How My Family Reacted To Me Coming Out - TikTok Compilation

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  • @karmaruiz8972
    @karmaruiz8972 3 года назад +243

    " who wants pancakes?"
    *Dies from cancer*
    I shouldn't be laughing

  • @S_ummerday_Z
    @S_ummerday_Z 3 года назад +733

    The first one... I can’t- ✋🏽

    • @zatarafrank8798
      @zatarafrank8798 3 года назад +78

      who wants panckaes

    • @oshannitacabrona2678
      @oshannitacabrona2678 3 года назад

      🤡🤡🤡shut up Fyndee Boyy BigTUpNext and 6IX9INE fan🤮

    • @Gadileoo
      @Gadileoo 3 года назад +42

      The grandpa dies from cancer

    • @TheDiamondMaskBSS
      @TheDiamondMaskBSS 2 года назад +42

      **Dies from cancer**
      AYO this shit too hilarious what 💀💀 LMAOOO

    • @Jayden__12
      @Jayden__12 2 года назад +3

      Ikr 😅😭😂

  • @Abiownbagiown
    @Abiownbagiown 2 года назад +213

    “Cool I don’t even like your husband go get me a daughter in law”
    🤣🤣🤣 XD that’s beautiful lol

  • @YardLongBeans
    @YardLongBeans 3 года назад +239

    2:09 as a twin, I told my twin sister I was bi, she said “ok” (that was two years ago) she always tells me, “are you sure you are bisexual?” I say “why” and she replies with “idk you look and act like a lesbian” that’s the best thing to hear because she doesn’t care if I’m not straight. My siblings and mom(kinda) support me, my dad on the other hand, he says he loves me but he doesn’t accept me. It’s better than him hating me tho 🏃‍♀️

    • @josiahtoner3806
      @josiahtoner3806 2 года назад +4

      Ok so I’m also a bi twin brother, my brother somehow figured it out and is using it as a weapon if I ever do anything dumb, he says he wishes I was straight because it is weird. AND HE KEEPS OUTING ME TO MY FRIENDS

    • @VioIetRamirez
      @VioIetRamirez 6 месяцев назад

      @@josiahtoner3806that’s fricked up wish u da best💚

  • @dark-san.
    @dark-san. 3 года назад +254

    "Who wants pancakes"
    Me: Pft-

    • @crossgame9479
      @crossgame9479 3 года назад +14

      And then dad dies from cancer???!! I started laughing at pancake and they dropped that bomb

    • @manuelg.e.8948
      @manuelg.e.8948 2 года назад +1

      @@crossgame9479 Fr I was like watch dad say I want some but then-

    • @DinosaurNick
      @DinosaurNick 2 года назад

      That pancake comment sounds like something I'd say to stop a fight XD

  • @oreo-sr2pq
    @oreo-sr2pq 3 года назад +77

    2:19
    Remembers folks, a child being homophobic is *not* always the parents fault.
    Many people blame the parents, but sometimes it’s due to who the son hangs out with. Sometimes they might hang with toxic people who might be homophobic as well. The parents don’t always know.
    I have experienced this *myself* as a genderfluid, gay/lesbian individual.
    My former boyfriend of 4 years was abusive. He was racist and homophobic. His parents were very supportive, even his sister. His sister confronted to her parents about it and they started scolding the crap out of him.

  • @quietwolf1567
    @quietwolf1567 2 года назад +49

    8:58 I love how they’re mom and older sister made bets on they’re sexuality and how they’re family was so cool and supportive.

  • @mickey.isrllycool
    @mickey.isrllycool 3 года назад +116

    I’m lesbian
    I thought you were American
    I just cracked up

  • @eugenegubbard4017
    @eugenegubbard4017 2 года назад +28

    "That's not what we taught you! You're just brainwashed!"
    BRO, THE *IRONY!!* 😂😂😂

  • @ToriScarlett
    @ToriScarlett 3 года назад +21

    When it said *dies of cancer*, it took every single force within me not to holler because that ain’t funny and hell is hot. 😭😭😭

  • @jada2228
    @jada2228 3 года назад +323

    they’re all so brave for coming out tho!! :)

    • @Little_Rat1
      @Little_Rat1 3 года назад +2

      Yep!

    • @Little_Rat1
      @Little_Rat1 3 года назад +6

      I'm only out to my brother so far, but mother kept bringing up the LGBTQ+ community the other day and got mad at me when I didn't wanna bash on nb people, so she's probably gonna know I'm a lesbian soon, but I don't really care if she gets mad or not, the only person I'm close to in my family is my brother and he supports me

    • @NOTKERMITTED
      @NOTKERMITTED 3 года назад

      @@oshannitacabrona2678 wow, stfu

    • @oshannitacabrona2678
      @oshannitacabrona2678 3 года назад +1

      @@NOTKERMITTED no nigga

    • @oshannitacabrona2678
      @oshannitacabrona2678 3 года назад

      @@NOTKERMITTED you're an ugly king von hater and 69 fan

  • @muttsleeps
    @muttsleeps 2 года назад +29

    It’s sad that after all those years they say they don’t accept you, coming out is scary. I came out to my mom as non-binary and she said it was stupid. I’m talking to some teachers at school to find a way to make her accept me. I’m scared for what will happen but I’m sure she won’t leave me.

    • @respectallpeople4512
      @respectallpeople4512 2 года назад +1

      Hey, it's a been a while and I'm just checking in and letting you know that you will always be valid in my eyes, I hope everything is going well for you and if you ever need anyone to talk to, I'm here for you

    • @muttsleeps
      @muttsleeps 2 года назад +1

      @@respectallpeople4512 I’m so glad you commented/replied. My mom finally accepts me and I got to change my name

    • @respectallpeople4512
      @respectallpeople4512 2 года назад +1

      @@muttsleeps awe I'm so happy for you! It took a while but I'm sure it was worth it. I'm really glad you get to finally be yourself. Can I ask what your name is now?

    • @muttsleeps
      @muttsleeps 2 года назад +1

      @@respectallpeople4512 My name is now ‘officially’ Milo :D everyone at school respects me too so I’m really happy

    • @respectallpeople4512
      @respectallpeople4512 2 года назад +1

      @@muttsleeps Well I absolutely love the name. I'm so happy for you. I remember liking your username when I first read it because it's super cool. I'm glad everything worked out just fine for you :)

  • @cameurysm
    @cameurysm 3 года назад +14

    THE FIRST ONE- 🙈😭

  • @charlieb.6172
    @charlieb.6172 2 года назад +10

    I love the lesbian in a Mexican household one 😆
    Everyone: *discusses her sexuality*
    Youngest: TACOS!!!!!
    At least she was trying to diffuse the situation :)
    But I laughed so hard at the girl whose entire family knew she was gay and even were taking bets on it 😂

  • @LeObeseSeagull
    @LeObeseSeagull 3 года назад +24

    They did somethin that I never could T^T I swear to Satan I would never tell my mom anything about my private life or I'd visit my coffin early

    • @kyotto4111
      @kyotto4111 3 года назад +3

      Same especially my dad he would kick me out👀 he told us if one us is part of the lgbt or sum he would kick us out

    • @Fanaticillusion
      @Fanaticillusion 2 года назад

      Honestly same, which is why I wanted to search up coming out stories to see what could be the worst that could happen

  • @frogmilkk
    @frogmilkk 3 года назад +5

    people with the supportive parents are SO lucky
    Like I tried to say I was bi to my mom and she just said “I don’t know how I feel about that ……..😐😐😐😐” and then it was silence for 3 minutes LMAO

  • @bennett9475
    @bennett9475 2 года назад +4

    1:30 he’s a little confused, but he’s got the spirit

  • @kiemcoree
    @kiemcoree 3 года назад +50

    How do I confess to my grandmother about me being Bisexual or possibly Bi-curious, Most of my friends are straight but my friends who are lgbt are still closeted- So i’m relying on the comments please help me 😀

  • @min6914
    @min6914 3 года назад +15

    I'm surprised that there's hardly any comments!

  • @alexanderalex8994
    @alexanderalex8994 2 года назад +5

    congrats for those who accepted by their families and friends. but those who are not accepted like me... FIGHTING!!!!

  • @yourmommmmm264
    @yourmommmmm264 3 года назад +5

    THE SECOND ONE IS SO CUTE OMG

  • @Alexa-mt7lc
    @Alexa-mt7lc 3 года назад +8

    1:53 the dad i can't-

  • @mammothProfessional
    @mammothProfessional 2 года назад +7

    omfg why are aunts so supportive 😭

  • @kawaiigirlauthor-chan7506
    @kawaiigirlauthor-chan7506 3 года назад +3

    Omg the second one is so wholesome

  • @OliverandAverie858
    @OliverandAverie858 7 месяцев назад +1

    4:05 “the gays” got me on the floor laughing

  • @Audrey-ct9kb
    @Audrey-ct9kb 3 года назад +1

    2:42 why u so formal! 🤣 also good for u for coming out!!

  • @Chaotic_Person101
    @Chaotic_Person101 2 месяца назад

    **wakes up to pride skittles on my desk**
    THAT IS THE CUTEST THING I HAVE HEARD TODAY.

  • @alexanderlaurens3103
    @alexanderlaurens3103 3 года назад +19

    Ok fr I thought my mom was homophobic but when I came out to her as bisexual she was like lol me too 😂

  • @Lili.prplmoon
    @Lili.prplmoon 3 года назад +18

    I’m watching these until I build up the courage to come out

    • @lili_2713
      @lili_2713 3 года назад +2

      Me too ( you have the same Name as Me , Lili)

  • @Caerda
    @Caerda 2 года назад +1

    The "who wants pancakes" absolutely killed it

  • @dylanwalker6361
    @dylanwalker6361 Год назад +1

    The italian immigrant grandparents are the best, they supported her and loved her, just as any grandparent should

  • @alexisgiles1909
    @alexisgiles1909 3 года назад +6

    "You cant like girls if you have had a boyfriend"
    My mom got married had 3 kids before she came out

    • @DinosaurNick
      @DinosaurNick 2 года назад +1

      My cousin got married and had 1 kid ... now he lives with his husband

  • @Iadoretravisphelps
    @Iadoretravisphelps Год назад

    “wakes up to pride skittles on my desk”
    why is that funny👹

  • @Robyn_iz_Here
    @Robyn_iz_Here 2 года назад +2

    The dad's response at 1:48 made me lose it

  • @Maxymoon1
    @Maxymoon1 2 месяца назад

    “Who wants pancakes?”
    *5 seconds later*
    *dies from cancer*
    Ik I shouldn’t be laughing but 😂😂😂

  • @sandyrogers7035
    @sandyrogers7035 Год назад

    I am glad you all are able to come out

  • @dontcare6863
    @dontcare6863 3 года назад +4

    my coming out:
    texts my sister an entire essay about how I feel and how much I love her and hope she supports me
    *leaves me on delivered for a week*
    her: ok I skimmed through it and I understood nothing it went from how much you love me to how gae you are wtf 🤣
    me: yeah I'm gae
    her: yeah I know like literally you and your "friend" are the worst liers also can I call you lil skittle now? 🤣

  • @michaelmyers8269
    @michaelmyers8269 3 года назад +7

    Me I came out to my mom months ago and I thought she accepted me cause she said she’ll support me and stuff and ofc I was really happy but after that day she then told me to pray to god that he’ll make me straight… it still hurts till this day and then she was like I’ll still change but what if I won’t!? And I don’t think she fully supported me being les so yeah and I don’t have someone to talk to… and it’s really really really hard keeping it to myself cause that word kept me awake every night just to cry the pain out…

  • @D0MINIKwuzHEREEE1244
    @D0MINIKwuzHEREEE1244 6 месяцев назад

    The italian grandparents were so sweet🤯😭😭

  • @CJStolke
    @CJStolke 2 месяца назад

    "Korey I like girls."
    "gay"
    I am dying🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @sienbrug2689
    @sienbrug2689 Год назад

    No but why did I laugh that the random ‘dies of cancer’ at the first one😅

  • @alllittlethingzz
    @alllittlethingzz 3 года назад +5

    When I came out as Bi to my parents I told my mom after my therapy appointment my junior year of high school and my mom didn’t believe me and said it was a phase and etc and I told my dad throughout a text and we never talked about it

  • @wendigo16vibes
    @wendigo16vibes 3 года назад +8

    Hi! I'm queer and I am low key addicted to serotonin (that's why I need cuddles all the freaking time)
    You are valid and ducking beautiful. So queen, pick yourself up and sashay down the runway.
    Sending love :) ❤

  • @triviathesheepvideos6337
    @triviathesheepvideos6337 2 года назад +3

    0:29 omg sis 1 actually has a brain

  • @Wolf-bf6qq
    @Wolf-bf6qq 3 года назад +11

    “Love is supposed to be of a man and a woman”
    LOVE IS LOVE

  • @imonlyabee5272
    @imonlyabee5272 2 года назад

    I shouldn’t have burst out laughing in the first one when the dad finally did something 😭

  • @Kkqum
    @Kkqum 3 года назад +5

    I still haven't come out cus I have indian parents and my parents don't even let me watch stuff like that so ima wait until I'm 16 or 19

  • @S_M_M_1111
    @S_M_M_1111 3 года назад +3

    "Korey I like girls"
    "Gay"

  • @123silenthillfan
    @123silenthillfan 3 года назад +1

    5:14 well, that was a roller-coaster

  • @llCHAR10TT3ll
    @llCHAR10TT3ll Год назад

    *dies from cancer* GOT ME DEAD ON THE FLOOR

  • @UnnieEchoLovesKpop
    @UnnieEchoLovesKpop 13 дней назад

    1:18
    AWWWW MY GOOOOD SO SWEET UNTIL THE END

  • @Itsrouquit
    @Itsrouquit 4 месяца назад

    Im personally straight but this is the funniest stuff ive seen all day💀

  • @blukosmos
    @blukosmos 3 года назад +3

    My face during the first one: 😀😕😡😳

  • @non-binarygopher801
    @non-binarygopher801 3 года назад +3

    My grandma kept pushing me to be with a guy after I came out as lesbian
    Then kept pushing me to be a girl after I came out as nby
    Also she keeps making up stupid excuses for me not to come out to other people and with the excuse “I’m just protecting your heart”
    And started drama multiple times over it
    *now I don’t wanna tell her I’m bisexual-*

  • @ughchelsey
    @ughchelsey 3 года назад +3

    they’re so sweet 😭😭😭

  • @Starzzforyou
    @Starzzforyou Год назад +1

    I laughed so hard on the third one when it said mom: heart attack 😰 no no no please stay in your marriage.
    Dad: cool I don’t even like your husband go get me a daughter in law

  • @aubreyechols9
    @aubreyechols9 Год назад

    The first one
    Sis 3: …… “ who wants pancakes ?😃”

  • @jillyoffical
    @jillyoffical 2 года назад

    2nd was so wholesome

  • @colinz24067
    @colinz24067 2 года назад +1

    my family’s reaction:
    💁(me): I’m bisexual
    👱🏻‍♀️(older sis): really? since when?
    👩🏻‍🦰(younger sis): I f***ing knew it
    👩🏻(mom): okay. whatever makes you happy
    👨🏻‍🦲(dad): ………(I think he fell asleep mid conversation)

  • @madeline6821
    @madeline6821 2 года назад

    8:15 that Siri “haha” 🤣🤣

  • @Amyisnthere-u9i
    @Amyisnthere-u9i 5 месяцев назад

    In the 1st one Sister 3 seems like the chillest person ever
    Mom: how dare you be you
    Sister 3 anyone want pancakes
    Dad dies from cancer

  • @rickscool
    @rickscool 2 года назад

    bro some of these be making me dying

  • @tigerlover47
    @tigerlover47 3 года назад

    Omg the first one, I just can't 😂😂

  • @777.raya.
    @777.raya. 2 года назад +1

    1:50 the reaction from the dad is ☺️👍👌

  • @Cygnusart0843
    @Cygnusart0843 2 года назад +1

    I love how the dad in the first one didn’t say anything
    Also I think it was sister three who said let’s get pancakes, that would be me, I would be so awkward I wouldn’t know what to say and I would just try to change the subject lol

  • @Ratamovie
    @Ratamovie 7 месяцев назад

    The mother: no stay in your marriage: dad: nah give me a daughter- in- law😂

  • @connorplays4571
    @connorplays4571 2 года назад

    The pride skittles though lol.

  • @woningagemo1334
    @woningagemo1334 2 года назад

    Ain't nobody goin talk about the fact the twin said " just choose to be straight again " ?????????????!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @Punkiethesnail
    @Punkiethesnail 2 года назад +1

    the black ring one is funny cuz last time I checked only people on the asexual spectrum wear them (I would know, I am ace) but maybe other identities are starting to pick up on it too??

  • @theprehistoricpoet
    @theprehistoricpoet 2 года назад

    Proud To Be Gay!🌈
    I met someone earlier today
    " Look I said, I think I'm gay!"
    They then hurried off the other way
    Honesty doesn't always pay
    It only keeps my friends at bay
    I'll tell you something if I may
    I made a big mistake today
    In future, I think I'll say...
    ......NOTHING!
    Two of the greatest stigmas in society, are being GAY or suffering with DEPRESSION. We are judged just by the word alone! Never being given the opportunity to show the real us.
    Being able to share is important to our mental health, even if it is with just one person! Never carry the burden of a secret alone,
    it's detrimental to our health & wellbeing.

  • @smilezyt7462
    @smilezyt7462 2 года назад

    6:10 not the youngest- just get her some tacos 😭

  • @millie..
    @millie.. 2 года назад +1

    3:39 LMAO

  • @kurtsmellslikeadeodorantbr1865
    @kurtsmellslikeadeodorantbr1865 2 года назад

    “I’m a lesbian”
    “I thought you were American”
    LMAOOOO 💀💀💀

  • @meja4546
    @meja4546 3 года назад +7

    Im think of coming out to my parentes as bisexual but im kinda scared, i'll uptade y'all

    • @DinosaurNick
      @DinosaurNick 2 года назад

      No update in 8 months ... I'm concerned ... they didn't kill you did they?

    • @NoMyNameIsNOTClaire
      @NoMyNameIsNOTClaire Год назад

      its been 2 years, update?

  • @ml9789
    @ml9789 2 года назад

    Ok I was in the moment of anger when the mom said “your going to hell cause ur gay” and then the sis straight up says “who wants pancakes 🥞”

  • @OliverandAverie858
    @OliverandAverie858 7 месяцев назад

    THE FIRST ONE LMAO

  • @oculusanji24fe48
    @oculusanji24fe48 2 года назад

    Some of the way the family responded negativity I was just like " bruhhhhhh "

  • @girlinred_stan5.fanacc
    @girlinred_stan5.fanacc Год назад

    The second one is giving my nonna. If I came out as lesbian to her she would just be like “cool me too”

  • @crybaby_M00N
    @crybaby_M00N 2 года назад

    I would most likely end up being that grandparent in the last video

  • @markdragon9395
    @markdragon9395 2 года назад +3

    It’s really bad when parents bring up god or religion, when one's sexual orientation has nothing to do with god or any religion. in fact, I personally believe that religions have lost the true meaning of being religious. in itself the term religion simply means "that which unites" which has then been mystified over time into "that which unites with god", where god or any deity one believes in becomes the idealized embodiment of one's selfish expectations, which is not only stupid but also senseless.
    Nonetheless we have to think that in ancient Greece being gay was socially accepted, at the time there was a philosophical belief developed by a Greek philosopher who hypothesized that two souls (male and female, male and male, female and female) were joined even before to be born and then to be separated after birth, so here is the innate need to search for one's "soul mate". moreover, the term "Sapphic" originated from a famous poetess of ancient Greece or Sappho, who composed very moving poems, often dealing with unrequited love. Thinking that tens of centuries have passed and homophobia is still present and being gay or lesbian is not yet socially accepted all over the world makes us think about how we are so intellectually undeveloped and even retrograde.

  • @spirit9770
    @spirit9770 3 года назад

    "Dies from cancer" LMFAO

  • @DrVmPRs
    @DrVmPRs 2 года назад

    The first one is how my mom would reading

  • @walterwhite4693
    @walterwhite4693 11 месяцев назад

    Second video: here's some money sweetie, just let me give you some money!!!

  • @Blackcoffeeplaylists
    @Blackcoffeeplaylists Месяц назад

    IM SORRY BUT THE FIRST ONE I WAS DYING. I feel bad for the person but fucking hell bro-

  • @eleanor8160
    @eleanor8160 2 года назад

    this is my closet, i shall forever reside in it

  • @dinnerhostage7956
    @dinnerhostage7956 Год назад +1

    3:13 sigma dad

  • @jj-of3vk
    @jj-of3vk 3 года назад +2

    I wish I would have come out the normal way... my newly turned 12 year old self decided to post a TikTok where I came out to my grandpa PUBLICLY and of course, friends of my parents saw it and decided to OUT ME to them... my parents later talked to me and were like "you have to be careful on what you post on the internet, we saw what you posted on TikTok and our friends told us. It's okay to be gay, but just don't post it publicly on the internet." I cried that night and I instantly regretted what I had done and I still regret it... how could I be so stupid!??!?! I really just wanna go back in time and come out to them a different way (like sitting them down and telling them myself) :( So basically my coming out story to my parents is basically just me being outed and me being stupid. :)

    • @DinosaurNick
      @DinosaurNick 2 года назад +2

      Hey, at least they support you. It could've gone a lot worse. *hugs*

  • @GuggleyEyes
    @GuggleyEyes Год назад

    Bro most of the dads were chill af and kinda had a idgaf

  • @callumdolten7486
    @callumdolten7486 2 года назад

    That first one 😂😂

  • @ra1n1-i4k
    @ra1n1-i4k 2 года назад +1

    5:12 GOT ME LAUGHING SO HARD

  • @UnnieEchoLovesKpop
    @UnnieEchoLovesKpop 13 дней назад

    0:46
    She’s a real one

  • @cosmic....
    @cosmic.... 3 года назад +1

    My nonna and nonno are the best!!

  • @Kangaroo_roony
    @Kangaroo_roony 2 года назад +6

    *my story is kinda long just an fyi*
    recently i've realized im non-binary and i go by they/them. I also like to paint so i made a painting of the non-binary flag and my pronouns. My mom was like whats that? And i was like pronouns. And she was like for who? And i was like me. Then she has the audacity to look me dead in the eyes and go "im not calling you that they're too annoying." Leaves my room. So i took the painting down and changed it. Then i have a whole meltdown. And my mom comes back like 20 mins later to tell me a joke and goes "why did you take it down." The audacity is disgusting.

    • @DinosaurNick
      @DinosaurNick 2 года назад

      Oh no. Here I'll help you! *Gives them a big hug, and tells them they're valid and loved and helps them make a new painting to hang on their wall of themself in non-binary colors*

  • @kivi9_9
    @kivi9_9 Год назад

    How my family reacted:
    My mom: ok and what (basically ahe was relieved I didn't tell her something scary, cuz I was like preparing her for that conversation lmao)
    My sis: Ok
    My bro: That's disgusting I love you but I hope you'll never be with a woman and be normal even if it hurts you
    Basically it was like a very positive reaction if we don't take my brother, but he was only 12 then (nothing really changed tho)

  • @connorlindmeyer
    @connorlindmeyer Год назад

    “Korey I like girls” Korey “GAY”

  • @versedxxx8805
    @versedxxx8805 2 года назад

    Korey a goat for that

  • @r.i.peddiestrangerthings6002
    @r.i.peddiestrangerthings6002 2 года назад

    1:38 in made my heart melt lol

  • @user-dk2eb1bq8o
    @user-dk2eb1bq8o 3 года назад +2

    HAPPY PRIDE MONTH

  • @1996_mazda_rx7
    @1996_mazda_rx7 Год назад

    Me(13): Mom, dad, i’m Bisexual
    Mom: It’s a phase
    dad: you’re still my daughter and i love you either way
    3 years later..
    16 y/o me: mom, dadi’m still bisexual
    her: still a phase
    dad: i still love you

  • @happytortoisee
    @happytortoisee 2 года назад

    Here's how mine went
    The day before:
    Me: mom I have to tell you something tomorrow
    Mom: why can't you just tell me now
    Me: I want dad to be there
    The time of:
    Dad: so what did you want to tell mom and me when you were being dramatic yesterday?
    Me: well um I'm- uh
    Dad: you're what?
    Me: well I've been thinking about this for a while and I think I'm genderfluid
    Dad: oh ok you didn't have to be so dramatic
    * proceeds to Mini lecture me on being dramatic *
    Me: ok well anyways, do you know what genderfluid is?
    Dad: yes and I have a friend who
    * proceeds to talk about how his friend could be described as genderfluid for nit very long but a bit *
    Me: anyway, I use all pronouns. Do you know how to use all pronouns?
    Dad: no
    Me: well um I use all pronouns which means you can all me she/her he/him they/them on anything else and you can use them interchangeable- but you don't have to!! You can just keep using she/her if it's the most comfortable for you!!!
    Dad: (I don't remember what he said but it was basically just ok)
    Me: also I'd like to cut my hair
    Mom: we can talk about that later
    Me: ok
    Dad: just remember your brain is growing
    Me: um ok
    I think this went pretty well but most of it was lecturing me about being dramatic lol but I do wish they'd said that they love me and they're here for me or something