I agree with so much of this presentation. I believe Harry did have his back against the wall and is likely in unbelievable pain. Sadly I worry about the outrage from the rest of the world, and lack of support for Megan and Harry, but those that have been in his shoes get it. Your Podcast is supportive of him and all of us that have gone through this pain. In Harry's case, he is also dealing with the bigger system, the Royalty and the Media which complicates things even more. I agree it might not have been the best approach, but honestly the poor man did not have many other choices, and in that he has been a role model for the rest of us. Wishing Harry and Megan peace and joy in their future.
I am estranged, by choice, from my brother. The sibling estrangement started over 35 years ago. We had a very toxic relationship ( he was a bully ) during my childhood, adolescent and young adulthood years. I decided over 35 years ago to cut all ties and contact with him and his family. For me, it was a very wise and good decision. I have no desire to reconnect with him - will not. I also have NO regrets. Maintaining contact with toxic family members or relatives is NOT worth it. Estrangement is the best option in those circumstances.
Agree 💯 with you. Same situation with me. Estrangement is the only option if things have gone so far that one has no desire to "talk" (which invariably would be mud slinging). Bullying furthered and supported by parents from one sibling to the next puts an irrecoverable barrier between members of a family. I support and commend Harry on this incredibly brave step he has taken. Bless you and may you and your family find only sunshine, joy and freedom from coercive control and bullying.
8:58 the hierarchy is not implied. It is explicit and central. Note: other ‘spares’ have had an awful time of it (ex: Margaret). There is so much wrong in the structure of monarchy. Besides that tho, the british public are like a manipulative, childish, judgmental aunt in the family. It is a thoroughly toxic - symbiotic? - relationship. So glD you are appreciative of Harrys journey. I am also. 😊
I think UK as a whole does not get it. I think the rest of the world is more sympathetic. Most people who are in any kind of recovery or therapy will resonate with parts of his story. Kudos to him for breaking the ‘don’t speak’ rule and coming forward with his story.
Hooray for Harry! Yes, his going public about his estrangement has been very validating for me.
I am estranged from my entire family. By choice. Once you see it you can’t Unser it.
I agree with so much of this presentation. I believe Harry did have his back against the wall and is likely in unbelievable pain. Sadly I worry about the outrage from the rest of the world, and lack of support for Megan and Harry, but those that have been in his shoes get it. Your Podcast is supportive of him and all of us that have gone through this pain. In Harry's case, he is also dealing with the bigger system, the Royalty and the Media which complicates things even more. I agree it might not have been the best approach, but honestly the poor man did not have many other choices, and in that he has been a role model for the rest of us. Wishing Harry and Megan peace and joy in their future.
My brother was the "golden child"while both our parents were alive. It made him the piece of crap he now is.
It would be helpful if you defined what ‘flying monkeys’ are. It seems like helpful short hand for you but i am unfamiliar with the term. Thx!
I am estranged, by choice, from my brother. The sibling estrangement started over 35 years ago. We had a very toxic relationship ( he was a bully ) during my childhood, adolescent and young adulthood years. I decided over 35 years ago to cut all ties and contact with him and his family. For me, it was a very wise and good decision. I have no desire to reconnect with him - will not. I also have NO regrets. Maintaining contact with toxic family members or relatives is NOT worth it. Estrangement is the best option in those circumstances.
I am in my mid 70's.
Agree 💯 with you. Same situation with me. Estrangement is the only option if things have gone so far that one has no desire to "talk" (which invariably would be mud slinging). Bullying furthered and supported by parents from one sibling to the next puts an irrecoverable barrier between members of a family. I support and commend Harry on this incredibly brave step he has taken. Bless you and may you and your family find only sunshine, joy and freedom from coercive control and bullying.
8:58 the hierarchy is not implied. It is explicit and central. Note: other ‘spares’ have had an awful time of it (ex: Margaret). There is so much wrong in the structure of monarchy. Besides that tho, the british public are like a manipulative, childish, judgmental aunt in the family. It is a thoroughly toxic - symbiotic? - relationship.
So glD you are appreciative of Harrys journey. I am also. 😊
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If you gave this episode a slightly different title you would prob get more ‘hits’ and therefore spread your ideas more widely. 🎉
I think it will make the stigma worse. Have you seen and heard the things being said about Harry? The world just doesn’t get it.
Those that know, know. Especially when it comes to estrangement. I think many people will identify with his story.
I think UK as a whole does not get it. I think the rest of the world is more sympathetic.
Most people who are in any kind of recovery or therapy will resonate with parts of his story. Kudos to him for breaking the ‘don’t speak’ rule and coming forward with his story.