A boy asked a girl in a library, "Do you mind if I sit beside you"? The girl Answered with a loud angry voice; "I don't want to spend the night with you!! All the people in the library started staring at the boy and he was embarrassed. After minutes the girl walked quietly to the guy's table and said to him I study psychology and I know what man is thinking, I guess you felt embarrassed,right? The guy responded with a loud voice :$300 for one night That's too much!! and all the people in the library looked at the girl in shock and the guy whispered in her ears, "I study law and I know how to make someone guilty.
@@johntolofso easy for you to say "move on"... The cost to "move on" is huge... Lost of house. Your wages are setup to automatically pay for alimony and child support, etc. That's what I know. I've never been divorced.
Those men who ask for compassion and are ready to give time and effort to earn it, are usually considered as weak and loser. Women don't value the nice guys compared to those rugged uncouth impertinent bastards who are generally known as the cool guys.
I have been seeing sex workers for a year now and I can confirm: we pay for the companionship. I'd rather have a girl who's a 5 in looks but gives great GFE than a supermodel 10 who acts uninterested and bored.
But it's fake companionship. After you drop her off she's sucking off and getting rammed bya the next client. I'd rather just smash and bounce it's cheaper too.
I've had a client want 3 hours. He was great company sure we had sex but it wasn't often. The company though was rewarding like when you first get married and very happy type of love.
But only as far as it pays. “By the age of twelve at the latest, most women have decided to become prostitutes. Or, to put it another way, they have planned a future for themselves which consists of choosing a man and letting him do all the work. In return for his support, they are prepared to let him make use of their vagina at certain given intervals. The minute a woman has made this decision she ceases to develop her mind.”--Esther Vilar Some women have figured out how to get paid without having a male middleman with its attendant sexual component, others, how to extort the most support for the least amount of sex, like Masanobu 's girlfriend. But in every case, its not because they're doing humanity a service, but to please their own vanity. Women only employ their brains past the age of five to get what they want out of life--leisure and adulation. Notice how none of these brothel women are emotionally attached to their clients, while at the same time they have all the male companionship they want from one day to the next.
If men want to pay for sex with women who are willing to sell it, it's their own business, and it's not for anyone else to be sitting around making judgments or sociological comments about it.
Bruno CBart No sir. Your statement is illogical. Slaves are forced against their own will. Majority of escorts/prostitutes are independent and do it on their own accord. Illogical sentence.
I really appreciate this video! So many videos here on RUclips glorifying sex work as either the high end sugar babies that claim they don't have sex with their clients and give a very unrealistic portrayal of the rest of this industry. Or the countless videos only focused on sex trafficking, (which don't get me wrong is awful and needs to be stopped! But sex trafficking and sexwork is not the same thing. Trafficking is slavery, sexwork is consensual work. ) This video shows the majority of sex workers who are thoughtful, empathetic human beings who enjoy bringing a real intimate experience to their clients :)
Sex work and human trafficking have been conflated by those opposed to the sex industry to be one in the same thing. Of course they're not. Although some women are trafficked into the sex trade the most human trafficking goes into bringing illegal immigrants into a country who often end up as domestics or kitchen and wait staff in restaurants. Or the men will work on construction sites, or on farms, things like that. If sex work was legalized or decriminalized those in the industry would be only too happy to report trafficked women or underage or women working under threat of violence. As of now they are too afraid to for fear of getting arrested themselves.
When humans prostitute themselves there is a fatherhood issue. Either way they consented to degrade themselves for a way to make money. By selling their body.
Money is just one kind of currency. Time, affection, intimacy, work, and energy are other kinds. Paying for sex isn't too too different from another kind of relationship, it just costs something else. If you want a relationship, you're gonna have to work (pay) for it in some way or another
@maya moon Not like this honey. There are SEVERAL works you can do, to buy food and pay rent. Just prostitution makes MUCH more money than average jobs.
I disagree. It's one of those cases where logic≠correct. Where something sounds good on paper , but is actually false in the practice . On paper , someone who use Cristal meth and someone who get the key of his new house and car have the same things going on in the brain . On paper , they both bought their happiness in one way or another . Getting high far more high on meth is a far more honest to reach happiness than having a house and car that may not get you happy for long, but it's definitely not a good one . Both are equal on paper , but in reality , they're complete opposite . Most People will always choose the house and car rather than meth ; because a long-term reward gained from hardwork is far more compelling than a short-term reward from a shortcut .
Yeah, no. A genuine relationship means actually caring for someone, and paying someone to fake that is a cheat, a way out of the real effort of taking care of each other. Not the same at all. Money is easy compared to helping someone through thick and thin, working through issues together, maybe raising a family, or helping each other through illness.
Women used to have to try harder, because a happy husband ensured a safe, happy, if not financially secure, life. A well treated man will work harder for a woman because he feels appreciated. But who appreciates men in 2020?
Having been married....let me tell you..."A girlfriend experience"....is a "Hell of a lot cheaper"....than a wife...and without all the "baggage.".....
What's interesting is, a real girlfriend or wife isn't really free either. Also needs money.may live with you, get married..emotion..time..expenses...just saying, that ain't free either...
Time is money. Relationships require time. You don't have time but money? Same thing, you can also experience intimacy by just paying the other way. :)
I have a girlfriend. It's true that I give her presents and pay for the majority of our dates, but I know she's not with me because of any material things I give her. She's with me because she really cares about me/ is attracted to me. If I went completely broke tomorrow I know she would still want to be with me and would still want to be physically/emotionally intimate with me. I'm pretty sure that's not the case for girls you pay to act like they feel that way towards you. So there is a big difference
Daniel, Consider yourself one of the fortunate few. Many girls today have an agenda set in stone; Tall (most women refuse any man under 6 feet) & set for a considerably long amount of time in terms of money. Any guy that cannot measure up to those "twin towers" best not approach them at all. Even if you can get past the "tetanus shot" of their rejection, the word "creep" will soon sort you out, and good. You could even have one of the men in blue serve you with a restraining order. I'm not surprised the Girlfriend experience has taken center stage. Not one bit.
Nah, more like when you get old and have to help each other with very personal medical issues, or dealing with things like your thoughts, emotions, seeing each other at your worst, like when you lose a job you cared about, or when you lose your hair and it bothers you, or you start having sexual function issues, or they see all your little habits you thought no one knew about. Any fool can kiss, but real intimacy is seeing a person when they are truly vulnerable.
I was a young 18 year old private in the Army. A friend came back from spending his hard earned money for a prostitute. He said she allowed anything but kissing. I never had any interest after that.
We're all prostitutes when you get right to the point. We do what we do to get what we want. After the basic survival needs are taken care of that is. We trade time, money, interest in others, etc... to fulfill our needs, desires, ego trips, etc... just like a prostitute does. Prostitution is probably more honest than a lot of "normal" relationships.
Prostitution is much different than working. One is degrading, the other isn’t. They’re not the same so don’t even treat it as such. Prostitution is terrible and if you see it so highly then I feel sorry and concerned for you.
@@SlayerOfTheDamned as a sex worker, sex is WORKING. idk what youre on making it seem like its not a job, when it is. i agree with them and what they are saying. OBVIOUSLY sex work is different but ive been a cashier before, ive also worked at a car dealership, ive worked at a pet store and many other jobs and i can tell you right now as a sex worker your clueless. yes it can be dangerous but did you know sex worker (prostitution ... old word by the way, super outdates .. but you wouldnt know that, would you now, dunce) can be more than women on the streets like its the 80s.... sex work doesnt have to be street working, it can be Only fans... it can be selling feet picture or even armpit pics or even pretending to turn into a giant and "eating your client" by comping down your teeth lol... bc yes, ppl pay for that believe it or not. no one said it wasnt dangerous depending on the type of sex work you are doing bc theres risks with almost every job, learn something instead of talking shit about something you are soooo clealry uneducated about its disgusting... i wouldnt even look at you if you paid me.. what a joke.
@@SlayerOfTheDamned It isn't "degrading" when everything is consensual.. I swear it seems like people just need to feel like some beacon of morality for crapping on things they clearly do not understand.. The self righteous "I feel sorry" shit is patronizing too.. it doesn't make you look good, it just makes you look like a judgmental asshole. Legalize it and it will be safer for everyone plus help eliminate a huge problem with sex trafficking related to organized crime.
I disagree. It's one of those cases where logic≠correct. Where something sounds good on paper , but is actually false in the practice . On paper , someone who use Cristal meth and someone who get the key of his new house and car have the same things going on in the brain . On paper , they both bought their happiness in one way or another . Getting high far more high on meth is a far more honest to reach happiness than having a house and car that may not get you happy for long, but it's definitely not a good one . Both are equal on paper , but in reality , they're complete opposite . People will always choose the house and car rather than meth ; because a long-term reward gained from hardwork is far more compelling than a short-term reward from a shortcut . And how people act is a more important factor than what people say .
But who’s going to feed you apple sauce and change your diapers when you’re old? A girl you pay who doesn’t love you? She’ll drug you and get you to sign over your assets to her and steal every last dime you’re worth. It truly does pay YOU in the end to have a woman take care of you- who truly loves you. Just a thought..just a thought..
@@hillarybillary21 lol a nurse change your diaper. This is all fantasy , having a woman is like playing the lottery . If you’re lucky enough you might end up with one that willing to stay.
Sorry but it's pretty sad that most of these men are probably married and yet have to go and pay a stranger to give them intimacy. Hmmm, if you're in a marriage that is so devoid of intimacy you have to pay someone else for it, you need to file for a divorce already. Geeze!
But you have to consider how much a divorce lawyer charges you to negotiate how much you pay in alimony, etc. The costs of divorce will put you at a serious disadvantage in starting the dating game all over again.
Agreed, I'd love for prostitution to be fully legal here. If only most people had the power to understand that love, money and sex are all completely separate things. Prostitution is a business, fake as hell like any other money making scheme, nothing more than that. 😊
This video is an excellent resource to counter all of the bad press and stigmatization that is commonly attached to prostitution. Ladies such as these who work at the higher end of the spectrum understand that most men want a quality experience with a connection that feels intimate and "real"... even if it's not.
@@JohnWilliams-nw7ofMen don't love at all which is why prostitution exists. If they can cut out the part where they have to get to know you as a person, and just get what they're after, they will. So it's real ridiculous to pretend men are even capable of love, let alone unconditional love. What they actually mean is they will stay in a relationship whether it's emotionally fulfilling or not, as long as they're getting sex bc thats what they care the most about. So, just staying for selfish reasons isn't love. Women desire true connection and if they aren't getting that they stop wasting their time. Love is true connection. Also, touting unconditional love in a romantic relationship proves the party wanting it is planning on mistreating their partner or not meeting their needs, otherwise it wouldn't need to be unconditional. Unconditional love should be reserved for your children and at a certain point, tough love should be implemented. "Unconditional" love is what people desire when they plan on being a huge pos in the relationship. Everyone makes mistakes and deserves a certain amount of forgiveness but nobody should be expected to love anyone romantically without having boundaries to protect themselves. That's ignorant and asking to be abused. Also, if men loved at all, let alone unconditionally, stats wouldn't show men leaving their wives when they get a debilitating disease or illness. It's all about what a man can get from a woman. Bc once the woman gets sick, that "unconditional" love becomes conditional real quick. Try telling the truth sometimes.
@@stephaniemoore8013 Finally some good news. The exception makes the rule though. Marriage in most cases is a worse deal for men. More responsibilities than privileges. My mom used to wash and fold all our clothes and enjoyed it with love before making delicious dinner. Those days are long gone. Today it's just sharing a home where she takes more space, more money and more time and men pretend to like it.
For a GFE you don't start at a brothel, you look for an independent. Some are genuinely lonely women, neglected housewives, abandoned single mums, etc, and they like the man's companionship if he treats her like a lady and they have learned they can trust him. Those can genuinely want you to stay on after the sex for a while just for company (no extra charge) if they are not booked for more.
Or another Lucky way but well got to know how, where, and what ! Take some risks too. Mine did not come from any Brothel or Hook up sites but infamous Strip club scene and then another and another....Talk about wild and crazy sh*t back then? But wow what memories and LOTS of wild sex you definitely don't get from any so called escort anywhere. Yeah gonna shell out allot of cash but man what an experience.
Don't be fooled -- there's one reason and ONLY one reason why prostitutes charge more for the GFE: it's b/c they can. It's not b/c 'they're giving more of themselves away' or any other cockamamie reason. It's a simple supply and demand dynamic. If "most of the guys" weren't requesting it, then it would be the same price as the rest of the menu. But because most of the guys DO request it, the prostitutes would be silly (and very poor business people) not to capitalize on it.
@@ivanivan5511it's a hard job. Can you imagine having to fake attraction for hundreds of ugly ass men? they deserve every penny. I could never do their job, I have such a sensitive stomach, I'd probably throw up all over them 🤣🤣🤣🤣
It's not about not being able to get a girl with offering money. It's about getting a girl that's willing to do whatever it is you want them to do within reason. These women aren't charging a couple hundred bucks for this stuff, we're talking if you wanna go out to dinner with them or take them out shopping or whatever, thousands of dollars an hour, and that's just the minimum they're charging, that's not to say some of these guys pay them much more than that. These guys could just go buy a nice car (although they probably already have several) and pick up girls at night clubs or bars all day long, but that's not really the point. The point is they like the fantasy of it all and the attention they know they're going to get, as well as the mutual understanding that it's never meant to last more than that night.
I think this is why client go ALSO to sex, just to punish girls, that they need to hug. They need hug, but they buy sex, because that way it is more intimate, and SECURE, IT IS KEPT IN SILENCE by such modus operandi. Thanks to What they are doing. They can still feel stronger. As they say truth is naked, so they want show to this girls naked hugging truth unless they would also get silent by getting naked.
If a man is shy around women, not certain his status or wealth is worthy of securing a long-term permanent relationship (read: marriage), I can see where the GFE would be worthwhile. Guys need to be emotionally protected as much as gals do.
completely different context but in some ways similar on the companionship part (which is what i got from this ) . being a sydney cabdriver a life time ago. i came across a similar phenomenon.when people paid their money ,some took it further than just getting from a to b. they'd hired and paid you for companionship (mobile confessional) so they could reveal themselves at a deeper level which they needed connection with . and needed to be able to express and somebody to be engaged with and listen to. and sort of paying for this insome ways gave them the confidence (i've paid you to reveal myself to you) to be vulnerable with a fair degree of certainty they wouldn't be dismissed and or rejected . i had some great raves .
That's essentially the byproduct of all the social media. Granted, maybe not so much with older guys looking for a companionship but this will only go deeper and deeper with younget and younger guys as time goes on. I'm not judging, merely saying that it was expected to happen.
In my experience sex was rare. But they more so pay for the company something which their spouse stopped providing. I did enjoy the conversation and intimacy. But after a while, romance lost meaning to me so I quit doing the work. Really drains you emotionally
@@valeriesanchez3074 it's your life your Decision but pls take care of your health and security Mental health of Mans are taking for granted in most of country (sorry for my bad English)
As a man I can totally understand this. Male friendships are more shallow than women’s. I’m lucky because I used to have a great best mate and we were super close even emotionally, but years later we’re not friends anymore. Most men never have that. Most male friendships are drinking, sports, bragging and joking. Not much support, not much trust, not much real talk. Personally I wouldn’t pay for that, but I do certainly miss it. So yeah, for single men, I can totally understand wanting companionship and intimacy more than the actual sex.
There are many lonely men in the world. Some even married. Men who haven't held a woman's hand, or kissed or embraced a woman in years. As for sex, unless you're in a committed long term relationship or you're married, forget it. Sometimes even in a married relationship, you have a couple of kids, reach your thirties and the sex stops. Sex work is the oldest profession because men have had to live like this for a very long time.
Luckily for me friendship isn't that important. I'm mid 30's and yeah I still like banging women and what not but I dont need people for much more than that.
I don't know what makes you think your friendships with men were such exceptions. The shallowness of women's friendships compared to men's is common knowledge that has come down through the ages. Women are quite aware of it and it's a prime reason they try so hard to end their husband's friendships once they marry, and frequently before. No disrespect intended but you sound inexperienced, whatever your age.
That's so sad. Society, a vocal section of women and usually men that are well off forget that other men are real people with feelings. They need companionship and yes sex but society today makes it difficult for men to find a woman. Standards are much higher, men are seen as violent, horny deviants and somehow when given the opportunity. These men choose 1 WOMAN, and go through emotional pain when their"lady" leaves. It's really messed up.
If your wife doesn't love you anymore, but she's only with you because of money or society's pressures, then you're under no obligation to be faithful to her. Only a loving, loyal wife deserves a loving, loyal husband. End of discussion.
I see about 2 or 3 of the same call girls. 1 if I pay for GFE or not, likes to spend time with me. She isn't looking for a boyfriend, but she makes me feel loved.
I've had GFE's that lasted for years with women who were not interested in me at all. They just wanted help with things and someone to complain about things to. Eventually they get tired of it and leave me flat. Also: One of these GFE women told me about a brothel in Nevada that was run by sheriffs who listened to everything that was said between the sex workers and their clients to make certain that there as no tipping or arrangements for outside assignations.
That would be an illegal operation. The cops can't put surveillance on people like that without a warrant against them it's a breach of human rights laws. Also making "arrangements" for outside assignations is not a crime as they are 2 consenting adults.
@@Fireglo So what if the cops aren't supposed to do it, what are the victims going to do? Call the cops? They can try to sue, but if they have enough money to have a chance at winning, they'll know it's a giant waste of time. Just because something is illegal doesn't mean it can't be done.
"..... They just wanted help with things and someone to complain about things to. Eventually they get tired of it and leave me flat. .....". I had this kind of 'experience' for about 6 months with one of the hottest 'dancers' in Ottawa. [She looked (and was 'built') like 'Penny' on Big Bang Theory]. That is why I like to differentiate between the GFE and the FGFE (Fantasy GirlFriend Experience); it is kinda like the difference between Capitalism (the mostly benign form that we used to have) and Unfettered Capitalism (the cancerous/fatal type that we have now), but I digress. If I wanted a GFE (with someone who is nice sometimes, but wastes a lot of our time 'bitching & complaining'), then I would get an actual god damn girlfriend. BUT if I am going to PAY you, I want the FGFE -- all of the nice but with none of the 'baggage' ! [My 'relationship' with the 'dancer' started off with the FGFE but for the last month all I was getting was the (actual) GFE so, reluctantly, I had to 'fire her ass' ! [Sorta like Dickens once said: "'It was the best of times, it was the worst of times" .....].
Really what these ladies are saying is true, lot of us older men just want a pretty lady at our side for company and affection, one to talk to about anything. Doesn't even have to be about the 3 letter word necessarily.
My opinion on this is: why not? There are so many young women marrying old rich guys only for the money. Its basically the same, or i would say gfe brothels are even more sincere
Working girls have feelings too and I think sometimes they genuinely do like clients. I know several who gave me their phone numbers and we have met up outside and gone for dinner or just a coffee and they genuinely just wanted to chat or have somebody to hang around with who wasn't going to take advantage. No money ever changed hands for that. I stopped paying to see girls years ago but i'm still in touch with two or three of them and there is one I still meet up with here and there. When she stopped her work there she asked me to help her get out and I helped her practice job interviews and even provided fake work references. Just because you payed a girl for a bit of intimacy doesn't mean she doesn't really like or appreciate you.
One thing I would be very curious to see would be what would happen if one of these girls won millions of dollars in the lottery. Would they still talk to these lonely guys even as friends or would they tell them to go jump in a lake?
@@tedmccarron Nurses do nursing, sex workers do sex work. Both probably quit if they strike it big in the lottery. Nobody said either group needs to do the job of he other.
@AMOGLES99 that really had nothing to do with my original question. I wanted to know if these prostitutes would still talk to some of these lonely guys if they got so much money that they didn't have to do sex work anymore.
The girl in red (Harley Lane)who spoke of being complimented by older men in comparison to their love life with their wife earlier in life was beautiful. She’d be easy to love on and keep eye contact with through the entire experience
YES!!! I KNOW!!! MY TYPE, Oh the Innocent she has!!!! and these girls look like normal everyday girls you see at a Walmart..Escorts are mostly Night and Day UGH
I understand faking feelings or going through the physical motions of sex, but forming a genuine emotional connection, a bit of intimacy, with so many different people (most of whom you never see again)? That takes a certain strength and resilience of character. It seems very difficult. No wonder they charge more for it.
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It's like getting high on heroine and getting a good house and car in a nice neighborhood . They both have the same effect on your brain , but they're definitely not the same .
They know men aren't getting sex in the real world they know that women are unrealistic shouldn't be withholding sex from men these ladies do it for the right reasons they look past the physical aspect of ur body they give you to intamacy that's needed ask any female sex worker they believe every man deserves sex they think women in the real world are just selfish and picky they do this these escorts believe in giving men sex since women in the real world refuse to just shows these escorts do it for genuine reasons besides getting paid
This phenomena is happening primarily due to the Internet. It has allowed women to be approached by 1000s of "normal" men, rather than just a few like was the norm 20 years ago.
@maya moon Good point. Feminist movement is politically very strong right now and very rich. It won't happen soon men realize what their condition is becoming.
How charming that these young women are apparently unacquainted with the tradition of the courtesan, which has been around for centuries, probably millenia.
Mick Funny, they actually have doctors come out to their brothels and test all the girls for any type of STD across the spectrum. If they pass, then Dennis lets them go to work, if they're unclean then he sends them home.
And believe it or not, the STI rate amongst sex work is far lower than the one of the general public. Why? Because sexual health is crucial for a sex worker's business and reputation. The education, practises of safer sex and awareness including very regular sexual health tests amongst us are much greater.
Do you have a facebook?Let's try. Add me -> Isla Valmour I'm 21 turning 22 this year. No boyfriend since birth. Know more about me if you want to know me. Legit. No scamming. Not a gold digger.
Do you think that men spend more money in relationships, or buying the girlfriend experience, for the same amount of joy? Include the cost of dating numerous women who weren't good matches, the cost of gifts and entertainment, the cost of travel, the cost of going out often and maintaining a large enough social network to meet enough single women who want relationships, the value of sacrifices (lost earnings or opportunities to have a more enriching life) made to maintain a sufficiently large social circle, etc.
Me and my husband don’t have sex for 3yrs now. Because we are busy. But we are happy roaming around North Carolina during our off day. We Watch movies, we help our neighbors and friends. We cook a lot. So we are like best friends.
I watched this video before visiting a brothel. Now this had a deeper emotional response. I am 76 y/o and visited two " ranches" this past June and it was a deeply memorable moving time. There should be legal brothels globaly.
absolutely,Jonathan !!!!!!!!! I visited one for my bachelor party 40 years ago and played with a lovely 27 year old Blond ( oldest girl there,by the way ) ....would have stayed the week and done ALL of the girls if I could have afforded it.I did'nt want the other girls to feel slighted but sadly, I did'nt have the resources and would have caught hell from my fiance......
If you do hire hookers, you can feel good in that you are being a provider for a woman you fancy, which is what its all about really. Ideally, you pay and she rewards you back each time knowing your free to go elsewhere. Carrot and the stick. You run into problems when the woman already has your money and is confident your not going anywhere.
It should be legal in all states and reasonably priced.. In 1984 a Quickie cost me 25 dollars & that Included a drink. Today they won't even smile for ya for under a grand.. It's time for men to take back there balls & put these bitches back into there places..
@@acgillespie here in Spain you can bang a reasonably hot girl for 50 bucks. 150 will get you a really hot one, the kind of girl that would turn heads in the street... and legally.
Just some broken,scared, lazy trashy little girls capitalizing on sick, old vulgar men. This is exactly what's wrong with the world today and exactly why relationships are not what they used to be.
The amount you'd pay one of these women for a GFE date is the same as the total amount you'd speed taking a girl on dates in hipes that she'll sleep with you.
if you look at it all relationships are a form of paid "companionship" that lead to the same natural path..sex. Without spending money on a women or having some type of "social status" value to her your out of luck. I see no problem with prostitution other than potential risk of infections. At the end of the day you will pay a one time fee that is small in the long run compared to spending a large amount on perusing women and supporting them financially.
Now I'm an old man. About 20 years ago I had a (paid, of course) young Hawaiian playmate whom I saw maybe twenty times for wall-to-wall sex. A real mistress of the erotic arts and a chill gal. We even went out to dinner together a few times. To this day, I look back upon that experience with a smile and a chuckle - one of the funnest things I ever did.
isn't it sad that women don't understand men's desire for love? of course intimacy is priced higher. this society is so fucking screwed up! men don't want SEX as a cure-all for everything. we want to be LOVED and understood.
Glenn Zarmanov If they were interested in love, understanding and intimacy with women who were slightly older and less attractive, they wouldn't have to pay for it! :)
Desiring a physical and emotional connection with a stranger is actually REALLY EASY to understand. What greater feeling in the universe could there be than to cuddle, kiss and share pleasure with someone when there is great chemistry? (The closest feeling for me is listening to beautiful 🎶 music 😉)
It's a sad world where we live in. Paying for companionship, tenderness, love etc. That's the saddest thing about this and actually these women should be ashamed to take money although I understand that for most of them it's their money for a living.
Women made this problem for themselves. When u act all entitled and pass over good men for bad boy Chads who don't stick around, don't be surprised when those good men go to women who actually appreciate and reward their resources.
@RaniaIsAwesome "intimacy" to a woman is not sex, but a meaningful kiss on the lips. Took me a lifetime to see that. Still don't understand it, though.
It does starve your curiosity but once you're in it, that is with a pimp/madam good luck escaping. As for the independent ones, it's a headache learning at the entry exist strategies however you can leave whenever you please. But a brothel would take all the guesswork out of the profession. Downside is large pay cut to your income.
Chasity Nichols If you're not fulfilling his needs as a wife sexually then most of the men will cheat on you.But you do have some men that will file for divorce and move on to find someone,That is the reason why most men go to brothles to find that memory in a relationship that was lost overtime to find that spark instead of talking to his wife or go see a counselor or Pastor at a church that can help them bring back that fire that was lost overtime.
This is almost dystopian. Honestly, I don't think the point of wide spread, popular, generic "paid intimacy" (as described in this video) is that far away in the future of mankind as a species. We're accelerating forever more into a highly specialized, quantized, industrialized, standardized world, which is likely, simultaneously isolating and lonely. I almost can relate to men who choose to look for intimacy this way.
The vast majority do price themselves out of a job because very few have the social communication skills. Most places around me the workers call it "Girlfriend Experience" and prices can easily treble and this is just for a basic chat and nothing else. All the guys I know are decent blokes. Dress well, speak well, polite, non-aggressive good hygiene etc. These establishments treat them like dogs. Why? It's the times. It's the way the industry is now. Sad but true.
Prostitutes are not going to ever be in a faithfully devoted long term relationship with a love of their lives. Same applies to alot of people who do not engage in prostitution.
Please. These men can find the same experience with a woman, just with a woman who is much older, closer to their age. This is about intimacy with a younger woman - not any woman.
It's a sad testament and reflection on women today that men would feel the need to do this. A bonus is it's cheaper than marriage and if you get bored you can change them 👍
I'm a grown ass man, and have lived in a blue collar struggle. Most of my crude uncles taught me one thing; either way whether you up front pay for it, or pursue a relationship, you are paying for it and it's always a partial financial agreement it's not always about who just you are as a person a woman will always have to evaluate. Mainly being if you could provide, and how well you handle pressure. So how much difference is there? Not much I'd say
It's not about what you pay, it's about what you get. The difference is, a good woman will give you loyalty, love and a family, she'd cooks, cleans, look after you when you're sick... You can't get these by paying for these "girlfriend experiences".
@@AbuBased731 would you like to work as a prostitute to make a living even though it’s “easy?” Or maybe I misunderstood. Were you referring to men’s disadvantage in relationships and often ending up lonely? If so, I agree. Men’s mental health is something that needs more attention
It's sad to see that some men feel they have to pay to have to have a romantic/sexual experience with a woman that is only doing it because he pays her instead of being with a woman who wants to be in that relationship with him for free because she loves him/is genuinely attracted to him.
Personally I think this would be good for guys who are extremely shy and very unconfident with women. There are plenty of cases where a guy went a few sessions with a pro and gained enough confidence and experience to go out and date.
@john doe Ive been in your shoes and I gonna tell ya this; keep your head up. 20 is still fairly young, use that time to better yourself as a man. Do not let not having a GF depress you, work on yourself to become a more confident person and trust me, the ladies will come. Stay Strong Bro
A lot of these guys dont have gfs for a reason. Either they are nasty people, drug addicts, abusive, unable to be honest etc etc etc. Ive known many ugly dudes who easily get gfs
If every lonely guy in America decided to go to a Pro for sex the waiting list would be many years. Even if the number of girls was increased many times.
I have seen so many people on here talking about how you don’t need to be educated to do sex work, like it’s the lowest common denominator who do it. If that’s the case, then how do you explain the woman in this video who was studying for a PhD, or women who are currently in sex work who have a bachelors, masters, and higher degrees? I am a sex worker and I have two degrees, and I’m working on a third. Unfortunately adult industry topics are not yet taught in higher education because it’s not yet legitimized. It’s still false that a sex worker can’t be educated. Also, many trades are taught on the job, and this is a trade that must definitely be learned, or no one would make money at it. There is marketing, psychology, event planning, human sexuality, acting/writing of scripts (for fetish scene requests), management, health, and other education required to survive, thrive, and make a living.
@@sleeexs You could just as easily say that women who give sex away don’t qualify for a degree, but that would be just as sexist. There’s no excuse to down a woman for deciding what she does with her own body, and on what terms.
And men who pay for women encourage human trafficking. Blame it on wives , if that makes you feel better about yourselves, but remember that no human being other than you is on this earth to cater to you.
@@brittaolson6550 god bless you We (man) are not predators but media never showed it they always target complete community in feminist issue but never talk about real equality our rights and our mental health it's just taking for granted and load with responsibilities Sorry for my bad English I m from Asia (India) and I might never meet you or any other GFE model (because it's not available in my country) there are 2 more reasons that may I can't get or try GFE because 1-> I don't want any prostitute feel a fake love that might hurt her mental health bcoz I can't be her husband so if she fall in love with you then it's not good 2-> I can't replace my girlfriend with any other women she is away from me and I also want companionship, sex, intimacy but it feels like cheating, maybe if we broke up then I tried Brothel for sex but never show love, flirt like I did to her She is best ❤️ Sorry for my bad English
@@peacefollower5026 Thank you for your kindness and respect. I agree the issue is more complex than the one-sided narrative the media typically presents. Many men I have visited with work long hours and either don’t have the time for a real romantic relationship, or they have a family but must travel often to support them, and become lonely, as well as having physical needs. I think this is a problem of society and the long work hours demanded of men and people in general, today. This is especially a problem of Asian men I have met, and also American men, especially businessmen. On average, they have a good standard of living but work very long hours to keep it. I don’t think clients have to worry that they will mislead an escort by playing at a romantic relationship, in the context of GFE. Be assured that escorts offering GFE are professionals, and will not be confused about what is real and what is play. You don’t need to worry about hurting their feelings. They know GFE is just for fun. It makes some happy to have some emotional nurturance, not only a physical experience. Regarding your real girlfriend. It is very honorable that you are concerned about her feelings. Honesty is so important in a relationship. Blessings to you, as well!
@@danksarumanoflotr1 You don't study in college to become an entrepreneur, social worker, or even business man. Or even volunteer who does social work and charity.
hannah davis Absolutely. I’m a sex worker & I care about and become friends with clients. Just because we’re paid, doesn’t mean we’re not real people. I’ve bought presents for dates, given them rides when they’re stranded. If you treat me well I do the same. 😊
Nailed it at 2:05. At some point of the relationship women loose their (i dont know how to explain) funny and crazy part and become super serious. In my opinion that has a major influence on the regular sex-life. They only want sex at certain times (not to late - because they are tired / not to early - because they are not in the mood) in certain positions. Having sex in a small car? With 20 that was funny an amazing, now its just gross and uncomfortable. While they had a funny and exploring personality while they were jung a lot of women change to very boring standard behaviour - bitching about freaking EVERYTHING, and becoming super moody. I guess 50% of the men who visit prostitutes want to have a fun time with the youth or young women to get the feeling they had when they were freshly in love with a lovely person - and not with a boring and bitching old women.
Have you considered the possibility that a relationship is an organic thing that naturally and inevitably grows and evolves: not only that but I'd say that a relationship has to change if it is to last. Sexuality is fundamental at the start of a relationship because it's probably the most powerful way of building emotional intimacy. Emotional intimacy is the end to which sex is the means. This intimacy allows a strong bonding to form. Once there is a solid connection builg on honesty and intimacy, a couple can face challenges and stresses (like for example first the pregnancy, and then the raising a child for 20 years; this is most likely the primary biological need that led to the evolution of human sexuality and romantic relationships). In this context sexuality still has an important role in maintaining and reinforcing intimacy but it's no longer the fundamental or only thing keeping two people together. It's your problem only if you think you must have the same quantity and type of sex and you must feel the same lust and sexual overstimulation years into a relationship than at the start of it
*Girlfriend:* Honey could you lend me your credit card please? ... No, sorry, I have a terrible migraine tonight. *Sexworker:* Damn I'm really interested how I can give the best GFE. I think I'm gonna write a PhD about it.
A boy asked a girl in a library, "Do you mind if I sit beside you"? The girl Answered with a loud angry voice; "I don't want to spend the night with you!! All the people in the library started staring at the boy and he was embarrassed. After minutes the girl walked quietly to the guy's table and said to him I study psychology and I know what man is thinking, I guess you felt embarrassed,right? The guy responded with a loud voice :$300 for one night That's too much!! and all the people in the library looked at the girl in shock and the guy whispered in her ears, "I study law and I know how to make someone guilty.
Awesome🤣🤣🤣
Fking legendary
Epic! 😆😂🤣
When did everyone stand up and clap? Regardless funny story
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I had a GFE experience once. It costs me a huge pile of money and in the end I felt empty, drained, and broke. It's called marriage.
You picked the wrong one bro. Not every marriage is like that. Admit you messed up and move on. Don't date women of this world.
@@johntolof dude that doesn't make no sense
@@johntolof most marriages are like that
@@johntolofso easy for you to say "move on"... The cost to "move on" is huge... Lost of house. Your wages are setup to automatically pay for alimony and child support, etc. That's what I know. I've never been divorced.
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Many men are lonely but find it difficult to meet girls. Companionship is worth a lot.
Buy a dog, it doesn't cost you 50%
Better yet ....do rescue, there are so many wonderful animals in sheltersthat need companionship too!!!!@@wshyangify
@@wshyangify I want a companion that does not eat their own excrement.
They're rich they probably don't have problems meeting women. They just have a hard time meeting 19 year old strippers to date them
@@Gwen-x6d buy a cat.
It just goes to show men want compassion but cant ask for it or get it from other women. It's sad
Haven’t seen you in a while
Alrighty
@@kaitlynmckessy4250 😂😂😂
This just goes to show that humanity is lost without a savior. (john chapter. 3:3)
Those men who ask for compassion and are ready to give time and effort to earn it, are usually considered as weak and loser. Women don't value the nice guys compared to those rugged uncouth impertinent bastards who are generally known as the cool guys.
I have been seeing sex workers for a year now and I can confirm: we pay for the companionship. I'd rather have a girl who's a 5 in looks but gives great GFE than a supermodel 10 who acts uninterested and bored.
Qinyuan Huang how much does this service run
This man speaks the truth.
Now I know where all my money for buying that new Toyota is going to.
But it's fake companionship. After you drop her off she's sucking off and getting rammed bya the next client. I'd rather just smash and bounce it's cheaper too.
well his face in the picture shows he can only have hookers pay him "attention", so makes sense.
WARNING:If the girlfriend experience last longer than four hours please consult a doctor and an ATM!
hahaha
Victor Steele 😂😂😂
Lol
Victor Steele ha! Good one
An Ass To Mouth?
Sex takes half an hour. A girlfriend experience would take several hours. That's why it would cost more.
Some escorts charge thousands of dollars for one night
I've had a client want 3 hours.
He was great company sure we had sex but it wasn't often. The company though was rewarding like when you first get married and very happy type of love.
Only half an hour damn😒
@The Fenno-Christian pequenas de verga de hombre 😆
@@valeriesanchez3074 so awesome when that happens hey, get paid to experience love with someone...makes up for the difficult clients!
Ironically the only women on earth interested in understanding men.
But only as far as it pays. “By the age of twelve at the latest, most women have decided to become prostitutes. Or, to put it another way, they have planned a future for themselves which consists of choosing a man and letting him do all the work. In return for his support, they are prepared to let him make use of their vagina at certain given intervals. The minute a woman has made this decision she ceases to develop her mind.”--Esther Vilar
Some women have figured out how to get paid without having a male middleman with its attendant sexual component, others, how to extort the most support for the least amount of sex, like Masanobu 's girlfriend. But in every case, its not because they're doing humanity a service, but to please their own vanity. Women only employ their brains past the age of five to get what they want out of life--leisure and adulation. Notice how none of these brothel women are emotionally attached to their clients, while at the same time they have all the male companionship they want from one day to the next.
They are not one bit interested lol the only interest they have is your money
No I have high understanding so I can understand men women children anyone
@@svartvist - I feel sorry for you. But just because you're so damaged doesn't meant you have license to denigrate and insult all women.
@@CreekyGuy Says you, another True Believer. A lot of projection, presumption and condescension there.
If men want to pay for sex with women who are willing to sell it, it's their own business, and it's not for anyone else to be sitting around making judgments or sociological comments about it.
I wouldn't simply stand and watch when someone is about to fall in a pit. Yea... Right, judging is different
If i want to buy slaves and people want to sell them who are u to stop us them... illogical sentence.
Driver2151 no it's not judgement but people having different opinions on it I personally think being a sex worker is really degrading and nasty.
Yes it is or they wouldn’t have giving us this comment section
Bruno CBart No sir. Your statement is illogical. Slaves are forced against their own will. Majority of escorts/prostitutes are independent and do it on their own accord. Illogical sentence.
I really appreciate this video! So many videos here on RUclips glorifying sex work as either the high end sugar babies that claim they don't have sex with their clients and give a very unrealistic portrayal of the rest of this industry. Or the countless videos only focused on sex trafficking, (which don't get me wrong is awful and needs to be stopped! But sex trafficking and sexwork is not the same thing. Trafficking is slavery, sexwork is consensual work. ) This video shows the majority of sex workers who are thoughtful, empathetic human beings who enjoy bringing a real intimate experience to their clients :)
Sex work and human trafficking have been conflated by those opposed to the sex industry to be one in the same thing. Of course they're not. Although some women are trafficked into the sex trade the most human trafficking goes into bringing illegal immigrants into a country who often end up as domestics or kitchen and wait staff in restaurants. Or the men will work on construction sites, or on farms, things like that. If sex work was legalized or decriminalized those in the industry would be only too happy to report trafficked women or underage or women working under threat of violence. As of now they are too afraid to for fear of getting arrested themselves.
@@erikswanson5753 Thank you for an intelligent and informed response.
@@jonsilence you're welcome. There are so many hang ups and judgmental moralizing around this whole issue.
When humans prostitute themselves there is a fatherhood issue.
Either way they consented to degrade themselves for a way to make money. By selling their body.
But not very attractive
Money is just one kind of currency. Time, affection, intimacy, work, and energy are other kinds. Paying for sex isn't too too different from another kind of relationship, it just costs something else.
If you want a relationship, you're gonna have to work (pay) for it in some way or another
@maya moon Not like this honey. There are SEVERAL works you can do, to buy food and pay rent. Just prostitution makes MUCH more money than average jobs.
Well stated. Everything should cost something right?
I disagree.
It's one of those cases where logic≠correct.
Where something sounds good on paper , but is actually false in the practice .
On paper , someone who use Cristal meth and someone who get the key of his new house and car have the same things going on in the brain .
On paper , they both bought their happiness in one way or another .
Getting high far more high on meth is a far more honest to reach happiness than having a house and car that may not get you happy for long, but it's definitely not a good one .
Both are equal on paper , but in reality , they're complete opposite .
Most People will always choose the house and car rather than meth ; because a long-term reward gained from hardwork is far more compelling than a short-term reward from a shortcut .
@@madmouse4400 Well said
Yeah, no. A genuine relationship means actually caring for someone, and paying someone to fake that is a cheat, a way out of the real effort of taking care of each other. Not the same at all. Money is easy compared to helping someone through thick and thin, working through issues together, maybe raising a family, or helping each other through illness.
The most expensive escort is a WIFE.
Being a wife is being a high class escort to one man - your husband 😂
Yes and it’s a terrible investment. Stick to the professional.
@@dscheafferidiot
Well said
Wives are not escorts. There’s no guaranteed sex with a wife.
Being married is paid, too. Thing is, you don't always get the intimacy.
What's the difference between getting married and paying for sex ?
Paying for sex is cheaper !
Damn right!✊🏽 I’m for legalizing escort service and prostitution!👍🏽
@@peterfraney7931 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I could have all the sex I wanted when I was married, but it was the loneliest time of my life.
Married men, assemble 😅
I am okay with being alone for the rest of my life. But this was interesting to watch nonetheless
@Waterlec ayyyy smart lad! 😜
Women used to have to try harder, because a happy husband ensured a safe, happy, if not financially secure, life. A well treated man will work harder for a woman because he feels appreciated.
But who appreciates men in 2020?
Lol
@Waterlec incel
@@kojimaisgod9500 someone needs to figure out the definition of incel
Shes wrong.
They want sex with a beautiful woman and they want companionship. They want both in equal measure. That is the truth.
even though most of them don't deserve beautiful women whatsoever
Idk why I couldn’t stop crying when the girl in red said, those elderly told her she gave them experiences their wife gave them when they were young.
Lol why? Women sex drive goes down but men's don't.
yeahhh,it was sorta, chaotically hit a raw nerve there.
Makes me feel bad a lot of young men nowadays will not have that experience of having a young wife.
More proof that the longer you're in a relationship the worse it gets.
you're not the only one.
A paid date. Just like any other date then.
Having been married....let me tell you..."A girlfriend experience"....is a "Hell of a lot cheaper"....than a wife...and without all the "baggage.".....
No, a date does not guarantee sex.
neither does a marriage....
bluerisk false
@@ChrisDan94_ I'm correct.
I've heard the quote you can't buy love but you can rent it
@Rocky Simpson that's not love, it's called being a gold digger
Love isn't something to be received by impulse. You have to earn it.
Impulse relationships are just foolish and dangerous
I heard that about beer too! :)) In less than an hour, out it goes...
Prostitution should be legalized in the states
It is….in Nevada at least
Kit Kat ranch
Mustang ranch
Moonlight bunny ranch
The love ranch
Sage brush ranch
That’s just a small list of them near me
What's interesting is, a real girlfriend or wife isn't really free either. Also needs money.may live with you, get married..emotion..time..expenses...just saying, that ain't free either...
Time is money. Relationships require time. You don't have time but money? Same thing, you can also experience intimacy by just paying the other way. :)
I have a girlfriend. It's true that I give her presents and pay for the majority of our dates, but I know she's not with me because of any material things I give her. She's with me because she really cares about me/ is attracted to me. If I went completely broke tomorrow I know she would still want to be with me and would still want to be physically/emotionally intimate with me. I'm pretty sure that's not the case for girls you pay to act like they feel that way towards you. So there is a big difference
Pay per hour or give her half your house , either way the bitch gotta get paid.lol
Daniel, Consider yourself one of the fortunate few. Many girls today have an agenda set in stone; Tall (most women refuse any man under 6 feet) & set for a considerably long amount of time in terms of money. Any guy that cannot measure up to those "twin towers" best not approach them at all. Even if you can get past the "tetanus shot" of their rejection, the word "creep" will soon sort you out, and good. You could even have one of the men in blue serve you with a restraining order. I'm not surprised the Girlfriend experience has taken center stage. Not one bit.
+Monaural Yeap .... I have the same outlook. I am following 3 F's Rent Rule LOL...
Kissing someone is the most personal thing one can do.
Robert De Brus I completely agree with you when I’ve done both sex & kissing for pay, so I would know.
Imagine kissing someone who kiss 20 or 30 people in a day.
Nah, more like when you get old and have to help each other with very personal medical issues, or dealing with things like your thoughts, emotions, seeing each other at your worst, like when you lose a job you cared about, or when you lose your hair and it bothers you, or you start having sexual function issues, or they see all your little habits you thought no one knew about. Any fool can kiss, but real intimacy is seeing a person when they are truly vulnerable.
I was a young 18 year old private in the Army. A friend came back from spending his hard earned money for a prostitute. He said she allowed anything but kissing. I never had any interest after that.
We're all prostitutes when you get right to the point. We do what we do to get what we want. After the basic survival needs are taken care of that is. We trade time, money, interest in others, etc... to fulfill our needs, desires, ego trips, etc... just like a prostitute does. Prostitution is probably more honest than a lot of "normal" relationships.
Prostitution is much different than working. One is degrading, the other isn’t. They’re not the same so don’t even treat it as such. Prostitution is terrible and if you see it so highly then I feel sorry and concerned for you.
very very true !!!
@@SlayerOfTheDamned as a sex worker, sex is WORKING. idk what youre on making it seem like its not a job, when it is. i agree with them and what they are saying. OBVIOUSLY sex work is different but ive been a cashier before, ive also worked at a car dealership, ive worked at a pet store and many other jobs and i can tell you right now as a sex worker your clueless. yes it can be dangerous but did you know sex worker (prostitution ... old word by the way, super outdates .. but you wouldnt know that, would you now, dunce) can be more than women on the streets like its the 80s.... sex work doesnt have to be street working, it can be Only fans... it can be selling feet picture or even armpit pics or even pretending to turn into a giant and "eating your client" by comping down your teeth lol... bc yes, ppl pay for that believe it or not. no one said it wasnt dangerous depending on the type of sex work you are doing bc theres risks with almost every job, learn something instead of talking shit about something you are soooo clealry uneducated about its disgusting... i wouldnt even look at you if you paid me.. what a joke.
@@SlayerOfTheDamned It isn't "degrading" when everything is consensual.. I swear it seems like people just need to feel like some beacon of morality for crapping on things they clearly do not understand.. The self righteous "I feel sorry" shit is patronizing too.. it doesn't make you look good, it just makes you look like a judgmental asshole. Legalize it and it will be safer for everyone plus help eliminate a huge problem with sex trafficking related to organized crime.
I disagree.
It's one of those cases where logic≠correct.
Where something sounds good on paper , but is actually false in the practice .
On paper , someone who use Cristal meth and someone who get the key of his new house and car have the same things going on in the brain .
On paper , they both bought their happiness in one way or another .
Getting high far more high on meth is a far more honest to reach happiness than having a house and car that may not get you happy for long, but it's definitely not a good one .
Both are equal on paper , but in reality , they're complete opposite .
People will always choose the house and car rather than meth ; because a long-term reward gained from hardwork is far more compelling than a short-term reward from a shortcut .
And how people act is a more important factor than what people say .
Don't marry. Find a professional girl you can trust for the duration and budget $300 - $400 a month. It'll work out cheaper in the long run.
I totally agree with that
Mel Mo You’re not lying
But who’s going to feed you apple sauce and change your diapers when you’re old? A girl you pay who doesn’t love you? She’ll drug you and get you to sign over your assets to her and steal every last dime you’re worth. It truly does pay YOU in the end to have a woman take care of you- who truly loves you.
Just a thought..just a thought..
@@hillarybillary21 lol a nurse change your diaper. This is all fantasy , having a woman is like playing the lottery . If you’re lucky enough you might end up with one that willing to stay.
ive gotten 300 in a day... hours to be exact.. whos gonna live off 300 a month, unless they have multiple clients lol
Sorry but it's pretty sad that most of these men are probably married and yet have to go and pay a stranger to give them intimacy. Hmmm, if you're in a marriage that is so devoid of intimacy you have to pay someone else for it, you need to file for a divorce already. Geeze!
But you have to consider how much a divorce lawyer charges you to negotiate how much you pay in alimony, etc. The costs of divorce will put you at a serious disadvantage in starting the dating game all over again.
A lot cheaper this way.
Agreed, I'd love for prostitution to be fully legal here. If only most people had the power to understand that love, money and sex are all completely separate things. Prostitution is a business, fake as hell like any other money making scheme, nothing more than that. 😊
This is sad that some resort to this. It shows how loveless the world is and lacking people can be.
It's even sadder to be in a sexless marriage.
EXACTLY RIGHT!!!
To be fair, at least this option is available as opposed to complete loneliness and isolation
Life is cruel for millions of ‘other’ people.
This video is an excellent resource to counter all of the bad press and stigmatization that is commonly attached to prostitution. Ladies such as these who work at the higher end of the spectrum understand that most men want a quality experience with a connection that feels intimate and "real"... even if it's not.
Men love unconditionally, women love on the condition that you provide something!
Yeah because most men are simps
It's remarkable that you think money can buy a true connection. Hope you've learned better since this comment
@@JohnWilliams-nw7ofMen don't love at all which is why prostitution exists. If they can cut out the part where they have to get to know you as a person, and just get what they're after, they will. So it's real ridiculous to pretend men are even capable of love, let alone unconditional love. What they actually mean is they will stay in a relationship whether it's emotionally fulfilling or not, as long as they're getting sex bc thats what they care the most about. So, just staying for selfish reasons isn't love. Women desire true connection and if they aren't getting that they stop wasting their time. Love is true connection. Also, touting unconditional love in a romantic relationship proves the party wanting it is planning on mistreating their partner or not meeting their needs, otherwise it wouldn't need to be unconditional. Unconditional love should be reserved for your children and at a certain point, tough love should be implemented. "Unconditional" love is what people desire when they plan on being a huge pos in the relationship. Everyone makes mistakes and deserves a certain amount of forgiveness but nobody should be expected to love anyone romantically without having boundaries to protect themselves. That's ignorant and asking to be abused. Also, if men loved at all, let alone unconditionally, stats wouldn't show men leaving their wives when they get a debilitating disease or illness. It's all about what a man can get from a woman. Bc once the woman gets sick, that "unconditional" love becomes conditional real quick. Try telling the truth sometimes.
@@LouLouLion Did you even read the comment?
With a woman you can pay at the beginning or at the end, but you will always pay. Ask those who are paying alimony what they prefer...
Plenty of women paying for men too, especiallg these days.
@@stephaniemoore8013 Finally some good news. The exception makes the rule though. Marriage in most cases is a worse deal for men. More responsibilities than privileges. My mom used to wash and fold all our clothes and enjoyed it with love before making delicious dinner. Those days are long gone. Today it's just sharing a home where she takes more space, more money and more time and men pretend to like it.
@@ricardomurillo5205 In my state there's a social stigma surrounding dicirces so people avoid divorces 99% of marriges here are lifetime.
@@sahilsahoo6478 presuming you make the right choice I guess you are fine. In my city divorce is close to 45%
Sooo true 😢
These women should be protected at all cost
All the wanna be psychiatrists and philosophers in the comment section.
Omg ikr
yoursel included..WELCOME!
For a GFE you don't start at a brothel, you look for an independent. Some are genuinely lonely women, neglected housewives, abandoned single mums, etc, and they like the man's companionship if he treats her like a lady and they have learned they can trust him. Those can genuinely want you to stay on after the sex for a while just for company (no extra charge) if they are not booked for more.
You give me ideas hmmmmmm
You are so right!
How does someone legitimately find someone like that?
@@broadcasttttable try to know them, when you get an escort. Try to have a connection, don’t pick up the ones that they are just with naked pictures.
Or another Lucky way but well got to know how, where, and what ! Take some risks too. Mine did not come from any Brothel or Hook up sites but infamous Strip club scene and then another and another....Talk about wild and crazy sh*t back then? But wow what memories and LOTS of wild sex you definitely don't get from any so called escort anywhere. Yeah gonna shell out allot of cash but man what an experience.
Profiting men loneliness. Welcome to our dystopia.
it is more than likely, in 2023, Still A cheaper option.
After being married for 24 years I understand why this occurs
Don't be fooled -- there's one reason and ONLY one reason why prostitutes charge more for the GFE: it's b/c they can. It's not b/c 'they're giving more of themselves away' or any other cockamamie reason. It's a simple supply and demand dynamic. If "most of the guys" weren't requesting it, then it would be the same price as the rest of the menu. But because most of the guys DO request it, the prostitutes would be silly (and very poor business people) not to capitalize on it.
capitalism
Exactly, they're profiting the loneliness and desperation of men.
@@ivanivan5511it's a hard job. Can you imagine having to fake attraction for hundreds of ugly ass men? they deserve every penny.
I could never do their job, I have such a sensitive stomach, I'd probably throw up all over them 🤣🤣🤣🤣
yup
Yes, that's how a transaction works. A lot more work going into it than just the base standard means more money
I think it would make me feel even more miserable to know that I am not good enough to get a female without offering her money
It's not about not being able to get a girl with offering money. It's about getting a girl that's willing to do whatever it is you want them to do within reason. These women aren't charging a couple hundred bucks for this stuff, we're talking if you wanna go out to dinner with them or take them out shopping or whatever, thousands of dollars an hour, and that's just the minimum they're charging, that's not to say some of these guys pay them much more than that. These guys could just go buy a nice car (although they probably already have several) and pick up girls at night clubs or bars all day long, but that's not really the point. The point is they like the fantasy of it all and the attention they know they're going to get, as well as the mutual understanding that it's never meant to last more than that night.
Well men are just as superficial.
I think this is why client go ALSO to sex, just to punish girls, that they need to hug.
They need hug, but they buy sex, because that way it is more intimate, and SECURE, IT IS KEPT IN SILENCE by such modus operandi.
Thanks to What they are doing. They can still feel stronger.
As they say truth is naked, so they want show to this girls naked hugging truth unless they would also get silent by getting naked.
You pay every women for a relationship, at least these women don’t have your credit cards and PIN number to your accounts
@@jaydalombardi3860 no they want companionship without the bullshit, they want to be treated well and fairly
If a man is shy around women, not certain his status or wealth is worthy of securing a long-term permanent relationship (read: marriage), I can see where the GFE would be worthwhile. Guys need to be emotionally protected as much as gals do.
Remember guys we pay for it one way or another. So enjoy with a GFE
completely different context but in some ways similar on the companionship part (which is what i got from this ) . being a sydney cabdriver a life time ago. i came across a similar phenomenon.when people paid their money ,some took it further than just getting from a to b. they'd hired and paid you for companionship (mobile confessional) so they could reveal themselves at a deeper level which they needed connection with . and needed to be able to express and somebody to be engaged with and listen to. and sort of paying for this insome ways gave them the confidence (i've paid you to reveal myself to you) to be vulnerable with a fair degree of certainty they wouldn't be dismissed and or rejected . i had some great raves .
That's essentially the byproduct of all the social media. Granted, maybe not so much with older guys looking for a companionship but this will only go deeper and deeper with younget and younger guys as time goes on. I'm not judging, merely saying that it was expected to happen.
I drove a taxi yrs ago. I've had the same experiences. There are people
In my experience sex was rare. But they more so pay for the company something which their spouse stopped providing. I did enjoy the conversation and intimacy. But after a while, romance lost meaning to me so I quit doing the work. Really drains you emotionally
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@@valeriesanchez3074 it's your life your Decision but pls take care of your health and security
Mental health of Mans are taking for granted in most of country (sorry for my bad English)
As a man I can totally understand this. Male friendships are more shallow than women’s. I’m lucky because I used to have a great best mate and we were super close even emotionally, but years later we’re not friends anymore. Most men never have that. Most male friendships are drinking, sports, bragging and joking. Not much support, not much trust, not much real talk. Personally I wouldn’t pay for that, but I do certainly miss it. So yeah, for single men, I can totally understand wanting companionship and intimacy more than the actual sex.
There are many lonely men in the world. Some even married. Men who haven't held a woman's hand, or kissed or embraced a woman in years. As for sex, unless you're in a committed long term relationship or you're married, forget it. Sometimes even in a married relationship, you have a couple of kids, reach your thirties and the sex stops. Sex work is the oldest profession because men have had to live like this for a very long time.
@@erikswanson5753 And women because men suffer from ED as they age.
Luckily for me friendship isn't that important. I'm mid 30's and yeah I still like banging women and what not but I dont need people for much more than that.
I don't know what makes you think your friendships with men were such exceptions. The shallowness of women's friendships compared to men's is common knowledge that has come down through the ages.
Women are quite aware of it and it's a prime reason they try so hard to end their husband's friendships once they marry, and frequently before. No disrespect intended but you sound inexperienced, whatever your age.
@@seekingthemiddleway4048 Is that what they tell you?😄
My neighbor said it cost more having a wife than if he had hired sex workers
I believe it, and you stop getting laid!
That's so sad. Society, a vocal section of women and usually men that are well off forget that other men are real people with feelings. They need companionship and yes sex but society today makes it difficult for men to find a woman. Standards are much higher, men are seen as violent, horny deviants and somehow when given the opportunity. These men choose 1 WOMAN, and go through emotional pain when their"lady" leaves. It's really messed up.
You are not paying for the sex, you are paying her to leave after the sex. It costs less that way.
You gave me the experience my wife did when we were YOUNG
heavily implying still together
thanks for ruining it. :( I almost started blubbering. 😂
Still together because the added cost of a GFE is still lower than divorce court.
If your wife doesn't love you anymore, but she's only with you because of money or society's pressures, then you're under no obligation to be faithful to her. Only a loving, loyal wife deserves a loving, loyal husband. End of discussion.
That guy that was married and doing this isn't doing things right, if he can't get a GFE from his wife.
@@Verradonairun correction, you are no longer "obligated to be married to her". You should leave instead of cheating on a person you don't love.
I see about 2 or 3 of the same call girls. 1 if I pay for GFE or not, likes to spend time with me. She isn't looking for a boyfriend, but she makes me feel loved.
This probably explains all the older men with young attractive women that I saw in Las Vegas.
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Go to the viagra triangle on a warm summer evening in Chicago
I've had GFE's that lasted for years with women who were not interested in me at all. They just wanted help with things and someone to complain about things to. Eventually they get tired of it and leave me flat. Also: One of these GFE women told me about a brothel in Nevada that was run by sheriffs who listened to everything that was said between the sex workers and their clients to make certain that there as no tipping or arrangements for outside assignations.
That would be an illegal operation. The cops can't put surveillance on people like that without a warrant against them it's a breach of human rights laws. Also making "arrangements" for outside assignations is not a crime as they are 2 consenting adults.
@@Fireglo So what if the cops aren't supposed to do it, what are the victims going to do? Call the cops? They can try to sue, but if they have enough money to have a chance at winning, they'll know it's a giant waste of time. Just because something is illegal doesn't mean it can't be done.
"..... They just wanted help with things and someone to complain about things to. Eventually they get tired of it and leave me flat. .....".
I had this kind of 'experience' for about 6 months with one of the hottest 'dancers' in Ottawa. [She looked (and was 'built') like 'Penny' on Big Bang Theory].
That is why I like to differentiate between the GFE and the FGFE (Fantasy GirlFriend Experience); it is kinda like the difference between Capitalism (the mostly benign form that we used to have) and Unfettered Capitalism (the cancerous/fatal type that we have now), but I digress.
If I wanted a GFE (with someone who is nice sometimes, but wastes a lot of our time 'bitching & complaining'), then I would get an actual god damn girlfriend. BUT if I am going to PAY you, I want the FGFE -- all of the nice but with none of the 'baggage' ! [My 'relationship' with the 'dancer' started off with the FGFE but for the last month all I was getting was the (actual) GFE so, reluctantly, I had to 'fire her ass' ! [Sorta like Dickens once said: "'It was the best of times, it was the worst of times" .....].
Really what these ladies are saying is true, lot of us older men just want a pretty lady at our side for company and affection, one to talk to about anything. Doesn't even have to be about the 3 letter word necessarily.
My opinion on this is: why not? There are so many young women marrying old rich guys only for the money. Its basically the same, or i would say gfe brothels are even more sincere
Honestly when I go to this kinds of places is because I want wild sex that most women in my age can’t provide
Working girls have feelings too and I think sometimes they genuinely do like clients. I know several who gave me their phone numbers and we have met up outside and gone for dinner or just a coffee and they genuinely just wanted to chat or have somebody to hang around with who wasn't going to take advantage. No money ever changed hands for that. I stopped paying to see girls years ago but i'm still in touch with two or three of them and there is one I still meet up with here and there. When she stopped her work there she asked me to help her get out and I helped her practice job interviews and even provided fake work references. Just because you payed a girl for a bit of intimacy doesn't mean she doesn't really like or appreciate you.
One thing I would be very curious to see would be what would happen if one of these girls won millions of dollars in the lottery. Would they still talk to these lonely guys even as friends or would they tell them to go jump in a lake?
@@tedmccarron I think you can say that of many professions. Not many billionaire nurses out there.
@AMOGLES99 but nurses don't typically sleep with and date guys twice their age who they have no attraction to.
@@tedmccarron Nurses do nursing, sex workers do sex work. Both probably quit if they strike it big in the lottery. Nobody said either group needs to do the job of he other.
@AMOGLES99 that really had nothing to do with my original question. I wanted to know if these prostitutes would still talk to some of these lonely guys if they got so much money that they didn't have to do sex work anymore.
The girl in red (Harley Lane)who spoke of being complimented by older men in comparison to their love life with their wife earlier in life was beautiful. She’d be easy to love on and keep eye contact with through the entire experience
This feels eerily creepy and weird and gross.
YES!!! I KNOW!!! MY TYPE, Oh the Innocent she has!!!! and these girls look like normal everyday girls you see at a Walmart..Escorts are mostly Night and Day UGH
She seems Tender and Loving....first thing I noticed........An elegant little thing...I wish her the BEST !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I understand faking feelings or going through the physical motions of sex, but forming a genuine emotional connection, a bit of intimacy, with so many different people (most of whom you never see again)?
That takes a certain strength and resilience of character. It seems very difficult. No wonder they charge more for it.
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When do the lines blur from an an objective purchase to a subjective experience?
It's like getting high on heroine and getting a good house and car in a nice neighborhood .
They both have the same effect on your brain , but they're definitely not the same .
They know men aren't getting sex in the real world they know that women are unrealistic shouldn't be withholding sex from men these ladies do it for the right reasons they look past the physical aspect of ur body they give you to intamacy that's needed ask any female sex worker they believe every man deserves sex they think women in the real world are just selfish and picky they do this these escorts believe in giving men sex since women in the real world refuse to just shows these escorts do it for genuine reasons besides getting paid
This phenomena is happening primarily due to the Internet. It has allowed women to be approached by 1000s of "normal" men, rather than just a few like was the norm 20 years ago.
@maya moon Good point. Feminist movement is politically very strong right now and very rich. It won't happen soon men realize what their condition is becoming.
True. It used to be that men had to go to sketch areas of town to meet women in this line of work. That was a big deterrent for many men.
Exactly. The internet is a curse more than it is a blessing.
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How charming that these young women are apparently unacquainted with the tradition of the courtesan, which has been around for centuries, probably millenia.
SweetJungThang so has STD
Mick Funny, they actually have doctors come out to their brothels and test all the girls for any type of STD across the spectrum. If they pass, then Dennis lets them go to work, if they're unclean then he sends them home.
And believe it or not, the STI rate amongst sex work is far lower than the one of the general public. Why? Because sexual health is crucial for a sex worker's business and reputation. The education, practises of safer sex and awareness including very regular sexual health tests amongst us are much greater.
Sex workers go all the way back into being in the Bible.
You have STD ?
I’d love to have a girlfriend a few weeks a year. Without the heart break and fear of losing it in a divorce
Do you have a facebook?Let's try. Add me -> Isla Valmour
I'm 21 turning 22 this year. No boyfriend since birth. Know more about me if you want to know me. Legit. No scamming. Not a gold digger.
Yes tell me about it lost 428 k in assets in divorce .
Do you think that men spend more money in relationships, or buying the girlfriend experience, for the same amount of joy? Include the cost of dating numerous women who weren't good matches, the cost of gifts and entertainment, the cost of travel, the cost of going out often and maintaining a large enough social network to meet enough single women who want relationships, the value of sacrifices (lost earnings or opportunities to have a more enriching life) made to maintain a sufficiently large social circle, etc.
Me and my husband don’t have sex for 3yrs now. Because we are busy. But we are happy roaming around North Carolina during our off day. We Watch movies, we help our neighbors and friends. We cook a lot. So we are like best friends.
I watched this video before visiting a brothel. Now this had a deeper emotional response. I am 76 y/o and visited two " ranches" this past June and it was a deeply memorable
moving time. There should be legal brothels globaly.
Can you still get it up naturally or do you need viagra?
God bless you
absolutely,Jonathan !!!!!!!!! I visited one for my bachelor party 40 years ago and played with a lovely 27 year old Blond ( oldest girl there,by the way ) ....would have stayed the week and done ALL of the girls if I could have afforded it.I did'nt want the other girls to feel slighted but sadly, I did'nt have the resources and would have caught hell from my fiance......
@@dwightdodd3734you're disgusting. Why don't you just stay single?
In Aust they are legal but setup in industrial areas
Many intimate relationships in our daily lives are paid ones, maybe not upfront or not in cash.
Women should learn from this. You might be able to keep a man if they learn to do what men like
If you do hire hookers, you can feel good in that you are being a provider for a woman you fancy, which is what its all about really. Ideally, you pay and she rewards you back each time knowing your free to go elsewhere. Carrot and the stick. You run into problems when the woman already has your money and is confident your not going anywhere.
that sums it up nicely,Craig !
LEGALIZE IT!!!
It should be legal in all states and reasonably priced.. In 1984 a Quickie cost me 25 dollars & that Included a drink. Today they won't even smile for ya for under a grand.. It's time for men to take back there balls & put these bitches back into there places..
@@acgillespie here in Spain you can bang a reasonably hot girl for 50 bucks. 150 will get you a really hot one, the kind of girl that would turn heads in the street... and legally.
Nevada
Everything in life is mathematics.
ABsolutely right. Including religion and politics.
As much as I hate to admit it, you're right
If anything, *everything in life is* not really mathematics so much as *accounting* and basic banking!
Just some broken,scared, lazy trashy little girls capitalizing on sick, old vulgar men. This is exactly what's wrong with the world today and exactly why relationships are not what they used to be.
EXACTLY
The amount you'd pay one of these women for a GFE date is the same as the total amount you'd speed taking a girl on dates in hipes that she'll sleep with you.
with no guarantee or sexual harassment suit later.............
if you look at it all relationships are a form of paid "companionship" that lead to the same natural path..sex. Without spending money on a women or having some type of "social status" value to her your out of luck. I see no problem with prostitution other than potential risk of infections. At the end of the day you will pay a one time fee that is small in the long run compared to spending a large amount on perusing women and supporting them financially.
This is totally bullshit.
Now I'm an old man. About 20 years ago I had a (paid, of course) young Hawaiian playmate whom I saw maybe twenty times for wall-to-wall sex. A real mistress of the erotic arts and a chill gal. We even went out to dinner together a few times. To this day, I look back upon that experience with a smile and a chuckle - one of the funnest things I ever did.
good as it gets,Jules ! you should have remained pals....................
isn't it sad that women don't understand men's desire for love? of course intimacy is priced higher. this society is so fucking screwed up! men don't want SEX as a cure-all for everything. we want to be LOVED and understood.
Glenn Zarmanov They want to be loved...by skinny little white twenty-somethings. ;)
hey if they grass is green play ball
Glenn Zarmanov If they were interested in love, understanding and intimacy with women who were slightly older and less attractive, they wouldn't have to pay for it! :)
unfortunately everything comes with a dollar value attached to it nowadays...
Sadly true of many things, and people.
Desiring a physical and emotional connection with a stranger is actually REALLY EASY to understand. What greater feeling in the universe could there be than to cuddle, kiss and share pleasure with someone when there is great chemistry? (The closest feeling for me is listening to beautiful 🎶 music 😉)
no truer words !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
There's nothing for a dude here except for going broke.
It's a sad world where we live in. Paying for companionship, tenderness, love etc. That's the saddest thing about this and actually these women should be ashamed to take money although I understand that for most of them it's their money for a living.
@Ivan Dalmatinac Being alone is not what life and a healthy way of life is supposed to be. We as humans need closeness and tenderness.
No different than paying for a wife.
@@johannesswillery7855A one time purchase to (legally) get married is waaaay different than paying by the hour or minute for a hollow relationship.
interesting and kinda sad :/
why sad
@Kyler Rogers how is it sad when they are happy lol
Women made this problem for themselves. When u act all entitled and pass over good men for bad boy Chads who don't stick around, don't be surprised when those good men go to women who actually appreciate and reward their resources.
@RaniaIsAwesome "intimacy" to a woman is not sex, but a meaningful kiss on the lips. Took me a lifetime to see that.
Still don't understand it, though.
It does starve your curiosity but once you're in it, that is with a pimp/madam good luck escaping. As for the independent ones, it's a headache learning at the entry exist strategies however you can leave whenever you please. But a brothel would take all the guesswork out of the profession. Downside is large pay cut to your income.
"I thought men want sex and I was soooo wrong"
Nah girl, they want someone with decent fucking eyeliner xD
I'm just poking fun but like.......girl.
ItsRobinWhoTalks those tattoos tho
If your unhappy in your marriage divorce your wife and find someone who makes you happy , there is never an excuse for cheating.
Chasity Nichols If you're not fulfilling his needs as a wife sexually then most of the men will cheat on you.But you do have some men that will file for divorce and move on to find someone,That is the reason why most men go to brothles to find that memory in a relationship that was lost overtime to find that spark instead of talking to his wife or go see a counselor or Pastor at a church that can help them bring back that fire that was lost overtime.
Yes there is. You both have to commit to your marriage. Otherwise don't expect the other to stay loyal.
Or try to even invite a professional escort into your sex life together! It can be a very positive experience for everyone involved.
The answer is yes. What makes you assume it would be a no?
Sandland113 A relationship works both ways. Both have to commit. And yes sex is very healthy in a relationship.
This is almost dystopian. Honestly, I don't think the point of wide spread, popular, generic "paid intimacy" (as described in this video) is that far away in the future of mankind as a species. We're accelerating forever more into a highly specialized, quantized, industrialized, standardized world, which is likely, simultaneously isolating and lonely. I almost can relate to men who choose to look for intimacy this way.
Prostitution has been around forever and will be here forever. Why are you so shocked?
The vast majority do price themselves out of a job because very few have the social communication skills. Most places around me the workers call it "Girlfriend Experience" and prices can easily treble and this is just for a basic chat and nothing else. All the guys I know are decent blokes. Dress well, speak well, polite, non-aggressive good hygiene etc. These establishments treat them like dogs. Why? It's the times. It's the way the industry is now. Sad but true.
Uncle Woody Allan says "the most expensive sex is free sex". I'd rather pay for that than getting married tbh
Fascinatingly disgusting and soulless, this whole nasty business of pretending to care about someone for money.
DON'T PAY THESE HIGH BROTHEL PRICES.
MOST OF THESE GIRLS HOOK ON THE SIDE TOO.
YOU CAN BOOK ALICE LITTLE DIRECT THROUGH AN AGENCY
Prostitutes are not going to ever be in a faithfully devoted long term relationship with a love of their lives. Same applies to alot of people who do not engage in prostitution.
ive been with my husband for 5 years... youre very wrong...
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What's the difference between a girlfriend and a prostitute? Not much...
Please. These men can find the same experience with a woman, just with a woman who is much older, closer to their age. This is about intimacy with a younger woman - not any woman.
It's a sad testament and reflection on women today that men would feel the need to do this.
A bonus is it's cheaper than marriage and if you get bored you can change them 👍
I'm a grown ass man, and have lived in a blue collar struggle. Most of my crude uncles taught me one thing; either way whether you up front pay for it, or pursue a relationship, you are paying for it and it's always a partial financial agreement it's not always about who just you are as a person a woman will always have to evaluate. Mainly being if you could provide, and how well you handle pressure. So how much difference is there? Not much I'd say
What do you think of paying for high end escorts? Is it a worthwhile experience?
Sad but true,RP ! and eventually,ONE of you decides that NEITHER of you will have any more sex......................guess which one........
It's not about what you pay, it's about what you get. The difference is, a good woman will give you loyalty, love and a family, she'd cooks, cleans, look after you when you're sick... You can't get these by paying for these "girlfriend experiences".
@@victoryan4008do you want a wife or a maid?
@@altsam9 Wife of course, you can't f**k the maid
At this moment i just feels we men always get the short end of the stick.
How? Sure you have to work harder, but you have all the freedoms
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What a sick Joke
@@AbuBased731 would you like to work as a prostitute to make a living even though it’s “easy?”
Or maybe I misunderstood. Were you referring to men’s disadvantage in relationships and often ending up lonely? If so, I agree. Men’s mental health is something that needs more attention
If you just lower your standards you will never have to pay for this
exactly
The GFE without total abandonment or commitment. Awesome!
LMFAO! Yeah, I went to a brothel and paid for a "connection".
Hope you got Harley.
Electric Kool-Aid - I got Ivy.
Bully Monkey Baby oh, I just looked her up. Not a bad choice not bad at all.
*BADUM* _tss._
It's sad to see that some men feel they have to pay to have to have a romantic/sexual experience with a woman that is only doing it because he pays her instead of being with a woman who wants to be in that relationship with him for free because she loves him/is genuinely attracted to him.
Personally I think this would be good for guys who are extremely shy and very unconfident with women. There are plenty of cases where a guy went a few sessions with a pro and gained enough confidence and experience to go out and date.
@john doe Ive been in your shoes and I gonna tell ya this; keep your head up. 20 is still fairly young, use that time to better yourself as a man. Do not let not having a GF depress you, work on yourself to become a more confident person and trust me, the ladies will come. Stay Strong Bro
some of these "sad" men arent sad... they just want other company that isnt their wife, not bc they cant get girl or their wife doesnt wanna be w them
A lot of these guys dont have gfs for a reason. Either they are nasty people, drug addicts, abusive, unable to be honest etc etc etc. Ive known many ugly dudes who easily get gfs
If every lonely guy in America decided to go to a Pro for sex the waiting list would be many years. Even if the number of girls was increased many times.
Like Charlie said I'm not paying them to come over but rather I'm paying them to leave...
I have seen so many people on here talking about how you don’t need to be educated to do sex work, like it’s the lowest common denominator who do it. If that’s the case, then how do you explain the woman in this video who was studying for a PhD, or women who are currently in sex work who have a bachelors, masters, and higher degrees? I am a sex worker and I have two degrees, and I’m working on a third. Unfortunately adult industry topics are not yet taught in higher education because it’s not yet legitimized. It’s still false that a sex worker can’t be educated. Also, many trades are taught on the job, and this is a trade that must definitely be learned, or no one would make money at it. There is marketing, psychology, event planning, human sexuality, acting/writing of scripts (for fetish scene requests), management, health, and other education required to survive, thrive, and make a living.
Anyone can get a degree nowadays
@@sleeexs You could just as easily say that women who give sex away don’t qualify for a degree, but that would be just as sexist. There’s no excuse to down a woman for deciding what she does with her own body, and on what terms.
@@brittaolson6550 How is people getting a degree sexist
@@sleeexs Getting a degree doesn’t even require leaving your house anymore. It isn’t the achievement it once was. We’ve diluted college lol
You go gorl! Woop woop. Make that bread 🥖 🍞
remember, when it comes to lovin, you get what you pay for.
Wives that shut Husbands out are responsible for Men doing these things..
And men who pay for women encourage human trafficking. Blame it on wives , if that makes you feel better about yourselves, but remember that no human being other than you is on this earth to cater to you.
@Lord Hentai for sure, that is why men and women grow apart. Everybody feels hurt that the other one doesn't live for them.
I live with my common law partner, and can confirm, companionship is expensive! 😄
I don’t know why this is so surprising. It’s a lot easier and quicker to fake an orgasm than to fake liking someone during an entire date.
True. Sometimes it's really tough to keep up the act till you get paid lmao
It's called acting
ouch !
GFE is a small price to pay, god bless you girls....
Tony Diablo Thanks hon! I’m not in the video but I do provide GFE & I appreciate the respect. ❤️
@@brittaolson6550 god bless you
We (man) are not predators but media never showed it they always target complete community in feminist issue but never talk about real equality our rights and our mental health it's just taking for granted and load with responsibilities
Sorry for my bad English
I m from Asia (India) and I might never meet you or any other GFE model (because it's not available in my country) there are 2 more reasons that may I can't get or try GFE because
1-> I don't want any prostitute feel a fake love that might hurt her mental health bcoz I can't be her husband so if she fall in love with you then it's not good
2-> I can't replace my girlfriend with any other women she is away from me and I also want companionship, sex, intimacy but it feels like cheating, maybe if we broke up then I tried Brothel for sex but never show love, flirt like I did to her
She is best ❤️
Sorry for my bad English
@@peacefollower5026 Thank you for your kindness and respect. I agree the issue is more complex than the one-sided narrative the media typically presents. Many men I have visited with work long hours and either don’t have the time for a real romantic relationship, or they have a family but must travel often to support them, and become lonely, as well as having physical needs. I think this is a problem of society and the long work hours demanded of men and people in general, today. This is especially a problem of Asian men I have met, and also American men, especially businessmen. On average, they have a good standard of living but work very long hours to keep it. I don’t think clients have to worry that they will mislead an escort by playing at a romantic relationship, in the context of GFE. Be assured that escorts offering GFE are professionals, and will not be confused about what is real and what is play. You don’t need to worry about hurting their feelings. They know GFE is just for fun. It makes some happy to have some emotional nurturance, not only a physical experience. Regarding your real girlfriend. It is very honorable that you are concerned about her feelings. Honesty is so important in a relationship. Blessings to you, as well!
call it what ever you want , it is still the oldest profession in the world .
But at least there being honest giving them what they want . Some
Actually can form friendships as well as the paid side of it ,
@@hannahdavis7600 yes they are , far more honest then marriage minded women . And I see nothing wrong with the profession but call it what it is .
I wouldnt call it profession...do you study for 2 or 4 years in college/university to become sex worker? No? then its not "Profession"
@@danksarumanoflotr1 You don't study in college to become an entrepreneur, social worker, or even business man. Or even volunteer who does social work and charity.
hannah davis Absolutely. I’m a sex worker & I care about and become friends with clients. Just because we’re paid, doesn’t mean we’re not real people. I’ve bought presents for dates, given them rides when they’re stranded. If you treat me well I do the same. 😊
Nailed it at 2:05. At some point of the relationship women loose their (i dont know how to explain) funny and crazy part and become super serious. In my opinion that has a major influence on the regular sex-life. They only want sex at certain times (not to late - because they are tired / not to early - because they are not in the mood) in certain positions. Having sex in a small car? With 20 that was funny an amazing, now its just gross and uncomfortable. While they had a funny and exploring personality while they were jung a lot of women change to very boring standard behaviour - bitching about freaking EVERYTHING, and becoming super moody.
I guess 50% of the men who visit prostitutes want to have a fun time with the youth or young women to get the feeling they had when they were freshly in love with a lovely person - and not with a boring and bitching old women.
Have you considered the possibility that a relationship is an organic thing that naturally and inevitably grows and evolves: not only that but I'd say that a relationship has to change if it is to last.
Sexuality is fundamental at the start of a relationship because it's probably the most powerful way of building emotional intimacy. Emotional intimacy is the end to which sex is the means. This intimacy allows a strong bonding to form.
Once there is a solid connection builg on honesty and intimacy, a couple can face challenges and stresses (like for example first the pregnancy, and then the raising a child for 20 years; this is most likely the primary biological need that led to the evolution of human sexuality and romantic relationships).
In this context sexuality still has an important role in maintaining and reinforcing intimacy but it's no longer the fundamental or only thing keeping two people together.
It's your problem only if you think you must have the same quantity and type of sex and you must feel the same lust and sexual overstimulation years into a relationship than at the start of it
@@anon-rf5sxmen are too dumb to understand this
*Girlfriend:* Honey could you lend me your credit card please? ... No, sorry, I have a terrible migraine tonight.
*Sexworker:* Damn I'm really interested how I can give the best GFE. I think I'm gonna write a PhD about it.
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