HOW TO STOP BEING NICE | Top 5 Ways to Stop Being A People Pleaser and Pushover

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  • Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024

Комментарии • 45

  • @Alex-ge8jg
    @Alex-ge8jg 3 года назад +6

    Totally agree! I am sick of Canada's "nice" concept. It has hurt me so much over the last few years. I have commended so much respect lately simply by enforcing and communicating my boundaries and willing to walk away. Keep up the content!

    • @ChrisVincelli
      @ChrisVincelli  3 года назад +2

      Thank you so much! Why do you think Canadians have become so "nice"???

    • @WheresYourToque
      @WheresYourToque 2 года назад +2

      @@ChrisVincelli Canadians are not nice. This is a common myth.

  • @ivys9544
    @ivys9544 3 года назад +6

    Watching this at 1:30 am lol. I needed to hear all of that, thank you!!

    • @ChrisVincelli
      @ChrisVincelli  3 года назад

      Haha what did you like most about the content?

  • @linefrenette9116
    @linefrenette9116 2 года назад +1

    I don't like people who say yes to everyone (blessed yes yes) , I prefer those who are frank and direct

  • @christiabacon8001
    @christiabacon8001 Год назад +1

    I admire your channel,nick work!💯

    • @ChrisVincelli
      @ChrisVincelli  Год назад

      Thank you so much 👍 what do you like most about it?

    • @christiabacon8001
      @christiabacon8001 Год назад +1

      @@ChrisVincelli everything pretty much,I love how you broke it down and I took a valuable lesson from that

  • @Dayz3O6
    @Dayz3O6 3 года назад +3

    Remember assertive is completely different from aggressive many people who are nice cant distinguish between the two.

    • @ChrisVincelli
      @ChrisVincelli  3 года назад

      I completely agree. Why do you feel so many people are "nice" these days?

  • @dallasjansen2226
    @dallasjansen2226 3 года назад +3

    This is so helpful. Helps me stop being so sensitive and keep focus!

    • @ChrisVincelli
      @ChrisVincelli  3 года назад

      Awesome!! What did you like most about the video?

  • @MarkRobles
    @MarkRobles 3 года назад +4

    Quality advice as always! "Sorry" is said just as much, if not MORE here in New Zealand!

  • @alexanderevans8524
    @alexanderevans8524 3 года назад +1

    Very wide vocal recording, maybe import to audacity and export into a mono channel. Hope this helps!

  • @alexanderevans8524
    @alexanderevans8524 3 года назад

    The 3rd request to smash... the like button. Withdrawing like button.

  • @Silentya
    @Silentya 3 года назад

    So glad I subscribed!

    • @ChrisVincelli
      @ChrisVincelli  3 года назад

      Welcome!!! What type of content would you like to see from the channel?

  • @northernguy8860
    @northernguy8860 3 года назад +3

    Women tend to turned off by nice guys. Knowing how to be phony sweet themselves, women see guys being overly nice as fake and weak. They're captivated by the bad boys who exude confidence and the selfish, ruthless attitude of a future winner.

    • @ChrisVincelli
      @ChrisVincelli  3 года назад

      I completely agree! Why do you feel most people don’t know this, though?

    • @northernguy8860
      @northernguy8860 3 года назад

      Women have focused on relationships since they were children, learning everything they can. Most guys are oblivious, with little motivation to learn more, until that day they're severely punished for their ignorance.

    • @arwenevenstar123
      @arwenevenstar123 3 года назад

      This is a very extreme view that as a woman I would say is overly extreme and not a balanced observation. There are women who like nice guys who are nice but not completely passive and pushovers. There’s an important, notable difference. My husband is a very nice person but he is very strong minded and capable of standing up for himself. I respect him a lot.

  • @CrystleSky
    @CrystleSky 3 года назад +2

    Lol this video I jusy saw and it's perfect timing lol

  • @triplefurious618
    @triplefurious618 3 года назад +1

    How did you move to usa being a Canadian?

  • @robwerts995
    @robwerts995 3 года назад +1

    Came here from reading your post @ Better Bachelor's Indiana Jones 'rant'. Very nice informative video, so subbed! Some positive feedback: variate a bit more with zooming in and out, now it's a bit like ping pong. Oh and remove brand names from the background, unless they are paying you for it 🙂.

  • @johnnywang9603
    @johnnywang9603 3 года назад +1

    if ur meeting a stranger do u prefer a fake nice person or a real rude person?

    • @ChrisVincelli
      @ChrisVincelli  3 года назад

      It's important to be courteous in public.

  • @tylerfarina2226
    @tylerfarina2226 3 года назад +2

    When pokimane video comes out

  • @eggyolked108
    @eggyolked108 3 года назад +1

    Modern day simps

    • @ChrisVincelli
      @ChrisVincelli  3 года назад

      In what sense? Care to elaborate?

    • @eggyolked108
      @eggyolked108 3 года назад +2

      @@ChrisVincelli to the point of being almost completely submissive just to get very little gratification in return.

    • @ChrisVincelli
      @ChrisVincelli  3 года назад +3

      Very true! People, particularly men, are too nice.

    • @eggyolked108
      @eggyolked108 3 года назад +1

      Are you jack vincelli's son from Cote Saint Luc??

    • @ChrisVincelli
      @ChrisVincelli  3 года назад

      No.

  • @M0RPHOBIA
    @M0RPHOBIA 3 года назад

    good one, nice and short 😉
    however one time if being reminded to smash the like / subscribe button is enough, thanks! (tryna be assertive here :D)

    • @ChrisVincelli
      @ChrisVincelli  3 года назад

      Thanks for that! What did you like most about the video?