How To Build A STRONGER Relationship During DIFFICULT TIMES! | Radhi Devlukia Shetty & Jay Shetty
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- Опубликовано: 14 фев 2021
- This week, Jay Shetty speaks with his wife, Radhi Devlukia-Shetty, to talk about the challenges
and successes of their relationship on this very special 2-year anniversary episode of On
Purpose with Jay Shetty.
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Both Jay and Radhi dance to the beat of their own drum, but building a lasting love takes
patience and collaboration--even during extreme circumstances.
This week, Jay Shetty speaks with his wife, Radhi Devlukia-Shetty, to talk about the challenges
and successes of their relationship on this very special 2-year anniversary episode of On
Purpose with Jay Shetty.
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I hope one day I can talk to my partner in this way. The emotional intelligence is just immaculate.
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My hope 💜
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Me too! They are so awesome together.
🤧😭not crying
My heart is in shreds. I got betrayed by someone I least expected to. I'm binge watching Jay's channel because I'm trying to heal and the idea that real genuine love exists makes me feel hopeful... I guess. Please pray for me y'all. I'm in a very dark space.
As someone who's been in the same place, I can only tell you that you will heal and come back stronger. In some time, you'll wonder why you even gave the person so much energy and thought.. Key : Focus on yourself and not the other person or the betrayal..
Forgive that person .. everything that happens happens for good.. be grateful for everything in your life..what you have, what you have achieved,And keep watching Jay Shetty videos you will feel happy and you will be healed..I am wishing you well ...stay positive stay strong stay blessed
🙏 for you and me. Same boat. Must focus on me and my kids
Do the work on yourself, because that's really what will get you out of your funk. Looking within yourself might feel uncomfortable and unfamiliar, but the ability to sit with yourself and feel your feelings and take responsibility for your wellbeing is what will heal you and make you feel more whole than you felt with that person. Feel the sadness, mourn the loss of that relationship, then when the sadness subsides enough start looking back at what that person brought to your life that you didn't have and seek to understand 1) why you felt that lack in the first place 2) how to fill that need by yourself for yourself.
All the best finding your way back to your well-being.
Also, check out Sadhguru and the Inner Engineering program
God bless you with the power and warmth of love 💕
I'm so jealous of women who find their love in their 20s. they got many years to build good memories and grow together.
Trust lifes' timing
I feel you have to trust your own journey and timing. If it didn't happen in your 20s, it's hopefully for the better.
hopefully the time spent apart will be made up for when you find each other! and i hope you’re finding happiness regardless 💞💞
it is ok, if you can find latter.
Yeah instead of
having that all in the beginning and they don’t notice you’re around
I love how natural and authentic Radhi is, please do more interviews together❤️
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She's sweet! 🌺
Yes me too I love to see them together
Radhi has such a sparkling energy! And she is also funny, especially when she looks into the camera!
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“Amplifying strengths” is such a strong point.
It is so easy to see differences instead of noting how the differences create balance.✨
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Radhi's question at 11:00 and Jay's answer to it is just so heartwarming and can literally save relationships
totally
You saved me time by mentioning the timeline
I just sent that to my boyfriend because I feel like we do this! ❤ I took me a while to find it, guess I should have read the comment first, lol.
The way they supportive in their answering each other's questions >>>
Can I just say.. the way Jay look at her is just full of love, respect and adoration… that’s when you know how pure and genuine they love each other.
I know I shouldn’t say this, but this is how I’m able to live and speak with friends… It blows my mind seeing actual proof of an emotionally intelligent male partner. Amazing.
"I know you're not asking me because you're trying to make my life difficult, you're doing it because you want to be loved that way..." Brilliant. Such a beautiful interview. Thank you for sharing this and the energy you put into this video. Sending you many blessings!
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She: “How many years have we been married...3? 4?..”
He: “5”
Lol
"You want to be loved in that way", I never saw it that way... Amazing. Thanks Jay!
The way she makes fun of Jay is priceless, this chemistry must be present in every healthy relationship 🤗
You guys make me never want to settle! The Effort you put into the relationship and understanding you’ve of each other is just amazing and admiring
Jay Shetty and Ravi Devlukia-Shetty are beautiful, inspiring and real. They clearly have a strong and healthy connection to each other and themselves. I wouldn't be surprised if they collaborate on a show or book jointly about how to have a strong relationship. I know that they are human beings and are not perfect but they sure seem to have it more together than most people. I am uplifted and inspired when I hear them speak.
You literally found the perfect wife. She compliments you so well (-*-) It brings out a playful side and you bring out even more of her depth. You can tell she values you too and how amazing of a husband you are to her. I feel like you would do really great to teach men how to be really great husbands and how to respond to their wives needs lovingly and with patience, willingness, and positive energy- also teachings on how to remain calm, I’m learning that’s a masculine gift (it can be feminine too, but I think of a masculine counter part being the pillar/the rock/the stabilizing force) and her feminine energy being what decorated the space in magic, joy, fun, connection, purpose, meaning, warmth, safety, and love. So inspiring seeing you two talk like this. Blessings. Namaste
I love his point on compromise. Another perspective i heard is that doing those occasional things you think you don't want to do actually serves your deeper want to have a close, solid relationship. So if you change your perspective, you actually do want to do those things because you understand the deep intention behind them. There's definitely room to take that idea too far, but I think it's great for the smaller things.
3 mins in - - Radhi ❤️❤️❤️ Jay - - its a request for love, please show up for me, love me, see me 😭😭😭
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Ok...I was smiling and laughing the whole episode! Relationship goals, right there 💯🙏💕
Omg I love Radhi she reminds me of myself so bubbly and I love the fact that Jay embrace her ❤❤❤❤
2:22 = What do you find hardest about love ?
10:58 = What are your thoughts when you go fetch something for someone ?
14:57 = About a time where you have made a compromise ? How did it work out ?
20:17 = How do you find time alone, and with each other (with both your busy schedules) ?
"You actually end up moving further away, by forcing yourselves to be together" - such a great point, sometimes you need to give eachother space so that you can maintain/build a stronger connection within any relationship
Jay has a way of trimming the fat so to speak when explaining something. There’s a lot of entrepreneurs, celebs, motivation coaches etc. but I don’t think anyone hits the point in such an articulate way as he does ❤️
Jordan Peterson is very articulate as well if you wanna check him out
Ikr!
Radhi’s snack is the equivalent of Jays cut fruit. She feels loved when Jay brings snacks, jay associates that love with cut fruit.. She seemed somewhat annoyed by it maybe more in a joking way, but they’re the same request for love.
What a beautifully authentic couple. Thank you for being so inspiring.
It is that time of year jay and Rad hang out with us ♥️
Love,when you two do these very HONEST and REAL discussions.
You two are a beautiful couple ❤
Rhadi casually not wearing any shoes ! Love it 😊 love your relationship and all the advice❤
Your communication is something I will definitely have with my future wife. Love you always!
I wish my current relationship was like this, but it's proving difficult to even get her to have a raw, honest and respectful discussion like this.
Same. Feel like I'm swimming against the tide constantly just to keep my head above water. It would be insightful, and sad as hell really, to hear the flip of this when a couple should split because one party trying goes no where it feels like.
@@lucidity_world funny enough she decided to leave even though I gave her the space she needed to deal with her unresolved issues that she said needed to be fixed by herself.
@@dartagnanrobinson2831 I hope you are in the process of moving on to a better place. Im not willing to let this go. Neither is my husband. But we are not in a healthy space and I'm the only one willing to get outside help. It will be an uphill struggle but I feel the saddest mistake would be for us to let go. I hope I'm right. Life and no practices with how to live. We make our own hell, or heaven. I always keep in mind that each one of us is at least lucky to be here and experience life. But it can and does suck. Sending love.
Love them, they are so authentic which leads to a genuinely loving relationship. Both have self-love too!
I just LOVE Radhi😩😂😂 She’s hilarious
I keep falling in love with you guys again and again. Every time I look at you both, every time I listen the way how you communicate with each other!! That's just amazing ❤️ thank you for giving others an example about a healthy relationship and a hope, that they do exist!!!
Thank you for this example. We appreciate you both 💯
OMG, when you said "This is Us", my heart sunk!!!! This is my absolute favorite show!!!!
Thank you so much for this! I freaking needed to hear this! 🙏🏼❤️🤗
36:33 Radhi, Thank you for sharing your journey, so honest, relatable. You'll are so realistic. Love you both ♥️ love how Radhi mentions fear of taking the next step. 😭😭❤️❤️🙋♀️
I have been in a relationship for 2 months and this is so inspiring
So true! Need to breathe!👌
Great that you allow each other to grow.
Absolutely, loved this! Best relationship advice I've heard on a podcast🙌 The point on Compromise was 🙏
That's how every couple should try to be..perfect for each other.❤️
Amazing video!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼!!! Soo inspirational! And REAL!!!! ❤️
Such a beautiful convo, would love more of you together.
I currently started my very first relationship. I wanted to learn more about how to work and build it and I think jays and radhis conversations provide a very mature insight on how to grow a healthy relationship. So grateful that I found this in good time!!
I wish you all the best.
It is very good to see both together.
just love listening to you both! we can learn so much and it's so enjoyable
I just love listening to you two, thank you! 🤗♥
This was so insightful! You're such a great example for a healthy and loving relationship! Love you both!
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Love her energy! ❤️
The two of you are so exceptional, its beyond comparison. Keep on doing these podcasts, its inspirational to like minded people. Lots of love goes out to you guys.
"Let the other person know what is valuable to you."
I’m so looking forward to hearing your conversation in 2022. I’ve downloaded both and love them.
Thanks for sharing your personal experiences. Bring me a smile 😊. I love how you 2 loving each other. You both are a great example to me
This was pure bliss. Im going to watch again a refresher because so many jewels were dropped.. he is so supportive of her journey and her growth and I love it
Jay, you guys bring balance to each other.
How amazing, thank you so much for who you both are😊
This is really a nice episode! Love to u both!♥️
Really needed it Radhi! I'm just in that phase that you were
Beautiful couples. God bless you both with long loving relationship with long life.
Dude I love watching them together!
This interview exceeded my expectations. She's so fun and cool and they have such a special connection 💕
Loved this soooo much! You guys are amazing ❤️
His definition for the word comprising and couples 🤯I love it 🥰
Wow, I never thought I could feel so understood. I thought it's just me... But I'm like 100% Radhi. Thank you so much for sharing.
You two are awesome, thank you for this! ❤️
Jay you are really changing my life thank you so much
This is us is one of the best relationships series! I love it!
You both are awesome! You will help a lot of people’s in general to appreciate each and every individualities and life be much more happier ❤
I can’t wait for this years talk. I’m waiting….. waiting…
Absoloutely love this couple.Amazing...they look so alike too.Soul mates for sure!
This was incredibly insightful! Thank you
this made me cry because I realized where I was messing up but you both made me realize what I need to fix and change if I want to make my relationship work . thank you so much for having this conversation it really did change my view on relationships .
I love yalls connection. It is beautiful.
This is exactly how I have been feeling Radhi. Like I must have a purpose, but there is so much fear holding me back from putting myself out there. I’m shocked that you had doubts in yourself! You are so beautiful inside and out, smart, funny, and spontaneous. I absolutely love who you have chosen to be and to put yourself out there for the world. The only thing that I wish is that you had more videos up!
Love your energy SO SO MUCH!!! You guys are the best
They're so cute together! They inspire me to keep working on my communication skills and expressing my emotions in a healthy way, it's such a challenging yet rewarding thing to try overcome.
I needed this and actually cried listening. I’m going thru issues with my other and this really reasoned with me.
I have been listening to you Jay every morning the lady two weeks and I’m so happy to say that I am feeling the motivation, the gratitude and the love you share with all.
This is my first time seeing your lovely wife. The two of you together exude sooo much love, respect and happiness. Yet you are each your own person❤️
I’m going to check out all of her social media today.
THANK YOU!!!
I just sent this to the boyfriend to listen to.
Very insightful. Love it. 💘🧚🏾♀️
Great couple, smiling all through.
I loved the definition of"compromise" given by Jay👍❤️And yeah,I just got ur book today,"Think like a Monk"❤️But not started reading bcuz m watching ur podcast👍
I learned so much through you guys and similar couples who share the same values, live their lives through compassion for their partner and are not afraid to be who they are with them while accepting fully the other person as well. Also, super important to lower your ego in order to live in harmony with one another. 😊 Thank you for showing me what not settling down brings you in the long run. It’s so worth it to wait for the right one!
Just wow 👏 how beautiful mindset it is that u guys both have
I just got up on Jay Shetty a couple of weeks ago ! Thanks to favorite show on RUclips IMPACT THEORY 💪🏾 now I watch some content with him DAILY as part of my morning routine ! 🏆 HERES THE THING ! I just fell in love with his wife’s personality . I LOVE IT ! I have some of the same fears she’s had . SMH!
NOW I LOVE THEM BOTH 🙏🏾for different reasons but I also LOVE THEM AS A UNIT ❤️
literally one of the best conversations on relationships i've heard in a while!! this was soo valuable, thank you Jay and Radhi for sharing your experience 🙌🏻
So powerful message
Radhi, thank you for being so transparent about finding your purpose. Sometimes, it can be daunting figuring out our passions and our purpose (and filling our day). It can be easier to hide behind our partner and family because it can be very paralyzing with the prospects of stepping out into the unknown and/or failure. You are describing my situation for over a decade. Thank you for sharing and being so open, it’s easy to sit back and think that I am the only one feeling this, but it’s so encouraging and comforting knowing someone who is so kind, sweet, beautiful, accomplished and renowned as you has had the very feelings I had for so long. I finally started my path earlier this year and I am just getting better at my craft, honing my skills, regardless of my fears. It’s so encouraging that I am not the only one! Thank you for being so inspirational and encouraging! 🌟 Love watching yours and Jay RUclips channel! You guys are amazing! 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
The definition you have for compromise is perfect. I never thought about it that way.
We expect to have telepathy 😇 in our relation with our partners.. and just know what the other person wants ,needs or thinks. Most of the time “little Requests” are assumed or are seen as ordering your partner around” but I love how you put it, that you want to be shown love in that way.
Thanks for being so real! ❤
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One of the best things I've ever watched, so genuine, so helpful, so practical, so relatable!
When the sitcom show question came, I had the same answer which Radhi also gave. This show has touched people's hearts in such a beautiful way. On another note as important, Thanks Jay and Radhi for doing what you do
Woooow ,the way he described the word compromise....love it love this show
I love them both so much.
Loved this sooooooo much 💕 Beautiful couple
this talk came to me at the right moment. Thank you ^_^
This just made my day. So beautiful. So perfect
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Radhi is always my fav !! she is so funny !! loved your topic of conversations
Looooooooove this. Intellectually stimulating. Brilliant. Fun. Funny. Honest. Cool.
You guys are the best! Thank you.😊🙏🏾