the secret to always ending up top: when you don't waste time watching and gauging where others are on a task, then you can stay perfectly focused and undistracted allowing you to spend more time developing skills and getting feedback faster (as you're usually done first). I realized this in second grade when I finished a test and looked around. noticed others were looking around too, figured they had also finished. then noticed they were trying to look at other people test answers while simultaneously covering up their own sheets. They were wasting time looking around to others for answers because they never bothered to learn them to begin with.
@@king-nick2023 😂😂😂 bruh that comment totally been there even worse after a few years then you just accept and humiliate them infront of everyone and say something like this is why I didn’t want to do it embarrass you infront of everyone
Sigma is pure freedom, privacy, solitude, and is self driven, he’s a man’s man, a man that demands peace, and quiet, the alpha male is an extroverted limelight socialite.
@@DanielDouglas555 world need more people who like to bring order and structure, not chaos and disobedience. to put doubt in every place where is loyalty and faith. such ppl are desired only in society with very little intelligence
@@DanielDouglas555 no. independent thinking is the definition of false ego. marxism is dystopian. independent thinking is dystopian. only hiararchy and moral order is working. there is no utopia in this world. only in kingdom of God. there all alpha males and females go. sigmas not.
This also helps me understand why I am asked why I don’t talk much and listen more, my own father taught me to listen more, you will get a better understanding of what’s going on
I had Sigma moments when I used to be in the Navy. Basically I was introverted, kept in excellent shape and was known to be good at art and drawing. There was always some other guy, usually loud and obnoxious, who would give me compliments that sounded a bit sarcastic. They would also point out my flaws. Usually these guys were also confused that I chose to not hookup with any of the girls on base or go out clubbing, that I could be so content by myself.
This was me. I treated my service like prison. Saved my money, played sports, and enjoyed the semi traveling. Didn't travel like I thought. So I came back to a changed environment where the public was charged and CHANGED. Drugs, guns, and sex. In that order.....🤦
Captn Kirk was an Alpha and Spock was a Sigma. As a leadership team, they were unstoppable. However, Kirk was self-aware of his limitations and usually kept his ego in check when it came to Spock. Most Alphas are unable to attain this level. And that's why I've always admired the character of Captn Kirk.
Its should be, the ability to be their best, not THE best. one tries for themself and one tries for others. your interpretation sounds like any ol' introvert.
and yet as a Sigma you STILL get challenged by the Alpha even though you are NOT competing because they SENSE that "energy" that you DO NOT CARE about their sense of "entitlement" and that makes them NERVOUS !!!
You nailed it. Alphas operate from deep insecurity and fear. Sigmas recognize that, and can't help but look down on it as childish and shallow, as well as the entire social hiarchy alphas seem so obsessed with dominating.
Silent,Confident ,does not need to explain or to prove themselves nor the urge to convince and dominate others. Neutrality,observation,sharpness,independent, charismatic and bravery...
My secret as a Sigma male is that I do not care what people think,, do or want. I am stoic about life......I do not need or want approval...i am self sufficient....
I agree but as a human being we kinda still do care what others think but the difference is a sigma will still do what he wants regardless of what people think ! 😊
It's not keeping out it's more realizing you control your realm because with out it, you don't gain experience in those other attributes. Enjoy your freedom youngish, but longing is apart of the heart as well.
There are sigma women. I'm a bit of a minimalist, so money isn't the goal, but pursuing my dreams. Peace depends... Sometimes war is better, for instance, when in a dict. Ator ship
Bottom line is that sigmas, generally, are more intelligent than alphas, and are a serious threat to an alphas position in society, especially because they are hard to identify until its too late. I have heard some talk about sigmas as if they are gammas like Rollo Tomasi but thats just gaslighting. While there is some truth in it, the reality is that a sigma is a serious threat to an alpha and his tribe. You have to calculate what you cannot see.
A true alpha, in wolf culture at least, where the whole misconception was developed from, despite the considerable efforts of the original creator of the theory to alert people to the mistake of the hypothesis in his best selling book that was ignored while the refuted publication continued to enjoy popularity amongst the confirmation biased, is concerned for the welfare of the whole pack, and would appreciate the value intelligence adds to the group, and would not be threatened by not feeling like the smartest kid in the room.
There are several types of intelligence and it’s likely that alphas are on average more intelligent in certain areas while sigmas are more intelligent in other areas. The video explains this pretty well: alphas are focused on the social game, they acquire dominance by being the pushiest puppy at mommies teats while sigmas acquire dominance by being awesome in whatever field they find themselves in.
@@DR-nh6oo do you have a legit concern about the video or are you a beta who doesn’t like being reminded that it’s a beta? Wolves drive non conforming members out in almost the exact same way as people. Society is just starting to acknowledge the value of the outliers, probably why you feel so threatened.
@@godwantsplastic Alphas are pack leaders, they understand the benefits of ensuring each is allowed their need and a responsibility to contribute according to their ability, they dominate with intelligence and mindful action, domination is a desperate measure by those who act from fear, not courage, it does not allow the needed attention to details, ultimately it cannot win the loyalty of the pack, and is doomed to fail, taking the whole group down with them, until intelligence aligns with circumstance, perhaps, and the pack can begin to thrive. Confirmation bias is keeping you exactly where the tyrants want you to be. Only the brave can accept the truth of their innate frailty and perform their duty.
I’ve always questioned why I am the way I am.. literally the description of this. I don’t want to take charge but somehow always end up in charge, I want what’s best for everyone but o want us all to be on the same page. Seeing things from everyone’s perspective and being confident and quiet at the same time. Thank you I guess I know now I’m a self sufficient sigma male who stays quiet and is always aware of my surroundings no matter the situation, cool calm collected. The only thing I disagree with is the violence part, sometimes there needs to be violence in order to be peace and I’m not above that. Maybe why I can’t get along with alfa males cause I’ll just break away and do my own thing.
Dude this is me! I have literally been chosen to lead in many instances without my input but i turnout to lead well! Not in the loud aggressive way society teaches me to but in that soft but outspoken kind of command. May God bless me to be productive and useful with such a xter!!🙏
I find that the alpha is always overcompensating for thier shortcomings. Big muscles , big truck or expensive vehicle. When deep down the alpha is a beta in disguise, and is jealous of anyone who is talented and well liked. While maintaining boundaries and a moral compass.
A good example for a Sigma male was in the “Karate Kid” franchise was Mr. Miyagi and he was a Sigma male minded individual and was always quiet and observant of like how he would watch Daniel Larusso always be “Outspoken” and be conflicted with his battles with his rivals (Johnny Lawrence, Chozen Tagouchi, Mike Barnes) and Mr. Miyagi was always patient with his students. And he taught them to be sufficient and resilient 👍🏽💪🏽🙏🏽
I disagree I think. Miyagi is a specialist for society. Smart, isolating, not bothering anybody and wise. A Sigma can confront others if needed, can charm women, can do everything an Alpha does but doesn't need validation from the hierarchy. I think what you define is too many people in society and because Sigma is so rare, something is not right in the original definition of the Sigma. The best clue is this: if you can charm a room full of women but doing your own thing and need no validation that's a true Sigma. Maybe a poor example, but highlighting Sigma natural ability to understand social cues and component needed for a true Sigma. Or a Sigma can visit another village in a remote country but can easily adapt and pick up clues to survive and win people over to get want he needs and then leaves mysteriously. I think Sigma's do NOT like staying at home, but comfortable with the world in isolation, discovering, and adapting with people as needed, very smart, can defend on the spot, and very similar to Alpha in how they interact with others.
I've been a Sigma my whole life and didn't know it. This explains why I've always been so comfortable in my own skin being able to command respect from a crowd without the need for attention or clout that I'd rather not engage in.
You too? Welcome to the club. Guys like us have been sigma without knowing it, but the "so-called alphas", the betas, and the loose and ignorant females tried/try to make you feel like a beta. You're not, they see and fear the strength of the freedom, independent thought and resilience that you radiant. Once a man realizes this, he is FREE!
@@ramonantoniodejuanbennett6239 Exactly! There have been beautiful women at school and work throughout my years that would get in my presence and shut down as if she just stepped in the principal's office. You can just feel her humility around you when in your vicinity but they act brash and confident around other guys that were more eager and approachable. At the time I thought that I was doing something to turn them off because if they had to ask me a question they would barely make I contact and you can hear their voices trembling as if I were about to punish them. I never meant to come off unapproachable or scare people off but my aura and frame was so poised an infallible that I was still running girls off out of over admiration. Even dudes would look at me with a air of respect in their eyes and body language, all while working low level blue collar jobs. And when I talk, people pay attention and fall in place as if I was in management cause I don't waste words and I speak with purpose. I never seek to get attention nor do I care for it. I'd rather stay to myself cause I find peace and comfort there but people look to me as a leader and take my advice seriously when I talk.
I have been following u for the last 6 months and I have noticed every point u describe is valid, I wonder how a person can know so much about personality what did u learn, and from where did u learn that's so accurate.
A true definition of Sigma, which is supposed to very rare, is a person who actively contributes to society's well-being via his wisdom, social competency, and confidence. Not the person who builds wood projects at home, or collects stamps on the weekend in quiet rural town, or builds a solo business for himself to survive, because people are annoying or irrelevant. A true Sigma in my opinion has the same force for societal change but does it with right intention, and without the need to fit into a hierarchy (basically mythical Samurai's or Warriors). Sigma already have all the qualities of an Alpha just does it differently. The Alpha and Sigma have identical competency skills to deal with the external world.
Both my brother and also my teacher are examples of sigma men I have known well in my life. They have had a profound effect on my development. Without their guidance, I could never have grown to become the zeta man I am today.
@@xQz00 ??? yes we Zeta's go our own way, we are independent thinkers, who tend to over analyise everything. Also, we aren't necessarily dependent on friendships and relationships for fulfillment. We are the kind of people who become obsessed and lost in our hobbies. However, we lack the confidence and dominance of the Sigmas.
"He knows how to defuse a situation before it gets out of hand" There's one move that a like to play when I perceive another guy coming at me with a challenging attitude and a bad mood, I let them approach and just before they say anything, I simply greet them in a very respectful and friendly way, that puts them immediately in a very awkward position, where if they choose to ignore my hand waiting for them shake it, and start defying me, they will be perceived by everyone as a crazy man, meaning everyone will take my side if anything happens. So they have no option but to shake my hand and behave, and that means they're not in control, they are forced to play my game and they don't know how to play it, so you can clearly see the frustration in their faces and hear it in their voices, as they try to look composed.
They hate them because the sigma sees through their hidden insecurity under all that bruhaha and compulsive psychopatic tendency to control everything and everyone to have a false sense of selfworth in the same dessert everyone is in.
Sigmas have an extraordinary ability to harness and use their power versus display it and give it away, thus earning more respect than an alpha who loves to put their borrowed power on display while losing respect. This video is dead on accurate. I have a good friend who has all the sigma male traits and he is much more respected and sought after versus the self proclaimed alpha in our unit..
I see why I don't want to be around a lot of people and think thats a weakness but I always show them up because they think I have no confidence in myself.
Hmmm... I show them up in the process of finding ways to be more efficient and productive at my job not because I care whether or not people think I have no confidence, so much so I was hired on before intended and about 3-6 months later got promoted. My superiors do not babysit me because they know if I'm out of sight I am doing my job. I've unofficially been given the title of a leader without having the title all in the pursuit of optimizing my work load so it does not wear on my body and that was my personal goal seeing as I'm getting older, while everyone else is looking for conversations and attention. Though my traits throws everyone off, it's acknowledged and respected. Accomplished with minimal conversations (ass kissing included) done by hard work and not being distracted by others and having priorities and discipline.
About walking from as fight: here is a story. A guy wants to fight to prove his point so. The Sigma guy ask him...Do you want to win or loose...the other guy taken aback look at him. And say...Win of course" so the Sigma guy said to him....ok you won and walked away...
Yes, but if the mission is to teach a wisdom and not walk away because of a clear violation or theft of space, the true Sigma can emulate and charm a group to get want he wants, or can defend his own territory on the spot, THEN walks away, and forgets about it a second later, never bragging or boasting. Think of a hired Samurai who trains silently in the woods, but may contract to kill an enemy for an entire village in need. This Sigma MODELS the Alpha, having huge social presence if needed, confidence, wisdom, , but once the job is done, and the wisdom is set forth, leaves early in the morning from the village, to live silently in the woods,.
This is ridiculously accurate. It’s kinda scary how much this describes me. I had a younger guy tell me he considers himself alpha. He’s a friend. I told him “I don’t give a fvck about that word I just do my thing.” Both of us were “right” if you understand what I’m saying.
It’s funny, I just found all these videos and they’re ridiculously scarily accurate too, I know a guy 2 years older than me (a friends friend) who I’ve heard dislikes me when I’ve barely met him and I’m pretty sure he’s the “alpha” of their friend group so it’s kinda
13 years with the same outfit and my new Alpha boss gave me my first horrible evaluation. It has progressed to the point that I have to leave. I can't understand why some people feel so threatened by the truth.
Fundamentally, the personality of a man, whether Alpha or Sigma, exists in a spectrum. No man is exclusively alpha or exclusively Sigma. They share some common features. A man can be 80% Sigma, and 20% Alpha, or vice versa, etc.
There are also the hive minds which are far superior to the alpha or sigma males, these hives exist to maximize their survivability in the Universe and anything that is seen as a possible threat like that of individuality is phased out with gene engineering and brain-computer-interfaces, even wars will be fought in which these hive minds will crush any opposition that believe the future is anything but the collective.
My god , thank you, it took me a long time to freely express the qualities of character described in these videos and feel comfortable. It is uncannily spot on and I never gave a rats ass about sigmas or alphas and now I know why. I'm a sigma.
After watching your video, I think I just realized that Im a sigma male.... weird, never considered that before. But most of the points brought off in your video, I can identify with them. I always thought I was a beta male, maybe it was true in my past, but I think it's a natural evolution from beta to sigma.
A Sigma would NEVER get themselves confused for a Beta. That's not even to knock Betas either. Many Sigmas consider Deltas to be the lowest male personality trait.
Alpha attracts and controls sheeps in the herd, which are majority of the population. Alpha is generally in control of the society and sheeps adore him. He IS the unquestionable leader of the pack. He gets the best game, everyone obeys and follow him, his ideas must be best, he tolerates no countering, everyone is submissive towards him. Sigmas do not obey, they can't stand someone giving them the orders, they would rather be kicked out of the pack. Sigma's disobediance strikes the ego of the alpha, like "how dare you, you worthless scum". Sigmas follow their own rules, they are not necessarily disobedient. That makes him outcast and leading member in the pack in ethical/intelligent sense at the same time, like Jesus: I do nor force You to follow me, nor to find my preaching as the smartest, I respect you for who You are, I don't care to be on the top, the leaders of this world are not my rulers, and over the time sigma gains the respect from whole community, except alphas and their blind followers. The downside is that sigma's behaviour also attracts bullies and their followers to pick on sigma, though he never submits. Some herd members may find alpha annoying, but they still follow or obey him, more or less. The rest still have that strong feeling to belong to the pack, no matter what, even if they dislike alpha or are indifferent or amorphous attitude, but they still don't have sigma's energy to go their own way. Also, these not-alpha-adorers are more likely to respect sigma.
A sigma can att anytime dominate anyone if he find it absolutely necessary, he has already considered all possible outcome and made his peace with all of them before he makes a move.
@@paulineedwards9029 Most people are in such a hurry. They don't want to give you time to think about this. As the male, I'm assuming responsibilities and obligations. Many of which are life changing decisions. I'm not going to rush into this. But after a recent conversation, I was told by someone she paid twelve hundred a month just for rent. I own my home, and was unaware of this. I was shocked. Really. So that might have something to do with the rush. It's economic. I don't want a significant other simply for economic reasons. I'd like for her to be with me because she wants me, not just because she needs a place to live. Sex is nice, but if I have no emotional involvement, I'd rather be alone.
@@psyclotronxx3083 moral compass cannot be created on your own. that is nothing. morality comes from absolute, that is transcendetal truth or God. your own truth, your own morality is delusion. that means nothing. who have strong moral compass are those who give their time to progress in spiritual life and try to understand the underlying reality, which wisest of men were searching for last thousands of years, over and over again. that alone has meaning in life. everything else self-created is illusion.
I have been studying this stuff a lot recently because I have an interesting dynamic between a friend of mine and myself whereas I am the sigma and he is the alpha. To keep it short, the guy got his pilot's license, he's working on his diving cert, he's working in HVAC, he hits the gym on a decent frequency but not as much as I do, he's got a fiancé, and he and I are both helicopter electricians. He has a couple of nice cars and a really nice living situation, always dresses nicely, etc. But when push comes to shove, I've been his "older brother" very consistently. I am much less needy than he is, and although he does outperform me on a very superficial level, I'm playing "4D chess" as they say lol. Just very interesting stuff to me.
@@iarchibald1 He literally achieves things nonstop but that is his entire personality. I love the guy and he's one of my better buddies but he lacks depth sometimes. I reckon he's probably better off like that, though.
this is something that People dont understant, People think is a constant fight for power and that is not true, you want to know what happens when an alpha and a sigma b3come TRUE partners? look at warren buffet (alpha) and charlie munger (sigma) when an alpha and a sigma work together and aknowledge their strenghts and weaknesses thei achieve the greattest things in the history of the world im a sigma and i hope one Day i get to find an alpha bussiness partner, i know with his/her strenght and mine together we could conquer the world
I’m not the best judge of character, most of the sigma traits I carry. Been different from the pack from the word go, taken most of my life to work out who I really am.
The secret weapon of a Sigma is they follow the beat of their own drum. If you stay clear of that, then Sigmas don't really care. Alphas can't really get a 'handle' on them. They may think they can but really can't. It confuses the bejesus out of them.
What I've learned from my pass encounter with alpha people is this. When they talk in a way to make you little and weak. When this happens. Talk to them in a way what shows you know something they don't, and your going to act on it regardless of the consequences. Because in reality you know what is best for everyone.
@@BeHoly10 that’s kinda funny because it’s about giving the right situation your energy and I thought that was one of the things that sigmas were so great at doing
@@Just_B_a_GOOD_PERSON I guess you would have to have been there. But attempting to call him on the handling of the situation with knowing next to nothing or very little about the timeline, past encounters etc. Just leaves you sounding like had a bad day. I'll leave it at that. I actually liked his comment Don't believe, Know Don't jump, Leap my ............
An alpha needs social validation and admiration to reenergize. His mood and sense of self-worth may be too dependent on the opinions of others. If you can learn to downplay your achievements, avoid sensory overstimulation, remain grateful, find selflessness, practice delayed gratification, cease taking offense (not taking yourself too seriously), and feel zero need to impress others- this will lead you to much contentment in life. A social media addiction does not facilitate this.
My boss has told me in the last 7 years at least 4 times that people at work are starting following my lead and that ive been setting a bad example like be confident enough where i challange athority sometimes and i dont put others down although if someone insults me i will one up them until they stop
There are too many false Alphas today. A truly legitimate Alpha has ZERO issues with a truly legitimate Sigma. The Sigma possesses many of the same leadership qualities, but doesn't want the adoration or acknowledgement from peers at all. A Sigma has no desire for any of that bravado, therefore the Alpha never feels like there is competition as a leader, which is arguably the biggest pet peeve for Alphas.
1:50 nobody knows? You only compete with yourself, that’s the secret. Alphas are the highest ranking beta, that means that ALL alphas are just betas that are being propped up by other betas. If the alpha leaves the group another betas takes their place. Betas are literally hive minded cattle people, no matter your social rank you’re still just a beta and you wish you could be sigma but even though you now know the secret you don’t have what it takes to be one of us.
A collective is always stronger than the individual, in the future there won't be anything other than hive minds competing against each other for survival in the Universe. Indiviudality won't exist, there won't be a desire for riches or fame, only the survival of the collective.
Alphas hate sigmas because they struggle to manipulate or control them. Even if the alpha can do it physically, the sigma outsmarts him and still makes it enough of a struggle physically that it typically isnt worth it or it simply is a failed endeavor.
Alpha about monkey spectrum of life, Sigma about intelligence. Popular culture pay too much attention to monkey side of human nature - it more emotional, easy to show. Dramas with screams, superheros, showing dominance, all this rapper things Mind side of human - very boring and complex, very hard to show in movies. Childrens choose as authority hero with monkey style from movies and cartoons, but in real life it too primitive to get success
nope. alpha are not about power, beta are about power. alpha are about individual success and then collective success. they are commanding, competent, self-controlled, motivated, inspiring, self-reliant, disciplined, but most of all with strong moral values and structure. if sigma is like that then he is alpha, if he is not then he is beta. if he doesnt care about anything, and thinks he is special or whatever, he is beta. ego trip.
@@propellerhead2000 I dont understand your comment or what you are insinuating. But I guess you see defending in defining. So you are taking it emotionally and incorrectly.
thank you for these series of videos, it really has helped me to understand why the dynamics of my interactions with what i have been calling "the others" seem to repeat, i never realised there was other personality types, i always thought i was the weird one. But my question is, is there a female version to the sigma, ?? and could they be a better match to men like us ??
Yes there is female version of sigma... Actually me being a sigma myself has got a sigma female to date me(she proposed me)... And now things are going pretty well now... So yeah I can say sigma male with sigma females are a better match
MY FRIENDS ARE ALPHA... AND I DON'T KNOW WHY THEY HATE ME☺EARLIER THEY LIKED ME BUT NOT NOW.... BUT I AM COMFORTABLE😎😊AND SOMETIMES I MAY HAVE TO TAKE THE POSITION OF ALPHA..... AS HOLDING ON FOR TOO LONG AGAINST COWARDS I DON'T LIKE.... SO I MAY ATTACK TO ENEMIES IF NECESSARY ❤❤❤🐺🐺🐺
they thought us were no harms to them, cause we never tried to attract everyone’s attentions like them. But when we start coming out on top, we became the biggest enemies ever
Maybe that’s why they call me weird and I’ve never met anybody like you before. Even the Marine Corps decided to let me march my way we are who we are. There’s not much we can do about it.
"Working in the shadows to get what you want." I guess that's why I'm good at stealth in video games... and a dead-eye shot with a sniper rifle, pardon my brag.
I have always found it difficult to identify where I belong. I easily find a trait or two in every category that is peculiar to me. In recent times, I have come to realize that the more studies I make on self discovery, the more I find myself drifting from the real me... What I do know is, as a child, I never wanted to be the King. However, I was more interested in being a king Maker. And I still feel that way.
It’s crazy how much this describes me. I did an alpha male test a couple months ago and it told me I was a sigma and now this video just confirms it. 💯
This is true, indeed. Although, it is not as easy as it seems. And in order to be this way, we the sigma males need to pass through lots of obstacles and get out of the convencional mentality. We're the few out of the box, the brave, the tough males on the planet.😊👍
One has to find his place, then he has to keep his place, then build upon his place, then resolutely and confidently conquer the place ... The Sigma male, the quiet achiever !
This makes so much sense. I've always said I don't want to be the man, I want to be the man behind the man. The one pulling the strings but everyone else thinks it's not me. Less chances of me being a target of jealous and envy individuals. 😁
I'm 40 now....but I could see exactly this padron described by the video in my whole life. Since I were the only son for 10 years and my parents break up and come back together many times(4, being the last break definitive) I had to move to many different houses/buildings and had to be alone for long periods (that kind guided me for the "alpha" mentality because I did want to play with other kids and couldn't, so I would demand more attention and that kinda of stuff, plus my social skills were lower than the average kid of my age because all of that lonely time). So, later on (when I became an adolescent) everytime I met a new group of teenagers I never wanted to fight anyone, but EVERYTIME the "alpha" of that group would find/create a way to physically fight with me, and I'm saying 100% of the cases. By the time there wasn't this alpha, beta, sigma stuff....but I look in the features, and I have many of the features atributed to sigma men...so it makes total sense. Nowadays they try to show off to me expecting that I'd be jealous or something (but I just think: "you are the jealous one LOOOOL").
I would say this me living a sort of a sigma male life most alphas who have a problem with sigmas are insecure alphas.. for the most part alphas actually would rather hang out with sigma's more than other alphas... Also keep in mind that sigma's mostly attracts alphas and most cases they don't attract betas which is kind of weird.. most women that I've seen to attract are mostly in an alpha state.. most friends that I have are mostly alphas.. also keep in mind that alphas would trust sigma more then other alphas because they know that sigmas aren't trying to be competitive against them for the most part.. so yes you do have alphas that hate sigmas but that's kind of a minority for the most part most outfits would rather be around sigmas and would like to have them in their company because they trust them more.
Bro’s, the 18 second mark to the 1:31 second mark, FUCKING WOW 😮!!!! This has been me since a kid!!!! It ALSO explains why, even at 50, i STILL manage to hook up with cute to pretty women!!!! BEST part, i STILL don’t own a car 🚗 and never owned a house 🏡!!!! Those are significant because you all know that 95% of the time, no pretty lady is giving a lot of sex to a man that owns no car 🚗 or house 🏡!!!! In closing, i do have some Alpha traits such as self-confidence, nets hard challenges head on, physically & mentally fit, honest & upfront i.e., i’m blunt with NOOOO filter!!!!
Till now I thought my bf is beta, but after watching this video, I realise he is a Sigma male. He minds his own business but if his boundaries are crossed, he's gonna whoop the arse of that person.
@@PokrPro21 And I consider alphas to be just stronger than average betas. Because they're needy. They NEED followers n to be part of groups. They NEED admiration and to be liked. They need social constructs to fit into and to follow the rules of.
@@keisi1574 I never got your notification but yes you are correct. It's better to be alpha than beta but alphas are definitely flawed and have weaknesses. All this time I thought I was more on the alpha side until learning about sigmas
I really enjoyed this video. Because I never felt like an Alpha male but I never felt like none of those other weaker males in the hierarchy structure either. Sigma fits my disposition perfectly.
Still not Sigma though. You are a specialist in society doing his own thing. A Sigma has the same social charisma to hold strong presence if needed, like a visiting wolf of a pack of other wolves for the night, teaches them the ways of the wise, and leaves the next morning.
@@THEREALLORDJ I dont think this how they describe sigma is actually alpha. Sigmas make their own rules, they dont fit in any system, they lack humility, they dont follow hierarchy. It looks like a huge beta ego trip.
Most are misunderstood. You may see one and think he is a bad guy however he can not know you and be the most real person and save your life because he can learn from others and behavior he might even read your thoughts by your body language or facial expressions.
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If you don't care about hierarchy you are already above it
the secret to always ending up top: when you don't waste time watching and gauging where others are on a task, then you can stay perfectly focused and undistracted allowing you to spend more time developing skills and getting feedback faster (as you're usually done first).
I realized this in second grade when I finished a test and looked around. noticed others were looking around too, figured they had also finished. then noticed they were trying to look at other people test answers while simultaneously covering up their own sheets. They were wasting time looking around to others for answers because they never bothered to learn them to begin with.
Always comes out on top? A real sigma would reject the notion of _always_ .
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“Working in the shadows to get what you want.” is the perfect explanation.
Yeah, it is faster and more focus that way. Although missing all the spotlights isn’t really comfortable, but somethine must be trade
Like Emperor Palpatine!
Describes my movements to a Tee.
just like a ninja
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Dude, this makes so much sense.. I hate when men need to constantly try and challenge me like some little kids
Don't think you're a sigma b/c that one moment
Man, that gets old, its funny watching them get frustrated over it though.
@@peterd2587 extremely funny.. one guy kept challenging me 2 almost 3 years ago.. his gf broke up with him and started messaging me
@@king-nick2023 😂😂😂 bruh that comment totally been there even worse after a few years then you just accept and humiliate them infront of everyone and say something like this is why I didn’t want to do it embarrass you infront of everyone
I feel ya homie.
Sigma is pure freedom, privacy, solitude, and is self driven, he’s a man’s man, a man that demands peace, and quiet, the alpha male is an extroverted limelight socialite.
Is an alpha full thirst of Popularity and Leading beta's ?
and Ligma is supreme being
I like those definitions and I think they are pretty spot on.
Women call us toxic… no we don’t tolerate disrespect and B we’recalculated. Sounds controlling …. NAW MORALS little lady. Try it sometime 🫡
The downside is that the sigma lifestyle is very lonesome.
Alpha: "I don't like you."
Sigma: "I don't care."
Alpha: *fires the sigma from the company
@@nnd5768any outcome is suitable for the sigma. they truly could care less.
@@DanielDouglas555 world need more people who like to bring order and structure, not chaos and disobedience. to put doubt in every place where is loyalty and faith. such ppl are desired only in society with very little intelligence
@@nnd5768 no, the world needs people who operate and think independently. A world where the masses all thought the same would be dystopian.
@@DanielDouglas555 no. independent thinking is the definition of false ego.
marxism is dystopian. independent thinking is dystopian. only hiararchy and moral order is working. there is no utopia in this world. only in kingdom of God. there all alpha males and females go. sigmas not.
The secret to coming out on top is to focus on the objective NOT on being better than another person.
This also helps me understand why I am asked why I don’t talk much and listen more, my own father taught me to listen more, you will get a better understanding of what’s going on
@Andre they also know when they need to speak up to say something, only if it’s relevant
Exactly and the Main Benefit is: You learning new Things only with listen. Talking is only repeat what you already know...
I had Sigma moments when I used to be in the Navy. Basically I was introverted, kept in excellent shape and was known to be good at art and drawing. There was always some other guy, usually loud and obnoxious, who would give me compliments that sounded a bit sarcastic. They would also point out my flaws.
Usually these guys were also confused that I chose to not hookup with any of the girls on base or go out clubbing, that I could be so content by myself.
I heard that the girls in the military hookup with tons of guys, is that true?
@Random Bass Guy Look at it this way, some of those same guys might now be STUCK paying child support and/or alimony! Guess WHO the joke is on!
That is 💯, I even knew a few sailors who came home from a deployment to find their houses 'cleaned up'. It was quite common.
@@randombassguy5780 You're saying they married whores instead of housewives.
This was me. I treated my service like prison. Saved my money, played sports, and enjoyed the semi traveling. Didn't travel like I thought. So I came back to a changed environment where the public was charged and CHANGED. Drugs, guns, and sex. In that order.....🤦
Captn Kirk was an Alpha and Spock was a Sigma. As a leadership team, they were unstoppable. However, Kirk was self-aware of his limitations and usually kept his ego in check when it came to Spock. Most Alphas are unable to attain this level. And that's why I've always admired the character of Captn Kirk.
True that. Alpha and sigma working together, knowing each others strengths and respecting each other is unstoppable combination.
Spock most certainly cared about the hierarchy and his place in it ...
@@wulfkriger3356 True. And that is an important component of the military mindset.
They were "friends" in every sense of the word. The scene in Wrath of Khan when Spock dies is an emotional one. Always makes me tear up.
Ya my best friend was an Alpha, it eventually got him killed , I miss him a lot !
The whole idea of being sigma is not to be recognized, the whole idea is to be left alone and not compete
Its should be,
the ability to be their best, not THE best.
one tries for themself and one tries for others.
your interpretation sounds like any ol' introvert.
and yet as a Sigma you STILL get challenged by the Alpha even though you are NOT competing because they SENSE that "energy" that you DO NOT CARE about their sense of "entitlement" and that makes them NERVOUS !!!
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Alphas lie to themselves and others, sigmas stay true to themselves. Alphas want on top of the hierarchy, the sigma laughs at the hierarchy.
alpha are too dumb to play outside the matrix.
That’s a joke all in it’s self, sigmas are nearly betas who want to be alpha!!
@@ejcahill418 no logic full on jelous and insecure emotion
@@ejcahill418 All alphas use to be betas who had enough of being a beta, now they are dancing monkeys for women.
You nailed it. Alphas operate from deep insecurity and fear. Sigmas recognize that, and can't help but look down on it as childish and shallow, as well as the entire social hiarchy alphas seem so obsessed with dominating.
Sigmas just go their own way, if they lose they lose if they win they win, they always win because they have nothing to lose.
I refuse to lose my sanity, peace of mind, and or freedom. That IS everything “to lose”. I never lose because it’s never over until I say so………. 😅
Can't lose if your not playing the game
scary people. selfish. would never like to see my daughter marry someone like that
@@nnd5768 You keep popping up. You are unhappy. Get better.
@@beefandbarley lol what is your problem? delusion?
It is better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt.
Silent,Confident ,does not need to explain or to prove themselves nor the urge to convince and dominate others.
Neutrality,observation,sharpness,independent, charismatic and bravery...
Amazing and such a indepth comment 👏
all traits of a serial killer
My secret as a Sigma male is that I do not care what people think,, do or want. I am stoic about life......I do not need or want approval...i am self sufficient....
I agree but as a human being we kinda still do care what others think but the difference is a sigma will still do what he wants regardless of what people think ! 😊
Stoicism is bad for humanity
As a beginner through sigma personality I agree
The reason sigmas appear weak is to avoid legal troubles. They maintain a clean record for a good business reputation.
The more you keep people out of your life especially woman the more you will have peace / freedom / quite / money .....
It's not keeping out it's more realizing you control your realm because with out it, you don't gain experience in those other attributes.
Enjoy your freedom youngish, but longing is apart of the heart as well.
There are sigma women. I'm a bit of a minimalist, so money isn't the goal, but pursuing my dreams. Peace depends... Sometimes war is better, for instance, when in a dict. Ator ship
It’s about not competing and finding out why things are the way they are I think
Bottom line is that sigmas, generally, are more intelligent than alphas, and are a serious threat to an alphas position in society, especially because they are hard to identify until its too late. I have heard some talk about sigmas as if they are gammas like Rollo Tomasi but thats just gaslighting. While there is some truth in it, the reality is that a sigma is a serious threat to an alpha and his tribe. You have to calculate what you cannot see.
A true alpha, in wolf culture at least, where the whole misconception was developed from, despite the considerable efforts of the original creator of the theory to alert people to the mistake of the hypothesis in his best selling book that was ignored while the refuted publication continued to enjoy popularity amongst the confirmation biased, is concerned for the welfare of the whole pack, and would appreciate the value intelligence adds to the group, and would not be threatened by not feeling like the smartest kid in the room.
There are several types of intelligence and it’s likely that alphas are on average more intelligent in certain areas while sigmas are more intelligent in other areas. The video explains this pretty well: alphas are focused on the social game, they acquire dominance by being the pushiest puppy at mommies teats while sigmas acquire dominance by being awesome in whatever field they find themselves in.
@@DR-nh6oo do you have a legit concern about the video or are you a beta who doesn’t like being reminded that it’s a beta?
Wolves drive non conforming members out in almost the exact same way as people. Society is just starting to acknowledge the value of the outliers, probably why you feel so threatened.
@@godwantsplastic Alphas are pack leaders, they understand the benefits of ensuring each is allowed their need and a responsibility to contribute according to their ability, they dominate with intelligence and mindful action, domination is a desperate measure by those who act from fear, not courage, it does not allow the needed attention to details, ultimately it cannot win the loyalty of the pack, and is doomed to fail, taking the whole group down with them, until intelligence aligns with circumstance, perhaps, and the pack can begin to thrive.
Confirmation bias is keeping you exactly where the tyrants want you to be. Only the brave can accept the truth of their innate frailty and perform their duty.
Whatever you are just be the best without all the labels
I’ve always questioned why I am the way I am.. literally the description of this. I don’t want to take charge but somehow always end up in charge, I want what’s best for everyone but o want us all to be on the same page. Seeing things from everyone’s perspective and being confident and quiet at the same time. Thank you I guess I know now I’m a self sufficient sigma male who stays quiet and is always aware of my surroundings no matter the situation, cool calm collected. The only thing I disagree with is the violence part, sometimes there needs to be violence in order to be peace and I’m not above that. Maybe why I can’t get along with alfa males cause I’ll just break away and do my own thing.
Dude this is me! I have literally been chosen to lead in many instances without my input but i turnout to lead well! Not in the loud aggressive way society teaches me to but in that soft but outspoken kind of command. May God bless me to be productive and useful with such a xter!!🙏
I find that the alpha is always overcompensating for thier shortcomings. Big muscles , big truck or expensive vehicle. When deep down the alpha is a beta in disguise, and is jealous of anyone who is talented and well liked. While maintaining boundaries and a moral compass.
@@joeldumont7874 whatever helps you sleep at night
Alphas can’t wipe their own asses without relying on someone to show them how. Then they take full credit for it all.
@@MyVisualRomance man you betas trip me out.
A good example for a Sigma male was in the “Karate Kid” franchise was Mr. Miyagi and he was a Sigma male minded individual and was always quiet and observant of like how he would watch Daniel Larusso always be “Outspoken” and be conflicted with his battles with his rivals (Johnny Lawrence, Chozen Tagouchi, Mike Barnes) and Mr. Miyagi was always patient with his students. And he taught them to be sufficient and resilient 👍🏽💪🏽🙏🏽
Sigmas know how to wax on wax off better than anyone else.
@@MyVisualRomance that’s so funny 😄😆🥹😅😂🤣
I disagree I think. Miyagi is a specialist for society. Smart, isolating, not bothering anybody and wise. A Sigma can confront others if needed, can charm women, can do everything an Alpha does but doesn't need validation from the hierarchy. I think what you define is too many people in society and because Sigma is so rare, something is not right in the original definition of the Sigma. The best clue is this: if you can charm a room full of women but doing your own thing and need no validation that's a true Sigma. Maybe a poor example, but highlighting Sigma natural ability to understand social cues and component needed for a true Sigma. Or a Sigma can visit another village in a remote country but can easily adapt and pick up clues to survive and win people over to get want he needs and then leaves mysteriously. I think Sigma's do NOT like staying at home, but comfortable with the world in isolation, discovering, and adapting with people as needed, very smart, can defend on the spot, and very similar to Alpha in how they interact with others.
I've been a Sigma my whole life and didn't know it. This explains why I've always been so comfortable in my own skin being able to command respect from a crowd without the need for attention or clout that I'd rather not engage in.
You too? Welcome to the club. Guys like us have been sigma without knowing it, but the "so-called alphas", the betas, and the loose and ignorant females tried/try to make you feel like a beta. You're not, they see and fear the strength of the freedom, independent thought and resilience that you radiant. Once a man realizes this, he is FREE!
@@ramonantoniodejuanbennett6239 Exactly! There have been beautiful women at school and work throughout my years that would get in my presence and shut down as if she just stepped in the principal's office. You can just feel her humility around you when in your vicinity but they act brash and confident around other guys that were more eager and approachable. At the time I thought that I was doing something to turn them off because if they had to ask me a question they would barely make I contact and you can hear their voices trembling as if I were about to punish them. I never meant to come off unapproachable or scare people off but my aura and frame was so poised an infallible that I was still running girls off out of over admiration. Even dudes would look at me with a air of respect in their eyes and body language, all while working low level blue collar jobs. And when I talk, people pay attention and fall in place as if I was in management cause I don't waste words and I speak with purpose. I never seek to get attention nor do I care for it. I'd rather stay to myself cause I find peace and comfort there but people look to me as a leader and take my advice seriously when I talk.
I have been following u for the last 6 months and I have noticed every point u describe is valid, I wonder how a person can know so much about personality what did u learn, and from where did u learn that's so accurate.
That's a long journey, I really appreciate it!🙏 everything about Sigma personality out there is also in my library.
@V. Bendor Actually, a pack of behavioral patterns constitutes what they call simp, alpha or sigma male. Questionable, I know.
A true definition of Sigma, which is supposed to very rare, is a person who actively contributes to society's well-being via his wisdom, social competency, and confidence. Not the person who builds wood projects at home, or collects stamps on the weekend in quiet rural town, or builds a solo business for himself to survive, because people are annoying or irrelevant. A true Sigma in my opinion has the same force for societal change but does it with right intention, and without the need to fit into a hierarchy (basically mythical Samurai's or Warriors). Sigma already have all the qualities of an Alpha just does it differently. The Alpha and Sigma have identical competency skills to deal with the external world.
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i am a Sigma male person. I don't care what people say as I don't step on anybody shoes. I live my life to what makes me Happy.
You must be talking about me in this video. Proud to be a sigma.
Bro sigma do not shows his qualities but you're.....
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Yeah!!! Everybody knows that you are a sigma male ......
You wish.
Be proud of who you are if you know the way you truly are despite what people say otherwise.
"I am not questioning your authority. I'm questioning your judgement in your decision."
most of the time alphas hate sigmas. but there are times when sigmas and alphas become as close as brothers.
Both my brother and also my teacher are examples of sigma men I have known well in my life. They have had a profound effect on my development. Without their guidance, I could never have grown to become the zeta man I am today.
Zeta?
@@xQz00 ??? yes we Zeta's go our own way, we are independent thinkers, who tend to over analyise everything. Also, we aren't necessarily dependent on friendships and relationships for fulfillment. We are the kind of people who become obsessed and lost in our hobbies. However, we lack the confidence and dominance of the Sigmas.
@@goldentwilight1944 good to know.
"He knows how to defuse a situation before it gets out of hand"
There's one move that a like to play when I perceive another guy coming at me with a challenging attitude and a bad mood, I let them approach and just before they say anything, I simply greet them in a very respectful and friendly way, that puts them immediately in a very awkward position, where if they choose to ignore my hand waiting for them shake it, and start defying me, they will be perceived by everyone as a crazy man, meaning everyone will take my side if anything happens. So they have no option but to shake my hand and behave, and that means they're not in control, they are forced to play my game and they don't know how to play it, so you can clearly see the frustration in their faces and hear it in their voices, as they try to look composed.
They hate them because the sigma sees through their hidden insecurity under all that bruhaha and compulsive psychopatic tendency to control everything and everyone to have a false sense of selfworth in the same dessert everyone is in.
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Yep, you just described a narcissist to a-T.
@@Dhampher EXACTLY NOT A ALPHA!!
Sigmas have an extraordinary ability to harness and use their power versus display it and give it away, thus earning more respect than an alpha who loves to put their borrowed power on display while losing respect. This video is dead on accurate. I have a good friend who has all the sigma male traits and he is much more respected and sought after versus the self proclaimed alpha in our unit..
Yeah most Alphas are Authoritative
Self proclaimed alphas aren't alpha.
ALPHAS DONT BORROW POWER OR LIVE BY SELF-PROCLAMATIONS!!!
@@wulfkriger3356 A POPULAR BUT MISTAKEN FEMININE ASSUMPTION!!!
@@tercial Their need to dominate other males stems from insecurity since they were little boys... Weak as hell.
Sigmas definitely have different priorities, hence the reason they pave their own way
Funny I got a song named pave the way.
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I see why I don't want to be around a lot of people and think thats a weakness but I always show them up because they think I have no confidence in myself.
Hmmm... I show them up in the process of finding ways to be more efficient and productive at my job not because I care whether or not people think I have no confidence, so much so I was hired on before intended and about 3-6 months later got promoted. My superiors do not babysit me because they know if I'm out of sight I am doing my job. I've unofficially been given the title of a leader without having the title all in the pursuit of optimizing my work load so it does not wear on my body and that was my personal goal seeing as I'm getting older, while everyone else is looking for conversations and attention. Though my traits throws everyone off, it's acknowledged and respected. Accomplished with minimal conversations (ass kissing included) done by hard work and not being distracted by others and having priorities and discipline.
About walking from as fight: here is a story. A guy wants to fight to prove his point so. The Sigma guy ask him...Do you want to win or loose...the other guy taken aback look at him. And say...Win of course" so the Sigma guy said to him....ok you won and walked away...
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that was funny
Yes, but if the mission is to teach a wisdom and not walk away because of a clear violation or theft of space, the true Sigma can emulate and charm a group to get want he wants, or can defend his own territory on the spot, THEN walks away, and forgets about it a second later, never bragging or boasting. Think of a hired Samurai who trains silently in the woods, but may contract to kill an enemy for an entire village in need. This Sigma MODELS the Alpha, having huge social presence if needed, confidence, wisdom, , but once the job is done, and the wisdom is set forth, leaves early in the morning from the village, to live silently in the woods,.
When someone is sure of themselves they don't care what people think or view them like
Alphas don't like when the sigma is so sure of themselves = h a t e r
This is ridiculously accurate. It’s kinda scary how much this describes me. I had a younger guy tell me he considers himself alpha. He’s a friend. I told him “I don’t give a fvck about that word I just do my thing.” Both of us were “right” if you understand what I’m saying.
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@@THEREALLORDJ 😂😂😂I get you
It’s funny, I just found all these videos and they’re ridiculously scarily accurate too, I know a guy 2 years older than me (a friends friend) who I’ve heard dislikes me when I’ve barely met him and I’m pretty sure he’s the “alpha” of their friend group so it’s kinda
Weird how guys can sense other guys vibes or personality
13 years with the same outfit and my new Alpha boss gave me my first horrible evaluation. It has progressed to the point that I have to leave. I can't understand why some people feel so threatened by the truth.
Fundamentally, the personality of a man, whether Alpha or Sigma, exists in a spectrum.
No man is exclusively alpha or exclusively Sigma. They share some common features.
A man can be 80% Sigma, and 20% Alpha, or vice versa, etc.
Also, those traits may vary depending upon a given situation.
It’s true
There are also the hive minds which are far superior to the alpha or sigma males, these hives exist to maximize their survivability in the Universe and anything that is seen as a possible threat like that of individuality is phased out with gene engineering and brain-computer-interfaces, even wars will be fought in which these hive minds will crush any opposition that believe the future is anything but the collective.
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My god , thank you, it took me a long time to freely express the qualities of character described in these videos and feel comfortable. It is uncannily spot on and I never gave a rats ass about sigmas or alphas and now I know why. I'm a sigma.
The lone wolf knows how to go it alone... because he is strong enough, and wise enough, to not to need a pack. That is scary.
After watching your video, I think I just realized that Im a sigma male.... weird, never considered that before. But most of the points brought off in your video, I can identify with them. I always thought I was a beta male, maybe it was true in my past, but I think it's a natural evolution from beta to sigma.
Sure you are.
Lmao you are not
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A Sigma would NEVER get themselves confused for a Beta. That's not even to knock Betas either. Many Sigmas consider Deltas to be the lowest male personality trait.
Alpha attracts and controls sheeps in the herd, which are majority of the population. Alpha is generally in control of the society and sheeps adore him. He IS the unquestionable leader of the pack. He gets the best game, everyone obeys and follow him, his ideas must be best, he tolerates no countering, everyone is submissive towards him.
Sigmas do not obey, they can't stand someone giving them the orders, they would rather be kicked out of the pack. Sigma's disobediance strikes the ego of the alpha, like "how dare you, you worthless scum". Sigmas follow their own rules, they are not necessarily disobedient. That makes him outcast and leading member in the pack in ethical/intelligent sense at the same time, like Jesus: I do nor force You to follow me, nor to find my preaching as the smartest, I respect you for who You are, I don't care to be on the top, the leaders of this world are not my rulers, and over the time sigma gains the respect from whole community, except alphas and their blind followers.
The downside is that sigma's behaviour also attracts bullies and their followers to pick on sigma, though he never submits.
Some herd members may find alpha annoying, but they still follow or obey him, more or less. The rest still have that strong feeling to belong to the pack, no matter what, even if they dislike alpha or are indifferent or amorphous attitude, but they still don't have sigma's energy to go their own way. Also, these not-alpha-adorers are more likely to respect sigma.
A sigma can att anytime dominate anyone if he find it absolutely necessary, he has already considered all possible outcome and made his peace with all of them before he makes a move.
Definitely on either end of the spectrum. Sigmas are calm , cool, collected and mysterious ( which makes them soooo sexy)
Thank you.
@@smittys3069 Welcome
I have to know you before I let you in.
@@tibetloga That's OK. Not a problem, me too
@@paulineedwards9029 Most people are in such a hurry. They don't want to give you time to think about this. As the male, I'm assuming responsibilities and obligations. Many of which are life changing decisions. I'm not going to rush into this. But after a recent conversation, I was told by someone she paid twelve hundred a month just for rent. I own my home, and was unaware of this. I was shocked. Really. So that might have something to do with the rush. It's economic. I don't want a significant other simply for economic reasons. I'd like for her to be with me because she wants me, not just because she needs a place to live. Sex is nice, but if I have no emotional involvement, I'd rather be alone.
Sigmas have a strong moral compass
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which they create themselves. so means zero compass
@@nnd5768 so does that mean that everyone creates their own moral compass and therefore no one can have a moral compass? 🤦 A Statement about nothing
@@psyclotronxx3083 moral compass cannot be created on your own. that is nothing. morality comes from absolute, that is transcendetal truth or God. your own truth, your own morality is delusion. that means nothing.
who have strong moral compass are those who give their time to progress in spiritual life and try to understand the underlying reality, which wisest of men were searching for last thousands of years, over and over again.
that alone has meaning in life. everything else self-created is illusion.
@@nnd5768 whatever 🤦
I have been studying this stuff a lot recently because I have an interesting dynamic between a friend of mine and myself whereas I am the sigma and he is the alpha. To keep it short, the guy got his pilot's license, he's working on his diving cert, he's working in HVAC, he hits the gym on a decent frequency but not as much as I do, he's got a fiancé, and he and I are both helicopter electricians. He has a couple of nice cars and a really nice living situation, always dresses nicely, etc. But when push comes to shove, I've been his "older brother" very consistently. I am much less needy than he is, and although he does outperform me on a very superficial level, I'm playing "4D chess" as they say lol. Just very interesting stuff to me.
Thanks for sharing this! That's interesting.
Sounds like you have a thing for him
If he's working in HVAC, he's king
@@iarchibald1 He literally achieves things nonstop but that is his entire personality. I love the guy and he's one of my better buddies but he lacks depth sometimes. I reckon he's probably better off like that, though.
this is something that People dont understant, People think is a constant fight for power and that is not true, you want to know what happens when an alpha and a sigma b3come TRUE partners? look at warren buffet (alpha) and charlie munger (sigma) when an alpha and a sigma work together and aknowledge their strenghts and weaknesses thei achieve the greattest things in the history of the world im a sigma and i hope one Day i get to find an alpha bussiness partner, i know with his/her strenght and mine together we could conquer the world
I’m not the best judge of character, most of the sigma traits I carry. Been different from the pack from the word go, taken most of my life to work out who I really am.
I am in love with a Sigma male . Oh my goodness . They are the best lovers . They go for mind , body and soul. Absolutely lovely .
The secret weapon of a Sigma is they follow the beat of their own drum. If you stay clear of that, then Sigmas don't really care. Alphas can't really get a 'handle' on them. They may think they can but really can't. It confuses the bejesus out of them.
Another excellent essay. This one overlaid onto my own experiences like a template. Your command of this topic is remarkable.
Wonderful! Big thanks to you, Michael!
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What I've learned from my pass encounter with alpha people is this.
When they talk in a way to make you little and weak. When this happens.
Talk to them in a way what shows you know something they don't, and your going to act on it regardless of the consequences. Because in reality you know what is best for everyone.
So play childish games instead of not engaging?
Yeah they like to be know it alls
@@Just_B_a_GOOD_PERSON not engaging is beta
@@BeHoly10 that’s kinda funny because it’s about giving the right situation your energy and I thought that was one of the things that sigmas were so great at doing
@@Just_B_a_GOOD_PERSON I guess you would have to have been there. But attempting to call him on the handling of the situation with knowing next to nothing or very little about the timeline, past encounters etc. Just leaves you sounding like had a bad day. I'll leave it at that. I actually liked his comment
Don't believe, Know
Don't jump, Leap my ............
An alpha needs social validation and admiration to reenergize. His mood and sense of self-worth may be too dependent on the opinions of others.
If you can learn to downplay your achievements, avoid sensory overstimulation, remain grateful, find selflessness, practice delayed gratification, cease taking offense (not taking yourself too seriously), and feel zero need to impress others- this will lead you to much contentment in life.
A social media addiction does not facilitate this.
STEREOTYPE!!!
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Totally true, nothing more satisfying than doings things my way and helping others find their way! Great content.
I knew i wasnt alpha. But i knew i wasnt beta either!
My boss has told me in the last 7 years at least 4 times that people at work are starting following my lead and that ive been setting a bad example like be confident enough where i challange athority sometimes and i dont put others down although if someone insults me i will one up them until they stop
Words to live by; Don't confuse your rank with my authority over myself.
last words of every employee in every company
There are too many false Alphas today. A truly legitimate Alpha has ZERO issues with a truly legitimate Sigma. The Sigma possesses many of the same leadership qualities, but doesn't want the adoration or acknowledgement from peers at all. A Sigma has no desire for any of that bravado, therefore the Alpha never feels like there is competition as a leader, which is arguably the biggest pet peeve for Alphas.
A true alpha doesn’t hate anybody.
exactly. this video is misleading
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Alpha's are Leaders
Sigma's are Masterminds
THEY BOTH CAN BE BOTH!!!
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1:50 nobody knows? You only compete with yourself, that’s the secret.
Alphas are the highest ranking beta, that means that ALL alphas are just betas that are being propped up by other betas. If the alpha leaves the group another betas takes their place. Betas are literally hive minded cattle people, no matter your social rank you’re still just a beta and you wish you could be sigma but even though you now know the secret you don’t have what it takes to be one of us.
A collective is always stronger than the individual, in the future there won't be anything other than hive minds competing against each other for survival in the Universe. Indiviudality won't exist, there won't be a desire for riches or fame, only the survival of the collective.
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I think this is true but I have found that Alpha and Sigma can be Allies instead of rivals
This is actually what I see.
No. Extroverted shallow, easily bought people are what I dislike the most.
Alphas hate sigmas because they struggle to manipulate or control them. Even if the alpha can do it physically, the sigma outsmarts him and still makes it enough of a struggle physically that it typically isnt worth it or it simply is a failed endeavor.
They can't even dominate the sigma physically a lot of times, and it drives the alphas crazy. Lol.
This is one of the best Videos on the subject I have heard 🤔
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I would say: Aphas are about power structures. Sigmas prefer structures of competence.
Alpha about monkey spectrum of life, Sigma about intelligence.
Popular culture pay too much attention to monkey side of human nature - it more emotional, easy to show. Dramas with screams, superheros, showing dominance, all this rapper things
Mind side of human - very boring and complex, very hard to show in movies.
Childrens choose as authority hero with monkey style from movies and cartoons, but in real life it too primitive to get success
@@alister_kroulenko not a smooth translation but I think I agree. Kindest regards. Good day to you.
nope. alpha are not about power, beta are about power. alpha are about individual success and then collective success.
they are commanding, competent, self-controlled, motivated, inspiring, self-reliant, disciplined, but most of all with strong moral values and structure. if sigma is like that then he is alpha, if he is not then he is beta.
if he doesnt care about anything, and thinks he is special or whatever, he is beta. ego trip.
@@nnd5768 You run your fingers to the bone defending "alpha".
@@propellerhead2000 I dont understand your comment or what you are insinuating. But I guess you see defending in defining. So you are taking it emotionally and incorrectly.
2 random guys called me a sigma tbh I just want to b humble nd keep doing my thang
thank you for these series of videos, it really has helped me to understand why the dynamics of my interactions with what i have been calling "the others" seem to repeat, i never realised there was other personality types, i always thought i was the weird one. But my question is, is there a female version to the sigma, ?? and could they be a better match to men like us ??
Yes there is female version of sigma... Actually me being a sigma myself has got a sigma female to date me(she proposed me)... And now things are going pretty well now... So yeah I can say sigma male with sigma females are a better match
MY FRIENDS ARE ALPHA... AND I DON'T KNOW WHY THEY HATE ME☺EARLIER THEY LIKED ME BUT NOT NOW.... BUT I AM COMFORTABLE😎😊AND SOMETIMES I MAY HAVE TO TAKE THE POSITION OF ALPHA..... AS HOLDING ON FOR TOO LONG AGAINST COWARDS I DON'T LIKE.... SO I MAY ATTACK TO ENEMIES IF NECESSARY ❤❤❤🐺🐺🐺
they thought us were no harms to them, cause we never tried to attract everyone’s attentions like them. But when we start coming out on top, we became the biggest enemies ever
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😏😏😏 sigma plus being a aquarius... what a combination i was born into. 🤣 love it.
My G 😂
People are always dumbfounded & hating that we have our way with the world, naturally. It's God's Will.
@@chrisbaker2346 that my friend is correct.
Me too.
That's me
Maybe that’s why they call me weird and I’ve never met anybody like you before. Even the Marine Corps decided to let me march my way we are who we are. There’s not much we can do about it.
"Working in the shadows to get what you want." I guess that's why I'm good at stealth in video games... and a dead-eye shot with a sniper rifle, pardon my brag.
Very informative and insightful! Great video! 😊👍
Alpha: Being the top of the heirarchy
Sigma: Being the heirarchy
Ligma: balls
THATZ BACKWARDZ!!!
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@@THEREALLORDJ 💯
I have always found it difficult to identify where I belong. I easily find a trait or two in every category that is peculiar to me. In recent times, I have come to realize that the more studies I make on self discovery, the more I find myself drifting from the real me... What I do know is, as a child, I never wanted to be the King. However, I was more interested in being a king Maker. And I still feel that way.
Am sigma male but have good friends both alpha and beta.
Very good!
Thank you! Cheers!
Except for the section starting at 9:06, everything else seemed to describe me perfectly 😂
It’s crazy how much this describes me. I did an alpha male test a couple months ago and it told me I was a sigma and now this video just confirms it. 💯
how did you take the test?
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lol, not another one saying they're a sigma, lol.
@@PatrickStar19872 lol. Not a hater😂
Haha, everyone going "I'm sigma", because they watched the video and there are some correlations -_- lol. @@thehighpugilist2
Thank you for bringing this to light.
This is like Cristiano Ronaldo (Alpha) vs Lionel Messi (Sigma)
Perfect example.. Ronaldo, Sergio Ramos : Alpha.
Messi, dybala : sigma
Alpha Males: "Front and Face of the Company"
Sigma Males: "The man behind the Scenes"
This is true, indeed. Although, it is not as easy as it seems. And in order to be this way, we the sigma males need to pass through lots of obstacles and get out of the convencional mentality. We're the few out of the box, the brave, the tough males on the planet.😊👍
One has to find his place, then he has to keep his place, then build upon his place, then resolutely and confidently conquer the place ... The Sigma male, the quiet achiever !
This makes so much sense. I've always said I don't want to be the man, I want to be the man behind the man. The one pulling the strings but everyone else thinks it's not me. Less chances of me being a target of jealous and envy individuals. 😁
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I never cared about pulling strings, for instance, but doing my thing.
I'm 40 now....but I could see exactly this padron described by the video in my whole life. Since I were the only son for 10 years and my parents break up and come back together many times(4, being the last break definitive) I had to move to many different houses/buildings and had to be alone for long periods (that kind guided me for the "alpha" mentality because I did want to play with other kids and couldn't, so I would demand more attention and that kinda of stuff, plus my social skills were lower than the average kid of my age because all of that lonely time). So, later on (when I became an adolescent) everytime I met a new group of teenagers I never wanted to fight anyone, but EVERYTIME the "alpha" of that group would find/create a way to physically fight with me, and I'm saying 100% of the cases. By the time there wasn't this alpha, beta, sigma stuff....but I look in the features, and I have many of the features atributed to sigma men...so it makes total sense. Nowadays they try to show off to me expecting that I'd be jealous or something (but I just think: "you are the jealous one LOOOOL").
Intimidating independent sigma female here 😅🤗
Perfect!!
Who cares about women?
You got a line, of ten wolves, single file. Where is the leader? At the front?
Or in the back?
Hate anything they can't control, don't feel bad, I can't even control myself some days lol
This WHOLE TIME! I never known that there was a "Sigma Male"
But This describes Me MORE THAN THE ALPHA...
I would say this me living a sort of a sigma male life most alphas who have a problem with sigmas are insecure alphas.. for the most part alphas actually would rather hang out with sigma's more than other alphas... Also keep in mind that sigma's mostly attracts alphas and most cases they don't attract betas which is kind of weird.. most women that I've seen to attract are mostly in an alpha state.. most friends that I have are mostly alphas.. also keep in mind that alphas would trust sigma more then other alphas because they know that sigmas aren't trying to be competitive against them for the most part.. so yes you do have alphas that hate sigmas but that's kind of a minority for the most part most outfits would rather be around sigmas and would like to have them in their company because they trust them more.
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Beautiful video. Truly majestic.
Big thanks! I Appreciate it!🙏
Very accurate totally no one controls a sigma male, That would be your worst mistake.
Bro’s, the 18 second mark to the 1:31 second mark, FUCKING WOW 😮!!!! This has been me since a kid!!!!
It ALSO explains why, even at 50, i STILL manage to hook up with cute to pretty women!!!! BEST part, i STILL don’t own a car 🚗 and never owned a house 🏡!!!! Those are significant because you all know that 95% of the time, no pretty lady is giving a lot of sex to a man that owns no car 🚗 or house 🏡!!!!
In closing, i do have some Alpha traits such as self-confidence, nets hard challenges head on, physically & mentally fit, honest & upfront i.e., i’m blunt with NOOOO filter!!!!
Alpha: I don’t like you
Sigma:
Quit talking bout me bro lol
I love this, so far so good. Keep up the good work fam 👑👑👑
LOL
I always knew I was a Sigma, Even before I knew what a sigma male was.
Till now I thought my bf is beta, but after watching this video, I realise he is a Sigma male. He minds his own business but if his boundaries are crossed, he's gonna whoop the arse of that person.
What if the Sigma was just a more balanced, diplomatic Alpha?🤔
Bingo. A sigma is alpha. Just a more refined, evolved, calculated alpha who has his ego in check. Well done 👍🏽
@@PokrPro21 And I consider alphas to be just stronger than average betas. Because they're needy. They NEED followers n to be part of groups. They NEED admiration and to be liked. They need social constructs to fit into and to follow the rules of.
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@@keisi1574 I never got your notification but yes you are correct. It's better to be alpha than beta but alphas are definitely flawed and have weaknesses. All this time I thought I was more on the alpha side until learning about sigmas
wow that this explains why so much peoples hate me in my country and they never stop gaslighting me
I really enjoyed this video. Because I never felt like an Alpha male but I never felt like none of those other weaker males in the hierarchy structure either. Sigma fits my disposition perfectly.
lol. beta
Still not Sigma though. You are a specialist in society doing his own thing. A Sigma has the same social charisma to hold strong presence if needed, like a visiting wolf of a pack of other wolves for the night, teaches them the ways of the wise, and leaves the next morning.
@@imoretullv243 lol
A SIGMA IZ JUST AN ALPHA WITH A QUIET DISPOSITION!!!
@@THEREALLORDJ I dont think this how they describe sigma is actually alpha. Sigmas make their own rules, they dont fit in any system, they lack humility, they dont follow hierarchy. It looks like a huge beta ego trip.
Most are misunderstood. You may see one and think he is a bad guy however he can not know you and be the most real person and save your life because he can learn from others and behavior he might even read your thoughts by your body language or facial expressions.