Mom read my Journal.. Before Vs. After: Coming Out | LGBTQ+

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  • Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024
  • ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🖤🤍
    Hello, this is SHINETEEN 🥰🥰
    What is your coming out story?
    Feel free to share it with us!
    Don't forget to follow our instagram account for upcomings, as well as our casts'!
    ☞ SHINETEEN : / _shineteen
    ◾ Cast Instargram ◾
    JIHOO :: @hu_0.0_
    DOOKYUN :: @kyuunoo_
    #comingout
    #lgbtq
    #gay

Комментарии • 61

  • @sedayuday762
    @sedayuday762 2 года назад +90

    Finally Jihoo and dookyun again😍

  • @ayaatt1994
    @ayaatt1994 2 года назад +70

    YES IT'S HAPPENING MY FAVORITE DUO OF ALL TIME ♡ They both cute ♡

  • @vivianneyoung
    @vivianneyoung 2 года назад +74

    as a bi who has come out only to two lgbtq+ friends, this kind of video gives me insight and reassurance that maybe coming out to cishet people around us isn't that bad (even though idk if I ever be ready). thank you for this interesting video. they're so wise and sweet, I like them.

    • @footslave4asian
      @footslave4asian Год назад

      cishet people? Get over yourself. You're headed for mental issues later in life (perhaps sooner than later?) if you let this nonsense rule your life. NO ONE cares about you except your family and yourself. Until you recognize that FACT, you will not be happy in life. Simply adding "hip," "cool" or pseudo-scientific words to your vocabulary is not going to change anything. In fact, it is like a neon sign advertising your basic shallowness of understanding.

  • @luan_o
    @luan_o 2 года назад +18

    WHAT. SHES 30?? I thought she was younger.

  • @dianemarieevans9145
    @dianemarieevans9145 2 года назад +30

    I really enjoy you guys together. It's nice to see both sides of the story. You have very nice personalities. Have a great day 😀 😊 ☺️

  • @ayaatt1994
    @ayaatt1994 2 года назад +13

    Wow she looks young I tought she would be 25 or 26 logically but wow she is young and good looking ♡¤♡

  • @stellp2956
    @stellp2956 2 года назад +4

    SHINE TEEN what's with the weird background sounds ?? Almost drowned out their voices ................

  • @melany1120
    @melany1120 2 года назад +9

    Please don't come out if you don't have a safe place to go to , a lot of parents throw there kids in the streets when they come out as gay or trans , or in some places even kill them so please don't do it unless it's safe.

    • @shoshimonster5451
      @shoshimonster5451 2 года назад +4

      I don't plan on telling my parents until I'm financially stable and living on my own. I'm both bisexual and transgender ftm but my parents are homophobic and transphobic. I have a cousin whose also trans and all day I have to hear them talking about him like "it's so sad she doesn't look like a girl anymore," and more things along those lines and whenever there is an lgbt character in a show or movie they make fun of the character so I know not to come out yet.

    • @melany1120
      @melany1120 2 года назад +3

      @@shoshimonster5451 same here i don't plan on ever telling my parents, they're very homophobic and i honestly don't know if they'll just throw me in the streets or kill me , literally for like the honor of the family or whatever, but i will not be safe , so I'll wait until I'm financially stable and living on my own so I can be my self and be openly lesbian without them knowing....

    • @qr-eh9es
      @qr-eh9es 2 года назад +3

      thanks for the advice for the brothers and sisters who dont know when to do come out !

  • @riya_nanda9214
    @riya_nanda9214 2 года назад +9

    I really like that man in every interview he's so postive and bright and well spoken, tall, dark, handsome he has every quality I want in my man but what can I do every man I like is either he don't like me Or he's gay, this phrase is true I guess every nice, handsome man is gay.

    • @h0pskip
      @h0pskip 2 года назад +3

      dont worry im gay and every nice handsome man i talk to is straight

    • @jaytheboykisser
      @jaytheboykisser Год назад

      @@h0pskip LMFAO IKR

  • @shoshimonster5451
    @shoshimonster5451 2 года назад +8

    I've come out to most of My friends as bisexual however only the few closest to me know I'm trans and anyone who would tell my parents and my very homophobic/transphobic parents, know nothing at all.

  • @quizzesandriddles8792
    @quizzesandriddles8792 2 года назад +15

    They are so comforting to listen to

  • @arini-ng
    @arini-ng 2 года назад +25

    I'm not a lesbian but I've always looked like a boy from a young age. So I also experienced what you are going through. one day someone told me to all my friends that I was a lesbian. though I'm not. And the news spread everywhere. so all my close friends stay away from me. maybe I look like a man but I'm not a lesbian. So I understand your feelings because I've also experienced the same thing.

    • @luna_5-i4c
      @luna_5-i4c 4 месяца назад

      First of all being as lesbian is not bad second they are not true frnds of yours i mean i came out to my some frnds some were harsh n some were supportive being particularly hating someone for their sexuality is a very disrespectful thing people can do

  • @babyvitoria579
    @babyvitoria579 Год назад +1

    if you want if you are active or passive

  • @jaidn6
    @jaidn6 Год назад +2

    Dookyun's sexual awakening was from a cartoon character and so was mine omg

  • @itsdsanti3784
    @itsdsanti3784 2 года назад +4

    This video gave me a little more courage to maybe come out to my family in the next few months ❤

    • @shannonahern914
      @shannonahern914 Год назад

      I'm an ...American, Christian, Republican, conservative....all of the most hated things in America but if I were to find out my child were gay when they were in their twenties I would consider myself the worst failure. Because I am and always will be a mom first...and if my child has to hide who they really are out of fear of disapproval I would hate myself, not them. Parents are supposed to give unconditional love and I'm pretty sure God would be mortified by a parent that rejects their own child....a gift he gave them...a human life to be treasured. Please give your parents the benefit of the doubt. They might surprise you. And if you know beyond a doubt that it will end badly my heart goes out to you. You deserve their love not their judgement.

  • @shunmatsumoto258
    @shunmatsumoto258 2 года назад +2

    A pessoa da direita me lembra aquele ator Park Bo-Gum...

  • @chaennelchaennel
    @chaennelchaennel 4 месяца назад

    It is a fortune that he didn’t have problems in the military, some guys were beaten to death

  • @Dadada-vf3fe
    @Dadada-vf3fe 3 месяца назад

    the background music is way too loud oh my

  • @Sunny-bc2mu
    @Sunny-bc2mu 2 года назад +3

    My favorite duo is back

  • @moipipipii
    @moipipipii 2 года назад +3

    im 18 and gay af. my parents and entire family hella homophobic. any solutions?? any help?? and btw im asian

    • @lindalai6795
      @lindalai6795 2 года назад +8

      Make sure you earn some money first. Incase you're being thrown out or "disowned" , be prepared of the worst case scenario. It's a risk, but live your life to the fullest.

    • @moipipipii
      @moipipipii 2 года назад +1

      @@lindalai6795 thank you. I was thinking the same

    • @shoshimonster5451
      @shoshimonster5451 2 года назад

      I don't have any advice cuz I'm in the same situation. Well it's a little different. I'm bi so I could pretend to be straight in that aspect but I'm also trans so... And I hear my parents bashing and making fun of everything lgbt all the time...

    • @moipipipii
      @moipipipii 2 года назад

      @@shoshimonster5451 mam, you are mtf or ftm? and if you are trans wouldnt they already know ?

    • @shoshimonster5451
      @shoshimonster5451 2 года назад +2

      @@moipipipii I'm ftm but I'm fully comfortable in my female body and prefer dresses and skirts over pants so it's easy to hide...

  • @karetkakes4715
    @karetkakes4715 2 года назад +1

    More with Jihoo please!! Love dookyun too and their interactions but I'm also missing Dowon??

  • @giovannapadilha
    @giovannapadilha Год назад +2

    Jihoo and Dookyun are such a good combination 💜

  • @im_just_vidu
    @im_just_vidu 2 года назад +2

    These two are my favourite all time

  • @BJCMXY
    @BJCMXY 2 года назад +5

    I have known I was Gay on some level since I was two. However, I usually put off that matter for later, until I actually was outed in college, as I now suspect their goal was to cause drama with me... But I had gotten so used to seeing my orientation as irrelevant to my interactions with most people, I simply shrugged the matter off, as I was suffering from the Effects of Pneumonia at the time, and the fact that people knew I was Gay paled in comparison to the lack of sleep, chronic congestion, and later the inexplicable sudden bouts of face to porcelain throne meetings after many meals, just doing my homework and attending class was the extent of my ability to exert any thoughts towards.
    After Winter Vacation, I slowly realized what had been causing those meetings after meals, and the process of avoiding anything too sweet took up more of my attention than was good for me, and my sudden desire to be more social didn't give me much time to give it thought either, and if it hadn't been for my first semester grades, I would have suffered the ignominious fate of Academic Probation in the second semester of college... And from There declining mental health pretty much precluded and ended any fears about my orientation and what it meant for me.
    My grandmother accepted me, and so did my mom, so what did it matter if anyone else said anything?
    In 4th grade, I did have a little spare time, and all I could imagine was creating a false marriage with a compatible Lesbian 🤣 never even gave it a thought to attempt anything like being "Straight"... My personality also ended up being so unusual, that no one even gave it a thought that I was gay during Middle school and High school. 😅 It probably didn't help clarify anything when I aced the Sex Education Final, as I had everything memorized, and simply made myself seem really intelligent and knowledgeable, instead of being viewed as an outcast, because I otherwise showed no interest in the relationships with girls my age... And that definitely wasn't because there was no interest on their part. 😂
    Some how graduated with a "Pure & Innocent" status... Despite the fact that I was far from either. 🙄😅
    Probably helped that my discomfort about female matters was read as something more positive. 😂 The Blushing that I used to exhibit was apparently very popular with the girls around me, and it wasn't until the second year of college that I finally got payback for all of it with an interesting tidbit about male anatomy that made my two friends at the time blush horrendously... They stopped teasing me after that. 😅
    I also learned to no blush at those things, so by the time I hit my 4th year at a different college, I was reasonably comfortable with my orientation, and able to hear things with my usual aplomb... Haven't blushed in about a decade now, since dating was never really an option at any of the colleges that I attended. 🙄 Not even sure I could blush at this point. 😐

  • @syahmi2326
    @syahmi2326 2 года назад +1

    Please keep doing more content like this … 🙏🏻 I really love it

  • @pineapple1612
    @pineapple1612 Год назад

    It's so that so many people still feel like they have to hide their romantic/sexual orientation from their families...
    While I understand that it can feel "new" and "scary" to parents, I will never understand how you could not accept your child for its orientation!

  • @anshita2
    @anshita2 Год назад

    It’s great that we have come to a point where this generation is more accepting and supportive of the LGBTQ+ community. Just want to let the queer community know that you have millions of allies around the world , some more vocal than others. Even if you are in a part of the world where you don’t see much support, just remember there are millions and millions of us who accept you for who you are. Hopefully you’ll be surrounded by loved ones who will support you for being you.

  • @futsuudesuyo
    @futsuudesuyo Год назад

    They look like they understand each other well, so it was fun watching them. And I agree that Jihoo is handsome 😁

  • @jaidn6
    @jaidn6 Год назад

    I figured myself out when I was like around first grade, probably before that. I knew i liked our neighbors granddaughter a lot and a girl in our neighborhood who always came to play with me everyday.

  • @MariaCosta-gz5vu
    @MariaCosta-gz5vu 2 года назад

    Please legend PT Br portugues 🇧🇷

  • @차승은-t4z
    @차승은-t4z Год назад

    따뜻한 영상이네요 감사합니다 힘이 됐습니다 😊

  • @뽀글이-t8w
    @뽀글이-t8w 2 года назад

    I like jihoo ❤

  • @aminahafiz8536
    @aminahafiz8536 2 года назад

    fav duo 😅

  • @phuyu5624
    @phuyu5624 2 года назад

    i love themmmm

  • @shadialove9806
    @shadialove9806 2 года назад

    😏😏

  • @MariaCosta-gz5vu
    @MariaCosta-gz5vu 2 года назад

    Cute ☺☺

  • @evelynerasseneur2543
    @evelynerasseneur2543 2 года назад

    Français svp 🇨🇵😭

    • @xia2830
      @xia2830 Год назад +1

      Faut apprendre l'anglais, ça ouvre des portes ;)

  • @abeerrahman7330
    @abeerrahman7330 2 года назад

    They should be together ;-;. I really wanted to see akways how it is when a gay and a lesbian falls in love with each other

  • @DONTTOUCHTHEGRASSIMALLERGIC
    @DONTTOUCHTHEGRASSIMALLERGIC Год назад

    it sounds like she is not lesbian but bisexual