When Her Friends SABOTAGE Your Relationship
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- Опубликовано: 28 ноя 2024
- In this video we talk about what to do if your girlfriend's friends try to sabotage your relationship.
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#Men #Girlfriend #JealousFriends
As a woman💋 I will tell you that her friends can make or break your relationship. If she can't be independent enough to make her own decisions and put you first, then she is not worth your effort.
Classy Lady Phillipines, you are 1000% correct. My son's mother was shamed by bitter toxic friends whenever she tried to leave from hanging out with them to make dinner. They would make remarks like he can cook for himself... despite the fact that I did 100% of the providing, and take on a large role with our son to this day. Eventually that mentality overtook her and she is now a single mom on the CC with low level betas using her for a good time. She told me if her friends don't like a good man she's with then she can't be with him. It was the most pathetic thing I've ever heard in my life.
Marry me....you have no choice...plus I have to get my car insurance reduced....ha ha 😆.... just playing...😘
Yes, indeed! 👍
@@b.h.wendell6145 yeah they are hive minded. You already had to protect the house at night incase something happens? She can’t even make a coffee smh
I’ve been to the Philippine’s. Subic Bay 1989
She is NOT who she says she is, she is what her friends are.
And what she tolerates in her own life.
Valuable lesson here for sure. It's more than just you're hot so her friends view you as a catch, they can be jealous and sabotage your relationship too. I've seen this crap happen.
Happened to me man. Single for 48hrs going strong.
If you're married, watch out if your wife's friends are getting divorced. It's contagious AF. The conversation will be "You can do better, girl! You should divorce him. You can easily get more than half, plus alimony, plus child support and full custody. I should give you the number to my divorce attorney".
They pull each other down. You can see that by older women giving horrible advice to younger ones
Yup, this happened to someone I know. We suspect it was his recently divorced sister-in-law who sabotaged things.
@@27qwljrob2 The sisterhood has destroyed many marriages for men.
crabs in a bucket.
😂😂😂 you are 100% correct that’s the crap that they will tell her I’m completely mess of her life I’ve seen all that before even in normal relationships. You don’t have to be married you could be in a really lovely relationship and her mates Will tell her rubbish and destroy it just because they have no relationship and they are jealous I’m telling you sometimes it happens
This is quite common actually. Especially with women in their 20s and 30s. It has happened to me. Jealousy arises quickly amongst others and this tactic is used to ruin the happiness of others around them.
If you can't determine your women's character, observe her friends. A woman in relationship shouldn't mingle with single women then it becomes a matter of time she changes her status to single again.
Are you allowed to have single dude friends? Honestly, if a partner is trying to control your life so much that you’re now not allowed to talk to people/friends you’ve known all your life, something is wrong. People all have friends that their partners don’t like, but insisting on full control over someone’s life is what will make them eventually leave, not the friends
@@bloochoob : of course men are allowed to have single dude friends. Your perspective is all wrong if you’re still examining this from an egalitarian perspective. We’re not equals.
@@spinningchurro in many ways maybe, like physical strength, we should have equal human rights though, and that means having friends that you choose yourself. Adults shouldn’t be forced into giving up lifelong friends, I’d never tell a man that he should give up his friends. What if a female friend of mine suddenly became a widow, should I not comfort her and still be her friend? ‘Sorry your husband died and you’re heartbroken and suffering in pain and grief, but you’re SINGLE now, so I must cut ties with you, husband controls my every move, so bye girl!’ 😳 That level of control will drive people away, that’s some freaky level of obsession
@@bloochoob You're confusing concepts. Human rights have nothing to do with how a man should structure a relationship with a women. spinningchurro put it aptly, you are following an egalitarian mindset.
It is pretty simple. Women are not independent at all, no matter how much feminist propaganda wants us to believe it. They always try to fit in tightly in their social structures, which means they tend to imitate their friends. If her friends are all single, doing single girl things, so will she. A girlfriend doing single girl things is not in her boyfriend's best interest. Neither is it in hers if she honestly intends to have a longterm relationship with him.
Her circle of friends is a signal to him about her qualities as a partner. It is not even about 'muh control' (which would be based, a man should have control over his women), but about using such signals to gauge the success of the relationship - and to eject early if necessary.
@@bloochoob she can have friends my only rule is she can't have STARIGHT MEN as friends. Sorry kuz a man will make a move if opportunity arises! I don't care if u think you are "brother sister" relationship! Nope!!
When a girl is really into you, she will rather spend time with you over her friends. In addition, she will listen to you over her friends.
Sincerely,
40 years of experience with women.
This happened to me last night, fortunately she ended it with all the guilty friends and stuck with me... idk but im looking up vids like this to get a handle on as many factors as I can.
Its all up to time. The moment you screw up her opinion will lean towards her friend's.
The amount of gaslighting they do is absurd
She wasn’t that into him. He was way too bluepilled
Her friends or women in her family (cousins, aunts, mother) will almost never encourage her to stay in a relationship fellas! You can tell a lot about a woman by the company she keeps. Birds of a feather flock together. If she puts her friends before you, it'll never work out long-term.
Some people aren’t happy unless they’re miserable. Resentful people aren’t happy unless they’re destroying other people’s lives
A womens friends ruined everyone of my relationships by putting lies in her ears
Did any of your exes ever reached out? Have the same problem.
@@theglobalistchannel1471Probably not. Women can gaslight like crazy.
But that's at least a good sign. The first is that its a validation that you are masculine enough that her female friends got jealous of those relationships and that you are no longer with a woman that can't make up her own mind. Win win in my books
Women are each other’s worse enemy. My ex started spending a lot of time with a “friend” who had cheated on her husband with 5 different married guys. Fast forward my ex goes and has an affair with a married guy from her work. I then took the red pill, got ripped and staying focused.
It all goes back to the old saying, "show me your friends and I'll tell you who you are."
That's true but women are sometimes the odd exception. They are more social thus are more desperate to be around whoever is the most influential in their circle. That's often a 304. Saw plenty of cool ladies that are friends with toxic 304's only because they are afraid of being alone.
Regardless, there are always consequences of keeping the wrong company. They may not see it now, but that will always follow them.
A woman is never a queen until she marries a king, she is simply just a woman
Her value is determined by the kind of man she can retain
Moff is a great dude. Everything he said was spot on about the sorority girls.
🙏🏻
Friends can DEFINATELY ruin a relationship/dating. Some weak minded women are unable to make rational decisions without involving their "friends" input. I date women and was recently vibing perfectly with 2 women (not at the same time) but in each scenario, they started letting their single friends (who were dating trash ass ppl or who were bitter) put fear & doubt in their heads about "what if I do this or that". Whole time I'm courting them properly, being honest, gifts, consistent communication, trips, etc. Broke it off and now they're crying how they can't find any good women or men. Sis you're literally chasing us off by listening to your miserable friends. lol Ended up being a blessing though cause a woman who cannot think for herself or trust her own discernment is a red flag to me now.
I love love loooooove this comment.
When her friend finds a man. She will discard her without a blink.
Yup, going through this right now.
My gfs friend got inside her head because she wasn’t getting enough attention and felt like I was taking her away. But whenever she finds a new guy that fucks her consistently it’s always a smooth cutoff.
Yup my wifes new 22yr friend got in here ear 48 hours separated told her I hope your echo chamber will be there when you are bored and lonely because i gaurentee they won't be amd you'll call be crying to come bacm
That's what it was like in my case, but her friend was somehow jealous of me and my girlfriend doing better than them. So she gaslighted my gf and over a night, we broke up with a bunch of nonsense words.
*Many people will panic to find a charger before their phone dies, but won’t panic to find a plan before their dream dies*
Your phone dying is like your dream dying
A husband or wife / boyfriend or girlfriend who prioritizes their friends first over your relationship with one another will one day find themselves without their significant other
my wife had a friend who tried to sabotage us. She spoke very ill of me and tried to nit pick about me to her in hopes she would leave me.
And.... so...... what happened after that?
If a woman's friends attempt sabotage your relationship & she doesn't care or defends them...It's time to cut her loose!!!
Amen
Yeah. Women's friends always hold them back from long term relationship success. They put them off a virtuous able guy in her 30's then she's screwed in her 40's with only drug addicts as long term prospects. They think they can still lock down Chad aged 40 but only get 🐈🐈
Friends are great. You get to judge your importance to her through them. She will Sh!! test you but you can use them to test her. Look at your best 5 friends and then look at hers. Then go higher on the social ladder to work on yourself and your position in life. And if she wants to fine, if not Walk Away. We are ALWAYS the prize.
You can pick your friends but you can’t pick your friends’ friends. This goes for both genders.
You have to stay one step ahead of these toxic and insidious people. I’ve learned the warning signs, but am still sometimes at a loss as to how to fight back.
Suggestions would be welcome, thx!
If she has toxic friends, just say no and keep walking.
😜
I'm going through this now with a chick I'm currently dating. She has a group of friends and tells them all of our business. Its so annoying and a huge turn off.
This is a great story. It helps to illustrate what we should and shouldn't do when this comes up.
He should not have attended that HW party. That was a relationship defining moment. His girl let him know the pecking order between him and her friend(s).
Indeed. Great call out
I had two experiences, separate boyfriends, a few years apart, who both had friends who actually said to me ‘I’m going to tell him lies about you and he will believe me, not you, I’ve known him since school’, and they both did it. I was dumped for no reason at all, except their friends jealousy. They didn’t like it that their friend (my boyfriend) had a girlfriend, they wanted my boyfriend to be single, like them. Both of them had hit on me in the past, and I’d rejected both of them. Several years later, both those boyfriends said that they had found out what those guys had done and apologised to me for just believing them. I bet women do things like that too, though.
THEY DO, but much worse than that
How worse
@@marsrover0 MUCH WORSE, I have a boyfriend, and when we were dating at that maybe 3 months in, my friends got jealous all of them and they started to conspire against me. They talked shit about me and one of them try to mimic me, tried to be me like a copycat to steal my boyfriend. They brainwashed numerous friends of me but my boyfriend believed me and the truth at the end came out. Women will do anything to steal anothers woman S0.
Women do that in almost every single relationship. And they are far better liars
@@angelg3642 yeah
I went on a date with a girl recently, it was very great until the next day she called me to join her and her friends and her friends just hate on me idk why tho. After that we kissed but on the next day she totally " fliped the script" like i guess her friends simply brainwashed her.
Tell me why Rich Cooper looks like that guy from Iron Man that said “TONY STARK WAS ABLE TO BUILD THIS IN CAVE! WITH A BOX OF SCRAPS!”
I always thought he looks like a retired Navy Seal
I have ONLY horrible experiences with my girlfriend's friends. At best they were kind of mild (as in not very harmful).
I often remember not seeing a woman for a few days or a week and then seeing her and her mindset was altered. And instantly I knew. "Oh fuck. You talked and took whatever advice from your girlfriends." It's a weird force in their lifes.
And I usually tell friends/colleagues who are female, not to take advice on dating men from women or gay men.
When it happen to me than I did her friends that’s what they wanted anyways they were jealous
When a man gets married he marry,s 10 of her best friends as well in a sense
Misery loves company it may not be deliberate but certainly not innocent.
I really appreciate the reframe at the end.
Lived this. Hens who don't have skin in the game will watch their friends burn.
Happened to me twice 😂
He admits being beta 👌🏽 it's hard because you're so vunerable
Thanks for sharing Moff!
Thanks Moff! that was great (advice)
If there's no endurance for the privacy of your relationship, you should bye Felicia regardless. NEXT!
Hi Richard, how can I book a counselling call and the cost pls. Thanks.
They obviously was never friends to begin with
so my gf comes with me everytime when i’m out with my friends but she never allows me to come around hers. and even when i tell her i do t want her going with her friends and they end up at her friends cousin when he has his friends over but she doesn’t want me coming around one certain girl because she knows that one girl when try and flirt with me but she won’t let go to just prove to her i won’t acknowledge her back
I’m a high value man and I dated i girl who was very interested in me, but she hung out with one friend who was depressed and had recently broken up with her guy and I believe she was diagnosed with slight autism also, not a great combo. I don’t know for sure, but what I do know is that the girl I dated was a bit of an over thinker and couldn’t really make her own decisions. And we were different in that way. She was more introverted and I was more adventurous. And I think she felt that we were different, but I felt it in a good way. But a swear to god that her friend talked shit about me cuz she was jealous of her friend. Based on the interaction we had I felt that her friend didn’t like me at all and I think she talked the girl I dated out of it.
When my ex and I started to throw the divorce word around, She was picked up at the house by five women that left their husbands and were living off their divorce winnings.
They took her out to the bars and restaurants to find a man that made more money so she didn't have to work and could keep the lifestyle up. Apparently they found him, he took to her like a fly to dog shit. He married her 8 months after the divorce. Hypergamy is no joke!
She hasn't worked since the wedding! 🤣🤣
Well, at least you are off the hook regarding alimony.
@@Zuyfrog I had a good attorney that I met with early that had me do creative things to ensure no alimony.
So you got off without paying?
This sccenario alone is why you only have your girlfriend/boyfriend/spouse as your only opposite sex friend!
Freiends involved what a nightmare good luck
Guys
When this shit happens you need to fight fire with fire
Make small subtle hints that you are into her friend and see what happens 👹
Fight fire with fire
Ending is near
Fight fire with fire
Bursting with fear
Feel so tired
Yeah but it always is very stupid.
Always walk away from trouble
When I started dating a woman, things were going great until her aunt sabotaged the beginning of the start to a good relationship, by coming in between us so she could have me for herself! I dated the aunt for a while until I saw a bunch of red flags and now I am on to my next woman 🙃
Pls correct me if i am wrong.
So you left your GF for her aunt who was trying to ruin your relationship? Yeah i think you might be the one with red flags WTF xD
@@BrCaBe My experience is that when the woman you are dating doesn't want to address serious issues like her excessive drinking and smoking weed and relocating to be closer to one another, ... it leaves the door open for others to come into the relationship. The woman in question was dragging her feet on these important matters ... and her aunt saw an opportunity to steal me away since she saw that I was a great catch. Of course, the aunt had her own issues 🙄 which warranted leaving, so ... 🤷. I am in the end just following the advice of Richard.
@@jimdemetriosangelis9577 No dude
You are being dumb
Im not even going to get into that mindest of "she was having problems so the door was open for another woman to take me"
1st of all You chose your GF
Im a bit of a sentimental guy and i am still learning and processing this red pill thing that i think benefits alot of men
But you choose to be her BF
If she had all those problems you have to decide to either stick with her and trying to help (for however long you deem worthy) or you leave her
Dont jump into a relationship with her AUNT that was gunning for you
You went for the woman that saw no issues making moves on her niece's boyfriend!
Use your brain man
That was the 1st and only red flag you needed from the aunt
@@jimdemetriosangelis9577 You left the chick for her aunt. You succumbed to the advances of the Aunt, then blamed the dissolution of that relationship on the Aunt's red flags. You are a Simp. You don't take responsibility for your actions, and your choices. YOU ARE THE RED FLAG.
Cringe levels of unbased if real.
There just seems to be a lot of missing information. His story of nothing is his fault its all her fault and her friends fault seems suspect. Anytime you see anyone solely blaming others and not coping to where they dropped the ball, you already know they might have actually be the problem.
This is one small story of many stories I could share about this 2+ year relationship.
If you’ve ever heard me speak about this before I take ownership and responsibility for my mistakes in the relationship.
I even said in this clip that I became betatized by 1000 concessions.
Cheers.
@@moff_unplugged thanks for the context. I'm new to this channel so I'm unfamiliar with you and someone pointed out to me that you've been upfront about life via other content that is out there
@@antoniobrasse7157 all good my man. I’m telling my origin story - along with other members of Rich’s community - tonight on the Live show.
Wrong answer Moff. You say F O immediately
Poor man , just walk away from that crazy girlfriend
The solution to women is extremely simple fellas, DON'T DATE THEM, problem solve
I don't think we are getting the full story
If his girlfriend was satisfied then this would not have been an issue yes her friend was interfering but she was only bringing out the feelings off the girlfriend.
Don't blame the friend. You obviously weren't compatible with your girlfriend.
Also it's a musing the way you use the word girl. Why not try dating a woman with some maturity.
You mean a woman 30 years old and older? You mean the woman 30 years old and older, that kept herself in tip-top condition? You mean the woman, 30 years old and older, that kept herself in tip-top condition, and respects the masculine principle. THOSE WOMEN DON'T EXIST. THAT IS THE POINT. You are a Simp. You believe in the possibility of finding "that woman". All woman have the same nature.
"A women with maturity"
Yes thank you, I would love some roastie who fell off the c*ck carousel after a decade long ride and plunged full force into a wall.
You will find that even those have no such thing as maturity.
You can come on my stereo show any time and we can discuss
been there
This sorority club thing makes me think like this chick friend wanted to sleep with her maybe . Women sometimes are gender fluid or bi etc ?
Ever remember the movie Bad neighbours . ? It wasnt bad . Then they did the Bad neighbours 2 sorority . Absolutely shit movie . nothing funny in it . The girls in it were feministic girl gang , girl power crap .
sounds like the type of group this guys GF was involved with from the sound of it . Still , he has learned from it , good for him
I wonder if their friends will be there when they become single mothers and need help after they get them poked by the guy who the friends approve of
THIS GUYS TOTAL PROBLEM HE IS NOT HUMBLE AT ALL AND HE IS NOT WILLING TO LEARN FROM HIS MISTAKES NEVER LET OTHERS DICTATE YOUR BEHAVIOR RED PULL PURPLE PILL OR BLUE PILL!
Which guy?
OKAY CAPTIAN CAPSLOCK!
@@PGO_Gaming Not Rich!
2:44 I agree. That definitely can turn a woman off lol
Is Moff an alpha male?
First
49th!
@@surfshack2 it’s never too late champ 🤘🏻
Sensitive man...seems hurt. This is red pill?
Purple pill
I got into relationship last may this time. First started as friends then close.
I was in relationship for 8 months.
She used to seem perfect for me. I used to like her behaviour, nature, appearance,academic, everything.
I was too much connected with her emotional, Physical.
And she used to reciprocate the same.
We hardly had two three fights.
One day we had a small fight, in which her roomate interfared so i got angry at her also.
Within an hour our fight got resolved and we were normal for next 20 days.
But later her roomate came and started saying her to leave me bcz i am toxic and all. She just give those two three fights as basis for this.
Her roomate also started putting false allegations on me.
In starting my ex supported me infront of me.
But one day when it was going too much so i got frustrated and shouted at her roomate that why she is saying so bad false things about me.
My ex was there too.
The next day my ex didnt talk to me whole day.
In that day, the friends of my ex and her roomate, everyone somehow convinced my ex that i am not a good person and a toxic one and our relation wont go long and told her to focus on career and keep guys for friendship only bla bla...
The next day (19th jan) my ex came and told for breakup.