Yess… So true…When I would reinforce my boundaries he would always say I’m being controlling. And I would tell him if you don’t agree with my standards we don’t have to be together. Wow wow wow… It all makes sense now. I did leave him. Thank you so much.😊
My husband just messaged me this today, telling me I controlled he’s Whole Life, and now, I don’t have control over anything. Huh! Yes I do, I have control over myself!!!
Exactly!! My covert husband has been loving for a year and a half (because I moved out that long ago) because he wants me back (because divorce would ruin his reputation and his finances. But in the days after I served divorce papers, I became his enemy. That was his nickname for me and he used it frequently, also in front of our 13-year-old daughter. What the children don't know is that he crossed a huge boundary by going on holiday with another woman...to France! And I was the enemy?! Unbelievable! I'm going to see how long I can keep him in this state. For me, the détant is a relief, so divorce isn't really urgent.
Covert narcissist I broke up with her this last November she was lying cheating everything you hit on my situation also dealt with her two sick parents father passed away last June mother he dementia but is not gone and misses me I was her mom's relief savior so to speak when I was there I was able to give her a break from her daughter my ex
Ben, were you at all aware of your motivations at the time when you were squashing or breaking boundaries or sealing control? Thank you for the insight. It feels like trying to understand a robot.
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How you ain’t know this it’s literally common sense their called toxic for a reason lmao 😂 I be beat mine up so he left he won’t Dare to Hoover I’m crazier than him lol
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Yess… So true…When I would reinforce my boundaries he would always say I’m being controlling. And I would tell him if you don’t agree with my standards we don’t have to be together. Wow wow wow… It all makes sense now. I did leave him. Thank you so much.😊
You're a wonderful blessing to so many..please remember that! Thank you for explaining your thoughts and being authentic. ❤
My husband just messaged me this today, telling me I controlled he’s Whole Life, and now, I don’t have control over anything. Huh!
Yes I do, I have control over myself!!!
You are so right, Ben. I am not the same. I lost that person a long time ago.
You WILL return to yourself. I promise, and wow, is it ever great to be 'home'. God bless you.
Exactly!! My covert husband has been loving for a year and a half (because I moved out that long ago) because he wants me back (because divorce would ruin his reputation and his finances. But in the days after I served divorce papers, I became his enemy. That was his nickname for me and he used it frequently, also in front of our 13-year-old daughter. What the children don't know is that he crossed a huge boundary by going on holiday with another woman...to France! And I was the enemy?! Unbelievable! I'm going to see how long I can keep him in this state. For me, the détant is a relief, so divorce isn't really urgent.
Get free of this person before he turns to revenge because a narc who’s cornered is a dangerous scary beast & he will harm you
Power Control Dominance Exploitation Manipulation
I thought I was the problem till I learned not to be reactive and my toxitcy went away . My wife’s doubled.
Covert narcissist I broke up with her this last November she was lying cheating everything you hit on my situation also dealt with her two sick parents father passed away last June mother he dementia but is not gone and misses me I was her mom's relief savior so to speak when I was there I was able to give her a break from her daughter my ex
Ben, were you at all aware of your motivations at the time when you were squashing or breaking boundaries or sealing control? Thank you for the insight. It feels like trying to understand a robot.
Couple of videos hopefully can answer your question, ruclips.net/video/Mmej8_WIswk/видео.htmlsi=ys9cR6AHR0KaErIb and ruclips.net/video/SjgBdGiioSE/видео.htmlsi=NglPUQ-QgttiwQtj
Thank you!
They are like Borg (Star Trek) to me. They are all around the World. They are all the same...
I’v been through that cycle so many times!!!
@@jurepotokar9068Legion or demonic, beast system hivemind. No autonomy.
Never ever again
Wow ….holy crap 🤯
How you ain’t know this it’s literally common sense their called toxic for a reason lmao 😂 I be beat mine up so he left he won’t
Dare to Hoover I’m crazier than him lol
*seeking control
Do you still consider yourself a narc?