Does Physical Attraction Really Matter? | Kingsley Okonkwo & Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo

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  • Опубликовано: 5 дек 2024

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  • @anitaakwettey8656
    @anitaakwettey8656 Год назад +27

    Pastor K’s sense of humor is on another level 😂😂😂You’re a blessing Pastor K &M ❤

  • @voice-of
    @voice-of 10 месяцев назад +1

    Pastor K is right about the “programming “ abt physical looks.

  • @SusannaKolorah
    @SusannaKolorah 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you Pastor…I’ve learnt a lot

  • @gillianwelch5874
    @gillianwelch5874 Год назад +7

    Pastor Mildred is so pretty and lovely overall. She looks so beautiful with the weight. Few ppl wear weight well she looks like a plus-size model.

  • @tengecomfort2661
    @tengecomfort2661 Год назад +10

    I celebrate God I'm your lives.
    I can't get enough sight looking at you both. I love the way you look at each other, love on each other, PM concentration /listening art is 🌄, play,and still pass the message. 👏
    I learnt " be rigid on the internal than the external"
    "Getting along and not aroused"
    "Attraction and emotions are flexible" "attraction doesn't have to be first physical"
    Congratulations to you both for not missing each other 🎉☺️
    Amen to your prayers 🙏

  • @azukaegosaliuokeola286
    @azukaegosaliuokeola286 Год назад +18

    Getting along is better than getting aroused! Thank you pastor K and M

  • @AliveinChrist247
    @AliveinChrist247 Год назад +11

    Its the way they're looking at each other for me. Love how you two love yourselves. ❤️ thank you PK and PM for this great piece yet again. ❤❤❤❤

  • @chocolatecupcake256
    @chocolatecupcake256 Год назад +13

    "Who is going to marry all the short😆, that are all over the world 🌎"?🤣🤣 this one got me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Pam_Space
    @Pam_Space Год назад +8

    I agree with PK - I like my steak well done! 😂 Your conversations are interesting I’ve learnt a lot. It’s important to have the mind of Christ and to see and think the way He does. This has helped me on a personal level.

  • @gillianwelch5874
    @gillianwelch5874 Год назад +29

    The sexiest thing about a man is his mind and how he thinks not necessarily his looks.

    • @seyramadubah-asante9942
      @seyramadubah-asante9942 Год назад +1

      Yes ooo the Mind

    • @bethelobiebe1980
      @bethelobiebe1980 Год назад +3

      Exactly 👍👍👍👍👍👍, the main thing is the mind not looks , looks has a part to play yeah buhhh what's on the inside is what matters more it's the number one thing

    • @Mindful_Mm
      @Mindful_Mm 8 месяцев назад

      May God reprogram my mind.❤

  • @adeolasaba2000
    @adeolasaba2000 Год назад +4

    I have watched two of your collaborations today and l have been blessed and I thank the Lord that you did not miss each other in the scheme of Gods things on the earth at a time like this how it for be thank you Jesus !!! Your delivery has been beautiful and l appreciate your honesty and vulnerability in addressing this matter. More grace to your life and ministry in Jesus name amen.❤❤

  • @kishagreen917
    @kishagreen917 Год назад +1

    Very true Pastor k. Growing up I used to hate guys with beards but I just realized I now really like the beard gang guys

  • @teachermichaelofficial7860
    @teachermichaelofficial7860 Год назад +2

    The couple is just blessed ..l pray that god give me a wife who will submit like pastor Mildred does...oooh her submission is on another level 🙏

  • @veraokereafor5335
    @veraokereafor5335 Год назад +4

    Thank you, Jesus. It was worth it. So true. Its the friendship for me. Some you can relate with on a level

  • @thoughtcentralwithuche7752
    @thoughtcentralwithuche7752 Год назад +5

    I absolutely agree with being rigid with the internals and flexible with the externals. Again,I thoroughly enjoyed this session.. Thank you so much Pastors M and K for sharing your honest thoughts on this.God bless you both abundantly.

  • @vickymusenya_
    @vickymusenya_ Год назад +4

    This is so good 😊. Momma looks so good. The hair and the top! Gorgeous ❤

  • @sunnyhunn9315
    @sunnyhunn9315 Год назад +5

    Both Pastor K and Pastor Mildred are CORRECT, they present different aspects of it, where Pastor Mildred shows us what some people “prefers” and there’s really nothing wrong with that but as Pastor K puts it, it can become a problem if a person doesn’t know what actually “matters” in the long run.
    We shouldn’t sacrifice what matters over preferences, but we should be attracted to our spouse at the same time as well, I do believe that even if our spouse may not be 100% exactly what we want in our minds, when we desire to do things God’s way He’ll renew our mind as Pastor Mildred said…He can help us to see what’s really important and when we open our hearts to the opportunity, it’ll build up attraction towards our spouse. Plus having friendship and getting to know the person intimately for who they are has a way of breaking down the preference wall when someone is rigid, and when you’re sure that God is The One Who has presented this person, it’ll help you to be patient and willing.

  • @chiamakanwokedi3421
    @chiamakanwokedi3421 Год назад +4

    I love you both so much, I can't even pretend if I want to... God bless you both. Just watching you two is enough lesson sef ❤

  • @azukaegosaliuokeola286
    @azukaegosaliuokeola286 Год назад +10

    I think the man should be more attracted to the woman and want her with everything more than the woman, why? Because by nature we women can adjust faster to love the handsome inside more than the not so attractive outside of her husband.

  • @abenaagyeiwaaacquah7671
    @abenaagyeiwaaacquah7671 Год назад +4

    I pray they discuss about if the man should be rich beforehand

    • @IamROYALTY_
      @IamROYALTY_ Год назад

      Me too!! That was my same thoughts!!! 😂

  • @Paomelle
    @Paomelle Год назад +3

    I love how you both being humour into your messages. It makes listening enjoyable. Thank you PK and PM❤❤❤

  • @nanayaaboahemaa1963
    @nanayaaboahemaa1963 Год назад

    It’s 4am in Ghana and I’m watching this videos. I’m getting blessed and at the same time laughing so hard and loud. I would have questions to answer from my family when day breaks😂. Shoutout to all the short brothers. You’re blessed 🙌🏽

    • @christianoforchrist
      @christianoforchrist 2 месяца назад

      I'm watching it in South Africa 3am ... 🙏 . God bless you.

  • @andreaobeng-appiah4308
    @andreaobeng-appiah4308 Год назад +5

    Hello, here from Eswatini. This is a great topic! I learned from my husband that it does. Although growing up I didnt know what that meant... to be attractive. The bible does mention looks as a component of the characters in it . For example Leah and Racheal. However, not all beautiful or handsome people are God fearing and the bible says its a Gid fearing person (not good looking) person is to be praised.

  • @okeibomo6028
    @okeibomo6028 Год назад +2

    First of Pk and Pm's video I'm watching to the end. Thank you for sharing. May God continue to impact you both with more knowledge

  • @rutendo_commentary
    @rutendo_commentary Год назад +4

    Pastor K is a comedian 😂😂😂😂 Thank you for the teachings to both Pastor M and Pastor K, yall are a blessing ❤😊

  • @zephaniarutlokwana2891
    @zephaniarutlokwana2891 Год назад +1

    physical attraction is the main attraction that draws one to another but it is not conclusive to keep the relation a lifetime

  • @ukwuomachidinma360
    @ukwuomachidinma360 Год назад +1

    This was so funny to watch yet enlightening😂

  • @elizabethtai-ojuolape3171
    @elizabethtai-ojuolape3171 Год назад

    Forgetting that it's a content, these people are having fun😊......., my faves❤

  • @Jessie6021
    @Jessie6021 10 месяцев назад +1

    Heh Pastor M don’t kill me with laughter while teaching me😂

  • @RiamatuKamara-yu9vh
    @RiamatuKamara-yu9vh Год назад +1

    God really transformed pastor K.

  • @oparadivine9492
    @oparadivine9492 Год назад +2

    Very nice topic

  • @ChisomMefor
    @ChisomMefor Год назад

    This is the best YT from Pastor K and Pastor M, everrrrr

  • @preciouswilson5534
    @preciouswilson5534 Год назад +2

    Pastor Kingsley is so right

  • @LERFWITHDOUBLEDEE
    @LERFWITHDOUBLEDEE Год назад +1

    Bless you sir and ma. This was really insightful ❤

  • @kishagreen917
    @kishagreen917 Год назад

    I'm always blessed listening to you PK and PM. Sending love from Cameroon

  • @ribaker822
    @ribaker822 Год назад +2

    Thank you for sharing your perspective. Although I'm not sure that physical attraction is a social conditioning. If so, how do you explain a baby liking one food and disliking another? Even my puppy has it's preferences. I think we are all built with in built preferences. Having said that, that's not the all and be all of a relationship.

  • @bernandindi5052
    @bernandindi5052 Месяц назад

    You guys are funny…argh…I love this.Now there is me,I don’t have spec,I just like who I like..,as long as am intrigued,.,especially the brain,what should I do?

  • @lilian4216
    @lilian4216 7 месяцев назад +1

    PK and PM said we should be rigid on the in side and be flexible on the outside
    ... Getting along is more important than getting aroused..

  • @lizzyobidinnu8277
    @lizzyobidinnu8277 Год назад +3

    Totally awesome, I laughed all d way through

  • @harmonyrichard6794
    @harmonyrichard6794 Год назад

    Very relatable and wonderful topic. I was totally engaged from start to finish.
    God bless you both, Pastor K and M

  • @ndubuezeogechi3737
    @ndubuezeogechi3737 Год назад

    I love the way pm is listening to pk

  • @tolanimary
    @tolanimary Год назад +1

    PK's throwback is a fine boy na😂

  • @nanaagyakoma9499
    @nanaagyakoma9499 Год назад

    I really enjoyed this conversation 😂❤ Love you Pastor M & Pastor K

  • @wannykike1006
    @wannykike1006 Год назад +1

    Amazing. Teaching with so much fun

  • @snsn7251
    @snsn7251 Год назад +5

    Yes it does but it shouldnt be used to overlook good character. You can grow in your level of attraction but cant change bad character.

  • @dotunhunpatin4765
    @dotunhunpatin4765 Год назад +5

    All the fine guys that showed me shege,thank you for leaving and helping me marry Right 👍😅😅😅

    • @lizzyfresh07
      @lizzyfresh07 Год назад

      😂😂😂😂😂😂 shege 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @OlaoluwaAdegbola
      @OlaoluwaAdegbola 2 месяца назад

      Looool😂. God bless your union

  • @janayalaude4722
    @janayalaude4722 Год назад +1

    “What is the authorized shape of nose” chai!!

  • @meki2510
    @meki2510 Год назад +1

    Hello! Thank you for speaking on this and thank you Sister Mildred for taking up for us. Men can be such hypocrites because they know they aren't willing to marry a woman who looks like Nanny McPhee just because she is a prayer warrior 😆. I agree that looks should not be #1 but it does matter just as stated, when you get to the physical aspects, attraction is important..

  • @ebuehidamilola6324
    @ebuehidamilola6324 Год назад +1

    You should be rigid on the internal, and flexible on the external…… Word

  • @joykikiagashua
    @joykikiagashua Год назад +3

    I believe I will have a beautiful marriage in Jesus name, Amen. ❤❤

  • @SimonDike
    @SimonDike Год назад

    This is wonderful ❤

  • @Bright_Phiri
    @Bright_Phiri Год назад

    It was so helpful
    Thank you so much Mr and Mrs Kingsley
    Your ministry is always a blessing to many of us

  • @with_MOre_podcast
    @with_MOre_podcast Год назад

    This is so beautiful to watch. Thanks Pastor K and Pastor M. I really needed this right now.

  • @efemefameasakitikpi8432
    @efemefameasakitikpi8432 Год назад +1

    Love itttt❤❤❤..... Thank you ma

  • @RuthNnadi
    @RuthNnadi Год назад

    So timely, thanks for this.

  • @rossyprim2336
    @rossyprim2336 Год назад

    My favourite couple ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @RiamatuKamara-yu9vh
    @RiamatuKamara-yu9vh Год назад

    More grace sir🙏.

  • @azukaegosaliuokeola286
    @azukaegosaliuokeola286 Год назад

    Well that's how mine worked out. Glory be to our all Wise God!

  • @Mindful_Mm
    @Mindful_Mm 8 месяцев назад

    May God reprogram my mind...

  • @christabelakesseh-ocansey4758
    @christabelakesseh-ocansey4758 5 месяцев назад

    There’s hope for you “Mr Short”😂💔.. learning at the same time having a good laugh!😅

  • @hannahazanya6706
    @hannahazanya6706 Год назад

    Thank you so much sir/ma ❤️

  • @favourj1484
    @favourj1484 Год назад +1

    We roast the life out of suya😂😂😂I feel you with th burger pas K.

  • @eseonome01
    @eseonome01 10 месяцев назад

    Pst K can make things difficult to explain sha 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @helenbassey1879
    @helenbassey1879 Год назад +2

    😂Jesus please 🙏give me light out of darkness

  • @seraphinekaetv
    @seraphinekaetv Год назад

    22:50 and 27:03 Pastor K is hilarious 🤣🤣

  • @ChisomMefor
    @ChisomMefor Год назад

    Thats where Psalm 91 comes in🤣🤣🤣🤣 Pastor K!!!!!!

  • @ChisomMefor
    @ChisomMefor Год назад +1

    Whose going to marry all the shorts????! Preach Sir

  • @faithblessing7005
    @faithblessing7005 Год назад +1

    😂😂😂😂😂 you're talking a point here about difference in height jt shouldn't be the main issue while considering a marriage pattern

  • @markanthony8658
    @markanthony8658 7 месяцев назад

    Yes

  • @tomclaeren169
    @tomclaeren169 Год назад

    Awesome

  • @charitytalkshow362
    @charitytalkshow362 Год назад

    So beautiful and lovely my lovelies ❤❤❤

  • @janeokoro3536
    @janeokoro3536 Год назад +1

    😂😂😂😂love ur discussion

  • @lizzyobidinnu8277
    @lizzyobidinnu8277 Год назад

    Thank you, so much

  • @fulfilledsounds6138
    @fulfilledsounds6138 Год назад

    Amen thanks

  • @Ayukolive2013
    @Ayukolive2013 Год назад

    hello man of GOD

  • @binshi.talmon
    @binshi.talmon Год назад

    😂😂😂😂😂 I laugh today thank you sir/ma

  • @beth4990
    @beth4990 Год назад

    Yes it does.

  • @eseonome01
    @eseonome01 10 месяцев назад

    2:30 We gree😂😂😂

  • @AliveinChrist247
    @AliveinChrist247 Год назад +3

    Getting along is more important than getting aroused 😅😅😅

  • @AliveinChrist247
    @AliveinChrist247 Год назад +1

    How handsome an armed rubber is does not change the fact that they're rubbing you 😅😅😅.
    Be rigid with the internal aspects and flexible with the external aspects of a partner 😊

  • @AliveinChrist247
    @AliveinChrist247 Год назад +1

    You're feelings is not as independent as you think. The things you want in a man was specked into you. Dont combine 4 men and be expecting to see in one man. Its impossible 😅😅😅😅

  • @asaedet8437
    @asaedet8437 Год назад

    Sir I think pointed nose is preferable

  • @asaedet8437
    @asaedet8437 Год назад

    Thank you Sir and Ma

  • @ntohnehbevendia9109
    @ntohnehbevendia9109 Год назад

    Amen and amen

  • @thegreenerland9618
    @thegreenerland9618 Год назад +1

    What if they don't have money and it's looking like they will be there for a long time 😶‍🌫️

  • @Mindful_Mm
    @Mindful_Mm 8 месяцев назад

    At the end of the day physical attraction matter but it isn't necessary.

  • @blessingchiamaka8325
    @blessingchiamaka8325 Год назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @tamara3825
    @tamara3825 Год назад

    AMEN

  • @ebuehidamilola6324
    @ebuehidamilola6324 Год назад

    Getting along is more important than getting aroused

  • @ibhasiemojiejoy6356
    @ibhasiemojiejoy6356 Год назад

    My God 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @mtnbethel
    @mtnbethel Год назад

    😂😂😂😂, She'll be roaming around..

  • @enaruvie
    @enaruvie Год назад

    The ugly hands comment took me out. The way that is me. Followed closely by awful dentition.

  • @read_on_your_behalf
    @read_on_your_behalf Год назад

    Hummmmm

  • @Lavender_2002
    @Lavender_2002 Год назад +1

    Does she have a cold😢

  • @ejokegabriella836
    @ejokegabriella836 Год назад +1

    😂😂😂

  • @augustaluch7354
    @augustaluch7354 Год назад +1

    What is wrong with my Maama's voice 😢

  • @cannycreeppah5546
    @cannycreeppah5546 Год назад

    I now understand why she didn't like then...tbh he didn't look presentable and attractive 😢

  • @seyitanadediwura8527
    @seyitanadediwura8527 Год назад

    Actually i have a question. What if you like tall,hes reliable but he doesnt want you,but short wants you but hes not reliable.

    • @olaniyifemi7034
      @olaniyifemi7034 Год назад +1

      I think it is selfish to 'force' people to want you the same way you want them. You could only put yourself in the spotlight and talk to God about it. if you are a Christian. I have always wanted a close relationship with my wife as far back as 17yeaers ago in secondary school even if it's just casual dating but It didn't work, we went our separate ways different institution but somehow, we started to talking at some point after school but I realized she can't date me about 11 years ago but 3 years ago we both had break up from our previous relationships I re engaged my conversations and she realized I have grown to be her Ideal man. She now cherished and loved me ( plus Time factors) it's a beautiful decision for us she has been my spec ever since and now she has a better character than what I could have gotten then I'm also now better physically, financially, spiritually and characterwise . Atimes we need time, Atimes we need to move, it depends.

    • @ribaker822
      @ribaker822 Год назад

      Just continue praying and watching out for yours.

  • @lumateghmispafusiankasi
    @lumateghmispafusiankasi Год назад

    😂,,,,,, 🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣

  • @EbbieOnonye
    @EbbieOnonye Год назад

    7.52 PM is not agreeing lol