If a Stranger Acts Like Your Friend in Public, It's a Cry for Help!
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- Опубликовано: 21 окт 2020
- Riley is 19 years old. An hour ago she walked out of her house in a very good mood. She went for a walk, and in a couple of hours she was to meet her friends. While standing in line for an ice cream, she noticed that some man was staring at her from around the corner. He was wearing black shaggy pants, a black hoodie and sunglasses. Even though it’s hard to recognize a person dressed like that, she was pretty sure she’d never seen him before, and he looked… suspicious.
What to do if you're being followed? Normally, getting followers is a good thing, but only if they stay within social media’s reach. So if you feel like someone’s getting on your tail, it’s always good to know how to safely manage the situation. We gathered a few useful tips to help you avoid bad consequences if you’re being followed or watched. If you ever find yourself in a similar situation, remember rule number one: trust your gut. If you’re feeling uncomfortable, don’t take any risks.
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TIMESTAMPS:
Speak to someone 0:01
Go toward crowded places 1:50
Don’t go straight to your home 2:12
Make several irrational turns 2:40
Hold your keys at the ready 3:08
Make a noise 3:35
When only one trick is left 4:04
Turn around and look at the pursuer 6:56
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First to see this hi
wait what
Can you make a lunch box because we just have bags as lunch bags
lol this video shows how to be safeand plus having a new relationship lol
If you get stalked and u have lipstick look the stalker in the eye and put the lipstick all over your face to be creepier than them
The stalker after watching this video:
🤷♂️ guess I’ll quit
Hahahahshahlol
LOL LOLL LOL HAHHAHAHAHAHAA
Sus 🧐🤔😂🤣
🤣🤣 ye i quit
Lolololollololollololololhahahaha
So... In order to avoid a stranger following you, you have to find another stranger and follow that person?
😂
And the cycle begins 😂
Honestly a person with no intentions is better than somebody with ill intentions
@@iggyrlk i think your missing the point. The person you just approached for help, might not be certain that you are "someone in trouble". And that person might assume you are "a person with ill intention" 🤣
Then it will go on and on and on and on
*That awkward moment when they just mistook you for someone else or they were just fine*
EEEE
That's why you ask if they're in trouble. If not, they'll realise that they've made a mistake, but no harm has been done. The vast majority of people would much rather be interrupted by mistake than to have not been asked for help if it was necessary.
@@y_fam_goeglyd True
But what if they came to rob or kidnap 🤐
@@sparkle_girlie_ri7879 Don't go off anywhere with a stranger where there are no other people around...? Common sense.
Plot twist: The girl is the Stalker and the guy was with her. Now they got You.
Stocker?
I meant stalker thanks for noticing me.
I’m was to scared now who to trust!?
What🤔🤔🤔🤔
@@LemTheDemon so true
1. Trust your gut
Me, who is prone to overthinking: *uhh...*
When it said "trust your gut" it meant literally your gut cuz it might be telling you something just like me when i got confused on what to do in class.
same
Same
hahahhahhaha gut
I like to overthink
No one:
Stalker: walks in Gangnam style
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Of course right?😂😂😂
lolllll😂😂😂
😂😂😂
LOL 🤣😆
Oppa gangnam style! 😎😎
Plot twist: The guy was actually her friend but forgot
lOl
lol
PPFFFTTT
When someone is following you go to them confident and then ask with a straight face “did you get the money” or “did you get rid of the evidence” they will be creeped out and realize that you might be a killer and or a robber
Truuueeeeee
That's like Uno Reverse card
@@idk_6285 I'm not sure but that wouldn't be the most effective thing to do for the stalker. I mean once the police is there you can tell them the truth.
@@oscargruber8582 what if police don't believe you
@@JayCorr72 well thats a oof
Plot Twist: The Stalker was her long lost brother
😂😂😂 underrated comment
Gacha life gachalogic
@@umbarfatima5673 tbh 😂
Plot twist : she's from alabama
@@Sophia_Grace_12_17 thanks
The suspicious person will also be seeing this video 😂😂
Ya 😂😂
You are Crazy....
Agreed
Sus
YES
How to get a grilfriend: When a girl is in trouble and walk up to you being stalked, just say: "We still up for that date" and she'll have to say yes.
Easy pickings
Thank you rofl
It's not grilfriend. Its girlfriend..
@@flxwerplayz4719 nah man i like them grills
@@bad.at.videogames.5514 lolz okay
Me,a female,reading this comment like “ew”
*it could also be young boys and girls and maybe even men, if anyone of them come up to you, don’t turn them away!*
stalker: black hoodie and sunglasses
when he walks: la la la la la
Hello everyone
I am a small RUclipsr
Can u pls help me to reach 100 subscribers
@@chxrrycrafts ok
@@chxrrycrafts don't do this as a starter. You would have to earn subs.
This is so true XD
But u r a girl
Parents: Don't talk to strangers
Random RUclips Guy: Talk to strangers who are getting stalked
Lol
@Lulu Maria yeah
If we listen to our parents then we won't have any friends 😂
Yes
LOL!!!
Stalkers: WRITE THAT DOWN! WRITE THAT DOWN!
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
😂😂😂😂
WRITE THAT DOWN NOWW
“If a Stranger Acts Like Your Friend in Public, It’s a Cry for Help!”
That one moment in the mall with Shiggy and Deku: **are you sure about that**
Very specific reference
yessss
I remember that
yesssssssssssssss boi
LOL
But Deku is just a therapist for Shiggy. LOL
mALl tHeRaPiSt
The girl to her kids: and that's how I met your dad.
HAHAHAHAHA
Lololol
LOLLL
uhhhhhh, Uhhhhhhh, UHHHHHHHHHH......
🙀😸😸😸
😽😽😻😻😻😼😼😼😼
Every girl in movies and shows need to see this like seriously.
Relatable
Wahahahah
*is being followed, literally goes down a dark alley when spotting stalker*
So true
@@mempez8527 well its part of the movie
I always knew this was the smartest way to cry for help. I would hug someone and whisper "please help me I think someone is following me"
But the person may not hear you right make a step back and ask what did you say
You might scare them and before you open your mouth they might push you away.
What if a person approached you and she's a bait and she'll pretend someone's following her and they're planning that to do something to you
Yes this also could happen so be careful with that too!
Yep ... Thugs can use girls like this to lure you to a secluded are and jump you for your wallet... be very careful... even if their is someone following her it can be a ruse ... then that guy disappears and she is so grateful and leads your somewhere...
Scaryyy i dunno who to trusttt
depends on her/his behavior or Idk...
PLAY ALONG, PAY ATTENTION TO THE PERSONS BEHAVIOR, DON'T LEAVE THE CROWD, AND LOOK AROUND DONE!!
"He looks suspicious"
*"THAT GUY WAS NOT THE IMPOSTOR"*
WELL I L9VED THAT
1 impostor remains..?
Riley Is the Imposter!!!!!!
AMoNG uD
Love this game😂😂 play this everyday with my frnds in the evening.
Mall parking lots are dangerous places. Park as close as you can to the buildings and in well lighted areas where there are more people around. Always be aware of your surroundings. I saw a guy following me as I walking toward my car, and I walked faster, then he did. It was early in the evening, and starting to get dark. I noticed a group of well dressed people who looked like some friends going out to eat. I came up to them, and sort of signaled with my eyes and whispered that someone was following me. They caught on quickly, and I joined their group, strolling and chatting. After awhile, when the person had disappeared, they escorted me to my car. I will never forget their kindness.
yaay
so happy you are okay. hope you and those kind girls a nice a healthy life
Omo this comment made my day
So are residential streets. This includes the main roads in the city that connect with the various neighborhoods.
That's why you should never lose hope in humanity even though they do a lot of bad things.
Sometimes, stalkers won't always walk behind you. Its more common for them to casually cross in front of you wherever you go. Some kooky guy did this to me at a library. However, I finally got rid of him by going into the lady's room.
BTW, it would be nice to see a Bright Side video that instructs stalking victims what to do when nobody believes them, not even their own family.
A stranger is “The friend I never had”.
A bit like “The brother/sister I never had”.
Be honest, who learned more from RUclips than school
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Be honest you are sub to Robert
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Ahahahahah you think i am begging for likes? Nope
Me
@@NexusLiteOS of course you don’t. 😆
You don’t deserve to be a Justin y parody account if the best you can do is beg for likes on a bright side video
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Unless the person you walked up to is a stalker himself 😂
Exactly what I thought
For all we know someone in this comment section could be a stalker.........
Lol
@@Cousinwhoistgay owo
@@Cousinwhoistgay I can see you through your window
There was this one time I was sitting in the parking lot waiting for my friend to grab the milk when I noticed a girl a few meters away talking to a guy looking really suspicious and the girl also looked very nervous so immediately knew something was wrong. I left my car and went up to her and started acting like her friend and said "hey girl what are you doing here? I thought you were gonna meet me in the store?" I said and looked at the guy who was just staring and I asked him what was he doing and I kid you not he said "I was just asking her if she has a cat" I just grabbed the girl's wrist and asked her if she wanted to meet my friend in the store and she yes looking really nervous. Both of us bolted into the store to see my friend about to check out, the girl's actual name was Sooyoung, and to this day Sooyoung, SunWoo, and me best friends and whenever we tell anyone how we met they're always so shocked
people watching in 2019 : * sees them hugging * thats completely normal
people watching in 2020/2021 : *freaking out because they see people hugging*
Who was born randomly and started living regularly 😂😂😂
XDDDD
I wasnt born randomly😂
Couldn't be me 😔
nah i havent been born yet sadly :C i got bored in here so the doctors did surgery on my mom to put this tablet in here. theres still about 6 months till im born
@@Lunar612 😅
Best part . Stalker is also watching video.
New tactics
1 stalk the stalker. Make a stalker chain.
2 talk to the stalker, and act like you know them. This will confuse them.
3 Learn assassination skills, and take out the stalker in secret.
4 Call a taxi, and tell them to run over the nearest stalker.
LOL
Lol 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Last one got me dying
7:02 LoL😂look at the way the stalker guy is walking😂😂
Me: Watching this video
My brain: Go to comments section
Me: Why?
My brain: Just do it.
Who all experienced this?
Lol me
Me but I see the comment to see peoples opinion.
Me
Me
Lol so true
And I am that stranger who follows my friends.
Oh no 😂 😂
Then why are you watching this if you’re the creep? (Jk btw)
@@Angiesunshine13 He is watching this to know before his friend know it
@@Angiesunshine13 idk
Lol same
"Guys black is sus he keeps following me...."
There is one imposter among us
This happened to me once and I saw a sketchy guy was looking at us and I said, oh hey Alyssa you ready to go to the movies now? And we walked off
Plot twist: That the girl was making a prank video for youtube.
😂
😂😂
@UCHiHIbiVzLJ3mwqtTLSMdxg bhai plz meri 1k pahuch ne mai madad kardo
No she was with the so called stalker scheming something
😂
2020: guys just go coughing at their faces and they will run away in a matter of seconds
LOL
Ok
yeah they will run like the wind
@@kittyworld8873 but Karen's Don't run
Gods speed stalker gods speed
When being followed by someone who wants to kidnap you and do terrible things, now is the time to do some unfinished business like shopping, grabbing a coffee, GOING TO THE POLICE STATION UNSUSPICIOUSLY.
Thank you
Just to be clear who wouldn't want to hang out with a cute and nice random girl 💙
4:13 Yeah, people walk like that...
Edit: Thank you so much for all the likes guys!
🤣🤣
HEHEHEHE try this trick!
Play 4:13 in 1.75 speed
@@aulilarossi3557 Lol
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣
Dont be gangnam-style-walking-person-type phobic😡👊
I was driving through a not so nice neighborhood, sitting at a light, and a young woman came up to the car, saying she needed help. As I was talking to her, my son said,"Dad! Two guys are running up to the car with a baseball bat!" One swung and hit the roof of the car.
I hit the gas, and as I drove away, I saw the girl and the two guys go back into a doorway, waiting for another person to do, whatever... Rob, carjack GTA.
So, beware.
I like gta5 better then gta tho.
*alright I’ll see myself out.*
@Aaron Pressley whats so funny
I was thinking the same.. It also happens the other way..
My basic skill to send myself in this situation is to say out loud, “HEY, MY DAD JUST GOT PROMOTED AS A COP!”
😂
My dad is a police man
Alternate title: How to make friends with someone while your in danger.
That happened to me and my mom once we were in the store two teenage girls walked up to us and said "hey mom couldn't find the bread so I was wondering if you needed something else" I was confused at first but then saw a man in a hoodie that seemed to be following them so we played along.
that s awesome! cool that you were able to catch on
Wow that was close!
I woulda got the pepper spray, run up to the man and use it (yes I carry pepper spray EVERYWHERE with me)
The man in the hoodie mybe just so happen to walk the same direction as them?? Cant always assume
@@steve00alt70 But the way he was eyeing them and when I saw him around the store he wasn't looking for or getting anything just following around
Full story:they fall in love later
(*wattpad enters the chat*)
Wattpad: Ahh yes, I am familiar with this writing.
Get ready, the Gacha community is also coming
AO3: Hello my friends!
The way they run is amazing
"Out of everyone, she chooses you..."
I wish...
Imagine if the guy standing beside her in the train knows her 😂
and you approach to her talking casually......
ope
Naughty comment
That's just her boyfriend, having a fight with him
This video: educational and learning
Everyone: let's make this a meme
You did too now XD
Hes like kukezan tow
lol the youtube community is the best
557 likes
nice
Tbh
what if she wasn't in danger and just mistook you for someone else
Then she might say oh sorry I thought you were someone else. And like the vid says there are signs
I have been training since I was a kid with my dad on self defense and my dad used to be in a gang so he knows how bad people think he knows what kind of things they will do and what to watch out for. Just a tip from experience if you ever see someone or a shadow of someone Infront of your window don’t move. Don’t talk. Don’t yell. And most importantly don’t leave the room. This allows the potential threat to see you are aware of their presence instead get on your phone and text your mom or dad and if your older text the police or one of your friends or your parents to. You never want to go to the window to check if someone’s there because if you can see them they can see you. Most criminals check out the place a couple times before making a move so if the person leaves don’t think your safe. Go stay at a friends house or better yet have someone pick you up. This makes it to where if the criminal leaves you know your in danger call the police and let them know what time the criminal has been showing up around your house or have a family member stay at your house for a while if the person wants something to do with you they are going to get irritated and either leave or act out. You want the person to act out. Let them break into your house. Because then you have the advantage. Go to the farthest room away from the break in. And lock every door you go through. That makes them have to go through more doors. Take this time and call the police. The person will get arrested and you won’t have to deal with them. They all ready know that you are aware of them so there is no use in being quiet. the locked doors will buy you time. You want the police to understand you very clearly. Another thing is always befriend your neighbors they are the ones that will get to you the fastest they will deal with the intruder while the cops are on there way. Comment if this helps anybody!
this sound convince when living alone. :)
U and your dad are arrested
Belive it or not my mom met my dad because of this❤️ my mom and her friend were walking in the mall when a stranger followed them they tried going into the girls bathroom to shake him off but this stranger waited outside the bathroom so she and her friend dashed out the bathroom and went to the nearest store they ended up in a pet store and looked around and yes the stranger was there then my mom saw a man by the fish tank helping out a little girl he looked kind enough so she approached him and said “hi long time no see so this is were you work huh!?” My dad looked behind her and saw that a guy was staring straight at her so he replied “yha hehe this is embarrassing why dont we go to a cafe?” He said so they went to a cafe (mom said it was awkward) they stayed for a while and finally the stranger left. Once the cost was clear dad whispered “you girls ok?” Mom nodded then they exchanged numbers and that is how my mom met my daddy!☺️
Well that’s a story that’s interesting
Well your mom can relate to this
Thats a cute story
Oooo
Nice one
4th rule
"Be prepared"
Me as a weeb: *yare yare daze*
Oi oi oi matte matte
Nani??
Oya oya oya?
@@donaldtapere2963 lebayyy
EREHHH
And that's how they became best friends.
The “look my pictures that I post” part was mind blowing and by the way thank you for the video! I’m pretty sure it would help anyone out there love your vids bright side!
tip: a stalker might also be watching this video from another phone
Hey guys! Do you have at least basic skills to defend yourself?
ok
I have tazer and ready to taze that stalker.
Only if everyone can see this so the first option doesn’t happen
Yes
I have a big kitchen knife at home does that count?
Never approach a man in a car who screams "Ma'am! Ma'am! Ma'am!" after you he is probably looking to abduct you. Yes, it happened to me!
i would say "HEY WHY YAH FOLLOWIN ME HAH?!" then go "WANNA FIGHT?!, I HAVE ALOT OF CHAIN'S ON MY SKIRT!" *e-girl self intensifies*
I dont watch tiktok but LOL
Stay always positive. Always help people who needs help and never expect anything in return. You help someone today and life will help you too
Thanks
Subbed to ya
Who knows what you'll need help with tmw.
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what if the stalker watches this
ooooop
😀 i-
still works
Same thing when you watch a video about games and strategies to ''beat your enemies'' , at the same moment, your "enemy" also watches the video 😂
its okay because it will be easier for him to walk away and find someone else
One useful tip is not to be afraid to turn around and walk away when you feel like you’re walking into trouble.
I failed to do this once because I didn’t want to look weird or awkward. I ended up walking into a somewhat obvious mugging. Luckily I escaped harm because someone who was driving by stopped just in time to shine their headlights on us and the muggers immediately stopped a went away.
This is like a dating tip. I sure am going to use this.
thats how my uncle met my aunt
but u have to be careful though
@@yeasinchowdhury1176 rofl
The stalker: walks
My brain: *he has tapeworms*
4:05
Its such a serious topic and I laughed for this man's walk.
I am also Sanvi
Even me 😂
gonna give me nightmares
Same here😂😂😂
Me too 😂
I will remember this forever because this is useful in the situation.
This one time someone was following this girl so she pretended to know me and my friend and my friend didn’t get it even tho the girl winked at us so I elbowed him and just played along
5:30 "say something casual" Oh hey kiddo! ah yes because you would say that to a similarly aged woman casually
Yea that what i noticed too 😂
@@k03n360 ikr it seems like a werid thing to say
That happened to me once I thought the dude was mental or something
Probably a very big mistake you did
Then what happened?
Then what happened?
NOOOO!! OMFG I CAN'T
@@aluisfar4154 _Pls Subscribe me friend, I also make space & Science related videos. My dream is to get 1k subscribers😊_
What if te guy and the stalker were friend's
And be like:
Ehek I got her
CONGRATULATIONS BRIGHT SIDE YOU ARE NOW THE SUPER HERO FOR TELLING PEOPLE WHAT TO DO IN THESE SITUATIONS!
Plot twist the girl was actually trying to follow the nice guy and the dude in black was trying to warn him
Plot twist: This is a tutorial on how to make friends
Edit: If you are confused why they call me Bakugo's mom it's because I once had my name into "Mitsuki Bakugo"
Ok?
What is bakugo's mom doing here
Hi bakuhoe’s mom
Hi bakuhoes mom¡¡¡¡
Hello Bakugo's Mom!
Im trying to take this video seriously but the way the stalker is running/walking is killing me 😭🤣
Me too😂😂
Same
Lol
Moral of the story:
Theres a 90% chance the stranger is in danger.
Theres a 2% chance the stranger has some sort of mind thing.
Theres a 8% chance the stranger thought you were somebody else.
Go with the ods to save a life.
No one:
Not even the guy in the ice cream truck:
Stalker: Skip Skip skip
I'm not supposed to laugh on how they run or walk but i-BAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHA
Some are just nicer than others and feel completely comfortable communicating with strangers in public. Not everything has to have some doom and gloom angle to it
I don't think she's scared of him, she's scared on how he's running.
Alternate title: how to make a new freind
That’s kinda wholesome
Ah yes Friendship Lesson
And a new girlfriend
@@sandychen1381 🤣🤣
@@sandychen1381 no
NEVER discourage anyone who continuously makes progress, no matter how slow. 💜💫
U r right
.UR.RIGHT.
Are you referring to the stalker?
Ehat
👍Right
Thanks for the tip! This is so helpful 👍
7:36 AND THERE YOU GO, YOU GOT A GIRLFRIEND 😅, by saving her😅✌
“Firstly your names james” how did he know my name-
Lolll
XD
This is something everyone should know about
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Ya mabe share it?
Except the stalker
The way they run tho! It’s hilarious 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
I live in Europe and i was alone in my local store.and when i was leaving to go home, this girl about 18 yrs old came up to me and started acting like i was her brother, i am currently 17 and i realised that she was worried because she was shaking. And we walked talked i asked her did you follow to my instagram?as i wrote: “is anything wrong?”She nodded. So we were walking for hours i saw a man in a blue shirt that was constantly following us. And i kept talking and as we crossed the road i decided to turn back and say something to him. He then pretended to go. Then i walked this girl home because she was really scared she seemed so and i said goodbye to her.
This video really helped.
"Trust your gut"
Well that's gonna be hard
It helps to whisper to the stranger (please pretend you know me & don’t look behind me ) Give them a hint as to what’s going on. It’s Social Distancing now
Or act if your checking the time but right "help me there is someone following me act as if you know me" Or "act if you know me, some one is following me
Idk if it will work ;-;
bts fan everywhere these days
@@wongpentelglobal where?
in the comments
@@wongpentelglobal I have not seen one?
The way the stalker was running made it so hard not to laugh.
Thank you so much for the information, now I know what to do if that happens ever! : )
Have a beautiful day everyone❤
Stay safe and blessed
Sending virtual hugs and lots of love❤
@@DguysFf bruh stop
Dont hug me :/
@@bigbigbigbigpeppafan213 Wow rude, she’s just trying to spread some positivity here. Also it’s called a *virtual* hug. I’m not sure if you know what that even means. Please think before commenting.
Question: Why are they walking like that?
Because this is how people normally walk, I mean I walk like that...
@@pinnacle9774 🤣
"And that's how I met your dad"
Tell the person you approach what is happening quietly.
Make them aware that you could be in danger and tell them to act as their friend
Im 31yo have 2 kids and i literally have zero friends to hang out with. All of my friends passed away or have major drug issues so i dont associate with them anymore. Sometimes i wish i had friends like when i was younger
Sorry fo your losses.
I am sorry for my behaviour
I can become your friend!!!!😉😃😃😄😄
Sorry for your loss
Thanks everyone im extremely lonely my neighbors even talk about me and make fun of me everytime i go out they all talk and laugh when i pass by. I feel like i dont fit in anymore but when i was younger i had alot of friends
Sometimes I am being friendly to stanger not because I need help, it just becuase naturally friendly. Trusting our gut is really important. Stay safe but stay friendly as well, my friends.
Thank you
Knowledge like this should be mandatory in schools
yesssssss school would be soooooo much better
Stalker: *stares*
Me: *stares back at them to assert dominance*