Let me be clear, there is NOTHING GOOD about arguing emotionally with a woman you have ZERO intentions of dating. Having the last word doesn't make you a winner, it just means you dont have your ego in check. Learn to walk away! btw the other dude deleted his comment because... Everyone got a lot to say till they get pinned lol.
Not sure why people get scared of being Pinned. You spoke up now pay the pipper and back your ass up or handle the shame and walk away with what dignity you have left
Maybe the lesson he is showing his daughter is that when you try to go about it has an adult and the other person won’t budge from their petty horse....It’s know longer about being diplomatic....it’s about standing up for yourself and showing them you won’t just stand by and be a verbal punching bag
@@puurplegiraffe If you had any idea of the amount of girls I knew, when I was a sophomore in high school that had college-age and beyond "boyfriends", your head would explode.
Lol not only that though I think this is the like 3rd/4th time she’s been on this show. Maybe 3rd I know she was on bachelor (1 guy many girls) and bachelor in paradise. Which is just a fuck fest lol
Wow, as a woman, the fact that this man was turned off by strip dodgeball and considered his daughter and family, would make him my number ONE choice for husband. That's a display of integrity and courage that is so attractive. That Bachelorette is crazy for not doing a 180 then and there. He is the one that is lucky to have dodged her. And Aba, I think he did the right thing for telling her straight. Probably no one else in life ever did. If more people did that, badly behaving adults would dwindle in shame, as they should.
agreed sometimes its best to feel that shame or you will never change, maybe she will learn from it but I doubt it. I am someone who has done pretty shameful stuff in my time that made me regret.
I also agree 100%.. That girl is trying to get a man and then goes out alone to watch strip volleyball.. Girls would you be OK with it if your date ditched you and went to the strip club.. Didn't think so!
That would be fine if that was his intention. It wasn't, he wanted to put on display his honor or whatever. Fuck that, he is on a damn show to entertain people. He was saying that shit to insult her for what? For also participating in a bullshit show? This guy was a bitch. If he had that honor he pretended to have he would have never been on the fucking show. It was either written in or he was a bitch. I hope it was acting.
@@ishish8816 not EVERYTHING is without their decision, thats actually untrue. the endings tend to be the most obvious scripting, and some of the fighting and bickering etc, BUT even still it could be fun for them. maybe it wasnt, but they didnt have to do it.
@@ishish8816 it's not like she had to agree...it's her reputation too, obviously it's had consequences. I don't really care if it was her idea or not, just like the guys she went along with it, if it is even true in the first place. I noticed she hasn't directly denied it was her idea, just liked posts of other people who implied that it wasn't. Her only direct response was to point out juan carlo (or whoever) also did a nude (and covered up) photo shoot with other contestants for pet adoption...while being oblivious to the fact, there is a massive difference between a prescheduled, agreed upon, professional and compensated photo shoot vs blindsiding someone with the ultimatum that they either strip for your amusement or fall behind all the guys who did in standing. If she had been doing it to determine if any of the guys had enough integrity to stand up to her, that would be one thing. BUT... I can tell you she didn't look at all reluctant or uncomfortable with the fact she was going to have almost a dozen attractive guys stripping for her attention. I can't say in the reverse situation I would either. But I'm not going to come out and defend my actions after the fact if I'm called out on it. I'm going to say "yeah you are probably right, I apologize I offended you." Then make a personal judgement call on if I was actually wrong or if you are over-reacting. Because that is what adults do. "but he did this so what I did is less wrong now." is the behavior of a child. but I'm not surprised. most attractive women don't have adult behavior until about 50 or 60.
Narcissism 101. Promises to listen but interrupts anyway. He knew right then and there the gloves had to come off. So Nahh, I'm on his side, bruh 🙅🏾♂️💯
And then trying to trump him by playing the victim card that her mother is dying...lady, if your mother is dying, why the heck are you even in that show?
@watercubes 99 i don’t think it’s narcissistic though. it’s just her trying to relate and say that she understands which is a sort of normal way to respond?
I love how she said "thats why you were not on that date" so confidently, as if that was going to hurt him, like baybee are you not listening to the man, he aint interested!
Just imagine if a bachelor made a bunch of Bachelorette contestsnts get naked and play volleyball. The backlash he would recieve is beyond comprehension.
@@mera8785 no. The man in this video is classy compared to that 40 year old. Besides you didn’t even acknowledge the point. Women are hypocrites about sexism.
He can leave if he rest wants to. Those "reality" TV shows usually sign you up with some pretty humiliating contract conditions. So he still needs to keep that in mind. Besides that, he would have had to plan in the time for the show anyways in advance. When he signed up, he knew how long it would take.
@@griselgriselda2901 How is he wrong? It's a reality show so they edit to make drama worse than it is. Finding out in person that the chick is awful is absolutely valid.
@@griselgriselda2901 classic woman with name calling. you need to learn the values being conveyed not taking sides just because of your gender. Shots are called but you dont need to add a stone on a pond of wisdom. the fact that this show is crazy, people watching getting attached to it , getting crazier than normal in this pandemic. the man had more depth despite all the murkiness of retaliation of words. SWEETPEA.
@@AvWorgen and also would get cancelled for "being a disgusting old man, who is just trying to make himself feel better by dating someone half his age"
I mean, she's probably getting paid a LOT. If anything she might not really care about finding a husband, it's probably more about the money for her (she gives me that vibe). Probably just wants younger men to sleep with and move on.
@@Oll_704 she said she was happily single and I was responding to that. Of course the men there are also not happily single, in fact Yosef was not happily single hence his justified outburst. She was angry, and she has a right to be angry, but in her anger she's pretending to be 'happily single'. That's the point.
Yeah, I know someone who is over 40, she posts things on social media that you would expect a teenager to post, it is so offputting, like woman, act your age please. Have some class.
The way she said "yeah my mom is.....dying" it's like she's trying to up him on the sympathy counter. I just realized these kind of people don't actually empathize, they mimic empathy.
Well, by a certain age you should know better. Why is she on this show anyway? Aba/Preach are exaggerating calling her a " hag" but you can say she's swimming in the "kiddie pool."
honestly props to this guy. taking a stand not only for himself but DEFINITELY expressing the feelings of the men who were basically publicly shamed on national tv to flame her ego
@Blob Monster cause he said the truth? the woman was a bitch and the guy called her out he might’ve said a little to much but doesn’t change that he was speaking facts
Like the guys said, he should’ve stopped himself before saying the “I’m embarrassed of being associated with you” because all after that he came out as an asshole. He weaponized a woman’s age, that’s not a good example for his daughter.
Beyond setting an example for his daughter she's just a bitch and needed someone to tell her the truth. No man has obviously ever called her out on her character.
Ole' gurl said, _That is exactly how you earn the title "daddy",_ end quote. Naw, dudes earn that title, when we bust a nut or two on ya & we're stuck paying the cleaners for 18 years.
I think they are as bad as each other. They guy was lying, who goes on this show to set an example for thier daughter 🤮. And then he couldn't hold his shit together...if he kept his shit her fake cries and put on the act would have been seen by everyone for what they were, and he may have got an answer. But he just wanted to voice his distaine....which is fine...but dont dress it up like it a personal attack on your sainthood. Nahhhhh🤔
he wasnt. he signed up for a show. if i would signed up for a show i would expect something like that to happen, afterall its a tv show. now idk about this particular show but most tv reality shows are planned, at least activities. you always take a risk when you sign up for tv reality shows that you will be portrayed not the way you are or that only one side of you will be depicted or that you will be viewed negatively just by association. it does not excuse her for going whole sexual, but its not her fault he chose to participate in a tv show.
Stop rationalizing, call a spade a spade if you behave poorly be it privately or publicly doesn't mean its acceptable even if you sign up for something the limits you set are what matter, so check yourself before you wreck yourself
It’s funny that she has to say “I’m single because I’ve never settled for men like that!” when he’s the one who broke it off. She really tried to pull a “you can’t fire me, I quit!” on him.
A lot of them do this, because all of these problems come from an extremely low self-esteem, which they always blame on other previous men, because why? Always the victim.. It's just a defense mechanism.
@@ryanmcguire9951 That wasn't defense, just entitlement and arrogance. "I don't care what I've done, I didn't do anything." I bet you if you showed her this video of Aba and Preach reacting this and read her the comments she still won't have any awareness, or accountability that she was in the wrong and Yosef was right. Although I do agree with Aba, he shouldn't have brought the age thing that was unnecessary. Although Yosef was right about her he should've walked away. And as for her picking who she wanted beforehand, wasting everyone's time like that, super entitled. And more annoying how those other dudes were trying to coerce Yosef to apologize for calling Claire out on her bullshit. The way they completely ignored how disrespectful SHE was to Yosef and only got mad at him is mind boggling.
@@summerrose8110 I don't know what the word salad is after like the "......I didn't do anything" but, I don't think I necessarily disagree with you, but, it is definitely a defense mechanism protecting the ego. No one can break it off with her, she has to be the one, or else there's ego injury... Crying for hours later.. This is why most people that get broken up with will tell others: They are actually the one that did the breaking up, around others.. It's their ego, their personna, they're trying to save their position. As in accordance to the comment "it's like quitting, as you're being fired" same idea. To save ego injury. Arrogance is how it comes off sure, that's just the way it's being conveyed... But it's ultimately to save the ego
"Talking to a woman like that? I don't care what was done. I don't care what I've done." Translation: Right or wrong, I don't want to be held accountable for my actions
@@ko5034 I see your point, but after the M2 movement and all the issues of degrading/sexually harassing women, he chose to use his 15 minutes of fame as a platform for (wait for it) "equality" 😲 He did not show any type of rage until she got in his face and put her hands on him which is understandable. (Simply put, "Keep your F*?king hands to yourself") I can't blame the guy for having principles. If a woman was looking for a father figure/mate and left her son home for three months would you call her a dead beat mother? (probably not because she's a woman) It's a 99% chance she will not get married and if so, It won't last long and the divorce will probably be initiated by her. Red Pill Men like myself, view a woman like this as toxic so this womanchild would not have received any attention at all. MGTOW
She mentioned that she sat down and listened to him for the past 20 minutes. She even apologized for interrupting him at one point. So I think she was pretty understanding at the start, after all, he had a valid point about male objectification. But then it got to the point where he was becoming verbally abusive. When she defended herself, he kept trying to shut her down. So on the contrary, he was the one who couldn’t handle being told that his approach to the situation was wrong. Overall, I agree with him but I don’t like how he went about it. 🙅🏾♀️ ( EDIT: I’ve since apologized for labeling it as “verbally abusive” because those words can understandably be traumatically triggering for some people. I also don’t have any professional psychological training to classify it as such, nor have I personally experienced it in a way that would allow me to recognize it. So I want to thank everyone for correcting me on that. And again, I’m sincerely sorry 💛)
Unfortunately she wouldn't let him tell her the truth. She ran away at the end cause she couldn't handle it. She interrupted him multiple times, and had the AUDACITY to say "I've listened to you this entire time" and then walked away. Unless I'm mistaken (and if I'm mistaken, she still supported the idea), she literally made men strip for her own enjoyment, but as soon as someone reminds her that she's almost 40, she starts to cry. "I don't deserve to be treated like that." That's the mentality of a literal 3 year old. Happy to make others uncomfortable, but as soon as anyone makes her uncomfortable, she breaks down and acts like the victim. If she doesn't straighten her ass out, she's gonna be alone forever.
@pissedpookie You're right. As sad as it is, that's reality. But something tells me she won't be happy with him. And unless you're happy with your partner, I still consider that to be "alone."
@@ko5034 he was no NFL player never made the team, never got signed, never played in 1 NFL pro game, he tried out and made a couple practice squads, if he was an NFL player than I am Michael Jordan cause I played ball in the park a bunch of times
Preach has legitimately taught me how to be better at responding to situations where there is disagreement, whether it is big or small. I admire the way that he is able to put forward his viewpoint while also taking in the perspective of the other person respectfully, and I’ve tried to be more like that in my own life. Even small things like nodding while the other person is speaking can do a lot - I read somewhere that body language makes a massive difference in whether an argument will end badly or end in compromise and a mutual feeling of being heard.
@Romanticide Uh, .last time I checked, he was speaking his mind and she interrupted him, he finished, then she went crazy, then he left. What do you mean he could have just left? He literally DID.
@@Delimon007 Boi don't act stupid, the guy made a petty ass comment he didn't just simply "walk away ". However, the chick was defo in the wrong n the guy is kind of a douche
@@spencil9941 lmfao! The dude was saying what he had to say and was interrupted, the only thing he did that was petty was at the end, he literally walked away once he said what he had to say, so many idiots is the reason why society will fail, and I can't wait for that
She was so butt hurt that she canceled the rest of the show and picked the first white knight who comforted her. They railroaded that poor guy into proposing, shocker, they broke up a few months later.....
She is the male version of old guys who date really young girls and don't like to get called out. They live eternally in a age crisis and never take a thing seriously. They look for people to enable their childlish behavior.
When he spoke about setting an example for his daughter he was talking about HIS actions. Not her. He was saying "if my family saw me doing that what example would I be setting for my daughter" based on what she should expect from men and how she would witness her father acting. Nothing he said was disrespectful imo. Just blunt. And tbh that exactly what she should be looking for in a man because it showed integrity and self respect and forethought.
I agree but clearly she wasn’t looking for that, especially when the dodge ball scene came on. She was looking for a single man without a kid and who she could have fun with. He wasn’t it. He just salty asf.
“Settle for men like that”??? You mean a man who has self respect and wants to set the best example for his daughter. A man who wants a grown woman not a old ass woman who acts like she’s 20. That’s why she’s single... she a big ass red flag!
Thank you. SO ppl are just so god damn dumb. I don't think anyone actually goes onto the the bachelor or bachelorette actually thinking there going to fall in love and settle down and if you do then that's just sad.
@@1LadyM7 she's almost 40 and needs men to strip? I wouldn't even pull those antics as a 31year old and also handled the situation poorly for a 40year old. It was petty AF but her ass was doing the same.
@@BooksToAshes but in the recent years people have been calling it out and not being okay with it, especially after Me Too movement. No one cares at all when it happens to guys or women are literally touching, grouping and slapping guys butts - men are supposed to be okay with it and be somehow grateful and pleased. If you do it to a woman that's a stranger you'll be accused of so many things, slapped and often arrested.
I know, right? Social media can only tell you so much. For all she knows that guy she pre selected could be a serial killer that turns women into flesh suits or something and he wouldn't put his dark habits on social media.
Him throwing out the "Remember, you're almost 40" reminded me of the old Trinity movie where he fires his gun behind and over his shoulder ; shoots the guy aiming at him out of the window.
She's just as petty for saying 'I would never want my children to have a father like you'. She knows exactly what she's doing when she says that, and it's not the first time she's said it.
@@lordreyna6924 even with help, only so much earth science can do right now. Probability drops drastically, even for IVF post 40. Adoption always a tough, but awesome option !
Not really a lot of these men who are on these shows when you look at them they are definitely out of the woman's(Bachelorette) league. A lot of these men are well accomplished and successful they can get these girls at a club, event, party you name it. How the show gets these men on their platform is another thing cause just like the Batchelor said he sacrificed a lot to be here maybe the producers coerced him to do this. But all in all it's a TV show it could be all staged or it could be half real half fake one thing I'm sure of is that a lot of these men can get these attractive hot women anywhere literally anywhere they don't need to be on a show to get them. Hell I would be on the show just for the fun of it. No intent on being with the Bachelorette that's the mindset of a lot of these men. A lot of them after the show don't hook or even smell marriage
@@NoName-sp5dp yeah, right! Are you actually trying to defend the bachelorette who's mom is supposedly dying (the bachelorettes own words)meanwhile shes on a tv show displaying her immaturity?
It MAJORLY hurt her feelings! Fuck her. I completely see why she is single. She wants a young guy who wont speak his mind like that and a boy toy to play with when she bored. 40 unmarried no kids. Stubborn. Arrogant. Man the only thing she has going is her looks and even that is questionable!
I get it now why the people in paradise avoided her like the plague. They were able to see what the viewing public couldn’t. I was one of the individuals who was cheering her on and feeling bad that she couldn’t find love. I really couldn’t understand before but now it’s really clear. Beauty is no substitute for flawed character. She literally waisted the time of all the men that season and they are still simping after her.
I think that guy won when he walked off that show and certainly not the “dude bros” who ran to her defense. I really feel sorry for any man that winds up with that basket case.
To her soul Caesar. In college I broke up with my girlfriend who was sleeping around. She attempted to shine on me. In return, I said seven words to her and went to my room: I hope you catch AIDS and die. Months later, as her on-campus dorm roommate was dating a friend of mine, she shared with him how suicidal and hysterical my ex was acting once she got back to her room. 😆 Long story short, he ended up marrying his girlfriend. As a result, he stated to me that how I was able to tell off my ex; and how his girlfriend/wife was able to witness first hand the guilt, shame, and the CONSEQUENCES of my ex's piss poor decision making, was so instrumental in his future wife's ability and willingness to not take him for granted. In basket ball ladies and gentlemen we call that an assist.
I think it was more because she was embarrassed, it was done in front of a group of people and it's being filmed. I'm sure you all have seen a woman get so angry she burst into tears. Women can testify when we are that angry we can't think straight and articulate how we feel correctly without calming down first. The tears are just from knowing we can't legally kill you lol.
While I understand the point you guys made that he started being petty too and that it was not a good example, I don't think he was exactly wrong doing that because some people (like that lady) need a reality check once in a while, or they'll never change their ways.
@@aeoligarlic4024i wouldnt. Some people need a reality check and i hope they change for the better otherwise they will continue with the same behaviour and end up being bitter and resentful. I personlay have done it in the past, some realized that they were the problem and changed their ways and how they view things and every now and then they thank me for it. They live good and succesfull lives and im happy for them. The others that never changed, never held themselves accountable and live misserable lives and in social media they prettend everything is all good and great and thats not the way to live life.
@@stevenskates8077 The fact hes a single father means he has his head on straight PLUS hes a great father. For a 30+ yr old successful man that is 10x more attractive to a mature woman since she knows he can take care of a family
@@Rosannasfriend ? he was just telling her she was doing stuff not clearly good for parenting red flags telling people what might be wrong in their relationship that might go further?, that women is basically 40 and in full college mode thats why she is single still. i would say she attack him when she said thats why your not being picked any further! it was clear she didn't care and thats why she is single and has problems. all the man tried to do was tell her the issue after that she tried to throw him under the bus and he fought back nothing wrong with that.
Agreed. She was not attacked, she was being childish. I don't like the guys reaction but sadly we can't dictate how he should have reacted to her disrespect.
@@Rosannasfriend If adult, dispassionate criticism is worthy of being considered an 'attack' to you, I'm going to assume your ego's as unfettered as those on display in the clip.
“I’m the oldest bachelorette here that’s 39, skinny and single is because I don’t settle for men like that.” No she got it all wrong. She’s the oldest bachelorette who’s 39, skinny and single is because men like that don’t want to settle for her.
@@LipSyncLover nah man he doesn’t compare to her toxicity. It looks bad because confrontation bw a man and a woman always makes man look worse than it is. It’s how we humans think.
@@Jojo_D_Northstar i think we instinctually want to protect the more "frail" woman from the aggressive looking man yes. and i do think she seems considerably far more of a nutcase. but still, they dont need to be equally toxic for me to be like "oof, his ego.....check please"
Facts, but at the same time I get Aba and them point because a lot of guys do this and honestly it’s not our job as men to set women straight. It’s not your duty to tell a petty woman she’s petty or make her see the error of your ways. Just move on. She definitely felt that though.
@@RGM5396 who cares whose job it is. It takes 2 seconds to say and it will teach her an important lesson. Honestly he did her a favor by telling her she’s almost 40. She should feel embarrassed for a reason.
@@ThomasFoolery8 he cares, because he took it upon himself he to say it. I have no problem with him addressing his concerns but why get petty with it at the end? See, we as RP men complain about when women are petty, obnoxious , or overly masculine. But now that a man is being petty and emotional (overly feminine)…we wanna celebrate? No be consistent. And no, she didn’t learn her lesson, she just criticized him back, which is what most people do when you criticize them unwarranted and out of place. They don’t learn the lesson, they just look at the person criticizing and say “who tf are you?” Rule #1 of how to win friends and influence people “don’t criticize or complain… you will only be meant with criticism and complaint.” If you go to a restaurant and they don’t serve what you want? Should you put the restaurant on blast on your way out? Or should you calmly state your issue to a waiter, and then leave? That’s the problem with a lot of people nowadays, there out of order. He should have stated why he wants to leave like he did at first; but when she started to get petty and emotional that does not mean he should do it back. As a man, we know damn well…That’s out of order.
My favorite part of this video was them yelling, "HAAAAG" with creaky ass floorboards. Anyone showing up to compete for someone on a televised show is a red flag. Anyone making you compete for them is a red flag. Goes both ways.
The worst part is that when she broke it off with the other men, cutting the show off half way through, she was asked for an apology by one of the men. Guess what her response was? "what would i apologize for?" ( not exact) Then she went into a fake tears apology where she said "if I hurt you" and "I'm not apologizing for love". This women couldn't even take responsibility for the fact she wasted all of those guys time and effort when she already decided who she was going to pick. But guess what makes it worse? She didn't even get confirmation that the man she picked felt the same way and expected a proposal that day. You have to think about how insane it is to do this. Honestly I think those men dodge a bullet.
I personally don’t understand why everyone was upset “talking to a women like that” for real? So the guy isn’t allowed to express why he didn’t like something. can you imagine how pissed everyone would be if it was a guy asking the girls to strip. If the roles were reversed everyone would be praising her for telling him off. SMH 🤦♀️
@Hello It's K all by that argument I hope you see this soiled cabbage of a woman is still less than what he is. To expect men to behave in the manner that he refused to & good on him for that, she's a lowlife. I'm older by many years & to me she isn't a decent human being. She's not worthy of a decent husband. Anyone who does a show like that has little self respect.
She deserved what he said but he also is no saint. Why is he a single dad? How did he treat his daughter’s mother? Why is he on a dating show if he wanted to set a good example for his daughter?
No, he said it to hurt her. Too make her feel old and undesirable. She cried in pain which was just what he wanted. Her personality and actions on the show (judging) from this clip) were not great at all and she certainly needed some serios constructive criticism. He choose to hurt and humiliate her instead and I don´t get why he is being celebrated for that.
Why isn’t anyone talking about the validity of what he said though... that challenge was tacky as hell. No way a man would get away with having a strip dodgeball competition to help him find his wife and not get flack for it for demeaning women. He wasn’t looking for the last word - he wanted her to know that what she did was degrading. That’s what I got from it anyway. 🤷♀️
The competition served no purpose. She just wanted eye candy. If genders were reversed the show wouldn’t air. Those men were dumb enough to play along and only one guy questioned her.
@@ko5034 You can still say how you feel even if it's not an uncommon practice. Also, I'm sure his daughter is fine and with family. You can do something without "abandoning" your child you know.
@@PrincessZaire100 the issue is as much as that is good response, he knows that, he acknowledges that. He is actively searching for someone to be the mother of his daughter. On the other hand, she is claiming to be happily single and complaining about her mother's health. As much as those are valid, she didn't appear to be taking the search for a potential husband seriously. This is the issue the guy was trying to address. I do agree that that show is dumb, but hey, here we are talking about it haha, so it does have some effect I guess.
@@stephenoni2019 I mean, if he was looking for a mother for his child, why did he go into reality television, especially a television show that he can at any time be eliminated from said show. Why not find someone in the real world
@@PrincessZaire100 I don't know; there's an element of clout chasing when it comes to appearing on these shows. I guess you're hinting at something important, everyone on this show is probably fake, but there are degrees of 'fakeness' and she is up there on the list as very fake and plastic.
That’s what I don’t get, I feel like most people go on Bachelor/ Bachelorette for fame and not really looking for a spouse. I think he’s a little sanctimonious.
He didn't go petty. He told her the truth, like he should. Enough with allowing or easily forgiving female bullshit, hypocrisy and double standards. I'm glad he didn't apologize and he DID give a good example to his daughter to NOT be like her. It's important to stand up for what's right and what she did isn't right.
He did go petty. He could have left it to marinate and been the bigger person. Instead he stoops to insulting her age. Yea, real good example for your daughter there, buddy.
@@nope5657 She’s not a child, she is 39 and needs to grow up. Your defending her for what? The bigger thing to do is humble her and make her realize how childish she is.
He didn't yell, and he didn't even say anything uncalled for. "I wouldn't want my daughter looking up to you, and i don't want the people i love to think i accept that kind of behavior"
People saying hes already wrong for being on the show but didnt consider only a certain clas of people get on it. He probably had so much disposable time the only thing he misses is his kid. dude came here to kill time and hopefully get a wife. she came for eye candy but got pink eye
Yeah, but when you hold the mirror up to childish people for their shitty behaviour, they tend to throw their toys out the pram. It doesn't matter how he said it or what he said, any form of criticism will make an insecure loser throw a huge tantrum.
"Remember, you're almost 40." I don't think that was a criticism of her age but a criticism of her immature behavior. He wants a woman who has dignity whose behavior befits her age and opportunities for personal growth.
YESSSSSSS!! My dude would've caught a case if he did that shit and she would've milked being a poor victim on every daytime show from America to Antarctica.
When you’re constantly told since the day you’re little that “you’re a princess and you deserve the world” this is the result, you grow up to be entitled, have no accountability whatsoever and you think that you’re never wrong. No matter what she does she’s never wrong, she’s always the victim, and since she’s the woman men have to vow to her and accept her for who and what she is while she has a million standards when it comes to men... This is how sadly, a lot of women operate. Smh.
Honestly, a female can grow up around responsible people teaching her great values but as soon as she get some toxic friends that's when she develops this kind of attitude. I've seen it happen.
Exactly what did she do wrong in that situation? HE took her to the side to low key insult her and get some attention so he wouldn't end up as background filler. Obviously the low blow hurt her feelings and on top of the embarrassment of it being filmed. You've never been so angry you start to cry? They obviously asked to respond right afterwards, so we see an emotional one. Instead of her calming down, get her thoughts together, to respond more articulately.
@@drowningin If you are implying that somehow I think I'm "quirky" because I can write in binary, then you are mistaken. I'm a computer programmer, and I work with a few other girls who are programmers as well.
She acted as if she understood- but she barely even listened to him. Childish woman. Listeners are usually smart people. But- eh. Kinda falls short. First-class petty.
She went into defense mode so fast when he was opening up to her about what was bothering him and then took it as a chance to throw it back at him and make him feel like shit. "And that's why you were not on that date" is such a back-handed comment. I understand Aba's point about not reciprocating the pettiness, yet she did walk herself into that challenge.
If someone is being petty doing low blows towards you it's better to either stay quiet or say "that was totally unnececary" and then leave, if you let them enrage you then they have won. By refusing to engage in pettyness back you still have your dignity intact and they will stand there looking like a fool. On a few occasions I have actualy gotten an apology by the other person because I stayed quiet, they then realized they went too far. If I had been petty back then they could justify it in their brain with "oh but she was being petty back so fuck her" you know.
@@zebnemma i agree with your point. Hopefully he can reflect on this and use it as a lesson to control his reactions. In a perfect world we would all get along, but this is not a perfect world
I'm glad he told her that even though it was petty. There was a room full of guys who took off from work, signed up the the show months maybe even a year in advance to be treated like shit and not given a proper chance. Some people don't realize their behavior until they are put in check. And sometime being put in check humbles a person.
Basically this woman very self centred in every way imaginable. She is disconnected from her actions and consequences all I have heard was I, ME, MY what a narcissist
@@lolzvendetta9579 If that's your interactions with women maybe you need to seek out better company. Or if that's all you see in the media you might want to look elsewhere. You attract certain people/behaviours for a reason so you might want to take a look in the mirror...
@@EllieGrant-x6u Can we respect each others stances if that's what he has observed that's his thought you or I can't change it but all we can do is respect it even if we dont like it right??
@@EllieGrant-x6u so girls who attract shitty and abusive men are to blame because they haven't looked in the mirror. Glad you said it because that's been a experience too
@@michaeltatum2610 Nope because what if his thoughts make guys she wants think she's like that. They might avoid her. That's would be sooooooooo horrible.
As much as society loves to talk about the "fragility of the male ego", it's videos like this that prove that women are just as bad at handling rejection as men are, and that egotism is not a trait that's exclusive to men nor women, but all human beings.
@Brian Banks ^This real talk! I've seen it in person! Guys get used to rejection and (typically) handle it way better. While I've seen some masculine temper tantrums, the feminine ones are like nuclear missiles being detenated!
@ThatOneOddLookingDog ThatBarksAtYou what?? You do know one of those happens a LOT more than the other right? If "some" guys killed whenever they were rejected we would run out of people.
Ok but he claims that he's losing time with his daughter to be on this show... But then goes on such a trashy show to find "love". What did he expect? Class? I'm not defending her at all, but damn, something about him rubs me the wrong way too.
Yeah, it'd be like going on The Bachelor and being mad that they want a group hot tub date and require everyone wear a bikini. These are trash shows, not Wholesome Mingle.
Nah, I suspect she has heard it many times before, so she was bracing herself. She is the kind of girl that thinks being pretty entitles her to a real man, but her personality is enough to turn real men off (and they have plenty of better options anyway). So she is what I think of as a limbo girl (as in, she is stuck in limbo). She isn't good enough for the men she wants, and she is too good for the men who want her (who she would never date, as her self image is too important to her, and it would be humiliating to date a beta male). So she is stuck in limbo, and too stubborn/delusional to realise it is her own fault. If she was capable of recognising that her own behaviour is to blame for her being such a turn off, she would have changed years ago. Her future is going to be settling for the best simp she can get, because she is out of the dating range for real men.
Did anybody catch the fact that she tried interrupting him while he was talking by saying her mom or grandma was dying lol, why are you on a dating show then dummy ?go spend the last days with your love ones.
Imagine expecting a reasonable dating experience on a harem reality TV show where everyone is attractive. That guy played a stupid game and expected a decent prize.🤣🤣
THANK YOU! People expect WAY too much from this show. Like think about how shitty online dating is... okay now put it into a tv show and use tons of editing. Idk why people expect her to be a more “ genuine” person... most of this stuff isn’t real and I’ve even heard some of the contestants are not even there for love but clout
Let me be clear, there is NOTHING GOOD about arguing emotionally with a woman you have ZERO intentions of dating. Having the last word doesn't make you a winner, it just means you dont have your ego in check. Learn to walk away!
btw the other dude deleted his comment because... Everyone got a lot to say till they get pinned lol.
everybody gangsta until they get the pin of shame
Not sure why people get scared of being Pinned. You spoke up now pay the pipper and back your ass up or handle the shame and walk away with what dignity you have left
Dang it! I like the roasting after the pin of shame...
Can someone tell me what the comment was 🤣
Maybe the lesson he is showing his daughter is that when you try to go about it has an adult and the other person won’t budge from their petty horse....It’s know longer about being diplomatic....it’s about standing up for yourself and showing them you won’t just stand by and be a verbal punching bag
I would say avoid this type of woman, but somehow men managed to avoid her for almost 40 years, so good on them.
Men weren't avoiding her for 40 years, they was busting nuts then walking away
@@isafarooq1721 if they were busting for 40 years, 17 years worth of men needa be in jail
@@puurplegiraffe beat me to it by 9 damn seconds according to the RUclips ticker thing 😂 nice one
@@isafarooq1721 😭😂😂😂Facts!!!!
@@puurplegiraffe If you had any idea of the amount of girls I knew, when I was a sophomore in high school that had college-age and beyond "boyfriends", your head would explode.
"I'm happily single", the woman who literally went on a reality tv show to find a partner.
Lol not only that though I think this is the like 3rd/4th time she’s been on this show. Maybe 3rd I know she was on bachelor (1 guy many girls) and bachelor in paradise. Which is just a fuck fest lol
@@Billieraysson bless her heart
Well it's a reality show not real dating
@@NoName-sp5dp has this exact reality show not led to real, legally binding marriages? And is that not in fact the entire premise of said show?
You can be happy when you're single and want to take the next step into partnership with someone to share your life.
"You're almost forty.."
The Coroner: Cause of death was blunt force "drama."
That was funny 😆
That was corny asfffff Lmfao great
Ayyyye
His words had the savagery of a man clubbing a baby seal
Can’t wait to use this hahahahaha
Wow, as a woman, the fact that this man was turned off by strip dodgeball and considered his daughter and family, would make him my number ONE choice for husband. That's a display of integrity and courage that is so attractive. That Bachelorette is crazy for not doing a 180 then and there. He is the one that is lucky to have dodged her.
And Aba, I think he did the right thing for telling her straight. Probably no one else in life ever did. If more people did that, badly behaving adults would dwindle in shame, as they should.
agreed sometimes its best to feel that shame or you will never change, maybe she will learn from it but I doubt it. I am someone who has done pretty shameful stuff in my time that made me regret.
I also agree 100%.. That girl is trying to get a man and then goes out alone to watch strip volleyball.. Girls would you be OK with it if your date ditched you and went to the strip club.. Didn't think so!
That part
And they’re on a reality show, so it’s expected to be extra
That would be fine if that was his intention. It wasn't, he wanted to put on display his honor or whatever. Fuck that, he is on a damn show to entertain people. He was saying that shit to insult her for what? For also participating in a bullshit show? This guy was a bitch. If he had that honor he pretended to have he would have never been on the fucking show. It was either written in or he was a bitch. I hope it was acting.
She ain't looking for a husband, she is looking for a boy toy. Hence the strip dodgeball.
The producers idea not hers. Show is scripted. Idea is stupid regardless.
@@ishish8816 not EVERYTHING is without their decision, thats actually untrue. the endings tend to be the most obvious scripting, and some of the fighting and bickering etc, BUT even still it could be fun for them. maybe it wasnt, but they didnt have to do it.
Sounds like Shallon Lester if she went for people past 16
@@ishish8816 and she isn't an actress, even though she's on the other shows.
@@ishish8816 it's not like she had to agree...it's her reputation too, obviously it's had consequences. I don't really care if it was her idea or not, just like the guys she went along with it, if it is even true in the first place. I noticed she hasn't directly denied it was her idea, just liked posts of other people who implied that it wasn't.
Her only direct response was to point out juan carlo (or whoever) also did a nude (and covered up) photo shoot with other contestants for pet adoption...while being oblivious to the fact, there is a massive difference between a prescheduled, agreed upon, professional and compensated photo shoot vs blindsiding someone with the ultimatum that they either strip for your amusement or fall behind all the guys who did in standing. If she had been doing it to determine if any of the guys had enough integrity to stand up to her, that would be one thing. BUT...
I can tell you she didn't look at all reluctant or uncomfortable with the fact she was going to have almost a dozen attractive guys stripping for her attention. I can't say in the reverse situation I would either. But I'm not going to come out and defend my actions after the fact if I'm called out on it. I'm going to say "yeah you are probably right, I apologize I offended you." Then make a personal judgement call on if I was actually wrong or if you are over-reacting. Because that is what adults do.
"but he did this so what I did is less wrong now." is the behavior of a child. but I'm not surprised. most attractive women don't have adult behavior until about 50 or 60.
"I need to tell you-"
"I hear you, but let's circle back and make it about me again."
Narcissism 101. Promises to listen but interrupts anyway. He knew right then and there the gloves had to come off. So Nahh, I'm on his side, bruh 🙅🏾♂️💯
Okay....that's funny dammit 😃🤣😃👍
the way she back peddled while mentioning her mom is dying told me everything i needed to know about her
And then trying to trump him by playing the victim card that her mother is dying...lady, if your mother is dying, why the heck are you even in that show?
@watercubes 99 i don’t think it’s narcissistic though. it’s just her trying to relate and say that she understands which is a sort of normal way to respond?
I love how she said "thats why you were not on that date" so confidently, as if that was going to hurt him, like baybee are you not listening to the man, he aint interested!
I know right!!
Haha
@@GUYSnGAMES like reeeeally babe! such second hand embarrassment wow
🤯 that is how I spell baybee😬
@@orlandomojica18 welcome to the club...baybee 😂😉
Once he said, "I'm ashamed of being associated with YOU"....
I feel like, kicking him out wasn't really necessary. He was recusing HIMSELF.
Rescuing himself from that mess
Just imagine if a bachelor made a bunch of Bachelorette contestsnts get naked and play volleyball. The backlash he would recieve is beyond comprehension.
Exactly! Finally people are understanding its not okay to make women do that kind of stuff, but turn around and ask men to do it instead. Whatever.
Don’t they do that kind of stuff though? I never watch these shows but I thought this was just par for the course.
@@mera8785 no. The man in this video is classy compared to that 40 year old. Besides you didn’t even acknowledge the point. Women are hypocrites about sexism.
That is because we are equal
They just do it off camera.
He prefers to be with his daughter than on the show. That's good. But seriously, he shouldn't have attended that stupid show.
Hahahahaha, also very very true.
I agree but im sure they get paid so its not a complete waste.
He can leave if he rest wants to. Those "reality" TV shows usually sign you up with some pretty humiliating contract conditions. So he still needs to keep that in mind. Besides that, he would have had to plan in the time for the show anyways in advance. When he signed up, he knew how long it would take.
@@griselgriselda2901 How is he wrong? It's a reality show so they edit to make drama worse than it is. Finding out in person that the chick is awful is absolutely valid.
@@griselgriselda2901 classic woman with name calling. you need to learn the values being conveyed not taking sides just because of your gender. Shots are called but you dont need to add a stone on a pond of wisdom. the fact that this show is crazy, people watching getting attached to it , getting crazier than normal in this pandemic. the man had more depth despite all the murkiness of retaliation of words. SWEETPEA.
The fact she is almost 40 and had to resort to a tv show to find a husband is a massive red flag
desperation... literally like all of the other contestants.. unless they're rich and bored.. then they're chads for adding some entertainment
She is almost a decade older than the average bachelor. If men were dating someone a decade younger they'd be called pedophiles in todays climate
@@AvWorgen and also would get cancelled for "being a disgusting old man, who is just trying to make himself feel better by dating someone half his age"
Her sexual marketplace value is rapidly fading near 40 and probably due to very poor life choices and or character she resorts to TV
I mean, she's probably getting paid a LOT. If anything she might not really care about finding a husband, it's probably more about the money for her (she gives me that vibe). Probably just wants younger men to sleep with and move on.
she peaked in College and is hanging onto those days with all her strength
No woman on the bachelorette is happily single. Man spoke the truth.
No one who's over 30 is happily single
True anyone who’s happily single couldn’t bother going to a blind date show
No man on the bachelor is happily single, what’s your point ? If any of these people were they wouldn’t be on a dating show lol.
@@Oll_704 she said she was happily single and I was responding to that. Of course the men there are also not happily single, in fact Yosef was not happily single hence his justified outburst. She was angry, and she has a right to be angry, but in her anger she's pretending to be 'happily single'. That's the point.
@@aFrostySkywalker facts I know some men over who are over AND under 30 who are single and depressed. It's not a gender thing.
She's 39 and thirsting for strip volleyball and IG posts like she's still 19.
💯💯...some still dont get it
Yeah, I know someone who is over 40, she posts things on social media that you would expect a teenager to post, it is so offputting, like woman, act your age please. Have some class.
It's sad
Instagram wasn't even around when she was 19
@@griselgriselda2901 and what if he isn’t actually old?
The way she said "yeah my mom is.....dying" it's like she's trying to up him on the sympathy counter. I just realized these kind of people don't actually empathize, they mimic empathy.
She's was just trying to one up him.
“Mimic empathy”
100%
I couldn't believe she said that
@Cookie Food She's a genius? Your fucking patetic
Cookie Food is a fool.
Why anyone, man or woman, would go on a reality show to find a spouse, is beyond me.
“I expected more From the oldest bachelorette” I SCREAMED that subtle shade before he went in for the kill 🤣👏🏾
same 😂 my jaw dropped when he said that😂 she petty but he petty PETTY 🤣
Well, by a certain age you should know better. Why is she on this show anyway? Aba/Preach are exaggerating calling her a " hag" but you can say she's swimming in the "kiddie pool."
It's true though. Women love to point of that shit when a man does something immature. They love pointing out your age.
💀✨
That man could have been a sniper, he made that kill with such precision and grace
She literally never left the high school mindset
You haven't been in social media then. Many late 30s to 40 plus women still think they are in High school.
@@oyaml1211 It's true of a lot of men and women tbh, and not only on social media. Social media just makes people lose their filter.
I feel the majority of people never lose the high school mindset
@@MrNWgamer
I disagree. Most people do not but the ones that do are usually politicians.
Typical western women
“Remember your almost 40” yo he dropped the sprit bomb
This made me lmao
dude could blow 2 namek sized planets with that one
straight facts
More like a Tsar bomb Lmao
XDDDDDD Bruh You the real MVP for that one man
honestly props to this guy. taking a stand not only for himself but DEFINITELY expressing the feelings of the men who were basically publicly shamed on national tv to flame her ego
"You're Almost 40!".... Oufffff.
If the audio is weird, its for copyright reasons
which program is this?
Don't ever say "bruv I'm from brixton" again aba...ever
HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAG!
Poop
Given her the FULL Tom Petty
"I didn't settle for a man like that." You mean the one that cares about his daughter and doesn't want to set a bad example for her.
He already set a bad example by being on the show. You know this guy been to a strip club before but shhhh let's keep a secret from his daughter.
@Blob Monster cause he said the truth? the woman was a bitch and the guy called her out he might’ve said a little to much but doesn’t change that he was speaking facts
Like the guys said, he should’ve stopped himself before saying the “I’m embarrassed of being associated with you” because all after that he came out as an asshole. He weaponized a woman’s age, that’s not a good example for his daughter.
Beyond setting an example for his daughter she's just a bitch and needed someone to tell her the truth. No man has obviously ever called her out on her character.
@@addiram1396 95% of men went in a strip club doesnt mean they are bad guys
Imagine how cringe it would be if a 39 year old man manipulated a bunch of younger girls to play strip dodgeball for you. 🥴
Yeah but it's not the same, cause we're not the same
@@contrerasmcr100 why is it not the same?
@@RandomPerson-gf6gd cause man and woman are not the same
@@contrerasmcr100 but there isn’t a difference in this case? Equality right?
@@RandomPerson-gf6gd in the example you gave there is dude, we are not the same no matter what they are trying to sell
I love the way he (at least tried to) respectfully put her in check. That is exactly how you earn the title “Daddy”.
tf
Ole' gurl said, _That is exactly how you earn the title "daddy",_ end quote. Naw, dudes earn that title, when we bust a nut or two on ya & we're stuck paying the cleaners for 18 years.
@@AV-xm5ln no cause really wtf
@I have no mouth And i must scream nothing wrong with it, its just mad random
freak alert...
"I didn't settle for MEN. LIKE. THAT." you mean, ones that want to keep a reasonable amount of self respect and think about others before themselves?
You got it Poo.. heheh.. Poo.. haha. wait. I'll get it.. Poopy Peepod!! well said P !
@@GaranPaneos poopy or peepod or poo works idm! just whatever haha
She nailed the reason, just has the wrong perspective. She is single because she avoided men like him-men who have a backbone.
I think they are as bad as each other. They guy was lying, who goes on this show to set an example for thier daughter 🤮. And then he couldn't hold his shit together...if he kept his shit her fake cries and put on the act would have been seen by everyone for what they were, and he may have got an answer. But he just wanted to voice his distaine....which is fine...but dont dress it up like it a personal attack on your sainthood. Nahhhhh🤔
Men that don't want to strip off like a fucking performing seal? Next!
It was damned painful to see how all the other men simped and took her side even though he was 100% right.
he wasnt. he signed up for a show. if i would signed up for a show i would expect something like that to happen, afterall its a tv show. now idk about this particular show but most tv reality shows are planned, at least activities. you always take a risk when you sign up for tv reality shows that you will be portrayed not the way you are or that only one side of you will be depicted or that you will be viewed negatively just by association. it does not excuse her for going whole sexual, but its not her fault he chose to participate in a tv show.
Stop rationalizing, call a spade a spade if you behave poorly be it privately or publicly doesn't mean its acceptable even if you sign up for something the limits you set are what matter, so check yourself before you wreck yourself
@@teaja211that wasn't the issue she was disrespectful and that was the problem
@@teaja211 🙄
@@teaja211 Good, the lack of accountability in this post reeks of feminine energy
It’s funny that she has to say “I’m single because I’ve never settled for men like that!” when he’s the one who broke it off. She really tried to pull a “you can’t fire me, I quit!” on him.
Its also great cause it means by 40 you STILL couldnt find the right kind of man to pick you.
A lot of them do this, because all of these problems come from an extremely low self-esteem, which they always blame on other previous men, because why? Always the victim.. It's just a defense mechanism.
@@ryanmcguire9951 That wasn't defense, just entitlement and arrogance. "I don't care what I've done, I didn't do anything." I bet you if you showed her this video of Aba and Preach reacting this and read her the comments she still won't have any awareness, or accountability that she was in the wrong and Yosef was right. Although I do agree with Aba, he shouldn't have brought the age thing that was unnecessary. Although Yosef was right about her he should've walked away. And as for her picking who she wanted beforehand, wasting everyone's time like that, super entitled. And more annoying how those other dudes were trying to coerce Yosef to apologize for calling Claire out on her bullshit. The way they completely ignored how disrespectful SHE was to Yosef and only got mad at him is mind boggling.
@@summerrose8110 I don't know what the word salad is after like the "......I didn't do anything" but, I don't think I necessarily disagree with you, but, it is definitely a defense mechanism protecting the ego. No one can break it off with her, she has to be the one, or else there's ego injury... Crying for hours later.. This is why most people that get broken up with will tell others: They are actually the one that did the breaking up, around others.. It's their ego, their personna, they're trying to save their position. As in accordance to the comment "it's like quitting, as you're being fired" same idea. To save ego injury. Arrogance is how it comes off sure, that's just the way it's being conveyed... But it's ultimately to save the ego
That last sentence is fucking gold lmfao.
Crazy how women can openly objectify men, while playing the victim of a "patriarchal society"
"Talking to a woman like that? I don't care what was done. I don't care what I've done."
Translation: Right or wrong, I don't want to be held accountable for my actions
🎇🎆🎇 YES! STOP IT YOUR SPEAKING TO MUCH FACTS🎇🎆🎉
That exactly how I heard it
Your translator is functioning correctly sir.
Simpin' ain't easy
@@ko5034 I see your point, but after the M2 movement and all the issues of degrading/sexually harassing women, he chose to use his 15 minutes of fame as a platform for (wait for it) "equality" 😲 He did not show any type of rage until she got in his face and put her hands on him which is understandable. (Simply put, "Keep your F*?king hands to yourself") I can't blame the guy for having principles. If a woman was looking for a father figure/mate and left her son home for three months would you call her a dead beat mother? (probably not because she's a woman) It's a 99% chance she will not get married and if so, It won't last long and the divorce will probably be initiated by her. Red Pill Men like myself, view a woman like this as toxic so this womanchild would not have received any attention at all. MGTOW
She was cutting him off before he even could say anything very cringy..
Bro women b like that
No I totally get you by the way my mom is dying
Characteristics of a self entitled narcissist
And she put her hands on him in that argument
classic "MY word is more important than yours"
"There's been a couple of red flags."
That's when I paused the vid and fixed myself a drink.
LOL
Same
That's when I know it's about to go down 👊
Hehehehhee
☕
4:06 "I would never want my kids having a father like you" is her go-to line. She also used it on Juan Pablo's season at the proposal.
She couldn't handle someone telling her that what she did was wrong. The scene you showed say more about her than him
Nah she couldn’t handle someone calling her out for being nearly 40 lol
She mentioned that she sat down and listened to him for the past 20 minutes. She even apologized for interrupting him at one point. So I think she was pretty understanding at the start, after all, he had a valid point about male objectification. But then it got to the point where he was becoming verbally abusive. When she defended herself, he kept trying to shut her down. So on the contrary, he was the one who couldn’t handle being told that his approach to the situation was wrong. Overall, I agree with him but I don’t like how he went about it. 🙅🏾♀️
( EDIT: I’ve since apologized for labeling it as “verbally abusive” because those words can understandably be traumatically triggering for some people. I also don’t have any professional psychological training to classify it as such, nor have I personally experienced it in a way that would allow me to recognize it. So I want to thank everyone for correcting me on that. And again, I’m sincerely sorry 💛)
She doesnt like to be held accountable.
@@linann96 In what other ways could he have went about it? Because I believe that he did the right thing.
@@linann96 typical for you to side with her
I'm a women and she needed to hear the truth, she has probably verbally abused so many men.
Unfortunately she wouldn't let him tell her the truth. She ran away at the end cause she couldn't handle it. She interrupted him multiple times, and had the AUDACITY to say "I've listened to you this entire time" and then walked away. Unless I'm mistaken (and if I'm mistaken, she still supported the idea), she literally made men strip for her own enjoyment, but as soon as someone reminds her that she's almost 40, she starts to cry. "I don't deserve to be treated like that."
That's the mentality of a literal 3 year old. Happy to make others uncomfortable, but as soon as anyone makes her uncomfortable, she breaks down and acts like the victim.
If she doesn't straighten her ass out, she's gonna be alone forever.
@pissedpookie You're right. As sad as it is, that's reality. But something tells me she won't be happy with him. And unless you're happy with your partner, I still consider that to be "alone."
@@ko5034 he was no NFL player never made the team, never got signed, never played in 1 NFL pro game, he tried out and made a couple practice squads, if he was an NFL player than I am Michael Jordan cause I played ball in the park a bunch of times
@@ko5034 ko, chill. No one is age shaming you. You just sound like a classic tv-believing karen.
@@ko5034 nah he was definitely looking for context behind your comments
This is a woman who you’d want to avoid, 100%
he xposed her ass , she went full Karen.
okay 😃
Oke
@@spinmaster6995 lmao
@Poor whyt Baltimorian get what? Where's the standards bruv?
Preach has legitimately taught me how to be better at responding to situations where there is disagreement, whether it is big or small. I admire the way that he is able to put forward his viewpoint while also taking in the perspective of the other person respectfully, and I’ve tried to be more like that in my own life. Even small things like nodding while the other person is speaking can do a lot - I read somewhere that body language makes a massive difference in whether an argument will end badly or end in compromise and a mutual feeling of being heard.
You can tell he has a lot of emotional intelligence and experience from being in a relationship for a while.
I don’t blame him. And now she’s the victim.
Remember in ever interaction with them " women most affected" is always happens
Yep, simps love to cape for those female tears smh
@Romanticide
Uh, .last time I checked, he was speaking his mind and she interrupted him, he finished, then she went crazy, then he left. What do you mean he could have just left? He literally DID.
@@Delimon007 Boi don't act stupid, the guy made a petty ass comment he didn't just simply "walk away ". However, the chick was defo in the wrong n the guy is kind of a douche
@@spencil9941
lmfao! The dude was saying what he had to say and was interrupted, the only thing he did that was petty was at the end, he literally walked away once he said what he had to say, so many idiots is the reason why society will fail, and I can't wait for that
She's single cus her exes could dodge bullets like Neo.
Genius comment
What if I told you, when you're ready, you won't have to.
She ain't wife material
Like Neyo 😹😹😹😹
Or maybe someone cheated or maybe it was them.
Correction: "I'm 39 and single because nobody puts up with my sh*t*
🎉😀🎆🎇🎉 THIS
Exactly, everybody knows someone like this, attractive but abrasive and relationship with that person will lead to anything but happyness
@Dustin Smith especially middle age woman, we gotta respect our elders😂
Word to mother lol
@Dustin Smith 🤜😭🤛
“Talking to a woman like that I don’t care what was done” is the craziest fucking statement I’ve ever heard he was respectful way more so then her.
She was so butt hurt that she canceled the rest of the show and picked the first white knight who comforted her. They railroaded that poor guy into proposing, shocker, they broke up a few months later.....
they're back together again.
@@alepatera fingers crossed 😂. Also, she has pink hair now.... not a good sign, lol.
Honestly, I hope it works out between them, if they’re happy.
She is the male version of old guys who date really young girls and don't like to get called out. They live eternally in a age crisis and never take a thing seriously. They look for people to enable their childlish behavior.
@@Mariet31 Interesting. Please elaborate.
@@alepatera Let’s see how long that goes.
When he spoke about setting an example for his daughter he was talking about HIS actions. Not her. He was saying "if my family saw me doing that what example would I be setting for my daughter" based on what she should expect from men and how she would witness her father acting. Nothing he said was disrespectful imo. Just blunt. And tbh that exactly what she should be looking for in a man because it showed integrity and self respect and forethought.
I agree but clearly she wasn’t looking for that, especially when the dodge ball scene came on. She was looking for a single man without a kid and who she could have fun with. He wasn’t it. He just salty asf.
I found that super sexy.
@@CeCe-os3ul ha ha *whispers* same girl lol
and yet she says she doesnt want to have kids with a man like that ???? i hope she froze her eggs lol.
Amén.
“Settle for men like that”??? You mean a man who has self respect and wants to set the best example for his daughter. A man who wants a grown woman not a old ass woman who acts like she’s 20. That’s why she’s single... she a big ass red flag!
Correct
I love when people get mad at people that call them out on their bullshit
Thank you. SO ppl are just so god damn dumb. I don't think anyone actually goes onto the the bachelor or bachelorette actually thinking there going to fall in love and settle down and if you do then that's just sad.
Oh please, he was petty as hell! Yelling at her 'You're almost 40!' when he left was childish as hell.
@@1LadyM7 she's almost 40 and needs men to strip? I wouldn't even pull those antics as a 31year old and also handled the situation poorly for a 40year old. It was petty AF but her ass was doing the same.
These women don’t care nothing about your daughter
Imagine if a guy told the 30-odd woman to strip down for a game....
Yeah that was trash. I never watched the bachelorette but is that normal to do on that show?
Yup, him and the show would have been dragged and cancelled.
I've seen it and no one bats an eye. Woman are sexualized all the time on TV so I'm not sure about that..
@@BooksToAshes but in the recent years people have been calling it out and not being okay with it, especially after Me Too movement.
No one cares at all when it happens to guys or women are literally touching, grouping and slapping guys butts - men are supposed to be okay with it and be somehow grateful and pleased.
If you do it to a woman that's a stranger you'll be accused of so many things, slapped and often arrested.
end of discussion :)
"I'm single because I don't settle for men like him" [proceeds to settle for a man just based off of a social media profile]
Pepega.🤣
Major facts
I know, right? Social media can only tell you so much. For all she knows that guy she pre selected could be a serial killer that turns women into flesh suits or something and he wouldn't put his dark habits on social media.
“That’s why you weren’t on that date.”
“As the oldest ever Bachelorette...”
Oh boy, here we go... 🤣🤣
i don't think he meant to be insulting so much as expressing how disapointed he was at how immature she was.
Him throwing out the "Remember, you're almost 40" reminded me of the old Trinity movie where he fires his gun behind and over his shoulder ; shoots the guy aiming at him out of the window.
She's just as petty for saying 'I would never want my children to have a father like you'. She knows exactly what she's doing when she says that, and it's not the first time she's said it.
If I ever had a woman like that as a mother to my children... my god, I'll probably be begging for the devil to drag me down to hell
@@super-engineer8437 😂😂😂
She better figure out soon her time for babies is running out, at least naturally.
A father like that.. being one who wants to be with his kids rather than just sending the cheque. Yeah, I can see why she wouldn't want that.
@@lordreyna6924 even with help, only so much earth science can do right now. Probability drops drastically, even for IVF post 40. Adoption always a tough, but awesome option !
If she’s looking for someone to be a husband and love her...why is she degrading the men who are “there for her”. Makes no sense
She is not use to being called out....
Her IQ wasn't high enough to make the connection.
You'll be surprised to how many women actually pull this idiotic stunt just to feed their ego
She doesn't want any of these guys! None of them probably want her! This is basically Instagram on TV!
Exactly. She did wrong, but he did too. He didn’t have to call her old.
She wasted his time, she disrespected him, she humiliated him, she made fun of him ("them all")........ - The Man put her on her place...
So hes not far from her. The fact that he was on a show like Bachelorette says a lot
@@NoName-sp5dp Right. Lol. He’s on a reality show for a 40 year old woman. 😂
Not really a lot of these men who are on these shows when you look at them they are definitely out of the woman's(Bachelorette) league. A lot of these men are well accomplished and successful they can get these girls at a club, event, party you name it. How the show gets these men on their platform is another thing cause just like the Batchelor said he sacrificed a lot to be here maybe the producers coerced him to do this. But all in all it's a TV show it could be all staged or it could be half real half fake one thing I'm sure of is that a lot of these men can get these attractive hot women anywhere literally anywhere they don't need to be on a show to get them. Hell I would be on the show just for the fun of it. No intent on being with the Bachelorette that's the mindset of a lot of these men. A lot of them after the show don't hook or even smell marriage
@@NoName-sp5dp yeah, right! Are you actually trying to defend the bachelorette who's mom is supposedly dying (the bachelorettes own words)meanwhile shes on a tv show displaying her immaturity?
It MAJORLY hurt her feelings!
Fuck her. I completely see why she is single. She wants a young guy who wont speak his mind like that and a boy toy to play with when she bored.
40 unmarried no kids. Stubborn. Arrogant. Man the only thing she has going is her looks and even that is questionable!
I get it now why the people in paradise avoided her like the plague. They were able to see what the viewing public couldn’t. I was one of the individuals who was cheering her on and feeling bad that she couldn’t find love. I really couldn’t understand before but now it’s really clear. Beauty is no substitute for flawed character. She literally waisted the time of all the men that season and they are still simping after her.
I think that guy won when he walked off that show and certainly not the “dude bros” who ran to her defense. I really feel sorry for any man that winds up with that basket case.
Dude bro simps lmaoooo they tryna win
Ricardo Herrera LOL!! Simp squad. I’m borrowing that one for future use. 😂🤣
Lol u watch better bachelor right
Dude bros = simps
No feel sorry if a woman likes that has one child or more, feel sorry for that child, a grown man chooses to be with her, her child doesn't.
Remember you are almost 40...... That hurt her more than anything.
To her soul Caesar. In college I broke up with my girlfriend who was sleeping around.
She attempted to shine on me. In return, I said seven words to her and went to my room: I hope you catch AIDS and die.
Months later, as her on-campus dorm roommate was dating a friend of mine, she shared with him how suicidal and hysterical my ex was acting once she got back to her room. 😆
Long story short, he ended up marrying his girlfriend. As a result, he stated to me that how I was able to tell off my ex; and how his girlfriend/wife was able to witness first hand the guilt, shame, and the CONSEQUENCES of my ex's piss poor decision making, was so instrumental in his future wife's ability and willingness to not take him for granted.
In basket ball ladies and gentlemen we call that an assist.
Also "You're gonna be single for a while".
You tell a woman that...she freaks.
You tell a man that...we give no fucks.
"You're almost 40."
Men: "And still sexy as hell."
Some chicks been riding the CC toooo long and don't understand men control relationships and women control sex
I think it was more because she was embarrassed, it was done in front of a group of people and it's being filmed. I'm sure you all have seen a woman get so angry she burst into tears. Women can testify when we are that angry we can't think straight and articulate how we feel correctly without calming down first. The tears are just from knowing we can't legally kill you lol.
"Honestly... I get it, my mom isss... Dying"
The beginning of the end
That’s gonna be a yikes from me dawg
If her mom was dying she'd spend time with her mom and not time on national TV. Low quality as fuck.
that was not trying to understand his feelings, that was an 1-up
Hair guys, she meant hair. Her mom works at Great Clips and is a fantastic dyer.
You can read, “The Beginning after the End.” You can read the Korean Manwha on Isekaiscan.
While I understand the point you guys made that he started being petty too and that it was not a good example, I don't think he was exactly wrong doing that because some people (like that lady) need a reality check once in a while, or they'll never change their ways.
It is a waste of breath tho, girls like that just twist it and make him the bad guy in all her stories. B!t@& be crazy!
If i were him i'd just quitely walk away like homer
Sometimes the snake needs a dose of their own poison.
@@aeoligarlic4024i wouldnt. Some people need a reality check and i hope they change for the better otherwise they will continue with the same behaviour and end up being bitter and resentful.
I personlay have done it in the past, some realized that they were the problem and changed their ways and how they view things and every now and then they thank me for it. They live good and succesfull lives and im happy for them. The others that never changed, never held themselves accountable and live misserable lives and in social media they prettend everything is all good and great and thats not the way to live life.
Women aren't used to being held socially accountable in these type scenarios . That "How dare you " was the privilege seeping out.
Women and accountability
Apples and oranges
@@mattscott8512 facts
Blacks and accountability
Apples and oranges
@Oz Rico for sure, probably her fault as well, ngl you throw around that kinda comment you deserve everything you get lol
@Oz Rico she's right though. Black americans lack accountability. It's always someone elses fault.
This is so dope. Went to college with this guy. Used to talk to him everyday in the gym; hella cool dude.
He's very handsome
He seems to have his head on straight besides already having a daughter
Pics or it didn't happen.
The guy has class
@@stevenskates8077 The fact hes a single father means he has his head on straight PLUS hes a great father. For a 30+ yr old successful man that is 10x more attractive to a mature woman since she knows he can take care of a family
"Remember you're almost 40!"
He bruised her boundless ego. 😂
And your still undesirable 🙄
@@charminglove8594 that must have hurt your feelings.
@@0rokuSaki lmaooo he signed up for a show like this. You just hate women
@@charminglove8594 I hate women for quoting him? Okay, lady. Did you get a running start before you jumped to that conclusion?
@@0rokuSaki Didn’t need to 😌
I think the reason she interjected with my mom is dying is to build up common ground.
He talked to her like an adult and she freaked out lol
He didn’t talk to her like an adult… He was attacking her from jump.
So telling her what he thinks is wrong is attacking her? I smell double standards
@@Rosannasfriend ? he was just telling her she was doing stuff not clearly good for parenting red flags telling people what might be wrong in their relationship that might go further?, that women is basically 40 and in full college mode thats why she is single still. i would say she attack him when she said thats why your not being picked any further! it was clear she didn't care and thats why she is single and has problems. all the man tried to do was tell her the issue after that she tried to throw him under the bus and he fought back nothing wrong with that.
Agreed. She was not attacked, she was being childish. I don't like the guys reaction but sadly we can't dictate how he should have reacted to her disrespect.
@@Rosannasfriend If adult, dispassionate criticism is worthy of being considered an 'attack' to you, I'm going to assume your ego's as unfettered as those on display in the clip.
“I’m the oldest bachelorette here that’s 39, skinny and single is because I don’t settle for men like that.” No she got it all wrong. She’s the oldest bachelorette who’s 39, skinny and single is because men like that don’t want to settle for her.
She didnt say skinny. I think she said "standing here"
i mean. dude has too much of an ego though. his criticism wasn't wrong but he showed how bad of an ego problem he has. they both should stay single
@@LipSyncLover nah man he doesn’t compare to her toxicity.
It looks bad because confrontation bw a man and a woman always makes man look worse than it is. It’s how we humans think.
@@Jojo_D_Northstar i think we instinctually want to protect the more "frail" woman from the aggressive looking man yes.
and i do think she seems considerably far more of a nutcase. but still, they dont need to be equally toxic for me to be like "oof, his ego.....check please"
why y’all adding the skinny part 😂
He tried to communicate with her on an adult level when that offended her he spoke in a language she could definitely understand.
Fr fr
Exactly
Facts, but at the same time I get Aba and them point because a lot of guys do this and honestly it’s not our job as men to set women straight. It’s not your duty to tell a petty woman she’s petty or make her see the error of your ways. Just move on.
She definitely felt that though.
@@RGM5396 who cares whose job it is. It takes 2 seconds to say and it will teach her an important lesson. Honestly he did her a favor by telling her she’s almost 40. She should feel embarrassed for a reason.
@@ThomasFoolery8 he cares, because he took it upon himself he to say it.
I have no problem with him addressing his concerns but why get petty with it at the end? See, we as RP men complain about when women are petty, obnoxious
, or overly masculine. But now that a man is being petty and emotional (overly feminine)…we wanna celebrate? No be consistent.
And no, she didn’t learn her lesson, she just criticized him back, which is what most people do when you criticize them unwarranted and out of place. They don’t learn the lesson, they just look at the person criticizing and say “who tf are you?” Rule #1 of how to win friends and influence people “don’t criticize or complain… you will only be meant with criticism and complaint.”
If you go to a restaurant and they don’t serve what you want? Should you put the restaurant on blast on your way out? Or should you calmly state your issue to a waiter, and then leave? That’s the problem with a lot of people nowadays, there out of order. He should have stated why he wants to leave like he did at first; but when she started to get petty and emotional that does not mean he should do it back. As a man, we know damn well…That’s out of order.
My favorite part of this video was them yelling, "HAAAAG" with creaky ass floorboards. Anyone showing up to compete for someone on a televised show is a red flag. Anyone making you compete for them is a red flag. Goes both ways.
She's single coz no sane, self respecting man would deal with this childish nonsense from a 40 year old.
The worst part is that when she broke it off with the other men, cutting the show off half way through, she was asked for an apology by one of the men. Guess what her response was?
"what would i apologize for?" ( not exact)
Then she went into a fake tears apology where she said "if I hurt you" and "I'm not apologizing for love". This women couldn't even take responsibility for the fact she wasted all of those guys time and effort when she already decided who she was going to pick. But guess what makes it worse?
She didn't even get confirmation that the man she picked felt the same way and expected a proposal that day. You have to think about how insane it is to do this. Honestly I think those men dodge a bullet.
I personally don’t understand why everyone was upset “talking to a women like that” for real? So the guy isn’t allowed to express why he didn’t like something. can you imagine how pissed everyone would be if it was a guy asking the girls to strip. If the roles were reversed everyone would be praising her for telling him off. SMH 🤦♀️
Idiots and simps get mad easy.
It's called benevolent sexism.
She wouldn’t even let him speak without interrupting, she’s so rude
Yep and you know it, really shows the hypocrisy.
Well said👍
Was she offended by the truth? She IS the oldest bachelorette. Why was that a low blow? What did I miss?
"I honestly understand, my mom is dying",- Did she just try to capitalize her mom's terminal condition?
They always make it about them
She did.
technically, we are all dying at different speed
@@stephanetetreault5019 bruh...
@@stephanetetreault5019 e
She didn't settle for someone like him. BS, she couldn't get him.
yea last i checked it was him saying how bad she was. He did not want her not the other way around. lol
Literally CAN'T him NOW on a show where she's in need of help to find a man.
@Hello It's K all by that argument I hope you see this soiled cabbage of a woman is still less than what he is. To expect men to behave in the manner that he refused to & good on him for that, she's a lowlife. I'm older by many years & to me she isn't a decent human being. She's not worthy of a decent husband. Anyone who does a show like that has little self respect.
@@RexAlfieLeefacts.
@Hello It's K u would rather die than settle for someone who actually has some self respect and stands up for himself?
She deserved what he said but he also is no saint. Why is he a single dad? How did he treat his daughter’s mother? Why is he on a dating show if he wanted to set a good example for his daughter?
I’m pretty sure when he said “Remember, you’re almost 40” he meant that she needs to grow up.
Multifaceted
Not quite
No, he said it to hurt her. Too make her feel old and undesirable. She cried in pain which was just what he wanted. Her personality and actions on the show (judging) from this clip) were not great at all and she certainly needed some serios constructive criticism. He choose to hurt and humiliate her instead and I don´t get why he is being celebrated for that.
@@annetteneubauer3052 and you read his mind how? If you’re gonna speak with that amount of surety you ought to have some actual evidence to the claim.
surety is not a word lmao. Certainty would have been appropriate.
Why isn’t anyone talking about the validity of what he said though... that challenge was tacky as hell.
No way a man would get away with having a strip dodgeball competition to help him find his wife and not get flack for it for demeaning women. He wasn’t looking for the last word - he wanted her to know that what she did was degrading. That’s what I got from it anyway. 🤷♀️
The competition served no purpose. She just wanted eye candy. If genders were reversed the show wouldn’t air. Those men were dumb enough to play along and only one guy questioned her.
I agree but I think she's a bit of a loose screw, so that's why she wouldn't have the conscious to realize that is childish and so high-school
@@ko5034 You can still say how you feel even if it's not an uncommon practice. Also, I'm sure his daughter is fine and with family. You can do something without "abandoning" your child you know.
@Tony Maraj aba just holding this guy to a higher standard , and not everyone has that restrain to not tell a person off
@@ko5034 he probably signed a contract with financial implications
His last words should have been, "Go spend time with your mother."
woah this would burnnnnnn, but it's facts
@@stephenoni2019 I would’ve countered that he needs to be with his child. Ain’t nobody force him to come onto this dumb ass show
@@PrincessZaire100 the issue is as much as that is good response, he knows that, he acknowledges that. He is actively searching for someone to be the mother of his daughter. On the other hand, she is claiming to be happily single and complaining about her mother's health. As much as those are valid, she didn't appear to be taking the search for a potential husband seriously. This is the issue the guy was trying to address. I do agree that that show is dumb, but hey, here we are talking about it haha, so it does have some effect I guess.
@@stephenoni2019 I mean, if he was looking for a mother for his child, why did he go into reality television, especially a television show that he can at any time be eliminated from said show. Why not find someone in the real world
@@PrincessZaire100 I don't know; there's an element of clout chasing when it comes to appearing on these shows. I guess you're hinting at something important, everyone on this show is probably fake, but there are degrees of 'fakeness' and she is up there on the list as very fake and plastic.
If he just waked away without context nobody would have understood why. I appreciate the explanation.
Dude went on reality TV and expected “class” and “good examples”.
That’s what I don’t get, I feel like most people go on Bachelor/ Bachelorette for fame and not really looking for a spouse. I think he’s a little sanctimonious.
Yeah that’s what I was thinking. I never watched this show but I know it’s not a show about class..
yeah, that's the stupidest part imo
Which is exactly why I have to ask you guys why you are taking a REALITY SHOW seriously?
@@tknows470 exactly. He looks like a fool to me
He didn't go petty. He told her the truth, like he should. Enough with allowing or easily forgiving female bullshit, hypocrisy and double standards. I'm glad he didn't apologize and he DID give a good example to his daughter to NOT be like her. It's important to stand up for what's right and what she did isn't right.
He did go petty. He could have left it to marinate and been the bigger person. Instead he stoops to insulting her age. Yea, real good example for your daughter there, buddy.
@@nope5657 She’s not a child, she is 39 and needs to grow up. Your defending her for what? The bigger thing to do is humble her and make her realize how childish she is.
@@lucaswarriorteammining5786 Bruh. Fucking chill. Did I defend her? No. I called out HIS bullshit. They're both assholes.
@@nope5657 Look at the simp😂😂
@@nope5657 that’s true he was there to get the chance to marry her
He didn't yell, and he didn't even say anything uncalled for. "I wouldn't want my daughter looking up to you, and i don't want the people i love to think i accept that kind of behavior"
People saying hes already wrong for being on the show but didnt consider only a certain clas of people get on it. He probably had so much disposable time the only thing he misses is his kid. dude came here to kill time and hopefully get a wife. she came for eye candy but got pink eye
Yeah, but when you hold the mirror up to childish people for their shitty behaviour, they tend to throw their toys out the pram. It doesn't matter how he said it or what he said, any form of criticism will make an insecure loser throw a huge tantrum.
he has balls !! this season makes it clear why she is single
She didn't want a husband, She wanted to go and mess around and it was clear that She kept doing that for 20 years and wasn't going to stop there.
"Remember, you're almost 40." I don't think that was a criticism of her age but a criticism of her immature behavior. He wants a woman who has dignity whose behavior befits her age and opportunities for personal growth.
Well said.
@@lavonnealexander6936 your comment gave, me, a brain aneurism what, the, hell was that, grammar dude?
@@potatostomatoes4599 lol 😂 it was a mistake.
@@lavonnealexander6936 nosh
@@potatostomatoes4599 0
The one thing y’all didn’t show is when she put her hands on him when he was walking away and that’s why he got irate.
yup. play a big part along with her accusing HIM to putting his hands on her while it's the opposite that happened.
Facts. I'd lose my shit too, I don't do such disrespect
YESSSSSSS!! My dude would've caught a case if he did that shit and she would've milked being a poor victim on every daytime show from America to Antarctica.
What?...She put hands on the dude?😳
Really? Only man that's gonna marry her is gonna be the ultimate simp. Any rational person would steer clear from her.
When you’re constantly told since the day you’re little that “you’re a princess and you deserve the world” this is the result, you grow up to be entitled, have no accountability whatsoever and you think that you’re never wrong. No matter what she does she’s never wrong, she’s always the victim, and since she’s the woman men have to vow to her and accept her for who and what she is while she has a million standards when it comes to men... This is how sadly, a lot of women operate. Smh.
@Black Is Powerful & Forever go together like chalk and cheese for alot of them
cant say all though
Honestly, a female can grow up around responsible people teaching her great values but as soon as she get some toxic friends that's when she develops this kind of attitude. I've seen it happen.
Really refreshing to see a women admit this @mariely M.G
@PromethiusIOI its a saying lol
like how water and oil dont mix
Exactly what did she do wrong in that situation? HE took her to the side to low key insult her and get some attention so he wouldn't end up as background filler. Obviously the low blow hurt her feelings and on top of the embarrassment of it being filmed. You've never been so angry you start to cry? They obviously asked to respond right afterwards, so we see an emotional one. Instead of her calming down, get her thoughts together, to respond more articulately.
You are almost 40, there is no come back from that. That cut was deep.
She didn't know how to react to not being worshipped. Sweety, he didn't settle for you. Kudos to him.
Like that you wrote your name in Binary, Mo!
You're not like other girls ru?
@@drowningin If you are implying that somehow I think I'm "quirky" because I can write in binary, then you are mistaken. I'm a computer programmer, and I work with a few other girls who are programmers as well.
@@0100-m9h saying that is different ❤
She acted as if she understood- but she barely even listened to him.
Childish woman.
Listeners are usually smart people.
But- eh. Kinda falls short.
First-class petty.
Just waiting for her turn to make it about her like double Dutch she wait wait ok opening now jump back to about me
She went into defense mode so fast when he was opening up to her about what was bothering him and then took it as a chance to throw it back at him and make him feel like shit. "And that's why you were not on that date" is such a back-handed comment. I understand Aba's point about not reciprocating the pettiness, yet she did walk herself into that challenge.
If someone is being petty doing low blows towards you it's better to either stay quiet or say "that was totally unnececary" and then leave, if you let them enrage you then they have won. By refusing to engage in pettyness back you still have your dignity intact and they will stand there looking like a fool. On a few occasions I have actualy gotten an apology by the other person because I stayed quiet, they then realized they went too far. If I had been petty back then they could justify it in their brain with "oh but she was being petty back so fuck her" you know.
@@zebnemma i agree with your point. Hopefully he can reflect on this and use it as a lesson to control his reactions. In a perfect world we would all get along, but this is not a perfect world
I'm glad he told her that even though it was petty. There was a room full of guys who took off from work, signed up the the show months maybe even a year in advance to be treated like shit and not given a proper chance. Some people don't realize their behavior until they are put in check. And sometime being put in check humbles a person.
@@zebnemma 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿Yup and he also says he is setting an example for his kid. Smh 🤦🏿
Much respect to you my man. Keep being a king!
Basically this woman very self centred in every way imaginable. She is disconnected from her actions and consequences all I have heard was I, ME, MY what a narcissist
Welcome to the 90% of any interaction with a wahmen in 2020. I see standards make it double.
@@lolzvendetta9579 If that's your interactions with women maybe you need to seek out better company. Or if that's all you see in the media you might want to look elsewhere. You attract certain people/behaviours for a reason so you might want to take a look in the mirror...
@@EllieGrant-x6u Can we respect each others stances if that's what he has observed that's his thought you or I can't change it but all we can do is respect it even if we dont like it right??
@@EllieGrant-x6u so girls who attract shitty and abusive men are to blame because they haven't looked in the mirror.
Glad you said it because that's been a experience too
@@michaeltatum2610 Nope because what if his thoughts make guys she wants think she's like that. They might avoid her. That's would be sooooooooo horrible.
Her: Get outta here, you're done
Devil on his shoulder: Finish her!
Him: Don't forget, you're almost 40!
😭😭
Charlie Clips: I don't wanna kill you, but Kermit with the hoodie on my shoulder saying "Make the kill."
One Shot Kill + 50 xp
Kingslayer + 100 xp
*Fatality!*
@@jaycomplexkidrandle1889 😵😵😭💀
😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣
As much as society loves to talk about the "fragility of the male ego", it's videos like this that prove that women are just as bad at handling rejection as men are, and that egotism is not a trait that's exclusive to men nor women, but all human beings.
@Brian Banks ^This real talk! I've seen it in person! Guys get used to rejection and (typically) handle it way better. While I've seen some masculine temper tantrums, the feminine ones are like nuclear missiles being detenated!
Just AS bad? Nah, G. I’d say on average, they worse.
@ThatOneOddLookingDog ThatBarksAtYou what?? You do know one of those happens a LOT more than the other right? If "some" guys killed whenever they were rejected we would run out of people.
@Pr.incorporated exactly. It’s always ego vs soul.
@Brian Banks As an XX chromosome individual (and speaking on behalf of women) we don’t claim that shit that’s just old fashioned manipulation
Yo said.."🤨🤨 red flag??" With the zoom in.. 🤣🤣😂 im done
Ok but he claims that he's losing time with his daughter to be on this show... But then goes on such a trashy show to find "love". What did he expect? Class? I'm not defending her at all, but damn, something about him rubs me the wrong way too.
Yeah, it'd be like going on The Bachelor and being mad that they want a group hot tub date and require everyone wear a bikini. These are trash shows, not Wholesome Mingle.
@@CiaoColeG exactly! This is like season 13726. He knew what he was getting himself into.
Facts
Everyone on these shows is human garbage
exactly he is there for fame. so he shld stop playing and she is CRAZY
The look on her face when he said "red flags". Damn she definitely never got rejected and can't grasp what's happening
"Wait, that's what I usually get to say!"
Nah, I suspect she has heard it many times before, so she was bracing herself. She is the kind of girl that thinks being pretty entitles her to a real man, but her personality is enough to turn real men off (and they have plenty of better options anyway). So she is what I think of as a limbo girl (as in, she is stuck in limbo). She isn't good enough for the men she wants, and she is too good for the men who want her (who she would never date, as her self image is too important to her, and it would be humiliating to date a beta male). So she is stuck in limbo, and too stubborn/delusional to realise it is her own fault. If she was capable of recognising that her own behaviour is to blame for her being such a turn off, she would have changed years ago. Her future is going to be settling for the best simp she can get, because she is out of the dating range for real men.
The tables have turned she couldn't handle it 😂
Yes she has been rejected before. Look where she at.
“I would never want my children having a father like you“
So a father with morals and one that want to spend every second with them?
Dodged a bullet.
Did anybody catch the fact that she tried interrupting him while he was talking by saying her mom or grandma was dying lol, why are you on a dating show then dummy ?go spend the last days with your love ones.
EXACTLY
“My mom is dying.
Anyway, strip and play sports”
Think she meant her mom's dying being without her😂
And he avoided her say that too smh went right under the rug
@@FoxyGabrielDarky lmaoooo could be try and tryna find a bachelor 🤔 to move in with
Right!!!
You go man! Good for you!
That last line "remember, you're almost 40!" 😂😂😂😂😂😂
That was awesome!
Imagine expecting a reasonable dating experience on a harem reality TV show where everyone is attractive. That guy played a stupid game and expected a decent prize.🤣🤣
@Schluchtenscheißer mit Migrationshintergrund the Flavor Flave show was based off of this lol
THANK YOU! People expect WAY too much from this show. Like think about how shitty online dating is... okay now put it into a tv show and use tons of editing. Idk why people expect her to be a more “ genuine” person... most of this stuff isn’t real and I’ve even heard some of the contestants are not even there for love but clout
She tossed the only man that had self-respect and could ultimately be a good husband.
I wouldn’t say good husband seems like the type that would always complain about something with his wife but self respect yes
@@shootermcgavin214 Not having boundaries and letting them be known makes men simps.
He disrespected her.
@@SupernaturalLove100 no he spoke the truth. He was honest in his feelings and she got butthurt.
@@tino.f76 yep he made it about himself.
"I expected more from the oldest bachelorette there has ever been"
That was the greatest line I've ever heard to knock a woman off her pedestal.
he won lol
Yeah it CRUSHED her
It was petty but T A S T Y
I swear as a woman and I'm 26 that shit hurt me through my phone I damn near got mad I thought he was talking about my mama😕 lol Her ego is destroyed
Pretty tame considering she said he was a bad father, she went all in. I would've said you're too old to have kids.
She pulled off that look that Jan gives from the Office so well