7 Reasons Why We Don't Fight | Kingsley Okonkwo & Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo
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- Опубликовано: 18 авг 2023
- Join Kingsley Okonkwo & Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo as they talk about 7 Reasons Why We Don't Fight.
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I love how when pst Mildren is always allowing pst Kingsley to lead whenever they are holding a conversation together. Submission is so natural for her❤
Yes, she is living what she preaches, she is real, so just doesn't just talk. I think a lot of Nigerian women have a lot to learn from following her life style. She has a way of just letting PK to lead, even when PK ask her to lead, he still has to beg her... She glows both outside and inside
She actually said in this video that submission was not natural for her but that the Holy Spirit had to help her to learn how to submit to Pst K.
Pure truth.. I’m married. We didn’t fight when we were dating and we still do not fight in our marriage.
We disagree, we even hurt each other. But there is always a reasonable way we go about it.
Thank you PK and PM.
Ps Mildred is a whole mood😂😂
Pastor M’s voice is different 😢 Aunty are you okay? Maybe just my ears but i pray if you’re feeling a bit under the weather, speedy recovery and may you be rejuvenated by the Holy Spirit.
The way you two are smiling at each other❤❤❤
Dear Holy spirit, as i pray and work towards being the right woman for my husband, also give me my own man who'd be intentional about making us work! Especially in this era where people easily give up and walk away... Please give me a man who'd stay and work towards making us work peacefully 😢
Amen! This giving up is so common I feel a victim, 😊
Amen🙏
@@ugonnanwaiwu2272 Realizing your mistake is a step to being better...Nice one 👍
Amen
Amen
Following you both as a single lady helped me and still helping me in my home today. God bless you two.
You can disagree, but you don't have to fight.
1. We are friends 10:39
2. The Holy Spirit 13:29/17:37
3. Honor God 19:47
4. Our Personalities 26:13
5. We are intentional about not fighting (conflict resolution). 30:02
6. Can't be angry at the same time. 34:54
7. We must be mature-- Practice forgiveness, kindness, and encouraging words. 30:18
That listening to the Holy Spirit part should never be taken for granted, because He knows better, it can be truly hard to yield when we believe we are right, but the outcome is always beautiful
Hmmmm, personality aspect, my spouse is always troublesome, even when I decided am not going to fight he will always make it happen except if we don't talk😢
Pastor Mildred is bright🎉
My mama...always looking beautiful 😍
I love you both ❤❤
The help of the HOLY SPIRIT, submitting to the leading of the HOLY SPIRIT , honoring GOD in marriage, international about not fighting
Thank you so much SIR/MA
God bless 🙏🏻💞
13:10 “Why are you smiling “had me smiling too😅aww😊
This is a whole counselling session in less than an hour!! God bless you P.Kingsley and P.Mildred, may God continually keep you both and your marriage in His embrace in Jesus name.
I receive and believe this for my marriage, my marriage would be blissful and bring glory to God and His kingdom in Jesus name, amen.
You are like me, I like to find out why things happen to avoid it in the future ❤
Quarrelling can be avoided indeed, thanks for this, as most people are making it look as if quarrel is part of marriage❤
Very educating and Spirit filled
Stms it's semantics. I've seen people disagreeing say they were fighting
The first time I heard Bishop Oyedepo say that its possible to have a problem free -marriage , I thought to myself how is that possible? Seeing people live this reality proves that marriage is really God's will. Can't wait to get married.
The point, '2 of us can't be angry at the same time' is soooo valid! You hit the nail on the head.
The regret word nearly broke mine but God intervened at the 11th hour and the Holy Spirit enlightened me.
Thank you Jesus for Pastor KM. ❤❤❤❤❤. Too bad some of us easily allow negative influences - bad marriage, bad careers, bad personalities - to show us how to live life when deep down we want and know we can have a peaceful, prosperous, happier life.
Wonderful ❤
spitting cold hard facts as always!!!! 🙌🙏💪
Thank you so much
Thank you so much for this video ❤
This has truly blessed me
Thank you sir and ma
Amazing !!! Thank you so much for your wisdom 🙏❤️
This really blessed me ❤
Powerful message, God bless you
Wow... I pray my husband works on himself early so we can enjoy marriage the way God propose for us....
Because I see prospects in us.
This blessed me a lot. ❤️
This really blessed me, help change my perspective on so many things.
God bless you for sharing your wisdom with us!
Amen. Blessed by this
Awesome message thanks guys!!!
More blessing to your Union pk/mk❤️💯. Thanks for sharing
Amen 🙏 thank you for the prayer
Amazing message ❤
Thank you, Pst K and M
When someone marries someone who is not their husband or wife it can be hard to live together in peace❤
How do you know..?? When someone is not ur wife or husband after you have been married
I disagree with this point of yours. There's no one man or woman for anyone. A marriage works when two intentional persons want it to work. Some unbelievers have good homes because they follow the principles of marriage.
Marriage requires intentionality and commitment.
@highroadwithcharity I disagree with you, respectfully.
The Samaritan woman simply was living from man to man, and so, the man she was with at the moment ,(based on precedent), was also not her man.
God has given man the will to choose good spouses.
That is why we have The Holy Spirit.
After the fall of Adam, Man has been choosing his own partner.
Therefore, we cannot blame God if our marriage fails. As Adam had blamed God saying "It is the woman you gave me who gave me the forbidden fruit."
As long the individual serves God and is also a believer who is ready to make the marriage work and you both share similar values and are in agreement. This is what matters.
A man "finds" a wife, and he says it is a good thing and obtains favour in God's sight. (God then blesses the union).
If we go by your logic that there is someone ordained for each of us, what happens when that person marries another individual, would we be single for life? There would be chaos.
There are 100s of thousands of people you can be compatible with in this life, yet if you both are not intentional and do not give optimal commitment in your marriage, it will fail...
This is why marriages fail, 2 people who have killed agreement, or one of them has.
Ever wondered why some unbelievers have good and happy marriages? Because it is decision, a fight and an agreement, that "this marriage must not fail"....
@@modupeolarewaju486Yes! This is the truth. You are right. Commitment and intentionality, everyday you wake up, you choose to make your marriage work. Love is a decision.
I am married and I've come to this.
@@highroadwithcharity I kindly disagree with you on this. I believe there is no one person for anyone. Why then do people after they lose their spouse remarry and the marriages still works? Again, if there is one particular person for any one, what are the chances of meeting them out of billions of people on the earth? Marriage is about making choices from start to finish...You choose whom you marry; you choose whether or not to love them despite their shortcomings and choose whether or not to remain faithful and committed to them. I also believe the reason there is no one person for any one is because we marry mostly from our own race and tribe. Imagine that that one person for you is from another race or continent...how would you locate them? I know God directs our steps and orchestrates events but not everyone believes in God and some people who don't believe in God have better marriages than some of us who do believe. So our immediate environment, where we have our education and work usually present as the first places from where we choose our spouses. Also, if you read Matthew 22 from 23 down, a woman could marry another another husband if she loses her husband...The Bible approves of remarriage in the event that one loses their spouse. So there is no one person for anyone.
I also think you quoted that passage out of context...Jesus told her that the man with whom she was living was not her husband. He didn't imply they were married and she married a wrong husband. They were not married. They were having a sinful affair.
Love is sweet..
It just to marry right 😢
Wow. I love this couple. Blessed listening to you both share
Wowww this blessed me
Thank you Pastor K & Pastor M. You both are such a blessing. Gracias!
my God bless you all
Message was a blessing. Thank you Pastors.
Thank you PK and PM for this video. ❤❤
Awesome advice Pst K and Pst Mildred. Thank you 🙏❤️
Gracias
Yes, I was blessed! God bless and keep you ever strong.
This has blessed and challenged my heart. Thank you all for sharing, Sir and Ma.
Amen and Amen
Thank you PK & PM
Thank you once again my marriage mentors...I have learnt alot from your teachings
Thank you Sir and Ma
Thank you so much pastor, God strengthen your ministry more.
Thank you PK and PM. We are learning
Thank you pastors for such an insightful conversation 🙏🏻 God bless you both
Everything said here is so true.. we must be aware that the fighting action in the relationship, is the evils tool that we must stay away from. Thank you for this important and interesting message 🙏
This is a very nice topic, i have grown up in such a home where my parents are great, they never quarrel for years but hey, there was this one issue that i will never forget although, it ended well... 😂
I’m definitely sharing this with my husband 😊
Amennnnn!
Wow! I'm blessed by that message. Thanks so much Sir and Ma. I really love you and I can't thank enough God through the Holy Spirit, that connected me to your RUclips . I'm grateful. God bless you richly in Jesus name!
I tap into ur blessed marriage….u guys are very intentional about things
Thank you for sharing 😊❤ God will continue to keep and strengthen your marriage ❤🎉
I enjoyed watching this with my husband and we have definitely gained a few things
Very insightful and impactful. Thank you sir and ma ❤. God bless you richly
I love you both❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you PK & PM for this instructive message. It's so insightful and informative. 💯🔥🔥📌
God bless you both and keep your home. 🤗♥️♥️♥️
Amen to your prayers!!!! 🙏 🙏
This is very instructive
God bless you pastor K and pastor M🎉
This blessed me🙏 .. thank you PK and Pastor M❤❤❤
I totally agree
I really enjoyed watching this video.. it is so funny and refreshing. Pls Pastor K and wifey should do more videos together
This really blessed me. Thank you so much My pastor. I've made the decision tonight, I must have a fight-free relationship. Thank you so much
Thank you PK & PM. I have learnt so much from both of you ever since I started following you. I believe that, with the help of God and my commitment to put to work all that I have learnt, I am in for a hitch free marriage. God bless you for constantly being a blessing.
We also didn't fight for over twenty one years and we made up without third parties when we had disagreeable moments. We had checks and balances.
Am giving this a 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Amen
I believe you guys joor
Amen 😇
I pray that God prepares your life partner to be just as he is currently preparing you so you both will both be on the same page of growth and happy to be together🙏.
I love how Pastor M looks at are Man
Amen 🙏
My fiance and i have tested each other since we started dating on distanse , we have realized we have a bond that nothing can break , so we have stopped argueing about a lot cause we dont need to do that anymore❤
Good day PST K and PST M please what is fighting in a relationship? Is it physical fighting or words or...? What is considered fighting
Please im in Port Harcourt, i wish i relocated to Lagos
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Sometimes you are both clearly tired and sleepy. Hugs. ❤
Backgrounds matter.
Some people are raised with fights and quarrels and cursing. So they actually do all these and still believe their marriages are okay
Yayyyy
Thank you for this eye opener @PK and PM... But it is really bad for one person to always let issues slide rather than talk about it that will lead to heated arguments? Which may also lead to an extent where you will start using terrible words on each other... Am asking based on the 11 to 1 research you talked about.
How do you encourage a phlegmatic to be driven?
Your husband's shirt looks good on you.
Thats right too lazzy to fight.
Pastor Mildred's face has changed alot..Why
It's the hairstyle
Satan is the enemy