Masha'Allah, I enjoyed watching this! Baraka Allah fikum! May Allah bless you sisters Maryam and Na'ima and of course brother Sa'id. Brother Sa'id said: "If you commit, make the effort, put in the time and the sweat, you do not only end up with a happy marriage. You give your children the tools to have a happy marriage. It has a ripple effect." And I loved when sister Na'ima said afterwards: "It is a ✨legacy✨." I would like to add something. If our parents did not help us have those tools to have a happy marriage, well let US be the ones to break that ceiling and give our children those tools. This contribute not only to us, our children and grandchildren, but also to the nation building of Islam.
Mash’Allah, what a beautiful balance in a relationship. Jazak Allahu Khayran for sharing your powerful truth on how your upbringing impacted your approach and developed your wisdom in marriage. Al Hamdu Lillah,
I’ll be honest, I was a bit skeptical about the whole women empowerment thing at the beginning. Until all of you clarify what you meant. Maa sha Allaah, left me emotional to see such a beautiful couple love and build up one another. I ask Allah to keep blessing your marriage and family 💕
Subhanallah, this is going to change the perspective for many, as a society we make a comparison between the parent's and the child, example," if his father has many wives he will want the same", this is an example in which the son has chosen not to.
Allahumah Baarik 💝 We need more like this Muslims should listen to topic like this because most of Muslims don't believe in marriage counseling or anything Thanks for this sisters Hoping to see more of this
I am forever grateful to all 3 of you and to Allah swt for this eye opening talk! A marriage that declares Allah’s perfection. A marriage that is, in fact, a SIGN for those who believe. This was priceless sister Naima, you are the "Oprah" of our Ummah !JazakAllahou khairan lots of love ❤ 😍 💖 ❣
Please come back with these videos!!! You helped me so much to connect with my true femininity as a woman and I’m losing it again I need ur videos back! I’m stuck with sprinkle sprinkle videos and these views are too extreme and unislamic. Help us again 😅🥰
Problem comes in that many muslims think of boys as investments and the husband and wife think that when they will get old the young boy who now is an adult will take care of them financially. And many many times these children grow up and either move to other countries , or get married and have there own responsibility. Muslims have to change tjis model of looking at man as ATM machine. This man has his emotions too. And once he has his own family , he has to look at his own family physically, emotionally and financially. Then we don’t see these tug of wars between inlaws and man’s wife and children. As muslims we not only have to plan our present but our future too when we retire. Also Having less children that are strong in worldly education and religious education. Having independent thinking for both men and women. True instead of becoming liability they become healthy members for families and society. So quality over quantity matters.
Bis mi Allah very rewarding the honest talk perhaps we will leave next Generation understanding to listen learn and move forward not misunderstand our test and learning and opinions are as Quran state about Ibrahim they will answer for what they did .
Interesting topic and very blessed couple for sure. However what I find is usually where couples are happy like this are the ones the lady works outside the house so she can feel valued and important- also respected due to the financial contribution. If the lady stays at home and just serves her husband all the time, many times she feels like she's no more than a slave. They have totally different plans and day to day problems however when woman works they can share the housework in the evenings ( maids sounds like a luxury to me) so they bond and not just have different ways and problems. What if the husband obliges the wife to stay at home? According to sharia she has to listen.. Maryam travels alone and for work- isn't that haram? I am not sharia policing but finding that happy marriages even in islam are usually the ones where they incorporate some western values, not the hit your wife and leave her in bed etc what islam teaches- no emotional intelligence required on behalf of husband ...I am sad bcz i am a muslim and struggle with this honestly.
I can understand your point of view because I have seen the scenarios of what you are saying. But the whole hitting your wife thing is not a Muslim marriage, you have to know that it is not a part of the sunnah and has a very particular context to it. Marriage is supposed to be a couple uniting to build their own stable family through mutual love and commitment. Men are physically stronger and have been given the responsibility to provide. Women are allowed to earn their own money too but are responsible for the upbringing of her children whether this means raising them herself or choosing the right nurseries/schools. Some scholars say she isnt obliged to do housework and a husband must employ a maid if she doesnt want to do it herself. Others say that if her husband is maintaining the house financially, it makes sense for women to take care of the house internally. But the sunnah is that when the Prophet S came home, he did housework. The role of a homemaker has been completely devalued in the modern society unfortunately even though it actually does make for a happy home. Women should listen to their husbands unless it's against the religion but men should not become tyrants or dictators, they are your partners. Tyrants are the biggest criminals in Islam. Women are supposed to be treated better by their husbands than their fathers. One of the lines of the final sermon of the messenger S was be kind to women, they are your partners and committed helpers. Yes men should be emotionally intelligent! Don't you know the hadith - the best men are the ones who are best to their wives/family and I am the best to my wives/family. The religion is very easy but people don't bother to learn it anymore. My advice to you is to study it and find a husband who also studies it and discuss how you want your house to run and what your requirements are. Each couple is different. But if you build your love through loving Allah then it will surely be blessed. May Allah allow your future to be better than your past and have beautiful experiences that bring you closer to Him 🤍 dont be sad, your Creator is with you
@@ZM-et7zt may Allah bless you for answering. Dont worry about me, I have a kind husband. It's generally Im talkin about and worried for girls across the globe who are married off young and husband only reads the Quran not hadith. Usually thats what happens, everyone reads Quran and doesn't know hadith. I know the ones you quoted but then why Quran tells hit your wife..thats the main holy book, and people are memorizing it a lot more than hadith. There isn't a verse after it saying lightly even..even though that is still not a nice advice from the womans point of view-I cant think otherwise but see that Quran ecourages this instead of prohibiting (!) and thats my challenge as I am a revert and it is extremely hard to believe the perfect religion teaches this.
In Islam, you can't interprete the Qur'an on its own. So although the Qur'an says we should do Salah, the hadith explains how to do it. So if the Qur'an talks about hitting, the hadith explains it. Also the prophet is literally the walking Qur'an and he never hit anyone even the children/slaves. So who better we follow than the prophet SAW.
@@MsKingusbaby1 the Quran doesn’t teach to hit the Arabic word used is translated wrongfully to beat in English it’s been mentioned in hadiths to use a miswak for that. If you have ever seen one you can’t hit hard with it it doesn’t hurt basically it says to tap the shoulder with it and that’s what the quranic verse refers to a tap on the shoulder in no means forcefull hit slap or anything it’s a tap on the shoulder like „wake up“ and is very important if you ever act emotionally and get carried away start yelling or acting out you should look at each other wake up and stop for a sec this arguing is from sheitan and not what spouses should do. This obviously requires that the husband has good intentions and feels like the arguing is goi g left so he has the right just like the other one to stop step out of your emotions and think if this is really worth to do during a marriage. A husband that does this but has the intention to punish the women for acting out is not what is meant by the verses and not allowed. And the prophet never layed HANDS on his wives. Theres one Hadith that has been mistranslated as well when the prophet saw left the bed from Aisha Ra to see djibril and Aisha ran out because she thought he went to see his other wives (which would be unequal if this night was for aisha) but she ran outside out of jealousy and the prophet saw returned and saw she had done that out of jealousy and taped her on the shoulder in the sense of „why would I do that wake up it’s haram for him saw to be unfair to the wives and in fact he was outside to talk to the angel“ and Aisha felt ashamed but not because she had been beaten no she wasn’t beaten and she was ashamed that she acted out of jealousy and doubted the prophet saw without knowing what he was up to and imagine how many women complain and destroy the peace at home because they are jealous and believe their spouse is doing something wrong even though he is not. This leads to mistrust without the spouse to have ever done something.
Mariam was 18 years old when Said married her. They are now 30years in marriage. Said was 12 years older than Mariam when they married each other. Mathematics now. On weeding day Said was 30 years Mariam was 18 years.
We 1443 will answered for we accomplished and the Quaran and Sunnah that was left the Day theseal of Prophets left will always be the map how he started how the science from S-112. S- 60. S-32. S-96 The First S- Read on every level of Humanity and S-JUMAH AND THE Law must be Establishes and what does Haram mean? Understood and .adina. Madina the place where the seal of Prophets where all knowledge and Teaching sentfrom to all of Humanity
Alhamdullilah my husband is like this too! I am so grateful to Allah that I got someone who is willing to work things out with me too!
I love listening to this couple both individually and together. I agree with so much of their approach. May Allah bless us all in our marriages.
This video should be seen in every muslim household
Each sentence is a lesson .Amazong. Thank you and Allah save and bless you all.
Our brother said ‘’ To raise the level of importance of her in my life’’ that is deep mashallah much blessings and success to this couple ✨❤️💖
Masha Allah
He's truly a blessing!
Masha'Allah, I enjoyed watching this! Baraka Allah fikum! May Allah bless you sisters Maryam and Na'ima and of course brother Sa'id.
Brother Sa'id said: "If you commit, make the effort, put in the time and the sweat, you do not only end up with a happy marriage. You give your children the tools to have a happy marriage. It has a ripple effect." And I loved when sister Na'ima said afterwards: "It is a ✨legacy✨."
I would like to add something. If our parents did not help us have those tools to have a happy marriage, well let US be the ones to break that ceiling and give our children those tools. This contribute not only to us, our children and grandchildren, but also to the nation building of Islam.
Subhanallah, it's so great and inspiring to hear. InshaAllah it will help me in the future. Juzakallahu khair all of you.
Mash’Allah, what a beautiful balance in a relationship. Jazak Allahu Khayran for sharing your powerful truth on how your upbringing impacted your approach and developed your wisdom in marriage. Al Hamdu Lillah,
Masha Allah, each view should be a like. This couple is dropping gems. This is so much needed. Thank you sister Naima for this ❤
“Piece that complements me” that’s beautiful MaShaAllah
I’ll be honest, I was a bit skeptical about the whole women empowerment thing at the beginning. Until all of you clarify what you meant. Maa sha Allaah, left me emotional to see such a beautiful couple love and build up one another. I ask Allah to keep blessing your marriage and family 💕
Subhanallah, this is going to change the perspective for many, as a society we make a comparison between the parent's and the child, example," if his father has many wives he will want the same", this is an example in which the son has chosen not to.
Allahumah Baarik 💝
We need more like this
Muslims should listen to topic like this because most of Muslims don't believe in marriage counseling or anything
Thanks for this sisters
Hoping to see more of this
Maa shaa Allah Allahumma barek alaiha. Sounds like my husband too. May Allah bless my zawj and Ustadh Said and all the men like them. Aameen
I am forever grateful to all 3 of you and to Allah swt for this eye opening talk! A marriage that declares Allah’s perfection. A marriage that is, in fact, a SIGN for those who believe. This was priceless sister Naima, you are the "Oprah" of our Ummah !JazakAllahou khairan lots of love ❤ 😍 💖 ❣
Ameen to Maryam's dua for you dear Na'ima! Barakallahu feeke for an amazing interview! May your rewards come back to you in thousands.
17:00 when your growing together, you learn together 💯
I love this talk so much! So much gems and pearls of wisdom!
Jazakillah o khairen kaseera waahsanl jaza fid-daren sister naima. For making the effort.
Machallah, i learned a lot.
Special mention To the definition of a strong woman, I totally agree with that.
Love this couple wnd all their advices. ❤❤❤🎉May Allah bless their marriage. Ameen
Ma shaa Allah
So much to learn from your channel JazakaAllahu khairan sis
Wellahi ..... The best video on marriage and beyond ❤❤❤
Jezakallah......Barekallah 🙏🤲
Please come back with these videos!!! You helped me so much to connect with my true femininity as a woman and I’m losing it again I need ur videos back! I’m stuck with sprinkle sprinkle videos and these views are too extreme and unislamic. Help us again 😅🥰
Assalaamu Alaikum Wa rahmatullahi wa baarkatuhu. Jazakum Allahu khairaa for these sessions.
MashAllah, this sharing is an amazing and inspiring story ❤️may you have more blessings to share your wisdom again 🤲🏾
Mashaallah that is the hasband we can call hasband mashallah tabarakah llah
ALLAH gives you more love to each other mashallah
Alhumdulillah may Allah azza wa jal preserve their marriage Ameen !
Alhamdullilah for men like this! Alhamdullilah for women like this! This is what we should aspire for. To do things the way allah has told us to!
جزاكم الله خيراً و حسن الثواب 💕🌹💕💐💕🌹💕
What a beautiful couple, loved this conversation! 💓💓
Wishing u the best of best maryam and Saeed
May ALLAH makes you live longer and healthy
Great job ladies!!
Mashallah we need more like this
May Allah bless this family.
MasyaAllah, very knowledgeable couple.
I miss your content where did you gooooo😢😢😢
They're also my favorite couple 😍. May Allah bless ur union
1:12:28 commitment! 💯
Problem comes in that many muslims think of boys as investments and the husband and wife think that when they will get old the young boy who now is an adult will take care of them financially. And many many times these children grow up and either move to other countries , or get married and have there own responsibility. Muslims have to change tjis model of looking at man as ATM machine. This man has his emotions too. And once he has his own family , he has to look at his own family physically, emotionally and financially. Then we don’t see these tug of wars between inlaws and man’s wife and children. As muslims we not only have to plan our present but our future too when we retire. Also Having less children that are strong in worldly education and religious education. Having independent thinking for both men and women. True instead of becoming liability they become healthy members for families and society. So quality over quantity matters.
All i have to say is allahuma barik❤
What a beautiful couple!❤❤❤
Bis mi Allah very rewarding the honest talk perhaps we will leave next Generation understanding to listen learn and move forward not misunderstand our test and learning and opinions are as Quran state about Ibrahim they will answer for what they did .
Mashallah ALLAH bless you all
Not a greed husband every thing is me me but him mashallah i lIke their story mashallah
Allahuma bareek❤
Mashaallah!
اللهم بارك لكم و عليكم آمين
100 % sister
How can i find out more about tge premarital program by this couple
Check it out here: www.maryamlemu.com/link/8Byt3k
great
MashaAllah
Jazaakumullahu khayran
They both are very good looking because their wudu
Allahuma Barak
Was the comment at the end joking or if a sister DMs/emails her, should they assume the content is being read by an unrelated man and not her?
Allhamdulilah
Mashallah tabarakallah
Interesting topic and very blessed couple for sure. However what I find is usually where couples are happy like this are the ones the lady works outside the house so she can feel valued and important- also respected due to the financial contribution. If the lady stays at home and just serves her husband all the time, many times she feels like she's no more than a slave. They have totally different plans and day to day problems however when woman works they can share the housework in the evenings ( maids sounds like a luxury to me) so they bond and not just have different ways and problems. What if the husband obliges the wife to stay at home? According to sharia she has to listen..
Maryam travels alone and for work- isn't that haram? I am not sharia policing but finding that happy marriages even in islam are usually the ones where they incorporate some western values, not the hit your wife and leave her in bed etc what islam teaches- no emotional intelligence required on behalf of husband ...I am sad bcz i am a muslim and struggle with this honestly.
I can understand your point of view because I have seen the scenarios of what you are saying. But the whole hitting your wife thing is not a Muslim marriage, you have to know that it is not a part of the sunnah and has a very particular context to it. Marriage is supposed to be a couple uniting to build their own stable family through mutual love and commitment. Men are physically stronger and have been given the responsibility to provide. Women are allowed to earn their own money too but are responsible for the upbringing of her children whether this means raising them herself or choosing the right nurseries/schools. Some scholars say she isnt obliged to do housework and a husband must employ a maid if she doesnt want to do it herself. Others say that if her husband is maintaining the house financially, it makes sense for women to take care of the house internally. But the sunnah is that when the Prophet S came home, he did housework. The role of a homemaker has been completely devalued in the modern society unfortunately even though it actually does make for a happy home. Women should listen to their husbands unless it's against the religion but men should not become tyrants or dictators, they are your partners. Tyrants are the biggest criminals in Islam. Women are supposed to be treated better by their husbands than their fathers. One of the lines of the final sermon of the messenger S was be kind to women, they are your partners and committed helpers. Yes men should be emotionally intelligent! Don't you know the hadith - the best men are the ones who are best to their wives/family and I am the best to my wives/family. The religion is very easy but people don't bother to learn it anymore. My advice to you is to study it and find a husband who also studies it and discuss how you want your house to run and what your requirements are. Each couple is different. But if you build your love through loving Allah then it will surely be blessed. May Allah allow your future to be better than your past and have beautiful experiences that bring you closer to Him 🤍 dont be sad, your Creator is with you
@@ZM-et7zt may Allah bless you for answering. Dont worry about me, I have a kind husband. It's generally Im talkin about and worried for girls across the globe who are married off young and husband only reads the Quran not hadith. Usually thats what happens, everyone reads Quran and doesn't know hadith. I know the ones you quoted but then why Quran tells hit your wife..thats the main holy book, and people are memorizing it a lot more than hadith. There isn't a verse after it saying lightly even..even though that is still not a nice advice from the womans point of view-I cant think otherwise but see that Quran ecourages this instead of prohibiting (!) and thats my challenge as I am a revert and it is extremely hard to believe the perfect religion teaches this.
In Islam, you can't interprete the Qur'an on its own. So although the Qur'an says we should do Salah, the hadith explains how to do it. So if the Qur'an talks about hitting, the hadith explains it. Also the prophet is literally the walking Qur'an and he never hit anyone even the children/slaves. So who better we follow than the prophet SAW.
@@MsKingusbaby1 the Quran doesn’t teach to hit the Arabic word used is translated wrongfully to beat in English it’s been mentioned in hadiths to use a miswak for that. If you have ever seen one you can’t hit hard with it it doesn’t hurt basically it says to tap the shoulder with it and that’s what the quranic verse refers to a tap on the shoulder in no means forcefull hit slap or anything it’s a tap on the shoulder like „wake up“ and is very important if you ever act emotionally and get carried away start yelling or acting out you should look at each other wake up and stop for a sec this arguing is from sheitan and not what spouses should do. This obviously requires that the husband has good intentions and feels like the arguing is goi g left so he has the right just like the other one to stop step out of your emotions and think if this is really worth to do during a marriage. A husband that does this but has the intention to punish the women for acting out is not what is meant by the verses and not allowed. And the prophet never layed HANDS on his wives. Theres one Hadith that has been mistranslated as well when the prophet saw left the bed from Aisha Ra to see djibril and Aisha ran out because she thought he went to see his other wives (which would be unequal if this night was for aisha) but she ran outside out of jealousy and the prophet saw returned and saw she had done that out of jealousy and taped her on the shoulder in the sense of „why would I do that wake up it’s haram for him saw to be unfair to the wives and in fact he was outside to talk to the angel“ and Aisha felt ashamed but not because she had been beaten no she wasn’t beaten and she was ashamed that she acted out of jealousy and doubted the prophet saw without knowing what he was up to and imagine how many women complain and destroy the peace at home because they are jealous and believe their spouse is doing something wrong even though he is not. This leads to mistrust without the spouse to have ever done something.
Mariam was 18 years old when Said married her.
They are now 30years in marriage.
Said was 12 years older than Mariam when they married each other.
Mathematics now.
On weeding day Said was 30 years
Mariam was 18 years.
❤️❤️❤️
56:50 🤣
We 1443 will answered for we accomplished and the Quaran and Sunnah that was left the Day theseal of Prophets left will always be the map how he started how the science from S-112. S- 60. S-32. S-96 The First S- Read on every level of Humanity and S-JUMAH AND THE Law must be Establishes and what does Haram mean? Understood and .adina. Madina the place where the seal of Prophets where all knowledge and Teaching sentfrom to all of Humanity
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