I struggled with depression in 1996-98. My doctor explained to me that it's harder for Christians to accept because we think we can give it over to God and we'll be better. He then proceeded to tell me God made doctors, pharmacists, counselors, etc and it is His wish for us to use these when needed. Made a world of difference! Prayers for you!!
Joy you can get help from your doctor I've got depression a little bad. I take medicine for it. I've got my ups and downs days I'm not perfect and no one else. You just got to fight it everyday and be there for your kiddos and your hubby It's a everyday struggle to have it.
It's not that we ask to feel this way. Everyone wants to be happy. The struggles are real. It's about time people took mental health more seriously. Let's all help each other by not ignoring and sharing more. 🙏😍
Seeing all those reactions, Joy, you did a good thing to speak openly about your struggles. It can certainly help other women, that it certainly not abnormal to have those 'problems'. All that hiding makes only things worse! Let we all, as women, be open about our health, that's not weakness!!!!
Very kind and brave of Joy to be so open and transparent on her struggles. I think everytime someone shares thier struggles, it makes it easier for someone else to ask for help. Bless Joy! Such an authentic and good person❤ FYI Joy you are not alone! We all have those extremely difficult days where we just feel completely overwhelmed and depleted.
Everyone has bad days Joy, you took the first step by seeing your Doctor! You are a wonderful wife and a amazing mother! I'll be praying for you and your family❤️🙏🙏🙏❤️🇨🇦
Praying for you Joy. It’s so refreshing watching a family that is real. A lot of channels post the perfect unattainable life and y’all are real. Love it❤❤❤
I'm so impressed with your strength and willingness to see help. PPD is not a sign of weakness and doesn't make you a bad mom. You and your family will be so much better off with proper medical care. Thank you for sharing what you are going through. It will help a lot of women.
When I started to have anxiety, depression, and low motivation, my wonderful doctor checked my thyroid and found out I had a very low functioning thyroid and an autoimmune disease called Hashimotos. After thyroid medication, I felt a million times better. After my second child, I lost my baby because of my untreated Hashimotos. It's very common for women to trigger this disease after birthing and feeding multiple kids. I'm a pastor's wife and homeschooling mom of 5. My life is busy and there are always ups and downs of being a SAHM, but understanding my disease (and after lifestyle changes), I have so much more joy. Praying that your name becomes your reality soon.
A couple of days ago I was thinking about when my daughter was around two, I’d give her a big spoon and turn the water hose on a very small stream and she was content playing in the mud for as long as she could, when I’d check on her, her little terry cloth panties were soaked in water and mud and just barely hanging on. As long as she was happy in the mud puddle she’d made I could get the house cleaned, do some laundry and take care of her baby brother, (now deceased 😢) I’m grateful for memories like those and feel so sorry for children who are glued to some screen and have no idea how much fun they could have outside. One other thing in my memory bank is taking my kids and nephews crawdad fishing! They always caught crawdads, always, whereas they may fish for hours and not catch any fish. I’ve taught several neighborhood kiddos how to fish for crawdads and they all loved it, only required a piece of string, a washer, and a small piece of bacon. 😊 By the way, my daughter who loved to play in the mud is now a grandmother herself! 😊 Joy, please take care of yourself, any depression is difficult to deal with, if you need medication get it, there is no harm in getting the help you need to deal with such an insidious mental illness. I first voiced the feeling of depression to my Mother when I was 8yo, she brushed it aside saying I was just down in the dumps. When I first told my Mother, people didn’t discuss depression if they even knew what it was, and if they talked about it, it was in a hushed tone, so I really couldn’t blame my Mother for not realizing that what I felt was serious. I lead a pretty normal life in spite of depression, but when I finally sought professional help and was given medication my life became so, so much better!
@@SweetPea6348 please talk to your Dr about it, grab that depression by the horns (so to speak) and keep it under control, don't let it control You! Don't be afraid or ashamed to ask for help, there is help out there! God Bless You, I'll keep you in my prayers 🙏🙏🙏
Giving life to a little human takes a lot out of us. Never feel ashamed for asking for help. You are doing an amazing job. I remember having four under the age of six. It’s a lot. Then a took a 17 year break and started all over again and had my sweet baby girl. Being a mom is very rewarding but it can be a tough job also. ❤
Joy, God puts people in our paths to help us navigate through the difficult times of our lives. I encourage you to avail yourself of all the help that is available to you. Talking also helps to put everything into prospective. If he brings you to it, HE will walk you thru it. ❤
Life is hard!! There isn't anything wrong with asking for help or taking antidepressants. I was in a very dark place and thankfully talked to my Dr. and started a low dose of medicine. I feel SO much better ! Sending hugs ❤
Joy take care of yourself absolutely. I am 70 and when I had my child my family told me to suck it up who did I think I was. everyone has problems.I wish I was as strong as you to get help and not be ashamed.
Thank you so much for sharing!!! I’m so happy you have a good DR and therapist and please know YOU are very much not alone either. Thanks for helping people with your platform!
Thank you for trusting us enough to share. I’m struggling with my anxiety/depression as well as grief from loosing my grandma. I have birth and lost my grandma and closest cousin all within 4 years.. it’s not easy but with God we can get through it all. I’ll keep you in my prayers
@followtheforsyths. Joy thank you so much for opening up and sharing what you’re going through. I’m 59 so I’m past all this but lord I remember it I felt so sad and so alone but I don’t really have anyone to talk to or compare it with. You are helping so many NEW Mommas who are following you and making them feel NOT alone. You’re making them felt seen and heard. I love your heart & vulnerability. Praying for you sweet girl Hugs xoxoxo
I'm so glad you feel comfortable sharing and that you went to your doctor. When my daughter was born (29 yrs ago on Sunday!) I went through some major post partum but it wasn't something anyone talked about then. It's a relief that women no longer have to suffer in silence and it's not taboo to talk about. Good job Joy - and remember - it won't last forever even though it feels like it and it DOES get better.
I'm so proud of you for taking care of your physical and mental health. It's so important to bring awareness to things like post partum depression. It can be dreadful. My prayers are with you ❤
As a Mom to 5 children I can relate to what you are going through and it is not always easy you have a Beautiful Family ,Austin seems loving and supportive take care and thank you for posting videos of your Family 🥰
I am so glad to see you let your kids play in the “concrete “ AKA mud. My sons are 20 and 21 now and I regret not letting them get dirty more often. They grow so fast.
I remember going to my brothers house with my now husband. My niece at the time was just a toddler. She was outside playing in the dirt and mud. She got it all over her. I thought it was the sweetest thing because she was just a baby. My now husband was disgusted by it. I will never understand what the issue is letting your kids play in the dirt. I did all of the time as a kid and made mud pies ECT. I don't have allergies either.
I love seeing Evie in her Princess dress covered in mud! Reminds me of my daughter at that age who insisted on wearing her princess dress while riding her scooter. Precious memories ❤
Raising children takes every moment plus postpartum thrown in the mix makes days exhausting....like moving slowly thru each moment with joy depleted. It does sound like hormone balance or vitamin deficiency is off. You were very wise to see your Dr. Hope you get some medical advice that will help get you past this bump in the road. It will "definitely" get better! Try everyday to take a 15 minute walk...by yourself if possible to clear your head. A few exercises...maybe something simple like going up + down some steps to get blood flowing+ heart rate up. Try to live more minimal with stuff so clutter doesn't take up time you don't have. As a Grandparent even we need to work on things. We make it a priority to get out of house everyday + walk. God bless you. You are so fortunate you both enjoy the outdoors + thats going to help tremendously. Keep doing what your doing + it will get better. Gran of 5🌄
Thank you for sharing about what’s going on with you. As Christians it’s hard to admit we are going through depression and that life is not always happy because we have God in our lives and it’s hard to ask for prayers and to ask for help. I recently started Counseling because of my anxiety and depression. You are not alone in this battle of depression. You are in my thoughts and prayers. 💕🙏 I just remembered a song by Matthew West called” Truth be told” Very powerful song reminding us that we are not alone even when we are Not Fine
You have a lot of supporters, Joy! I too went through post partum depression. It was a very difficult thing to deal with but somehow, with God's help I made it through. You too will make it through! 🙏
No human is perfect. If you are a human you will have struggles. Being honest and open about how you feel and what you need is the only way to overcome them and get those needs met. Good for you for seeking help you need, want and being open with others that may relate.
I noticed when you had all your sisters over and had a Q&A with them you were like the “old” Joy…seemed more yourself, relaxed, funny, free flowing and than most videos…if that makes sense. It’s just an intuitive feeling that I had. Sometimes you seem more reserved when filming with your hub and/or the kids. Not judging, just an observation. You also said you have to make a choice to be happy for your kids and Austin, but don’t forget about yourself. Please know it’s okay to take the time to care for you. Thanks for opening up and sharing. Praying for you and sending positive healing vibes. 😊💖
Yep. Some people are not allowed to be themselves due to their husband being mentally immature and very insecure. It gets old real quick. Sadly, some of us don't realize "It's actually not my fault" until it's way too late and you just don't care anymore. Prayers for those with issues but have no support at all 🙏
I love that joy Anna is so clam while Gideon and Evelyn was playing in the mud, I can wash your princess dress Evelyn! That's looked so,much fun with your family and friends ❤
if i were to ever go rafting i’d want rachael with me! she’s got to be one strong woman! thank you for sharing your mental health story! it’s ok to not be ok and admit it! i struggle with depression and horrible anxiety! thank goodness for meds, they help me soooo much!
Joy I’m so glad of your honesty, there are so many on yt that portray that their lives are a bed of roses. We all know life is not that way at all, we all have our ups and downs in life. Keep doing what you’re doing, you’re a fantastic mum and wife. Love ❤️ your channel. Thank you and bless you and your family. ❤
Thank you for sharing Joy, you are so amazing . You took the most important first step by speaking with your doctor and I hope you have shared this with your equally amazing husband. Men don’t always understand about hormones…it’s good to make the hubby aware too. I’ve been following you and your family for many many years…I’m invested and I’m praying for you. 🙏🙏🙏🤣
Joy, please have your thyroid checked too! Mine fritzed out during my third pregnancy and my vitamin D was also critically low. All of it left me feeling desperate and anxious! Praying for you! If one dr doesn’t help then go to another! Sending love ❤
When you’re depressed, you can’t choose to just be happy etc. I had PND both times and it was hard!! Keep chatting to your friends and family, they may not understand, if they’ve never had it but I know they’ll be supportive 🖤
Hi Joy, I’ve had lifelong generalized anxiety not so much depression and somehow surprisingly to me I did not get post partum depression. I take a low dose antidepressant that works great to keep me balanced. More ppl than you think have these types of things. The best thing to combat is what you’ve done, recognizing it’s a problem and getting help. I’m proud of you. I’m praying for you and even though I don’t know you but feel like I do after all you’ve shared of your life I love you! You are a real sweetheart and your parenting and how you choose to meet the ups and downs in life are admirable. Keep it up girl! Lots of ppl rooting for you!! God bless!
Joy Anna it takes great courage to walk through the painful battle of postpartum depression so many of us have struggled with. Thanks so much for sharing with all of us who admire you so much. 💕🙏🏻💕
You're human too! We all have our struggles, even if some are better at hiding it. I'm happy that you're seeking professional guidance instead of trying to deal with it on your own. Proud of you, Joy! We love you bc you are real. I'll be praying for you. Blessings💛
I am glad you are reaching out to your Dr for guidance. I too suffer from depression and anxiety! You are a wonderful mother and wife. Never forget your worth!
Im sorry you are struggling Joy!!! Thanks for being open and honest! Thats not easy!!! Praying for you in this season! Trusting that God will meet you where you are at and bring healing!!! You aren't fighting this battle alone! Greater is He that is in you, than he that is in the world. My middle name is Joy. I love that we have that in common and our relationship with Jesus!! Blessings on you and your family!!!! Im new to your channel but lovin it so far!!! Just wanted to say you are beautiful Joy!!! Inside and out!!!!!
Thanks for sharing Joy! I have had it for years. It is a physical lack of certain things in our brain. Exercising and sunshine helps too! I am glad you are getting help and encourage other women too!🙏🎈✝️💟💖🌅🎊😊
Joy, I had major ppd after i had my first kids close in age although I LOVED being their mom. Something that helped me to overcome it was a book called The Depression Cure that stresses sunshine, socialization, rumination, omega 3's. Other things that helped: iron supplement, valor essential oil from YL or Balance from doterra, getting to bed earlier, having some go to songs and quotes that encouraged me. You also HAVE TO get some short but regular times alone away from the kids. I almost never did and it was unwise of me. By God's grace , I twice overcame ppd and learned how to nip depression in the bud (at least what works for me) and have not struggled again in 13 years. I remember how bad the depression felt. I now have you on my prayer list. You will beat this!
Thank you Joy for showing your true authentic self! I work in the mental health field and many women who are mother’s fail to admit that they’re struggling, due to fear of being judged, cultural, religious, familial reasons, etc…. Thank you for taking the first step in getting help and sharing! There are support groups available for women who are facing challenges with post-partum depression. I hope that you’ll utilize the resources available as you continue to address this very real issue! Thanks again for sharing!
Prayers up 4 Joy & all mothers struggling. Joy ur not alone. We all have struggles & having someone 2 confide in is healthy & important. Sending u ❤ & hugs. God bless
I’m glad you keep in touch with us and let us know what’s going on. I’ve watched you since the beginning of the show and you are just doing such a great job with you and the kids and your husband, but like I said it’s real life and you do your best and that’s all you can do
Joy , i can only imagine the stress in your life. Thanks for sharing the part you do. I love seeing the kids grow. Continue sharing the parts you want and never feel bad about the parts you don't.
I’ve struggled with depression and anxiety for 13+ yrs now, I struggle with health issues as well that contribute to it. As a Christian I’m told that I’m depressed bcuz I don’t have hope, but that’s not the case at all and I have recently found out that I have hormone imbalances. All these yrs I was doubting my faith and hope in Christ when I knew it wasn’t the case. Thank you for sharing your journey with us, I will be praying for you.
Joy as a Mom of five I can tell you that just as each child is unique each postpartum experience is unique as well🌻Going to see your Doctor for tests is a great first step as well as speaking to your counsellor. Don't be afraid to reach out for help, try to get outside everyday, go for walks and prioritize your health❤Hugs.
So inspiring that you let your kids "live their best lives" even if it is in a princess dress lol. Hormones played such a huge part of why we feel the way we do and how our bodies react. Good for you that you noticed you needed to reach out and get answers and help. Time can be your best friend. Once you get on a regular nutrition and exercise program in place I think mentally you should do better. Don't be so hard on yourself. I believe that you will come through this and be better for it. I have and will pray for you. We may not see all your struggles but from what I can see you have given your kids a great life.
Beautiful Joy, you are so brave to speak of your struggles to those who need to hear. Those who will pray for and encourage you and those who need to know they are not alone. Even the most wonderful life is full of challenges. Each of those challenges comes to an end with us stronger, wiser, and more empathetic. Embrace the learning opportunities and praise Jesus, who will deliver you when the time is right. Don’t rule out any particular modality for help, be it therapy, prayer, herbal and vitamin remedies, medications, massage, big hugs, or physical exertion. Know that your children are learning from you how to navigate difficult times. You are a wonderful mom and wife. Blessings and prayers up.❤
It always amazes me to see parents like y’all who are so giving of themselves. I knew in my heart I would not be that type of parent so my husband and I chose to not have children. Thank you for sharing the good things and the bad. You have a precious family.
I think that was a very good comment. Very supportive, and it took courage to share that in a comment section like this. Wish more people would put that kind of forethought into their decisions.🙂👍
More and more people are either waiting longer or are deciding not to have children!! In this day and age I would not want to try to raise kids with all the shenanigans that goes on in the world!!
Thank you for sharing what you're going through with us. And,getting the help you need. Nothing wrong with getting help. We all go through struggles that we need help with. In my prayers.
You're not going through anything that many of us haven't gone through already. This, too, shall pass. You do a great job, have a nice family life, and appear to have all you need. Live to love, love to live! God bless you, Joy!
God is near to the crushed in spirit. I had to learn that after I had my second baby. He’s two now and I still look back in that time with a sadness,but I really learned to love my baby so much more than I thought I had the ability to. He’s the sweetest boy and I am such a much better momma because of him. Now we are having another in August. I can truly say I am excited and already love this baby more than words. Life comes with so many challenges for everyone because we aren’t meant to live in a fallen world. God will use all of your struggles for his Glory! Darkness may last for the night but joy comes in the morning. Praying for you!
Hun please know you are not alone by far. There was a time my husband had to do everything for our child because I just could not handle anything in my life and I felt I was loosing mind. I loved my child and my husband but I felt like they would be way better off without me and it is so far from the truth.Hang in there it will get better eventually just have Faith. 😘
Sometimes it's a matter of slowing down some and not trying to do a hundred projects in a day. Even fun things and trips can be stressful.Deficiency in things like vitamin B6 and B12 and D and hormone imbalances can be the underlying cause
Austin thank you for all of the entertaining moments. Looks like you all had a good time. JoyAnna thank you for sharing your struggles. Please take care of yourself and thank you for sharing.
Ur blog/Video is my favorite. I'm a 71 yr old widow. I love watching u every week. Every one's experience is different. I'm proud that u r seaking help. That u spoke the truth to your doctors. I will continue to be praying. Pls don't be hard on yourself. ❤ Beside your family u have us....love u.
It takes a lot to admit you’re not okay. I’ve been through ppd twice the second time lasting over 2 years and requiring medication. Glad to see your getting help for it and hoping it passes quickly.
We love you joy!! This too shall pass ❤ you are a wonderful wife!! A wonderful mother and a beautiful daughter of God. He hand picked you for those precious babies. Keep running the race! We have a great inheritance waiting for us!! We just can’t give up! Hey you should check out granger smiths sermons. They are amazing ❤ love you!!!!! ❤❤❤
You’re an awesome example and being honest with ‘us’ will help so many other people. I’m glad you’re getting help. I feel like with 3 young babies you’ve been through a lot. Well done! ❤
Thanks for sharing your journey. Praying for you. I’m glad that you are seeking the help you need and that you have a good community of family and friends supporting you.
There is nothing wrong with taking medication when you need it ❤️ I went from having days where doing to the smallest things were SO hard - to having the motivation to get up and get them done. It was game changer.
Thank you so much for sharing. I have chronic depression and anxiety . Struggled for my years and went to counseling. Now take proper meds and have learned how to manage the last 20 years.
Being a mom is the best and hardest job ever. So much balance and it’s okay to struggle. Give yourself grace and patience and realize you are NOT alone.
Thank you for sharing Joy. Many of our mothers suffered in silence or went unsupported or were misunderstood. I hope our generation is able to be far more open with what we are going through, and get support from our loved ones and the community. Thank you again for bringing awareness
Praying for you. It's not easy being a mom. It's not an easy job. I love watching you and your family. Look forward to every episode. God bless and take care. 🇨🇦
Depression is always touted as a mental health issue but that is only a part of it. It is a physical, hormonal, dietary, habits and social issue too. You are doing so many things which are known to help, so really well done for that! Known helpers are a wholefood diet with minimal processed food, outdoor light, exercise, talking therapies, hormonal and dietary treatments, cold water therapies, time in nature, attention to sleep habits and belonging to a faith group where you pray/meditate. I am praying for you from the UK and I am sure people around the world are too. You are an amazing example of how to be a great parent whilst going through this slough of depression, thank you for your courage and truthfulness in shining a light into this murky place- Satan hates it- so hurrah for that!!!
Thanks for your honesty Joy! I’m at the same stage as you..third kid is 2 weeks older then Gunner. It’s a tough season to manage. I wish I focused even more on nutrition. You were so smart to check your vitamins as well. I’m always amazed by how you manage so many outings! I couldn’t do it! I struggled more after my second kid and for me packing up the kids to get somewhere was a big anxiety trigger. This time I promised myself I wouldn’t do it, so I stay home a lot more. It’s a lot more peaceful but also can get lonely. I also focus a lot on good sleep routines for the kiddos which means free evenings and good night time sleep for me. Praying for you
@@suzannehewgleysmith2206and how do you know that??? You only see 25 minutes a week of video footage!! Good to know that you're absolutely perfect!! BTW her kids' diet and routines are NONE OF YOUR CONCERN!! Have a nice day!!
Joy honey, just take it one day at a time. Do the best you can that day, and if everything doesn't get done, it ok. You can only do so much. Also, there is nothing wrong with taking some time for yourself so you can be there for Austin and the kids. I think you are doing a wonderful job. Your kids look happy and healthy. Your house looks good. It will be ok. Will most definitely be praying for you. ❤ your little family. Thank you for sharing your life with us.
Oh I used to have a mud hole in my back yard. I was out there for hours baking pretend cakes and pies! I had a ball. I also understand when you aren’t happy all the time and you need medication to help and that’s ok.
good luck with your health journey. Do things that enrich yourself as an individual. Mini trips to visit a friend or one afternoon each week where your kids are watched and you can focus just on you and your interests for several hours. Remember that having 3 kids in 6 years is a massive energy output and replenishing yourself as an individual is crucial.
Thank you for your honesty! I rarely comment as I am agnostic & don't ever want to say something that may be misunderstood. You are so brave Joy! Well done for reaching out for support from your doctor & seeing a counselor. Well done for using your platform to bring awareness to the importance of mental health. You experienced childhood trauma, a miscarriage & your childhood was exploited for money. You're doing absolutely amazing! Wishing you nothing but healing & good vibes for you & your beautiful little family 💫
Thank you so much for being so vulnerable about how you are feeling! I had my second baby boy last August and the adjustment has been hard for me too. You have such a precious family ❤
Thank you for being so open with a sensitive subject. So many mommas suffer in silence because they think well I don't want to hurt my kids or myself so I'm OK. But there are many aspects to post partum. Praying for you
Will be praying for you, Everyone has struggles, your not alone I'm 70 now and I struggle with many things , Our only Hope is that the Lord hears our crys and walks us thru it all. Let the Doctor guide you as you lean into the Lord.
I struggled with depression in 1996-98. My doctor explained to me that it's harder for Christians to accept because we think we can give it over to God and we'll be better. He then proceeded to tell me God made doctors, pharmacists, counselors, etc and it is His wish for us to use these when needed. Made a world of difference! Prayers for you!!
This is great insight. Thanks for sharing❤
Not just that we feel guilty as Christians to publicly share too because of looking bad
Joy you can get help from your doctor
I've got depression a little bad.
I take medicine for it. I've got my ups and downs days
I'm not perfect and no one else.
You just got to fight it everyday and be there for your kiddos and your hubby
It's a everyday struggle to have it.
It's not that we ask to feel this way. Everyone wants to be happy. The struggles are real. It's about time people took mental health more seriously. Let's all help each other by not ignoring and sharing more. 🙏😍
Seeing all those reactions, Joy, you did a good thing to speak openly about your struggles. It can certainly help other women, that it certainly not abnormal to have those 'problems'. All that hiding makes only things worse!
Let we all, as women, be open about our health, that's not weakness!!!!
Very kind and brave of Joy to be so open and transparent on her struggles. I think everytime someone shares thier struggles, it makes it easier for someone else to ask for help. Bless Joy! Such an authentic and good person❤ FYI Joy you are not alone! We all have those extremely difficult days where we just feel completely overwhelmed and depleted.
Everyone has bad days Joy, you took the first step by seeing your Doctor! You are a wonderful wife and a amazing mother! I'll be praying for you and your family❤️🙏🙏🙏❤️🇨🇦
Praying for you Joy. It’s so refreshing watching a family that is real. A lot of channels post the perfect unattainable life and y’all are real. Love it❤❤❤
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I'm so impressed with your strength and willingness to see help. PPD is not a sign of weakness and doesn't make you a bad mom. You and your family will be so much better off with proper medical care. Thank you for sharing what you are going through. It will help a lot of women.
When I started to have anxiety, depression, and low motivation, my wonderful doctor checked my thyroid and found out I had a very low functioning thyroid and an autoimmune disease called Hashimotos. After thyroid medication, I felt a million times better. After my second child, I lost my baby because of my untreated Hashimotos. It's very common for women to trigger this disease after birthing and feeding multiple kids. I'm a pastor's wife and homeschooling mom of 5. My life is busy and there are always ups and downs of being a SAHM, but understanding my disease (and after lifestyle changes), I have so much more joy. Praying that your name becomes your reality soon.
Precious children having a wonderful time playing in the mud!! Love it!!
A couple of days ago I was thinking about when my daughter was around two, I’d give her a big spoon and turn the water hose on a very small stream and she was content playing in the mud for as long as she could, when I’d check on her, her little terry cloth panties were soaked in water and mud and just barely hanging on. As long as she was happy in the mud puddle she’d made I could get the house cleaned, do some laundry and take care of her baby brother, (now deceased 😢) I’m grateful for memories like those and feel so sorry for children who are glued to some screen and have no idea how much fun they could have outside. One other thing in my memory bank is taking my kids and nephews crawdad fishing! They always caught crawdads, always, whereas they may fish for hours and not catch any fish. I’ve taught several neighborhood kiddos how to fish for crawdads and they all loved it, only required a piece of string, a washer, and a small piece of bacon. 😊 By the way, my daughter who loved to play in the mud is now a grandmother herself! 😊
Joy, please take care of yourself, any depression is difficult to deal with, if you need medication get it, there is no harm in getting the help you need to deal with such an insidious mental illness. I first voiced the feeling of depression to my Mother when I was 8yo, she brushed it aside saying I was just down in the dumps. When I first told my Mother, people didn’t discuss depression if they even knew what it was, and if they talked about it, it was in a hushed tone, so I really couldn’t blame my Mother for not realizing that what
I felt was serious. I lead a pretty normal life in spite of depression, but when I finally sought professional help and was given medication my life became so, so much better!
, What kind of medicine ? And did if give you more energy too ? I'm 60 and a paraplegic and I'm almost sure that I am depressed.
@@SweetPea6348 please talk to your Dr about it, grab that depression by the horns (so to speak) and keep it under control, don't let it control You! Don't be afraid or ashamed to ask for help, there is help out there! God Bless You, I'll keep you in my prayers 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for being honest. I love your normal family. Prayers for you!
Giving life to a little human takes a lot out of us. Never feel ashamed for asking for help. You are doing an amazing job. I remember having four under the age of six. It’s a lot. Then a took a 17 year break and started all over again and had my sweet baby girl. Being a mom is very rewarding but it can be a tough job also. ❤
Joy, God puts people in our paths to help us navigate through the difficult times of our lives. I encourage you to avail yourself of all the help that is available to you. Talking also helps to put everything into prospective. If he brings you to it, HE will walk you thru it. ❤
Joy, thank you so much for being open and vulnerable with us. postpartum isn’t talked about enough
Sometimes knowing you are not suffering alone helps. Sharing can be healing too 😊❤
Life is hard!! There isn't anything wrong with asking for help or taking antidepressants. I was in a very dark place and thankfully talked to my Dr. and started a low dose of medicine. I feel SO much better ! Sending hugs ❤
Antidepressants are TERRIBLE for your brain.
Joy take care of yourself absolutely. I am 70 and when I had my child my family told me to suck it up who did I think I was. everyone has problems.I wish I was as strong as you to get help and not be ashamed.
Thank you so much for sharing!!! I’m so happy you have a good DR and therapist and please know YOU are very much not alone either. Thanks for helping people with your platform!
Thank you for trusting us enough to share. I’m struggling with my anxiety/depression as well as grief from loosing my grandma. I have birth and lost my grandma and closest cousin all within 4 years.. it’s not easy but with God we can get through it all. I’ll keep you in my prayers
@followtheforsyths. Joy thank you so much for opening up and sharing what you’re going through. I’m 59 so I’m past all this but lord I remember it I felt so sad and so alone but I don’t really have anyone to talk to or compare it with. You are helping so many NEW Mommas who are following you and making them feel NOT alone. You’re making them felt seen and heard. I love your heart & vulnerability. Praying for you sweet girl Hugs xoxoxo
Take care of yourself, Joy. Wishing you strength 💐💐💐💐
I'm so glad you feel comfortable sharing and that you went to your doctor. When my daughter was born (29 yrs ago on Sunday!) I went through some major post partum but it wasn't something anyone talked about then. It's a relief that women no longer have to suffer in silence and it's not taboo to talk about. Good job Joy - and remember - it won't last forever even though it feels like it and it DOES get better.
I'm so proud of you for taking care of your physical and mental health. It's so important to bring awareness to things like post partum depression. It can be dreadful. My prayers are with you ❤
The best thing Joy is to talk about it. Don't hold it in. Make sure you go over your blood work, It's ok not to be ok sometimes
Sending prayers, Honey. I know it is difficult, but you are taking the right steps. Hang in there. God bless you.
Just know that you’re not alone sweetie,remember you need to take time for yourself,god bless you
As a Mom to 5 children I can relate to what you are going through and it is not always easy you have a Beautiful Family ,Austin seems loving and supportive take care and thank you for posting videos of your Family 🥰
I am so glad to see you let your kids play in the “concrete “ AKA mud. My sons are 20 and 21 now and I regret not letting them get dirty more often. They grow so fast.
I remember going to my brothers house with my now husband. My niece at the time was just a toddler. She was outside playing in the dirt and mud. She got it all over her. I thought it was the sweetest thing because she was just a baby. My now husband was disgusted by it. I will never understand what the issue is letting your kids play in the dirt. I did all of the time as a kid and made mud pies ECT. I don't have allergies either.
I really hope Joy reads all these amazing comments! So much love, support and compassion🩷
I love seeing Evie in her Princess dress covered in mud! Reminds me of my daughter at that age who insisted on wearing her princess dress while riding her scooter. Precious memories ❤
Raising children takes every moment plus postpartum thrown in the mix makes days exhausting....like moving slowly thru each moment with joy depleted.
It does sound like hormone balance or vitamin deficiency is off.
You were very wise to see your Dr. Hope you get some medical advice that will help get you past this bump in the road. It will "definitely" get better! Try everyday to take a 15 minute walk...by yourself if possible to clear your head. A few exercises...maybe something simple like going up + down some steps to get blood flowing+ heart rate up.
Try to live more minimal with stuff so clutter doesn't take up time you don't have. As a Grandparent even we need to work on things. We make it a priority to get out of house everyday + walk.
God bless you. You are so fortunate you both enjoy the outdoors + thats going to help tremendously. Keep doing what your doing + it will get better. Gran of 5🌄
Thank you for sharing about what’s going on with you. As Christians it’s hard to admit we are going through depression and that life is not always happy because we have God in our lives and it’s hard to ask for prayers and to ask for help. I recently started Counseling because of my anxiety and depression. You are not alone in this battle of depression. You are in my thoughts and prayers. 💕🙏 I just remembered a song by Matthew West called” Truth be told” Very powerful song reminding us that we are not alone even when we are Not Fine
You have a lot of supporters, Joy! I too went through post partum depression. It was a very difficult thing to deal with but somehow, with God's help I made it through. You too will make it through! 🙏
No human is perfect. If you are a human you will have struggles. Being honest and open about how you feel and what you need is the only way to overcome them and get those needs met. Good for you for seeking help you need, want and being open with others that may relate.
I noticed when you had all your sisters over and had a Q&A with them you were like the “old” Joy…seemed more yourself, relaxed, funny, free flowing and than most videos…if that makes sense. It’s just an intuitive feeling that I had. Sometimes you seem more reserved when filming with your hub and/or the kids. Not judging, just an observation. You also said you have to make a choice to be happy for your kids and Austin, but don’t forget about yourself. Please know it’s okay to take the time to care for you. Thanks for opening up and sharing. Praying for you and sending positive healing vibes. 😊💖
Yep. Some people are not allowed to be themselves due to their husband being mentally immature and very insecure. It gets old real quick. Sadly, some of us don't realize "It's actually not my fault" until it's way too late and you just don't care anymore. Prayers for those with issues but have no support at all 🙏
@@LargeMarge8671oh stop her husband is none of those things!
I love that joy Anna is so clam while Gideon and Evelyn was playing in the mud, I can wash your princess dress Evelyn! That's looked so,much fun with your family and friends ❤
if i were to ever go rafting i’d want rachael with me! she’s got to be one strong woman! thank you for sharing your mental health story! it’s ok to not be ok and admit it! i struggle with depression and horrible anxiety! thank goodness for meds, they help me soooo much!
Joy I’m so glad of your honesty, there are so many on yt that portray that their lives are a bed of roses. We all know life is not that way at all, we all have our ups and downs in life. Keep doing what you’re doing, you’re a fantastic mum and wife. Love ❤️ your channel. Thank you and bless you and your family. ❤
Thank you for being so brave and sharing your experiences. You deserve to feel your best and you are not alone! Sending continuous prayers 🙏
Thanks for sharing Joy if u had’nt mentioned ur struggle you’d never u had that issue will be praying for u🙏
Thank you for sharing Joy, you are so amazing . You took the most important first step by speaking with your doctor and I hope you have shared this with your equally amazing husband. Men don’t always understand about hormones…it’s good to make the hubby aware too. I’ve been following you and your family for many many years…I’m invested and I’m praying for you. 🙏🙏🙏🤣
Joy, please have your thyroid checked too! Mine fritzed out during my third pregnancy and my vitamin D was also critically low. All of it left me feeling desperate and anxious! Praying for you! If one dr doesn’t help then go to another! Sending love ❤
When you’re depressed, you can’t choose to just be happy etc. I had PND both times and it was hard!! Keep chatting to your friends and family, they may not understand, if they’ve never had it but I know they’ll be supportive 🖤
Hi Joy, I’ve had lifelong generalized anxiety not so much depression and somehow surprisingly to me I did not get post partum depression. I take a low dose antidepressant that works great to keep me balanced. More ppl than you think have these types of things. The best thing to combat is what you’ve done, recognizing it’s a problem and getting help. I’m proud of you. I’m praying for you and even though I don’t know you but feel like I do after all you’ve shared of your life I love you! You are a real sweetheart and your parenting and how you choose to meet the ups and downs in life are admirable. Keep it up girl! Lots of ppl rooting for you!! God bless!
Joy Anna it takes great courage to walk through the painful battle of postpartum depression so many of us have struggled with. Thanks so much for sharing with all of us who admire you so much. 💕🙏🏻💕
You're human too! We all have our struggles, even if some are better at hiding it. I'm happy that you're seeking professional guidance instead of trying to deal with it on your own. Proud of you, Joy! We love you bc you are real. I'll be praying for you. Blessings💛
I am glad you are reaching out to your Dr for guidance. I too suffer from depression and anxiety! You are a wonderful mother and wife. Never forget your worth!
Im sorry you are struggling Joy!!! Thanks for being open and honest! Thats not easy!!! Praying for you in this season! Trusting that God will meet you where you are at and bring healing!!! You aren't fighting this battle alone! Greater is He that is in you, than he that is in the world. My middle name is Joy. I love that we have that in common and our relationship with Jesus!! Blessings on you and your family!!!! Im new to your channel but lovin it so far!!! Just wanted to say you are beautiful Joy!!! Inside and out!!!!!
🙏 you got this girl!! 1st step is your aware something isn’t right. And you have God in your life. He will make it okay❤❤
Thanks for sharing Joy! I have had it for years. It is a physical lack of certain things in our brain. Exercising and sunshine helps too! I am glad you are getting help and encourage other women too!🙏🎈✝️💟💖🌅🎊😊
Joy, I had major ppd after i had my first kids close in age although I LOVED being their mom. Something that helped me to overcome it was a book called The Depression Cure that stresses sunshine, socialization, rumination, omega 3's. Other things that helped: iron supplement, valor essential oil from YL or Balance from doterra, getting to bed earlier, having some go to songs and quotes that encouraged me. You also HAVE TO get some short but regular times alone away from the kids. I almost never did and it was unwise of me. By God's grace , I twice overcame ppd and learned how to nip depression in the bud (at least what works for me) and have not struggled again in 13 years. I remember how bad the depression felt. I now have you on my prayer list. You will beat this!
Thank you Joy for showing your true authentic self! I work in the mental health field and many women who are mother’s fail to admit that they’re struggling, due to fear of being judged, cultural, religious, familial reasons, etc…. Thank you for taking the first step in getting help and sharing!
There are support groups available for women who are facing challenges with post-partum depression. I hope that you’ll utilize the resources available as you continue to address this very real issue!
Thanks again for sharing!
You’re amazing Joy!!! Thank you for sharing. It’s awesome that you’re so honest and truthful. I’ll be praying for you!!! Take care!!!
You’re doing a great job parenting your children and being a good wife at the same time. But take some time for just you so you can recharge.
Prayers up 4 Joy & all mothers struggling. Joy ur not alone. We all have struggles & having someone 2 confide in is healthy & important. Sending u ❤ & hugs. God bless
I’m glad you keep in touch with us and let us know what’s going on. I’ve watched you since the beginning of the show and you are just doing such a great job with you and the kids and your husband, but like I said it’s real life and you do your best and that’s all you can do
Just always remember God holds you and your battles and so do we as your RUclips fam. God bless you sweetheart and thanks for sharing your battles.🥰🙏🏼
Joy , i can only imagine the stress in your life. Thanks for sharing the part you do. I love seeing the kids grow. Continue sharing the parts you want and never feel bad about the parts you don't.
I'm happy that you are seeking additional help for your struggles, Joy! I'm praying for you! ❤🙏
I’ve struggled with depression and anxiety for 13+ yrs now, I struggle with health issues as well that contribute to it. As a Christian I’m told that I’m depressed bcuz I don’t have hope, but that’s not the case at all and I have recently found out that I have hormone imbalances. All these yrs I was doubting my faith and hope in Christ when I knew it wasn’t the case. Thank you for sharing your journey with us, I will be praying for you.
Joy as a Mom of five I can tell you that just as each child is unique each postpartum experience is unique as well🌻Going to see your Doctor for tests is a great first step as well as speaking to your counsellor. Don't be afraid to reach out for help, try to get outside everyday, go for walks and prioritize your health❤Hugs.
So inspiring that you let your kids "live their best lives" even if it is in a princess dress lol. Hormones played such a huge part of why we feel the way we do and how our bodies react. Good for you that you noticed you needed to reach out and get answers and help. Time can be your best friend. Once you get on a regular nutrition and exercise program in place I think mentally you should do better. Don't be so hard on yourself. I believe that you will come through this and be better for it. I have and will pray for you. We may not see all your struggles but from what I can see you have given your kids a great life.
You probably just helped a bunch of young mama's see this is "normal" and they may seek help! Good for you sweet girl! Love watching y'all 😊❤
Beautiful Joy, you are so brave to speak of your struggles to those who need to hear. Those who will pray for and encourage you and those who need to know they are not alone. Even the most wonderful life is full of challenges. Each of those challenges comes to an end with us stronger, wiser, and more empathetic. Embrace the learning opportunities and praise Jesus, who will deliver you when the time is right. Don’t rule out any particular modality for help, be it therapy, prayer, herbal and vitamin remedies, medications, massage, big hugs, or physical exertion. Know that your children are learning from you how to navigate difficult times. You are a wonderful mom and wife. Blessings and prayers up.❤
It always amazes me to see parents like y’all who are so giving of themselves. I knew in my heart I would not be that type of parent so my husband and I chose to not have children. Thank you for sharing the good things and the bad. You have a precious family.
I think that was a very good comment. Very supportive, and it took courage to share that in a comment section like this. Wish more people would put that kind of forethought into their decisions.🙂👍
More and more people are either waiting longer or are deciding not to have children!! In this day and age I would not want to try to raise kids with all the shenanigans that goes on in the world!!
Thank you for sharing what you're going through with us. And,getting the help you need. Nothing wrong with getting help. We all go through struggles that we need help with. In my prayers.
You're not going through anything that many of us haven't gone through already. This, too, shall pass. You do a great job, have a nice family life, and appear to have all you need. Live to love, love to live! God bless you, Joy!
Thank you for sharing. So many women go untreated. I will pray for you.❤
You are walking in the right direction!! Seeing a doctor and reaching out for help is such a great step! Keep going and you got this!!!
God is near to the crushed in spirit. I had to learn that after I had my second baby. He’s two now and I still look back in that time with a sadness,but I really learned to love my baby so much more than I thought I had the ability to. He’s the sweetest boy and I am such a much better momma because of him. Now we are having another in August. I can truly say I am excited and already love this baby more than words. Life comes with so many challenges for everyone because we aren’t meant to live in a fallen world. God will use all of your struggles for his Glory! Darkness may last for the night but joy comes in the morning. Praying for you!
Hun please know you are not alone by far. There was a time my husband had to do everything for our child because I just could not handle anything in my life and I felt I was loosing mind. I loved my child and my husband but I felt like they would be way better off without me and it is so far from the truth.Hang in there it will get better eventually just have Faith. 😘
Sometimes it's a matter of slowing down some and not trying to do a hundred projects in a day. Even fun things and trips can be stressful.Deficiency in things like vitamin B6 and B12 and D and hormone imbalances can be the underlying cause
Austin thank you for all of the entertaining moments. Looks like you all had a good time. JoyAnna thank you for sharing your struggles. Please take care of yourself and thank you for sharing.
Ur blog/Video is my favorite. I'm a 71 yr old widow. I love watching u every week. Every one's experience is different. I'm proud that u r seaking help. That u spoke the truth to your doctors. I will continue to be praying. Pls don't be hard on yourself. ❤ Beside your family u have us....love u.
You are a strong young woman, you will get through it! You are a wonderful mother and wife, prayers for you!
It takes a lot to admit you’re not okay. I’ve been through ppd twice the second time lasting over 2 years and requiring medication. Glad to see your getting help for it and hoping it passes quickly.
We love you joy!! This too shall pass ❤ you are a wonderful wife!! A wonderful mother and a beautiful daughter of God. He hand picked you for those precious babies. Keep running the race! We have a great inheritance waiting for us!! We just can’t give up! Hey you should check out granger smiths sermons. They are amazing ❤ love you!!!!! ❤❤❤
Hope you will feel better soon. PPD is a real struggle. You are a very brave woman.
Thank you thank you thank you!!! It IS helping. And you do support people even more by sharing the truth. Thank you for your humility
You’re an awesome example and being honest with ‘us’ will help so many other people. I’m glad you’re getting help. I feel like with 3 young babies you’ve been through a lot. Well done! ❤
Thanks for sharing your journey. Praying for you. I’m glad that you are seeking the help you need and that you have a good community of family and friends supporting you.
There is nothing wrong with taking medication when you need it ❤️ I went from having days where doing to the smallest things were SO hard - to having the motivation to get up and get them done. It was game changer.
Aw amazing love to see children playing outside and getting muddy happy children xxxx
Thank you so much for sharing. I have chronic depression and anxiety . Struggled for my years and went to counseling. Now take proper meds and have learned how to manage the last 20 years.
Being a mom is the best and hardest job ever. So much balance and it’s okay to struggle. Give yourself grace and patience and realize you are NOT alone.
Thank you for sharing Joy. Many of our mothers suffered in silence or went unsupported or were misunderstood. I hope our generation is able to be far more open with what we are going through, and get support from our loved ones and the community. Thank you again for bringing awareness
Praying for you. It's not easy being a mom. It's not an easy job. I love watching you and your family. Look forward to every episode. God bless and take care. 🇨🇦
Depression is always touted as a mental health issue but that is only a part of it. It is a physical, hormonal, dietary, habits and social issue too. You are doing so many things which are known to help, so really well done for that! Known helpers are a wholefood diet with minimal processed food, outdoor light, exercise, talking therapies, hormonal and dietary treatments, cold water therapies, time in nature, attention to sleep habits and belonging to a faith group where you pray/meditate. I am praying for you from the UK and I am sure people around the world are too. You are an amazing example of how to be a great parent whilst going through this slough of depression, thank you for your courage and truthfulness in shining a light into this murky place- Satan hates it- so hurrah for that!!!
You are so strong and brave for sharing! I pray you get the help and guidance that you need ❤
Don't forget to give yourself grace as well ✨️
Thanks for being so open. Many will be helped with that.
Thank you for what you said. It’s helped me through a hard time and remember to have a great day. Not let others bring you down. You control you.
Thanks for your honesty Joy! I’m at the same stage as you..third kid is 2 weeks older then Gunner.
It’s a tough season to manage. I wish I focused even more on nutrition. You were so smart to check your vitamins as well.
I’m always amazed by how you manage so many outings! I couldn’t do it! I struggled more after my second kid and for me packing up the kids to get somewhere was a big anxiety trigger. This time I promised myself I wouldn’t do it, so I stay home a lot more. It’s a lot more peaceful but also can get lonely. I also focus a lot on good sleep routines for the kiddos which means free evenings and good night time sleep for me.
Praying for you
Her kids have terrible nutrition and no routine
@@suzannehewgleysmith2206and how do you know that??? You only see 25 minutes a week of video footage!! Good to know that you're absolutely perfect!! BTW her kids' diet and routines are NONE OF YOUR CONCERN!! Have a nice day!!
Just remember you're a wonderful person & we will pray & support you.
I appreciate your honesty and just keeping it real. I pray that you can get through this season and become stronger
Joy honey, just take it one day at a time. Do the best you can that day, and if everything doesn't get done, it ok. You can only do so much. Also, there is nothing wrong with taking some time for yourself so you can be there for Austin and the kids. I think you are doing a wonderful job. Your kids look happy and healthy. Your house looks good. It will be ok. Will most definitely be praying for you. ❤ your little family. Thank you for sharing your life with us.
It’s good that you’re talking about this and seeking professional advice❤️
Oh I used to have a mud hole in my back yard. I was out there for hours baking pretend cakes and pies! I had a ball. I also understand when you aren’t happy all the time and you need medication to help and that’s ok.
good luck with your health journey. Do things that enrich yourself as an individual. Mini trips to visit a friend or one afternoon each week where your kids are watched and you can focus just on you and your interests for several hours. Remember that having 3 kids in 6 years is a massive energy output and replenishing yourself as an individual is crucial.
Thank you for your honesty! I rarely comment as I am agnostic & don't ever want to say something that may be misunderstood. You are so brave Joy! Well done for reaching out for support from your doctor & seeing a counselor. Well done for using your platform to bring awareness to the importance of mental health. You experienced childhood trauma, a miscarriage & your childhood was exploited for money. You're doing absolutely amazing! Wishing you nothing but healing & good vibes for you & your beautiful little family 💫
Thank you so much for being so vulnerable about how you are feeling! I had my second baby boy last August and the adjustment has been hard for me too. You have such a precious family ❤
Thank you for being so open with a sensitive subject. So many mommas suffer in silence because they think well I don't want to hurt my kids or myself so I'm OK. But there are many aspects to post partum. Praying for you
Will be praying for you, Everyone has struggles, your not alone I'm 70 now and I struggle with many things , Our only Hope is that the Lord hears our crys and walks us thru it all. Let the Doctor guide you as you lean into the Lord.
Joy, I love you and your precious family. It is ok to get help, we all need it at times. Sending hugs love and prayers ❤❤❤