Dominatrix Discusses Top Fetishes, Clients And Tools Of Trade | Extraordinary Lives | @LADbible
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- Опубликовано: 9 май 2024
- $10,000 a day dominatrix Eva Oh talks us through her life as a high-end dominatrix.
Eva Oh describes her journey - from working in brothels as a masseuse to escort work and finally the world of domination. We’ll hear about the most popular kinks requested by her clients, the situations thatve made her feel unsafe and what kind of people can afford her extreme price point.
This is an episode of Extraordinary Lives, where we speak to people with a unique life story to tell. From a North Korea escapee to an undercover cop, a Cold War spy to a shipwreck survivor. Hosted by LADbible's Ben-Powell Jones, this series is a window into remarkable experiences - with stories that paint a picture of extraordinary lives.
Thanks to Eva for taking part!
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Host: Ben Powell-Jones, Twitter: @BenPowellJones
CHAPTERS
00:00 - 00:02:59 - Introduction
00:02:59 - 00:08:26 - Entering The Sex Industry
00:08:26 - 00:16:35 - What It Takes To Be A Dominatrix
00:16:35 - 00:18:16 - Hard Costs
00:18:16 - 00:28:32 - Telling Parents
00:28:32 - 00:34:01 - Top Fetishes
00:34:01 - 00:39:35 - Types Of Client
00:39:35 - 01:07:40 - Personal Relationships
01:07:40 - 01:11:45 - Slaves
01:11:45 - 01:13:50 - Life Lesson
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Hi, im confused as to why yr channel registed as LA BIBLE but the ppl here seem to be from sodom& gomoeeah.. & we do know what happened sfter tht? Pls explain how these " sharings" will serve go do Gid's will on Earth?
💰 will make you try anything, let’s be honest.🤷🏽♀️😝
I wonder if Guantanamo prisoners get off on the domination too.😮
I don’t think 27 is late, especially in her field in the industry. At 27 she understands boundaries, which is essential, while being beautiful and young
100%, and her powerful response to say people goes to death without discovering themselves
Yes. It's just unusual because most women in Western countries get involved in the sex industry are between 18 and 22. My guess is that many times they don't think about the negative consequences and they're easier to manipulate by predatory people in the business. I think it's better to be a little older where you can better understand boundaries and deal with any negative consequences.
100% agree! I think most people get in too young when they don’t know how to speak up for themselves or even know their boundaries, wants, needs, yet
She’s 27? Woah. She looks and seems way older.
@mrs.w8193 She started in the business at 27. She is no longer 27 and did not claim to currently be 27.
Bruh, the person who recruits guests/ speakers for this channel needs a huge pay bump. The range is diabolical. From spys , to gangsters, to soldiers to a dominatrix. Epic
You know them clear people is intrigued with all kinds of sexual acts! Filthy sexual acts, and these third word slots whonhas nothing more to offer knows they want to get the wealth of the clear people so they offer them what they lack in the most. This world is simply going to hell fast! The Roman's way of living read the Bible it explains everything! Sodom and Gomorrah pure filth!
i did! i was going to invest my profits in a black unicorn, said to be the best race horse of our generation. would of retired on the breeding fees alone and documentaries like this ruin it for everybody....thanks
I love it because I never know who they’ll have on next and it’s always such an amazing range of different stories from great to horrible and no matter the experience I feel like I always take some knowledge from it.
@@kyliemaree8213 exactly. Way better than mainstream media in my opinion
Diverse not "diabolical".. 😂
I really hope she will write a book one day. She is sharp yet cautious, highly sensitive to detail and every sentence she speaks is so eloquently put.
id rather hear more about her childhood life. that would unlock the key to why dshe does these sick things.
I don’t think it is sick or sickening. It’s a consenting adult human connection.
Like a therapy session. It’s a lifestyle.( For most New Yorkers and Californians anyway 😂)
If it is not for you walk away. If it is, find out why if you are interested.
Above all those be safe, know yourself. 😅
I just love her transparency. She’s real, unlike most people that fall into the mundane, denial, unrealistic about the norm of human behavior.
I believe it's narrow-minded to label and condemn whatever we don't comprehend and feels different from us. Obviously she has a powerful side that helped her go against the grain and follow her true yearning. She is happy, makes other people happy, while making money and staying true to her self. That looks like success to me.
There is a fantastic book by another dominatrix.Unbound by Kasia Urbaniak. Kasia is also daoist nun and the book is more focused on the psychological and philosophical sides, with golden insights on power dynamics. One of the best books i ever listened to. Highly recommended the audible version.
Her response to the AGE thing is so important for people to understand. For every industry and every aspect of life. We should be able to choose our path in every single stage of life.
Right? Like why do people think 27 is old? What’s the rush for really?
I agree, except with younger undeveloped minds pursuing potentially life changing adult oriented fields.
Wayyyyy better to be 27 than 12. Yup
@@lilykangethe8911 a bat for the intimitated male to bash with put her in her place...lol , nope. persoally i always thought a dom woman would be MATURE grey at the temples aristocratic worldly
The men prefer women younger so they can manipulate, brainwash and abuse them. They are exposing their pedo brains.
40 minutes in when she’s talking about her ex partners responses…”how could you choose to do that when you are so old” and she laughs and laughs 🤣 totally disregarding the archaic male response of targeting a women’s age, assuming it will have a devastating effect on her (us)….Absolute legend ❤
I don’t think that single men of any age would pass up the opportunity to have sex with her. I’m a man and her age is irrelevant. She has something amazing and idk what it is.
you go, girl....grl power....lol
What do you consider old?
She’s a total exception to the rule though, which women tend to latch onto as an example of the rule. Funny stuff!
What do you consider an old age? Lol.
I get the impression that she could literally do anything or be anything she wanted and just be at the absolute zenith of that field.
Jim Morrison , Jimmy Hendrix and Janis Joplin, in music.
@@null_geodesic She's classy, refined, emotionally aware, articulate, and intelligent - her other career pursuit was LAW. She's not a conman. She is 100% justified in being confident though. Rightfully so, she has a lot to be confident about.
@@null_geodesic I get the impression that you literally would say or do anything to tear this woman down. It's embarrassing, and thinly veiled misogyny that anyone can see through, that I'm not prepared to give you a further platform on which to broadcast. So we're stopping this here. Real women support women! Real men support women.
@@Hoptailful You're coping. Every dominatrix loves submitting to a man, you can go ask them, they dream about it
@@Hoptailful Yet she's sleeping with married men. Classy.
She is well educated, especially in speaking. I hear no ‘um’s’, or ‘er’s’, no ‘like’ every other word.
Soft spoken. And thoughtful concerning her business.
An interesting guest.
What a beautiful, respectful conversation. Very telling that the interviewer led with curiosity and not a need to be an "alpha" and '"destroy" her "masculine energy." So different from many conversations around sex that we see on social media.
The interviewer was really dull and unresearched. Why on earth are you praising a man for not being abusive to his guest?
@@Bookookywell, of course he still had a lot to learn about the subject. And so did we. That was the whole point of the interview.
@@Bookooky I did not get 'praise' from OP.
@@BookookyThink about it….the whole point is for him to approach this topic unresearched, so that he could learn along with the rest of us--much more organic that way.
If he weren’t good at this, he wouldn’t ask good questions.
She is incredibly articulate. I loved listening to her.
I see you love bdsm lifestyle it very lovely lifestyle
As for me I don’t fancy BDSM 😂😂, but it’s quite an interesting story of hers 🫢@@tsaijiegrace9184
@@tsaijiegrace9184😂🤡
@@tsaijiegrace9184😂😂😂
I love Femdom. My place would be to serve mistress.
She is a fascinating story teller I could listen to her all day! She is so classy and refined.
I love classy women and she is very well spoken and classy
She is not classy
No she's not. That's an act
Nothing says classy like pissing and shitting on someone
@@ivanarajic9822 Nobody is born classy. It's a trained and taught form of thinking, behaviour and expression.
One of the best interviews I've ever listened to. And yes, she does know a lot. And yes I'm sitting here thinking, "I want to be like her!". The strength and ease is very attractive.
I do want to be like her!
I’ve thought on doing this
I disagree. Uncomfortable interview because interviewer was not at all skilled. Asked many dumb questions.
I work on the other side of sex: as a physio on all kinds of physical ailments. How sex 'works' is also still mostly taboo. The stereotype of sex workers is young, naive and exploited.
I would love to be as sophisticated as her.
Ur disgusting
ahaha, count me too!
Ava is a queen. Articulate, empathic, poised and the clarity in her voice is incredibly alluring and soothing.
*Eva
Sounds like the woman God warns smart men to avoid 😂
I like how respectful the interviewer is and all the good questions
Same.
Respectful? He’s totally into her. He even looks nervous at times. He hesitates in his questions a lot.
@@picilocarnal I totally agree with you. He is very uncomfortable in his questioning ... very repressed and so British!
@@picilocarnal Exactly. He's not really that objective. He just hides it better.
He's like this with everyone - it's not about attraction for him, it's just his natural demeanor. He's respectful in his curiosity - he's trying very hard to make sure he doesn't say the wrong thing or anything offensive, and that can be difficult when you don't know everything about the industry.@@picilocarnal
Eva is so intelligent and comes across as so comfortable in her own body and mind ..wonderful voice too .I think her humour helps her too .
I officially LOVE her! The transparency, her demeanor her intelligence
Psychopaths are indeed very charming and can fool you easily.
*Demeanor
@@minoozolala What's wrong with you
What a voice!
@@giltsholder If you call recognizing psychopaths "something wrong with you", ok. You should learn to too. It will save you a lot of grief.
It's interesting, how many people think that confidence is about ignoring reality and believe you are always some sort of superior perfect being. While in reality what you percieve as a confidence is basically accepting that anything might go sideways anytime, doing what is in your control to prevent it and not stressing out about things that are out of your control.
Confidence means feeling superior
Confidence is trusting in God yourself or what you do. It’s different than arrogance. Confidence cam go together with being humble.
I know Eva and honestly she is one of the kindest, most humble,smartest, weirdest people I know. She has a great laugh that tells you that she enjoys life. She is so confident , emotionally intelligent and laid back. But also disciplined and has a great structure in chaos. I am so happy for her that she is getting the attention she deserves. ❤
Did she pee on you?
She is very facinating and different. It’s amazing to me that certain people can have such a diverse outlook on life….
In my opinion her conversation is on a level 10 here and he’s at about a 4 😂 he’s trying to keep up but seems out of his league.
nonsense..her laugh is contrived and practiced...her appeal is her masculinity....there is nothing feminine about her....its not about power its about shame....and her talent is being able to be around unattractive weak men because she is getting paid for it
@@srm0520 I think he is really good. He asked a lot of detailed questions about things people probably would be curious about, when they have no idea about her field of work.
From the interviews I’ve seen, many women (especially) that work within the sex industry are incredibly smart, aware, intellectual, open, strong, etc and very business minded. Also with a sense of honesty and compassion for sex and the human relationship with it. Great interviewee that certainly understands her responsibility in her role as a dominatrix. I think our general notion of Domination can be very base and I don’t think it is really that at all.
Porn, especially cheaply produced, it's at fault for so MUUUUUCH of the miscommunication & misunderstanding surrounding s3x and s3xuality. Honestly, it's such a poor representation of what really EXISTS and what possibilities CAN exist between people. Porn is the junk food. She's talking about home-cooked meals.
@@kyssedbyfyre915 I think the amount of porn, the way it’s created, how it’s portrayed, possibly even how women and men accept what they do in scenes definitely has had affect on sex for both sexes. It’s an interesting subject overall, from my own personal experiences I’ve had women push sex in a certain way didn’t feel a need for but I can admit that I’ve done the same and I probably say from my point of view Porn did play a part and i had to look at that and realise the deeper experiences you can have is certainly better for the soul and life in general. More fun most of the time too.
I wish the interviewer would ask her if she uses drugs or alcohol to do what she does. I heard drugs are prevalent among sex workers and porn actresses.
@@dominiclawson4058 I'll bet the numbers of women who "tried" an act they didn't particularly WANT to try are OUTRAGEOUS!
I have to stress that there is a MARKED difference between healthy consensual adult exploratory experiences. I firmly believe that sometimes getting out of your supposed comfort zone WITH A HIGHLY TRUSTED LOVER & tons of communication is just fine... Encouraged really!
BUT lines are crossed for various reasons sometimes... people can be simply triggered for example-a response completely unbeknownst and unforeseeable to them until it occurs.
In any event, consent is retractable at ANY time. And at NO POINT should a person feel forced to comply with ANY act that makes them feel less than wonderful 🫶❤️
lol..nonsense....you sound like a child....she at best is a weak fraud
This was a very respectful and highly educational interview. I feel like you gave her grace, autonomy and didn't make her feel like she should be ashamed or uncomfortable and it also gave me as the viewer a chance to address some of the questions I have had about this, actually with the way you were asking , it gave me an inside of what I really wanted to know. I wanted to know about the psychological and physical takeaway of the profession. Do I feel like in the states we can get to a point where we have interviews like this? I'm not sure 😂 but it definitely shows response of keeping it respectful, and empathetic for the person who is giving this information, this was a good and productive respectful interview , I definitely learned a lot.
Great interview. She is grace and class all wrapped up in one. Her voice is intriguing, very diffrent, and sophisticated. Eva is a beautiful lady and it would be great if she considered about being a talk radio host on NPR, National Public Radio. Her voice is very relaxing and calm and she has a talent in communicating with others easily in an open manner without appearing threatening. She is very professional in her demeanor and the way she presents herself.
I couldn't agree more!
She wouldn’t make any money working for NPR! 😂😂
Since when does grace and class become a part of prostitution. Something is seriously wrong with women today. I've never seen a classy prostitute
@@carlalandrau6033you mean you haven't visited one 😂😂😂😂
@footlova😂😭
She's spot on about Fifty Shades - it's written like a script for a movie. No more real than Pretty Woman is about prostitution.
I agree. I know a significant amount of DV counsellors and support workers. They call the relationship in that book, abuse. In BDSM, there is supposed to be mutual respect, outside the role playing. And the role playing is consensual. And consent can only be given if fully informed and understood. The ill treatment and manipulation without understood boundaries is horrible. So disrespectful. I think it's sad that a lot of women (and it was mostly women who enjoyed the book and movie) feel so insecure in their sexuality, they bought that titillating, abusive story as if it was real. The movie 9 and 1/2 Weeks was closer to reality, although again, an abusive, manipulative, non-consensual relationship. I had a similar, occasional-relationship as was portrayed in 9 and 1/2 Weeks, but not as intense as, or manipulative like that. He really got off on my pleasure. And it was fun. Ultimately he made me feel good about myself. Not abused. And I have been victim of DV, and have helped friends escape DV, more than once in my life. So I know the difference. 50 shades was a farce and could have led vulnerable people , who wanted to expand their sexuality, into abusive relationships.
@@sallybalkin8507 well said. amen to that
@@sallybalkin8507 you’re completely wrong about the movie nine and a half weeks. The entire relationship between the two people was explicitly consensual, until till he attempted to coerce her into having a threesome with a prostitute. For this, she left him and ended the relationship. It portrayed her as the strong one, and him as the weak and needy one.
I found it rather like a hallucination of a seriously undefucked British housewife. Stopped at about page 50.
@@sallybalkin8507That’s the problem with “vanilla” interpretations of this sort of thing cuz they are attempting to understand from outside the experience and have no idea of context, nuance, etc.
What they assume is happening is very superficial, but they don’t really understand the deeper meanings and concepts that exist.
These interviews are always extremely fascinating. Loved this one❤
the more i find out about being a great dominatrix the more i realise intuition and intimacy /empathy play a huge role and intelligence
fascinating talk. I love that her takeaway is 'I know nothing so i might as well have fun' so humble, but she has such a strong presence at the same time.
This is fantastic and fascinating!
I myself am a mental health specialist and a previous dominatrix. I find this combination to be extremely helpful in being able to understand someone on a deeper level.
My favorite thing was to understand WHY someone liked what they liked, or where is started. Human behavior is remarkable and it's odd how so few people actually take the time to understand themselves.
If you ask 100 people, "what do you enjoy sensually and sexually" many people have no idea how to answer.
Being a Dom and in the mental health field was a profoundly helpful combination to help people dive deeper, get their real needs met and learn about their own mind more.
Such a unique experience in life!
Thank you for making this video ❤
What would you suggest to do to actually find out what you like sexually? I am almost 30, very open minded towards sexuality itself in other humans but I have NO IDEA what my desires are. It's quite frustrating. My psyche and physical responses are just stupid. All these pop culture wisdoms about sexuality are not really helpful. What can I do?
@@biancamascarenhas5235 hey thank you so much for that. It didn't really answer my question though... Like I know of the "fetishes" I like and I try to talk about it with my boyfriend. He's on board with all of it but I'm still shy talking about it. Hopefully, that'll get better.
My real issue is, I don't know what feels good. I know I should try out different techniques but if I do that it mostly doesn't feel amazing so that I lose interest very quickly and just stop completely. I also cannot help my boyfriend find the right technique or spot because I don't really know it myself. I use vibrators, mostly womanizers. Sometimes, I can just use my hands. But I never get this WOW feeling people talk about. Sometimes it feels like I am just completely numbed compared to other people. I have no trauma. I don't really have much shame around sexuality. It's just my body doesn't really respond to normal sexual touched except for vibrators.
I kinda got deep reading into that, and I quickly changed my outlook . Wise words 👌
But surely as a mental health specialist you shouldn’t be pushing these guys into doing things that have been from unhealthy patterns or an unhappiness in their lives that they turn to this stuff without them knowing it?
@Scott-rn6xn Based on my response, where did you get the impression that I would be pushing or forcing anyone to do anything? That is definitely not what I said or implied at all.
I said having the knowledge in both of these areas can be very helpful for working with someone who wants to dive deep and understand themselves, their behaviors and their backgrounds, as well as their desires and passions, on a different and deeper level.
It was adorable how he was so surprised and interested in so many things, and how carefully tried questions like when you're amazed discovering something so new and different!! Beautiful interaction and outstanding interview!
Adorable? I’d say amateurish.🤷🏽♀️
@@picilocarnal yeah kinda normie questions all along
Outstanding is a biiiig stretch. Let's not reward people for showing up to class. Please
@@MissOJAY just because you pervs know all about this, doesn't mean other people can't take time to process and ask their questions :) Especially when you interview someone who is not really opened because it can affect their income.
L O L I felt uncomfortable for him, meaning he clearly wasn’t. 😂😂
As someone who worked for many years as a dominatrix in NYC; she is a wonderful representative of the better side of it.
The image in many people's minds is one of cartoonish, unclean environments; and while that does exist, it's
absolutely the contrary if one does it on their own terms.
Could you please say a few words about the worse side? I'd like to hear about both. 🙏
As a boy I asked my dad why people would want to be bound or dominated, and he said "because they don't want to bear the responsibility for their own pleasure.".
Well, that is one aspect of it for sure, but there are so many different types and fetishes that are brought about for so many reasons that it's a bit more complex in most cases.@@placebomandingo2095
@@placebomandingo2095😮
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Wow, did I enjoy this interview. I enjoyed how respectful the interviewer was and still asked very personal questions in a kind of not intrusive way? When Eva Oh muses about why women write to her asking about the career and what reasons people might have for going this path - she mentions the strength. That's spot on. To feel this powerful. This in control. To be trusted that much.
I used to be in clubs as a 19-22 y/o know-nothing person 'playing' a dominatrix. But it DID give me true pleasure and I enjoyed every second of it, even if I was pretty naive and did not know a lot about what I was doing. I didn't do anything that would potentially be dangerous. But I did have a problem with separating myself from this. I lived a fantasy. I was a different person outside of the club. I could not take this strength with me. I probably had it in me, but was so used to my everyday much more introverted role, that I shyed away from it. I sometimes cringe when I think back about how little i did know. But I know that my feelings were real. This interview brought back all these memories.
What I also find fascinating: Like many people from that scene, I am deeply pacifistic. I dislike all kinds of violence - even loud voices. But it's entirely different if its about the dynamic and everything happens with consent.
What a Fantastic, REAL dialogue! Thank you both for opening up the conversation. I’ve been on a similar timeline - Catholic, university, non-profit, corporate background, got into the lifestyle 12 years ago and then the industry 8 years ago. I’ve had a lot to reconcile, still not out to everybody. But what can I say, you can’t shake what is in you, and, like you, Eva, the curiosity, and the satisfaction derived from these relationship dynamics continues to fuel and energize my life. Thank you!❤️🥰🙏🏼
What an incredible woman and a very respectful interviewer. Few and far between in these spaces. Really appreciates this interview! I hope she achieves everything she wants to and more.
People always talk about the quality of the guests on this channel, and I agree that they're great, but I want to take a moment to say how great the interviewer is. Always has good questions and shows a high level of understanding and empathy for the people he's conversing with.
What an amazing, fascinating, informative interview!! Wow!! I was totally blown away by the entire interview
One of the MOST interesting person i have listened to. I was glued to the screen. I would love to hear her longer.
Great interview. But also great interviewer, I liked that he was open to admitting he didn't know these things, but also interested and non judgmental. Too many interviewers on RUclips make the interviews about themselves, it's good to see someone interviewing in the old school style of letting the person being interviewed lead the conversation. Also the last few minutes when she flustered Ben just a little but seem genuinely interested in him and what he had to say made me understand why people are happy to pay for her services.
Everything about this interview is incredibly good; from the guest to the questions to her answers. Love such insights into the human nature.
mad props to the interviewer , he asked all the right questions
Excellent interview- this lady has an incredible mind and is very self aware
Interviewer is also excellent
Very interesting
This interview was well done and informative, she is well spoken and was insightful. enjoyed.
She is well spoken!' Like that's a compliment. 'She speaks so well' is not a compliment, okay? 'She speaks so well' is some shit you say about retarded people that can talk. What do you mean she speaks so well? She is an educated woman! How did you expect her to sound?
Excellent interview. Thank you for your post. 😊
Fantastic Woman. She might just be one of the most self aware & fullfiled interviews ive come across.
Thank you for sharing her story. And thank you for being very respectful and honest with your questions you had for her.
I knew about foot fetishes, but it was surprising to me to find out that broken/injured feet and ankles is popular. I discovered this by accident when I posted pictures of my broken foot and chipped ankle online in 2021! OMG...there was a frenzy. What bothered me was the whole idea of men liking a wounded, injured woman.
that is so sickkkkkkkk
Yeah for sure.. Like wtf
You never heard of Chinese foot binding? A century ago it was quite common.
I know of it, but thought it was considered a beauty thing…for some odd reason.@@MrHarumakiSensei
That's the whole point of uncomfortable high heeled shoes with painfully thin straps cutting into toes making women limp around like a wounded fawn
Beautiful talk. And one can obviously see that what she radiates out is pure, curious, intimate and kindness. She seems like a great person. And i’m happy to see that you guys chose her to have this talk with.
I love it!!!! Thank you for interviewing such a unique soul she was amazing and very insightful. You both are awesome I had to keep coming back throughout the day I couldn’t help but watch the entire show ❤️🔥🫶🏼
I admire her mother for being able to deal with it all. I can imagine my daughter telling me something like this. You love your child, you want the best for her. You need to love her and respect her. This woman is very intelligent and sane. She knows where she is and what she wants.
What a beautiful attitude, enjoy life, enjoy all that you can. Thank you to the both of you for sharing.
Very eloquently spoken on a subject that can be delicate to approach. Thank you for giving insight into this incredibly interesting subject. Well done!
Ben you did an fantastic job as the interviewer. Your active listening skills are top tier!!!
A quoteable by Eve "live quietly but be entertained in my every day"
"I want to gently exist. And yet be entertained" 😎✌️
What's an eloquent interview, I didn't want it to end. I just can't describe how I feel after watching that, honestly I've never felt this way after watching anything! The only word I can come up with is "enriched" I feel enriched!
Same! Interested to listen to her podcasts now. I love listening and interacting with intelligent and pisitive, also confident and with a scent of power, but not in a bullying way, people. And she is definitely a great representation of all of the above and more! So glad I accidentally came across this video! Very therapeutic, intriguing, and entertaining conversation. Enjoyed both of their vibes! Bravo 👏
A lot of BDSM practitioners see 50 shades as an abusive relationship. Not a realistic portrayal of a mutually beneficial relationship. All the DV counsellors and support workers that I know, and that's many, agree. Abuse and BDSM are not the same thing.
No, 50 shades was demonstration in poor communication and lack of consent. Very abusive.
All of it it's sick. It's a sick person who wants to be abused by another. It's a sick person who want abuse someone to get paid.
@@carlalandrau6033 no its not.
@@JustMe-ub9yoagreed😊
@@tookyamanz it is a sickness my dear and a sign of self-hate. Who is else with pay someone to degrade them and beat them. There's no fun in that love unless there's something wrong with you mentally. You deserve love and tenderness. If you want to embarrass yourself or release some stress go to the gym
A truly great interview, one of the best. 👍👍👍 Two wonderful people.
this interview gave me clarity about what i want in my next career. i'm working on connecting with my True self and creating a life that supports it, but i have not considered how authentic i want people to be with me at work (ie: social worker, therapist etc.). i need to journal about this.
The way she went “say fetishes” just summed up the whole interview 🤣
What a fascinating lady with the understanding in complexities of the mind ! Refreshing 💯
Her perspective is so fantastic. Thank you for the interview
I don’t know how this ended up on my feed but I ended up hanging onto her every word! She is brilliant and definitely a boss!
Fascinating. Thank you for an articulate and insightful series of reflections on life.
Great interview. I feel like the questions came across from a genuine curiosity and non-judgemental perspective which was nice to experience from the viewers perspective.
-I also think it teaches awareness about non-judgement in general, she basically said thats what the main focus of her job is... Lol unless you want that 😂.
I love the beautiful honesty of this woman's story. Thank you for sharing
she not only looks good, she sound good and she is truthful and totally open and honest of what she do! you just cant stop listening and looking at her! fantastic interview
What a truly exceptional mind. Eva is something else. Thank you for this insightful, wonderful interview.
"Gently exist and yet be entertained" really resonates with me.
Exceptional Interview, thanks
that is a facade, she has no friends. she doesnt trust people. she feels used and manipulated. she is just using semantics to avoid emotion and feelings.
Emotions and feelings are overrated.
This was such an interesting interview. Professionally done and Eva is an incredible woman who knows herself so well and able to articulate this world to us. So well done!
Eva is a woman who lets people to owe on her… gosh… also she gets exchanged some arse content with a numerous people .. just idea of having sec with someone who was covered in someone’s shit … that is gross … disgusting
What an inspirational person, amazing!! she figured life out, literally. Follow your joy, don't care too much about what others think of you, stay true to yourself, be comfortable in the unknown because you never know. wow
also loved the questions very much
As a former Pro Domme I found Eva Oh intelligent, well rounded and very articulate.
Dommes meet some very interesting people from around the world. I too watched 50 Shades of Grey and was not as annoyed by it as many of my friends. At least they talked about safe words and concentuality. The Sinner was a terrific series and I await more of them.
She is articulate!' Like that's a compliment. 'She speaks so well' is not a compliment, okay? 'She speaks so well' is some shit you say about retarded people that can talk. What do you mean she speaks so well? She is an educated woman! How did you expect her to sound?
Thank you both for this great interview.
If she is this good as a dominatrix, I hate to think what she would be like as a lawyer!! I think the whole room shuttered....lol.
I have so much respect for her integrity not letting her research be used in a way she felt was inappropriate just for money.
I see her more as a counselor, therapist.
The last questions she posed where really helpful for self reflection in anything we undertake.
I wish he would have asked more about her experiences when she is asked to sub.
Extremly interesting personality. Captivating life story, and a pleasure to witness her analysis, which is psychologically quite meticulate. A pleasure to be surprised with this level of discourse in the nowadays world ( u know….)
Admirable self respect, seldom achieved by people with “ normalised, respectable, socially apprised careers “.
Bravo… and thank you^^
Loved the talk, she's fascinating and real. You should get Adreena Angela next❤
she's got such a calming voice
this was super interesting! my favourite kind of "podcast"
There's nothing more real, than looking in the eyes of someone who is vulnerable, she's lucky, to get to witness that on a daily basis.
Thanks for this most informative interview 😊❤Cheers
I loved this interview❤ fell in love with her too! Also you’re a great interviewer I'm gonna keep watching your content!
You fell in love with a prostitute 😮
This woman has to be the most intelligent person I've ever seen or heard. And the best part is that she clearly isn't trying to sound intelligent, she just IS.
Not only her articulate way of explaining and her introspective were interesting. The way you led the interview and the questions you made...this was super interesting! Thank you! Greetings from Argentina
Loved the interview so interesting.
Thank you for such an insightful look in to the psychology of this subject. I think it's often overlooked.
This was interesting, refreshing and a good watch. Sounds like 2 ppl have a very exploratorative conversation.
"Exploratorative."
amazing ! great interview
Wow,, Great interview 👍 Thank you 👍👍
I've never seen this channel. I am blown away by the man. His dignity. And Eva is fascinating. I love how she talks. So elegant. A totally unique and intriguing yet "accessible" person. This was so unique. What a great interview. I honestly can't praise it enough. None of that male silliness and trying to bring things to sexual. Just a truly depthful human exchange. Wow. Her legs and arches are so balletic and muscularly beautiful. To the very last second of the video it was chocked with information and so interesting. I'm amazed. He never stops the questions and ends up getting new layers of answers. Amazing.
It’s like you’ve never seen a good interview before. Why would you describe him as having dignity and her being a curiosity? Is it a demeaning thing to for him to even talk to a sex worker? Why does the interviewer have “dignity” in your mind? Do you mean he is respectful of the dignity of a sex worker? I’m so confused. But it seems a little bit like you are applauding him for not being a disrespectful or incompetent interviewer and you are “blown away by the man.” He isn’t doing anything that incredible I would say being able to ask questions in a respectful manner is about the bare minimum. In fact a lot of the questions he asks are showcasing how very little he knows and that’s fine. I just don’t get your comment and it rubs me the wrong way.
I had so many things I wanted to say ... but, most people here said them, and with eloquence ... And YOU, (@brendadufaur37) You got my feelings about her so well. She was special. She 'feels' ... She laughed so many times. She is so real. She'd be easy to fall in love with. For me, communication is #1 ... and she is great at it, and so introspective. She was a pleasure.
Doing really well is not always represented by money , but is a manifestation of the service . People need.
The interviewer does an incredible job! He is a great listener, considered, and asks insightful questions.
Woooow!! Thank you so very much!!!! I would slow down the speed of the interview just to make it longer to enjoy!
Thank you for inspiration for follow ones joy!!!❤❤❤❤
This woman is the real deal. She lives the lifestyle and her work pleasures her and her subs.
I felt she was not so honest about how and why she got into the industry , who at 27yrs old and going to an interview for domination she wouldn't know what it was classed as , and she makes it sound like she just woke up one day and decided to do this work having been in a mainstream career until then ..
She’s wonderful, beautiful, educated, soft spoken and thoughtful plus kind well done to her and to you for bringing her ❤️
I'm part Korean on my mum's side and to me her voice is unusually very deep yet subtle. It maybe the Australian influence as I'm also part Aussie and was born here. She speaks very much like my older sister who was born in Korea and travelled a bit before my mum and dad settled here.
She's American.
@@SirenaSpadess she? She clearly said she was born and brought up in SE Asia but they moved / travelled a lot. She sounds a lot to me like someone who went to an international school in Hong Kong, Malaysia or Singapore where you end up with this hard to pin down 'transatlantic' accent.
She’s also, (as she effectively told us herself she needs to be), an arch manipulator. So she projects exactly the image that you have perceived, viz educated, thoughtful, kind. She may very well of course be all of those things, I’m not saying this pejoratively, I think she’s fantastic! What a woman! But she had the interviewer eating out of her hand didn’t she! He appeared awe struck most of the time. With her insight and abilities to understand the human psyche she would make an excellent psychotherapist if she ever decided on a career change, as she would experience the same truthfulness and rawness from clients that she described to us.
@@moyrahoodShe will die poor and alone when no one wants her anymore. End of story.
wow she is very well spoken , certainly keeping me so interested. Her explanation why does this is so interesting. ty for sharing.
Great interview thank you.
She’s an inspiration. The way she carries herself. She speaks with so much grace. I think you can learn so much from her beyond what she does for a living.
Really??
Amazing woman! There is so much to learn from her. Very good conversation. Loved it.
Thank you for telling us your story weldone babe sending you massive love ❤❤❤
"I enjoy feeling- sick! I enjoy feeling... I enjoy feeling alive!"
I enjoy having listened to you.
The dynamics in The Sinner were intriguing.
seems like a bright woman. she is definitely on point with the understanding that most people dont think, they feel and that is all they know. they never go past the feeling to understanding
Very interesting interview - Well done sir.
Whoa this was a rabbit hole that was such a treat to embark on.
Thanks for sharing Eva Oh. I love how she shows that it is possible to work in the sex industry and love it! The general perceptions usually only emphasise the dark part of the industry. Not often do you see the other side, where embracing your femininety can be empowering. It is the essence of womanhood and can be a beautiful thing.
I've known a few professional doms. Cis and trans women. I've found a sense of humour and a noticeable kind streak in all of them. I tried it, but I just couldn't do it. It's too removed from my personality. But I know for many it's very cathartic. I was ok at it, when I did phone sex, but to be honest, I found it humourous, and that's soley because I'm so uncomfortable power playing. So I am just not right for the job of dominatrix, where you deal with people who deliberately put themselves in very vulnerable positions, physically and emotionally. I was happier doing pretty vanilla stuff in sex work. Occasionally, especially doing phone sex work, it ended up in a counselling session. I stopped one guy from literally crushing his balls so he could have them removed. That was memorable. People don't know how much emotional comfort you can end up giving as a sex worker. Sometimes it's from the heart, especially with widowers etc... sometimes just because you're getting paid. The client usually knows on a deeper level if there is any sincerity there. Some people just want a connection with another person with no judgement, and a happy ending. Whether that's a physical or emotional happy ending, because some people are not capable of physical happy ending. . It's "more fun" than seeing a counsellor, but it's usually not an appropriate substitute for a professional counsellor or psychologist. Why not see both? I think the best sex worker is a "people person". There's a lady in our building who is not good looking and very badly groomed, but she's nice. She's very pleasant to talk to and she has A LOT of clients. I couldn't go back to it, but I don't regret doing it.
Great interview!