Love Is Blind Reunion: Clay and AD on Possibility of Rekindling Their Relationship (Exclusive)
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- Опубликовано: 18 окт 2024
- 'Love Is Blind's Clay and AD chat with ET about the possibility of rekindling their relationship after the season 6 reunion. Clay rejected AD at the altar, a moment he says he still regrets. As for AD, she says she wasn't 'too surprised' when Clay said no at the altar but she's moved on and they're still friends. Season 6 of 'Love Is Blind' is now available to stream, and the reunion special airs March 13 at 9 p.m. ET on Netflix.
Clay is a perfect a sale person , he says things to improve his image.
Yup you nailed it !
He doesn't want her. He knows how to say the right things.
Exactly!!!!
@@fridagylterud9491he can cry for you and crave the idea of you... but can still be an awful partner, if he is not yet a healed individual. That man is a walking bag of trauma.
Yup he’s doin it for TV
@@usisiphoqamata I mean how many folks are completely "healed" and emotional/mentally grounded in their 20s? Both parties looked like they have trauma to work through imo which is very normal. I feel it is a pretty positive sign, especially at least their age, honest about your fears, to be working on understand your shortcomings and actively to steps toward mitigating them.
🤔though wouldn't the 'right' thing to have said just be "Yes, I do!" at the alter, and then cheat on her afterwards? (assuming he's just F-boy or whatever right?)
I could see it coming. His father really messed up his identity and self worth. He's always seeking validation and reassurance. I'm glad he is getting counselling.
Man, this boy can talk……
In circles......😅😮😅😮😅😮😅😅
I’m kinda relieved AD deserves better and Clay needs to work on himself.
Kinda is an UNDERSTATEMENT 😅 ❤
He should've did that before the show
That man loves that girl but one year of therapy is NOT gonna undo decades of generational trauma. He totally is aware of what he’s lost and that’s why he’s fighting so hard for it now.
I’m pretty sure he knows 1 year of therapy isn’t gonna do that. He’s very aware
He really didn’t lose nothing. AD is not mature imo. He will find a really great women down the road
@@Eddybaby01 I have to agree on the maturity part. I also did feel like she had room to grow in terms of her self worth as it seemed she really looked to Clay for validation
@@Eddybaby01agree with you 100%! She’s extremely immature. She wants to be a kept woman and Clay is NOT about that life. He wants an equal partner in life. He wants to rock with AD but he wants to rock with AD’s body more than anything. She’s just not the woman for him and the future will show him that.
She’s too worried about showing her body than showing her mind. And that isn’t what is going to keep your marriage alive for the long haul. IMHO
It's happened in the book of love. You don't know what you got til it's gone.
Both AD and Clay showed emotional intelligence, self awareness, and introspection that is really rare on shows like this for obvious reasons. Self development is a life journey, of which you never reach the end and which both of them already have a pretty good headstart.
Hard stop. Do NOT get back with Clay.
🙏🏽🤞🏾💪🏾! Relationship aside. #Clay is such a beautiful example of the introspection and hard work that black men need to do to heal their wounds and trauma. I’m proud of his rawness, honesty and determination! So refreshing to see ❤ #Loveisblind #therapy #blackmen #healing
Rubbish
Yes I love that about him, his so honest and sincere
Stop glamorizing these men when they give you the bare minimum
People forget that four weeks is not typically enough time to pick a spouse. This show is not the best way to find your “person”. They both probably can use therapy and I believe he did mention in one of the episodes that he wanted them both to go. Most of us need therapy in this world. He was more transparent and articulate about his feelings than most.
@@anngirl2376it’s sad that as broken as BLACK MEN ARE when they acknowledge they are broken. It’s not enough. When they don’t it’s not enough dang when can they at least get a start or some grace at all
It's a no. Pure disrespect leaving it to the last minute to say no. Have a private conversation before not at the alter.
WHYYYYY DIDNT HE TELL HER SOONER?
He did though. He told her many times. He tried many times to get her to step away from the marriage timeline and just continue on in the relationship. He wanted to stay with her, he just wanted to work on himself before saying “I do” and I think that’s fair. He tried time and time again bringing this up and she wanted nothing to do with it. She wanted to stick with the marriage timeline. She wanted the “I do” tv moment and she got what she got. When someone is literally telling you who they are, you need to believe them or else you end up looking silly. This altar moment is just as much on AD as it is Clay. You can’t pay me to believe that she went to bed the night before thinking that Clay saying “yes” was a sure thing
@@amariteresedidn’t he come on a show to get married?! He came to convince her to do something different than what she had planned for herself. He had no business there.
@@amariterese I'm sorry, he's a coward. He should have been a man and just said No, outright. It would have been the same outcome anyways. If he said no before, they'd either stayed together and worked it out or be separated. It's just way more embarassing and hurtful, doing it at the alter. Man like this when they make all kinda excuses for their behavior, they will never grow up. If you watch carefully he has alot of excuses, if he really loved that girl he would have married her. Think about it , if you tell someone they're the love of your life are you gonna let them go, no, you work on you while your with that person. I'm sorry but he's still a boy and not a man. Women, when a man has got so much excuses for his behavior ,unless God tell you to marry that man , run, because they'll drain the life out of you. It's like an alcoholic that doesn't realize they have a problem so they won't get help. He needs help from rationalizing everything to the past , he needs to just say this is the kinda man I want to be and be it, it's gonna take alot a work but at least your making an effort not excuses.
He lost his chance. Next. Nobody should wait around for anyone until they “feel” like they’re ready. You should know BEFORE you go into a relationship.
A lot of couples from all seasons got separated as well some divorced. He was honest. And the decision of not saying I do after being with a person for only such a short time was a sound one. He would've done it with anyone. He needs to mature and she also needs to mature. Things are so much better when you are getting to know each other instead of focusing on being married to someone you barely know. I know that's what the show was about but I guess he didn't know what he was getting himself into hence he needs to grow up.
@@cristinaguzman8408I agree a 100 percent. It’s one thing getting to know someone and fall in love within weeks but marriage is a lifetime if you’re not ready you’re not ready and he was valid. I hope eventually they’ll get back together
I’m so glad he did this. She really needed it or she would’ve been caught up carrying someone’s baggage. They both deserve to fully heal whatever they’ve got going on internally and shine that light on the world.
He is full of it! He’s a salesman and knows exactly what to say to make himself look better. He’s a colourist and never truly found her to be beautiful. All he ever focused on was her body. Even when she walked down the aisle he said “okay body” not “you look beautiful” he needs to continue to work on himself but at the same time so does AD, he was a walking , talking red flag and she still went to the altar.
Hope clay continues to do the work ,and i wish him ,and AD the best as they go their separate paths.
He shouldn’t have been on the show if he wasn’t ready
They probably chose him to be on the show because they KNEW he wasn’t ready. This is boosting the shows ratings and is trending on social media. That’s what the powers that be care about, not that a young woman’s heart was broken. But AD will likely be okay.
Exactly!!!! Thank you. The whole reunion show i was like WHEN is somebody gonna call him out!! YOU SHOULD HAVE NEVER signed up for a marriage focused show for people who are READY to get married!!! He knew he had this trauma prior to signing up for this experience. This was completely unfair to AD.
@@YolandaTully-he4fqYou have a point but I think we the viewers are more suckers for a happy romantic ending than anything else from these shows. There’s plenty of successfully married couples that have trended. Like we all have our favs, Cameron and Lauren are my personal favs, Kwame and Chelsea, Bliss and Zack who are now expecting a baby. I think we much rather see them live happily ever after and start families especially as women I feel like most of us are hopeless romantics. That’s why we tune in for these types of shows. I literally almost cried when I saw AD get her heart broken on national TV and was so pissed at Clay I rather not see that. And as a viewer who has watched multiple seasons I was disappointed to see only one couple make it through this experience.
I love my boy Clay and AD❤
I don't understand why everyone is so upset with Clay. Even though he chose not to marry AD, he was very clear about his internal battles. AD ignored the red flags on her on accord. She wasn't tricked.
Now Clay is working on himself and that's the best thing he can do for now. He can't be a good husband until he heals
What really bothered me is he let her stand at the alter to tell her and I will never believe he had to get to the altar Bs .if there is one stupid thing to do that’s dump her then . Just believe he wanted to make himself look good .
@steelejimar I agree that he shouldn't have had her go to the alter, but AD also knew that even if they made it to the alrer there was a possibility that he would say no
He should've never got down on one knee
@@joypressley4821 never came to the show would be better. She should have leaned in kissed him on the cheek and dropped him to the floor with a knee neatly placed between his legs while whispering “ I LOVE YOU……. DARLING
I love her and Clay...
This is also why women should save themselves a heartbreak by waiting to “test drive” these cars.
Exactly I’m glad someone said it!
Yep that’s the only thing that I didn’t like AD saying that she didn’t believe that Amy wasn’t having sex.
@@itsSAmone exactly. All of this can be taught and learned between those two people. I think anyone can satisfy anyone else sexually, it’s all about communication and listening to your partner.
See how he is sighing with relief, he doesn't want her, its just that the guilt brought her back, the lady is smart for refusing to be entangled second time
No Girl, NO! I would not even be friends with him, he cannot be trusted
Proud of you Clayton 👏🏽👏🏽
I hope AD doesn’t rekindle the relationship!
I am for Clay all day and everyday! I reallyyyyy wouldn’t mind if they got back together.
Now all the sudden he wants her back... where was this energy before ?
@@joypressley4821 He never "didn't want her" he just wasn't sure if he was ready to get married
I think they still mess up with each other but don't want to make it public she knows she will get backlash.
They definitely do. The show was taped last march and December that just passed she was at his house
That man is not ready to leave the streets. And that’s ok. But don’t go on a whole show and lead people on that are genuinely there to find love/get married.
I think when his father walked in and talked to him. That confused him. His father is a snake and the way his father was loathing in the rejection was gross. He was confident in marrying her until his father planted that bad omen and seed. You can see that cloud come over him after he leaves. His smile leaves. His entire personality changed. His mom knew it too
I’m rooting for Clay. I think he has apologized enough. If she wants to move on, don’t apologize anymore. The next woman will appreciate the work he’s doing. She seems like she wants to make him to pine over her. She neglected to mention in all her interviews that video hanging out with his family. Glad, he mentioned it.
I don't think it was relevant for her to mention. It's also an edited video so she could have very well said more that wasn't included.
Play, listen to your mother if you are not a 100% don't do it. Look at your mom look at your sister. They are beautiful people look at that girl. That goddess isn't the s*** not even at your level? She knows it's she does not even match you. You guys are not image, I'm. I'm looking at it as if she's not your match. Because clay, listen to you. Let me tell you like gorgeous sexy girl. I know who you like. She is like the one for you. Stop apologizing to people. I'm tired of apologizing apologizing. It's not your fault if your heart doesn't wanna be there if your heart can't allow you to love this thing. If she can't find a man in real life she has to come to national TV to find herself. A man they have to match her with somebody. Come on, if you can't find a man in real life, what make you think you are the one for her? If she cannot find the most sexiest man in life you think you're going to be the one for her? If they're met you with her now, you're gonna be unhappy. Living life merciful, you won't even have sex with her, so just move on chat. I'm not gonna lie to you. I know what I like, even less I, for example, clay, if they had matched me with you, I would say. No, at the altar, we may have a good time but at the end of the day I would say no I cannot marry him? Why because it's not in my heart? It's not in my heart is the same thing. Just you know, it's not in my heart because I don't like certain type of people. I like my minister anyway, so don't feel better about it.Clear, we all got through that I got married in the at the next day.I got a divorce so you're I'm no different so I cannot judge you.Just move on, stop apologizing to people you were men shoot live your life.I can't wait to see your beautiful wife.I can't wait to see who you've got married to stop coming into a national TV to look for your wife.Those things are not your wife.These are the you know people that come to the show to look for husband is people that can never get able husband in real life?Nobody want them they're just using
@@AnonymousStoriesUnveiledwhat are you talking about?
She didn’t neglect that they still be around each other. She stated they’re like flirty friends when they get around each other they cuddle and kiss on each other be all up under each other. She said that in the interview with Nick
Clays Dad needs therapy too. He really traumatized this young man. He took him with him when he went to see other women😮. The fact that he looked up to his Dad inspite of his bad behavior, apart of him didn't think it was wrong until he felt the pressure of becoming married himself. I'm glad he's seeking the help and digging deeper
I hope and pray that they truly decide to move forward in love that leads to marriage. Marriage is not easy, you really have to experience the good, bad and ugly in order to make the very best decision in making a life decision like marriage. I wish them both the best.
I'm honestly rooting for them. I was yelling at the MacBook when Clay said no, and yet I wasn't surprised. I truly feel that he is being authentic with his emotions and his traumas and I respect him for that. I hope that AD and Clay can continue to build their relationship. I'm rooting for them! 💖
Never take a man back that left you at the altar.
I think LIB needs to change its dynamic. While I applaud the couples who have gone on to have successful relationships... for some, the marriage piece is a bit too much... too soon. Why not have a commitment ceremony versus an actual wedding?
I see your point but a commitment ceremony would be too easy and have everybody saying yes to commitment when they are not. Just like in the pods, its easy to propose, and say yes and to say I love you.. The wedding gives them a reality check for them to take the risk and go to the next level. Also, a commitment ceremony could me hanging on for a year or more and not married. The goal is they want to find their person and be married. The one thing I would suggest is for LIB to include a marriage counseling session.
I wouldn’t be mad if they tired again but I totally understand not giving this relationship another chance. I personally think that having a strong friendship is important when having a relationship and they’ve done that. I don’t think most couples would be successful in this microwave experience situation.
I definitely feel like there’s a possibility of them getting back together. She speaks very high of him and never once dissed him and vice versa they still love each other
No one knows if he really loved her or if he knows the right thing to say. I will say that she is hurt, to have been told NO at the alter she is not going to go back to him after that.
We can’t make that observation that she won’t go back. They still see each other and hang out. The love is there. Only your heart knows what she will and won’t do. If she was completely done with him they wouldn’t be hanging out or still interacting with each other
@@ladyt33829 Understood, but we do not really know what happens with them in real life. A lot of times they are under contractual agreements to be seen together. What I am only saying is after being left at the alter on TV and she stated after everything she's done she just felt she was not enough for him. She's hurt and would be thinking with her head.
Clay is just media trained, not necessarily authentic.
This
I think he not attracted to her apperance but he attracted to her personality
Yall just say anything
He's attracted to her body to f***, but not to marry. I can see a man like Clay's type for a long-term gf, let alone a wife, and neither of them are AD. He is such a stereotype.
I think that too. She has a nice body and that’s it. I couldn’t with the hair
They need to get married after remaining friends for little bit. These touched 2 people pulled my heart strings and just electric on camera together. It’s hard to find two people so raw and authentic! AD mom said it best. This can work he’s worth it.
You guys just waisted the time of all the people that where present.
Bro stop saying AD taught you. You learned these things from being with AD but no because of AD. You’re growing because you have a willingness to change. You’re choosing to be better and that’s something that no one can give or take from you.
No AD and his mama coddled him, so they deserve that praise. He is always speaking on a woman doing for him.
@@symphonylove1 my point exactly. She isn’t his mom or source of motivation. He needs to understand your becoming better not to please AD but to be a better man. That mentality can sabotage his growth because he’s depending on validation from a women to tell him when he’s ready. You’re ready when you believe your ready not when AD says your ready and approved. being a good significant other is a by product of changing but not the source and purpose. He should be changing for himself not a women. That’s why AD still rejecting because he’s running after her. Women don’t a dependent they need a partner. A leader. Once a women sees you as a kid you lost all respect and she’ll probably cheat on him because she doesn’t feel safe and secure if they do get together again.
@@Eddybaby01 You're rambling off a bunch of redpill nonsense. You don't know what women want because you're not a woman. Women aren't looking for a man to lead them as if they're dogs on a leash. It's a partnership and each person has strengths they bring to the relationship to help their partner. Women do in fact motivate and cause change in men. That is such a basic fact of life. Some men aren't aware of different lines of thinking or ways to do things until they learn it from their girlfriend/wife. It can be as simple as learning how to dance, or as complex as learning how to communicate properly and consider how their actions affect others. Men will literally say their motivation for going to the gym and working hard to get more money is for women. And if you establish a fitness routine and improve your work ethic what are you doing... CHANGING. Anyone can make an impact on someone else... it has nothing to do with gender. Teachers, fitness coaches, mentors, friends, parents, celebrities, politicians... there are literally so many examples. It would be idiotic to think you aren't influenced or changed by the people you date, especially for a reason as daft and childish as their gender.
@Eddybaby01 it doesn't matter that she isn't a mom, she deserves the praise if he's been moving the wat he was and never had motivation to get help. Doesn't matter what sex, gender or relation helped. Real men don't have an issue acknowledging them.
@@symphonylove1 I’m not talking about her being a literal mother it’s role a mother plays to a child which is to coddle a depend. Women don’t want a dependent. They want a man. I’m not saying not to acknowledge your significant other as someone who assists in your process but he sounds like he needs AD or that motherly image to hold his hand to be better and that’s not a good mentally to stay on the path of progress.
And the way she was soo calm. I'd be throwing shit and cussing folks out lol.
He sincerely reminds me of Tristan Thompson. If AD gets back with him, it'll be another Khloe and Tristan situation. Please don't do it, AD. He will play you again.
Yes!!!
I said “no” but I always wanted to say “yes”! What a lead on!!!! He is stupid!
Am I the only one hoping they get back together? Time apart may have been for both to do self-introspection. I see growth in Clay during the reunion special. He actually made me 😢up.
I just want to say ... She is a beautiful woman, and she makes him look good! .... So she dodged a bullet
I respect Clay, don't agree with his conduct but I respect he owns his mistakes plus AD feels a little fake
I think he sees all the attention she’s getting and all the spotlight and now he has regrets
He’s just in it for the fame
He don’t want that girl
He’s pretending cause everybody is coming down on him.
🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️ Pack up girl n run to the hills, run!!!
This is future faking at its best!
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Im proud of Clay. I hope he keeps growing and getting himself together. Love you AD! Keep doing you boo
Am routing for them
Me too
…it’s hard to date someone you aren’t physically attracted to and I hate how people shame or pressure you to date strictly off personality. Ppl feel that dating strictly for personality means the person will treat you better and it it’s really a 50/50 chance they will. I settled and looked pass looks w someone who is a 2 and he turned out to be the worse experience of my entire life-he ruined my life-and nothing about him was satisfying I treated him like a king and he was not. I got less than what I deserved and he was ugly and dirty.
I met someone else who I looked pass looks and he was nice but he turned me off had holes in his underwear, and dirty too, not only was it hard to kiss him because he was so ugly but every time he kissed me I could taste what he had to eat prior🤢😑 and I’m like do he have a conscious to say let me pop a gum or sum…that’s how I am I make sure I’m squeaky clean, I pop a gum if I had sum like onions in my meal…brush my teeth again floss or sum-like come on.
I will never say I’m a 10 I consider myself fairly attractive so I don’t try to set the bar so high. I try to be realistic about who I choose-which options are very few but it always blow my mind this is what I get when I try to date with in my league…I feel like I get the bottom of the barrel. I keep up w myself I put so much effort in my physical appearance, I keep a clean home and look tidy and clean at the very least and these guys always compliment me when they see me they always say I look gorgeous but it’s like I can’t say the same about them because they are ugly and don’t even make an effort to look well groomed. It bothers me. It’s mind blowing.
if you gonna be ugly at least be clean how you ugly and you’re dirty? Pick a struggle! smell good, dress well -you don’t have to be wealthy but put effort into looking well groomed how hard is it for a man to look good all yall got to do is get a hair cut and throw on a nice plain shirt and a pair of jeans-like is that asking for too much here? It’s like I try to go for personality and I get the bottom of the barrel. And I hate when ugly dudes try to shame you for not choosing them but when you do choose them sometimes this is what you get and nobody talks about it. It blows my mind!
I’m a good woman w morals and have a good personality and I’m clean and tidy and put effort to looking well groomed and get my hair and make up done, I managed to pull handsome men but the most I get from cute guys is they flirt w me and they come at me sexual in the dm and I’m a woman of morals I’m god fearing so my convos will not be sexual-the cute guys never purse me they flirt they compliment me but never want to take me out-made me feel not pretty enough or personality not good enough but when I try to give the ugly guys a chance sometimes they are the same way too, they come off sexual first 2 convos and it’s a turn off. If I try to give an ugly guy a chance to focus on personality sometimes it’s too hard to kiss them because they are so ugly. 😖It sucks bad!!
Super long novel but I don’t think you really watched the show forreal. He was very much attracted to her he mentioned how beautiful she was after the reveal he said crazy body , beautiful face I’m a lucky guy. He also couldn’t stop kissing her. It’s like people just get online and project their own issues on folks. It’s so wild.
@@dswannbeautyartist lol you are right I didn’t watch the show at all, my comment had nothing to do with the show particularly just on the topics of looks, especially because most shows like this that is a factor. I’ve read several comments where people said they don’t think he was attracted to her just her body. Just because he said he was attracted to her don’t mean he was attracted to her enough to be with her-but of course your point is more valid because you actually saw the show. I’ve seen a few episodes of another show, where the guy actually sleeps with the girl but then dumps her because he wasn’t attracted to her, so my comment surrounded that topic. And omg yes it is a novel😂 I didn’t mean for it to be that long I guess I was sort of venting 😂😂its lengthy because I felt like I had to be honest and explain in detail so people won’t think I’m coming from a shallow pov.
And I loved every part of your novel even if it has nothing to do with the topic, it was important! I applaud you for your vulnerability and I relate a lot with what y said ! Don't be ashamed, thank y Gal @@Lovley11649
Sometimes you just have to stop beating a dead horse
I feel like he is being honest and he has done work on himself. He could have handled that wedding better and canceled before walking down the aisle. Who knows maybe he deserves a second chance.
Clay is like eating a snickers bar for breakfast you know that you should be eating real scrambled eggs but then you think “nougat has eggs in it.” 😂He’s bad for marriage but looks and tastes good and you’re hungry
AD IS THE TYPE TO HAVE ENERGY AND WORDS FOR EVERBODY BUT HER OWN SHITT... a mouse can trap her , she tooooo easy to play and drop
She even admitted she's always carrying a relationship. Constantly leading with her body and complimenting him when he wasn't even returning it. They both could use some therapy
Just say you don’t like her and keep it pushing as y’all just be projecting a lot of bs in people.
If he regrets his decision, can’t he just propose now?😅 I thought he was gonna break out a ring at the reunion.
Clay needs a psychiatrist not a therapist. What he did was diabolical and intentional. And he has many fooled.
Is this gentleman ok?
She's dumb if she takes him back.
This comment is dumb. She clearly said she's not going to entertain a relationship with him.
Only time will tell where they will go. For the simple fact that they both still admit to loving each other and hanging out with each other shows that there is a possibility. Only time will tell. If she was done she wouldn’t still be around him
He's dumb for being such a shady guy
@@Jillian7777 wtf is your problem?
Well, the show clearly painted Matthew as the bad guy. He DID tell both women he would talk to their dads first because if looks like that's something he would do with any woman he would date, and that's out of respect. Also notice he didn't tell Amber 'if you wanna leave I'll leave with you now. Let's get the hell out of here." He was in a love triangle like some others were. He just made it a things to leave the show and date outside because it looks like he really came to look for a partner and he didn't care for being on the show. Don't get me wrong. He isn't perfect. But the show villainized him.
No S E X until marriage that’s been tested. I just love these two and no man comes on TV with so much humility and admitting he was wrong!
I think he leads on women
Playing with emotions
Drink every time he mentions he's in therapy 🙄 Like for less than 1 year, please sit down
I understand he needs to work on himself but the fact that he waiting til the very end to waste her time when you had enough time to express your thoughts is disrespectful af
AD dodged a bullet
Clay is giving a politician... and he said he didn't do any therapy yet in a previous interview
He is a waste of time. If she gets back with him, she is stupid and definitely needs a prenup. That waiting game is dangerous..
Say no …. Make him work for it
@@victorianorris3237 he’s a narcissist- his core wound is his fathers EVIL actions. You can’t be weak either boo hoo don’t work. Sad to say I was raised by a ‘narcissist- didn’t even know what it was till I divorced my narcissist es husband. I was never affected- aside from learning how to deal with them and knowing at their core they’re broken people that act awful out of constant fear (it’s sad) he’s trying but it takes time and her knowledge of what she’s signing up for. It’s a life of strength where you are happy when you finally break their rubbish patterns. When he said not now I would have said thank God. His father should not have been allowed to attend. He doesn’t want to see his son happy and faithful because it would make him a better man than his father. Clay would make an awesome husband to the “right” wife anyone else he would destroy. That’s a fact ….
Clay needs more than therapy 😢
I hope they end up getting together. People stop seeing each other and get back together all the time.
They go back because of desperation
IS THIS REAL????????????
He knows she's like a perfect woman, cute, and nice body but it was obvious he wasn't attracted. He'll always be drawn to highly beautiful, most prettiest women until she ages, get pregnant, or sick because he prioritizes beauty. There's different standards of beauty. He's highly attractive physically and will desire the same. He knows he hurt her and will try to keep her to be the good guy but I hope she knows she deserves better than that and don't buy the good talk game and excuses
Projection!!! I just know you didn’t watch the show forreal he was very attracted to her and he mentioned a couple times on the show. He is shallow in terms of he doesn’t want her to gain any weight that’s a good portion of men nowadays. With that whole fit feminine and friendly stuff they preach. But he was definitely attracted to her.
@@dswannbeautyartist most viewers could tell and have shared the same opinion. He doesn't want to be the bad guy. Though he liked her body, he will likely marry a woman with a different type of beauty/ face card. However anytime a man tells a woman he fears he's going to cheat on her that should have been a huge red flag to her. However some men can grow to love a woman despite her looks without makeup. Some men cannot because the type of beauty they want is important
@@danielleg2616 and a ton of viewers have shared my viewpoint as well. The issue is people who don’t know him are projecting what they think his type is and tryna play down AD. He’s already had an ex come out who is AD complexion and aesthetic . Someone being shallow is not segregated to color. He can very much love women of all shades but be shallow to the extent he won’t date a woman who is not in shape. The issue is y’all think she’s not attractive or that her skin tone wasn’t his aesthetic and that is completely wrong.
@@dswannbeautyartist WRONG! Highly naturally beautiful dark women like Jessica white, tika Sumpter, younger day Naomi Campbell or Kenya moore, Lupita, Kelly row, Amara Lenegra, Ryan Destiny, Coco Jones, Ashanti , are considered highly beautiful etc ! Nice bodies come a dime or dozen. It's not about color bc beauty is found in all colors!! He didn't work out with his ex or AD and u say they look similar so there's the proof that's not what he wants.... He's a highly attractive man that's caught up in beauty standards and unless he changes that he'll always go for a higher standard of beauty or different type of beauty.
@@danielleg2616 projection! He still wants to be with AD my whole point is the color has nothing to do with it. You’re making it that by saying she’s not his type you don’t know what his type is you’re assuming.
I never watch love is blind...AD just remember God rejection is your protection
Did he say came down the altar? Maybe he misspoke but he always comes across as clueless 😞
I dont know.. clay just seem to talk just words and arrange them perfectly... He is so messed up
I want better for her. And I hope she wants better for herself. There are men out there who can love her correct. Saying no at the alter on National TV is completely humiliating. If he knew it was a strong possibility of saying no, then he should have not gone through with it. At someone point you have to take responsibility for your own behavior and not blame childhood trauma. Even if childhood trauma cause him to avoid marriage, he should have gotten therapy before breaking someone's heart.
Its best he deal with him before putting someone in his mess and something worst happen but he shouldn't get that far to hurt her the way he did for the planning he or from he put the ring on talk to her and ask her to work with him or bare with him before they say i do
'Probably not' ??? Not, no way, never, definitely not??? She isn't actually decided against it.🥴🙄 She is not a bright girl.
This guy just wanted to be on TV
He ain’t 💩
Clay is bilking less now.
Clay is a joke please 🙄
U just don’t have any mercy or grace. Most men won’t take accountability and he did
They not meant to be, I don’t think she was for him too, she’s very playful and flirtations. I like clay
@leeofficial1334 that part
He she be on the other side. This woman should not be this man’s friend. He is confused.
Clays always find ADs sadly
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He just hated her .period in the gaje of therapy and the so called generational trauma, shit
I used to watch thinking the show was real and authentic. Allegedly they are paid Instagram models, actors, and in relationships. Allegedly producers pay these people to come on... They don't even apply to come on. Its one big disappointment cuz it's all fake. Smh.
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It’s actually not that on the reunion they went off on people to let people know it’s not that kind of show. They have tons of successful couples but this season there were some cast mates who were there for the wrong reasons. Which downgraded the credibility and they were called out by the hosts.
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Bullshit that it that all AD run run
These people are so fake.
Clay just be a MAN! If you truly love AD you would own it with every part of your being and treat her with the respect that she deserves.. stop looking for what looks great outside and search for what lies within
Clay just STOP talking
This season was a joke a not funny joke wasting people time
How could he do that can't get it such a humiliation, just wants to use hwr ran girl run yiu
AD’s getting with Jimmy now
Boo Hoo!
Why is Clay getting all this press and not the one her hurt on National TV.