Confronting myself.

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  • Опубликовано: 29 дек 2024

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  • @MrB44ever
    @MrB44ever 3 года назад +4

    This is a wise man...
    Thank you for your words

  • @cottagemommy5116
    @cottagemommy5116 3 года назад +18

    Something I'm finding helpful lately is to not allow myself to speak unkindly to myself. If I wouldn't say it to a dear friend, I don't say it to myself. It keeps me from beating myself down and helps me to be compassionate and loving in my thoughts etc.. it does make a huge difference in how low I go.

    • @dabara
      @dabara 3 года назад

      Love

    • @zanewalsh1812
      @zanewalsh1812 3 года назад

      I hope you are still taking care of yourself Cottage Mommy 💖✨🕊️. Your words matter; use the safe, compassionate words in your vocabulary 🙏🏼
      🥰
      not
      🤬

  • @titodaudi8949
    @titodaudi8949 3 года назад +4

    Since I started to tracking you I have learnt lot of things especially in my life.
    You taught me to live simple and trust myself and feel happy.
    Life is simple
    Life is depending what you think.
    Thanks

  • @e75short14
    @e75short14 3 года назад +5

    Thanks for sharing your wisdom

  • @phosphorescence
    @phosphorescence 3 года назад +4

    I have a different perspective on this, but this man's advice is golden, it is for everyone. This video ties in with another that Jon recently put out, which was talking about how people don't know how to be together anymore - stuck in their own head because of the age of information - those who know a lot but can't do anything with that knowledge in terms of building any meaningful relationship.
    What Jon says resonates a lot with schizo's, believe it or not. What sets them apart from us is that they literally hear voices out of their own thoughts so much so that they seem audible within and outside of their mind - what Jon had done was play the true self by just watching the thoughts. This subject matter goes into weird stuff, because it later becomes spiritual as far as what these thoughts are or where they come from. But by looking at it in a basic sense - the true self is the silent one, the one who is discerning between which thoughts to entertain and which ones not to in real time - this is what Jon did by sitting back and just observing.
    It's basically this: It is we ourselves who have to willingly reach out, grasp, and entertain the thoughts as our own (Lust, hatred, personal gain, sacrifice for praise, entitlement whatever it may be in the moment) when we do it builds a false persona called the ego, the ego judges anything unlike itself while at the same time insists it is an individual, and when no one else is around, it turns inwards and attacks you. I used to be exactly like Jon but perhaps for different reasons - for a very very long time, many years of my life have gone away to it. I drove people away with my negativity, because those thoughts consumed my thought processes and were changing me into something I wasn't. I was contradicting my own self image in a way - that I wanted to be a man who was right and not wrong both morally and spiritually, yet a lot of my desires in life resided in wrong things and not the right ones. Pride and entitlement ensues after contradiction, a cornerstone of the ego. We all have the free will to do as our spirit wishes to do, it is the flesh that is weak and compromised.
    That's all, Grace and peace be to you all from God our father and our Lord Jesus Christ. 1 John 3:18

  • @HomesteadForALiving
    @HomesteadForALiving 3 года назад +29

    Depression isn’t merely a medical condition. It’s a legitimate reaction to depressing surroundings.
    Cities are depressing. Dead end jobs are depressing. Toxic, superficial people are depressing.
    Nature, and actionable steps towards a self-sufficient life will start you on the right track.
    An understanding and acceptance of Christ will teach you the forgiveness of yourself and others necessary for true joy.

    • @briannemorna4268
      @briannemorna4268 3 года назад +2

      Well said. I always look for you comments on other channels I watch. Seems we have a bit in common.

    • @bobfitz7886
      @bobfitz7886 3 года назад

      Amen

    • @Aloewells
      @Aloewells 3 года назад +1

      With positiveness comes along negativeness. If people know and accept that, they will be happy.

    • @abetgoto5499
      @abetgoto5499 9 месяцев назад

      Congratulations Jon, you have conquered your personal demon, nice approach!

  • @manivannank9598
    @manivannank9598 3 года назад +3

    Awesome technique explained in a simple language Jon....Kudos to you. I understood it rather than treating it as info :)

  • @bamtoday
    @bamtoday 3 года назад +4

    Thank you for sharing your experiences.

  • @daddylandlord5575
    @daddylandlord5575 3 года назад +46

    Jon is like a monk speaking. Everybody says amen and agree with him and they go back to hardworking normal life at the end.

    • @homesteadingwiththeangafam2158
      @homesteadingwiththeangafam2158 3 года назад

      Very hilarious comment.I love.

    • @PlantSugar
      @PlantSugar 3 года назад

      exactly!

    • @LiLoTech
      @LiLoTech 3 года назад +5

      I think we all pick up bits of wisdom that accumulate over time to improve our well being.

    • @YourFrienjamin
      @YourFrienjamin 3 года назад +2

      He is making an impression. Some change 😁

    • @familyfungi
      @familyfungi 3 года назад +1

      Letting my chickens out. Growing mushrooms is my work. Planting potatoes will come soon. Walk the Way.

  • @fbUSMBA
    @fbUSMBA 3 года назад +2

    To recall the common sense found in religions, let us point out that in the Koran, we find similar recommendations. In chapter 'fussilat', we read: 'The good deed and the bad are not the same. Repel evil with what is better; and then the one with whom you had an animosity becomes like a warm friend '.

  • @connydm729
    @connydm729 3 года назад +4

    Thank you Jon, your story will help many people all over the wold, and me too! 🙏

  • @San-wl5tw
    @San-wl5tw 3 года назад +2

    Thank you so much Jon. You’re an excellent teacher and your videos have taught me so much.

  • @marymungai4429
    @marymungai4429 2 года назад

    I hear you loud and clear Master Jon, it's real life so agitating however when one discovers themselves and improve the weakness they become strong and find joy and rest amen. God bless you for your God given wisdom

  • @swetalahiri9491
    @swetalahiri9491 3 года назад +2

    You are such an inspiration Jon. You are a realized soul without attaching any extra weight to you. It is so empowering to hear your voice. God bless you 🙏

  • @sisirajayawardene7863
    @sisirajayawardene7863 2 года назад +1

    Jon Jandai is the real human who teaches us about real life tough scenarios to overcome easily .Thank you and all my best wishes.🙏🤗

    • @sammyd7857
      @sammyd7857 2 года назад

      Why you call him a monkey?

  • @niacole1357
    @niacole1357 3 года назад +4

    WOW YOU ARE BEING SO VULNERABLE. I applaud you for confronting yourself and getting to the ROOT of your pain because many people don’t . You’re IN PROGRESS ..feel good about wanting change ! You have my support

  • @armans4494
    @armans4494 3 года назад +7

    I appreciate your open and honest words. I believe many will find strength from your words, like I have. Thank you and god bless

  • @jobyjoseph2393
    @jobyjoseph2393 3 года назад +3

    I always wait every hour for your message..veru comforting..thanks a lot sir

  • @jholid6y
    @jholid6y 3 года назад +2

    Amen my brother 🙏 thank you for your wise words.

  • @moonpillar7795
    @moonpillar7795 3 года назад +9

    You are one of the most handsome men I've ever seen in my long life. I appreciate you very much.

    • @anjewel65
      @anjewel65 3 года назад

      I thought I was the only one who thinks the same
      Good smooth skin n slender

    • @zanewalsh1812
      @zanewalsh1812 3 года назад +1

      @@anjewel65 and a beautiful ❤️

  • @batulkhan3300
    @batulkhan3300 3 года назад +5

    Thanks once again, for such beautiful thoughts.......I watch you sitting on this veranda, pl show the rest of this peaceful building, and how you build it.........thanks for being you......following you from Karachi....

  • @davidrobertson1980
    @davidrobertson1980 6 месяцев назад

    Thanks Jon, yes observation is key to stopping a lot of suffering, in fact when I have had unbearable pain in the past (I don't like drugs), I have stepped outside of my body and just observed it as an "experience OF the body" and nothing to do with me the observer, it has helped a lot to stop suffering. It's good to see you have discovered sharing the LOVE that IS the Creator is the best cure for bad feelings also - you are truly blessed discovering this yourself, kudos to you.

  • @learneternal-english3417
    @learneternal-english3417 3 года назад +8

    This is amazing man! Just to be still and know God is the most important technique in the world! He will show you all things about yourself and the world around you.

  • @mfr58
    @mfr58 3 года назад +2

    Thanks Jon, very grounding, I love you making everything fun!

  • @D.u.d.e.r
    @D.u.d.e.r 3 года назад +1

    10:42 here where I can see game changing part... thank you for sharing these vids!

  • @akhilpathak6181
    @akhilpathak6181 3 года назад +2

    Good morning and thank you for this video .

  • @lindaj7167
    @lindaj7167 3 года назад +1

    It all comes from within one's self. Feelings are inevitable, its what you do with them that matters. Finding Peace in this world is an art. Thank you for explaining it this way. I have great respect for your words.

  • @terryernest6264
    @terryernest6264 3 года назад

    Great advice Jon ... accept yourself for what you are ... then regrow from there :)

  • @tracykozil5029
    @tracykozil5029 3 года назад +3

    Thank you for the incredible lesson.

  • @zeenoyb
    @zeenoyb 2 года назад

    I've had social anxiety for a long time in my life. My sister actually did too but this is the same way she learnt to get out of it. Ignore the feeling and do what you will do. It will always go away. I don't have the courage yet, quite honestly but little by little, I'm trying my best to get to a point I'm satisfied with

  • @bumlegbooks5009
    @bumlegbooks5009 3 года назад +3

    Thank you. 🙏

  • @chriswong8659
    @chriswong8659 3 года назад +2

    Be present with the feeling. Watch it like watching the cloud pass by.

  • @OQISFREE
    @OQISFREE 3 года назад +1

    jon i simply love you, thanks from romania

  • @timothylaferriere387
    @timothylaferriere387 3 года назад +1

    Thanks for this message!

  • @oscar86456
    @oscar86456 3 года назад +1

    Thank you so much Jon of sharing your experienced in life particularly about your feelings and emotions. What I learned now from you is about how to handle na feelings ang emotions to the person that we don’t like and how to handle and understand them. This is mostly the weakness of everyone. Your message can be compared what the holy Bible says Love your Enemy.

  • @vaskarmukherjee3473
    @vaskarmukherjee3473 3 года назад +2

    Very well explained

  • @manoswellbeingchannel3684
    @manoswellbeingchannel3684 3 года назад

    Awesome. Thank you!

  • @niacole1357
    @niacole1357 3 года назад +4

    YOU WILL MAKE IT OUT OF THIS !

  • @GetgainzDe
    @GetgainzDe 3 года назад +9

    We need to unindentify with our bad emotions and realize they aren’t real

  • @minhhoang2974
    @minhhoang2974 3 года назад

    Thank you very much 🥰

  • @firdnaq2220
    @firdnaq2220 3 года назад

    Thanks for sharing your experience 😊

  • @felixgonzalez6466
    @felixgonzalez6466 3 года назад +1

    Love u my brotha! Thank u 🙏

  • @swarajismybirthright5476
    @swarajismybirthright5476 3 года назад

    Jon 's each video is real gold.....

  • @channellwoods
    @channellwoods 3 года назад +1

    Wise word!

  • @xqcumber1664
    @xqcumber1664 3 года назад

    I really wanna give you a hug jon.
    thanks

  • @AkshathaNirmal
    @AkshathaNirmal 7 дней назад

    What he says is choiceless awareness which was a teaching given by Buddha, jiddu krishnamurti..😊

  • @fatherwolfs1
    @fatherwolfs1 3 года назад +3

    Self empowerment comes from the ego. Self discovery is non action and connecting with Love. Thank you for sharing 🙏🐺

  • @af.flo_
    @af.flo_ 3 года назад +1

    Thank you 😊

  • @josephinekalumba4014
    @josephinekalumba4014 3 года назад

    Now I have learnt to confront my feelings not running away. Running away don't solve but put more stress

  • @dinosaur0073
    @dinosaur0073 3 года назад

    Very wise Man...

  • @dmsk2121
    @dmsk2121 2 года назад

    Excellent

  • @neilwesley3516
    @neilwesley3516 3 года назад

    Thank you ! 🙏🙏

  • @gabrielonwukeme3239
    @gabrielonwukeme3239 2 года назад

    I call this been in the present. This is my gift for great wisdom 🎁 ENJOY, WORTHY ONE.

  • @Free-wz2fw
    @Free-wz2fw 3 года назад +1

    I admire you, Jon. I'd like to live like this, too. but unfortunately in Russia it is impossible to live in such houses. maybe you have any ideas about the same impregnable houses for cold countries?

  • @persicetum
    @persicetum 3 года назад +8

    I m just watching my subtle feelings of anger while these wise words get interrupted by commercials with dancing teenagers, motivational videos and other garbage. The samsara intrusion:) We can learn from it while at the same time start ti use LBRY or bitchute

    • @zanewalsh1812
      @zanewalsh1812 3 года назад

      Ahhhhhh... Samsara 🙏🏼✨😬🌄
      Use your actions and karma/dharma to escape the wheel and keep observing your self and your insides🕊️🧘🏼‍♂️

  • @maka9188
    @maka9188 3 года назад

    You are a real human beeing !

  • @joblo497
    @joblo497 3 года назад +1

    give thanks 🙏

  • @rogathesarwatt
    @rogathesarwatt 3 года назад +1

    Thank Jon

  • @naveets7894
    @naveets7894 4 дня назад

    How can I overcome social anxiety? My master

  • @tasteapiana
    @tasteapiana 3 года назад

    In Christianity it is said we've all fallen short of the Christ (Jesus - none of us are being THAT good of a person. There are similar sayings in all major religious traditions). It is also said that it is not by works, so, nothing we do is good enough. It takes time to realize that there is no destination, no one is good because their future is not played out completely, they still have the potential to do something wrong or 'evil', there is no final judgement as to whether 100% of their existence 'was' good because they haven't ended yet. Knowing this, it becomes clear that it can only be about a trajectory; have you gotten back up after being knocked down? Have you proven to be the kind of person who learns from mistakes, who struggles to get better, think better, do you really want a better world and life? It's about having a tendency to average toward improvement. Remember, there is no destination. This earth will never roll up onto a beach and we all get off and say ''We've arrived!''. It is endless, start acting like it and stop thinking about end results because there are none. You are not ugly, someone out there thinks you are beautiful and if your trajectory tends upward - more people will see you as beautiful. The happiest time for the angels is said to be when they finally get to say ''Time is no more''. Think about what that means to all of us - no more clocks telling you you're late or that you have to be at X place to save X person or make X thing, laziness and procrastination can't exist in a timeless environment and THAT is more important than things not getting done or made because we've dropped all of our worthless expectations of what value 'can be'. We know what we need but we confuse ourselves with how to get it when we don't realize we already have it. We have ALL fallen short but we, who are not done yet, can still build a better trajectory. If you can't run, walk, if you can't walk, crawl. Crawling is one of the best physical activities ever discovered, it's not just for babies. If you are physically disabled use this as a metaphor for mentally and emotionally crawling. Stay moving, be like nature, don't stop. That crazy stuff that happens out there just happens, THEN we think about it. It would have happened whether we noticed it or not, we have no option but to let it and do what we can. And, once you do something positive, if only in word, others will then say ''That positive thing out there happened, THEN I thought about it''. You can choose to be beautiful and it will be so.

  • @jessieboyvlogs151
    @jessieboyvlogs151 3 года назад

    Thank you so much jonh

  • @laksanapornchomnanti5069
    @laksanapornchomnanti5069 3 года назад

    อาจารย์ค่ะ ช่วยบอกเทคนิคหน่อยได้มั้ยค่ะเพราะว่ามีคนคนหนึ่งที่หนูไม่ชอบไม่อยากคุยด้วยไม่รู้จะทำหน้าอย่างไรเมื่อเห็นหน้าที่จะเข้าไปคุยกับเขาและเขาก็บอกคนอื่นว่าไม่ชอบหนู แต่พอฟังอาจารย์แล้วอยากจะทำแบบอาจารย์บ้างค่ะ

    • @JonJandaiLifeisEasy
      @JonJandaiLifeisEasy  3 года назад +2

      ต้องใช้ความกล้ามากทีเดียวเพราะเป็นสิ่งที่เราไม่คุ้นเคย ใหม่ๆอาจจะรู้สึกลำบากใจและประดักประเดิดมาก แต่พอทำไปไม่หยุด มันจะเปลี่ยนไปเองในทางที่ดีขึ้นอย่างไม่น่าเชื่อ และเราจะไม่รู้สึกว่าต้องเสแสร้ง เราจะรู้สึกมั่นใจ เข้าใจ และรู้สึกถึงการอยู่เหนืออารมณ์อย่างชัดเจน

  • @starrmeadows7033
    @starrmeadows7033 3 года назад +5

    I think you are nice looking. I investigated why I am the way I am. I had a lot of childhood abuse. I never felt loved. Physically I am old. Mentally & emotionally I am about 8 years old. A child hides when afraid. I have PTSD. It is hard when stress shuts me down. I am physically disabled but I have plans to help others. God’s healing power will make me well soon. This long trial will be turned into a blessing. I pray for the people who want to harm me. Revenge would only hurt me.

    • @rosalindarivera914
      @rosalindarivera914 3 года назад +1

      Yes you can do it. I pray to God's grace and mercy be upon you to heal you and help you forgive those people who treated you so bad.

  • @niacole1357
    @niacole1357 3 года назад +1

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @eemmtt
    @eemmtt 3 года назад

    🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @dilipkushwah8266
    @dilipkushwah8266 3 года назад

    Good

  • @Terms-and-Conditions
    @Terms-and-Conditions 3 года назад

    thanks

  • @boojum1769
    @boojum1769 3 года назад

    ruclips.net/video/UGGVy4RkUs0/видео.html
    Travel like a king, listen to the inner voice
    A higher wisdom is at work for you
    Conquering the stumbling blocks, come easier
    When the conqueror is in tune with the infinite
    Every ending is a new beginning
    Life is an endless unfoldment
    Change your mind and you change
    Your relation to time
    You can find the answer
    The solution lies within the problem
    The answer is in every question, dig it
    An attitude is all you need to rise and walk away
    Inspire yourself, your life is yours
    It fits you like your skin
    The oak sleeps in the acorn
    The giant sequoia tree sleeps in its tiny seed
    The bird waits in the egg
    God waits for his unfoldment in man
    Fly on, children, play on
    You gravitate to that which you secretly love most
    You meet in life the exact reproduction of your own thoughts
    There is no chance, coincidence or accident
    In a world ruled by law and divine order
    You rise as high as your dominant aspiration
    You descend to the level of your lowest concept of yourself
    Free your mind and your ass will follow
    The infinite intelligence within you knows the answers
    Its nature is to respond to your thoughts
    Be careful of the thought seeds you plant in the garden of your mind
    For seeds grow after their kind
    Play on, children
    Every thought felt as true
    Or allowed to be accepted as true by your conscious mind
    Take roots in your subconscious
    Blossoms sooner or later into an act and bears its own fruit
    Good thoughts bring forth good fruit
    Bullshit thoughts rot your meat
    Think right and you can fly
    The kingdom of heaven is within
    Free your mind and your ass will follow
    Play on, children
    Sing on, lady, yeah

  • @vr3216
    @vr3216 3 года назад

    Jon pl make videos on how to do mindful meditation i am trying many years no progress what is going wrong

  • @missmatchcambodia7399
    @missmatchcambodia7399 3 года назад

    Hello
    It is nice to know you here
    I would like to build an earthen building that look exactly like Ox Cart shape
    Do you know any of your friends or people who want to live as your life is living ?
    Please ask them to come and help building my dream house with me in Siem Reap Province, Angkor Wat, the Kingdom of Cambodia!

  • @torrecampo411
    @torrecampo411 3 года назад +1

    1st

  • @TheNutriarat
    @TheNutriarat 3 года назад

    Love the content, BUT....Way to many ads. Hard to listen to someone and grasp the meaning when constantly interrupted by so so many ads. Please do away with at least 50% of them. Ruins the experience.

  • @EURASIAPLUS
    @EURASIAPLUS 3 года назад

    Thanks for sharing your wisdom