for your loss and I appreciate you sharing this to others that have lost a baby during pregnancy. I hope your soul can heal asap because it’s a pain that is indescribable.
Ugh, this is so sad. I am sorry for your loss. That looks like a beautiful hymn, I will have to check it out. God bless you, Jessa and fam 🩷.
Jessa your story has brought me so much comfort! Thank you for sharing your story with all of us! Our family loves to follow your family. I started spotting with my first miscarriage on my birthday in 2020 (my 6th baby) and I had a second miscarriage in March of 2021 (twins; babies 7&8). With the second I hemorrhaged and had to have an emergency D&C. It's been two years on March 5th and I'm still grieving due to so much trauma. I just want to thank you for sharing the hymn that you guys sang, Day by Day. Thank you for reminding me that I didn't do anything to intentionally harm my babies because I've asked myself a thousand times what I should've done differently. Last, thank you for reminding me of Job. I've thought of him a lot throughout this but I appreciate the reminder again. A really cool song in relation to the scripture of Job's conversation with the Lord is Where Were You by Ghostship. A fellow brother in Christ shared it with me and it's a beautiful reminder of who is in control. I'll be praying for your family as you continue to walk this healing journey! We love you guys as brothers and sisters in Christ.
I’m so so sorry Jessa 💔 I really think you’ve made an extremely healing video that will help others more than you’ll ever know. 💙
Oh Jessa , I am so sorry to hear this!! This made me cry. My heart is hurting for you and your family!! Thank you for sharing your heart about this !! I am sure God will use this to help others in many ways!!! I am praying for all of you 🙏!! I lost my first baby, and like you said, I am so grateful to God and Jesus that we will get to meet and spend eternity getting to know our son one day!! It is so painful, but we have such hope in Christ !!!
Just popping in after having watched this video the day it was posted a while back… I want you to know I have been praying for you and your family. I really hope you continue videos! I loved seeing all your house plants and would love tips/tricks to care for them. ❤️
I’m so sorry for your loss. I know how you feel and you’re so brave to share your story. You’re a beautiful person.
Oh Jessa ❤️ You put this together soo beautifully 💕 I felt this while watching, as I've been there too. Your positive words are very inspiring. It's hard to see God's plan when we go through these things, but there's love and purpose in everything we go through ❤️ Hugs to you and your beautiful family 🤗 Thank you for sharing this 💕💗
A loss is never easy…..I’m so sorry you had to experience this especially over the holidays. Your openness and transparency was so heartfelt. I sat here and cried with you as I watched this. I have lost 4 babies and it’s not easy, but nothing you did caused it. Please don’t blame yourself. Heaven is going to be that much sweeter when we get to go hold our sweet babies we never got to me. Praying for you and your family during this time.
So VERY sorry for your loss... may God surround you with His LOVE, His PEACE, and healing. THANK YOU for sharing such a personal ordeal with us. Love you!!!
Thank you for being so willing to share your life with the world. I’m sorry for your loss and I want you to know that your mom recited the same scripture when they lost Jubilee and hearing you recite it impacts me today as it did back then. God is good, please continue to share your story ❤️
Yes I remember when that happened. I too think of that scripture because my dear Mama went to heaven 2 yrs ago and my heart is shattered 💔 🙏🏻✝️🕯️
Thank you so much for sharing this and for being so vulnerable.❤️ I am so, so sorry for your loss. It is one of the most painful things you can ever experience. I appreciate you talking so openly about your spiritual experiences through this.
I have always been encouraged by the verse in Scripture where David says (in regards to his first son with Bathseba) “he will not return to me but I will go to him.” I will be praying for you and your sweet family.
“I didn’t get to hold you in my arms, but I know The One who does” ❤
I am so sorry Jessa!! My daughter went through this in November and had all the same thoughts. I kept reassuring her that she could have done nothing more or less than what she had done. Bless you and your family!
You are sweet as can be. I hope things work out well. You make your family so happy. It takes a special lady to do that. ❤
I am so sorry for your loss, truly.
Thank you so much for sharing this with us in a very raw and real way, it is such an honour to be able to hear what you had to say during this time. I hope you are okay and healing alright. Also, the part where Ben brought in the doll house and Ivy was like "thank you Daddy, thank you" was honestly just the sweetest!
I was going thru a tough week last month and Job’s story also strengthened my faith during that time. Thru everything always praise the Lord! 🙌🏼 Blessed be the name of the Lord. Praying for strength and peace in your spirit ❤️
I’m so so sorry for your loss Jessa. I cried right along with you. Praying for your broken heart. Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your story.
Sorry for your loss and im glad you were able to get a procedure some women fight to have
So sorry you & your had to go through this sad experience. So grateful to hear you still know that God is good even when we are going through the valleys. I know I could not do life without Jesus by my side. Prayers for much comfort, peace & strength for all of you. Also sending big hugs. Remember He turns our ashes into beauty, our graves into gardens. He is just oh so faithful. 🙏🙌💜
I’ve been battling infertility for the last 5 years. I lost my first baby at 11 weeks last summer and it still hurts so bad. I’ve questioned whether I’d ever become a Mom but then I remember Gods promise. He promised I’d become a Mom & that’s what I’ve held on to. ❤
my brother had a friend that said she couldnt have kids because everytime she got pregnant she would lose the baby and i told her something that rose up in my spirit that God reminded me of is that my mom told me that when my sister and me get pregnant, since we have B negative blood, were gonna have to get a shot at i think 4 weeks. because if you dont get that shot, your body will fight off the baby and think its a virus. when i told her that i think she said i think i do have negative blood and said she needed to get checked by a doctor. i think two years after that she got pregnant and the baby stayed, shes a mom of two now . i dont talk to her anymore because my brother and her boy friend had a falling out
Oh i'm so very sorry to hear of your loss Jessa. Praying for you guys in this challenging season!
Ivy’s excitement over the dollhouse was precious!! How she keeps thanking Daddy🥹
SO sorry for y’all’s loss😢 praise Jesus we have the hope of eternity ❤
That was the picture of gratitude. She was so thankful
Right...so much gratitude!
Why did she get a medical intervention instead of letting it happen naturally as God intended??
@@DeFausti so is chemo for a cancer patient wrong since that’s medical intervention?
@@DeFausti because of her past hemorrhaging.
I’m so sorry for your loss Ben and Jessa. I’m praying for your family during this time of grieving. Lean into God even more!
Thank you for sharing. I'm praying for healing and peace in your family 💕
So sorry for yalls loss!🙏🏻 Y’all have a beautiful family!
YES! One day you will get to see and hold your sweet baby in your arms. That is one of the things that helped me so much many years ago when I had my miscarriage…. Was having the knowledge that one day I would be able to have this beautiful moment of meeting my precious little one and never be separated again. Lean into that knowledge and the comfort of our Heavenly Father for that peace that surpasses all understanding. Prayers for continued healing for you and your whole family as you walk through this season. 🙏 🕊 💔❤️🩹❤️
It’s difficult to see your pain, but your faith is very inspirational! My prayer is that you & your loved ones strengthen each other. Father God will bring you through. What courageous it took to tell this story. TYTY for sharing. ❤️❤️🙏❤️❤️
Thumbs up for the sweet video. 😢 For your loss. You have a beautiful family ❤
Jessa! Ur daughter is so adorable and well mannered and grateful, so cute!
I lost my first right after the first trimester as well. It was so heartbreaking. I’m so sorry for your pain. Thank you for your willingness to share, and help other women in doing so.
The Lord gave me five babies after that devastating loss. My oldest is also Named after Charles Spurgeon..
Riley Haddon. God bless you Jessa! You are in my prayers today.
Thank you for sharing such a vulnerable moment. Your strong faith is so inspiring. I've never gone through what you have, but I've been battling serious health problems for months. How you explained your suffering and tied it into faith really brought me to tears. I'm praying for you and your family 🙏❤️
Hey Jessa. I'm so very sorry for the loss of your baby. My heart is with you and your family during this time.
Jessa (and Ben), thank you so much for sharing such a private experience. I’ve had my own loss and it took quite some time to really heal from. My wish for you is that with each passing day, you feel more healed. I’m so sorry for your loss.
With love from Michigan,
Annie ✨
17:40 minutes. “I felt His presence, I felt His peace”, powerful words dear Jessa. I am so sorry for your loss, this made me cry. I had my two daughters when you had yours (same year) March 2019 and July 2021. Fern is born on my husband’s birthday and just 5 days after our youngest. Maybe a bit silly but I have felt a bond with you over that.❤Struggled to have children. I am so glad you were not alone. You keep saying God is good. What a wonderful testimony, especially because this is hard! You are helping so many by sharing. I am glad you have help and take good care of yourself, no self blame. You are so loved by your Heavenly Father!❤
but it wasn't a loss. who knows what would've actually happened if she didn't abort her baby?
The baby had already passed away what are you talking about
@@hannahhasan2752 that's not true, the baby was non viable but not dead...
I just melted when Ivy was so excited to get her presents. It is so nice to see a child actually feel greatfullness for the things they receive.♥️
Ivy is so cute!! I cried, because she genuinely was thankful 🥺❤️👐
Could little Ivy be any cuter I think not beautiful children
I agree, that was such a cute moment seeing the children so happy! ❤
I am so sorry sweetheart. May God comfort you all and give you peace. Take time for yourselves- as much as you need. Thanks for sharing and being so brave 😢🙏🙏❤️
@@irenelala I cried because they aborted it
Prayers for your family. What a beautiful Homecoming that miraculous gift had! Sorry for your loss.
Jessa, please continue with your videos. Don't let criticism of your brother, family or the procedure you had after the miscarriage stop you. Your family is unique and Charming. I know I look forward to your videos and thousands of others do too. Hope you are feeling better.
I do too I love the videos ❤
As someone who’s suffered from infertility for 20+ years, never able to have children, watching every single person around me receive blessing after blessing…. I have to say this is probably the most meaningful and moving sharing I’ve seen. My heart breaks for you and my prayers are with you. Thank you for sharing your heart and showing how real and raw this is.
I lost my baby in 1998. Never was able to conceive again. Recently diagnosed with Lupus & MS. I think both we're hiding in my body back in 1998! I know how you feel!
I understand and feel for you. I wanted children since i was a child and i never had them. Breaks my heart, so i follow many families here and on instagram. I am blessed with 5 siblings who allowed me to spend as much time as i wanted with all my nieces and nephews.
@@suziephillips2320 ❤️
God has a plan LMMFAO
I am so very sorry. 😢🙏💔
So sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family.🙏🏼❤️ My son and his wife are pregnant with their first child and are going through a rough time with the pregnancy. This video and your news is extremely heart breaking but your faith is strong and shines through even through this difficult time. It’s a reminder to me to be faithful and have trust in God even during uncertain times. Thanks for that reminder Jess.❤️❤️❤️
I'm so deeply sorry for you and your family's loss!! I pray for you and your family to get through this difficult time. Thank you for sharing because I know it helped comfort someone in some way. Thank you for sharing all that you do. I enjoyed your videos and seeing you and your beautiful family . ❤️🙏🏼
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I’m so sorry for your loss ty for sharing with others so they may hav help in healing.
So sorry for your loss, we’ve been there. Pastor Jack Hayford wrote a book, “I’ll Hold You in Heaven”. Helpful with this type of loss. Praying for you. 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
Jesse,I can't even imagine the pain you're going through. I said a prayer for you and your family. Hugs.
I'm so sorry for your loss Jessa! I'm sending love and praying for you and your family.
Jessa I pray you are healing from this . Thank you for being so vulnerable. My heart goes out to you. 😢
Also, I just want to add that your vulnerability is precious before the Lord and such a beautiful display of honesty! Additionally, Ivy's verbal expressions of gratitude to her Dad for her doll house touched my heart! Every inflection in her voice and every word of gratitude was precious!
I felt the same exact way. I rarely watch this channel but watching Jessa speak from her heart was precious ❤️ and God honoring.
@@naomi8097 its abortion what she did
Thank you so much for sharing so much of yourself with us today. I cried right along with you. I know how hard it is to lose a baby, as I lost one right about the 3 month mark. The sadness and sorrow somehow made me closer to God and it made me appreciate everything I did have so much more. All of the trials we experience in this life, make us into the person God wants us to be. To God, who numbers the hairs on our head, nothing is a surprise and all are designed to work for our good. You did nothing wrong. I admire your courage to share what you are feeling and going through. I’m sure countless women will be helped by your story and your tears. Take comfort in knowing your testimony will soothe the hearts of many. God bless you, Jessa. ❤️🙏❤️
May God's arms of love be felt by all.
Thank you for sharing. As you shared your thoughts and feelings, it took me back to the loss of my baby over 20 years ago. Every fiber in me screamed that same, "What if they are wrong." I knew they weren't and knew God was already holding my baby in heaven. Again, thank you for sharing. Our heartfelt love and prayers for you all for God's peace and comfort.
So sorry for your loss. Praying God’s comfort and Love over you all.
Oh Jessa, thank you for reminding us all that no matter what, God is good. I'm praying for you sweet mama. Keep shining for Jesus.
I’m so sorry Jess!! I feel your pain. I lost a baby girl at 16 weeks last year and ended up with a D&C after I delivered her. I wasn’t able to push out the placenta. I cried through so much of your video. I felt all of those same things… also the peace that comes from God alone. Thank you for sharing! It means a lot. 💕
So sorry for this loss. So glad you had access to the medical care you needed.. some no longer have this chance.
I'm so sorry!! Let your family go through the grief time, This happened to me too, your family will comfort you, I found it to be time to be closer together as a family too, but very emotional 😢 ❤️ yes, thank God for your family and our Comforter!!! It softens us for sure!! Praise God!! Thanks for sharing such a hard experience!!
Oh Jessa, I just cried with you. You showed your true self and feelings and I appreciate that. One thing that I always have to remind myself through struggles is that everything is God's timing, not ours. He needed another little angel.
I'm sorry for your loss. This book has been comforting to others who have lost children. "I'll Hold you in Heaven" by Jack Hayford.
I’m so sorry you went through this. I feel you ❤. Sometimes we don’t listen to our bodies but luckily you did. This is your time now sweetie. You are precious. 🤗
So sorry! Praying for you and your sweet family.
Thank you for sharing your story. I resonated so much with this because my first baby ended in miscarriage and proceeded with a D&C. So many of the thoughts you shared I also wrestled with during that time. The sense of loss, grief, sorrow was so strong. But by God’s grace, He brought me out of the grief and gave me joy in the sorrow. I now have two babies on earth and two in heaven. I can’t wait to step into glory to meet them one day.
I’m so sorry for your loss. We lost our first baby back in 2020 and the pain is still very real and present. I’m praying for y’all’s peace.
Jessa I’m so deeply sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing such a sad day in your life because know you have helped many🙏🙏
Hi Jessa! I’m soo sorry about the loss of your baby… I know I’m months late but I watched this today and your openness when you read the song really touched my heart. Thank you for sharing your journey and how you feel Gods faithfulness- in the hard times and the bad. God bless you and your beautiful family!
Prayers for you and your family Jessa! Losing a baby is extremely heartbreaking.. I lost my first baby at 9 weeks and it was also a missed miscarriage. I agree with what you said about how a missed miscarriage could feel worse. I was caught off guard because I had absolutely no symptoms and I actually went in for an early ultrasound a week and a half before and baby girls heartbeat was strong... And then I went in for my actual doctor's appointment and it had stopped. We found out she was a girl the day we found out she passed. After 3 long weeks my doctor ended up having to do a D&C as well. I can relate to every feeling you described. God is good though as you said and hopefully if you guys choose to you'll have your rainbow baby one day. So sorry you had to post an explanation for the D&C... People need to educate themselves on this because abortion and a D&C are not the same at all. In some cases it is medically needed just like you described for you. I'm grateful I was able to have the option because I had a miserable long 3 weeks and it was truly awful.. we named our baby and made a memory box for her which helped me through my recovery.
How did she get an abortion when the baby had already passed away? You must be trolling or just uneducated on the topic..
I am so sorry for your loss Jessa and Ben, praying for you all! You are a lovely little family
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How I feel for you, Jessa! I can really relate with what you said about Heaven getting sweeter as loved ones go on before us. I lost my mom last April after a short battle with cancer and then l had a missed miscarriage (my first and only pregnancy so far) at 16 weeks in June. Not a day goes by that I don't long to be in Heaven with them! Someday. I love your videos. I discovered your family's show on Discovery+ while I was so sick during my pregnancy and I watched it for hours on end. I love you all and feel like I know you personally. I occasionally drive through your area on my way to visit my family in Missouri and often wish that I could meet you. Please know that you are in my prayers!
Thank you for sharing your story. My heart breaks for you and your family. I admire your faith in God. You are an inspiration and such a strong woman & mother & wife.
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Jess , I’m praying for you right now. You are absolutely amazing. Even though you are going through a very painful difficult time, you end up encouraging me and reminding me that God is right there with me while I am grieving over a loss. Thank you. You are a Blessing to me. 🙏💕
This made me cry. You are so strong Jessa!! Don’t blame yourself. My first and third pregnancies were miscarriages and it was so crushing. I had healthy babies following each miscarriage and a healthy third baby with no miscarriages. It’s incredibly hard to understand miscarriage but I pray that you and Ben and your children will have peace about this. It is a bad dream but it gets easier with time. I don’t know if my two miscarriages were my first two kids trying to come to earth or if I lost two additional spirits but I know that we’ll understand all of this after this life. I’m so grateful I was able to go on to have three beautiful children. They are everything to me now as a single mom. Hugs and prayers!! ♥️
So sorry you and your family are walking through this. It's more common than anyone knows, but still such a shot to the heart. Take care of yourself.
Hey Jessa, I know you’ve been through a lot these past 3 months……But I want you to know you are greatly missed!! Please post a new video so we know how you’re doing! Worried about you & praying for you too! ❤
My thoughts and prayers go out to you, Ben and your beautiful family.
Jessa thank you for showing us your vulnerability. You were so honest and real. We really saw your true heart and it truly spoke to me. You are usually very strong and put together in front of the camera. Today we shared in your grief and your humanity. it is painful but also a beautiful part of life. Something strangers can share and bond over knowing we are not alone as we all know that feeling one way or another. I don't know you but I wept for you. your tears touched my heart as I struggle with my own difficulties in having the family that I dream of . I know we will both see happier times again
I’m so sorry, Jessa! I remember watching your mom in the first moments of learning of the loss of Jubilee and she also spoke aloud that same verse from Job. It had such an impact on me to see her immediate praise of God in the midst of a devastating situation. Seeing you echo her words a decade later brought me back to that moment. I am so grateful for your family being an example of living out your faith in both moments of sweetness and sorrow.
Yes!!!! I remember that exact moment as well! I have often thought of that many times over the years!
I remember that also! I was so impressed by her faith during the most vulnerable moment (on camera no less).
My deepest sympathy to you and family. You are a amazing woman. I hope you are blessed with another little one before to long . ❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻
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Soooo sorry sweetheart!! Love you guys and hate all the stuff you’ve been going through!!!
I am so sorry for your loss Jessa. Your faith is so strong, and I will keep you and your family in my thoughts.
Jessa, I lost a sweet boy to a stillbirth and another sweet boy to SIDS. I was given this poem when I lost my first one and it really helped me with the grieving process. I truly hope it brings you some peace as it did me. Keeping you all in my thoughts & prayers!
LAND OF HEAVEN
When God calls little children to dwell with him above
We mortals always question the wisdom of his love.
For no heartache compares with the death of one small child.
Who does so much to make this world seem wonderful and mild.
Perhaps God tires always calling the aged to his fold
and so he picks a rosebud before it can grow old.
God knows how much we need them and so he takes but few.
To make the Land of Heaven more beautiful to view.
Believing this is difficult, still somehow we must try.
The saddest word that mankind knows will always be good-bye.
And so when little ones depart, we who are left behind
must realize how much God loves little children, for
Angels are hard to find.
I’m so sorry for your loss. May God being comfort and give you the peace that passes all understanding.😢💔🤗🙏❤️
Praying for you and your beautiful family! Loss is so incredibly hard. You are so brave to post this and bring awareness about loss. It makes those of us who have been there feel seen, heard, and not so alone. My husband and I have suffered two losses ourselves and fought secondary infertility for many years. I thank god for my precious 6 year old daughter and this new blessing god has given us that is growing in my belly now. Praying that we get to see him grow up! Pregnancy after loss is filled with anxiety but so worth it. Praying god sees to continue to grow your family when and if you get ready to try again! 💕🙏
this woman murdered her own child. She has blood on her hands and on her way to hell for being assassin lady. Not a mom anymore at that point
@@thebibleisright100 If you are speaking about me. I MYSELF will admit that I almost died from an ectopic pregnancy rupturing my tubes. The pregnancy was not viable and did not have a heartbeat but the tissue was still growing to the point that it almost killed me. That would have left my daughter without her mom. I sympathize with Jessa for having to have a WANTED Pregnancy removed from our WOMBS! I have lost two very wanted children of my own. If you are speaking of Jessa... Her poor baby passed away in her womb three weeks before she had to have her precious little one removed from her own womb, due to it being life threatening. She made the only choice she could to continue safely mothering the 4 precious little ones she has at home. She is a woman of god, as am I. We all have to do things that haunt us at times. We survive the best we can and will lord willing get to see our children in heaven one day. I pray for you too. And your insensitivity to mothers of loss!