Does Physical Attraction Really Matter? | Kingsley Okonkwo & Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo

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  • Опубликовано: 4 дек 2024

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  • @anitaakwettey8656
    @anitaakwettey8656 Год назад +27

    Pastor K’s sense of humor is on another level 😂😂😂You’re a blessing Pastor K &M ❤

  • @SusannaKolorah
    @SusannaKolorah 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you Pastor…I’ve learnt a lot

  • @voice-of
    @voice-of 10 месяцев назад +1

    Pastor K is right about the “programming “ abt physical looks.

  • @tengecomfort2661
    @tengecomfort2661 Год назад +10

    I celebrate God I'm your lives.
    I can't get enough sight looking at you both. I love the way you look at each other, love on each other, PM concentration /listening art is 🌄, play,and still pass the message. 👏
    I learnt " be rigid on the internal than the external"
    "Getting along and not aroused"
    "Attraction and emotions are flexible" "attraction doesn't have to be first physical"
    Congratulations to you both for not missing each other 🎉☺️
    Amen to your prayers 🙏

  • @gillianwelch5874
    @gillianwelch5874 Год назад +7

    Pastor Mildred is so pretty and lovely overall. She looks so beautiful with the weight. Few ppl wear weight well she looks like a plus-size model.

  • @AliveinChrist247
    @AliveinChrist247 Год назад +11

    Its the way they're looking at each other for me. Love how you two love yourselves. ❤️ thank you PK and PM for this great piece yet again. ❤❤❤❤

  • @azukaegosaliuokeola286
    @azukaegosaliuokeola286 Год назад +18

    Getting along is better than getting aroused! Thank you pastor K and M

  • @Pam_Space
    @Pam_Space Год назад +8

    I agree with PK - I like my steak well done! 😂 Your conversations are interesting I’ve learnt a lot. It’s important to have the mind of Christ and to see and think the way He does. This has helped me on a personal level.

  • @gillianwelch5874
    @gillianwelch5874 Год назад +29

    The sexiest thing about a man is his mind and how he thinks not necessarily his looks.

    • @seyramadubah-asante9942
      @seyramadubah-asante9942 Год назад +1

      Yes ooo the Mind

    • @bethelobiebe1980
      @bethelobiebe1980 Год назад +3

      Exactly 👍👍👍👍👍👍, the main thing is the mind not looks , looks has a part to play yeah buhhh what's on the inside is what matters more it's the number one thing

    • @Mindful_Mm
      @Mindful_Mm 8 месяцев назад

      May God reprogram my mind.❤

  • @teachermichaelofficial7860
    @teachermichaelofficial7860 Год назад +2

    The couple is just blessed ..l pray that god give me a wife who will submit like pastor Mildred does...oooh her submission is on another level 🙏

  • @adeolasaba2000
    @adeolasaba2000 Год назад +4

    I have watched two of your collaborations today and l have been blessed and I thank the Lord that you did not miss each other in the scheme of Gods things on the earth at a time like this how it for be thank you Jesus !!! Your delivery has been beautiful and l appreciate your honesty and vulnerability in addressing this matter. More grace to your life and ministry in Jesus name amen.❤❤

  • @sunnyhunn9315
    @sunnyhunn9315 Год назад +5

    Both Pastor K and Pastor Mildred are CORRECT, they present different aspects of it, where Pastor Mildred shows us what some people “prefers” and there’s really nothing wrong with that but as Pastor K puts it, it can become a problem if a person doesn’t know what actually “matters” in the long run.
    We shouldn’t sacrifice what matters over preferences, but we should be attracted to our spouse at the same time as well, I do believe that even if our spouse may not be 100% exactly what we want in our minds, when we desire to do things God’s way He’ll renew our mind as Pastor Mildred said…He can help us to see what’s really important and when we open our hearts to the opportunity, it’ll build up attraction towards our spouse. Plus having friendship and getting to know the person intimately for who they are has a way of breaking down the preference wall when someone is rigid, and when you’re sure that God is The One Who has presented this person, it’ll help you to be patient and willing.

  • @veraokereafor5335
    @veraokereafor5335 Год назад +4

    Thank you, Jesus. It was worth it. So true. Its the friendship for me. Some you can relate with on a level

  • @vickymusenya_
    @vickymusenya_ Год назад +4

    This is so good 😊. Momma looks so good. The hair and the top! Gorgeous ❤

  • @thoughtcentralwithuche7752
    @thoughtcentralwithuche7752 Год назад +5

    I absolutely agree with being rigid with the internals and flexible with the externals. Again,I thoroughly enjoyed this session.. Thank you so much Pastors M and K for sharing your honest thoughts on this.God bless you both abundantly.

  • @chiamakanwokedi3421
    @chiamakanwokedi3421 Год назад +4

    I love you both so much, I can't even pretend if I want to... God bless you both. Just watching you two is enough lesson sef ❤

  • @kishagreen917
    @kishagreen917 Год назад +1

    Very true Pastor k. Growing up I used to hate guys with beards but I just realized I now really like the beard gang guys

  • @rutendo_commentary
    @rutendo_commentary Год назад +4

    Pastor K is a comedian 😂😂😂😂 Thank you for the teachings to both Pastor M and Pastor K, yall are a blessing ❤😊

  • @andreaobeng-appiah4308
    @andreaobeng-appiah4308 Год назад +5

    Hello, here from Eswatini. This is a great topic! I learned from my husband that it does. Although growing up I didnt know what that meant... to be attractive. The bible does mention looks as a component of the characters in it . For example Leah and Racheal. However, not all beautiful or handsome people are God fearing and the bible says its a Gid fearing person (not good looking) person is to be praised.

  • @preciouswilson5534
    @preciouswilson5534 Год назад +2

    Pastor Kingsley is so right

  • @okeibomo6028
    @okeibomo6028 Год назад +2

    First of Pk and Pm's video I'm watching to the end. Thank you for sharing. May God continue to impact you both with more knowledge

  • @Paomelle
    @Paomelle Год назад +3

    I love how you both being humour into your messages. It makes listening enjoyable. Thank you PK and PM❤❤❤

  • @ukwuomachidinma360
    @ukwuomachidinma360 Год назад +1

    This was so funny to watch yet enlightening😂

  • @nanayaaboahemaa1963
    @nanayaaboahemaa1963 Год назад

    It’s 4am in Ghana and I’m watching this videos. I’m getting blessed and at the same time laughing so hard and loud. I would have questions to answer from my family when day breaks😂. Shoutout to all the short brothers. You’re blessed 🙌🏽

    • @christianoforchrist
      @christianoforchrist 2 месяца назад

      I'm watching it in South Africa 3am ... 🙏 . God bless you.

  • @RiamatuKamara-yu9vh
    @RiamatuKamara-yu9vh Год назад +1

    God really transformed pastor K.

  • @ChisomMefor
    @ChisomMefor Год назад

    This is the best YT from Pastor K and Pastor M, everrrrr

  • @azukaegosaliuokeola286
    @azukaegosaliuokeola286 Год назад +10

    I think the man should be more attracted to the woman and want her with everything more than the woman, why? Because by nature we women can adjust faster to love the handsome inside more than the not so attractive outside of her husband.

  • @LERFWITHDOUBLEDEE
    @LERFWITHDOUBLEDEE Год назад +1

    Bless you sir and ma. This was really insightful ❤

  • @zephaniarutlokwana2891
    @zephaniarutlokwana2891 Год назад +1

    physical attraction is the main attraction that draws one to another but it is not conclusive to keep the relation a lifetime

  • @kishagreen917
    @kishagreen917 Год назад

    I'm always blessed listening to you PK and PM. Sending love from Cameroon

  • @lizzyobidinnu8277
    @lizzyobidinnu8277 Год назад +3

    Totally awesome, I laughed all d way through

  • @elizabethtai-ojuolape3171
    @elizabethtai-ojuolape3171 Год назад

    Forgetting that it's a content, these people are having fun😊......., my faves❤

  • @abenaagyeiwaaacquah7671
    @abenaagyeiwaaacquah7671 Год назад +4

    I pray they discuss about if the man should be rich beforehand

    • @IamROYALTY_
      @IamROYALTY_ Год назад

      Me too!! That was my same thoughts!!! 😂

  • @oparadivine9492
    @oparadivine9492 Год назад +2

    Very nice topic

  • @nanaagyakoma9499
    @nanaagyakoma9499 Год назад

    I really enjoyed this conversation 😂❤ Love you Pastor M & Pastor K

  • @harmonyrichard6794
    @harmonyrichard6794 Год назад

    Very relatable and wonderful topic. I was totally engaged from start to finish.
    God bless you both, Pastor K and M

  • @Jessie6021
    @Jessie6021 10 месяцев назад +1

    Heh Pastor M don’t kill me with laughter while teaching me😂

  • @chocolatecupcake256
    @chocolatecupcake256 Год назад +13

    "Who is going to marry all the short😆, that are all over the world 🌎"?🤣🤣 this one got me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @wannykike1006
    @wannykike1006 Год назад +1

    Amazing. Teaching with so much fun

  • @ndubuezeogechi3737
    @ndubuezeogechi3737 Год назад

    I love the way pm is listening to pk

  • @meki2510
    @meki2510 Год назад +1

    Hello! Thank you for speaking on this and thank you Sister Mildred for taking up for us. Men can be such hypocrites because they know they aren't willing to marry a woman who looks like Nanny McPhee just because she is a prayer warrior 😆. I agree that looks should not be #1 but it does matter just as stated, when you get to the physical aspects, attraction is important..

  • @joykikiagashua
    @joykikiagashua Год назад +3

    I believe I will have a beautiful marriage in Jesus name, Amen. ❤❤

  • @SimonDike
    @SimonDike Год назад

    This is wonderful ❤

  • @tolanimary
    @tolanimary Год назад +1

    PK's throwback is a fine boy na😂

  • @efemefameasakitikpi8432
    @efemefameasakitikpi8432 Год назад +1

    Love itttt❤❤❤..... Thank you ma

  • @Bright_Phiri
    @Bright_Phiri Год назад

    It was so helpful
    Thank you so much Mr and Mrs Kingsley
    Your ministry is always a blessing to many of us

  • @bernandindi5052
    @bernandindi5052 Месяц назад

    You guys are funny…argh…I love this.Now there is me,I don’t have spec,I just like who I like..,as long as am intrigued,.,especially the brain,what should I do?

  • @ribaker822
    @ribaker822 Год назад +2

    Thank you for sharing your perspective. Although I'm not sure that physical attraction is a social conditioning. If so, how do you explain a baby liking one food and disliking another? Even my puppy has it's preferences. I think we are all built with in built preferences. Having said that, that's not the all and be all of a relationship.

  • @ebuehidamilola6324
    @ebuehidamilola6324 Год назад +1

    You should be rigid on the internal, and flexible on the external…… Word

  • @with_MOre_podcast
    @with_MOre_podcast Год назад

    This is so beautiful to watch. Thanks Pastor K and Pastor M. I really needed this right now.

  • @RuthNnadi
    @RuthNnadi Год назад

    So timely, thanks for this.

  • @snsn7251
    @snsn7251 Год назад +5

    Yes it does but it shouldnt be used to overlook good character. You can grow in your level of attraction but cant change bad character.

  • @lilian4216
    @lilian4216 7 месяцев назад +1

    PK and PM said we should be rigid on the in side and be flexible on the outside
    ... Getting along is more important than getting aroused..

  • @RiamatuKamara-yu9vh
    @RiamatuKamara-yu9vh Год назад

    More grace sir🙏.

  • @christabelakesseh-ocansey4758
    @christabelakesseh-ocansey4758 5 месяцев назад

    There’s hope for you “Mr Short”😂💔.. learning at the same time having a good laugh!😅

  • @Mindful_Mm
    @Mindful_Mm 8 месяцев назад

    May God reprogram my mind...

  • @rossyprim2336
    @rossyprim2336 Год назад

    My favourite couple ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @dotunhunpatin4765
    @dotunhunpatin4765 Год назад +5

    All the fine guys that showed me shege,thank you for leaving and helping me marry Right 👍😅😅😅

    • @lizzyfresh07
      @lizzyfresh07 Год назад

      😂😂😂😂😂😂 shege 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @OlaoluwaAdegbola
      @OlaoluwaAdegbola 2 месяца назад

      Looool😂. God bless your union

  • @hannahazanya6706
    @hannahazanya6706 Год назад

    Thank you so much sir/ma ❤️

  • @azukaegosaliuokeola286
    @azukaegosaliuokeola286 Год назад

    Well that's how mine worked out. Glory be to our all Wise God!

  • @markanthony8658
    @markanthony8658 7 месяцев назад

    Yes

  • @ChisomMefor
    @ChisomMefor Год назад

    Thats where Psalm 91 comes in🤣🤣🤣🤣 Pastor K!!!!!!

  • @favourj1484
    @favourj1484 Год назад +1

    We roast the life out of suya😂😂😂I feel you with th burger pas K.

  • @seraphinekaetv
    @seraphinekaetv Год назад

    22:50 and 27:03 Pastor K is hilarious 🤣🤣

  • @janayalaude4722
    @janayalaude4722 Год назад +1

    “What is the authorized shape of nose” chai!!

  • @eseonome01
    @eseonome01 10 месяцев назад

    Pst K can make things difficult to explain sha 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @fulfilledsounds6138
    @fulfilledsounds6138 Год назад

    Amen thanks

  • @janeokoro3536
    @janeokoro3536 Год назад +1

    😂😂😂😂love ur discussion

  • @helenbassey1879
    @helenbassey1879 Год назад +2

    😂Jesus please 🙏give me light out of darkness

  • @Ayukolive2013
    @Ayukolive2013 Год назад

    hello man of GOD

  • @charitytalkshow362
    @charitytalkshow362 Год назад

    So beautiful and lovely my lovelies ❤❤❤

  • @beth4990
    @beth4990 Год назад

    Yes it does.

  • @tomclaeren169
    @tomclaeren169 Год назад

    Awesome

  • @lizzyobidinnu8277
    @lizzyobidinnu8277 Год назад

    Thank you, so much

  • @ChisomMefor
    @ChisomMefor Год назад +1

    Whose going to marry all the shorts????! Preach Sir

  • @binshi.talmon
    @binshi.talmon Год назад

    😂😂😂😂😂 I laugh today thank you sir/ma

  • @faithblessing7005
    @faithblessing7005 Год назад +1

    😂😂😂😂😂 you're talking a point here about difference in height jt shouldn't be the main issue while considering a marriage pattern

  • @Mindful_Mm
    @Mindful_Mm 8 месяцев назад

    At the end of the day physical attraction matter but it isn't necessary.

  • @asaedet8437
    @asaedet8437 Год назад

    Thank you Sir and Ma

  • @eseonome01
    @eseonome01 10 месяцев назад

    2:30 We gree😂😂😂

  • @asaedet8437
    @asaedet8437 Год назад

    Sir I think pointed nose is preferable

  • @read_on_your_behalf
    @read_on_your_behalf Год назад

    Hummmmm

  • @AliveinChrist247
    @AliveinChrist247 Год назад +1

    You're feelings is not as independent as you think. The things you want in a man was specked into you. Dont combine 4 men and be expecting to see in one man. Its impossible 😅😅😅😅

  • @AliveinChrist247
    @AliveinChrist247 Год назад +1

    How handsome an armed rubber is does not change the fact that they're rubbing you 😅😅😅.
    Be rigid with the internal aspects and flexible with the external aspects of a partner 😊

  • @ntohnehbevendia9109
    @ntohnehbevendia9109 Год назад

    Amen and amen

  • @AliveinChrist247
    @AliveinChrist247 Год назад +3

    Getting along is more important than getting aroused 😅😅😅

  • @thegreenerland9618
    @thegreenerland9618 Год назад +1

    What if they don't have money and it's looking like they will be there for a long time 😶‍🌫️

  • @tamara3825
    @tamara3825 Год назад

    AMEN

  • @mtnbethel
    @mtnbethel Год назад

    😂😂😂😂, She'll be roaming around..

  • @blessingchiamaka8325
    @blessingchiamaka8325 Год назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @augustaluch7354
    @augustaluch7354 Год назад +1

    What is wrong with my Maama's voice 😢

  • @ibhasiemojiejoy6356
    @ibhasiemojiejoy6356 Год назад

    My God 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ebuehidamilola6324
    @ebuehidamilola6324 Год назад

    Getting along is more important than getting aroused

  • @ejokegabriella836
    @ejokegabriella836 Год назад +1

    😂😂😂

  • @cannycreeppah5546
    @cannycreeppah5546 Год назад

    I now understand why she didn't like then...tbh he didn't look presentable and attractive 😢

  • @Lavender_2002
    @Lavender_2002 Год назад +1

    Does she have a cold😢

  • @enaruvie
    @enaruvie Год назад

    The ugly hands comment took me out. The way that is me. Followed closely by awful dentition.

  • @praisechinonye1320
    @praisechinonye1320 Год назад

    Tall golath😅😅😅😅😅😢
    Tall golath 😅😢😅❤ l just pass

  • @seyitanadediwura8527
    @seyitanadediwura8527 Год назад

    Actually i have a question. What if you like tall,hes reliable but he doesnt want you,but short wants you but hes not reliable.

    • @olaniyifemi7034
      @olaniyifemi7034 Год назад +1

      I think it is selfish to 'force' people to want you the same way you want them. You could only put yourself in the spotlight and talk to God about it. if you are a Christian. I have always wanted a close relationship with my wife as far back as 17yeaers ago in secondary school even if it's just casual dating but It didn't work, we went our separate ways different institution but somehow, we started to talking at some point after school but I realized she can't date me about 11 years ago but 3 years ago we both had break up from our previous relationships I re engaged my conversations and she realized I have grown to be her Ideal man. She now cherished and loved me ( plus Time factors) it's a beautiful decision for us she has been my spec ever since and now she has a better character than what I could have gotten then I'm also now better physically, financially, spiritually and characterwise . Atimes we need time, Atimes we need to move, it depends.

    • @ribaker822
      @ribaker822 Год назад

      Just continue praying and watching out for yours.

  • @EbbieOnonye
    @EbbieOnonye Год назад

    7.52 PM is not agreeing lol