I have often felt that by making the conversation more about 'them' and less about 'me', I have been able to gain more trust. I didn't realize there was a name for it though 😂 🙏🙏
I truly care about people and help wherever I can. I’ve needed a CV only twice in my life. I’m almost 60 years old now. I’ve been offered a good job very often. I have a grumpy young neighbor who is one of my pupils. He scolded me (!) when I told him that I had met a foreigner in the street and had talked to him. It had been interesting for me but my neighbor asked why I even cared about a stranger. (!) The funny thing is, he didn’t notice that I had talked with him as well when he had moved in and he had asked me to help him learn German and English. 😝
I woke up this morning angry, late, and overall feeling pretty negative. I am thankful to come across this video which has reminded me what to do in order to help myself, and others, feel better. Love your books as well. Cheers !
Today my friend was feeling down and going on about how she feels like her boyfriend is not putting effort and so on. It was all negative comments and in a way I was agreeing with most of it. Then I had a flash back of when her boyfriend was saying nice things to a group of us about her. And turned around and told her that and all of the sudden I could feel the love rather than hate and sadness.
The last Time I used indirect effort was this week. I preformed very well assignements an use the reaseon ta get a approval from m'y manager through m'y team lead to get 1 week of excuses day , two weeks of annual leaves and also 5 days postponed to next years for annual. Leaves. Everything in this same 4 quarter 2022.. Thank Bryan for this advices
Great to see the original BT on a vid, rather than a cartoon. 'The Great Little Book on Personal Achievement' is an all time favorite! I've summarized, consolidated and absorbed most of it to the point of instinct.
Brian, I am going to try your indirect method. I have a co-worker with not much experience. I have retired from the same job where I worked for 25 years, and I’m starting again in another state. We are hitting some bumps. I loved your “No Excuses” book. Most evenings, I put in one or two extra hours of work. You wouldn’t believe my change in lifestyle since doing this. I moved across country and live in a place of with a lower cost of living. Your advice helped me acquire a beautiful new home and a beautiful new place of employment. I didn’t think I could improve my life. I thought I was stuck there. Not true. Our house sold in one day!!! Thanks very much for your motivation. I’ve greatly improved my self-discipline from reading your book. I hope you are feeling well. You’re the best! 🙂❤
I am always able to relate to all your advices but this one I am not very clear. I have tried praising some people genuinely for what I like about them or their abilities, but sometimes they take it as if it's because I lack those qualities in me that I admire in them and they start to dictate me on how I should go about
Thank you for sharing your knowledge Brian. Today after listening to you, I called a friend and ask her how she was. I praised her work done on the project she was working on and wish her to have a good weekend. Our moods were lifted and the conversation left me with a smile in my face. Thanks again Brian.
Thanks Brian for your inspiring video. I have one question that, what if your supervisee is not doing well of what is expected from him? how to maintain the good relation ship wile he is not happy to be told of his gaps and not improving as such after my feedback to him?
I have often felt that by making the conversation more about 'them' and less about 'me', I have been able to gain more trust. I didn't realize there was a name for it though 😂
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When was the last time you used the Law of Indirect Effort and what was the outcome?
I would really like to learn more about this particular subject. Sound very interesting. Thank you Brian. 🙏
I truly care about people and help wherever I can. I’ve needed a CV only twice in my life. I’m almost 60 years old now. I’ve been offered a good job very often.
I have a grumpy young neighbor who is one of my pupils. He scolded me (!) when I told him that I had met a foreigner in the street and had talked to him. It had been interesting for me but my neighbor asked why I even cared about a stranger. (!)
The funny thing is, he didn’t notice that I had talked with him as well when he had moved in and he had asked me to help him learn German and English. 😝
I woke up this morning angry, late, and overall feeling pretty negative. I am thankful to come across this video which has reminded me what to do in order to help myself, and others, feel better. Love your books as well. Cheers !
Today my friend was feeling down and going on about how she feels like her boyfriend is not putting effort and so on. It was all negative comments and in a way I was agreeing with most of it. Then I had a flash back of when her boyfriend was saying nice things to a group of us about her. And turned around and told her that and all of the sudden I could feel the love rather than hate and sadness.
I like Your Books so much
Thank you!
Brayan is so precious a gift from the universe to us thank you sir God bless.
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Thanks Brian sir for such a knowledgeable video, u r such a nice person......🙏😊
The last Time I used indirect effort was this week. I preformed very well assignements an use the reaseon ta get a approval from m'y manager through m'y team lead to get 1 week of excuses day , two weeks of annual leaves and also 5 days postponed to next years for annual. Leaves. Everything in this same 4 quarter 2022..
Thank Bryan for this advices
Great information Brian, thank-you🇨🇦
Great to see the original BT on a vid, rather than a cartoon.
'The Great Little Book on Personal Achievement' is an all time favorite! I've summarized, consolidated and absorbed most of it to the point of instinct.
Brian, I am going to try your indirect method. I have a co-worker with not much experience. I have retired from the same job where I worked for 25 years, and I’m starting again in another state. We are hitting some bumps.
I loved your “No Excuses” book. Most evenings, I put in one or two extra hours of work. You wouldn’t believe my change in lifestyle since doing this. I moved across country and live in a place of with a lower cost of living. Your advice helped me acquire a beautiful new home and a beautiful new place of employment. I didn’t think I could improve my life. I thought I was stuck there. Not true. Our house sold in one day!!!
Thanks very much for your motivation. I’ve greatly improved my self-discipline from reading your book. I hope you are feeling well.
You’re the best! 🙂❤
You are amazing Brian loves from Turkey❤
Be grateful for your sharing, Mr. Tracy
Simply Splendid THANK YOU ! 💥🥨🎃✨🎩
Thanks a lot
Sir pls make video on how to break bad habits when rewards are not same
Wow, I learned so much from this and I took mad notes! Thank you so much Brian Tracy, you're such an amazing mentor! 🙏🏼🤍
Thank you!
Thanks for sharing
Thank you very much sir
Raising the health of others personality 😊
thank you
Blessing Rrian
Great one , absolutely true ❤❤❤
I am always able to relate to all your advices but this one I am not very clear. I have tried praising some people genuinely for what I like about them or their abilities, but sometimes they take it as if it's because I lack those qualities in me that I admire in them and they start to dictate me on how I should go about
I asked questions to make the other person feel important. They became interested in me.
שנה טובה 👑👑👑💖💖💖
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I am confuse how choose carrer
This just perpetuates narcissism.
It is all give and take. Women only want..
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I always appreciate and say I lobe you..but she become arogant.
I always feel happy when I see another video by Brian Tracy.
Same, Brian Tracy is a great man with valuable informations !
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Thank you sir. I am blessed by this. I will improve more on it. Yours books have helped me so much. You're full of wisdom. More grace sir.
Muchas GRACIAS por sus videos son mis favoritos.👏👏👏
Thank you for sharing your knowledge Brian. Today after listening to you, I called a friend and ask her how she was. I praised her work done on the project she was working on and wish her to have a good weekend. Our moods were lifted and the conversation left me with a smile in my face. Thanks again Brian.
Sounds more like Input=Output. Give out what you want to recieve.
Myself Rahul I am from India
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Sir You are the great person in share your knowledge
I listen other carefully, I noticed their self-esteem goes up by this way. And they gave more respect to me.
Great answer!
Please post more videos about
- Leader Credibility Elements
Thank you for generously sharing your knowledge on a lot of subjects, Mr. Brian Tracy! Salute 🙏
Thanks Brian for your inspiring video. I have one question that, what if your supervisee is not doing well of what is expected from him? how to maintain the good relation ship wile he is not happy to be told of his gaps and not improving as such after my feedback to him?
Helpful.. .powerful...thank u sir...
Hi Brian!
Hello sir I am from India 🇮🇳 I really respect and admire you
I enjoy Daily😇 as many times I could.
Great to see you Mr. Tracy
Happy to see you Brian Tracy. My coach in life!