Why Do Men Over 40 Still Cheat?

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  • Опубликовано: 24 авг 2024
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  • @soundsfrommars1698
    @soundsfrommars1698 Год назад +564

    40 is not some magical age where you just snap into maturity and change up how you’ve been

    • @jamarlatimore
      @jamarlatimore Год назад +13

      👏🏽

    • @stevenking997
      @stevenking997 Год назад +15

      Well said.

    • @TieUpOne
      @TieUpOne Год назад +67

      They not saying at 40 you gone change. It’s by time you 40 you should have it together why you still cheating at 40?

    • @chief5774
      @chief5774 Год назад +18

      @@TieUpOne just because they should have it together doesn’t mean they do. We can ask the very same question to women over 40, they cheat as well.

    • @Dshipp25
      @Dshipp25 Год назад +31

      @@TieUpOne you should have it together at any age if you gone be with somebody 🤣🤣

  • @Chef_Gee
    @Chef_Gee Год назад +290

    That caller who kept calling envy a Dominican had me 😂😂😂 charr la main

    • @okachobired5856
      @okachobired5856 Год назад +12

      jhess!! 🤣

    • @trinithospe
      @trinithospe Год назад +11

      🙃🤣🤣🤣🤣 that was funny

    • @TheKenkennyg
      @TheKenkennyg Год назад +40

      Bro started with ‘Envy you as a Dominican know’😂😂😂😂

    • @hoc1992
      @hoc1992 Год назад +21

      He said "It's in your Blood! It's in your Blood!" 😂😂 Na cheating is 100% wrong and No, no one should cheat, not all men cheat. God bless

    • @marissa5325
      @marissa5325 Год назад +6

      he said "no im talking this is my platform" hahahah Chala Main xD

  • @CourtneyJasmine07062
    @CourtneyJasmine07062 Год назад +341

    If you want to move like a single man, remain single it really is that simple ‼️ Monogamy isn't for everyone, and marriage takes a lot of responsibility & maturity which a lot of people aren't ready for at any age🤷🏿‍♀️

    • @szn1580
      @szn1580 Год назад

      Immature people get married everyday. Dudes just want new püssy it has nothing to do with INSECURITY and IMMATURITY

    • @QueXopa79
      @QueXopa79 Год назад +17

      Right. I don’t know why men feel the need to cheat

    • @hmgnick3879
      @hmgnick3879 Год назад +10

      We bringin the money in so we do what we want

    • @Troy_Johnson
      @Troy_Johnson Год назад +16

      @@QueXopa79 we cheat because we want new box

    • @Tunechi65
      @Tunechi65 Год назад +5

      @@Troy_Johnson it's really that easy LMAO . Not the complicated. It's wrong but people want their cake and eat it too.

  • @ninjachrish
    @ninjachrish Год назад +30

    Something I've learned after 29 years of living, there is no real age of maturity. It really depends on the person and their actions.

  • @puritanave313
    @puritanave313 Год назад +39

    Even the Dominican man thinks Envy is Dominican 😆 🤣 😂

  • @BHAMMM
    @BHAMMM Год назад +24

    People cheat because they want to ain’t no excuses

  • @myrdisrg850
    @myrdisrg850 Год назад +13

    Men are only as faithful as their options. Period.

  • @budsisterz5735
    @budsisterz5735 Год назад +59

    Because by 40 you should have enough common sense and integrity to know that being deceitful is stupid. If you don’t wanna be in a relationship with someone you should just leave. And it shows you lack integrity honor or self-discipline still, which is kind of sad you’re over 40 years old is still leaking self-discipline and sexual discipline.

    • @samsneadd
      @samsneadd Год назад

      stop judging and putting age on things. Many people are unhappy today that are in their 20's and even 60's. They stay in relationships because of kids or whatever that they have invested because of comments like yours that tell them oh you are .... age or whatever else the x factor is in society so you should know better. Well they do that and then guess wht they cheat or commit suicide. I talk to alot of people we need to look at people as that and not a group of few that we have had a bad experience with. People today are unhappy and need to find happiness within and knw that it is ok to be lone. When people stop settling and listening to societal judgement then they can be happy for themselves. ALSO people need to learn to get to know the person that they are with. There are people that will have unprotected sex, but do not even know their lovers fav color or pet peeves, let alone last name. Now IF you feel that being deceitful and lying is wrong. I am with you. But it is never subjected to an age, race, or gender Trust me. ( sorry for the bad punctuation)

  • @JoJo-op5xy
    @JoJo-op5xy Год назад +42

    Saw my mom get cheated on nasty style by my dad and traumatized me. She was so heartbroken I even cried. So I don’t and never have cheated. I recommend that people have their fun before they get serious and don’t lead nobody on. Also that Dominican man speaks two or more languages so calm down envy

  • @bighomietron6461
    @bighomietron6461 Год назад +27

    Envy sounded reformed like he just got out “I almost lost the best thing in my life”😂

    • @treheartbreak9277
      @treheartbreak9277 Год назад +2

      Yeah big beta

    • @zacharylowe24
      @zacharylowe24 Год назад

      @@treheartbreak9277lol facts cuz she said he didn’t make her cum for 10’years 😂

  • @seerenita
    @seerenita Год назад +12

    I like what ChalaMain said “we gotta start coming to these women healed or on our healing journey” 💯‼️

  • @BeWiseLegette
    @BeWiseLegette Год назад +53

    It’s a lack of character and self-control no matter your age. People act like not cheating is a hard thing to do. It’s not hard, people get tempted everyday B, and say no. It’s a character and self-discipline issue.

    • @mariac6280
      @mariac6280 Год назад +3

      Couldn't agree more. 👏

  • @J-luna
    @J-luna Год назад +49

    Adultery is a very wicked thing. It's just something you don't do. Period.

    • @hmgnick3879
      @hmgnick3879 Год назад +3

      WHEN YOU BRINGING ALL THE MONEY IN & you have OPTIONS 🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️SHIDDD. She wouldnt be there if you had nun anyway.🤷🏾‍♂️💯😊

  • @roybatty6952
    @roybatty6952 Год назад +67

    The main two reasons why men STOP cheating is 1. We just simply run out of options and 2. It's just not worth the headache anymore!

    • @ballershanelle
      @ballershanelle Год назад

      Never run out of options. 8 am a woman and know, i can snap a finger and get men to line up. I am 54 years old. Its been that way since fourteen. I don't entertain most of the pursuers but i see nothing has slowed down.

    • @yaggaman1914
      @yaggaman1914 Год назад

      @@ballershanelle your a women every man want a nut its nothing to brag about

    • @zyrover
      @zyrover Год назад

      Roy, I totally agree.

    • @zyrover
      @zyrover Год назад +4

      @@ballershanelle it's different for women. You have something men openly want.

    • @ballershanelle
      @ballershanelle Год назад

      @@zyrover that make men foolish, if they don't learn to value thier own body and time. Most can be easIly lead and played. No need to chase every female that you desire. Become wise and be steadfast in honoring, one.

  • @Rapid_Flamez
    @Rapid_Flamez Год назад +198

    Me personally I think cheating is a sign of immaturity. A mature man can tell a woman what it is he has going on and what his intent is. And let her decide if she's with it or not

    • @salcaneat
      @salcaneat Год назад +28

      I knew this came from a woman lol

    • @730F-Sport
      @730F-Sport Год назад +2

      Every man would love to tell their woman that but the truth is women can't handle the truth.

    • @ZYaKnoe249
      @ZYaKnoe249 Год назад +1

      Of course lol

    • @mahdiscott238
      @mahdiscott238 Год назад +1

      That is the correct answer

    • @Banana-wu6te
      @Banana-wu6te Год назад +9

      Cheating is more than mf sex doe. That’s what y’all don’t realize. And since that’s the case we almost all do it. Because EVERYONE has some slick shit that they wouldn’t do in front of their significant other. It doesn’t have to be sex

  • @latricetaylor7928
    @latricetaylor7928 Год назад +31

    I love this topic. Kudos to the men for keeping the show going

  • @Shadow-nz1dm
    @Shadow-nz1dm Год назад +16

    Lollll Charlemagne was humbled when he found out his wife cheated too, now he’s a therapy nut 😄

    • @weaveandwelfaretookblackme
      @weaveandwelfaretookblackme Год назад +5

      They can dish it but can't take it . Imagine looking like a bleached lizard and having the audacity to cheat on a woman totally out of your league 🤣

    • @yosquidd242
      @yosquidd242 Год назад

      LOL, we don't like thinking about pleasuring a wife that let a stranger run up in her for boredom relief.

  • @DarrylN2UPhotography
    @DarrylN2UPhotography Год назад +11

    Not ego, dont fool yourselves, it's lust you had.

    • @MrIncognito2020
      @MrIncognito2020 Год назад

      Lust and ego are pretty much the same thing.

    • @jayo208
      @jayo208 Год назад

      @@MrIncognito2020 they absolutely are not pretty much the same bruh, tf?? 🤦🏿‍♂️. Lust is your desire for that person, whereas ego is your feelings about yourself. Two VERY different things, even if you wanna change the definitions to fit your narrative 😭😭😏

  • @cthomasbydesign
    @cthomasbydesign Год назад +7

    Age does NOT equal maturity! That includes men & women!

  • @BKLYN_TZU
    @BKLYN_TZU Год назад +78

    I'm a 45 years old man myself the real question is Why do younger people and women think because you get to these ages you stop being you the only things that changes is your age and your looks slightly but your personality does not change cheaters will stop cheating when they realize it's either not worth it or women aren't checking for them anymore.

    • @kyrah6450
      @kyrah6450 Год назад +7

      That's soooo true. When bitches STOP ✋️ Checking for them, they don't have the option to cheat

    • @UhRealLife
      @UhRealLife Год назад +1

      What? One run on sentence. No comma's or periods. WTF are you saying? Ugh 😣

    • @datsapaddlin
      @datsapaddlin Год назад +8

      Some men just honestly want a younger woman at that age as well. Just don’t get married if you don’t want that issue though.

    • @cjdiva6440
      @cjdiva6440 Год назад +5

      ED slows them down... and men r having ED, low-T, diabetes, and many other things @ younger and younger ages these days

    • @hmgnick3879
      @hmgnick3879 Год назад +1

      WHEN YOU BRINGING ALL THE MONEY IN & you have OPTIONS 🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️SHIDDD. She wouldnt be there if you had nun anyway.🤷🏾‍♂️💯😊

  • @mschigyrl5625
    @mschigyrl5625 Год назад +69

    Some people will always be for the streets. Old and young men cheat. Lack of self control.

    • @Banana-wu6te
      @Banana-wu6te Год назад

      It’s not about that itself. Real mf talk women DONT UNDERSTAND men at all. Men want more. What part of Jay Z cheated on Beyoncé mf don’t understand what that really meant. U can have Nicki Minaj all u want and NATURALLY u still want Kim Kardashian

    • @ayocinobeats
      @ayocinobeats Год назад

      Chicks cheat 100x more than men

    • @mschigyrl5625
      @mschigyrl5625 Год назад

      @@ayocinobeats there is no way you believe that 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @mschigyrl5625
      @mschigyrl5625 Год назад +5

      @@Banana-wu6te wanting more doesnt mean you have to go after more unless you have no self control. Thats it thats all. 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @blondie7389
      @blondie7389 Год назад +1

      I totally agree 👏🏽

  • @frederickifill3107
    @frederickifill3107 Год назад +10

    When Envy said it’s our 13 year anniversary you know if Yee was there she would have had a crazy comment lol 😂

  • @conniechoward
    @conniechoward Год назад +14

    Envy’s reaction to the Dominican caller sent me.

  • @dec2567
    @dec2567 Год назад +30

    Because messing with the same woman gets boring,but even messing around with different women gets old eventually.

    • @treheartbreak9277
      @treheartbreak9277 Год назад

      Facts idky people just ignore that point

    • @user-pf9th5dy1t
      @user-pf9th5dy1t Год назад +9

      @@treheartbreak9277 @de2567 maybe monogamy is just not for you🤷‍♂. That doesn't explain why someone would cheat instead of just facing the fact they're not built to be in a monogamous relationship and moving accordingly (i.e. not getting into a monogamous relationship). The immaturity is definitely there if you're not man enough to tell shawty what's up. Too many women are down for polyamorous/open relationships nowadays for you to feel the need to be deceitful. Shi childish bro.

    • @Kmama801
      @Kmama801 Год назад +6

      So everything is boring lol if you with someone and you bored of them are they the one for you tho? If you get bored of everyone you’re with you doing something wrong

    • @hmgnick3879
      @hmgnick3879 Год назад +1

      WHEN YOU BRINGING ALL THE MONEY IN & you have OPTIONS 🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️SHIDDD. She wouldnt be there if you had nun anyway.🤷🏾‍♂️💯😊

    • @weaveandwelfaretookblackme
      @weaveandwelfaretookblackme Год назад +4

      @@hmgnick3879 what about the broke men that cheat ?

  • @lilayasmin
    @lilayasmin Год назад +22

    Cheating would not be an issue if you simply chose to be honest with the person you want to see more often or better yet just dated and not create a bond with someone. The action of cheating causes irrevocable harm that damages the mental health and sometimes physical health of the other person. The lack of consideration and care that you have for the other person by doing something that is causing them harm is an actual reflection of the kind of person the cheater actually is. You are causing harm by cheating. No one is forcing you to be in a relationship that is a choice, if you want other people then walk away.

    • @isisisi.
      @isisisi. Год назад +2

      💯

    • @oasisfullfilled7617
      @oasisfullfilled7617 Год назад

      This is the thing the grind my gears. They never want to be single. You get in a relationship and already cheating. Its a disgusting behavior. Stay Single. They want the benefits of a Monogamous

  • @devin3955
    @devin3955 Год назад +9

    Lmao my dad is a notorious cheater and to this day is confused when I don’t take any of the women he brings around serious.

  • @rigobryant8050
    @rigobryant8050 Год назад +19

    Men over 40 cheat alot of times because wives and long term gf's get too relaxed. They stop screwing you the same, not as often, take things for granted, feel overly entitled, and just become flat out grumpy and unpleasant to be around. Men like excited too and also to feel appreciated

    • @BeeetchImStacia
      @BeeetchImStacia Год назад +18

      Just like y’all like to keep things exciting, so do women. Evaluate yourself in the relationship to try to pin point why she’s become not so pleasant to be around anymore. Relationships are 50/50, you have to do the work, just like she does, to keep her interested and exciting. Cooking, cleaning and taking care of kids/a man gets tiring.

    • @500beatz5
      @500beatz5 Год назад

      @@BeeetchImStaciay’all want us to evaluate ourselves but y’all dnt do that either because If y’all did y’all would kno why that nigga cheated

    • @BeeetchImStacia
      @BeeetchImStacia Год назад +1

      @@500beatz5 a hit dog is hollering bc did you even read what I said??? Couldn’t have cause this response makes no sense.. 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @500beatz5
      @500beatz5 Год назад +1

      @@BeeetchImStacia maybe u just slow

    • @BeeetchImStacia
      @BeeetchImStacia Год назад

      @@500beatz5 nah nigga you slow.. that’s why your original comment is suddenly missing 😂😂 bye.

  • @jennifern1956
    @jennifern1956 Год назад +20

    Ppl need to stop playing with ppl! Period! Stop holding onto these ppl and you know you don’t want them! Physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually and anything else! If you’re not ready to commit SAY SO!! It’s okay!! Don’t use ppl! Don’t hold someone hostage cuz you’re not ready! I know this about men but it applies to anyone! And if the marriage is over, hey tell your partner.

  • @Shin-Blade
    @Shin-Blade Год назад +34

    Some people may not realize it but there's nothing better than having someone at home waiting for you...

    • @royalty843
      @royalty843 Год назад +11

      That you're happy with

    • @nickelbus7596
      @nickelbus7596 Год назад +3

      I'm straight on dat, folk crazy these days 😳

    • @keepsit100atalltime9
      @keepsit100atalltime9 Год назад +4

      Yes. Someone who you can talk to and laugh with. Someone who understands you and respects you.

    • @MsJAH-pg1vb
      @MsJAH-pg1vb Год назад +1

      Get a pet.

    • @nev2943
      @nev2943 Год назад

      This ❤

  • @dwannthomas9543
    @dwannthomas9543 Год назад +7

    Social Media, Options, Not knowing how to properly disconnect from someone, Emotions, Feeling isolated, people cheat for all type of reasons. People cheat commitments all the time, whether it's work, relationship, to themselves. Instant gratification.

  • @magneticbeloved7154
    @magneticbeloved7154 Год назад +1

    Because they still lack the "Self Discipline" required to stay Faithful to one woman.

  • @royalty843
    @royalty843 Год назад +9

    I'm 37 and I learned a lot why I do my dirt in my younger years. Being polyamourus now I feel so much happier and free.

  • @N.Dixon904
    @N.Dixon904 Год назад +16

    My husband and I just celebrated our wedding anniversary. I'm so grateful for him & our family. We know other married couples and some have admitted to cheating out of boredom, unhappiness, no longer in love, don't want to leave their kids etc. Then some have admitted to swinging and enjoying other people together. Being with one person for the rest of their lives didn't seem realistic and unnatural. To each their own!! Do what works for your marriage/life and ultimately be honest about it with your spouse/partner.

    • @AH-tf1tm
      @AH-tf1tm Год назад

      He has definitely banged on the side, but he was professional about it and that's the way it should be.

    • @ispeakmucho
      @ispeakmucho Год назад

      @@AH-tf1tm yooo lolol

    • @user-dv3kq3rm4h
      @user-dv3kq3rm4h Год назад

      @@AH-tf1tm Stop judging people by your own miserable standards. You don't know this woman or her husband.

  • @kushtiianhendriixxx2519
    @kushtiianhendriixxx2519 Год назад +10

    When Envy say he almost lost everything..he is talking about his MONEY..let's not let that go over people heads !!!

    • @Tunechi65
      @Tunechi65 Год назад +1

      Yup LMAO all his ass cares about

    • @jodeci9898
      @jodeci9898 Год назад

      Exactly he has been keeping Gia pregnant since 2001, and not saying she doesn't work (but I'm not sure if her job is a housewife) but she would have got him for years on end with half of everything!!

  • @driafibromyalgiafighter9342
    @driafibromyalgiafighter9342 Год назад +16

    The Dominican guy that called had me dying 🤣 I was just watching an old L&HH episode yesterday and the Dominican woman said the same thing....she said they are big flirts and will cheat...that's crazy tho 😂😂

  • @Gotinks
    @Gotinks Год назад +4

    The comments are talking about men cheating when Maury made multi-millions off of women by saying for two decades." You are not the father!" 😂

  • @BygSexyToy1
    @BygSexyToy1 Год назад +73

    I was really hoping to hear all men perspectives. I am 47, obviously seasoned and well experienced. I know what we women typically think on this sensitive issue. However, it would have been nice to really let the men over 40 answer and discuss this topic solely from their perspective. I notice that we ladies, especially the younger ones, sometimes are slow to listen and quick to speak even with male life coaches. Sometimes listening and observing can be an eye opener because a lot of brothers feel unheard, just as we women feel unheard and ignored on certain issues.

    • @Tipp87
      @Tipp87 Год назад +4

      First off cousin you 47 where?!? 😍😍 Second, everything you said was perfectly put!!! ❤

    • @BygSexyToy1
      @BygSexyToy1 Год назад

      @@Tipp87 Haha! thanks but as of 11/4, I am 47 lol

    • @hmgnick3879
      @hmgnick3879 Год назад +2

      WHEN YOU BRINGING ALL THE MONEY IN & you have OPTIONS 🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️SHIDDD. She wouldnt be there if you had nun anyway.🤷🏾‍♂️💯😊

    • @aprillee2593
      @aprillee2593 Год назад +1

      We need to stop discussing stupid stuff like this

    • @BygSexyToy1
      @BygSexyToy1 Год назад +7

      @April Lee What one may find stupid, others may not. To each its own 🤷‍♀️ I find it foolish for men who are half of 80 or a century to still be whorish without valid reasoning but it is what is. I mean is it really a stupid topic when cheating is usually the cause of single parenting or divorce and broken homes? However, I digress.

  • @AfricanGirl
    @AfricanGirl Год назад +5

    Only the cheaters know why they are dishonest and it starts with themselves 1st.

  • @Rashaadthegr8
    @Rashaadthegr8 Год назад +1

    Why do people cheat period? Selfish and low integrity. you can't cheat by yourself. Takes two to tango

  • @brycehill-pagan1696
    @brycehill-pagan1696 Год назад +50

    I must say, I think they’re doing good in carrying the show with just these two. I think that’s great 👍🙏🏼

    • @mrsvr
      @mrsvr Год назад +8

      I like it better. I wish Yee well and much success but I think the energy and their dynamic is amazing with just these two

    • @brucebruce7065
      @brucebruce7065 Год назад +7

      Its actually better, to be honest

    • @nycgirltee
      @nycgirltee Год назад

      Why do you men hate Yee so much? It's weird. Y'all niggas act gay just like these two 😂

    • @brucebruce7065
      @brucebruce7065 Год назад

      @@nycgirltee
      No, what's gay is you thinking this show needed her. You mad salty!

    • @EP-nk5wm
      @EP-nk5wm Год назад

      Agreed

  • @lifeofteamthompsonthompson5565
    @lifeofteamthompsonthompson5565 Год назад +5

    That Dominican guy had me weak

  • @kimmiet1980
    @kimmiet1980 Год назад +9

    I don't know why Envy keeps denying his Dominican heritage.

  • @YT-CesarB
    @YT-CesarB Год назад +6

    We don’t. By now we want to find “the one” and settle down

    • @mustanggang5.0
      @mustanggang5.0 Год назад +5

      🧢

    • @mschigyrl5625
      @mschigyrl5625 Год назад +3

      @@mustanggang5.0super 🧢 cause we all know men way older than 40 still cheat. My homegirl is 44 and dated a 64 yr old married man not too long ago. I dont want nobody elses man and married men come up to me at restaurants or grocery stores a lot. Like gtfoh Sir. 🙄😂

  • @cowboyz95fly
    @cowboyz95fly Год назад +8

    Same reason women do….

  • @simplykaramel
    @simplykaramel Год назад +2

    I’m 25 I’ve never cheated and never will… it’s sad and disgusting

  • @NYCJoeBlack
    @NYCJoeBlack Год назад +7

    DISEASE, Disease, disease is something that should be on EVERYONE’S mindset besides tampering with commitment whenever someone decides to engage in sexual encounters with TEMPoraries. Not worth the risk sexually and morally‼️

    • @ninaj.4885
      @ninaj.4885 Год назад

      Yes, because there is an increase in STD's among older people. If you want to sleep around just be single. Don't risk my health. Give me a choice. Don't decide for me.

  • @TheDetroitblack
    @TheDetroitblack Год назад +23

    They do cheat,it's a sex thing, what he ain't getting at home,he can get else where... and their wives think that their man ain't cheating on them..."If your girl only knew"!!🎵🎼

    • @leoqueen300
      @leoqueen300 Год назад +1

      👁 👁
      👄 4 things I don't knowingly share 1My Toothbrush 2 My Panties 3 My Man/Husband 4 My mask👀 too many germs being swapped people in the cemetery right now cause of that cheating SHYT 💀⚰️👀

    • @srianna0416
      @srianna0416 Год назад +10

      I had male coworkers say my wife could do everything right and I'm still cheating .

    • @BuckleBunny
      @BuckleBunny Год назад +1

      @@srianna0416 proving its not about sex. We need to stop falling for that excuse. Some of the whackest men in bed cheat. They will never find great sex because they can’t give it. They cheat because they are empty inside, the sane for most men. No one wants to admit that. It’s an ego boost whose high last temporarily.

    • @Banana-wu6te
      @Banana-wu6te Год назад +8

      Completely WRONG it’s not about what u aren’t getting. PEOPLE just want MORE. u can have Beyoncé and u still want Nicki Minaj NATURALLY. This will never change In human beings society. Wanting more is different than what u not getting

    • @Banana-wu6te
      @Banana-wu6te Год назад +2

      @@srianna0416 my exact mf point. Wanting more is different than what u aren’t already getting. This will NEVER change in society ever. Wanting more will always be someone’s mindset no matter than gender. U can have self control all u want but u in this one life we live,we all have a CHOICE Cuz cheating is a choice. It’s a poor one but it’s a choice nonetheless

  • @Nolimitcrew225
    @Nolimitcrew225 Год назад +6

    If you’re a man over 40 and you still can’t keep it real with your partner that you’d prefer to be a polygamist, you’re a pvnk.
    At that age no reason to sneak around to do you. Just own it.

    • @chief5774
      @chief5774 Год назад

      Bf & Gf relationships dont count. So technically hes not cheating. Marriage is the only thing that holds weight. So if a man cheats in that he’s definitely wrong.

    • @Nolimitcrew225
      @Nolimitcrew225 Год назад +2

      @@chief5774 Once you have an agreement with someone that they’re the only people you can be with, and you go behind their back and break that agreement. That’s cheating. Marriage or nah. I know most men will cheat regardless, but at a certain age you gotta have the balls to live your truth.

    • @chief5774
      @chief5774 Год назад

      @@Nolimitcrew225 that agreement means nothing, Unless it is marriage.

    • @weaveandwelfaretookblackme
      @weaveandwelfaretookblackme Год назад

      @@chief5774 hopefully you feel the same way when u pass your gf an STD and she shoots u . Hope it's worth sitting in a chair for life

  • @Frommalwithlove
    @Frommalwithlove Год назад +2

    Angela Yee been gone less than a day and yall already done got corny.

  • @blackmenhike2
    @blackmenhike2 Год назад +58

    There’s no age limit to cheating so I’m not understanding the question that goes for women too.. so stop singling out men only

    • @noobslayer10101
      @noobslayer10101 Год назад

      Is there a age limit in black men hiking?

    • @blackmenhike2
      @blackmenhike2 Год назад

      @@noobslayer10101 that makes no fucking sense troll .. stay focus on the topic and what a great deflection on your part 🤡

    • @IAMDJKOOLROD1200
      @IAMDJKOOLROD1200 Год назад +3

      Facts

    • @guttagutta2
      @guttagutta2 Год назад +8

      Even elderly people cheat 😂😂

    • @alex1vid
      @alex1vid Год назад +2

      There's also no gender limitation. There were two people in the story they were referencing.

  • @elomitchell
    @elomitchell Год назад +72

    Same reason why women over 40 cheat... tf 🙄

    • @brandonbrown6918
      @brandonbrown6918 Год назад +13

      Yep and they brag about it on social media

    • @MysteryUnfold
      @MysteryUnfold Год назад +34

      Y’all love deflecting.

    • @JokerG16
      @JokerG16 Год назад +3

      facts tho lol.

    • @tidey4
      @tidey4 Год назад

      @@MysteryUnfoldook up studies woman and man cheat at the same levels. I know dudes that mess with married woman.

    • @unrulysinner635
      @unrulysinner635 Год назад +2

      Why is the question 🤨🙄

  • @jennifern1956
    @jennifern1956 Год назад +7

    Congrats Envy and Charla on y’all 13th anniversary ❤🎉😂

  • @knuxklez27
    @knuxklez27 Год назад +8

    Over 40 ?! Lol what tf being 40 gotta do with it, I'm 28 and been stopped cheating lol tf ?

    • @quentinjones6877
      @quentinjones6877 Год назад +3

      I'm 25 but I'm assuming they're saying you should be more mature enough in your 40s to tell your significant other you don't want to be with them instead of cheating. I never been in a relationship so this doesn't apply to me lol

  • @kobegoodall3444
    @kobegoodall3444 Год назад +2

    Dominican bruh was killin me😂😂, swears Envy is Dominican.

  • @newthesis9480
    @newthesis9480 Год назад +30

    Men over 40 cheat for 3 main reasons: 1. Ego 2. Habit (they’ve been doing it so long, they don’t know any different) 3. They are in an unhappy relationship, and they don’t know how to get out, and their partner isn’t satisfying their physical/ emotional needs.

    • @SwaggaB_Money82
      @SwaggaB_Money82 Год назад +3

      Facts!

    • @jodeci9898
      @jodeci9898 Год назад +4

      I don't know If that unhappy part is true is necessarily true. I think more times than not, men are happy in their relationship, but it's there is thing called "greed" or the feeling of wanted things you don't need but you want it.

    • @newthesis9480
      @newthesis9480 Год назад

      @@jodeci9898 That is what is known as ego, which was the first reason that I listed as to why men cheat.

    • @Ilovenymets31
      @Ilovenymets31 Год назад

      I think that goes for men at any age 😆

    • @newthesis9480
      @newthesis9480 Год назад +1

      @@Ilovenymets31 Younger men also cheat because they’re just more horny due to hormones, because they are less experienced and they want to know what else is out there, or because of jealousy and playing games.

  • @nosaiyare5190
    @nosaiyare5190 Год назад +7

    Ain't gonna lie.... This show needs a female perspective and they need it fast. A Yee replacement should be taken seriously

  • @diegojones2481
    @diegojones2481 Год назад +1

    Just because your in a relationship, doesn’t mean that other women stop being desirable. It is insane to think you can truly get everything you crave from 1 person.. People who don’t cheat have settled and are usually miserable in their relationships…

  • @trell019
    @trell019 Год назад +1

    Both of them are lying 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣... imagine saying you do therapy and still lying

  • @Ellobuhbyehair
    @Ellobuhbyehair Год назад +3

    Did the second caller call Envy Dominican? 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Nello309
    @Nello309 Год назад +5

    It’s not cool cheat at any age but people expect it to happen when your younger doing it but what’s the point of talking about things that’s never gone change 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @FlyBoyKhi
    @FlyBoyKhi Год назад +1

    lmao I thought CTG was firing up a blunt for a second

  • @TrixieSinghB
    @TrixieSinghB Год назад +2

    That Dominican man was 😂😂😂😂

  • @tylerhackner9731
    @tylerhackner9731 Год назад +3

    Ppl cheat at any age unfortunately

  • @romegrey2600
    @romegrey2600 Год назад +38

    Personally I stopped cheating at 24 because I truly do feel bad about doing something sneaky and hurting the women I'm with regardless if she " deserved it" or not. Now for other men I can see them not caring I get it but 40 is no age where you magically change just oike with women it's all about where you are mentally

    • @Jr9427-m2o
      @Jr9427-m2o Год назад +3

      Respect

    • @szn1580
      @szn1580 Год назад +2

      Dudes always want new box though

    • @Tunechi65
      @Tunechi65 Год назад

      As a reformed serial cheater who still struggle today I agree. Just had to stop being a douchebag and marry my girl

    • @TheConnection
      @TheConnection Год назад +4

      @@szn1580 Self control is what separates good men from the subhuman men.

    • @XxiliketwinkiesxX
      @XxiliketwinkiesxX Год назад

      @@szn1580women want new dick as well though so that’s not an excuse

  • @tylerjordan1991
    @tylerjordan1991 Год назад +1

    2 wrongs don’t make a right! Let the devil stand alone.

  • @DJTREMADEIT
    @DJTREMADEIT Год назад +2

    Why are we only talking about Men cheating but not Women? 🤔
    Interesting…

  • @lastbitofyeast3643
    @lastbitofyeast3643 Год назад +3

    Just because ur not married does not mean it’s okay to sleep with other people…a. Commitment is solid either way. Don’t cheat guys it’s not worth it ..go wack it out in the bathroom brothers.

  • @yulandadixon3659
    @yulandadixon3659 Год назад +4

    Feed your spirit 🙌🏽
    Ego: Edging God Out
    4D: Don’t Do Dat Dummy😇♥️

  • @gabrielmartinez9646
    @gabrielmartinez9646 Год назад +2

    Woman need to match their significant others sex drive or else cheating will be an option

  • @kellyfinacle
    @kellyfinacle Год назад +5

    Speaking as a Nigerian in Nigeria, peeps at 40+ that cheat is because the average guy is really in his bag from 40, cheating down here is like what cheating used to be like over where you are when cheating was symptom of middle aged crisis when men start buying power bikes here, porches there, becoming sugar daddies etc

    • @Tunechi65
      @Tunechi65 Год назад +1

      You speaking for yourself. None of that over here in my 9ja area

  • @jaleelwavy
    @jaleelwavy Год назад +3

    28 and single. I don’t believe in cheating, but I wonder how people keep their sex life exciting and stay faithful to each other. And I’m not packing, so I’m terrified of commitment

  • @kyrah6450
    @kyrah6450 Год назад +2

    Because their immature and ABSOLUTELY INSECURE

  • @godsongodson7435
    @godsongodson7435 Год назад +2

    Because different sandwich is good from time To Time. !!

  • @conniechoward
    @conniechoward Год назад +4

    Please, Envy wasn’t a “young boy” when he cheated with Erica.

  • @javionriley8739
    @javionriley8739 Год назад +3

    I’m a 90s millennial this ain’t our generational problem 😂

  • @xaviercoleman9741
    @xaviercoleman9741 Год назад +2

    Chalamagne😂😂😂

  • @getmoneychill6462
    @getmoneychill6462 Год назад +2

    Ask the women the Same ?

  • @charenzo95
    @charenzo95 Год назад +4

    I never understood why some men are so comfortable with buying women or being used. It's like it's their goal to obtain alot of money only to be able to run through chicks. If you're unattractive and couldn't easily get women when you were a nobody and NOW you're famous and they're all over you, why are you not put off by that?

  • @aprilbaby4071
    @aprilbaby4071 Год назад +8

    As a women something i put up with in my twenties i am not dealing with in my forties.. so for sure im not going to put up with a cheater or females calling me at 40. i also try to make my partner happy so if that fool cheat he can be out lol

  • @MandosCulture
    @MandosCulture Год назад +1

    Capping for their wives... I APPRECIATE THAT KINGS

  • @2centsfreelancer
    @2centsfreelancer Год назад +1

    Cheating literally make no sense to me. I don’t have problem breaking up w/ your ass. Plus that shit take so much energy 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @3leggBo
    @3leggBo Год назад +3

    People are as faithful as they're options.

  • @fredopounds
    @fredopounds Год назад +4

    Sitting up here listening to these grown men PANDER and lie and come up with all these eloquent reasons to why men sleep with other women outside of their relationship is sad.. can’t even be real them.. this is not how they talk at the bar when the cameras off and it’s just the guys.. but they so WHIPPED that they gotta talk like this and put on this front like they just above their nature , science and logic .. this is the reason women be scorned because you allow women to believe a false reality when you know that’s not real … tell yo women the truth and you might be surprised what she accepts OR doesn’t.. but lying like black men don’t cheat or they are above it personally is WHACK… Stop lying to women and BE REAL wit em…

  • @keeseagainsttheworld2106
    @keeseagainsttheworld2106 Год назад +3

    Even at 40 men are still trying to catch up to women's sexual experiences. Gotta even the playing field

  • @CRANKDATDONTE
    @CRANKDATDONTE Год назад

    Lack of consistent love , lack of appreciation. The same things that’ll make a women cheat. Men need love too

  • @vonettaspencer2904
    @vonettaspencer2904 Год назад

    This man was so confident Envy is Dominican. I hope he’s on the float in 2023

  • @scotthighcam
    @scotthighcam Год назад +20

    Some men are loyal.. many are not. Men whine about how they want loyalty and trust... but many won't give it back in return. Cheaters are narcissists, self absorbed and are risk takers,..and at age 40 to 70..they want validation that women still desire them..even if they in a whole relationship..some still require validation from women. Also most cheaters are flirts. So if your man out their flirtin'...he cheating.

    • @Banana-wu6te
      @Banana-wu6te Год назад +2

      U give a woman a billion dollars to cheat on her man and I bet 100% of yall do it

    • @DM-jn3zo
      @DM-jn3zo Год назад +11

      @@Banana-wu6te a billion???? people do it for free

    • @prolificbeats8237
      @prolificbeats8237 Год назад +7

      The same thing that a man does a woman does too, we just do things slightly different. Cheating all around is wrong but we can’t assign cheating to one gender because you can cheat mentally and emotionally just as well as physically.

    • @jbrown7
      @jbrown7 Год назад

      Cheating isn’t gender specific and to say most men aren’t loyal isn’t valid

    • @donotjustdont
      @donotjustdont Год назад

      ​@@prolificbeats8237 *that's the safest sex too! LMAO!!!😁💛🟨💛🟨💛🟨💛

  • @noobslayer10101
    @noobslayer10101 Год назад +30

    I miss having Angela already haha I know so many people hated on her but I'd like her opinion on this too.

    • @youngcity4241
      @youngcity4241 Год назад +1

      They just need a female perspective

    • @JokerG16
      @JokerG16 Год назад +10

      lol she serves no purpose

    • @treheartbreak9277
      @treheartbreak9277 Год назад +1

      That's what I was thinking

    • @noobslayer10101
      @noobslayer10101 Год назад

      @@JokerG16 what do you say that?

    • @JokerG16
      @JokerG16 Год назад +3

      @@noobslayer10101 because aside from celebrity gossip, her opinions truly lack substance and she's incapable of being balanced and hearing other POVs.

  • @JDepmusic
    @JDepmusic Год назад +2

    Envy, ctg your wives may have forgiven you. But they will never forget. 😒

  • @thedoctorthemasterandthegu7302
    @thedoctorthemasterandthegu7302 Год назад +2

    It's funny how men who get caught cheating try to judge other men cause they was sloppy and about to pay that alimony 😆

  • @gmf357
    @gmf357 Год назад +5

    If we’re only looking at “cheating” as a man that steps out on his relationship and claps cheeks elsewhere it’s simply because one women naturally isn’t enough. Yes that man could just be single but he desires a relationship with a woman on a higher level than what he has with the woman or women he’s cheating with. Monogamous relationships aren’t practical for a lot of men.

    • @DM-jn3zo
      @DM-jn3zo Год назад +7

      if one woman can't give you what you want neither can 2, 3, 4. It's a you problem

    • @hotpockets69
      @hotpockets69 Год назад +2

      You sound amoral. Just be a F boy and don't ruin women for the rest of us that aren't degenerates.

    • @gmf357
      @gmf357 Год назад +7

      @@DM-jn3zo If I want to clap someone else then that’s why 2 3 4 and 5 exist. It’s as simple as that. Sometimes you can have a house full of groceries…and still wanna go out to eat.

    • @DM-jn3zo
      @DM-jn3zo Год назад +7

      @@gmf357 lol can't argue with immaturity

    • @Troy_Johnson
      @Troy_Johnson Год назад +3

      @@DM-jn3zo it's not immaturity men want multiple women it's been that way

  • @Sapioso
    @Sapioso Год назад +3

    Because monogamy isn’t for everybody 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @srianna0416
      @srianna0416 Год назад +4

      I agree but it should be an understanding on both ends.

    • @Sapioso
      @Sapioso Год назад

      @@srianna0416 who said otherwise 🤨🤔

    • @alexiskeys9985
      @alexiskeys9985 Год назад +1

      @@srianna0416 Exactly. It's not cheating if you've clearly stated that you're not interested in being in an exclusive, monogamous relationship and you both are on board with that decision. What's the problem?

  • @javableu9457
    @javableu9457 Год назад

    Time and opportunity. Period.

  • @chacalateeplays
    @chacalateeplays Год назад +1

    The same reason why men cheat at any age. There’s no age limit on infidelity 😂

  • @luiszamora2504
    @luiszamora2504 Год назад +3

    The Dominican recognizes the Dominican in Envy 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @clrconscience
    @clrconscience Год назад +8

    Usually that’s when men are at the top of their game financial and as far as experience, which is attractive to women in general. So that’s when men usually have more options. Same reason why women these days do whatever they want while they’re young and beautiful, because that’s when they have more options.

  • @alex1vid
    @alex1vid Год назад +3

    IMHO I think it's selfish and an insecurity. Because something clearly isn't right with the relationship & it might be best to end the relationship vs cheating and trying to 'have both'. I think it's a weak, wussy move. And women cheat quite a bit, fellas. All of this IG, Facebook, selfie stuff for attention & incessant need for validation... wake up. There were two people married in the story you're referencing.

  • @aaronburns5421
    @aaronburns5421 Год назад

    “The way of the superior man”

  • @dantegreen7642
    @dantegreen7642 Год назад +2

    Simple you get tired of hitting the same girl for years and you see all these beautiful girls walking around to tempting now days

  • @Jbreezywb
    @Jbreezywb Год назад +17

    I’m not saying cheating is ok, but it’s innately natural for men to want multiple women. It’s a natural/biological thing when it comes to men. It’s something that’s innate. You can say it’s ego, but once you get into the science of human nature and biology, ppl will see that it’s deeper than that

    • @jamarlatimore
      @jamarlatimore Год назад +5

      They ain’t ready for this truth!!!

    • @Iifooley
      @Iifooley Год назад +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @JT9K
      @JT9K Год назад +14

      U can have as many women as u like, just tell them. Its not cheating if they know

    • @a.newson822
      @a.newson822 Год назад +12

      Just don’t commit and do you. That’s fair

    • @noobslayer10101
      @noobslayer10101 Год назад

      Actually I'm more than happy with just one woman. Hell she's a handful sometimes. I don't need her having any allies scheming on me and comparing notes about my dick lol one woman is more than enough