That's a never ending negotiation setting, which is exhausting from my point of view. Being alone, or simply having a girlfriend (each one living in their own home), it's far more rewarding and less problematic then trying to merge with the other person and taking all the decisions by negotiation, like "it's my turn to get what I want, then it's your turn...that's acceptable, that's not acceptable"... I fail to see the advantage, the benefit, the profit of having long standing relationships while, probably, both people need to resign a lot of their withes and personalities simply for that company association to work. Yeah...I'm already divorced, and I'm an avoidant.
That's a never ending negotiation setting, which is exhausting from my point of view. Being alone, or simply having a girlfriend (each one living in their own home), it's far more rewarding and less problematic then trying to merge with the other person and taking all the decisions by negotiation, like "it's my turn to get what I want, then it's your turn...that's acceptable, that's not acceptable"...
I fail to see the advantage, the benefit, the profit of having long standing relationships while, probably, both people need to resign a lot of their withes and personalities simply for that company association to work.
Yeah...I'm already divorced, and I'm an avoidant.