Life lessons from 30+ years of marriage - Mrs. Maryam Lemu.

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  • Опубликовано: 21 янв 2025

Комментарии • 135

  • @zahraaminu7274
    @zahraaminu7274 15 дней назад +103

    Subhanallah. “I left Allah but Allah didn’t leave me” made me feel weak😢. May Allah forgive us and guide us. Ameen

  • @madiharukhra4671
    @madiharukhra4671 16 дней назад +88

    1- Have Taqwa - Allah first
    2- Respect
    3- Learn each other’s love language (Make your spouse feel they matter)
    4- Humor
    5- Optimism
    6- Never stop growing

  • @Lara_lighthouse
    @Lara_lighthouse 16 дней назад +52

    It's so nice to see a mother and son do something impactful

  • @فاطمة-ج4خ3ب
    @فاطمة-ج4خ3ب 14 дней назад +69

    00:00 Intro
    1:15 Mrs. Maryam's Upbringing
    6:43 Important Lessons
    9:01 Growing up with a Step-Mother
    12:13 Mrs. Maryam's Work
    18:54 Feeling Insignificant
    28:18 Prayer/Salah
    38:23 Marriage
    53:58 Rights & Obligations as a Spouse
    59:16 Habits for a Long-Lasting & Happy Marriage
    1:06:41 Realities
    1:07:49 Common Marital Issues/Patterns
    1:16:07 Infidelity
    1:18:15 Communication in a Relationship
    1:27:17 Islam as the Foundation
    1:42:16 Important Books
    1:45:17 What are you most Proud of?
    1:53:51 Advice to the Young & Aspiring
    2:02:50 Struggling with Focus
    2:03:56 Conclusion & Surprise! =)

    • @UmmAmmaar1
      @UmmAmmaar1 14 дней назад +4

      Subhanallah, this is really helpful! I need people like you in every comment section. Jazakillahu khayran 🤍

    • @sultanaliyakath4297
      @sultanaliyakath4297 12 дней назад +1

      Jazak allah khair..thanku so much

    • @khadijaaithmid5536
      @khadijaaithmid5536 9 дней назад +2

      بارك الله فيك ختي فاطمة 😘😘 بوسة كبيرة ليك من المغرب

    • @sarantoure7233
      @sarantoure7233 8 дней назад

      Thanks

    • @فاطمة-ج4خ3ب
      @فاطمة-ج4خ3ب 8 дней назад

      @@khadijaaithmid5536ههههههه وفيكي بارك الله!🤍

  • @cre_maksi5108
    @cre_maksi5108 7 часов назад +1

    I am a Christian, I loooove the wisdom oozing from this woman. Her reels started popping on my fb timelines & I would be intrigued by the words from her mouth… Her stability on God is admirable. I have learnt a lot especially on ego. Oh, & the interviewer was on point! Thank you Mrs Lady for teaching us on marriage, I was in a relationship that went stale, retrospectively, I can see where I went wrong. May God help me in this journey more so in reconnecting with Him.

  • @Muslimahonherdeen
    @Muslimahonherdeen 15 дней назад +47

    May Allah reward and bless Mrs.Maryam and Nurian. I am in my 20s and this just made me realize so many things in my life that I need to change and improve. Inshallah my goal is strive for excellence in every part of my life as a servant of Allah , as a daughter , a sister , a human being. Indeed Allah said “Allāh will not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves”. If we don’t take action to change each and everyday , we will stay stagnant and never reach our full potential. May Allah help us to change for the better inshallah.

  • @LoveAndLoyalty9884
    @LoveAndLoyalty9884 16 дней назад +59

    This is very professional wallah...I didn't even know she is your mum...

    • @sarantoure7233
      @sarantoure7233 8 дней назад +1

      MashaALLAH that's his mum? Beautiful!

  • @meemaawa4899
    @meemaawa4899 17 дней назад +39

    Alhamdulillah! It is / will never too late to return and ask for Tawba. Allah is certainly ghafurun raheem.

  • @umarayesha8677
    @umarayesha8677 16 дней назад +29

    This is beautiful...
    Masha Allāh.
    Even though, I'm yet to get married, this opened my eyes to many things.
    May Allāh bless us all with the highest ranks of Jannah.
    One thing i can be sure of is Being born a Muslim, shouldn't stop us from rediscovering it. The deen is beautiful and perfect.
    Alhamdullilah.

  • @hs_wears
    @hs_wears 11 дней назад +12

    This is a whole master class full of notes to write, things to reflect on, habits to work on and emotions to feel.
    Thank you so much for this and to Mrs. Maryam for sharing these priceless lessons and recommendations with us. Jazakum Allahu khairan.

  • @UmmAmmaar1
    @UmmAmmaar1 16 дней назад +28

    First things first, I wanna say jazakumullahu khayran for the work our dear, lovely internet mum and her family do 🤍 Secondly, Nurain, next time get a tissue box lol
    'Allah blessed me with huge feet', yeah me too! 😅💝
    - I love how throughout the video, emphasis was made on taqwa (God consciousness) and intentionality.
    - I think we should all implement the litmus test in our lives.
    - Imagine having six figures in your account and feeling bankrupt and empty! Subhanallah, we NEED Allah in our lives.
    - Oh my! I love, love how highly she speaks of her husband, that part of the video is wholesome and goals, and how she keeps saying 'my husband' and not 'your father'. It's cute!
    - 56:37 "Putting in the work and knowing yourself before marriage, so that it is less likely that someone customizes you to suit them". Yupp, because then it is two people growing and working together to achieve shared goals. Overall, a beautiful and educative video with lots of gems. And yass, I subscribed and shared with loved ones. Waiting for more videos inshaa Allah.

  • @BlackRoseTVngBRTV
    @BlackRoseTVngBRTV 15 дней назад +15

    “We have to be careful not to fall for our PR”, don’t wait for praise, just become. That is so profound. Every part of this video is enlightening. JazakumuLlahu khairan.

  • @saadahsunusi1455
    @saadahsunusi1455 5 дней назад +3

    Masha Allah... This really made me cry 😢. May Allah reward you abundantly. I have no idea that she's your mum.

  • @faddysvlog9413
    @faddysvlog9413 6 дней назад +2

    The fact that I listen from the beginning to the end shows how amazing this show is. Alhamdulillah I learned a lot from your mother and one thing I will definitely take with me today is when she prayed to Allah to that she witnessed her parents being good Muslims I pray my children and the Muslim ummah will pray so for me too🤲🏾

  • @idilkirimca7489
    @idilkirimca7489 13 дней назад +3

    What an amazing episode! Had no idea she is your mom! You both did a great job and Maryam is such an inspiration ❤🧿🤲

  • @bunmiayo7962
    @bunmiayo7962 3 дня назад +1

    Allahumma baarik for this wonderful life changing programme 🙌

  • @MuhsinahCoaching
    @MuhsinahCoaching 16 дней назад +5

    So beautiful to see a mother and son have such a insightful conversation. I really enjoyed this. Jazakallah khair

  • @awaliciouss8326
    @awaliciouss8326 12 дней назад +4

    It was such a surprise when you revealed she is your mother, amazing

  • @hafsatadamu4397
    @hafsatadamu4397 5 дней назад +2

    I had a shock at the end. I couldn’t close my mouth. Allahumma Bareek to this Beautiful Family❤️ and Jazakallah bhi Khair. Insightful Indeed!

  • @ibrahimmaryam9919
    @ibrahimmaryam9919 15 дней назад +3

    I read the comments before starting and initially thought, “I know she’s wonderful but y’all are a bit extra today”. I am 30 minutes in and I AGREE!! I love this episode so much, so much to learn and unpack. I pause intermittently to take it all in.
    Allahumma baarik
    BarakAllah alaikum 💛. May Allah reward both your efforts

  • @AishaMustapha-q9r
    @AishaMustapha-q9r 16 дней назад +11

    Wow, just... wow. This video is a masterpiece. I loved every minute of it.Thank you for creating something so beautiful and meaningful.

  • @user-ee2qq4hp3z
    @user-ee2qq4hp3z 15 дней назад +11

    This was wonderful and professionally done. I've watched all the episodes of Half of Faith with Maryam Lemu and her husband over and over and over. Countless times. As a revert, I cannot wait to fulfil half of my Deen with the coolness of my eyes, gifted to me by Allah swt. Sometimes, I feel it would never come. But Insha'Allah, soon.

  • @nassima5632
    @nassima5632 11 дней назад +4

    I was more than ready for divorce 3 years or so into marriage when I met both of them, I think it was with Sr Roberts, and your mum said how the first 5-6 years were hell..yet they managed to make things work. That day, I found hope for my own marriage. That was the first time I fell in love with her...may y'all be blessed. And the only du'a I could think of after listening to you guys was _rabbana hablana mina-s-saaliheen_.. may Allah swt accept fom you. Ameen.
    Absolutely underrated comment she made - how naïve we are thinking we will change our partner after marriage..and ego..always gets the best of ourselves.

  • @hamdisdaze8412
    @hamdisdaze8412 15 дней назад +5

    Subhanallah! I thoroughly enjoyed watching this on an emotional roller coaster. So informative, heartwarming, eye opening, and all around feel good vibes! This video should be trending. Jazakallahu khair and may He preserve you both, ameen thumma ameen. 🥹💞🤲

  • @yvonnehorhager1238
    @yvonnehorhager1238 15 дней назад +3

    Wallah i could listen to the sister for hours on end. Masha Allah. I kind of see myself in her and what i have lost over the years.. alhamdulillah to see it from the outside and realise, getting insight. May Allah keep you in his service and may he continue to guide us and help us to always better ourselves. Ameen

  • @salihuzainab5845
    @salihuzainab5845 16 дней назад +11

    Son and mother interview MashaAllah ❤❤ much love and respect big sister Maryam

  • @umarayesha8677
    @umarayesha8677 16 дней назад +7

    😅 1:53:40
    I am listening and also called Aisha 😅...
    The answer to the question you asked spoke to me in volumes. Alhamdullilah

  • @LoveAndLoyalty9884
    @LoveAndLoyalty9884 15 дней назад +2

    This is beautiful wallah....I pray to ALLAH for my boy to be like you(even better)...this side of you....I'm super proud of you...and I thank ALLAH for parents who raised amazing boys...

  • @famajobe3855
    @famajobe3855 13 дней назад +1

    MarSahAllah I watched the interview twice. I am super proud of your family.

  • @hauwamohammed-km7ft
    @hauwamohammed-km7ft 16 дней назад +4

    Alhamdulillah, this was educative, uplifting, soul stirring interview. It was like a counselling session for me. I smiled, laughed, at some points I sobbed. Most importantly, this gave me hope and has equipped me with just enough elements to start my journey. Thank you

  • @jabeenk9476
    @jabeenk9476 12 дней назад +1

    I enjoyed every minute of this conversation. At so many points I had to pause and cry. So many moments I stopped and just cried like a baby.
    My daughter’s name is also Maryam and you are such an inspiration. I could listen to you all day. May Allah bless you and reward you for all your work .

  • @ameedahabdulsalam2724
    @ameedahabdulsalam2724 16 дней назад +2

    This is so beautiful to watch
    The ability to have both sides ready to work hard to make the marriage to work is a blessing

  • @cos_maya_mos9622
    @cos_maya_mos9622 14 дней назад +1

    Truly in this video there is benefit, and if you fall on it then say Alhamdulilah. I hope that many people from different backgrounds,genders, and religions will have the chance to listen and learn from this beautiful video. I can’t express my gratitude for watching this. May Allah give great rewards to the people who took their time and put it together.

  • @humakhan1555
    @humakhan1555 15 дней назад +1

    Maryam Lemu my biggest mentor , an amazing women, wife and mother . Everytime i learn from you a lot !

  • @saadahusman1342
    @saadahusman1342 15 дней назад +2

    Masha Allah may Allah bless the mother son duo. Very educative yet emotional piece. May the knowledge be a means of interception for you. May Allah have mercy on your deceased parent and all the Muslim Ummah.we look forward to having more of this Nurayn. Allahumma barikh ❤

  • @RahmaaAltine
    @RahmaaAltine 2 дня назад

    I honestly didn't want it to end😢.

  • @FAIDASALLAU
    @FAIDASALLAU 11 дней назад +1

    This was really wonderful and i love that i was able to watch the program till the very end. I learnt a lot even though i am yet to get married. Just listening felt fulfilling and Alhamdullilah i found peace and comfort in the message.
    Thank you very much for sharing this, May Allah bless you. I look foward to more of this.

  • @thehighflier_
    @thehighflier_ 13 дней назад +1

    This kind of podcast always add me more positive perspectives, I really love it Alhamdulillah. And this is very insightful wallahi, and I was surprised and happy at the same time to see that Mrs. Maryam and Mr.saeed are your parents Ma Sha Allah. May Allah bless both of you for this and us together.

  • @Al7amdulilah
    @Al7amdulilah 15 дней назад +2

    May Allah bless and preserve you all🤲🏾
    It would be amazing if you could dub this in the Arabic language,maybe on another YT Arabic version of this channel.
    This was a very good podcast,very beneficial✨ Thank you ,Jazakum Allah Kheer

  • @opportunitiesatyourstepwec8974
    @opportunitiesatyourstepwec8974 14 дней назад +1

    The camera quality is awesome. Work on the audio and echo..
    Love the podcast. May Allah give you the strength and wisdom to give us more of this

  • @Gustitells
    @Gustitells 17 дней назад +3

    Mash Allah , iam glad that I found this

  • @fatoumatasall9102
    @fatoumatasall9102 13 дней назад

    Took me a week to finish the video and I’m so proud of myself that I committed to watching everything. May Allah reward you, family and ummah.

  • @ajebodiaries
    @ajebodiaries 16 дней назад +4

    Wow this was such an insightful watch

  • @farrisjibrin2303
    @farrisjibrin2303 9 дней назад +1

    This is so beautiful and insightful ❤Jazakallahu khairan

  • @maryamabebefe1715
    @maryamabebefe1715 12 дней назад

    Nothing beats being loved at home 😍😍😍. Alhamdulilah rabbil aalameen

  • @jesuis.habibatou
    @jesuis.habibatou 12 дней назад +1

    Great work. Wonderful discussion that is so needed. May Allah bless this initiative.

  • @JARUMISTUDIOS
    @JARUMISTUDIOS 16 дней назад +2

    Thank You for this beautiful message.

  • @fatmaabdallah5577
    @fatmaabdallah5577 6 дней назад

    MashaAllah, such depth. A truly remarkable duo of mother and son.

  • @973BraVo
    @973BraVo 8 дней назад

    I can’t stop watching this interview. Thank you so much for this interview. I love the way you ended it.

  • @jussreflect
    @jussreflect 16 дней назад +1

    Currently at work… I will definitely come back to this

  • @staraa.4075
    @staraa.4075 10 дней назад

    Allahumma barik what a Professional Podcast between a son and his mum 😍😍

  • @ShatuKakaki
    @ShatuKakaki 10 дней назад

    This as a podcast isn’t a bad idea 👌 Just the audio version

  • @Kwaisekolo
    @Kwaisekolo 17 дней назад +10

    43:43 Allahumma barik , I always say it wallahi . May Allah swt bless us with intentional partners 🥹Ameen

  • @theBakinNoob
    @theBakinNoob 15 дней назад +1

    May Allah bless your family ❤

  • @faridat.ayobami
    @faridat.ayobami 13 дней назад

    MaShaaAllah! I enjoyed this! Jazakum Allahu Khair!

  • @Maya-lz7li
    @Maya-lz7li 11 дней назад

    Way to go !! Just stumbled on this channel Love your content and channel. MashAllah brother.

  • @kautharakinlaso8641
    @kautharakinlaso8641 6 дней назад

    Ya salam! thought provoking session. May Allah bless her and grant us more knowledge.

  • @DrUmmuAmrah
    @DrUmmuAmrah 9 дней назад

    I love our confidence, well articulated, and well u moved the conversation. Allahumma bareek.

  • @adewaleabdulkabir4401
    @adewaleabdulkabir4401 11 дней назад

    Assalamualikum, Thank you very much. Alot of things mama said today to be honesti was suprised. But its has made me better understand that walk to Allah and Allah will run to you. Jazakumullah Yani.

  • @Bigjhummy
    @Bigjhummy 13 дней назад

    Subhanallah I’m really glad ❤ to watch this … I’m in my 20s n I’m learning a lot

  • @sahrogure7096
    @sahrogure7096 14 дней назад

    Amazing episode, this is the best podcast episode I’ve listened to in a while I felt like she was going through my inner thoughts. Mashaallah your mother is a women who speaks so gracefully may Allah preserve her and allow her to share her experiences/wisdom with many other people. Keep up the hard work and I can’t wait for the future episodes.

  • @zainabsibuma-omary7061
    @zainabsibuma-omary7061 14 дней назад

    SubhanaAllah, such beautiful being with wisdom.
    May Allah reward you all for this wonderful podcast. 🎉
    Alhamdulilah.

  • @awaliciouss8326
    @awaliciouss8326 12 дней назад

    Allahuma barek this video was life changing! What a great woman

  • @balima025
    @balima025 13 дней назад

    I enjoyed every bit of it wallahi. May Allah bless you and Haj. Maryam. In fact your entire family ❤
    I look forward to your next podcast In sha Allah

  • @hajarjibreel8183
    @hajarjibreel8183 15 дней назад

    Ma sha Allaah TabbarakaAllaah. Sweet and emotional...

  • @hadizasanni462
    @hadizasanni462 15 дней назад

    I thoroughly enjoyed listening to this. Thank you son much Mrs Lemu and son. May Allah reward you abundantly. Aameen

  • @atalamommy2861
    @atalamommy2861 6 дней назад

    Masha Allah this is so interesting and impactful❤❤

  • @MCWH
    @MCWH 16 дней назад +1

    Masha Allah, This is a profound episode to start the year with.
    Thank you so much, ma, for the value-packed lessons. Thank you so much for sharing your experience and knowledge with us. May Allah SWT grant you all that you desire.
    Thanks, Nurain, for this episode. I look forward to more insightful ones.

  • @aminashalash7555
    @aminashalash7555 16 дней назад

    Amazing lecture, please bring her back what an Amazing woman!

  • @rasheedah5080
    @rasheedah5080 15 дней назад

    mashaallah this was amazing may Allah continue to bless you and your mom . benefitted greatly. Allahumma Ameen Mashaallah sister Maryam and brother Syed has done a great job raising such a confident son

  • @abdullah8913
    @abdullah8913 15 дней назад

    MashaAllah tabarakaRahman ❤ may Allah be pleased with you and grant you all the good in this life and the next

  • @fatimaabubakaredogi8060
    @fatimaabubakaredogi8060 14 дней назад

    Mother and child talk show I wish our mentor as well pioneer Grandmother was here @Aisha Lemu May Allah’s mercy continue to be with her

  • @GailenePrins
    @GailenePrins 12 дней назад

    As-salamu alaykum shukran for this video. I needed to hear this so much. 😢

  • @wanzaamina9137
    @wanzaamina9137 15 дней назад

    subhanallah this talk is just......soo humbling, and there's so much to learn from this talk alhamdulillah

  • @HalimaZakari-n8d
    @HalimaZakari-n8d 13 дней назад

    This is such a beautiful & inspiring experience shared. Thank you so much sis for your inspiration ❤

  • @DrUmmuAmrah
    @DrUmmuAmrah 9 дней назад

    Love this mother- Son relationship, you both. Where very professional. To our darling and beautiful mama @Maryamlemu u always give those beautiful Gems and I pray Allah to grant me the opportunity to meet you because that your Half faith series with your husband really helped me when. I was about getting married and. Alhamdulillah am so happy 5years counting and am so happy in my home Alhamdulillah.
    Jazakumullah bi khair to both of you and hope Nurain u keep up with this legacy project so educational and heart warming

  • @princessmadusu9071
    @princessmadusu9071 10 дней назад

    Ameena Allah blessed all Muslim brother and sister.👭

  • @EvsR2024
    @EvsR2024 9 дней назад

    Very insightful and a inspirational

  • @souadghantous9993
    @souadghantous9993 16 дней назад

    Mashaa Allah such a beautiful podcast 💕 really eye opening and inspiring lessons. May Allah protect and preserve you all 🤲🏻

  • @hafsatshuaib
    @hafsatshuaib 14 дней назад

    This was so beautiful to listen and I learnt a lot. A lot. Jazakumullahu khayran.

  • @halimaibrahimshaba2744
    @halimaibrahimshaba2744 16 дней назад +1

    This was so insightful and gave me hope.

  • @OddRaj-go2yl
    @OddRaj-go2yl 11 дней назад

    so inspiring ❤❤ masha Allah

  • @S__muby
    @S__muby 17 дней назад +1

    Alhamdulillah it's really comes to Life 🎉❤

  • @ShakiratORaji
    @ShakiratORaji 16 дней назад +1

    Ma Sha Allah ❤❤❤

  • @HallyRamzy
    @HallyRamzy 16 дней назад

    This is so beautiful to watch Mashaa Allah ❤️❤️

  • @rerochan5388
    @rerochan5388 10 дней назад

    ما شاء الله رهيبة اتمنى الكل يسمع لها

  • @subaidatsanusi4980
    @subaidatsanusi4980 День назад

    Well done mama. Can i get the list of the books she mentioned pls

  • @nafisatosuleiman5822
    @nafisatosuleiman5822 11 дней назад

    I barely hear u but it pick up later very professional but blood is thicker than water I saw sir saheed face in the mums skin tone doing the interview 😊😊😊 barakallahufikum

  • @bintz1823
    @bintz1823 16 дней назад +1

    Thank you for episode. Give your guest her own microphone. Maybe one that cuts out background noise as well

  • @oyebanjiolanrewaju4857
    @oyebanjiolanrewaju4857 10 дней назад

    Regardless of your religion a lot of things I learnt here can be quantified, God bless you may…,

  • @hafeezahihsaan546
    @hafeezahihsaan546 11 дней назад

    Maa Shaa Allah

  • @adamuzainabisah9503
    @adamuzainabisah9503 16 дней назад

    A wonderful and insightful interview session. May Allah reward you for all you do. Ameen.

  • @HijabnHustle_NG
    @HijabnHustle_NG 15 дней назад

    Beautiful to watch

  • @bilqeesoloko5254
    @bilqeesoloko5254 15 дней назад

    I like the first question it reminds me of another series

  • @khadijah4117
    @khadijah4117 15 дней назад

    So inspiring !!!❤❤❤❤❤

  • @HalimaBabalola-mi6og
    @HalimaBabalola-mi6og 16 дней назад

    This is Impactful. I learnt alot💯 Masha Allah

  • @Yourgirlsaraah
    @Yourgirlsaraah 16 дней назад +1

    The end was so emotional and I cried along Subhanallah 🥹😭😭

    • @UmmAmmaar1
      @UmmAmmaar1 16 дней назад

      I did too! I love the mutual respect, love and gratitude they have for one another.

  • @muhammadaisha2922
    @muhammadaisha2922 16 дней назад +1

    MashaAllah tabarakaAllah 🥰

  • @mikaylarssmallchops
    @mikaylarssmallchops 15 дней назад +1

    Masha Allah

  • @fattoums
    @fattoums 16 дней назад

    JazaakumulLaahu Khayran❤