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Have you ever heard of the new book “Gender Madness: One Man’s Devastating Struggle with Woke Ideology and His Battle to Protect Children”? If not, you should read it and suggest it to others. It talks about the dark truth of transgenderism on youth.
The problem with puberty is with males it really is irreversible. With women it's easy to transition, you just remove yr breasts and go on testosterone- job done- you dont even need bottom surgery. Try being an adult Male and transitioning. You've got height and broad shoulders, Adam's apple, masculine facial features and face/bodily hair. Manly hands, possibly receded hairline. Then theres bottom surgery a very expensive invasive and dangerous procedure to go through. So it's easy for you a biological girl to say no to puberty blockers as its simpler to transition later on in adulthood. However when it comes to biological males once puberty has naturally taken place, we are stuck looking manly. Puberty like it or not for some is a major concern that for those who do genuinely have gender dysphoria, it can take multiple costly and time consuming procedures to undo. Something you as a biological women never had to worry about. Just a few monthly testosterone injections over 2-3 years easy peasy (once you pass the assessments). I bet you still have a womb, overies, uterus and 🌮...yet your transitioned to look very much like a biological male and easily pass in public. Your transitioning is nothing to that of a biological males transitioning. So when you say no to puberty blockers, your condemning alot of individuals to the negative effects of irreversible biological puberty. It's a one sided policy with you. You've just shown trans women, who have gone through male puberty and let's be honest they still look masculine. When you talk about suicide, its biological males with gender dysphoria that do this out of complete inability to control what's happening to thier bodies during forced natural puberty. Its cruel to force a male with gender dysphoria to have to go through natural puberty, knowing when they are legal to transition it will finally be almost impossible to perform and pass as a woman. The only point I agree with is that children should be allowed to Express themselves freely without stereotypical restrictions. Puberty however, its something that needs a serious debate around youngsters with dysphoria.
You're an intelligent guy... do you really believe that these people belong to any serious movement?! Those are idiots who think they'll get "popular" (whatever that bs means...) and rich because of social media!
First of all regardless to the surgery, the testerone alone like you mentioned will make sure they never climax but also it makes their c*** grow like a lot and that is mutilation alone for a child
I just found your channel yesterday ❤ I wish I had someone so rational and reasonable about transitioning. Thank you so much for the courage and audacity to speak out against some of this hypocrisy. Wish I had someone like you back when I was lost in my gender confusion. Long story short I am a autistic masculine woman who majority likes women. My whole life was just stuck… trying to mentally fight against the gender norms. In my own situation I chose later in my life to not transition, it would have made me personally in a worse place. I am now happy. Figured I share a problem very hard for me to handle some days. I took a bus… and went cross country. I am very tomboy butch… but more goth mohawk woman… when I go into the women bathroom has always been an issue for me, in certain places. While talking the bus trip I had a Lady say “THERE IS A MAN IN THE BATHROOM” she got the police/security and followed me everywhere on that bus station.. I was respectful in the bathroom, and never (as autistic) meet people’s eyes in the bathroom. Went in did my business and now was being sexually harassed… the conflict ended when I stood up and said okay.. From my voice I am female, do I have to show you my female genitalia to prove this is sexual harassment. The officer realized the issue.. and told the lady to leave me alone… it was a scary moment bc if any biological man listened to her I would have been hurt. In addition… I still walk around the world with the same fear all biological women like me face. I am so happy I look more dude-ish or tomboy to where most men find me unattractive.. but still… the fear is still there. Kinda a double edge sword bc I like men here and there
Meanwhile, I’m assuming 5 year olds will still think that the world was LITERALLY black and white too at one point 😂 when I tell you it was like groundbreaking discovery when I found out the world wasn’t actually black and white 😂
I’ve had 3 4-year olds and trust me, they have NO desire to swap genders - or to even think about gender/sex. They want to be a Power Ranger/Barney/etc… Just because my daughter played with her brother’s Hot Wheels and my son toted his sister’s doll, it didn’t mean anything- except that they’re 4-years old. If adults decide to swap genders that’s on them, but leave the children alone!!!
My sister decided she was a boy between 4 & about 5.5. Clothes, name, the lot. My parents attitude was yeah, whatever. She decided to be a girl again just as suddenly. She's now late 50s, a happy, hetero woman with 2 kids. We shudder to think what would happen today. She was just being a kid who's closest friend was a little boy who was a holy terror lol so she wanted to be like him.
When my son was about 5 all he wanted for Christmas was a Barbie car. It's all I heard for 3 months. Got him one and he used it to run over his GI Joe figures LOL I do believe kids know if they don't feel the same as other boys and girls from a young age as a parent you need to let them be them as they get older and hit puberty they will figure it out.
@@Tee1471When my daughters were young, their neighborhood friends were 3 bros & their sister. They'd all play Barbies, but it was like a legless Ken bungie jumping, parachuting, etc. Outdoorsy & imaginative!
My son loved the color purple cause me and his dad love purple. Guess what? He loves superheroes like me and transformers like his dad, does not think he's a girl, and neither do my husband or I think we're the opposite gender because we like a few things that are "gender non-conforming." Gender STEREOTYPES are a social construct. Pink used to be considered a masculine color until it swapped about 80 or so years ago. Stereotypes are bad; just let people be people and stop pretending just because you like the current generation's stereotypes that belong to a different gender that means you're actually that gender rather than the one you were born as.
Most states has a crime called statutory rape. And this usually deals with minors in their teen years having sex with adults. In some cases, these minors consent to it. But due to their age, the law does not recognize that as consent. Yet we expect young young children who have not hit puberty yet to be able to consent to the process of changing their gender. Someone, please explain that to me.
i always wonder why nobody brings up this point. i would always ask those "4yo know if they're transgender'' people if they also think that these 4yo also know if they wanna sleep with an adult. .... ... actually, i don't wanna know their answer ...
I mean I was playing unicorns and dragons with my friends at school. When we went home we were boys and girls again. Can't imagine it's either from a trans student in class that explains it, the teacher... or worse, both.
I remember how most if not all actual trans people say they didn’t even find out what the word trans was till adulthood. And even then: they had to do extra research and get therapy before even deciding to go through with it
Growing up as trans I didn’t want my body or genitals touched. I was completely socially, sexually and romantically NOT a functioning member of society. Post transition I’ve never been happier. All I keep seeing now is fem gay guys who were totally functioning as gay men and who like make up suddenly claiming trans usually because they want the men who date trans women. Delusional. I had attempts at taking my own life because of sex and gender dysphoria and these people are viewing it as a light hearted choice to improve their sex and dating lives. Shapeshifter was one of them. Had a gay bf and was totally fine as a gay dude. Started chasing male attention and ended up where he is. Zero dysphoria. Just a gay dude who liked girly things and was horny.
I hate it when people pull out the "all kids are verbal about how they feel" because I was rarely verbal about my emotions and would lie about how I felt a lot
I lied about how I felt throughout my entire childhood. I always said whatever I thought the adults around me wanted to hear. The feelings I held the closest & never discussed were fear, hurt, anxiety, and sadness. Everyone described me as a “happiest, most polite child they’d ever met” but I was the opposite on the inside. I didn’t start being honest with myself about those feelings until I was 18, and it took me until my early 20’s to feel comfortable beginning to express those negative feelings to others.
The 5 years old kids I see they say they're Superman, Batman, Spiderman, Dinosaur, Hulk etc 😆So i'm just a liiiitle skeptical about them knowing for sure about their gender thing
These people say we shouldn't "gender inanimate objects", but if a kid likes objects associated with the opposite gender they want them to transition. These people have no consistency whatsoever and that's honestly the most exhausting aspect of all this nonsense.
People don't want to gender inanimate objects??? Then they better not live in or visit any French, or Spanish speaking country, as every noun is either male, or female.
I used to think that I'm a transman since 12 to 19. Later I was diagnosed with schizophrenia and it all was the symptom of my disorder. Now I'm happy maried bisexual woman :)
The guy with the curly pigtails and red lipstick…this is why I can’t take these ppl seriously. The comparison to black face is legit, it’s just so offensive. And I don’t get offended that easily, I’m pretty confident that my beliefs are grounded enough in reality that I’m not easily shaken or offended, but that shit is just offensive. He’s not even trying, but he’s lecturing others. Errrrr….
He has a really cute dog tho but that mf always gives me the ick. Spent his 27 years of life as a man, looking a grown ass bushy beard man, and suddenly he finds out he's a woman???? I can bet my ass he got influenced by this woke LGBT media. The pandemic did us so wrong, mfs started thinking they were another human
Unfortunately, this is what people end up thinking trans people are, and the vast majority are not. A few that I know have expressed their disgust at this type of behavior and say they give the trans community a poor reputation.
not wanting to be a girly girl made me think i was "bigender" leaning masculine in teen years... it just turned out i'm lesbian who's femme-leaning androgynous nowadays lol
@@justinshelton5026Who said they don't want to ban circumcision? If I came to a video on circumcision and got annoyed that no one was focusing on FGM instead, that would be weird. Just like how your comment is weird in this context. If you feel passionately about circumcision, you're free to make your own content.
As a young girl who liked "boy toys" and was frequently told i was "playing wrong" I tried to make my sons toy selection well rounded. I follow his lead into what he likes ignoring if its a girl or boy toy. It broke my heart the day he really wanted a mermaid toy at the dollar store but then backed out because he was worried what the other kids at school would say. I told him to ignore what anyone thinks. If you like it, you like it. He did get it in the end but watching that excited spark die from social pressure.... thats tough.
Exactly! These "boy toys" or "girl toys" are only that because society has said that. toys are not connected with gender. it is true though that kids of one gender generally prefer one type of toy over another, this does not make the toys they play with only for their gender. I ask them what makes a toy for a certain gender they won't be able to give a good answer. Both genders can benefit from playing a variety of toys. I have heard boys playing with dolls made them better fathers.
I will share this on every video that talks about little kids "knowing" their trans. I asked my 4 year old daughter what she wanted to be.... A chicken cake 🐔🎂 Also, if a 28 year old woman is told she can't have her tubes tied or get a hysterectomy because "she might change her mind" about having kids. Friend of mine suffered from endometriosis horribly. Drs would not treat her for over 9 years because she might want kids. She already said she's not having kids. 😠
My wife has pcos and maybe also endo. She also wanted her tubes tied but they wouldn't let her for the same reason but also our kids were high risk being twins. I think as an adult there should be more autonomy if you are not harming yourself or others. Gender surgery s h old require a diagnosis cause it is irreversible even as an adult. If they have dysphoria they should be allowed to for treatment. But ya I agree if the prevailing rule is preventing people from life altering changes. They should not allow kids to transition. Also on your friend idk their current age but I know a lot of women who have kids who absolutely didn't want them while young.
This is why 2nd, 3rd, 4th opinions matter. My mum is a survivor of CSA and C S trafficking and was certain by the time she escaped at 16 she wasn't going to have any natural kids and later started fostering at the age of 19. She was going to get her tubes tied at 19 in Florida in the 90s and they didn't need her husband's permission, first doctor said no and she fought until she found a doctor who said yes. She found out she was pregnant with me and waited to get them tied, the doctors tied right after I was pulled out. You have to be willing to fight to get the medical treatment you deserve.
Same here. I knew I was done at 27 with two kids, but doc gave me the run around, so I got it done behind his back at 34. I shudder to think what might have happened in those seven years, especially considering one toxic, unprotected relationship I had. But, yeah, let 16-year-olds get permanently muti*ated.
just wanted to add, when I was about 3 and asked what I wanted to be (back then, mostly about profession) I answered without hesitation: a horse. Of course the grown up laughed and someone explained that kids usually grow up to be humans - who would have thunk... - on the other topics, am totally with you
Jazz Jenning's mom got a lot of attention for being this progressive mom. So she paraded Jazz around, giving Jazz way more attention than her other children. This was a form of positive reinforcement for little Jazz. If I do this, I will get all of mommy's love and attention.
I agree. Kids are just odd little people. When I was a wee lil girl, I loved spiders so much I wanted to be one. My odd self would even tell people I was part spider and thought I was spiderman🗿 didn't mean I was him
I don’t think kids are weird and don’t know what they want…listen to them - they know, determinably, exactly what they want …at any given moment. That’s why they need adults to encourage their creativity and curb their impulses.
When my younger sister was four and saw the movie Cars, she wanted to *be* a race car. Not a race car driver, an actual race car. She wanted to be Lighting McQueen. When I was four, I wanted to live in the Hofburg but my parents said there was no princes my age, so that dream was quickly crushed.
My mother wanted to be a mama bunny (Does this mean I'm a rabbit?) and wanted to marry Underdog. I wanted to be an autobot. My brother wanted to be a Power Ranger. We all have trauma from this oppressive system, aka "reality," crushing our dreams.
@sweethistortea GIRL! WHAT KIND OF MONSTERS RAISED YA'LL?! 😱😱A sensible, loving parent would have allowed...NO, encouraged your sister to drink gasoline, get regular oil changes, live in ya'll's garage and run around on a highway, TRUE TO HER IDENTITY AS A MOTOR-GENDERED VEHICLE!!! And as for you, the day you were old enough to point to a place on a map, you should have been on the first available flight there (first class of course) to be crowned the first 2 year old monarch if this magical land with no oppression...bc you have rights!...ugh makes me sick to my stomach, people used to be just straight savages back then! Thank Goddess our society is slowly becoming the utopia that we all deserve 😂
I was obsessed with animal documentaries as a kid so I wanted to be a plethora of animals. Crocodiles, horses, platypus, elephants, cheetahs, hippos, kangaroos… 😂
@@Zenthropa7 Sure, but there's no reason your sister couldn't have chosen to become your brother at the age of consent and legal adulthood - 18. The point is, a 4 year old says and thinks all kinds of crazy crap. That doesn't mean it's real, and it's ludicrous to act like it is. Meanwhile, teens have brains riddled with hormones, are searching to find themselves (usually very awkwardly), are greatly influenced by peer pressure, and think they know everything. So, for every one 4 year old who happens to hold to their feeling through to adulthood, how many grow out of it?
I grew up with 3 older brothers. At the time, I wanted to be like them, so I often told my mom that I wanted to be a boy. I saw that they got to run around shirtless on hot days, they got to eat more, they had more freedom because the world wasn't as dangerous for them. I'm also autistic and I noticed that my brother's hand me downs were a lot comfortable than the new clothes I would buy in the girls section that were itchy and scratchy and tight and a sensory nightmare....omg if my mom would have told me that I was a transboy at that age, and gave me puberty blockers???? Let's just say I'm extremely glad she didn't!
I had an extremely parallel experience. Only difference is I had one older brother and his best friends around. But same. And I told my mom not too long ago: I’m so lucky I came up back then and you never made it a thing.
@@EyeoftheWhiteWolf Safety in numbers? We never ever walked anywhere alone, never took rides even from people we knew, and back then we walked to the store to buy our parents cigarettes, and beer, with a handwritten note from my mom. Things change.
@@justinshelton5026 Of couse boys are hurt and abused too. I don't ever dismiss that. But for at least the 65 years I've been alive, most parents give their sons more personal freedom than daughters. The world is seen as more dangerous for girls. Maybe (besides higher rates of sexual assault for girls) because boys don't get pregnant.
I’m a nurse and I follow a travel nurse group and someone just posted about almost getting fired for not affirming that a post bottom surgery trans female CHILD that they can’t get a period. The mother and the child both believed she was getting her period because she was bleeding down there. What is this world coming to???
That’s why nurses need to clarify their conscientious objector status and how to navigate. Many nurses decline to participate in circumcision. Declining to participate in ethically problematic surgery has a ripple effect as more nurses see that it’s okay to decline. Remember first do no harm
@@atheistbewildered2987 no my post is about LYING to a patient as a medical professional that the bleeding they were experience was a “period” and not just a side effect of the surgery or complication with the surgery, or whatever the cause of the bleeding was. If I’m to do no harm like you say then I should be telling my patient the facts about their bodies correct?
I'm post operation transgender and all i want to do is live my life and not be part of the lgbt,abcdefg club I now call it the freak club that wants to go after the kids..
Unfortunately, now many people equate being trans with the loud, angry men with beards in dresses demanding to play women's sports and use women's bathrooms.
You do realize that you are put in the same category by society, right? You are no better than anyone else. And what makes you think we all want to go after kids? Please keep your little monsters away from me. I bite
My husband was concerned when our young son found my slip and was playing with it. He seemed to accept my perspective that the silky fabric feels good on our son's skin. He was too young to know the nature of the female garment.
It is happening here in Canada. My son has a trans co-worker, and at lunch one day, he told my son that he had a full mastectomy at 16 at one of the biggest Children’s hospitals in the country.
@dammar117: Well, apparently what a child "wants" is taken more seriously, than what a grown woman wants. It's ridiculous. I mean, when someone got their tubes tied, they can still get pregnant via IVF. Taking hormone blockers and cross-sex hormones and getting gender reassignment surgery, that can't get reversed or bypassed in anyway, in case the person later on realizes, that they are not trans.
Its the same reason kids are not diagnosed with personality disorders because they are not old enough to have one. Their brains and personalities are still developing. They can have symptoms of personality disorders, but they can grow out of them, or they can turn into something else, or be symptoms of their surroundings etc. Why is being trans different. Yes, some kids childhood gender dysphoria WILL turn out to be transgenderism... but not all kids with gender dysphoria will. Sometimes its a symptom of sexual abuse, or an early symptom of being gay, or a symptom of autism, or some might just be really uncomfortable in their body, and will thus develop into eating disorder. It's why you cant take a symptom in a kid and say.... this kid is diagnosed with anti social personality disorder, because their symptoms are still developing WITH their developing brains and personalities!!
As a former child, and even as an adult, tastes and attitudes are constantly changing. I'm still into Batman, Spiderman, X-Men, Star Wars and dinosaurs are cool, etc but as a kid I was OBSESSED with those things. I could barely go a day without interacting with or drawing it or whatev. Bet my mom thought I was a lil weirdo... well actually she *knew,* more accurately... anyhow 😅 Yeah kids are just heavy into whatever they're into that particular week, and maybe they either get over it, or end up making a career of it. But transitioning? Yeah let's give them time til they are old enough to drink, and their body has had time to ripen, before we create an actual "trans genocide" for the fact these people are unable to even feel sexual pleasure, much less even reproduce.
Frankly, even Blair White admits she knew she was "different" by age 5, although she didn't know she was "trans". There is a tenuous middle ground to be found in creating an atmosphere of acceptance while prohibiting medicalization before the age of majority.
Oh yeah right, Marcus doesn't know anything about Blaire White or trans people. And it's B L A I R E not Blair. Masculine drops the E Off the end like the word BLOND/E. Strange you didn't know any of this being that you're such an expert.
You know what that solution is? Just lem them play with what they want, and just let them wear clothes that are comfortable for them without putting a label on it!
I swear, every time I see an updated picture or video on Ellen/Elliot, she just looks more and more....just _exhuasted._ Never ever looks actually HAPPY either (I can't remember an actual smile since "the change" tbh). I'd feel bad, but knowing how much she promotes all this crap to young people, I just can't. 🤷♀️
God yeah, she looks awful, like she's wasting away before our eyes. So far from euphoria. And she looks high in this video, perhaps that's how she copes with her terrible choices. There's no excuse for trying to drag kids down into her pit of self-loathing misery though. Also her voice puts my teeth on edge.
Because she is the epitome of victimhood actor, just prior to bringing out her autobiography, she put out a ridiculous Jussie Smollett style fictional story just for attention and book sales.
I experienced gender dysphoria from about 5-18, then it went away. It’s interesting to think how my life would be different if I was born 20 years ago.
Children suck at communicating complex emotions, I have two and trying to figure out what emotion is causing them to act out is really difficult because they can’t explain it to me.
Beautifully put as always. I hated being a girl growing up, I was a huge tomboy and never fit with ‘the other girls’. So grateful I was given the space to just grow into myself instead of being medicalised. Thankyou for speaking up on these issues ❤
I was a very sad teenager, hyper aware of the changes in my body & the attention that drew from some creepy older men in my life. If this ideology had been around I would probably have thought, maybe that's what's wrong, maybe that would make me feel better. Which it wouldn't have because I was just going through puberty. Then I grew into a young woman. I loved being a woman & as time has passed I love it more & more. I'm now in my 60s & wouldn't be a man for quids. No thank you ! We are wonderful creatures us females ❤️
@@Zenthropa7 of course, and I fully acknowledge they are completely different - where I think the issue is, and what my point was, is that many children (including myself) don’t have the emotional maturity or life experience to know that difference.
My mom is a dermatologist, certified since the 1990s. She told me she notices people who take testosterone have horrible acne. This is just one of the MANY reasons why young girls should not have to get gender affirming treatment and double mastectomies.
@@justinshelton5026 It’s not the best example, though. But it’s true according to my mother. But I’m most concerned about the regret that would happen later on in life. The hormones are in you forever once you have injected them into your system.
There's a huge difference between listening to children and allowing them to do stuff they cannot consent to. A little girl might have a crush on her teacher, she might even grow up to still find him attractive, but that's doesn't mean she should be allowed to do anything about it.
Gender dysphoric children do exist, but treatment for them should be freedom of expression and maybe therapy, not transitioning; instead, wait until they are older. I myself definitely had dysphoria from a young age, but it would have been inappropriate to transition me at 5 or 6. Instead, I socially transitioned at 16 and started medical transition at 21.
@@VentrexTheXVth an adolescent yes which is technically still a child but my point was more that very young children shouldn't transition and no one under 18 should medically transition. Personally I have no problem with a social only transition for teens ideally 16+ if through therapy it is determined that it is the right thing to do and all other possible causes of distress or discomfort have been ruled out.
@@VentrexTheXVth 16 on a social level isn't too bad imo. You have to keep in mind that if we allow medical transitions at 18, it's probably better for the people who have doubts to have a few years of knowing what it's like to live as trans, before they're allowed to take further steps. That way, they can't try to rush medical steps and are more informed by the actual consequences of being a trans individual. The age of consent is also 16 on average. If you're allowed to have sex at that age, I think socially transitioning isn't that big of a deal either. What we should do is make this trans thing less hyped. This is what's dangerous for a 16 year old. But a lot of people are still easily influenced into their early twenties too.
At 4 and 5 that is not even practical.. those people are lying.. there’s no concept of it at that age.. my 5 year old screws up and calls everyone her he has no idea he’s screwing that up… for him to know those complex ideas it’s crazy we need to put a stop to this shit
Hi Marcus! I'm so glad you're talking about the video of various celebrities encouraging children to be on puberty blockers. I lost all respect for Elliot Page when I saw him in that video. It was very disappointing.
You should've lost all respect for Ellen Page when she forced her wife to shut up and just accept her transition despite it being against her sexuality. Just saying.
@@ermwhatthesigma4500 Yeah, Page was always an annoying groan of an actress already, but it turns out she's also a self centered, clout chasing, gaslighting asshole.
Marcus, your arguments are so well thought out and spoken. I always forget that English is your second language. Big fan of your channel and continued success!
So sick of them saying every kid's gonna off themselves because they want to wear a dress. Unfortunately a lot of kids go through horrific sh*t that I won't list but we all know. So many more urgent and harmful things to focus on.
Honestly, nothing infuriates me more than when they say "bUt CiS kiDS gET bLoCkERs" and all their little ally pals clap like seals for them thinking it's a gotcha moment, but the truth to that is SO accessible and just common sense that they deliberately ignore it to clutch at straws which just shows how weak their argument is 🤦♀ but they're too narcissistic to address the possibility that there's a bigger picture.
Marcus! Interestingly, this is one of your deepest and most profound videos. You are truly one of the wisest young voices we have right now. Mad respect.
Instead of the therapists asking parents would you like a trans kid or a dead kid they should be asking parents would you like a gay kid or a trans kid because that is literally the REALITY
I grew up in the 2000s wearing my male cousins' shirts, trousers and shorts up until I was 15-16 (mid 10s). I still am a woman. So their point about not wanting to wear "boy's/girl's" clothes makes the kids trans is kinda invalid. If I had been a teenager now, I would have been told left and right that I was trans, which is not true to who I was.
I'm so happy you chose to be here and saying these things and be constant and relentless about it. We're extremely lucky to have you, Marcus! The internet needs a counterweight for all the crazy shit that's being said. Thank you for all the work you put into those videos.
Some kids want to be spider man when they grow up & they're supposed to understand if they're trans or not and how transitioning etc works, its ridiculous.
These days if a kid identifies as Spider/Man a wackadoodle parent would throw them out the window of an apartment building to see if they swing or fall.
What about all the kids who go through it, and find out it was a mistake. And end up taking their life because of the depression it caused? They want to scream that it should be done so it doesnt happen Well, it can be the CAUSE of it happening
Hi Marcus. I love your content. Before I had children, I read something about boys playing with dolls and that they were practicing being Dad's. Then my son got brainwashed by the Alphabet Mafia. He was an adult, but he got caught up on TikTok. He just started to wear women's clothing. I just accepted it because I am his mother. It lasted about 6 months before he decided that he was indeed a man. I don't believe the nonsense that teachers, doctors, etc. forcing children to believe that they are Trans. I don't believe that many parents would kick their children out because they are Trans. I think in most cases that it is the opposite. We need to just accept the way our children are and let them figure things out for themselves.
I was the biggest tomboy ever, and now I am such a girly girl, and I still feel so masculine at times it doesn’t mean I’m a man… I have a two year old… She cannot get consent… No child can give consent to this type of radical stuff
Thank you so much for providing society with common sense 😢 it’s so sad but we need to hear this. Society has gotten so perverted that we are now sexualizing children. Children don’t even think about sex because they don’t know what it is.
Too bad they don't have a commercial like that for all kids! That commercial is literal indoctrination and propaganda. What kid doesn't want to be praised and "loved by everyone", being told they are exceptional just for "existing"? I'm seeing this in schools where the teachers pamper, praise, protect from bullies and even allow to bully other children, "trans kids". 😓😓😓 It's like it's all they talk about and all they care about and they ignore all other types of bullying. It's insane.
My nephew asked me today why he got told he can wear a dress, without asking. I told him next time that teacher says that you tell them why are you trying to sexualise me I’ll call my parents now.
@8:06 Yes, it would be nice to see some support for gay, lesbian, and bisexual youth being who they are and taking their time to discover how to become the gift to the world they deserve to be.
I grew up with *actual* gender dysphoria. Idk if it was mild or if my parents just raised me properly but despite the struggle I am so thankful I never transitioned, because (no offense to them but) I find straight men way more attractive than gay men. 😜 I only stopped having dysphoria within the past year...and when it finally happened, for the first time in my life, I wanted to have kids with my husband.
Have any of these people ever interacted with a 5 year old? I didn’t even remotely have any idea who I was even a little bit until my mid twenties tbh.
The fact that these people reduce gender to "boy clothes and girl clothes" and "boy toys and girl toys" makes me think that they haven't matured passed the age of 5. Either that or they have incredible bad faith. Don't know which is worst.
Most people can't actually remember what happened when they were four years old, even if they think they can. Human memory is not "read only" like a protected computer file; it is plastic, and the act of remembering an event can rewrite it to better fit new information that was acquired later. That is why police try to separate potential witnesses to a crime. If the witnesses are allowed to talk to each other, they will subconsciously edit their recollections to match what others are saying.
When I was a kid I had both boy and girl toys. Mom was a tomboy and so was I, but I am not trans because I liked boy things. I have learned over the years to embrace my feminine side but still love my boyish side.
Some lesbians and gay men say they knew they were "different" from early childhood. So maybe a 4-year-old "knows" they're not a "regular" boy or girl, but not that they're trans. I think a lot of kids who now are considered trans are really gay and would be completely happy in their bith sex. I knew a woman who never never wore dresses, played rugby, etc., and was very proud and glad to be a woman. She was ALL 100% woman, just didn't conform to what society defines as "feminine."
4-5 year olds can’t decide if they want to be spider man or sponge Bob from one day to the next! Kids can do what they want. Play with toys of the other sex. I played with Barbie’s and GI joes. I may have wanted to be a boy, but I needed counseling to overcome childhood trauma. I was not trans!
I met a nice formally trans-identified person at work the other day. She also has terrible endometriosis. Poor thing was told by school teachers to lie to her parents about her feelings about her gender. With the teacher's help, she was approved for "gender affirming care" to include a double mastectomy...but the teacher told her that she should NOT ask for the much-needed endometriosis surgery because THAT would require the parent's permission and they might find out about the gender stuff. wtf? Good news is, she finally did tell her parents and they are helping her without interference from this completely inept teacher.
The governor of Kentucky said GAC surgery was not being done on minors in Kentucky then the University of Kentucky clinic wrote a letter stating that they would no longer be performing GAC surgery on minors, the governor has yet to respond
I am so glad my parents weren’t woke and did not allow me to transition- it would’ve ruined my life- I am a teenage girl who has a history of trauma, as well as generalized anxiety disorder and OCD……..that’s what was causing my “dysphoria”- an intense hatred of self and wanting to escape…
I'm much older than you -- a Baby Boomer who was sexually abused over years. I kept the abuse totally secret until I was 30! Naturally I hated my body. I may have said I wished I were a boy just because my abusers targeted my female body & I thought I'd be safer as a boy. I do know I had PTSD, anxiety and depression and would have done anything to keep my secret hidden. Consequences of trauma often look like something else. I didn't have gender dysphoria; I had LIFE dysphoria. (I'm better now. Hang in there!)
My toddler licks the living room walls and put a poo my chihuahua did into her toy kitchen oven. How can anyone possibly allow their child to “transition”
I just want to say from the bottom of my heart, thank you for what you're doing. I hope you know how important it is for your viewpoints to be spoken publicly. Everyone now days wants to virtue signal and support anything without thinking about the harm they are doing. They only worry about appearing as accepting, despite the ramifications long term. I adore you. As a gay man, I don't see many other "LGBT"( hate lumping myself in that anagram) with the same mind set on these issues.
My exhusband was livid about TN outlawing transing kids!!! He says anyone that supports kids "suffering mentally" are horrible people and now claims that TN lacks freedom...the state protecting a trans murderer by not showing her menifesto.... When our daughter started questioning her gender at age 14, he got all on board. She was "dysphoric" for 4 years, having he/they pronouns and stuff...she's 18 now. Even though she is now wearing makeup and dresses again, she still wants to still be they/them and go by their preferred name.... ugh...
Was your daughter touched by gender ideology before her father? I watched a documentary from years ago where it seemed only the dad was really into his kid being trans & they eventually divorced, with the mom relieved that the “trans kid” was trans no more… My cousin in Portland has a biology degree, two kids & decided to be a they/them in her mid-30s. Never mind that she posts Thot photos in her bikini, showing off her augmented boobs, plus at least one where she’s nude & posing like those pregnant celebrities covering their lady parts. I guess the blue hair is where “they” comes into the equation? She also has a podcast where the first episode is titled “Trans people are precious” that I’ve yet to listen to.
@@madwickedfolly Yeah, I blame her uncle. When her dad was stationed on Korea, her and her big sister came to live with my sister's family, which I also lived there. My sister's husband had her stay in the downstairs bedroom by the master bedroom while Her sister and I stayed up stairs. I know why and it was a dumb reason. But, being isolated in that room watching tiktok all day... and eventually her boyfriend trying to force himself on her at prom... She went from wanting to look like a cute doll to becoming they/them...She even tried "he/him"...But found she "Wasn't just a boy"...but got "gender Euphoria" when people couldn't tell she was a girl. After her dad came back from Korea, it just...snowballed. Oh...I should mention she is autistic.
This is so odd, when the 60's, 70's and a little bit of the 80's everyone ended up in Unisex chlothing. It helped save money for people with more than one kid. That way a boy or girl could wear the hand me down clothes. Also, parents at that time also used to sew a lot and knit, and made clothes for there kids. In the 50's and 60's boys did the up tuck to there jeans because they were hand.me.downs and to big to wear. Anyway my pount is Unisex clothing have been atound for decades and it did help parents save money.
I had gender dysphoria in the 90s to early 2000s from ages 3 to 8 or so. I dressed as a boy, I changed my name…. I felt euphoric when strangers thought I was a boy. I am so glad I am a woman today. Can’t imagine if I grew up these days. I grew out of it…
I wish I could give you 1 million likes. Everything you say is so responsible and true! I really like your content. Thank you for your honesty and courage! 💖💖💖
I agree with you. I would like to share my own experience with this with my youngest child. First, what I recognized was that his only influence was feminine, I am a single mother with a very absent father and he also has a sister. After checking out his natal chart, I also saw that he has a feminine polarity (for those who have interest in this sort of thing). When he was 2 he started asking to paint his nails when he saw us girls do it. I would paint them clear, and never steered him away from it or said it was only for girls. He also has a tendency to gravitate to the female characters and shows geared towards girls. He wanted a pink Skye blanket (paw patrol), I simply verified that he was sure he didn’t want Marshall, or Chase instead, nope he was sure. He even has a few “girl” toys. By 4, he still wanted to paint his nails colorfully, so I gave it a go. I never told him it was only for girls or questioned him about his identity, but I did ask him if he ever thought he would want to wear a shirt tailored for girls or a dress while shopping, to which he responded “why would I wear that?”. No reason, I thought it was cute you don’t think so?🤷🏾♀️ I prepared him for if he was ever questioned about his nails. If ever asked why he does it, he was instructed to say “creativity is for everyone”. He painted his nails every week for a year, until he met some boys on the neighborhood playground. He said only once did anyone ask about it and no one teased him. He painted his nails a few more times and hasn’t asked again since, about 6 months ago and he’s going on 6 years old in a couple of months. I believe these things can definitely be a phase. Please consider your child’s level of masculine or feminine influences, children emulate who they admire and are around most, it’s how they find themselves. Consider the level of attention you are providing, a young girl who believes their baby brother is getting more attention due to their gender may decide if they change their gender they will get more attention. Consider their interests, some things designated for a particular gender just seem more exciting to the child in question. Also, consider their level of socialization, using my son as an example, he never really played outside or had friends prior, it’s quite clear that he recognized the other boys don’t paint their nails and rather quickly, he conformed to the societal standard once exposed to it. Yes, they do know what they are talking about, they know they like that dress, they know they like that truck, but what they don’t know is that anyone has designated these things to a specific gender identity or sexuality. Considering these things, will save the children from hardship and grief. Great video and I thank you for your message.
When I was 4 or 5, I asked my mom why I didn’t have the “bottom parts” that my brother had. I would slick my hair back and pretend that I was a boy when we were play fighting with sticks. I played with GI Joes instead of Barbies. I legitimately worry that my mom (who was educated in California) would’ve gone down this gender transition route had I been born today.
There's a pressure for parents to never question everything that could potentially harm their children. Parents seem to want to bypass any hardship everyone might experience in these instances and especially how it'll affect their kids. The parental instincts have dwindled and only do they focus on what society thinks. They are your babies, not anyone else's. Watch over them, provide guidance but don't let the public pressure you into making these life-altering choices. Kids don't need fear from their parents. They need your better judgement and guidance
When I was a kid (5-6 yo) I told my mum that I didn't want to wear skirts or 'girly' clothes anymore. I always wanted to play with 'boy' toys and boys instead of girls. She accepted that and let me express myself as I wanted (with the exception of school uniform). When I was roughly 14, I sat down and spoke to my mum about 'maybe' being trans. We discussed it at length (because we had an open and honest replationship), and then we went to our family doctor to discuss my options. Unfortunately, by the time I was able to see a gender specialist therapist my mums health took a major down turn and I didn't want to do anything to my body that would impact my ability to care for her. Now, at nearly 40 years old, I've been waiting for about 6 years for the next step on my trans journey because of all the 'trans' kids being pushed through the system. I wish these poor kids weren't fast tracked through GIC's to the medical part of transitioning. There's no harm in the kid in question AND their family going through therapy to ensure the young one is actually a trans kid.
"But actually that's not true. They can know... (Day one ) They either have a 'boy' name, or a 'girl' name'". By that logic I must be a girl, I grew up as a guy with a now common 'girls' name, "Maddison". Yet I am not a girl, nor do I feel like one. It's ridiculous logic.
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Have you ever heard of the new book “Gender Madness: One Man’s Devastating Struggle with Woke Ideology and His Battle to Protect Children”? If not, you should read it and suggest it to others. It talks about the dark truth of transgenderism on youth.
The problem with puberty is with males it really is irreversible. With women it's easy to transition, you just remove yr breasts and go on testosterone- job done- you dont even need bottom surgery. Try being an adult Male and transitioning. You've got height and broad shoulders, Adam's apple, masculine facial features and face/bodily hair. Manly hands, possibly receded hairline. Then theres bottom surgery a very expensive invasive and dangerous procedure to go through. So it's easy for you a biological girl to say no to puberty blockers as its simpler to transition later on in adulthood. However when it comes to biological males once puberty has naturally taken place, we are stuck looking manly. Puberty like it or not for some is a major concern that for those who do genuinely have gender dysphoria, it can take multiple costly and time consuming procedures to undo. Something you as a biological women never had to worry about. Just a few monthly testosterone injections over 2-3 years easy peasy (once you pass the assessments). I bet you still have a womb, overies, uterus and 🌮...yet your transitioned to look very much like a biological male and easily pass in public. Your transitioning is nothing to that of a biological males transitioning. So when you say no to puberty blockers, your condemning alot of individuals to the negative effects of irreversible biological puberty. It's a one sided policy with you. You've just shown trans women, who have gone through male puberty and let's be honest they still look masculine. When you talk about suicide, its biological males with gender dysphoria that do this out of complete inability to control what's happening to thier bodies during forced natural puberty. Its cruel to force a male with gender dysphoria to have to go through natural puberty, knowing when they are legal to transition it will finally be almost impossible to perform and pass as a woman. The only point I agree with is that children should be allowed to Express themselves freely without stereotypical restrictions. Puberty however, its something that needs a serious debate around youngsters with dysphoria.
You're an intelligent guy... do you really believe that these people belong to any serious movement?! Those are idiots who think they'll get "popular" (whatever that bs means...) and rich because of social media!
First of all regardless to the surgery, the testerone alone like you mentioned will make sure they never climax but also it makes their c*** grow like a lot and that is mutilation alone for a child
I just found your channel yesterday ❤ I wish I had someone so rational and reasonable about transitioning. Thank you so much for the courage and audacity to speak out against some of this hypocrisy. Wish I had someone like you back when I was lost in my gender confusion.
Long story short I am a autistic masculine woman who majority likes women. My whole life was just stuck… trying to mentally fight against the gender norms. In my own situation I chose later in my life to not transition, it would have made me personally in a worse place. I am now happy.
Figured I share a problem very hard for me to handle some days. I took a bus… and went cross country. I am very tomboy butch… but more goth mohawk woman… when I go into the women bathroom has always been an issue for me, in certain places. While talking the bus trip I had a Lady say “THERE IS A MAN IN THE BATHROOM” she got the police/security and followed me everywhere on that bus station.. I was respectful in the bathroom, and never (as autistic) meet people’s eyes in the bathroom. Went in did my business and now was being sexually harassed… the conflict ended when I stood up and said okay.. From my voice I am female, do I have to show you my female genitalia to prove this is sexual harassment. The officer realized the issue.. and told the lady to leave me alone… it was a scary moment bc if any biological man listened to her I would have been hurt.
In addition… I still walk around the world with the same fear all biological women like me face. I am so happy I look more dude-ish or tomboy to where most men find me unattractive.. but still… the fear is still there. Kinda a double edge sword bc I like men here and there
meanwhile my 5 year old niece thinks i was alive when everything was in black and white (im 22)
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Okay, it’s been a while since I’ve snorted my tea out my nose….😂😂😂😂😂
Meanwhile, I’m assuming 5 year olds will still think that the world was LITERALLY black and white too at one point 😂 when I tell you it was like groundbreaking discovery when I found out the world wasn’t actually black and white 😂
@@connor5669 okay 👍🏽
ur prettyyy. do you have snap?
I’ve had 3 4-year olds and trust me, they have NO desire to swap genders - or to even think about gender/sex. They want to be a Power Ranger/Barney/etc… Just because my daughter played with her brother’s Hot Wheels and my son toted his sister’s doll, it didn’t mean anything- except that they’re 4-years old. If adults decide to swap genders that’s on them, but leave the children alone!!!
Those same social constructs they hate so much are also used to justify that a kid can be trans...
My sister decided she was a boy between 4 & about 5.5. Clothes, name, the lot. My parents attitude was yeah, whatever. She decided to be a girl again just as suddenly. She's now late 50s, a happy, hetero woman with 2 kids. We shudder to think what would happen today. She was just being a kid who's closest friend was a little boy who was a holy terror lol so she wanted to be like him.
When my son was about 5 all he wanted for Christmas was a Barbie car. It's all I heard for 3 months. Got him one and he used it to run over his GI Joe figures LOL I do believe kids know if they don't feel the same as other boys and girls from a young age as a parent you need to let them be them as they get older and hit puberty they will figure it out.
@@Tee1471When my daughters were young, their neighborhood friends were 3 bros & their sister. They'd all play Barbies, but it was like a legless Ken bungie jumping, parachuting, etc. Outdoorsy & imaginative!
My son loved the color purple cause me and his dad love purple. Guess what? He loves superheroes like me and transformers like his dad, does not think he's a girl, and neither do my husband or I think we're the opposite gender because we like a few things that are "gender non-conforming." Gender STEREOTYPES are a social construct. Pink used to be considered a masculine color until it swapped about 80 or so years ago. Stereotypes are bad; just let people be people and stop pretending just because you like the current generation's stereotypes that belong to a different gender that means you're actually that gender rather than the one you were born as.
Most states has a crime called statutory rape. And this usually deals with minors in their teen years having sex with adults. In some cases, these minors consent to it. But due to their age, the law does not recognize that as consent.
Yet we expect young young children who have not hit puberty yet to be able to consent to the process of changing their gender. Someone, please explain that to me.
This is an excellent point.
This
i always wonder why nobody brings up this point. i would always ask those "4yo know if they're transgender'' people if they also think that these 4yo also know if they wanna sleep with an adult. .... ... actually, i don't wanna know their answer ...
I've heard it said that that's what they're going for. The slippery slope of believing children can make adult decisions. Nowadays I don't doubt it.
I can’t, because it is in fact, fucking nuts.
Where would a kid at 4-5 years old find out what trans is and completely under what that means!????
I was just only figuring out that boys had a penis and girls have a vagina at that age 🤣🤣🤣
I mean I was playing unicorns and dragons with my friends at school. When we went home we were boys and girls again. Can't imagine it's either from a trans student in class that explains it, the teacher... or worse, both.
I remember how most if not all actual trans people say they didn’t even find out what the word trans was till adulthood. And even then: they had to do extra research and get therapy before even deciding to go through with it
brainwashing
yes i had to literallly research my local laws and steps on getting the HRT and diagnosis of gender dysphoria @@crazygamer_1082
Thank you, again. Thank you for saying it’s OKAY to be gay. You don not have to be trans.
Growing up as trans I didn’t want my body or genitals touched. I was completely socially, sexually and romantically NOT a functioning member of society. Post transition I’ve never been happier. All I keep seeing now is fem gay guys who were totally functioning as gay men and who like make up suddenly claiming trans usually because they want the men who date trans women. Delusional. I had attempts at taking my own life because of sex and gender dysphoria and these people are viewing it as a light hearted choice to improve their sex and dating lives. Shapeshifter was one of them. Had a gay bf and was totally fine as a gay dude. Started chasing male attention and ended up where he is. Zero dysphoria. Just a gay dude who liked girly things and was horny.
I hate it when people pull out the "all kids are verbal about how they feel" because I was rarely verbal about my emotions and would lie about how I felt a lot
That's the first time I'd ever heard someone say it. I don't think they're capable of expressing complex emotions that adults would struggle with.
I lied about how I felt throughout my entire childhood. I always said whatever I thought the adults around me wanted to hear. The feelings I held the closest & never discussed were fear, hurt, anxiety, and sadness. Everyone described me as a “happiest, most polite child they’d ever met” but I was the opposite on the inside. I didn’t start being honest with myself about those feelings until I was 18, and it took me until my early 20’s to feel comfortable beginning to express those negative feelings to others.
The 5 years old kids I see they say they're Superman, Batman, Spiderman, Dinosaur, Hulk etc 😆So i'm just a liiiitle skeptical about them knowing for sure about their gender thing
Fucking same. Still do.
These people say we shouldn't "gender inanimate objects", but if a kid likes objects associated with the opposite gender they want them to transition. These people have no consistency whatsoever and that's honestly the most exhausting aspect of all this nonsense.
People don't want to gender inanimate objects???
Then they better not live in or visit any French, or Spanish speaking country, as every noun is either male, or female.
I used to think that I'm a transman since 12 to 19. Later I was diagnosed with schizophrenia and it all was the symptom of my disorder. Now I'm happy maried bisexual woman :)
The guy with the curly pigtails and red lipstick…this is why I can’t take these ppl seriously. The comparison to black face is legit, it’s just so offensive. And I don’t get offended that easily, I’m pretty confident that my beliefs are grounded enough in reality that I’m not easily shaken or offended, but that shit is just offensive. He’s not even trying, but he’s lecturing others. Errrrr….
I don't think it's offensive. He looks like John Cena when he was on "Ewwww".🤣
@@MeenieAlf24 HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! You’re so right, LOL!
@@MeenieAlf24 You mean Zhong Xina?
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He has a really cute dog tho but that mf always gives me the ick. Spent his 27 years of life as a man, looking a grown ass bushy beard man, and suddenly he finds out he's a woman???? I can bet my ass he got influenced by this woke LGBT media. The pandemic did us so wrong, mfs started thinking they were another human
Unfortunately, this is what people end up thinking trans people are, and the vast majority are not. A few that I know have expressed their disgust at this type of behavior and say they give the trans community a poor reputation.
Not wanting to be a girly girl did not make me trans!!! Its ok to be a tomboy!!!!
not wanting to be a girly girl made me think i was "bigender" leaning masculine in teen years... it just turned out i'm lesbian who's femme-leaning androgynous nowadays lol
"No one is performing genital surgeries on children" okay so why are you then upset at people trying to ban them if they're not happening?
Exactly it's like they wanna ignore it and dismiss or even allow it to happen lol cause their narcissistic weirdos
Also, I'm tired of being called rude names and being shouted at by liars who don't do their research
Apparently it was happening at Vanderbilt in TN - because they suddenly said it was ending. You can’t end something that’s not there 🙄
Still no one wants to ban circumcising baby boys without their consent?
@@justinshelton5026Who said they don't want to ban circumcision? If I came to a video on circumcision and got annoyed that no one was focusing on FGM instead, that would be weird. Just like how your comment is weird in this context. If you feel passionately about circumcision, you're free to make your own content.
As a young girl who liked "boy toys" and was frequently told i was "playing wrong" I tried to make my sons toy selection well rounded. I follow his lead into what he likes ignoring if its a girl or boy toy. It broke my heart the day he really wanted a mermaid toy at the dollar store but then backed out because he was worried what the other kids at school would say. I told him to ignore what anyone thinks. If you like it, you like it. He did get it in the end but watching that excited spark die from social pressure.... thats tough.
Exactly! These "boy toys" or "girl toys" are only that because society has said that. toys are not connected with gender. it is true though that kids of one gender generally prefer one type of toy over another, this does not make the toys they play with only for their gender. I ask them what makes a toy for a certain gender they won't be able to give a good answer. Both genders can benefit from playing a variety of toys. I have heard boys playing with dolls made them better fathers.
Watching society break your kids spirit is a terrible thing to go thru. Its inevitable in this sick society
I will share this on every video that talks about little kids "knowing" their trans. I asked my 4 year old daughter what she wanted to be.... A chicken cake 🐔🎂
Also, if a 28 year old woman is told she can't have her tubes tied or get a hysterectomy because "she might change her mind" about having kids. Friend of mine suffered from endometriosis horribly. Drs would not treat her for over 9 years because she might want kids. She already said she's not having kids. 😠
My wife has pcos and maybe also endo. She also wanted her tubes tied but they wouldn't let her for the same reason but also our kids were high risk being twins. I think as an adult there should be more autonomy if you are not harming yourself or others. Gender surgery s h old require a diagnosis cause it is irreversible even as an adult. If they have dysphoria they should be allowed to for treatment. But ya I agree if the prevailing rule is preventing people from life altering changes. They should not allow kids to transition.
Also on your friend idk their current age but I know a lot of women who have kids who absolutely didn't want them while young.
You said the age my bad. 37 is too old tho imo to force them to wait. That becomes a gyreatic pregnancy at that pont
This is why 2nd, 3rd, 4th opinions matter. My mum is a survivor of CSA and C S trafficking and was certain by the time she escaped at 16 she wasn't going to have any natural kids and later started fostering at the age of 19. She was going to get her tubes tied at 19 in Florida in the 90s and they didn't need her husband's permission, first doctor said no and she fought until she found a doctor who said yes. She found out she was pregnant with me and waited to get them tied, the doctors tied right after I was pulled out. You have to be willing to fight to get the medical treatment you deserve.
Same here. I knew I was done at 27 with two kids, but doc gave me the run around, so I got it done behind his back at 34. I shudder to think what might have happened in those seven years, especially considering one toxic, unprotected relationship I had.
But, yeah, let 16-year-olds get permanently muti*ated.
just wanted to add, when I was about 3 and asked what I wanted to be (back then, mostly about profession) I answered without hesitation: a horse. Of course the grown up laughed and someone explained that kids usually grow up to be humans - who would have thunk... -
on the other topics, am totally with you
Jazz Jenning's mom got a lot of attention for being this progressive mom. So she paraded Jazz around, giving Jazz way more attention than her other children. This was a form of positive reinforcement for little Jazz. If I do this, I will get all of mommy's love and attention.
Seriously.
His mom is a perverted abuser.
Poor Jazz.
Garnered a lot of attention for Jazz's mother, too....
With Jazz, it started so early in life that she hasn't experienced anything else. She stood no chance from the beginning.
@@ankavoskuilen1725 Jazz is a boy that has been abused and brainwashed into thinking he's a girl. They castrated him at age 17.
I don't think Jazz's mom is a progressive, or even a liberal. Imo she's a conservative woman who does not accept a feminine son.
My friend is a medical malpractice attorney. He said they are already preparing for the huge influx of lawsuits they predict will be coming.
Great point!!!
the approaching tsunami of med mal suits is going to be mindblowing.
@@megsley yes it will
Glad to hear. They are gonna be busy as hell!!
When I was four I wanted to be a mermaid then when I turned six I wanted to be a snow leopard. Kids a weird and don’t know what they want.
I agree. Kids are just odd little people. When I was a wee lil girl, I loved spiders so much I wanted to be one. My odd self would even tell people I was part spider and thought I was spiderman🗿 didn't mean I was him
I don’t think kids are weird and don’t know what they want…listen to them - they know, determinably, exactly what they want …at any given moment. That’s why they need adults to encourage their creativity and curb their impulses.
Two nights ago my youngest asked me if she could marry McDonald’s when she’s a grown up bc she’s in love with it…so yea, definitely true haha
When my younger sister was four and saw the movie Cars, she wanted to *be* a race car. Not a race car driver, an actual race car. She wanted to be Lighting McQueen. When I was four, I wanted to live in the Hofburg but my parents said there was no princes my age, so that dream was quickly crushed.
I wanted to be a black panther. Not an activist, but a panther. I was so upset that I was expected to stay human.
My mother wanted to be a mama bunny (Does this mean I'm a rabbit?) and wanted to marry Underdog. I wanted to be an autobot. My brother wanted to be a Power Ranger.
We all have trauma from this oppressive system, aka "reality," crushing our dreams.
@sweethistortea GIRL! WHAT KIND OF MONSTERS RAISED YA'LL?! 😱😱A sensible, loving parent would have allowed...NO, encouraged your sister to drink gasoline, get regular oil changes, live in ya'll's garage and run around on a highway, TRUE TO HER IDENTITY AS A MOTOR-GENDERED VEHICLE!!! And as for you, the day you were old enough to point to a place on a map, you should have been on the first available flight there (first class of course) to be crowned the first 2 year old monarch if this magical land with no oppression...bc you have rights!...ugh makes me sick to my stomach, people used to be just straight savages back then! Thank Goddess our society is slowly becoming the utopia that we all deserve 😂
I was obsessed with animal documentaries as a kid so I wanted to be a plethora of animals. Crocodiles, horses, platypus, elephants, cheetahs, hippos, kangaroos… 😂
@@Zenthropa7 Sure, but there's no reason your sister couldn't have chosen to become your brother at the age of consent and legal adulthood - 18.
The point is, a 4 year old says and thinks all kinds of crazy crap. That doesn't mean it's real, and it's ludicrous to act like it is. Meanwhile, teens have brains riddled with hormones, are searching to find themselves (usually very awkwardly), are greatly influenced by peer pressure, and think they know everything.
So, for every one 4 year old who happens to hold to their feeling through to adulthood, how many grow out of it?
The fact that these grown men keep wanting to talk to your kids is PREDATORY 👏🏾
I grew up with 3 older brothers. At the time, I wanted to be like them, so I often told my mom that I wanted to be a boy. I saw that they got to run around shirtless on hot days, they got to eat more, they had more freedom because the world wasn't as dangerous for them. I'm also autistic and I noticed that my brother's hand me downs were a lot comfortable than the new clothes I would buy in the girls section that were itchy and scratchy and tight and a sensory nightmare....omg if my mom would have told me that I was a transboy at that age, and gave me puberty blockers???? Let's just say I'm extremely glad she didn't!
I had an extremely parallel experience. Only difference is I had one older brother and his best friends around. But same. And I told my mom not too long ago: I’m so lucky I came up back then and you never made it a thing.
Wait, since when was the world less dangerous for young boys? Were we not children too? Don’t young boys get bad things done to them as well?
@@justinshelton5026 I didn't say it wasn't dangerous at all, just less. And I'm talking about teenage years.
@@EyeoftheWhiteWolf Safety in numbers? We never ever walked anywhere alone, never took rides even from people we knew, and back then we walked to the store to buy our parents cigarettes, and beer, with a handwritten note from my mom. Things change.
@@justinshelton5026 Of couse boys are hurt and abused too. I don't ever dismiss that. But for at least the 65 years I've been alive, most parents give their sons more personal freedom than daughters. The world is seen as more dangerous for girls. Maybe (besides higher rates of sexual assault for girls) because boys don't get pregnant.
I’m a nurse and I follow a travel nurse group and someone just posted about almost getting fired for not affirming that a post bottom surgery trans female CHILD that they can’t get a period. The mother and the child both believed she was getting her period because she was bleeding down there. What is this world coming to???
So a goddamn idiot woman trans'd her boy not even COMPREHENDING what the surgery was. O M G
That’s why nurses need to clarify their conscientious objector status and how to navigate. Many nurses decline to participate in circumcision. Declining to participate in ethically problematic surgery has a ripple effect as more nurses see that it’s okay to decline. Remember first do no harm
@@atheistbewildered2987 no my post is about LYING to a patient as a medical professional that the bleeding they were experience was a “period” and not just a side effect of the surgery or complication with the surgery, or whatever the cause of the bleeding was. If I’m to do no harm like you say then I should be telling my patient the facts about their bodies correct?
I'm post operation transgender and all i want to do is live my life and not be part of the lgbt,abcdefg club I now call it the freak club that wants to go after the kids..
totally understand and agree
Same..
i am trans mtf and i understand how you feel i hate being put into the same category as those freaks i just want to be trans and live my life.
Unfortunately, now many people equate being trans with the loud, angry men with beards in dresses demanding to play women's sports and use women's bathrooms.
You do realize that you are put in the same category by society, right? You are no better than anyone else. And what makes you think we all want to go after kids? Please keep your little monsters away from me. I bite
My husband was concerned when our young son found my slip and was playing with it.
He seemed to accept my perspective that the silky fabric feels good on our son's skin. He was too young to know the nature of the female garment.
Just like a lot of young lads will put on heals just to be taller not because they want to be a girl
Heels were actually invented for men, especially kings, like Louis XIV of France.
It is happening here in Canada. My son has a trans co-worker, and at lunch one day, he told my son that he had a full mastectomy at 16 at one of the biggest Children’s hospitals in the country.
But an adult woman of 28 or so can't decide to get a tubal ligation. And a 50+ woman has to fight to get HRT. 😡
@dammar117:
Well, apparently what a child "wants" is taken more seriously, than what a grown woman wants. It's ridiculous. I mean, when someone got their tubes tied, they can still get pregnant via IVF. Taking hormone blockers and cross-sex hormones and getting gender reassignment surgery, that can't get reversed or bypassed in anyway, in case the person later on realizes, that they are not trans.
Its the same reason kids are not diagnosed with personality disorders because they are not old enough to have one. Their brains and personalities are still developing. They can have symptoms of personality disorders, but they can grow out of them, or they can turn into something else, or be symptoms of their surroundings etc. Why is being trans different. Yes, some kids childhood gender dysphoria WILL turn out to be transgenderism... but not all kids with gender dysphoria will. Sometimes its a symptom of sexual abuse, or an early symptom of being gay, or a symptom of autism, or some might just be really uncomfortable in their body, and will thus develop into eating disorder. It's why you cant take a symptom in a kid and say.... this kid is diagnosed with anti social personality disorder, because their symptoms are still developing WITH their developing brains and personalities!!
And also hormone fluctuations will play a part in all of this
I'm concerned when they forget how children are. Feelings pass. Very quickly, too
As a former child, and even as an adult, tastes and attitudes are constantly changing. I'm still into Batman, Spiderman, X-Men, Star Wars and dinosaurs are cool, etc but as a kid I was OBSESSED with those things. I could barely go a day without interacting with or drawing it or whatev. Bet my mom thought I was a lil weirdo... well actually she *knew,* more accurately... anyhow 😅 Yeah kids are just heavy into whatever they're into that particular week, and maybe they either get over it, or end up making a career of it. But transitioning? Yeah let's give them time til they are old enough to drink, and their body has had time to ripen, before we create an actual "trans genocide" for the fact these people are unable to even feel sexual pleasure, much less even reproduce.
real i could never get something as permeant as that
It's concerning they're so unaware of reality they think literally all names, clothing, and toys are gendered 😂
Frankly, even Blair White admits she knew she was "different" by age 5, although she didn't know she was "trans".
There is a tenuous middle ground to be found in creating an atmosphere of acceptance while prohibiting medicalization before the age of majority.
Oh yeah right, Marcus doesn't know anything about Blaire White or trans people. And it's B L A I R E not Blair. Masculine drops the E Off the end like the word BLOND/E. Strange you didn't know any of this being that you're such an expert.
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True ! But at that time she could just be gay and not trans. Most gays stories start as : I always felt different as a child
@@madalenafreire1297 Yes. I think the term "Queer Kid" should be normalized. And the use of puberty blockers has to be banned.
You know what that solution is? Just lem them play with what they want, and just let them wear clothes that are comfortable for them without putting a label on it!
I swear, every time I see an updated picture or video on Ellen/Elliot, she just looks more and more....just _exhuasted._ Never ever looks actually HAPPY either (I can't remember an actual smile since "the change" tbh). I'd feel bad, but knowing how much she promotes all this crap to young people, I just can't. 🤷♀️
Yeah, something else is going on there.
God yeah, she looks awful, like she's wasting away before our eyes. So far from euphoria. And she looks high in this video, perhaps that's how she copes with her terrible choices. There's no excuse for trying to drag kids down into her pit of self-loathing misery though.
Also her voice puts my teeth on edge.
She looks absolutely dead inside. It’s so sad.
Page looks very unhealthy physically since transitioning - as Ellen her face was full and glowing. Now Page is thin and drawn in the face ☹️
Why does Elliot Page always have to be on the verge of tears or already tearing everytime he speaks
Because she is the epitome of victimhood actor, just prior to bringing out her autobiography, she put out a ridiculous Jussie Smollett style fictional story just for attention and book sales.
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When I was a kid, I thought I was Ace Freely. Until I jumped off the couch playing a broom, and cracked my head. 😡 turns out, I was wrong. 😩
I experienced gender dysphoria from about 5-18, then it went away. It’s interesting to think how my life would be different if I was born 20 years ago.
Children suck at communicating complex emotions, I have two and trying to figure out what emotion is causing them to act out is really difficult because they can’t explain it to me.
Beautifully put as always. I hated being a girl growing up, I was a huge tomboy and never fit with ‘the other girls’. So grateful I was given the space to just grow into myself instead of being medicalised. Thankyou for speaking up on these issues ❤
I was a very sad teenager, hyper aware of the changes in my body & the attention that drew from some creepy older men in my life. If this ideology had been around I would probably have thought, maybe that's what's wrong, maybe that would make me feel better. Which it wouldn't have because I was just going through puberty. Then I grew into a young woman. I loved being a woman & as time has passed I love it more & more. I'm now in my 60s & wouldn't be a man for quids. No thank you ! We are wonderful creatures us females ❤️
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@@Zenthropa7 of course, and I fully acknowledge they are completely different - where I think the issue is, and what my point was, is that many children (including myself) don’t have the emotional maturity or life experience to know that difference.
My mom is a dermatologist, certified since the 1990s. She told me she notices people who take testosterone have horrible acne. This is just one of the MANY reasons why young girls should not have to get gender affirming treatment and double mastectomies.
Acne? Really? Something that almost all teenagers experience in puberty from their very own hormones? Not a great example in my opinion.
@@justinshelton5026 It’s not the best example, though. But it’s true according to my mother. But I’m most concerned about the regret that would happen later on in life. The hormones are in you forever once you have injected them into your system.
There's a huge difference between listening to children and allowing them to do stuff they cannot consent to. A little girl might have a crush on her teacher, she might even grow up to still find him attractive, but that's doesn't mean she should be allowed to do anything about it.
People should use the example, Angelina Jolie daughter went through. She went through her tomboy stage and now look at her at present.
Gender dysphoric children do exist, but treatment for them should be freedom of expression and maybe therapy, not transitioning; instead, wait until they are older. I myself definitely had dysphoria from a young age, but it would have been inappropriate to transition me at 5 or 6. Instead, I socially transitioned at 16 and started medical transition at 21.
16 is still a child
@@VentrexTheXVth an adolescent yes which is technically still a child but my point was more that very young children shouldn't transition and no one under 18 should medically transition. Personally I have no problem with a social only transition for teens ideally 16+ if through therapy it is determined that it is the right thing to do and all other possible causes of distress or discomfort have been ruled out.
Your brain hasn't even finished developing. 🤦🏼♀️
EXACTLY 💯
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16 on a social level isn't too bad imo. You have to keep in mind that if we allow medical transitions at 18, it's probably better for the people who have doubts to have a few years of knowing what it's like to live as trans, before they're allowed to take further steps. That way, they can't try to rush medical steps and are more informed by the actual consequences of being a trans individual. The age of consent is also 16 on average. If you're allowed to have sex at that age, I think socially transitioning isn't that big of a deal either. What we should do is make this trans thing less hyped. This is what's dangerous for a 16 year old. But a lot of people are still easily influenced into their early twenties too.
At 4 and 5 that is not even practical.. those people are lying.. there’s no concept of it at that age.. my 5 year old screws up and calls everyone her he has no idea he’s screwing that up… for him to know those complex ideas it’s crazy we need to put a stop to this shit
When a man in lipstick taks about children! I say leave our children alone!!!
Hi Marcus! I'm so glad you're talking about the video of various celebrities encouraging children to be on puberty blockers. I lost all respect for Elliot Page when I saw him in that video. It was very disappointing.
You should've lost all respect for Ellen Page when she forced her wife to shut up and just accept her transition despite it being against her sexuality. Just saying.
True, it was a big delusion for me (the same with Bella Ramsey)
@@ObnoxiousFeline really? I’m sorry for the ex wife. I hope she finds someone else.
@@ObnoxiousFeline Oh wow. I had no idea that happened. That poor wife :(
@@ermwhatthesigma4500 Yeah, Page was always an annoying groan of an actress already, but it turns out she's also a self centered, clout chasing, gaslighting asshole.
Marcus, your arguments are so well thought out and spoken. I always forget that English is your second language. Big fan of your channel and continued success!
So sick of them saying every kid's gonna off themselves because they want to wear a dress. Unfortunately a lot of kids go through horrific sh*t that I won't list but we all know. So many more urgent and harmful things to focus on.
Honestly, nothing infuriates me more than when they say "bUt CiS kiDS gET bLoCkERs" and all their little ally pals clap like seals for them thinking it's a gotcha moment, but the truth to that is SO accessible and just common sense that they deliberately ignore it to clutch at straws which just shows how weak their argument is 🤦♀ but they're too narcissistic to address the possibility that there's a bigger picture.
Marcus!
Interestingly, this is one of your deepest and most profound videos.
You are truly one of the wisest young voices we have right now.
Mad respect.
Instead of the therapists asking parents would you like a trans kid or a dead kid they should be asking parents would you like a gay kid or a trans kid because that is literally the REALITY
Thanks for speaking out against this madness Marcus.
Thank you!
"You can't erase who you are" while erasing who you were?
How do those people make sense to themselves?
The series of clips that begin around 7:40 are a great example of "love-bombing," a well-known tactic that cults use to recruit people.
"You are a gift to this world" lol
These weirdos are really laying it on thick 😏
I grew up in the 2000s wearing my male cousins' shirts, trousers and shorts up until I was 15-16 (mid 10s). I still am a woman. So their point about not wanting to wear "boy's/girl's" clothes makes the kids trans is kinda invalid. If I had been a teenager now, I would have been told left and right that I was trans, which is not true to who I was.
I'm so happy you chose to be here and saying these things and be constant and relentless about it. We're extremely lucky to have you, Marcus!
The internet needs a counterweight for all the crazy shit that's being said.
Thank you for all the work you put into those videos.
I'm keeping these weirdos away from my 4 yr old daughter
Can't imagine the stomach ache you must get reading that
How does an adult know how a little child feels? Absolute bs. I love how you are super logical.
Some kids want to be spider man when they grow up & they're supposed to understand if they're trans or not and how transitioning etc works, its ridiculous.
These days if a kid identifies as Spider/Man a wackadoodle parent would throw them out the window of an apartment building to see if they swing or fall.
@@viscountrainbows2857 Yeah you're right there, these days that doesn't sound odd like it would have before woke started.
What about all the kids who go through it, and find out it was a mistake. And end up taking their life because of the depression it caused? They want to scream that it should be done so it doesnt happen
Well, it can be the CAUSE of it happening
Hi Marcus. I love your content. Before I had children, I read something about boys playing with dolls and that they were practicing being Dad's. Then my son got brainwashed by the Alphabet Mafia. He was an adult, but he got caught up on TikTok. He just started to wear women's clothing. I just accepted it because I am his mother. It lasted about 6 months before he decided that he was indeed a man. I don't believe the nonsense that teachers, doctors, etc. forcing children to believe that they are Trans. I don't believe that many parents would kick their children out because they are Trans. I think in most cases that it is the opposite. We need to just accept the way our children are and let them figure things out for themselves.
I was the biggest tomboy ever, and now I am such a girly girl, and I still feel so masculine at times it doesn’t mean I’m a man…
I have a two year old… She cannot get consent… No child can give consent to this type of radical stuff
Thank you so much for providing society with common sense 😢 it’s so sad but we need to hear this. Society has gotten so perverted that we are now sexualizing children. Children don’t even think about sex because they don’t know what it is.
Stop making so much sense! 😊
Arielle 💕
I'm thinking the only reason they haven't started to demand to block the mini-puberty that happens after birth is that they just don't know about it.
I’ve been following you since you had only a few thousand subscribers, congratulations on over 100k! You deserve it!
Too bad they don't have a commercial like that for all kids! That commercial is literal indoctrination and propaganda. What kid doesn't want to be praised and "loved by everyone", being told they are exceptional just for "existing"? I'm seeing this in schools where the teachers pamper, praise, protect from bullies and even allow to bully other children, "trans kids". 😓😓😓 It's like it's all they talk about and all they care about and they ignore all other types of bullying. It's insane.
My nephew asked me today why he got told he can wear a dress, without asking. I told him next time that teacher says that you tell them why are you trying to sexualise me I’ll call my parents now.
@8:06 Yes, it would be nice to see some support for gay, lesbian, and bisexual youth being who they are and taking their time to discover how to become the gift to the world they deserve to be.
Marcus your insight in this video is incredible. Thank you so much for using your voice
Thank you for speaking out! I was a Tomboy…..if I was a kid today they’d make me a boy……I love men…..
I grew up with *actual* gender dysphoria. Idk if it was mild or if my parents just raised me properly but despite the struggle I am so thankful I never transitioned, because (no offense to them but) I find straight men way more attractive than gay men. 😜
I only stopped having dysphoria within the past year...and when it finally happened, for the first time in my life, I wanted to have kids with my husband.
Have any of these people ever interacted with a 5 year old? I didn’t even remotely have any idea who I was even a little bit until my mid twenties tbh.
The fact that these people reduce gender to "boy clothes and girl clothes" and "boy toys and girl toys" makes me think that they haven't matured passed the age of 5.
Either that or they have incredible bad faith.
Don't know which is worst.
So happy my son and daughter -in-law encourage my granddaughter to play with both a sewing machine and army men.
Most people can't actually remember what happened when they were four years old, even if they think they can. Human memory is not "read only" like a protected computer file; it is plastic, and the act of remembering an event can rewrite it to better fit new information that was acquired later. That is why police try to separate potential witnesses to a crime. If the witnesses are allowed to talk to each other, they will subconsciously edit their recollections to match what others are saying.
I am a female and many years ago I played with Tonka trucks and tractors. Guess what I was a tomboy.
Okay, but.... do you find his tractor sexy?
Tonka trucks & tractors, Transformers & Matchbox Cars as a kid. I ride a motorcycle as an adult. I'm not a girly girl, but I am straight. 😂
When I was a kid I had both boy and girl toys. Mom was a tomboy and so was I, but I am not trans because I liked boy things. I have learned over the years to embrace my feminine side but still love my boyish side.
Some lesbians and gay men say they knew they were "different" from early childhood. So maybe a 4-year-old "knows" they're not a "regular" boy or girl, but not that they're trans. I think a lot of kids who now are considered trans are really gay and would be completely happy in their bith sex. I knew a woman who never never wore dresses, played rugby, etc., and was very proud and glad to be a woman. She was ALL 100% woman, just didn't conform to what society defines as "feminine."
Gender and sexual are two different thing, it’s refreshing to hear your honesty
4-5 year olds can’t decide if they want to be spider man or sponge Bob from one day to the next! Kids can do what they want. Play with toys of the other sex. I played with Barbie’s and GI joes. I may have wanted to be a boy, but I needed counseling to overcome childhood trauma. I was not trans!
I met a nice formally trans-identified person at work the other day. She also has terrible endometriosis. Poor thing was told by school teachers to lie to her parents about her feelings about her gender. With the teacher's help, she was approved for "gender affirming care" to include a double mastectomy...but the teacher told her that she should NOT ask for the much-needed endometriosis surgery because THAT would require the parent's permission and they might find out about the gender stuff. wtf? Good news is, she finally did tell her parents and they are helping her without interference from this completely inept teacher.
The governor of Kentucky said GAC surgery was not being done on minors in Kentucky then the University of Kentucky clinic wrote a letter stating that they would no longer be performing GAC surgery on minors, the governor has yet to respond
Thank you for your commitment to protecting children. I wish you all the best on your journey through life. Stay strong, stay true. Peace.
I am so glad my parents weren’t woke and did not allow me to transition- it would’ve ruined my life- I am a teenage girl who has a history of trauma, as well as generalized anxiety disorder and OCD……..that’s what was causing my “dysphoria”- an intense hatred of self and wanting to escape…
I'm much older than you -- a Baby Boomer who was sexually abused over years. I kept the abuse totally secret until I was 30! Naturally I hated my body. I may have said I wished I were a boy just because my abusers targeted my female body & I thought I'd be safer as a boy. I do know I had PTSD, anxiety and depression and would have done anything to keep my secret hidden. Consequences of trauma often look like something else. I didn't have gender dysphoria; I had LIFE dysphoria. (I'm better now. Hang in there!)
Thank you for speaking up about this. You always make the best points.
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My toddler licks the living room walls and put a poo my chihuahua did into her toy kitchen oven. How can anyone possibly allow their child to “transition”
I just want to say from the bottom of my heart, thank you for what you're doing. I hope you know how important it is for your viewpoints to be spoken publicly. Everyone now days wants to virtue signal and support anything without thinking about the harm they are doing. They only worry about appearing as accepting, despite the ramifications long term. I adore you. As a gay man, I don't see many other "LGBT"( hate lumping myself in that anagram) with the same mind set on these issues.
the whole point of childhood is to figure things out, just leave them be!
Mouth full of sanity you got there and you convey it so well too. You're the man dude!
My exhusband was livid about TN outlawing transing kids!!! He says anyone that supports kids "suffering mentally" are horrible people and now claims that TN lacks freedom...the state protecting a trans murderer by not showing her menifesto....
When our daughter started questioning her gender at age 14, he got all on board. She was "dysphoric" for 4 years, having he/they pronouns and stuff...she's 18 now. Even though she is now wearing makeup and dresses again, she still wants to still be they/them and go by their preferred name.... ugh...
Was your daughter touched by gender ideology before her father? I watched a documentary from years ago where it seemed only the dad was really into his kid being trans & they eventually divorced, with the mom relieved that the “trans kid” was trans no more…
My cousin in Portland has a biology degree, two kids & decided to be a they/them in her mid-30s. Never mind that she posts Thot photos in her bikini, showing off her augmented boobs, plus at least one where she’s nude & posing like those pregnant celebrities covering their lady parts. I guess the blue hair is where “they” comes into the equation? She also has a podcast where the first episode is titled “Trans people are precious” that I’ve yet to listen to.
@@madwickedfolly Yeah, I blame her uncle. When her dad was stationed on Korea, her and her big sister came to live with my sister's family, which I also lived there.
My sister's husband had her stay in the downstairs bedroom by the master bedroom while Her sister and I stayed up stairs. I know why and it was a dumb reason.
But, being isolated in that room watching tiktok all day... and eventually her boyfriend trying to force himself on her at prom...
She went from wanting to look like a cute doll to becoming they/them...She even tried "he/him"...But found she "Wasn't just a boy"...but got "gender Euphoria" when people couldn't tell she was a girl.
After her dad came back from Korea, it just...snowballed. Oh...I should mention she is autistic.
This is so odd, when the 60's, 70's and a little bit of the 80's everyone ended up in Unisex chlothing. It helped save money for people with more than one kid. That way a boy or girl could wear the hand me down clothes. Also, parents at that time also used to sew a lot and knit, and made clothes for there kids.
In the 50's and 60's boys did the up tuck to there jeans because they were hand.me.downs and to big to wear.
Anyway my pount is Unisex clothing have been atound for decades and it did help parents save money.
I had gender dysphoria in the 90s to early 2000s from ages 3 to 8 or so. I dressed as a boy, I changed my name…. I felt euphoric when strangers thought I was a boy.
I am so glad I am a woman today. Can’t imagine if I grew up these days. I grew out of it…
These people need to be in jail
I wish I could give you 1 million likes. Everything you say is so responsible and true! I really like your content. Thank you for your honesty and courage! 💖💖💖
I agree with you. I would like to share my own experience with this with my youngest child. First, what I recognized was that his only influence was feminine, I am a single mother with a very absent father and he also has a sister. After checking out his natal chart, I also saw that he has a feminine polarity (for those who have interest in this sort of thing). When he was 2 he started asking to paint his nails when he saw us girls do it. I would paint them clear, and never steered him away from it or said it was only for girls. He also has a tendency to gravitate to the female characters and shows geared towards girls. He wanted a pink Skye blanket (paw patrol), I simply verified that he was sure he didn’t want Marshall, or Chase instead, nope he was sure. He even has a few “girl” toys. By 4, he still wanted to paint his nails colorfully, so I gave it a go. I never told him it was only for girls or questioned him about his identity, but I did ask him if he ever thought he would want to wear a shirt tailored for girls or a dress while shopping, to which he responded “why would I wear that?”. No reason, I thought it was cute you don’t think so?🤷🏾♀️ I prepared him for if he was ever questioned about his nails. If ever asked why he does it, he was instructed to say “creativity is for everyone”. He painted his nails every week for a year, until he met some boys on the neighborhood playground. He said only once did anyone ask about it and no one teased him. He painted his nails a few more times and hasn’t asked again since, about 6 months ago and he’s going on 6 years old in a couple of months. I believe these things can definitely be a phase. Please consider your child’s level of masculine or feminine influences, children emulate who they admire and are around most, it’s how they find themselves. Consider the level of attention you are providing, a young girl who believes their baby brother is getting more attention due to their gender may decide if they change their gender they will get more attention. Consider their interests, some things designated for a particular gender just seem more exciting to the child in question. Also, consider their level of socialization, using my son as an example, he never really played outside or had friends prior, it’s quite clear that he recognized the other boys don’t paint their nails and rather quickly, he conformed to the societal standard once exposed to it. Yes, they do know what they are talking about, they know they like that dress, they know they like that truck, but what they don’t know is that anyone has designated these things to a specific gender identity or sexuality. Considering these things, will save the children from hardship and grief.
Great video and I thank you for your message.
When I was 4 or 5, I asked my mom why I didn’t have the “bottom parts” that my brother had. I would slick my hair back and pretend that I was a boy when we were play fighting with sticks. I played with GI Joes instead of Barbies. I legitimately worry that my mom (who was educated in California) would’ve gone down this gender transition route had I been born today.
In this crazy world you bring me hope and peace. Thank you 💙
This is one of the most powerful videos you've ever done.
There's a pressure for parents to never question everything that could potentially harm their children. Parents seem to want to bypass any hardship everyone might experience in these instances and especially how it'll affect their kids. The parental instincts have dwindled and only do they focus on what society thinks. They are your babies, not anyone else's. Watch over them, provide guidance but don't let the public pressure you into making these life-altering choices. Kids don't need fear from their parents. They need your better judgement and guidance
They're too scared to hear the truth. And fear makes them very angry and defensive.
When I was a kid (5-6 yo) I told my mum that I didn't want to wear skirts or 'girly' clothes anymore. I always wanted to play with 'boy' toys and boys instead of girls. She accepted that and let me express myself as I wanted (with the exception of school uniform).
When I was roughly 14, I sat down and spoke to my mum about 'maybe' being trans. We discussed it at length (because we had an open and honest replationship), and then we went to our family doctor to discuss my options.
Unfortunately, by the time I was able to see a gender specialist therapist my mums health took a major down turn and I didn't want to do anything to my body that would impact my ability to care for her.
Now, at nearly 40 years old, I've been waiting for about 6 years for the next step on my trans journey because of all the 'trans' kids being pushed through the system.
I wish these poor kids weren't fast tracked through GIC's to the medical part of transitioning. There's no harm in the kid in question AND their family going through therapy to ensure the young one is actually a trans kid.
"But actually that's not true. They can know... (Day one ) They either have a 'boy' name, or a 'girl' name'". By that logic I must be a girl, I grew up as a guy with a now common 'girls' name, "Maddison". Yet I am not a girl, nor do I feel like one. It's ridiculous logic.
I simply love you. Thank you for keeping thing REAL.
RESPECT
Thanks!