NoFap Leaves A BLACK HOLE - NoFap Struggling

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  • Опубликовано: 22 окт 2024

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  • @teefkiller
    @teefkiller 4 года назад +49

    i relapsed on day 60 now im on day 20, never give up. PMO is evil. Hate it every single day.
    You need to replace your fap life style with something else or you will relapse eventually.
    If nofap gets harder it means you are on the next level.
    Learn something that will benefit you in so way.
    Good luck brothers

    • @KAD10895
      @KAD10895 4 года назад +5

      85% of nofappers never get to Day 60 so congrats for even getting that far at all.

    • @arulraj6489
      @arulraj6489 4 года назад +2

      I relapsed on 40th day. After that I can't start. Again and again it happened. I understood one minute is enough to kill 40 years old person. Today is my 1st day.

    • @Berliner90
      @Berliner90 4 года назад +1

      Respect for your 60 days! Why exactly did your relapse happened ?

    • @Funkylover-sl7ew
      @Funkylover-sl7ew 4 года назад +1

      Pmo?

  • @ralsei7170
    @ralsei7170 4 года назад +14

    My last relapse was because of this reason. I've now started making my own music and I've also started making games and I'm also learning Japanese. This fills that void.

  • @redofsub7092
    @redofsub7092 4 года назад +11

    Day 136:
    The urges definitely decrease, which is kind of counter intuitive. I thought it would get more difficult this many days in. I hardly have any urge to relapse, but for some reason the mornings can be a little difficult. It's definitely important to stay busy though. You don't want to relapse just because you're bored.
    I like the ideas listed on the pyramid.
    "Physical & Mental Health": Got it.
    "Major Goal/Life Vision": I'm working on it. Several hundred more days needed.
    Thanks for the video.

    • @papishad1660
      @papishad1660 2 года назад

      It's my first day starting this journey. I'm glad I finally started, but I'm afraid that the first few weeks will be so weak. Any comments on this?

  • @duumek201
    @duumek201 4 года назад +9

    Your videos improves ,confidence in your speech also increased(more humor !). Good to see progress and you really put thoughts into that pyramid ,very good idea. You deserve a coffee m8 . God bless you.

    • @ScandinavianBob
      @ScandinavianBob  4 года назад +5

      Thank you so much for your kind words and for your support. It means a lot to me and it will help me with my mission to spread the message and continue making videos.

  • @Eden-n4x
    @Eden-n4x 4 года назад +7

    Im here on day 12 and i expect the flatline to hit anytime.. this video came in perfect timing

  • @eran4261
    @eran4261 4 года назад +9

    That was how I relapsed on my first streak which lasted 16 days. When u did relapse I actually felt good and thought it was alright but an hour later I got that mood drop and sadness of a relapse, it's not worth it dont relapse

    • @ralsei7170
      @ralsei7170 4 года назад +5

      Yep, you described it correctly

    • @PhillDrakeEntertainment
      @PhillDrakeEntertainment Год назад

      no matter what stay positive about it if you do relapse, I found for myself that I beat myself up especially after 4 months of being clean, the idea is to leave it all behind ofc but sometimes those fails are part of the process.

  • @ryanireland3558
    @ryanireland3558 4 года назад +14

    This is just what I needed ... pyramid idea so good 💪

  • @noahparton3210
    @noahparton3210 4 года назад +6

    I love music production, I've been doing it for years but only recently have I had the confidence to publish and post. I love it so much that I can do it for almost 12 hours straight so it makes for a great distraction! I hope you all can find something similar

  • @calebavenue9204
    @calebavenue9204 2 года назад +1

    I’m on day 18 on Saturday I unconsciously relapsed because of my sleep paralysis so that relapse doesn’t count. It’s been hard mentally adjusting to this major setback, but I’m going to keep moving forward.

  • @papishad1660
    @papishad1660 2 года назад

    DUUUUUUUDE THIS VIDEO IS STRAIGHT FIRE!!! YOU ARE THE BEST.

  • @kapilesh14
    @kapilesh14 Год назад

    What can I say at this point of time. I have been binge watching your content and I have struggled maintaing streaks for more than sixty days. But I think your content will help me to improve my streak and possibly make it a lifestyle.

  • @Mr.ResidentEvilXfiles
    @Mr.ResidentEvilXfiles 4 года назад +3

    Went through all of this. Instead of no fap, i now call it no relapse.

  • @mundea
    @mundea 4 года назад +6

    1:07 Bob’s voice cracked when he said ‘myself’ 😅😅

    • @ScandinavianBob
      @ScandinavianBob  4 года назад +7

      Yes, I finally hit puberty ;)

    • @mundea
      @mundea 4 года назад +1

      @@ScandinavianBob 🤣🤣

  • @ibrahimkonte481
    @ibrahimkonte481 4 года назад +5

    Hey Bro you have a really knowledge 💪💯 in this nofap you are helping us so much thank you very much

  • @sandeshsandy6376
    @sandeshsandy6376 4 года назад +2

    Day 79 bro 👊👊 really inspiring

  • @hoursk
    @hoursk 4 года назад

    I think it's the most important video you made on NoFap

  • @Elexius
    @Elexius 4 года назад +1

    Really thank you for this one! A reminder that gouls are important. Its a bit hard right now, i have hit a second flatline... But i know its a good thing and my brain is healing :)

    • @ScandinavianBob
      @ScandinavianBob  4 года назад +2

      Yes the flatline can come and go. Hang in there, friend.

    • @Elexius
      @Elexius 4 года назад

      @@ScandinavianBob yes i will! Thx for support:)

  • @Altegore
    @Altegore 4 года назад +1

    Great stuff man...

  • @grgrmjrsk
    @grgrmjrsk 4 года назад +4

    Your channel is like good psychotherapy for me :)

  • @MichaTheLight
    @MichaTheLight 3 года назад

    Your no fap powers! That sounds great. Thanks for giving all this great information. I think I'am at day 12 or 16 I just missed out due meds which have a negative influence on libido but in the last two weeks I was going out a lot to speak to woman. And now I get sexual dreams just had one today before waking up. I interpret this as a good sign. I almost relapsed 4 or 5 days ago. I now feel the urges more and I hope that I can cope with socializing, training and hobbies.

  • @ScandinavianBob
    @ScandinavianBob  4 года назад +10

    If you would like to support my youtube channel and help me spread these sorts of messages, you can always buy me a cup of coffee. It’s a 100% secure donation system.
    Here is the link👉www.buymeacoffee.com/ScandinavianBob
    And if you choose to support me, thank you so much 💪

  • @zakirreshi6737
    @zakirreshi6737 4 года назад +4

    Yesterday i was ulmost to relapse....then i stoped and keep my goal on....it becomes very difficult for me to continue my goal but i am trying a lot to not break the chain.

  • @cattnation6257
    @cattnation6257 4 года назад +2

    Bob you are my virtual big brother.... Thanks alot... 😍⭐⭐🌟🌝

  • @lukas1us
    @lukas1us 4 года назад

    Very helpful video. Thanks for your content and keep it up !

  • @jobinjoseph5205
    @jobinjoseph5205 4 года назад

    I think watching our bad behavior itself is the beginning. See what is the trend, what happens when on the challenge,or when fail, retrospect why failed keeping a diary on it is all the simplest thing to conquer the behavior.

  • @Saranga89
    @Saranga89 4 года назад

    This is a very important video. Thanks for uploading.

  • @zxnnyxz03
    @zxnnyxz03 4 года назад

    I felt the JBP's influence in this video haha! Very informative btw, Thanks man.

    • @ScandinavianBob
      @ScandinavianBob  4 года назад

      I didn't deliberately make the video that way, however I am a huge fan of JBP, so no doubt my content is influenced by him in general. since I've learn so much from Mr. Peterson

    • @zxnnyxz03
      @zxnnyxz03 4 года назад

      It's a good thing, I'm a big fan of Peterson too lol. Salute

  • @prasanta066
    @prasanta066 4 года назад

    I needed this information...thankyou so much sir.

  • @salviatrip7083
    @salviatrip7083 4 года назад +1

    Hey. What do you think about NoFap and depersonalization/derealization? Whenever I'm in NoFap my derealization feels better, less brain fog and decreased symotoms. But i'm wondering if NoFap helps in treating it. I personally believe it does.
    I started NoFap half a year ago, and my extremely stressful moments that triggered dpdr happened 10 months ago.

    • @ScandinavianBob
      @ScandinavianBob  4 года назад +1

      It depends on what caused it in the first place. We have to remember that not every negative thing in life is caused by f*pping to p*rn.

  • @mohamedhadil8150
    @mohamedhadil8150 4 года назад

    Great video👍👍

  • @Kaderimanuelsilalahi
    @Kaderimanuelsilalahi 4 года назад

    Always satisfied to your video Bob... 👍👍👍

    • @ScandinavianBob
      @ScandinavianBob  4 года назад +1

      Thanks for watching and supporting me. I appreciate you.

  • @Aslakki100
    @Aslakki100 4 года назад

    Thank you Bob for another great video :-)

  • @ganeshnaik914
    @ganeshnaik914 2 года назад

    This vedio is glass clear

  • @kathay123
    @kathay123 4 года назад

    Thanks for the great video bob
    By the way the animations that you uses where can i get it? I can't find it 🙏

    • @ScandinavianBob
      @ScandinavianBob  4 года назад +1

      It's called videoscribe, and I don't think you will find any free version.

  • @edwardtaka5010
    @edwardtaka5010 4 года назад

    Great Idea!!! Thx

  • @dsargsyan23
    @dsargsyan23 2 года назад

    I had a void relapse after 1 full freakin year from actual boredom, and then kept fapping for 1 year and now im here on day 17 and i dont care this one is lifetime nofap

  • @anuragagrawal831
    @anuragagrawal831 4 года назад

    Day 15, thanks I really needed this. And do u have a video on wet dreams had my first on day 10.

  • @danielkunkel8751
    @danielkunkel8751 4 года назад

    Great video

  • @mbxmusic5256
    @mbxmusic5256 4 года назад

    Oh my, this also looks like very effective method.

  • @screenin9997
    @screenin9997 4 года назад +2

    Brother I have a question. If exercise releases dopamine then how nofap brain recovery occurs? You said in a video that brain rewire after when we stop giving it load of dopamine! Waiting for you to solve my doubt

    • @ScandinavianBob
      @ScandinavianBob  4 года назад +7

      No, please don't make the mistake thinking dopamine is bad. It is NOT. We need dopamine. It is excessive dopamine from artificial stuff, like for example online adult entertainment, that is just TOO much for the reward center to handle. Never become afraid of natural activities.

    • @screenin9997
      @screenin9997 4 года назад +2

      Project Stronger Self ok bro

  • @Warriormindset1864
    @Warriormindset1864 4 года назад +1

    Void relapse has happened with me many times on day 30 , day 28 and day 21 and many other times . Thanks sir for sharing this information pyramid I needed this from many many days. Because I often kept my streak too strict and sometimes doing nothing at all but with this information I can go on further and maybe break this chain 🙏 . Is it ok to only read books and eat junk food for pleasure ?

    • @ScandinavianBob
      @ScandinavianBob  4 года назад

      Yes it is. But still, try to find more variability.

    • @Warriormindset1864
      @Warriormindset1864 4 года назад

      @@ScandinavianBob I watch tv with eating food and a repeated episode of one anime which motivates me , eat junk food once in 3-4 days usually , read novels and informative books . This much ok ?

    • @ScandinavianBob
      @ScandinavianBob  4 года назад +1

      @@Warriormindset1864 , sounds pretty ok to me.

    • @Warriormindset1864
      @Warriormindset1864 4 года назад

      @@ScandinavianBob Thankyou sir 🙏 really quick reply if I would find out more variability I will tell you 👍🙏

  • @ajmalali4431
    @ajmalali4431 4 года назад

    U r right.. I relapsed one time like this.. With no urges.. After that I thought why I relapsed noww.... But now on 11th day

  • @jobinjoseph5205
    @jobinjoseph5205 4 года назад +2

    I relapsed after 16 days, on new streak from then, back to day one

    • @Marco_PoLo-bz1kq
      @Marco_PoLo-bz1kq 4 года назад +1

      How you feel?

    • @jobinjoseph5205
      @jobinjoseph5205 4 года назад +2

      @@Marco_PoLo-bz1kq will fight back, I could sense some improvement in that 16 days in attitude, so wanna get back there soon, no binging, just avoid phone to bed when I'm alone, will continue the good things I was doing in that 16 days, will constantly update myself about NOFAP, feeling challenged.

    • @Marco_PoLo-bz1kq
      @Marco_PoLo-bz1kq 4 года назад

      Jobin Joseph good job bro 💪 iam actually on day 7 and it was a good day 😌

  • @takundagatsi2703
    @takundagatsi2703 4 года назад +2

    Dracula explaining nofap

  • @commonman5528
    @commonman5528 4 года назад

    I think you would remember me bro ...I m the student who appeared for the exam last month..I couldn’t clear the exam fell short of 3percent ! I feel like my pmo habit is spoiling my dream ..again the exam will be conducted in 2 -3months time .pls share your ideas brother , I m just hopeless right now thought I would clear the exam ...during the last month of the exam I was relapsing frequently, only last 14 days before the exam I didn’t relapse ...
    I really want to get rid of this habit but it looks like my addiction to PMO is too strong ! Kindly share some light into this ...I appreciate your time , thanks 🙏

    • @ScandinavianBob
      @ScandinavianBob  4 года назад +1

      I think you already know the tools my friend. Physical exercise, cold showers and meditation will all help your brain become sharper. In addition to that, as far as staying away from relapses go, you need to try to lessen the fear of them. If you fear relapses before your exam, it will make ju so stressed out that the risk of actually relapsing increase. So, even though the exam is important, try to relax your attitude a bit, as truth be told: Life is not to be taken too seriously, because if we do, then what point is there? :)
      Get to know all of your triggers and try to be super aware of them. If you happen to relapse, don't beat yourself up about it. Just do your best, because that's all you can do...which should feel like a relief for everyone really. Non of us need to do better than our best.
      Best of luck to you my brother!

  • @LukeParsonsMusic
    @LukeParsonsMusic 4 года назад +1

    Another awesome video Bob! Thanks!

  • @davidnguyen6724
    @davidnguyen6724 Год назад

    Day 24: weak morning wood. Hope everything will be Ok from pied🎉

  • @zakirreshi6737
    @zakirreshi6737 4 года назад

    What is the effect of masturbation on testosterone level.would you recommend me to take some natural DHT blocker (flax seed etc).what should i do to stop hair loss. Please reply if you know about this.
    Thank you for your video.

  • @allhavesaidtheirprayers3434
    @allhavesaidtheirprayers3434 2 года назад

    Good luck everyone! This shit is miserable. Nofap, cut out junk food and sugary drinks, and quit SMOKING! I'm either going to rise like a Phoenix, or sink like the Titanic. Good luck everyone, no fap Round 6, and GO!

  • @RealisticSkater
    @RealisticSkater 4 года назад +1

    i relapsed a week ago on day 80. no idea why and now i have big regrets. but im on 1 week again

    • @ScandinavianBob
      @ScandinavianBob  4 года назад

      Rise again. You did it once, you can do it again.

    • @jobinjoseph5205
      @jobinjoseph5205 4 года назад

      Beat your own record, that's the challenge

  • @cattnation6257
    @cattnation6257 4 года назад +1

    1 month goes very smoothly bro... But now urges comes... Why buddy uh said 1 month is hard other is easy but in my case now urges going strong why...

    • @ScandinavianBob
      @ScandinavianBob  4 года назад +2

      One month in can be tough for many people. Stay strong. I know you can do it.

    • @cattnation6257
      @cattnation6257 4 года назад +1

      @@ScandinavianBob I'll not let you down..

  • @supakaioshin
    @supakaioshin 4 года назад +1

    Can i use gaming to fill the void

  • @saad7885
    @saad7885 4 года назад +2

    You're awesome bob! Keep at it!

  • @amanuelberhane7006
    @amanuelberhane7006 3 года назад

    Hii Boob i have one question
    I am doing nofap and working Nightsichft, is this bad ?

  • @mxspartan6422
    @mxspartan6422 4 года назад +3

    Hairy mlifs LMAOOOOOOOOO

  • @donthurtme3717
    @donthurtme3717 4 года назад +2

    Guys help I’m about to relapse on day 5
    Edit: Somehow I made it but the urges are getting stronger

  • @petarpan100
    @petarpan100 4 года назад

    well that pretty much how I fell right now I'm in nofab for I think 4 months or more I dont have argess but I do fell day from day sometime i don't care or no power or maybe I should relaps but I think to my self of how much time past so I refrain
    I do notice i started to fell like that preety much about working out and when I fast or just lose control in other areas like eating alot even tho I'm not hungry or eating or drinking sugar hard to control 🤔

  • @knowledge27438
    @knowledge27438 11 месяцев назад

    2:40 i have
    Today void but i know its bad its easy, to say but not to do..

  • @a99235
    @a99235 4 года назад

    I had headache at the end of the 31st day . It was like only if i relapse i will be able to concentrate. What can we possibly do at that time?

  • @husseingimo5248
    @husseingimo5248 3 года назад

    day 6.....

  • @ertertty9978
    @ertertty9978 4 года назад

    I'm on a 2nd week i feel like my life is changing . Before i fap every day . Feel like i must to do it but still staying strony 👊

  • @yunganthony
    @yunganthony 4 года назад +2

    Day 35

  • @issaswabri8953
    @issaswabri8953 4 года назад

    smart person

  • @anandlaturiya
    @anandlaturiya 4 года назад +1

    Day 62

  • @Funkylover-sl7ew
    @Funkylover-sl7ew 4 года назад +1

    Lol the only way for me to overcome nofap is to go to the military cuz being home the urges r crazy

    • @ScandinavianBob
      @ScandinavianBob  4 года назад +2

      The stronger the urges, the stronger YOU will become once you learn to master it.

    • @Funkylover-sl7ew
      @Funkylover-sl7ew 4 года назад

      @@ScandinavianBob is hard cuz the dopamine

  • @morehappier8519
    @morehappier8519 4 года назад

    I think it’s a low key flatline

  • @SoberMan2001
    @SoberMan2001 4 года назад +1

    Does eating nonveg leads to relapse?

    • @ScandinavianBob
      @ScandinavianBob  4 года назад +4

      What? No...Although eating clean helps, but it's possible to eat a crappy on a vegan diet as well. So it has nothing to do with that.

    • @surajgurung4940
      @surajgurung4940 4 года назад +1

      yes it makes urges high because it makes body tem high.....so it will make hard to make steak......and have many chance to nightfall......i am day 150+ i am telling truth i use to be non veg but i have stoped

    • @ScandinavianBob
      @ScandinavianBob  4 года назад +4

      I eat A LOT of meat and I am on day 500 something. Sugar, on the other hand, will make you relapse more often. I have talked about that in some of my articles on my website. As for the diet again, when it comes to a particular kind...It really makes not that big of a difference. It's fine that we all have a particular diet we believe in, but don't make the mistake thinking it is the end all be all. Flexible thinking guys, flexible thinking.

    • @surajgurung4940
      @surajgurung4940 4 года назад +3

      i am from asia so i think our climate is mostly hot and eating non veg makes more body temperature......so i think its okay to eat where there is often cold climate.....i have tried and experemented and i have discussed with other nofappers who are on day 500 800

    • @a99235
      @a99235 4 года назад +3

      Eating non veg has an impact atleast on asians. I am from india its hard for me to control the urges if i take in non veg my personal experience.

  • @MyHeartBeatsBackwards
    @MyHeartBeatsBackwards 4 года назад +1

    Day 25 today... It's going good now, I want to clear something, it kinda sounds weird, I had severe itching in my penis yesterday so I scratched for a few minutes I was feeling good but I noticed that my penis size shrinked.... I was wondering was a relapse or not, I didn't had any urges I was feeling good throughout the hole day... But this happened, soo just wanted to clear was that a relapse or I'm good to continue my streak.Between I have experienced void relpase before many times. 😅😅And I was like "What the hell is wrong with me😂😂😂"

    • @ScandinavianBob
      @ScandinavianBob  4 года назад +1

      Don't worry about it. That's just temporary and related to the flatline.

    • @anthonycontreras9251
      @anthonycontreras9251 4 года назад

      bro, i would suggest taking supplements like l arginine to increase blood flow on your penis. The reasons it shrinks is because of all those x amount of time fapping and releasing semen which releases a certain % of blood flow down there as well. The more you continue this cycle, the less blood flow you’ll have the more it will shrink and not be able to get up

  • @sopulion29
    @sopulion29 4 года назад +1

    today is 134 day of no fap💪🏻

    • @ScandinavianBob
      @ScandinavianBob  4 года назад

      Amazing!!!

    • @sopulion29
      @sopulion29 4 года назад

      @@ScandinavianBob sir this is only happen due to you😃

    • @ScandinavianBob
      @ScandinavianBob  4 года назад

      @@sopulion29 I'm glad to hear that, but you did the actual work. I was just her giving some small tips here and there, so again, great work, my brother!

  • @ShajidAhmed199
    @ShajidAhmed199 4 года назад

    💙💙💙

  • @mdtaseen5283
    @mdtaseen5283 4 года назад +2

    Day 1 & relapsed🙂💔

  • @flemishtemplar3766
    @flemishtemplar3766 3 года назад

    Mens sana in corpore sano.

  • @clownbit3049
    @clownbit3049 4 года назад +1

    26 days in
    i am currently on this stage
    instagram is the most underrated dangerous place to be in
    since i dont have girlfriend but i like girls
    a single picture of fit bikini girl can ruin my whole day 😆

  • @nemamime1466
    @nemamime1466 4 года назад

    A

  • @thefbi327
    @thefbi327 4 года назад +1

    The last time I lasted 5 days without doing it was before I started doing it

  • @eriktopdawg76
    @eriktopdawg76 4 года назад

    Hey bob I sent you an email

    • @ScandinavianBob
      @ScandinavianBob  4 года назад

      I can't find it :(

    • @eriktopdawg76
      @eriktopdawg76 4 года назад

      Damit, do you have other acounts where we can communicate?

    • @ScandinavianBob
      @ScandinavianBob  4 года назад +2

      @@eriktopdawg76 I'm sorry, I don't communicate with everyone, since I get 200-300 email every single day. It's not because I am being mean, it's just because that would take me about 50 hours a day....and I only have about 1 hours a day on answering emails.