#DearParents
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
- How many times have you wanted to share something with your parents, but haven't ended up doing it because you're scared? Of judgement, of being misunderstood, of not putting it across in the best way? We've all been there, right?
Well, on this #InternationalYouthDay, our favourite RUclips and Instagram creators have come together to change exactly that! Featuring Prajakta Koli, Ahsaas Channa, Rohan Shah, Barkha Singh, Karanvir Malhotra, Sukhnidh Kaur, Gagan Arora, Anmol Sachar and Garima Kunzru.
Dear Parents - A spoken word poem written and directed by Garima Kunzru.
Edited by Ganesh Negi
"Dear Parents
Dear Parents
Mummi papa
Dear Parents, I have something to say to you
bohot time se soch raha hoon aaj keh hi deta hoon
bhale hi samajhne ke liye thoda waqt le lena
par aaj itmenaan se baith kar meri baat sun lena
Aapke saamne khush rehne ki acting ab aur nahi hogi
padhai se distract bhi main apne aap ko kitna hi karoonga
yeh koi phase nahi yeh meri feelings aur emotions hai
‘log kya kahenge’ se in bhavnao ko koi farak nahi padta hai
haan main poora din apne phone pe lagi rehti hoon
koi sunne ke liye milta hi nahi jab sar utha kar upar dekhti hoon
aksar raat ke teen baje kuch ek ajeeb sa khayal jagaye rakhta hai
kal ko agar main na rahoon toh kisi ko kya farak padta hai?
aise mein ginti ke kuch dost hai do chaar jinse baat kar leta hoon
“humaari daant mein hi pyaar hai” tab nahi sunna chahta hoon
kabhi kabhi sochta hoon ki kaash yeh overthinking rok paata
aap sun lete ek baar toh aapke kandhe pe sar rakh kar ro paata
chitthi likhoon ya message karke fatafat family group chhod doon?
asli baat kahoon ya phir “sab theek hai” keh ke jaane doon?
Sach bataya toh aap daant kar phone toh nahi chheen loge?
apne bachpan ki kathinayiyon se humari problems compare toh nahi karoge?
Kya aap phir se humari problems ko nakli kehkar nakaar doge?
ek baar batane se mana kiya toh kya aap doosri baar poochoge?
Jaanti hoon starting mein thoda awkward toh zaroor lagega
is generation ki problems samajhne ke liye thoda waqt dena pagega
bachpan mein aapko bhi baat nahi sirf respect karna sikhaya tha
do aasoon bahaye toh duniya ‘weak’ bolegi bataya gaya tha
yeh ‘mental health’ ki baatein toh darasal humare liye bhi nayi hi hai
par aap zara sa interest dikhao hum crash course dene ke liye ready hai
hum aapse in cheezon ke solution aur advice chahte hi nahi
par pehla kadam utha ke kamre ki chaukhat pe khatkhatao toh sahi
bhale hi samajhne ke liye thoda waqt le lena
par aaj itmenaan se baith kar meri baat sun lena
sun lena jab main kahoon “mera mann nahi hai”
aur mat kehna mujhse behtar toh maasi ki beti hai
sun lena jab kisi bematlab si chhoti si baat pe ro padoon
aur mat kehna ki main toh bohot sensitive hoon
sun lena jab main kahoon kuch cheezein mujhe trigger karti hai
aur mat kehna ki in sab ke liye meri abhi umar hi nahi hai
sun lena jab main kuch decisions apne liye selfishly lena chahoon
aur mat kehna ki kabhi aapke baare mein sochti hi nahi hoon
Duniya apne aap mein hi kaafi mushkilon se bhari hai
aur is sab mein aapke support ki kami sabse zyada chubhti hai
Apne ghar mein toh mujhe kuch bhi bolne ki azaadi honi chahiye
Asli ladai toh meri bahaar ki duniya se honi chahiye
bohot mushkil tha aap se aaj yeh sab keh paana
par yeh sunne ke baad ek baar aake haal pooch jaana?"
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1st reply
that also needs a lot of courage
Mene try kya kiya iss video ko parents ko dekhne ka unhone kya kya nhi bol diya ulta muje hi 🥺🥺🥺
Not helpful at all I'm dying inside no one understand me 😭
The worst part is that I can't even share this with my parents.
Yes. Absolutely.
Yaa man😔😔
Same🥺🥺😢
Yeahhh! And they definitely will not get it in their feed and even if they, they wouldn't care to see😒😒😒
Agreed 😖😓😢
99% teenager here don't have guts to show it to their parents, including me
Edit: ~Omg I've never got so many likes thank you so much!
Edit: 8.01.2023
Watched this again after three years, couldn't stop my tears this time as well. Life has become worse sigh
😢😞
Me too...
Lol! I showed up this video to my Mom! And she is like- yeh sab Bolne aur sunne ke liye Acha he bas, real life mein koi application nahi he!😒😑
😭
Me too man
"We are a sad generation with happy pictures."
Damn true 😧😟😟
😫😫
That is so true and insanely makes a lot of sense!! People think we're making up random issues and we are all rude and mannerless but instead we've got issues that nobody cares about. We want to speak but nobody wants to listen.
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@@aneeqahasnain2276 Very very true. Maybe we should start enjoying the little things in life and feel the happiness in those moments, rather than always trying to expect and get something from something. (Coz, don't you think we have started expecting A LOT?)
"Self is the only one we really got."
Maybe, embracing it will reduce some of the problems? Will start doing it.
wow that's depressingly true 🤐
*Sleep isn't sleep anymore it's just an escape from reality*
underrated
So trueeeeee!!!!!!!!!
True truee
Oh that's why I slept for almost 2 yrs 😌
That's true
This literally made me cry
Just realised that I am not the only one going through it.
SAME! it's comforting to know that we aren't alone in this.
Same!
Indian parents hai naa
Sabhi ke sabhi Samee😖😖
Same here!!!
Same here... I really loved this video.. I am crying to see this video
Thank you for making me a part of this beautiful project❤️
So happy to see you in this video.🧡
This is true heart conversation i really hope if parents can understand this🙂
@@trishan5056 sida forward krde
@@trishan5056 me to
@@trishan5056 kya kiya dikhaya
They should show this in tv as a mental awareness ad
Even then my father would say to me ye sab tum log kaha smjhoge , ye kuch nhi hota and stuff like that
Yes please
@@manyanarula6789 exactly my parents would just change the channel
Damn true..!!
True
Teenager : a bag full of true and fresh emotions, often regarded as "feeling-less".
This is the hidden truth of today's youngster which is difficult for parents to understand. U guys are truly amazing ❤💞
Darsha Patel Thank you so much! We are glad it resonated with you💕🤗
Literally amazing 👍👍👍
Ya today my parents were scolding me.. that "study.. always chatting on the phone.. look at him.. he gets so good marks.. they always behave nicely to seniors".. etc..etc..
And I was saying to myself inside
"nothing will happen if I shout at my parents and try to tell them my problems which I face.. cause they will not UNDERSTAND" 😔
@@V3C._ bro i am facing this too all the time may god heal this overthinking problem.
@Jauhar Iqbal same
''Don’t compare your child to others. There’s no comparison between the sun and the moon. They shine when it’s their time.”
Good one👍
Nice one !!!👍
But the sun actually shines and the moon just reflects ...also the sun is way bigger than the moon🙂
@@thinnestprogram5667 but that very reflection of the moon , is the shine of the night..
Me realizing I am one of the outer Planets, one which is never gonna shine😒😒
They: Show this video to your parents
Teenagers : We don't even have the guts to share this to our parents
Exactly
So true😔
Exactly 😔
Leave guts. I dont think it'll be anywhere near effective.
Exactly...and after sharing they'll be like "why did you send me this...."things will be awkward...we will be silent
I think our generation will be the best parents till now, because we know what we go through and we can never make our parents understand that mental health is way more important. We all know how many hours we hold our tears with our throat filled with emotions every single day. Nobody knows...... Nobody......
Honestly I think that too and I really wish it becomes true... I really hope that we wouldn't put our children or juniors with what we went through
U r right.. We are going to be better parents because we will understand more than our parents
True
@@ajithv5540 I know we'll not be THE BEST...but I'll try to be more understanding and give them what I wish I had, and obviously what they want rather than only what they need...while keeping in mind to not ruin them
Even if they know they will never understand
The worst thing is I don't even have courage to either send on family's group or show it to them directly....
They will gonna react completely opposite.. they will gonna tease us.....
Same 😞😞😞
Same..
Just becoz you have Bf doesn't mean you are right ..almost all are teenagers commenting here ..Well after 5-10 years ..you will realise and delete your comments..you spent hours of watching RUclips and parents spent hours of working hard at this age .
.
@@ashachoudhary7945 Take care of yourself, girl. You are not alone. Atleast we have our friends who understands us.
exactly
I showed this to my parents...mom said, " लड़की बिगढ़ गई "
this is pathetic...broke my heart... didn't expect my parents to say that...😔😔
I'm so sorry she said that... if you need to talk, I'm here. Stay safe, take care.
Ye to sabke ghar ki kahani hai dost... I'm also 15 year teenager and my parents are really very strict and rude 😭😭..that's why I think hostel is much better than this home.. Don't be offend we will must not try to do these things when we have children in future...
😞💕
@@adyspeakss I want to go to hostel . They don't allow me.
@@shyamayashithap6590 same😭
One day, I was studying for my exams and I wanted to cry because of tension and stress, so I came out of my room because I wanted to hug my mom. But she didn't even listen what I wanted to say. Instead, she started scolding me and taurment me that I should go and study, "You never study" and stuff. I wanted to cry so hard but I didn't in front of them. I came to room and broke into tears. That was the worst I had ever felt. I just wanted her to hear what I wanted to say and wanted a hug but I didn't even get that
😔 💔
😞😞
I hope you're okay. Sending virtual hugs!❤️
I'm so sorry , it's really hard when your parents sometimes dont understand you or think u dont have any problems
And they say .. "i love and understand you".
I would share this to my parents but they will definitely say, "tujhe isliye mobile nhi diya tha ki hume aisi video bheje" 🙄
I completely admire this message and y'all are my icons❤️
Same mera bhi yahi hal he
@@BTSarmy-ww8hg koi naah ek din...❤️
😘
@@BTSarmy-ww8hg 🤗😙💕
@@AdityaAnand-oy3nc thanks 😊
The biggest joke is that
Even after so many efforts taken by people to spread awareness parents ko chodo even friends don't understand what's a diagnosed depression means😔
You read my mind 😟
Sach mein yaar
😂😂😂😂
🙃💔💔
True😭💔💔
No. of parents watching :- 1%
No. of Kids watching :- 99%
True
I am crying watching this, so relatable
Yaa...and I guess it should be on TV or something where parents are.
hope that at least d 1% of d parents who will watch this vdo can understand their children nd support them😌
True
After seeing the comment section, I feel our parents actually need some kind of parenting classes to make them understand all these.
If your parents had the same thought for their parents when they were at your stage, you were not sitting today on couch, spending hours on youtube, eating lavish foods, and blaming parents. You have no idea how tough life going to be after 25 in this society. Your parents have experience and they are preparing to you face it.
@@adi1234utube I didn't say it a negative way, that was just an analysis. And yeah I love my parents and thankful for everything they do for me. This parents thing is crazy dude how much you blame them you still love them even more. I'm just saying a little talk now and then with your kid, saying it's ok when we feel low...that's all what I'm asking. And I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings.
i can't even agree more!
@@adi1234utube i understand our parents do a lot for us but that doesn't give them any right to belittle our feelings and compare us w anyone else.
@@adi1234utube u r deviating....all people want in this comment section is a bit of understanding from their most loved ones....that's all they are asking
"Sunn Lena Jab kisi choti si bematlab si bat pe ro padu"
That's what happens.
You can't control your emotions and they come out in one way or the other.
I had a break up and I also had the anxiety of my upcoming exams and some other stuff, I was just bottling up my feelings but eventually I was unable to control my tears and my mom thought that I am this weak that I'm crying cause of exams.
Ya me too..
Me too... Broken 🥀💔
Same here💔
Just few months ago I lost my father ....Facing that situation was the most difficult time I have ever gone through...I can't forget anything nor do I remember anything, i am completely lost ....I don't understand what to do ....As a 17 year old girl , it is very difficult for me to talk to anyone (even my mother) because it haunts me a lot. I don't know why I am sharing this but I hope someone will surely understand my pain.
@@prapti8810 i know it is tough! More power to you girl!! ❤️
I am in a phase where i cant even share this video to them . They will ignore this too
Ikr
Pata hai bro. Same here also 😢
Literally true bro
They will again say I should study instead of watching such videos
Udeshna Bora exactly
Can't even send this to parents.
Tb bhi yhi sunne ko milega that these things have spoiled you.. hm kch galat thodi krenge tumhare sath..😕
Agree!!!🙃
Damm! Trueee
💯💯
Soo true
Really, I'm also gonna get same reply, if said this to them
Everyone- Worst part is I can't even share this with my parents.
Me- Oh Me too me too me too!
@@realcarry4000 Hahaha naam pe mat jao tum.
C.A aspirant hu!
😂lol, you guys?!!!
@@realcarry4000 neet! neet! saal 2020 vaat laga dali😤😞
@@niyantapatel3065 Agar tum kaho toh naam badal daalu?😏😒🙏
@@realcarry4000 Oh sorry. Maine dekha nahin.
Tension mat lo yaar,2020 ne yahin toh sikhaaya hai. Issii baat pe meri RUclips channel pe bhi ek round maar lo.😛💜
Parents : why you have so many friends?
Cutting all frnds
Parents : why you have no friends? Go Socialize
I would have clicked lik button 1000 times if i could 😂
Never found a more relatable comment...
Armyyyyyyyyyy💜💜
Armyyyyy 💜💜💜💜
@@hansakarel5779 yes I also comment her becoz in am also army 💜💜💜
the fact that there’s majority of us who cannot even show this video to our parents because they’ll either ignore us or scold us is saddening :(
Atleast show them...they are your parents,,will definitely understand
Even I can't show them. The generation gap is drowning me.
True yrr.. I know they will definitely tease me nd start scolding which is unbearable
Pls show them nd then take descision
Showing them will make things worse..
The topic will come up and add to the blame everytime something happens..
I just shared it with my parents and they laughed at me saying that all I am doing is gaining sympathy and my mom told that isn't for you it's for the other kids who really go through it.
I swear I feel so lonely. I am always scared to share my problems with them. I am not able to prepare for my exams because they fight all day every day. So I go out of the house and try studying. I have never asked them for anything because I do know they have their hardships and problems. My mom doesn't like me and she told me that she's unlucky to have a daughter like me. My dad calls me weird negative names that hurt me a lot. But I'm thankful for whatever they have done to me. I love them so much. I only wish they would understand me and stop comparing me to other bright students of my class. Thank you😔❤
@C 06 Bhoosreddy Ananya omg thank you so much for your kind words. I will really try to do so. Yesss you are right...thank youuu againnnn for replying 😭😭😭💕💕💕💕💕
@C 06 Bhoosreddy Ananya lots of love ❤
@C 06 Bhoosreddy Ananya yes I do that sometimes it helps 🥺❤. Yess sure happy to help people ☺❤ btw I subscribed to your channel. Your voice is amazing. Keep slaying ☺❤
Try to reach out to other ppl
Maybe they can help
Try to sort out their fights
Tell them that u r hving problem due to their fighting
I will pray they understand..
Your presence means a lot, you're amazing ❤️
Extreme irony is, sunna parents ko hai par sun hum rahe hai.
So true man
Exactly pta h na woh nhi sunenge and unhe share krne ki himmat h nhi
@@unsaidtales5 true but mein chahti huin ki ek baar woh meri baat sune..... Mujhe ek dancer banna hain but they just keep forcing me to study and become a doctor😔
@@studyleafy3345 then you should talk to her show her this video directly or indirectly
@@studyleafy3345 girl same....i wanted to be a chreographer bt i am in right nie in 2nd yr MBBS i even told them what i actually wanted to do...they told me i have no future in it scold me...and pushed me to study...they said i cnt waste my brain on such low level job😔😞
The actual line my father said after I started crying in the middle of an argument w him - "Rona toh iss ladki ka auzaar hai". Our parents watch TV soaps & its completely normal to see the actors cry. But why the hypocrisy when I want to vent my feelings? Na khul kar hasne do, na khul kar rone do. Feelings express karna kyu galat hai? I haven't laughed in days.
Same goes to me also
I can understand your feelings......i also feels the same 🙂
I can't express how relatable it is
My parents when I cry after being scolded: Kuchh hua nahi k rone lagti ho/Chhoti chhoti baton per roti rehti ho
I don't even have the guts to share this with my parents, sed life
Don't worry you are not alone😭☺️
Same
Same
Mee toooooo
😅😅
The thing that my parents never say
SORRY IT'S ALL MY FAULT....
Wildest dreams sis
Omg yes
No they do it..vo baat alag h that it's always in sarcasm
@@asthapahwa7001 yeah...
Hope one of those “cool uncles” or “hi-fi aunties” watches this and forward it to their WhatsApp groups. It’ll eventually reach my parent’s group. My mom will definitely watch it then. I don’t dare go show this to her myself..
soumya Rai • 40 years ago haha yeah.. no.
Same
Give me your parents number I'd give it to them
Even I can't dare to send them this.....
Omg that was exactly what I was thinking while scrolling through the comments
Some one (not a teenager):Why are teenagers so angry and depressed all the time?
?: Because they are treated like kids and told to behave like adults.
Yes that's the point.... whenever I go somewhere with my family...I feel to mix with adults....but they r mean by saying you're small...I mix up with kids...and they r way too kiddies now...so I decided to mix up with my "mom"s phone and she is like...wth is wrong with u...leave it!!😭😭😒😒
That's same problem with my parents mere papa kahte hai ki tum ye sab sukho wo sikho aur jab kuch bolu toa bolte hai ki tum abhi bache ho parents ko pahle ye decide karna hoga ki unko kab bada mana hai jab unko bache ki baat ho toa bache aur jab parents ki koi kaam karni ho toa bahut badda ho gaya hun fayde ke liye badda chota bana dete hai jab sahi me kuch Dena ho toa bacha samajh ke dete hai jab kaam bado waala kar sakte hai toa kuch Dena hai toa badda wala do na
Sometimes parents are like: Itne bade ho gaye, itna bhi nahi kar sakte
Other times: Abhi to tum bahut chhote ho 😠
Indian parents think that providing us with food, education, comfortable facilities are enough from their side and I don't blame them for this bcoz their parents never considered talking to them about their feelings so they never did with us. Whenever I tried telling them about my anxiety or panicking they always start telling me that I've got every comfort that most teens my age didn't get and still I am complaining but I can't explain to them that even a millionaire can have mental health issues but it's just a "modern thing" for them not an actual disease for them and most importantly I am just "too young to have such issues" and "I am just showing it off because I studied about it" it had never been a big issue to them and it never will be, they will Always ignore it until something big happens that will lower their name in the society or among their friends and family because this was what they were told and they have followed it .
I read this comment with all my heart ! I literally felt it ..... Parents will neverr ever understand our situations ...... This is 100% true AF !!!
And then they will say like talk to us share things with us ......how how can we share when before when we wanted to u just fucking ignored us saying u r just saying so becoz u dnt wnt to study blah blah blah .....I think that's the worst thing for our childhood becoz further when we think about our childhood for some good memories among 100 memories I think we can remember only 2 3 gud ones and all other are like that make our moods worse and also sometimes feel like why shud we live if even our parents are no their for me 🖤
@@adityaagarwal2312 So damn true !!!
@Sunaina _ If you want , I'll help you !
@@adityaagarwal2312 There is one thing you could do to find relief in your painful world,
help someone else, be that someone to whom anyone can rely on, be that someone whose shoulder is the safest place to cry on
Just bcoz we didn't get someone to talk to doesn't me we can't be that someone
The one thing that makes our generation more mentally affected is when our family cannot get us...which literally makes us feel like we have nobody supporting us
So relieved to know that It wasnt just me but 1000s of my fellow indians out there. ;)
True .....struggling wid our own family
@@str0027 I know right
It's heartbreaking
Har wqt prove kr kr k khud ko thakk gaya hu mai... Mai kuch bhi krlun life m..
Main naalayak hi rhunga hmsha unke nazar m.
My sister sent this in the family group, never been more proud of her
is she good now?
She got some guts
The same problems everyone is having and specially in this lockdown......, Can't speak to friends openly about our problems on phone calls becoz parents are keeping watch 24hrs, There's no personal space even to cry in alone, to shut my room's door...... When I say that now I'm tired and bored ..., They always say that there is not a single day when you'll feel good and these all are dramas .
They also compare their childhood with ours ..... 😭😭 I just wanna cry once openly 😭😭💔💔
But there one place
Bathroom
open the tap and cry out loud
I follow this😭😭 jst to feel relax sometimes 😞
Exactly l am waiting for a video on teenage depression
Sooooo sooooo true.....same here
Same sis same....you spoke the same story....we all feel caged😔
Same Yrrrr 😭😭😪
Don't worry we will be better parents🙂
True
I just hope i keep my words
Yess I always say that
That's the thing I always say to myself after a fight with mom and dad. I'll try my level best to keep my words . I want the future generation to be able to talk to their parents openly, not like this😪🙄
@@riseup773 trueee 😭😭 our generation gonna be better 😀
No one:
Literally no one:
Parents be like:
*itni filmi batein karogi to film wilm dekhna band kara denge* 🙂
Already band h bachpan se😞
Exactly😬😬
Exactly....when I said my parents...they asked me to stop watching the movies and shows I watch, and they started to reprimand me again, instead
Lekin ye aaj kal ke teenagers ke liye bohot zaruri hai kyu more than 40% of teenagers go through depression aur parents ko lagta hai ke its there adolescence time but its not true. Maine khud face kiya hai it feels like suciding .
Omg so truee
THE HARDEST PART OF MY LIFE IS THAT MY PARENTS CAN UNDERSTAND EVERYTHING AND EVERYONE 'EXCEPT' ME
it is a sad reality of my life too
but we all have to overcome this
😑😑true
Exactly,
Suppose if say someone hurt me,
they say it's okay maybe they were not in a good mood
Wish they somehow understand us one day
Same as with me 😓
There are so many sad stories behind a fake smile......n there's a fake smile because sometimes it's difficult to explain.....
It's very unfortunate that we teens talk about fake smile n stories related to the past when we're just very young to even have such a horrible past ...... people really don't get this thing...we teenagers gotta face a hell lot of things in our lives n tbh it's not easy to handle all this .....but I wish people understand our part n not judge us!!
This video actually got tears into my eyes
I'm so glad that y'all had this video done🤞🤞
Ya the most beautiful thing I have is that my fake smile in this cruel world. But kaise batau parents ko kaise kahu mom dad mujhse galti ho please maaf kar do mujhe . I know they will never forgive me. Meri suffering shayad koi ni samajh sakta to which am going through right now .
I scrolled to a long way down n realized that so many youngsters are facing the same problem...even if this vdo touched them spoke on behalf of them yet yet they can't show it to their parents....i think there should be some way to get this vdo recommended on channels which are mostly watched by elderly....bcz that's the only way how it ll reach them.
I think if anyhow this video gets super viral so much that our parents would get it from other sources, then it would be far easier for us to explain our problems to them.
@@surashribanerjee5083 yeah...u r right...
Yes, bro i feel the same
Yeah because I don't have the courage to even share this videos with any friends let alone my parents. Hope it reaches them😔😔
@@mohammedabdulkareem8475 it's okay...stay strong
I think we all can relate this video
Becoz we all r suffering through this situation
Jst like
"nigal bhi nhi sakte , ugal bhi nhi sakte
Ajeeb si yeh majboori hai"
shailu patil Thank you! We’re glad it resonated with you. 🤗
@@WeAreYuvaa Ek hi line sab pe chipkaa rahe ho binaa cmt padhe 😂
I am relieved that I am not the only one to go through it. This FEELING SUCKS TO BE HONEST. You just don't know how to express that. Perks of being a teenager 😖
FYI Perks are the good things and this ain't a good thing innit ??
I am not a teenager. I also dont know how to express.
Everyone :
Dont have guts to share this to family group
Me:
Family group What . This thing exist??
I can explain in 1 line.....
The walls of my washroom know me better than anyone....💔
So true 💔 I don't even have the guts to show this to my parents
True
Totally agree
That's true...non living things are better than some living things.
I think non-living things are much better than living things
*"Sun lena jab mein kahoon 'mera mann nahi h'"* I literally cried when that line came up.
My father always think that what problems I may have in life? but I can't explain him that a student has to go through innumerable number of problems nd I mean it. I always try to explain him "I need to take a break (because of peer pressure, marks, exams, break-ups). I need to..." Nd that never gets completed, instead he says *"kuch nhi hua h, padhne baitho"*
Kyu aisa krte ho aap mere saath.. Meri feelings ki kadr hi nhi h! KYU??
Don't feel that way dear one day everything will change and you can share everything with him
Let's Hope for the best don't give up too easily
And be strong ok?
I am in worse than you
(I am not comparing....I am sorry if i said wrong)
Just wanted to be listen from 5yrs yet I have no courage to say a single word too
Exactly yaar. Every story of an Indian child
Same if I say this to my mom she will say what happened
I hv one advice for u Life Will Never Be The Same. It will change. And when it will change then you will enjoy it. Be happy. Thank You
Dont worry dear everything is alright everything feels restless sometimes it's okay to feel like that sometimes times just like rainy days come and goes just stay happy and POSITIVE 💛🤗🥰💛 lots of love💛🥰🤗❤😊☺💛
HARE KRISHNA💛😊☺🙏❤🤗🥰🙏🏻💛
Even if I share this video in the family group they'll be like 'what are you lacking? We are providing you with everything and still you are having problems.' Then they will start talking about their struggles when they were my age.
Yes I agree that parents have gone through this age and had faced problems but does that mean what we are going through is not really a problem and we are just making excuses??
Ikr...😥
Right 😔😔😔😔😔😔
So true
True...
There problem is the real struggle because in this generation we are bound with the competition and digital platform... Everything we wish today or imagine it was dream for old generation... If we compare today as a Present and Past... It's a huge gap for us and them... Now the real problematic situation is that if we got parents tomorrow and our children had also face the same thick gap between us and them.. We can just adjust but not compatible with their generation..
I tried to tell my parents I'm having mental issues I told them I'm transgender women I cried that day cuz I knew they're not gonna accept me and I was right they didn't even after 4years they think I'll be cured with medicine or something , tho I did went to psychologist but it didn't work he didn't understand me , now they told me " I don't want you to be anyone except a man you're stupid don't think about it " these words hurts more than anything else ,
On one side they tell me to don't hide and tell us everything but on other hand you refuse to accept me , , It hurts but I try to be happy trying to be happy with little things like wearing earings in bathroom while bathing looking at myself as women those 5min make my day I know I can never be free or live the way I want also it hurts and feel like regretting that day I told them I'm transgender I cried out in front of mybmom that day but she failed to understand me and knowing the real me
Can Understand ur Pain.... I was even crying but they ignored me... Because of which I cried more.... Only Solution is Work Hard and Run away from your Hometown, Follow Your Dreams, Don't Trust Anyone.... Once you are successful then Parents will come to you automatically
More powers to you✨
You are very brave dear! 💕
@RB Aparaajitha I WAS ABOUT TO SAY SAME ITS EP.3 I GUESS
Yeah some people never understand liking the same gender is NOT a disease but a choice and mentality and it cant be cured with medicine or counselling.....don't change yourself for anyone.....whether u love a man or a woman it's love anyway....and I'm not saying u should run away from your home but if they don't understand even after u try so hard to make them understand u then I think it's time u take your own decisions to make yourself happy because at the end of the day u should live your life not them....as BTS says self love is the most important and nothing comes before your happiness
I shared this to my family group
And they said: "Too funny beta"
I want to cry and laugh now ->😂
O god 😑
Hahahahhaha. ......
I am laughing too.....but i am sad also
I-
nai sunna ga koi.... 😭
I mean I really want to send this to my parents but then they will say "you don't even know what real problem is, sb acha acha mil ra h na toh dimaag khrab ho gya h "! Thanks to all of you for making this. I love you all for this.
True ...very true
True
I am a girl from my father's phone
i am keeping this video for that time when my parents will show me a video of 'how to respect and behave with ur parents?'
They'll never listen us!!!
WHAT I LEARN
Hamesha chup rehna hai
aur
"Sab thik hai" esa kehna hai
If i sent this to my parents they won't even see it very first and secondly they will be like ye nautanki band kr!!
@stay_weird are you going to save her from flying chappal 😄 #joking #its very serious matter v relatable to all of us.
@stay_weird yeahh
Same with me yrrr
my mom was like “so what do you mean by this” and im done bye
Well, Hello Fellow Weeb
Omg that would be my mom too, if I had the guts to share with her😆
@@jooniesbonsai4064 hainaa xD
🤣lol it's not even worth it man....
maybe she gets it but just doesn't wanna go there you know...
"Having overprotective parents didn't make me a good girl it only taught me how to pretend to be one" Dear We Are Yuvaa, thank u so much for such a great vedio.. Its just like.. Sare iss generation ke logon ki maan ki baat cheen li aap ne.. Thank u so much.. But i just wish someday my parents will see this and realise.. Its never too much to hope right? :)
Haha thanks
I thght I am the only one!
😕☹
Absolutely correct.👍
Rytly said 😓
Yes ,I pretend like a good girl in front of my family and sometimes it frustate me very much.
Correct
You just can't talk directly to parents at all. They' ll say, hmari hi sochlo, will take every sensitive topic on themselves. Because our problems are ignored, we become the same , emotionless on the inside and fake at outside.
@@dikshapandey0623 thinking*, but yeah
This is the absolute truth of every single one of us
Ya, most of the time we are ignored💔
Hey can you like translate the lines they said? I don't understand hindi that well 😢
Just few months ago I lost my father ....Facing that situation was the most difficult time I have ever gone through...I can't forget anything nor do I remember anything, i am completely lost ....I don't understand what to do ....As a 17 year old girl , it is very difficult for me to talk to anyone (even my mother) because it haunts me a lot. I don't know why I am sharing this but I hope someone will surely understand my pain.
I did talked to my father about why I am trying to be alone few weeks back and told everything why I am behaving like this after listening all this he didn't utter a word but day after that day he did not left me alone he was constantly asking me if I am okay, was bringing me food asking how's my studies are going, after that I realised it is important to discuss with your parents because end of the day they want us to be happy, yes it might be difficult but it need to be done .
Bro u r lucky but here the situation is different...
Few parents jst ignore nd say stp overreacting u r still a kid so b a kid dont act too smart... And blah blah
U r right....it's imp to share with parents....but never had courage to do so or feeling of rejection...might hesitate me.....but I know if I would once tell them they will definitely help me out.....but no confidence in myself
U r right but few parents will never understand such things. They will tell we are over reacting and take away the phone .
I did talk to my parents about my thoughts and feelings. I talked first to my elder brother (6 yrs older than me)then he called my parents to talk, i thought would understand cuz we are kind of in the same generation, he straight up said that his friend had it worse. I told him how my parents'and his words and behaviour hurts me, he told me that i give them reasons to behave rude and say hurtful things and our mother also gets hurts from our relatives and i don't think about her.
I can't even show this To my parents , because I think that they will scold me even more , i fear my own parents more than any other person , if I show this to my parents they will say that I always waste my time watching such vedios . And when I try to explain myself they say that I talk back on them , i don't respect them . That's my condition ................. But in the end , I'm happy with a big large smile on my face .
U r right bro.
That's what makes you *you*
Same here
Exactly
Exactly
This message is really very necessary to send to every parent so that they will understand the condition of their children.. If any parent is watching this kindly take it seriously..
I respect teen-agers feeling. As a parent's we have to care about our children's growth.If life of a child is good it's enough for parents,so parents work hard .God bless everyone.
But sir parents need to understand what childer feel
This is the hidden truth of every teenager nowadays...
U guys have given a very excellent msg to parents!!
Why is this not on the trending page ☹ like that useless and stupid sadak 2 trailer and pachtaoge female version being so pointles is trending. Something like this which every other parent, kid, old all like all generations should see and needs something like this😢 I've tears in my eyes this is so on to the point.
Watching this made me comfortable ....but it ain't gonna change things ....I've tried many times and everytime I was blown out
@@amogrk9867 yah even I can't convey things openly with my parents😟
@@khushboomaharana can relate 😞
trend me laate h.....share with....your frds....and i share with my....all frds and...family members.....
Exactly my point
Even after sharing this the next day they're gonna taunt me and compare me with someone. Cause all they care about is "log kya sochenge?"
Yeah soo we should share it right like better an oops than a what if
@A D. god that's even more painful... Don't share it sis I take it back
nhi yaar.. mere mom dad ause bilkul nho hai..they always ask me that if I wanna do that or not. Log kya sochenge isse unhe koi farak nhi padta hai...mere grandparents ko toh farak padte hai..but my parents are the best.Mere saare problems main sabse pehle apne parents ko hi batate hai..kyun ki wo kabhi mujhe judge nhi karte and never compare me with anyone.
I am 14 and I want say this all to my parents but I can't 😭
Me too I understand your feelings
SaMe ._.
Me too
Me too 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
But I'm only 13..............
Yess and we go to talk to them about these things. " we are just 14" not only parents everyone in this world thinks a 14 year old problems are not problems
This generation had only one problem
"Loneliness"
We are Lonely,hello anyone there i am saying it loud and clear i am lonely ,you are lonely and evryone is lonely 700+crore population still we are lonely
true:(
You are ture, but you know what 😃 I think it is my strength that I can live alone still I have my chosen few
@@kaustubhpatil9099 excuse me you are not the one who is going to decide for him that he should feel good alone or not
Kahi toh apne mann ki baat bolne do
*you must be a fuckin parent*
@@meghaarora8810 No , sorry you got me wrong, I didn't suggested that he/she should too feel as I feel, obviously no one can expect to... We all are so dynamic in our own way, we all have different perspectives/view point of the world as we perceive it....
I ain't fuckin parent , just a teenager
I totally agree
I'm glad I have parents that stood by me when I had a massive mental breakdown. They encouraged me to visit a therapist, stood by me when the medication made me either euphoric or deeply depressed (I was on antipsychotics) and never once blamed me for anything.
I wish this was more normalised in our culture. Wonderful video!
U r very lucky to have such supporting parents
@@telegoholic Yeah, I am very grateful
You are so lucky . You have that support that everyone craves for never lose it
U are lucky to have such a wonderful parents who listens to u and talk to u. My parents neither listens nor talk to me about the shit going in my head all the time they only say what they want and if i say anything then they will call it back answering they never asked what i want to do or why i am sad. If i say them that 'I am sad' then they will not ask me why i'm sad they will just start scolding me for no reason. My life has become mess I don't know what to do and what to not do? I think u r very very lucky. Stay safe and always keep smiling and make your parents proud. I will pray for u and your family stay blessed. Always be happy
will they adopt me?
"Tbh to be compared with someone else is the worst feeling"😢😢
Sahi hai bhai
@Aanaah exactly bro i m a topper i got 98 percent but cause i m fat they compare me with my own bestie
😢😭i dont know y i cried and ya i m a kid of 12 years old
Me too
@@whywasntibornkorean5735 borahae💜
@@Anushka-dk4ls borahae💜💜, you are an army too??
@@whywasntibornkorean5735 Yaaaaa💜💜💜💜
iNfIrEs MaN yEah!!!
I'm 13 nd i too cried 💔😢
I show this to my parents the typical dialogue will be "Do you know the sufferings of other people. Adults of your age despite no enough resources are working hard and you are here being overly sensitive and crying over small things. Look at their problems. You want to be sad and depressed that's why all this drama ". Trust me guys this hurts more than anything else. We are trying to cope up from our own anxiety and overthinking please try and understand us.I know there are people who are suffering more than me but that doesn't make my issues any less.. I have seen people with not so comfortable lifestyle laughing smiling and enjoying which gives me hope and people in bungalows anxious tensed and depressed which doesn't make me feel good. You have always told me about chasing success but never chasing happiness.
True words man, u made me cry
Only weak teenagers face this,Your parents are right,today you are spending hours on watching RUclips etc and parents at this age spent hours of working hard..well I know you will not understand my comment and berate me..it's just an advice from an 18 yo..After 5-10 years you will realise and delete your comment
@@kO_EC well, i agree with you, but not completely.
I mean, the parents might not be ALWAYS right.
And when you say "weak" I think you wanted to covey that "ignorant" teens face it. I think so, let me know if I'm correct.
But yeah, you can't blame the teenagers for being ignorant, you and I found the knowledge which we needed to know to tackle the problems of your life, but they didn't.
Or, they just didn't think of it. Not everyone is capable of thinking in their teens, some might be.
But yeah, I found this video a bit misleading, this is like romanticizing depression or your sadness, because what I have observed is, that this generation, okay... let me talk about my own experience.
I knew, that I was not doing good, I knew that I was just procrastinating, I knew that I was just whinning and doing nothing about the current problem in life, and I was being cool with it!
I didn't feel the urge to change it. The pain and problems in my life, became something like pleasure. And...even if it is just a phase, in this internet world, I don't think it is easy to tackle the problems, because...parents need to understand that THIS IS A DIFFERENT TIME. And, the parenting style which they learnt from their parents is not gonna work now.
Change is tje law of nature which everyone must accept.
@@vats4 I understand all your points and agree, I have commented all about them in my original comment, I was just surprised so many kids of my age talk like that ,so this was just a short comment for them , now coming to the toipc I'm in no way against those teens, I will infact would love to help them but the problem is they should not share every bit of what they suffer to their parents, I mean for me it's the limit of self respect , instead one should Understand the main problem in their mind and find a solution for it , Parents always want mostly at this age for their kids to do well and work hard for their future, at least one should accomplish this goal, it's not for parents , its for their own self in future , in a world which so harsh , how will they tackle it if they have this ignorant attitude . ...
I'll quickly tell my story, I was all good but until I turned 16 I got exposed to this online world, there I just did nothing and literally wasted time again and again and made my self mentally so weak, my grades were going down , My respect and image I front of parents was going down , they did all they can to motivate me ,,,but how long they would do it if there kid is useless shit, I was my lowest but one day I realized that I was so mentally strong Since a child, what has happened to me ,? And I realised the solution is to listen to the parents (in almost every case they want our good ) so I made their dream come true by working hard and studying hard etc ,this way I become confident , now even if I have done something wrong I can share with them becoz I don't owe anyone of my past stupidness, I can make my point to them and dofcourse since I have made my self mentally strong my problems too are not that of a crying kid , End of story is that we can become a better person ...
And this video rather than giving kids the solutions is portraying parents as the bad image here , these actors are themselves in late teens and early twenties , when they will have their own kids they will lose interests in this issue , instead of pumping and encouraging their ignorant attitude , one should look in
to real world solutions which you and I have realized .
@@kO_EC I appreciate ur thoughts which is a need of hour . many times I feel that teens and youth both have lacking right guidance in this society .
Their must be someone to guide teens who are ignorant and confused in that stage .
Hey, guys. I'm a teenager , your poem just brought true tears in my eyes rolling down to my chin. this is really the exact what i feel, yup i'm over sensitive too, over thinks and end up bursting to my own self because when i look around to koi bada h isiliye bol ni sakte to koi chota h 'respect doge to hi respect milegi' or saath wale always be like ' aree kya be'. and there is no one to listen then you suddenly discover your pillow and your mirror to be the people you are waiting for.
dude these are feelings agar yahi control kar lenge to insaan kaise rhe jainge.
@C 06 Bhoosreddy Ananya ummm... actually opening up with the parents is not the problem. I'm super opened up. the thing is that there will sitt be things u can't cure. Bcz you don't hav control over them.
although thanks for showing you concern you are really a great human being !!!
Exactly, you had my words!
@@abhinavkatariya8040 what is that thing which cant be cured ? Pls say
If opening up to parents was a solution no one would ever have to even imagine about making this video... we all know its awkward and sometimes lame to speak all this and thats why we tend to supress our feelings within but whilst thinking about this ...even our parents must have faced their set of problems during their days they didnt open up to orthodox grandparents ...we should be happy enough atleast that we have social media to interact and open up with our problems to others ...im just saying they cant relate to our gen probs nor we want to relate to their stories ...its better if we find people to talk to instead of being salty and sober all the time ..
@@AdityaSingh-cl7qe very well said
It hitted hard 😥
The moment you realise that every bit of it is so relatable and true but you also know that you dont have the guts to share it with your parents!
YES,YOU ARE NOT ALONE.
I swear if i would be there as a parent when my time comes , i will make sure that my children never face the null emotional support
Replies were too depressing so i just edited the comment which i had posted earlier. 😃😃
Lol kuch nhi hota essa when I told them about my depression and all they said that am dramatic and am disgrace to my family.
@@chestabassi6283 exactly!
Yeah it's absolutely right
@soumya Rai • 40 years ago thanks for the lesson. At least im not gonna do this now.😀
And am one from them ....and jab bhi kuch bato to lagata h ku hi batya ....regret hota h kyunki hum bolte kuch h unhe samaj kuch ata h ....
I started crying infront of my mother on a very small issue yet didn't have the courage to speak of what I'm going through.
Tell her as time passes she will definitely understand...kyunki apno ka smjhna zada important hai
This happens to me all the time
Want to send this to them,but can't 🤷🏼♀️
yeah dude exactly
the Dislikers are parents 😂😂
But I am really lucky to have such supportive parents❤
whenever my face looks sad my dad asks me *aaj meri beti ka chehra utra Q lag rha h* and mom asks me to sit on her lap 😌 now I am pursuing CA course and my dad said *even I got fail, he will going to give treat to everyone* 😅😅
I will never disappoint my parents🙏❤
“Apne ghar mein toh mujhe kuch bhi bolne ki azaadi honi chahiye” I’m crying 😭 this hit right in the feels!
I just cried a bit,then I imagined how would my parents react when I'll show them this video.Actually I've tried talking to them,they listened and then scolded me saying anxiety is something you should not have at this age and then asking when they ignored me and when they didn't sacrifice for me.Our generation's parents won't understand our problems,that is why there are so many suicides in this era.Watching this and realized I am not the only one who is suffering.
I'm going through the same situation..
And I thought I'm the only one 😔... But felt so much relieved with you guys 🙃
@@adhishasahni6156 it won't unless we make it
@@adhishasahni6156 whaaa- I can never 😂😂
@@adhishasahni6156 I just had a massive fight about it with them and showing this video is gonna hurt them sm because I already said everything today which was in my heart 😣..... And I don't know how they are reacting already
@@Pearl_serene I am done with fighting with my parents man!I just don't speak anything now whenever they are scolding me
In the generation of social media with lot of friends..... reality is so sad that all are alone in actually.
No if u think then u have fake friends
Right.... the only buddy we have is that little phone in our hands and the walls of our house...... our tears are wept by only the pillows of our bed
Me and my sisters were literally talking about this last night, and we all had the same points
I think this is the voice of our generation
But we can’t show this to our parents, so let’s continue life with a fake smile on our face 🙂
Peace ✌️
Atleast you can discuss this to your sister ❣️there are many people who do have elder brother/sister but they didn't even talk.(not because of fights but generally) I wish you both will have eachother in your hard times ,never loose contact.
@@pika_31 we are 4 sisters and 1 brother.
Hehe
We have a really good relationship.
Main toh share bhi nahi kar paungi... Kash mere parents ko yeh recommendation mien dikh jaaye.. Aur voh ise khud hi dekh le
Same
Ya, I wish it too
Yaa... Sammeee
same bro yr
Same
I really want to share this with my parents but i know from my heart that they are going to scold me, ignore me for some days, and many avoiding thing they will do.
World is changing but many parents don't care about it.
Exactly yaar i feel you..... They'll just ignore n say hamari kami nikallne aagayii
Same with me
Same with me🙇
True fact 😔!!!
U are not alone...😞
This makes me cry 😢 guys ...but again they will never ever understand
Koi baat nahi. Tomorrow when you’ll be a parent, be the type of parent which you wanted to have ❤️
That's trueee
True😔.. that's why I don't try
i think they will ignore by saying that its just a philosophy
The only reason our parents gives "log kya kahege"
Honestly I am scared to show this to my parents or even talk to them because I know what they will say
A little relieved that I'm not only one, in our country, who is going through all these things😌🥺❤.
Each n every line is so true and so relatable especially to the teenagers😊
Agree sister
When parents compare me to others i genuinely feel that i am useless
Waiting for the moment when my parents will say that go and do what you want, do what you like, do what makes you happy and stop comparing myself with others.
The replies were too depresing so i edited the comment 😄😅
Right yaar😧😧
You won't know until you try hon❤️
I was trying to say the same
I just had a fight with them on this matter that they donot listen to me and again my mom said that get lost faaltu ki baaton k liye tym nhi hai mere paas..... And now she's not talking to me from 2 days
@@Fuckyou1605 this always happens thats why i dont go speak to them openly.......never😣😥
I showed this video to my mother..
1st time she didn't understand
She said "This generation doesn't understand us"
I said "I think ma you didn't understand the video
Watch it again"
She watched it and said "You don't know we have a lot of problems, parents need to take care of their children"
I said wanna watch it again?
She said "Mujhe baksh de🙏 ab nhi sunna"
I hope she understands soon 🙂💖
I hope so tooo
atleast u had the courage to show it
Even my Sis showed it to Maa and she said the same
If I show this to my parents, they would probably say, "So instead of trying to improve yourself, now you're showing us this?" They think their only work is to provide me resources. There were times when I couldn't control myself and cried in front of them, and my mom made fun of me for that. So now I don't show much emotions, and they call me phlegmatic 😑
Sigh. I really needed to write this. Don't care if somebody reads it or not, but thank you giving me a place to let this all out.
@@oblivious6915 Parents think that they own us . Humari apni koi identity nahi hai . Jaisa wo kahenge hame waisa hi karna hai. As if hospital me wo hame choose karke laye the aur choice galat ho gayi toh hum par gussa karte hai.
A state has come I dnt even want to talk to them anymore and dnt wnt to share things ....and that's the final thing
With you dude. Me neither.
Same here
True....I feel its useless to talk to them because they are so adamant with their words and their morals that nothing matters to them more than what we feel and think....
@@adityaagarwal2312 wish this was that easy.....✌🏻
I feel the same way, cuz I know they won't understand no matter what :')
Brooo i tried telling my mom but it ended up with me crying and her scolding me for what i said.....
Same . I once told my mom what I felt and now I realise that was my biggest mistake 😔, talking to my mom just makes me feel more depressed and I don't even have a single person, I can share my feelings with, so I talk to my self (which gives me the tag of a crazy person). I'm actually good at studies but still she's not at all happy with me. I spend my free time reading books and learning science and stuff on the internet, I thought of sharing some things with my mom, my freind ! That's what she calls herself and guess what ? She started commenting on my bad handwriting again and literally cussing me for using a phone, saying " you're 15, don't learn too much for your age , just learn only those things which are in your 10th Syllabus". I just felt like killing my self but I won't, no matter how hard she tries she couldn't stop me from achieving my dreams 😌.
@@vibzz2475 hey! best of luck. I don't know who are but I hope you'll do great in future. Sometimes it's hard to believe in yourself but the bright future is waiting for you .you just have to give your 100 percent in it
The sad reality is the no one can share this video to their parents
Warna taane sunneko milegy
Love you mumy papa...❣❤😘
Plzz Understand Our emotions and Feelings 🙏😭
........Yes....✔✔✔✔
💯💯💯😔😓😓😢😢😭😭😭
parents judge depression as fake drama, they never accept it when we have some internal pain, and they never try to at least listen to us. just because of my parents , i lost many things in life which i can achieve but their disturbance hit me and i left, they are busy in their fights.
Even indians in general dont consider it as a problem..that is the sad reality
@@baldevkumarmohta8770 cos they dont know even what is depression. even they feel it on their time, but never realise today. for us.
@@srinathbishwakarma1241 Depression? Think positive beta think positive that's what they will say, else sharing it in this social media will atleast make a slight smile on your face becuase you are not alone😞😞
@@anonymous_chan_ i don,t know how to handle these problems even they trigger me with bad words.... and many more things which i can,t express to any one.
@@srinathbishwakarma1241 Bad words are common. Whether we will listen to them or listen to ourselves, slangs are common.
So, atleast give a try.......
My parents say " I am Ok , nothing is wrong with me.
My friends say " I am Ok , you don't need to worry"
Sometimes even I think" I am ok, but i am really not, and I don't know how longer can I pretend '
🙂 -I Am Okay .
Hey
Hello same hr
Same
If U r not ok then don't try to feel so
If U can't keep it inside any more then let it flow
U r not here to feel ok everytime
U r here to tell them that U r not ok nd U r proud of it bcoz U r U
Just imagine
U hve a frnd who is going all through this
U hve to help him
If U can help him
U can help yourself too
Be your own frnd don't wait for anyone
I hve also gone through this phase but it's ok to feel not ok..
@@avani1001 thank you so much for understanding the situation.i gain positivity from this.😊
The line at 0:56 is enough to make me cry
And after looking at the comments I see I am not the only one who goes through the same😫😢😢😢😢
Love Yourself Speak Yourself
Stay with ARMYs
You can connect with ARMYs on a channel called Shrinkhal .......you'll find many ARMYs there, it's a Indian K-pop channel......you can make friends there
I've also made many
Borahae
I'm telling so that when you feel you have no one, bas un ARMYs ke baare me jo aapko regularly dikh jaate hain comments me......unke baare me soch ke accha lagega
@@ayush_nojams yap. 😊😊😊 .. so keep smile. . cuz. . we have army .. 😊💜
@@pratibhasharma3096 :)) 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
They : share this to the parents
Us : shared
Parents : all this is bullshit, our time we faced blah blah blah blah . Look at us we don't have mental health problems. All new things you'll come up with as excuses.
They have mental health issues too... they're just not aware of them or they totally ignore and/or suppress them!
they 'll probably say - " hamari himmt hi ni thi apne ma baap ke samne baat krne ki.. "
I wish they ever wanted to understand. 💔
if we show this to our parents , they would say " this was only left to show us ?! what are you trying to say us huh ? that whatever step we take for you is bad ?! " ....
Are you armyyyyy
@@kedarranade3402 yes she is ARMY
Profile pic me likha hai 😊💜
@@ayush_nojams are you
@@kedarranade3402 yes I'm also ARMY (fanboy)
@@ayush_nojams who is ur bais