It's draining & it almost killed me. It's the truth. This took me out & then he kicked me in the face laughed & walked into the sunset with his new supply
This is so true. My empathic abilities were a curse for the first 69 years of my life. Both of my parents were mentally ill and brutal and as a result from age 8 or 9 until age 73 I was unable to feel or express emotions. It was a very lonely and tragic life as I didn't know what a healthy relationship looked like so I picked one narcissist after another for relationships. I have since healed and have allowed my super empathic senses run radar for me and it has served me well. I now have very strong and automatic boundary defenses so now narcissists cannot get past their first manipulative attempts at me and usually they will try to get me to offend or cause trouble for others and I put up neutral defenses until they ultimately have to show their true narcissistic personality. That is when I say something like you may do that to someone who cares for you but I won't and I walk away. Problem solved, they disappear and bother someone else.
We are very true to ourselves, true to our nature, true to our values, we are very honest and in a narcissistic person everything is false, everything is a lie, values don’t exist, everything is a mask and false, immature person, unconscious person, facts doesn’t exist, reality doesn’t exist, they only use their “intelligence “ to lie, to manipulate, to play mind games, to play dirty games. We are true to ourselves and honest with ourselves, we know who we are, we respect ourselves and love ourselves, we know how to deal with narcissists people.
Also, no hugging/holding me from 18 months old. No Christmas, birthday gifts, no birthday recognition. Forbidden to have toys. I had 13 foster care homes- always informed of a move to a new placement minutes before. No one cared. I outgrew raggedy clothes full of holes, informed by classmates of shoddy conditions of my clothes. I didn’t realize that wasn’t normal. I observed other kids families and gradually realized that my experience wasn’t normal
Not so. Their skills allow them to dodge the trauma. The Avoidant personality is the one to be traumatized. They overlook and avoid the issues until they are traumatized.
I use to be so empathetic to others, and i never received the same back. I know how a A Demonic Narc operates from a parental and romantic point of view. It seems like that's all ive seem to attract. Anyway, the empathy has left me to regulate who i will use it with, i have cut people off, i dont need to be bothered with other's toxic energy any longer.
I think the trap of the empath is to think they’re the hero of the story. Not everyone does it, but whenever the word hero is used in this context (as it was in this video) it makes me realize that videos like this are written to pander and not to enlighten. As an empath, I have had to face my own need to control, and my own desire for victimhood status, which in and of itself is a narcissistic trait.
@@sarahhunter1114 I felt this while reading and I agree. We do have the desire to be victims and will even portray as such..... all while knowing we can see the truth a before it even happens. Never even allowing ourselves to get to that point.
thank you for this video. i was at first just diving into random psychology videos, then i came across this one. I watched it because i was like, "i think feel like a narcissist "dark empath", but i don't want praise, i don't feel vengeful and i don't feel anyone should be punished, i kinda' just want everyone happy." then i thought "ok then what is the opposite of narcissist?" a few videos down the rabbit hole later i find this gem. it was the pat-yourself-on-the-back brain twinkies i needed. reminded of my own values and my personal experiences, and how that guides the decisions in my life, i was up lifted by this lowkey shout out to those who "get it.". much love and respect
They use the technique and think that you’re vulnerable ! But they don’t know that you know the technique and you just enjoy watching them doing the technique and laughing 😂🤣😂🤣 and wait but nothing will never happened 😂🤣😂🤣 Oh god, I can’t stop laughing ! This is hilarious 😂🤣😂🤣
This is the clincher, they do, or attempt to do the same manipulation or lie over and over! They are like children who never learn the lesson that it will not work. They are diabolical, yet so very stupid. I read somewhere that they have high IQ’s. I have a hard time believing that…because it is always groundhogs day, over and over!!! Otherwise, their very beings are fake. I kept telling my daughter that people who have high self esteem and/or are self assured, do not need to play games, manipulate or lie.
Yes it is my case. They are pissed off because they thought they were winning, but actually i was already making them waste time and bringing them to limit if patience doing what is normal
And in all likelihood ripping off the very people who had once supported you - seems to be how people live these days, vicariously through other people’s efforts.
@@Rebelmusedesign not at all - I just quite simply really don’t give a shit anymore, having been brutalised by narcs for decades myself. You want to put labels on people and call them all out as narcs, try putting the blame on the actual, real, perps, and not the people who’ve been abused by the most insidious of them for decade after decade!
@@Rebelmusedesign and you must just be a fool who enjoys putting people into nice neat little pigeon holes, even when you only think you know what you know and it’s misinformation!
It takes a narcissist to see a narcissist’s manipulation. Empaths do not have a deceptive mindset, so they will only fall victim. Empaths who disagree do so at their own peril. It’s best to just avoid the narcissist. You will never beat them at their own game
Not necessarily. One can see what they are doing and still feel kind of sorry for their dysfunction and need for control. In the end, however, you watch them humiliate themselves by quietly removing yourself from the situation, just when they expected you to react a certain way and counted on you to play the part they carved for you.
I was super shy and a quiet kid, now, a very mature adult. Always observing everything. Due to this obs, I knew our family was dysfunctional at a very young age (under 10), don’t look for things, but I do pick up on nuances, both subtle and not so subtle. Didn’t find out family was NPD till decades later. It is no surprise after finding out that I have attracted many NPD boyfriends and even girlfriends into my life. I’m generally easy going, but don’t try to mess with me or take advantage, especially game play or manipulate, as I’ve been known to suddenly turn my back on “offenders.” I’m sure they are surprised, but in my life only 3 have apologized, and one did the same thing again, and another, father, took back his apologies twice in next breath (by saying, you know how you are). I have no idea what he meant, but saw it as not being accountable for his atrocious behavior and actions towards me, his daughter. I’m not a kid anymore, I like to say I’m a survivor, and I’m pretty darn empathic. People just don’t understand when I say “I watched it (unfold) go down,” or that I “felt” anger or watched as manipulative attempts unfolded. When I have suddenly realized that someone is a narcissist due to something that they did that revealed who they are, I always know that is the end of that relationship because they have seriously misread and underestimated me. I believe that my empathy and adept skills at reading a person, whether initially or sometime down the road, have enabled me to become a super strong woman.
But even being a super empath… Sometimes it’s impossible to get through to these people. I have always been a highly observant person and very empathetic, but no one is perfect. I am stating this because someone commented on this forum saying that super empath sounds like beings that do not exist. That is not true. We take hits beyond what anyone else takes. And we use the nice approach and I can’t say it ever works.
It really isn’t hard but at the same time it’s hard to do the right thing even when I’m the only one in the situation doing it. Even when people shush me, it’s impossible to stay quiet when a person is deceiving for his own agenda. Standing up for myself was not allowed when I was a kid. It was important for me to instill in my daughters Jenna a voice and to speak out for what she feels is right. Definitely when someone is hurting her. And I’ve been on the receiving end of her speaking out and it can hurt but she’s right and I had to admit my wrongs. And I am not proud that I’ve unknowingly tested her ability to speak up. Life isn’t about pleasing everyone except ourselves. Life is best in my experience is to have a balance of meeting our own needs and meeting the needs of the others we care about.
I've never heard of this. My family always told me I was the one that fell through the cracks. Still in proximity, but without connection to anyone. Bizarre hearing about myself on a youtube video.
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Because it doesn’t make scents to get even people do it to them selves and if I do it to much goes out the door. Sometimes hard to no why people do things sometimes.
🙏🙏🏾🙌🙌🏾👑💯 YES THANK FATHER GOD AND LORD JESUS AND HOLY SPIRIT AND HOLY SPIRIT AND THE LORD OF LIVING GOD AND LORD JESUS AND REBUKED My HEART AND MIND AND SOUL AND SPIRIT FROM SINNING TO Be Like LORD JESUS AND HOLY SPIRIT 💯 HALLELUJAH AND GLORY TO FATHER GOD 💯🙌🏾🙌🙏🏾🙏👑 LOVE 🙏 YES AMEN AMEN AMEN 🙏🏾
Never looks for pats on the back but stands for what is JUST and DESERVING. EVERYONE deserves to be treated humanely. Mattew 25:40 And the king will say to them in reply, 'Amen, I say to you, whatever you did for one of these least brothers of mine, you did for me.' ...
hi, i guess i am that qeuit emphat. i see a lot in video who i am. but there are few things for me in my situatiosn are difficult. for example not feeling the energy from my neighbour.. specialy in the night when he have his problems and wake me up with his tv and walks. also his energy feels for me like grey and heavy. it makes me little agressive insite of myself also that momnet. because for me its normal that i have to deal with. and about bounderies, they never lsiten to bounderies. so when i am a neighbour i have to deal wiht. because they are not putting the music very loud. so its ;ega; and he knows about. he dont care, he is 24-7 insite.... i hope i can find a way further to not feel his energy. and he not wake me up. its a dominant looser
We know what is going on, and we make plans We take time to, and do the right thing Inspite of them, also slowly loose respect and become disgusted with them, which strengthens us to start letting go. Yes when I would finally had enough, I will strike back with words😂😂he would say can you be nice, never mind he’s been trying to get under my skin all day😂they are psycho then they act like they are the victim Nothing works with a narc
@elonever.2.071 You didn't. You just didn't know how to respond and you've let someone walk all over you thus empowering their behavior and reinforcing their grip left and right as if they were entitled to what women usually become entittled to. It's not supposed to be a power struggle game, but you know... Yall watch these videos hoping to get answers that aren't here. I'm now convinced that this channel just copy/pastes and doesn't grasp what it suggests and it's a shame. I'm glad you think you're healthy now, but... I sincerely doubt it (and sorry if I sound like an ass but people will not be as blunt and clear in person). There are 3 main topics when talking about relationships and these three words encompass all of it... you just accumulate abilities to do them better. I'm just not gonna fuel this garbage channel with accurate information I apologize.
Fairy tales. NPD/ASPD person can be defeated only by another NPD/ASPD person. Empaths are too weak to do so. You are weak, sensitive, and your emotions set strict limits and rules for you without your control. Narcissists and especially sociopaths don’t have limits and rules. You have already lost. If you're super empathetic, just accept that you'll be a weak victim all your life.
I woke up to it all. It was so painful. Took me a couple years to stand back up. I’m back w even more understanding.
Empaths are only victims til they wake up. Christ is an empath and He defeated the all time narc satan. So...in the end narcs always lose.
Yes!
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Apsolutely 😅
🙏🙌🙏🙌🙏🎉🎉♥️♥️
Narcissists are so boring to me now lol.
Boring AND annoying!!
Same
I become so zombie like and then all of a sudden, i awakened. Gratitude to the most high🙏🏾
It is draining…
Same happened with me. It was difficult but a huge learning experience with lessons. I hope you fine now 🙏
It's draining & it almost killed me. It's the truth. This took me out & then he kicked me in the face laughed & walked into the sunset with his new supply
This is so true. My empathic abilities were a curse for the first 69 years of my life. Both of my parents were mentally ill and brutal and as a result from age 8 or 9 until age 73 I was unable to feel or express emotions. It was a very lonely and tragic life as I didn't know what a healthy relationship looked like so I picked one narcissist after another for relationships. I have since healed and have allowed my super empathic senses run radar for me and it has served me well. I now have very strong and automatic boundary defenses so now narcissists cannot get past their first manipulative attempts at me and usually they will try to get me to offend or cause trouble for others and I put up neutral defenses until they ultimately have to show their true narcissistic personality. That is when I say something like you may do that to someone who cares for you but I won't and I walk away. Problem solved, they disappear and bother someone else.
Thank you for sharing your truth! It encouraged me.
Are you Saved?
We are very true to ourselves, true to our nature, true to our values, we are very honest and in a narcissistic person everything is false, everything is a lie, values don’t exist, everything is a mask and false, immature person, unconscious person, facts doesn’t exist, reality doesn’t exist, they only use their “intelligence “ to lie, to manipulate, to play mind games, to play dirty games.
We are true to ourselves and honest with ourselves, we know who we are, we respect ourselves and love ourselves, we know how to deal with narcissists people.
Empath=Highly traumatized hyper-vigilant victims of narcissists.
Clairvoyant... Narcissists worst nightmare.
Also, no hugging/holding me from 18 months old. No Christmas, birthday gifts, no birthday recognition. Forbidden to have toys. I had 13 foster care homes- always informed of a move to a new placement minutes before. No one cared. I outgrew raggedy clothes full of holes, informed by classmates of shoddy conditions of my clothes. I didn’t realize that wasn’t normal. I observed other kids families and gradually realized that my experience wasn’t normal
Absolutely True!!!
Not so. Their skills allow them to dodge the trauma. The Avoidant personality is the one to be traumatized. They overlook and avoid the issues until they are traumatized.
True😮
I exposed mine to friends an family, he is now afraid of me 😂
I use to be so empathetic to others, and i never received the same back. I know how a A Demonic Narc operates from a parental and romantic point of view. It seems like that's all ive seem to attract. Anyway, the empathy has left me to regulate who i will use it with, i have cut people off, i dont need to be bothered with other's toxic energy any longer.
AMEN AMEN - i am there right now 😢
Narcs are so predictable
So true after you've dealt with one the rest are just gross amateur hour
@@cheezinhowereeThat's very correct!
So predictable it's actually pathetic. It's almost like they can't even think at all.
I think the trap of the empath is to think they’re the hero of the story. Not everyone does it, but whenever the word hero is used in this context (as it was in this video) it makes me realize that videos like this are written to pander and not to enlighten.
As an empath, I have had to face my own need to control, and my own desire for victimhood status, which in and of itself is a narcissistic trait.
@@sarahhunter1114 I felt this while reading and I agree. We do have the desire to be victims and will even portray as such..... all while knowing we can see the truth a before it even happens. Never even allowing ourselves to get to that point.
thank you for this video. i was at first just diving into random psychology videos, then i came across this one. I watched it because i was like, "i think feel like a narcissist "dark empath", but i don't want praise, i don't feel vengeful and i don't feel anyone should be punished, i kinda' just want everyone happy." then i thought "ok then what is the opposite of narcissist?" a few videos down the rabbit hole later i find this gem. it was the pat-yourself-on-the-back brain twinkies i needed. reminded of my own values and my personal experiences, and how that guides the decisions in my life, i was up lifted by this lowkey shout out to those who "get it.". much love and respect
They use the technique and think that you’re vulnerable !
But they don’t know that you know the technique and you just enjoy watching them doing the technique and laughing 😂🤣😂🤣 and wait but nothing will never happened 😂🤣😂🤣
Oh god, I can’t stop laughing ! This is hilarious 😂🤣😂🤣
This is the clincher, they do, or attempt to do the same manipulation or lie over and over! They are like children who never learn the lesson that it will not work. They are diabolical, yet so very stupid.
I read somewhere that they have high IQ’s. I have a hard time believing that…because it is always groundhogs day, over and over!!! Otherwise, their very beings are fake.
I kept telling my daughter that people who have high self esteem and/or are self assured, do not need to play games, manipulate or lie.
What technique?
Yes it is my case. They are pissed off because they thought they were winning, but actually i was already making them waste time and bringing them to limit if patience doing what is normal
And in all likelihood ripping off the very people who had once supported you - seems to be how people live these days, vicariously through other people’s efforts.
Yes.
@@1ihws you must be a narc. Because you have no understanding of how you are affecting people even with this comment.
@@Rebelmusedesign not at all - I just quite simply really don’t give a shit anymore, having been brutalised by narcs for decades myself. You want to put labels on people and call them all out as narcs, try putting the blame on the actual, real, perps, and not the people who’ve been abused by the most insidious of them for decade after decade!
@@Rebelmusedesign and you must just be a fool who enjoys putting people into nice neat little pigeon holes, even when you only think you know what you know and it’s misinformation!
who ever wrote this is SPOT ON! wow
It takes a narcissist to see a narcissist’s manipulation. Empaths do not have a deceptive mindset, so they will only fall victim. Empaths who disagree do so at their own peril. It’s best to just avoid the narcissist. You will never beat them at their own game
It is true for many empaths but not for super empaths.
Not necessarily. One can see what they are doing and still feel kind of sorry for their dysfunction and need for control. In the end, however, you watch them humiliate themselves by quietly removing yourself from the situation, just when they expected you to react a certain way and counted on you to play the part they carved for you.
they underestimate us. We see everything. jejeje.
I was super shy and a quiet kid, now, a very mature adult. Always observing everything. Due to this obs, I knew our family was dysfunctional at a very young age (under 10), don’t look for things, but I do pick up on nuances, both subtle and not so subtle.
Didn’t find out family was NPD till decades later. It is no surprise after finding out that I have attracted many NPD boyfriends and even girlfriends into my life.
I’m generally easy going, but don’t try to mess with me or take advantage, especially game play or manipulate, as I’ve been known to suddenly turn my back on “offenders.” I’m sure they are surprised, but in my life only 3 have apologized, and one did the same thing again, and another, father, took back his apologies twice in next breath (by saying, you know how you are). I have no idea what he meant, but saw it as not being accountable for his atrocious behavior and actions towards me, his daughter.
I’m not a kid anymore, I like to say I’m a survivor, and I’m pretty darn empathic. People just don’t understand when I say “I watched it (unfold) go down,” or that I “felt” anger or watched as manipulative attempts unfolded.
When I have suddenly realized that someone is a narcissist due to something that they did that revealed who they are, I always know that is the end of that relationship because they have seriously misread and underestimated me. I believe that my empathy and adept skills at reading a person, whether initially or sometime down the road, have enabled me to become a super strong woman.
This video makes the super empath sound like the angelic perfect person.
We are, in Christ!
@@terridillon3053Absolutely, and Amen 🙏🏽 ❤🙏🏽🎉💯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Yes, they are angelic😅
gee, thanks.
being " a super empath" requiered low levels of narcisism..because it is a self agrandazing word!!!
But even being a super empath… Sometimes it’s impossible to get through to these people. I have always been a highly observant person and very empathetic, but no one is perfect. I am stating this because someone commented on this forum saying that super empath sounds like beings that do not exist. That is not true. We take hits beyond what anyone else takes. And we use the nice approach and I can’t say it ever works.
I held the flashlight for my dad. Nobody could hurt me after that
Real talk about super empath 💯❤️🔥
It really isn’t hard but at the same time it’s hard to do the right thing even when I’m the only one in the situation doing it.
Even when people shush me, it’s impossible to stay quiet when a person is deceiving for his own agenda.
Standing up for myself was not allowed when I was a kid. It was important for me to instill in my daughters Jenna a voice and to speak out for what she feels is right. Definitely when someone is hurting her. And I’ve been on the receiving end of her speaking out and it can hurt but she’s right and I had to admit my wrongs. And I am not proud that I’ve unknowingly tested her ability to speak up. Life isn’t about pleasing everyone except ourselves. Life is best in my experience is to have a balance of meeting our own needs and meeting the needs of the others we care about.
I can relate to this so much.
I've never heard of this. My family always told me I was the one that fell through the cracks. Still in proximity, but without connection to anyone. Bizarre hearing about myself on a youtube video.
Empath justice 💫
Thank you ❤
They just
just change the SUBJECT!!!!! 😮😮😮😮😮
This is true
TAMLA TANETTE MOORE IS THE MOST HIGH AND UNSTOPPABLE TOO..WE ARE ABORIGINAL PEOPLE OF TURTLE ISLAND..MOVE IN SILENCE.. TRIBAL LIFE IS THE BEST LIFE 💟..ASE HEKA AMEN RA AHO MOORE NATION GRAND RISING KARMA 💥🙀 REST IN PEACE 🕊️
Because it doesn’t make scents to get even people do it to them selves and if I do it to much goes out the door. Sometimes hard to no why people do things sometimes.
The Double Edged Sword Method 😅
It takes time to pick up the people. Get use to read body language 😊
🙏🙏🏾🙌🙌🏾👑💯 YES THANK FATHER GOD AND LORD JESUS AND HOLY SPIRIT AND HOLY SPIRIT AND THE LORD OF LIVING GOD AND LORD JESUS AND REBUKED My HEART AND MIND AND SOUL AND SPIRIT FROM SINNING TO Be Like LORD JESUS AND HOLY SPIRIT 💯 HALLELUJAH AND GLORY TO FATHER GOD 💯🙌🏾🙌🙏🏾🙏👑 LOVE 🙏 YES AMEN AMEN AMEN 🙏🏾
What has your religion to do with this video?
Never looks for pats on the back but stands for what is JUST and DESERVING. EVERYONE deserves to be treated humanely.
Mattew 25:40
And the king will say to them in reply, 'Amen, I say to you, whatever you did for one of these least brothers of mine, you did for me.' ...
hi, i guess i am that qeuit emphat. i see a lot in video who i am. but there are few things for me in my situatiosn are difficult. for example not feeling the energy from my neighbour.. specialy in the night when he have his problems and wake me up with his tv and walks. also his energy feels for me like grey and heavy.
it makes me little agressive insite of myself also that momnet. because for me its normal that i have to deal with.
and about bounderies, they never lsiten to bounderies. so when i am a neighbour i have to deal wiht. because they are not putting the music very loud. so its ;ega; and he knows about. he dont care, he is 24-7 insite.... i hope i can find a way further to not feel his energy. and he not wake me up. its a dominant looser
💯🙏✨💖 FACTS 💖✨🙏💯
We know what is going
on, and we make plans
We take time to, and do the right thing Inspite of them, also slowly loose respect and become disgusted with them, which strengthens us to start letting go.
Yes when I would finally had enough, I will strike back with words😂😂he would say can you be nice, never mind he’s been trying to get under my skin all day😂they are psycho then they act like they
are the victim
Nothing works with a narc
They are absolutely insidious. Even their body language gives them away. Can't stand them.
@@tracydean3678 I can’t stand them either, being around them is painful😂
How much was the fine? You mentioned "result", are you taking this to court and you're referring to the result of that? Haha nice. Nice mix btw!
Pls do a video on the very rare: Quiet Super Sigma Empath 🤔
Because angel come over to help empath😢
So I was the naive empath haha
Super-Empath bude robiť Narcisovi dokonalu matku.
😘🌹🎉💪aneen
Empath = Borderline/Covert Narcissist
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Super mega empaths are narcissist
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No you dont get it!
thinking of oneself as a "super empath" is totally narcisistic by nature lmfao
there is authentic pride, not all pride is sick
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@elonever.2.071 You didn't. You just didn't know how to respond and you've let someone walk all over you thus empowering their behavior and reinforcing their grip left and right as if they were entitled to what women usually become entittled to. It's not supposed to be a power struggle game, but you know... Yall watch these videos hoping to get answers that aren't here. I'm now convinced that this channel just copy/pastes and doesn't grasp what it suggests and it's a shame. I'm glad you think you're healthy now, but... I sincerely doubt it (and sorry if I sound like an ass but people will not be as blunt and clear in person). There are 3 main topics when talking about relationships and these three words encompass all of it... you just accumulate abilities to do them better. I'm just not gonna fuel this garbage channel with accurate information I apologize.
That's harsh, but I think you have a point.
Fairy tales. NPD/ASPD person can be defeated only by another NPD/ASPD person. Empaths are too weak to do so. You are weak, sensitive, and your emotions set strict limits and rules for you without your control. Narcissists and especially sociopaths don’t have limits and rules. You have already lost. If you're super empathetic, just accept that you'll be a weak victim all your life.
Lol empaths know what's up and will alert everyone
@@almightybeanchild and people will still be more favorable to the narcissist 😘
So, is this your way of letting us all know that you're a toxic narcissist?
@@vadim.watchme ew lol you sound toxic as
Spoken like a true self-important, emotionally weak, and grandstanding narcissist. Evolved empaths are the strongest people I know. Nice try 🤣
Focus on: Consequences
Thank YOU ❤