Dear children, from your parents
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- Опубликовано: 9 сен 2019
- Talk To Them | Featuring Ratna Pathak Shah, Gajraj Rao, Sheeba Chaddha, Kumud Mishra, Shishir Sharma, Ayesha Raza Mishra, and directed by Yuvaa Co-Founder Anand Tiwari.
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Have you ever had a bad day? A bad week? Or a bad phase? It’s important to talk to someone. This #WorldSuicidePreventionDay, our favorite web series parents come together to tell you why that ‘someone’ should be your parents. #TalkToThem
Please share it with someone who needs to hear this. #TalkToThem
Thank you to our partners for supporting the video: Fortis Mental Health, iCall Psychosocial Helpline, 104.8 IshqFM, Samaritans Mumbai, Mariwala Health Initiative, TISS, It's Ok To Talk, Miss Malini, Centre for Mental Health Law & Policy, Indian Law Society, Suicide Prevention and Implementation Research Initiative (SPIRIT), News18 Hindi #जीवनसंवाद .
If you or anyone you know needs help, please reach out to:
+91-83768-04102 (Fortis Mental Health 24x7 Helpline)
022-2552111 (iCall Psychosocial Helpline, Monday to Saturday 8 a.m to 10 p.m)
+91-84229-84528 (Samaritans Mumbai, Everyday 3 p.m to 9 p.m)
+91-84229-84529 (Samaritans Mumbai, Everyday 3 p.m to 9 p.m)
+91-84229-84530 (Samaritans Mumbai, Everyday 3 p.m to 9 p.m)
You can find other helpline numbers on : itsoktotalk.in/find-help/
Video Credits:
Directed by: Anand Tiwari
Written by: Nikhil Taneja
Exec Producer: Garima Kunzru
Line Producer: Nirbhay Kumar
DOP: Vanisht Iyer
Editor: Kashish Sharma
Graphics: Siddhi Surte
Assistant Director: Anunay Sinha
Second Camera: Ganesh Negi
End Voiceover: RJ Meera Ishq FM
Yuvaa Fam (Creative): Raunaq Bajaj and Aditi Gangrade
Yuvaa Fam (Social Media & Partnerships): Yash Pise and Shweta Vora
Produced by: Yuvaa (Nikhil Taneja, Amritpal Bindra, Anand Tiwari)
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Nowadays everyone says talk to someone but no one say's I'm ready to just listen you, this is sad but reality.
In case u feel lonely use 7cups there are many listeners who will listen to u and help u out....i also use it....i have also gone through this😔
@@sarakhan8969 thanks for the suggestion but i don't feel lonely bcz I know how to be with my self in fact I love my company but I feel bad for those who don't have people around them to listen them and really need help , on other hand people around them keep saying talk to someone but never says I'm there to listen you. That's y i comment , nothing else.
@@vandanashetye4194 thats cool if u dont feel lonely thats great...yeah thats true even there are some people who will tell u i will always be there whenever u will need me but when u need them they are not there.....i think like u everyone should hlp themselves so that they dont have to ask for help....more power to u girl😊
@@sarakhan8969 what is 7cups
@@nidhinala_art that is an app where there are many listeners who will help u whether anyone is in depression or some other issues like brk up,family issues everything.....u need to make an account there n then if u want someone to help u out then u have to tap on connect now then u will get a listener then he/she will ask u like what kind of help u need like we chat with our frnds then they will give u suggestions without judging u....need more hlp can ask im here😊
If I showed this to my mom,she would say go and study now!
Exactly!! She would say that u r watching all these nonsense without studying huh!! Last warning or else tera phone,laptop sabi ko bhool ja.. 😢😢😢
💯💯💯
Same here.
Same...
So u missed exactly the point the video tried to explain ... Great 🤦 ... watch the video again ..
Parents are stubborn not used to our generation until u prove ur point they are not gonna understand ....
But thats the point !! If u don't take an effort to express urself and prove it they are not gonna take the effort to understand...
It's strange that irrespective of whichever part of India we belong it, every dad has swam through river to go to school 😥😥😥
RUclips recommendations knows me better than my parents at home..
Exactlyy
It pains a lot to be alone and keep choking everytime I fail to explain how much it's hurting from inside.
True
@@sapnachoudhary5315 write and let it go and settle in your subconscious mind. It will not hurt there. Many people need healing in their subconscious minds especially in lockdown.
@@simbanagpal7588 there is no way out , until that issue is resolved.
'Me thik hu papa'
God this brought tears in my eyes❤️
Seriously but true !!
It deeply struck me
me tooo
Same
but no one even ask me "how r u ?"
No yaar no it's not awkward it's about the generation gap ... It has happened to me I talked to my mother about my anxiety and got a 1 hour long lecture back..... It was so disappointment that I have to control my tears back because she was infront of me
Ikr girl
I've been there
It's the hardest part..to try not to cry..my love and support with you
@AnnEShA MUkHopADHyAY same here sis😣😣
Same here😭😭😭😭
that make more depressed 😭
I literally cried after watching this video 😔
"Beta, how are you?"😥
I think this era of old fashioned parents and the extra advanced children is something to be concerned of...and it's normal for our generation...the next generation would be a blessed one !
Love your parents ....
Yes ,so true.The next generation is going to be the blessed one
No one knows ..what our next generation will expect from us 😅
@@ashachoudhary7945 We must at least create an understandable reasoning , but also not make them brats...
@@ashachoudhary7945 Atleast we know that what is feels like have no private space and no understanding levels !
Yes!
This is the most meaningful video that i have ever watched on youtube.
Hahahaha
Which means u have seen only 1 video on RUclips
True
Very true
True... I started crying after seeing this
When I try to talk to my parents about my problems, their permanent dialogues:-
"Sbse pehle ye phone side mai phek"
"Hmari baat maanta tb kuch hota tera"
"Kuch nhi hoga zindagi mai tera"
The best thing to do is not to tell them anything and share problems with online friends. At least they help me out instead of demotivating me.🙃
Wuff.!!🤭🤭 everyone recieves the same dialogue mann.!! But at our hardest time ...our friends may or may not be there (jst saying in case..!) but our family is always standing with us ..! Yeah ik when it comes to emotional notes ..parents just lag behind ...but it’s not their fault too.!! Even if they try ..sometimes its not possible to change the mindset..
Chote hote se mehnat karke tere friends ne pala hai kya?
Pagal mat bano!!!
Jab time aata hai tab sabse phele parents hi sath denge
Baat karna zaruri hai taki jo andar hai dil me wo pata lage aur parents samaj payen
Bahut maar aur daant bhi padhegi lekin wo bhi to aapne children ke bhale ke liye bolte hai
Dant padhe to sunlo, dantna unka kaam hai 😂so they can correct your way
@@mahakjain06 why is it so that people thing that problem is only when you are ill or financial problems!!??
Why people dont understand that there are some mental isssues there are some problems for which we expect our parents to give us time!!!
Radhika Choudhary .. people do know and they do understand it too...but wht the thing is everyone is so messed up in their own life tht they dont even think or care about anyone else ..they dont have enough time to think about someone else...and here is the point where we lack humanity...! U know sometimes wht we dont need advices or suggestions ..rather wht we all need is someone to just patiently hear to our talks ...someone to understand our soul
@@mahakjain06 i tottally agree to this and people say parents se baat karo but they dont want to listen !!! So we look for that person in our friends but our parents has problems in that too!!!
As a teenager, I feel nice that my most relatable issues are coming up... We r not alone...thank u for this video. ❤🌸
Im scared to tell them my problems
I am lacking in studies and exams are coming up and im scared and i dont think theyll understand what do i do...
@@nadiak6225 The issue depends. If you are hesitating in telling your parents something then tell others. If you have anyone whom you trust and who won't take advantage then tell them whatever problem you are facing. But if you can tell your parents then tell them first. It's not easy, I know, even I face problems but try and Remember You're Never Alone In This.
I don't know who to tell
@@nadiak6225 Then please try telling your parents. Don't get depressed or anything just try to be happy. If you can't tell anyone just relax, think of good things, write down if you feel it helps but believe in yourself you can do it, just don't give up.
My parents never listen. They just start scolding me and that's why, I don't feel like talking to them anymore.
@AnnEShA MUkHopADHyAY Me too
@Arjun 345 But many teenagers commit suicide because their parents don't understand them.
@Arjun 345 Have you lost someone??
@Arjun 345 I have real friends. I have a person whom I can call best friend, some people whome I can call close friends and special friends too. Honestly, I don't have any virtual friends.
@Arjun 345 I am not blessed with parents who understand me. That's why I used to express my feelings in the comment section.
This hit even harder than my father's beatings 😂😂😂
I can feel you😅😁
Ironic😂😂😂
Really 😂😂
Lol deep🙂
There are some parents who don't even want to listen to their kids😔😔 Whenever I tell her something about what am i going through she always scolds me or thinks i am being rude😔😔
It makes sad and cry
Just because
Even after our parents are first to fight for ous
We are not much free and comfortable to express our problems in front of them
Just as they pretend to be happy
And hide their problems
We are also likely to be.
Most worst bee's the commutation gap between
A isolated introvert child
Who nethier made much friends due to strick regulations of parents
Because they want to keep their child from all problems
But who thought there even might be come mental and emotional conflicts
Where no one to share
I am here after watching "dear parents ,listen to us "video Now I think parents and children need to collab together now😍😍😍 I just love bothe videos😘😘
But beware of those who pretend that they want to listen to you.. But later they make fun of you behind your back and this happens very often.. So plz choose wisely to whom you are sharing your personal things 😊😊😊
I choose myself. No mocking behind my back no trivialisation no problem.
anyway helpline guy isn't taking the call.
Kajal the video is stressing on sharing n communicating with Ur own parents first ... If it's the worst scenario, may be one parent may be mad at u...both can't be at the same time...n u urself will know the nature of people around u be it friends or family. U will know who is worth trusting.
crimson you're 1000% right... 😊
So true
All the greatest character actors currently in one video! Legends! Brilliant
Thank you.
Pankaj tripathi
I'm literally SOBBING while binge watching all the videos of this account at like 3 am at night and i don't even know why because I literally never cry-
Hugsss❤️ I've been there.
Truth is - everyone is waiting there to take advantage of ur weakness, if not then they will start judging. Even parents judge. You tell your parents ur problem they will tell all your relatives about it and laugh, better you keep it to you than discussing with the parents. Friends are best, but finding someone who fits into that word 'Friend' is so difficult. And then when you have that one real friend, your parents won't like him/her - door raho usse, vo tumhare liye theek nahi.
That part when our parents makes our fun infront of others it hurts a lot but still have a fack smile on face , like iam normal hurt too much..
So true
I do not understand it. Why is this video not trending🙈! Such a beautiful one❤️
100 likesAAA
Bcz it's disgusting video
It was trending? When
Aaaaaare becoz it doesn't have nonsense content.......something good which can change ur life n i find myself lucky that i found it....
@@shivangnishree889 true that!
RUclips finally give a good suggestion 😞
Thanks for so many likes 💖 Hope you've a GREAT DAY 💞
Like, FINALLYYYYY
ikrr
Definitely. Best recommended channel ever.
We badly need this in India!
Lol. Truly
Oh thank heavens that when I clicked read more on your comment, it didn't say guys, plz sub to my channel! 🤦🏻♀️I would've punched the screen! 🤭
When I try to talk to my parents
When I tell them everything they usually says " tumhari hi galti hai, tum hi galat ho" even when I was not wrong What can I do ??😔
Understand their perspective and explain them yours
Mere sath bhi aisa hua h
@@utkarshsharma3022 but what if they don't listen to us.
Might they not understand u sometimes but understand the r gonna be ur bff
@@omchaurasiya5307 I don't think so
Recently went to the Drs with my sick mum. Was told she has pneumonia and apart from that they have also found something in her blood that may lead to cancer. They are carrying out further blood tests and she has an hospital appointment very soon. My mum is in her 60s but looks amazing for her age. She has a heart of gold, always looking out for the vulnerable people. She is loved by everyone. She’s an active person, hence, nobody realised that she’s so ill. I have always been her best friend since childhood. Will I be able to tell her how good or bad my day went? No, she is already stressed. Please pray for her. 🙏
Please appreciate your parents, who knows how long we will have them for?
Present samaj te to keh te nahi samj te issi liye nahi kehpate or woh shayad samj na bhi nahi chahte who accept hi nahi kr pate hamari generation ko 😔 warna parent se jyada pyar koi hame nahi krta or ham bhi lekin ise liye ham nahi krpate baat
Hoping & praying for her to get well soon🙏
Valencia D'souza Thank you so much. ❤️
We can't feel our parent's pain, and our parent's can't feel ours. Probably that's how pain itself blesses us. Beautiful souls have the capacity to repel pain. Even their own. I wish she continue to be the light, she is in your life.
Niki Singh Thank you so much for your kind words.
There should be the Award for "Best parenting actor/actress"
But everyone's parents is not same.But sometimes they don't try to understand anything
True
I feel you girl 🙂
yes and specially middle class parents(not all) . if we talk to them about anything like this reply was "esa kuch nahi hota, ye sab ameero ke chochle hai"
Agreed 😟😞
Shaayad unke zindagi bhi aasan nahi tha yah nahi hai... Unhe hum ek person with flaws too aise dekne bhool jhathe hei... Unke problems bhi kabhi kabhi hum dekthe nahi..
I have really cool parents.one day before exam when all my friends are studying they take me out to a mall or something.I can always share things with them and talk about anything freely.they never compare me with anyone and say marks dont matter understanding matters.my mom gets to know whether something is wrong with me and leaves me alone for a while and then talk to me.I love them
Cherish that please :)
Ur so lucky...
This video : when you can't sleep at 3 am , call your parents
Me : Hello Mumma
Mumma : Kyu disturb Kar rha hai nakaara kahi ka 😂
True🤣🤣🤣
But even in tat nakhra kahi ka teres concern n love !🙂
I must say.
Dude😂😅😅😅
My mum would say how many times I told you to sleep early 😅🤣♥️
@@fiona3101 very true lol
This set of actors and many others, are the pillars of Indian Cinema. The leads are just the faces, but they are the limbs which weave life into the cinematic canvas.
A big thanks from a millennial for coming together and giving us such a thoughtful message.😊🤘
2:13 I have done this, I cried in my mom's arms one night and she hugged me tighter than she has ever before and the best part, she didn't even bring it up again.
the lucky one
who got a parents like them
BTSSS AMII
I am crying. It's like if I see any of these people tomorrow I will probably go and hug them like they're my parents. At least they understand suicidal tendencies is a real thing.
This is what I needed in my teenage rebel years :'(
I used to be really reluctant to share things with my mother, I'd just say "I'm okay" everytime she'd ask me how I'm doing because I didn't want to burden her with my problems. I reached a breaking point and someone told me, rather forced me to talk to my mother and thank God I did. She is a woman with so much positivity. I fucked up at work and could possibly lose my job in few days time, I told my mother and she was so supportive that I am not even stressed about it. I know it may seem hard for most of us but trust me they are the only ones who will give you the best advice.
Every parents are not like mine. My mom actually looks at my face and understands if i m upset. But there are parents to whom if you go & say "Mom i m depressed" they'll make a joke of it. After that how can they expect their children to talk to them..eh? Aren't they straight cut hypocrites? So, this video can be really misleading from that perspective I believe. No parents are perfect- it's true. But you chose to gave birth right? So you need to take the step first, not a step back🙃
True that
Very true but mostly India mey bachche isliye hote hain kyonki everyone is asking ab shaadi ho gayi, good news kab de rahe ho
U r really lucky to have a mom like urs😊
“They’ll make a joke out of it” best thing I’ve heard so far. So relatable.
Same....my mom can understand me well too but still I share some stuff ONLY with my sister because those might hurt my mom...
Tried bt no one takes us us seriously... whenever I tried to talk to my parents..they we like we have also faced problem so you don't need to overreact 😭😭😭😭
1:12 minutes into the video and I have tears in my eyes.. 😟😢
Thank you.
Yaaa...
Same here...
I m in hostel and speaks like this only to my dad...love u dad❤
Same.... Just same
I literally weeping till the end .....so relatable ❤️
Hahahaha
I burst into tear after the Last line *thik hai beta* from Gajraj uncle
Same here.
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Me too
Mere Pappa , Mere Chachu aur Mere Grandparents....
They all are my Bestest and first friend for lifetime...Love you all...♥️ My whole family also..❣️ I'm very lucky to having them❣️
I tried talking to my mom about going to teachers day celebration.. And she was like.. Bas ho gya we've given u enough freedom (all I'm allowed to do is go to my tution)... I study full day and I'm a upsc aspirant..
So this vdo was actually a joke on my life.. Cause if I try to make them listen
They would take away my dream.. (Like Enough ur teacher, ur friends, ur education it's all making u go against ur family)
My only way outta it is to clear my exam.. And become so self independent.. That they could never take anything away from me
I can relate Pal😞 also our thoughts are parrell😁
Talk to your parents about how they were treated as a kid. And stop expecting them to be perfect parents coz they also have a life and society might have ruined it. Try it!
I am not even allowed to go out even when my parents leave me alone at home they lock Mae from outside going anywhere is impossible only school that's it not even with friends 😞
I can actually understand you..I wish I could hug u and say everything is going to be fine ❤️
@@diptij375 💕
Vo khete hai na ma baap ke tarike kharab ho skte hain lekin niyat nhi
kota factory!!!!!
india me abhi tk hjaro ma-bap ne un ladkoka murder kia heki jisne unki betise shadi kri he, jisne apna pyar nibhaya he,
pr abhi tk ekbi ese ladkeka murder nhi kia he ki jisne unki betiko dhoka dia ho,
tb to "hmne kaha thana apni marji mat kro, ab roti rho, ya mar jao, ma-bap jo krte he vohi sahi hota he"
indian parents r full of ego & misogyny, vo kbibi apni betise pyar nhi krte, unko kaise bi krke apni betiko suicidal banana hota he !!
& jo suicidal nhi banti vo patthar ban jati he, a typical indian toxic wife !!
india me abhi tk hjaro ladkiyo ka ya unke boyfriends ka honor killing ho chuka he !! unmese kitne ma-bap ko faansi hui ?? ma-bapke liye specially pahele murder pe hi faansi ka pravdhan hona chahiye !! bcoz india me sbse badi myth heki dunia me unconditional love khali ma-bap hi krte he, to fir karodo betiyo ko jo ghatiya social pressure face krna pdta he, uska ku6bi compensation nahi he !!
jb bi koi ma-bap apni beti ka ya uske bf ka honor killing krte he, to log just khali caste system ko blame krte he, & agr koi boyfriend apni girlfriend ka murder krta heto vo psychopath he, so bilkul same usi trh ma-bap bi psychopath he !!
The biggest myth of India & the reason behind my 10 suicide attempts !!
Parents ki niyat kharab hoti he !! vo apne ego & orderko sahi sabit krneke liye halkatai ki sari hade paar krte he !!
Apne bachoki choice & decision ko galat sabit krneke liye kisibi had tk jate he !!
To all my friends here who don't seem to be able to connect to your parents, ask them about their favourite actors (tv serial/bollywood/hollywood/youtuber or their favourite gods, but the last one is most difficult) and start behaving like them, but be humble and modest because we are young and creative (and not as old as your parents who definitely have experienced way more than you).
It will only take them a few moments to realize that their is a problem and you have to lead them to such a conclusion that is beneficial to you and to them. This way you can talk to them pretty freely.
Also, don't forget your real role though, being the best at whatever you decide to do.
Most of the teens are still not able to share these videos in family groups 😔
Ya
You know what's my biggest and 1st wish that is to cry alot and hig my father atleast once in lifetime not just my wedding day of life but in this age in my teenage 😓😭 please papa
Me too
Me tooo
You guys run an absolutely beautiful campaign. I'm sure you prevented tons of suicide till date and I sincerely hope you continue to do so.
:) Thank you!
Me: mummma break up ho gaya
......... flying chappal received.
😂😂,.....
😂😂😂😂😂
Bhaii chappal se bhi jyada jorse unke taane pdte hai
Sometimes just the mirror recognises the pain in me but not parents..
Whenever I try to talk to my mom she just starts going through Facebook and doesn't listen to me and when I told her that this behaviour is a prob , she just told me to stop annoying her and go now she has a lot of work to do and doesn't listen to me as always and same with my dad . They both are always on their phone whenever I try to talk😞
So sad
Don't worry
You 'll definitely find someone who would be there to listen to you!!!😊
Underrated comment
Omg same pinch my mum is always on Facebook and whenver I ask for something,she starts a whole lect on how I am not studying hard and how I am not responsible...I remember asking for my underwear lol😂😂😂
Beak up - Parents reply - tumhara affair tha, bataya nahi, we missed the honour Killing
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
Hahahaha , bc fir asli problen start hogi
😂😂😂😂😂
Haa arey ye sala boyfriend girlfriend kya hota hai yahi krne college jate ho tum😂
I am in tears while watching this video
I always keep my parents first
I never lied to them
sacrifice my biggest dream
But when things go against me they didn't even listen to me
So sorry i can't relate to this video
And the biggest lesson i learn from my journey is that at the end "tum akele hi ho"
P.s i still love my parents and i will always keep them first❤️
And sorry i can't forget but i can forgive ❤️
It’s hard when all your sad ,depressed times were because of your parents
My dad shared this message with me on our family grp . It Felt so warm
Mom: Beta tell what happened, I won't beat you
Me: That girl......
Mom: Flying chapal at 150 Kph
Me: .....got more marks than me. That's why I was sad
😁😁😁😁😁😁😁
😂
🤣
😂😂😂
😂🤣😂
My Parents pura din kaam par....
My brother in his hostel.....
Me:- No one really cares, just end it
One of my teacher, really understood what I am going through....
Yes, It really helps talk to a teacher you trust blindly......🖤
m.facebook.com/helplineicall/
try this if u feel lost
Should I talk to my teacher?🥺
@@chahakdujari1171 yes i mean if you trust the teacher and you have a good bind go for it
I was literally crying... I felt like someone is standing in front of me and asking me the same thing 😶
I'm probably the most lucky girl in the world cause I got such a wonderful supportive understanding mature and bestest parents in the world ! ❤❤😘😘😘
And ya I always talk to them. 🤗
Me too..
Really too lucky to get but myself not😔
@@pritiroy6221
But why ?
As a parent, I feel this is the most impactful message to be shared.
I'm speechless. This is a great initiative. Kudos, you guys.
@Rohit Mahapatra sure and your parents are wasting resources on a shit like you...you don't deserve them!!!
*TALK TO THEM* THIS HURTS😭
:yt:
I dont know how to
This video helped a lot! Even though these guys are not my parents, its still touching to hear someone saying these things to us
Edit: when i talked to my parents
Dad :gave a lecture 😑😑😑
Mom: just ignored (that was sad)
But still thank you for the soothing words🤗🤗🤗
It's often the brightest smiles that hides the deepest pain.
The signs that someone is struggling or not okay aren’t often there, so please always ask the people around you how they’re actually doing. Sometimes it’s all it takes to encourage someone to open up💙
One of the best video on the internet today..!! Great work @weareyuvva❤
Thank you.
Families are complicated systems. When one person stops playing their usual role in the family, the system will usually experience some degree of disequilibrium or chaos. Conflict can serve to transform the system to a higher level, if the family members are willing and open to grow and learn. Unfortunately, sometimes, in an attempt to resist change, the family attacks the person who is wanting to grow. That person has the choice to stay and suffer the toxicity or to heal and leave the unhealthy system. The choice to terminate contact is often made when it's clear that it's impossible to heal while remaining in that family system.
How beautifuly you explained the main problem of family 😘🙏👍
Beautifully put.
True, true and true.
This comment of yours explains the problem to a greater extent! I'm having problems. But too scared to express. You are so brave!
It seems you are able to leave the system, but I'm not.
What really hurts is that when you mug up the courage to talk to your parents regarding your problems and they say *you aren't the only one facing all this; many more are facing much more than you* .........
I know that many more are facing much more than me, but they dont understand that not everyone thinks the way I think and no single person in this world of 7.8 billion faces the same as me.
Generation gap will always exist between parents and children, and if parents really just careand love but dont show us, then tell me what's the use?
Every parents care for their children. They give us everything what is possible for them. But the problem is they don't want to hear us. They provide us every material what we like. But they don't want to understand our problem.
Compare with other kid. Dekho usko ho uski jaisi.
Pressure for good marks.
If we raise our voice then humne kabhi apne maa baap se aisi baat nahi ki. Kabhi nazar utha kar dekha bhi nahi.
Why they don't want to understand our mental condition.
I need someone to talk.. Can't take it anymore 😭
Hey u okay?
Ok? Tell me are you fine right now?
Are you feeling good ? Are you happy? Are you relaxed?
Are you stressed?
If all your answers are negative then do 1 thing just take a small break in life...
Ok...so, you may ask what does this mean? But let me tell you.......Just listen your heart's voice and just try to make you busy in something ,just try to say your mind that ohh! Please I am not as much free to think about the problems of my life, I have not much time, at this moment right now ,I just want to be optimistic....
Ok, you know one thing Parul dee?
You are only sad because of your perspective ,just be optimistic and just try to work for one thing right now that is be happy because this life is only yours and no one knows at which moment it will end.
So always be happy .
I know there are many problems in life but do one thing I,e. Just be happy in any situation.....and yes! I believe in you and not only in you ,even I believe that everyone can be happy ,although there are many problems that makes us feel sad but just do whatever you like.
Fine? And again I would say that yes! You can be happy😊😊
I hope you will get some way out of your problems I.e. be happy 😊 life is yours.
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Stay happy and peaceful ! God bless you!! Do something you like to do ? It can be drawing , dancing etc.
Meditation is the best relief ! You can talk to your own self!
And go for a walk in evening see nature's beauty and you will find peace and happiness somewhere! Sorry if I won't able to help you!!
Me too
Whenever I need to talk to my parents they literally make me feel like it's all bc of my fault so only things only I do cry wake up and at late at morning then all day start along again same day same life.
I am ready to listen to anyone of you guys because if you will be happy after pouring your heart out to me then i will be happy that I made someone smile☺
Talk To Me If You Feel Like
God Bless To All Of You!
Coz my parents are never gone ask me how are you.... What happens....
I know they love me but sometimes I need them but the thing matter's for them is only my studies of their opinion only.... Not even my choices
They even don't know my likes and dislikes... They love me but why they forget to show it....
Sometimes I badly want say I need you mom. I need you dad but....
But we can't... :(
*I literally teared up at the last minute....*
*I need someone to talk to...*
*_My parents_** won't understand at this point*
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Video: When you can't deal with your exam pressure, talk to them
Me: Told my parents about exam pressure.
Parents: Autorickshaw chalane lag kal se.... padhayi teri bass ki nahi hai
Even though they sound rude.. all they want is us to become who they couldn't.. it's the wrong way they're using .. maybe they never knew how harsh they are and what you're facing..
Try and show them your caliber. Once they get what they ask for, you can ask them to listen to you sincerely and not make fun or take it easily..
I never try to talk to my parents but my mom can understand from my face that something is wrong asks me about my problem very genuinely this makes me cry even harder because I am afraid I will hurt them with words and also they may not understand my problem
Conclusion: I just keep my mouth shut
Generation gap is really a serious problem. Modern youngesters think that their parents not understand their problem but they are wrong . You vedio enlighted this issue . You are great , thanks for making it . I appreciate your work.
It gives me a hope that I should reach out to someone to share my feelings......
:) We hope things get better for you soon.
Yes you should..Even if you don't find any one you can talk to me
I wished these were my parents.... 😊
I can't stop watching this video. I have seen it 10 times and have shared it to nearly everyone in my contacts. It's so nice and meaningful. This video was needed and is needed. Really nice video ❤️
The only video in which I was not scrolling the comment section..I've watched it..this gave me goosebumps 💙
I really don't know why I busted out of tears.
This video literally brought tears in my eyes..i felt as if all of ur r directly talking to me..much appreciated ur efforts..🥰🥰🥰
It's important to talk to someone about your problems. But at the same time, be that person who would want to listen to the problems of his/her loved ones.
Though my parents are way too cool but still I'm touched by your lines...🥰
Really thanks for reminding me that when everyone leaves my parents won't.
Wow on every sentence I felt something happening inside my heart I could recall hundreds of moments with every single sentence. It's actually a really nice vdo it made me feel much better after the stress I am having 😀👍🏻
Parents are your best friends. Love talking and sharing our little secrets with them. Love you mom and dad.
@@kingsrk7517 I believe you came to earth when Allah fucked a camel.
@@kingsrk7517 wouldn't u be fucking someone in future ?
@@kingsrk7517 you bastard can't understand the above words.. Try finding your parents instated
Wait, they already threw you out because they failed to wear con
The problem is it's not easy to just go and speak to our parents... Because not all ears are up to listen to us... Sometimes, we really need someone who will only listen to us and not judge. 🌸🖤
As a student of psychology, I am so
happy to watch this! Thank u for prompting the value of talking! For mental health!
3 bje making your parents wake up
Flying chapppal will come
Yess 😂
Noo nahi ati ... Mene bhi kiya he and what I get is worm hug... Ek bar try kar ke dekhna chahie sari mushkile thodi asan lagne lagti he..... Hota he yar communication gap par haamre perents itane bhi bure nahi hote ki hamari problem ko samazanahi na chahe ..
@@janhavipatil3074 yes😊
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1st Comment 👍
This video saved 3mins40mins of my boring life. Anything could have gone wrong in those few minutes.
Thanks Yuvaa
Always share your feelings
Talk to someone
Hum mein se kuch log aise v hote hai jin me baat krne ke liye parents hi nhi hai...
That heart touching line😢
Thank u god fr giving me my parents
That "Theek hai beta?" made me feel so safe and made me feel like someone really cares about my mental health. Maybe no one can make me feel like the "Theek hai beta?" did
I love Shishir Sharma, the man is for love. Your voice is out of the words
I needed this...nd somehow tje universe send this exactly when i needed it
Lets make a WhatsApp group
@Chetan Agarwal create a group of people who are alone don't have friends & who are not getting married in lifetime
@Chetan Agarwal yes
I swear this is what my father feels. Whenever I'm sad he asks me, "What's wrong?" All I say is "I'm fine."
This is what happens. He is the one whp understands me. We have never actually interacted directly about such issues, but he always manages to cheer me up. That's why I love him and don't feel alone. Cause he is always there.
Atleast he asks u how r u, my father even never asked me ...even if I beg for few seconds of love or even if I say,I am not well, he is not bothered, not my parents or siblings
Haan baat krne se kaafi kuch solve hota h and it is tried and tested and always I have been supported.i am glad to get such a nice parent.
my mom sent me this video link, and i am glad i watched it.
Lovely!
If SSR wud have spoken to someone, he wud have been with us
He wasn't depressed!!!!!!!!! He was MURDERED!!!
Yep
yarr hadd hai isme bhi ssr
I cryid by watching this I can't even talk to them
I need talk to someone.. can't take any more 😭😭
My parents are so much supportive to me.... Meri mamma to bagair kuch bole hi sb jaan jati h and she herself come and talk with me and my problems....
You guys are such wonderful actors and this message is so important... Thanks for doing this, I'm sure it's going to be extremely helpful. ❤️
Thank you.
I feel so dumb about myself even I thought my mom as a villain (for silly things) when I was in my high school but thank god that I came to hostel for my higher degree and that's when I really understood how important they're to me and I think in that age many people could have felt so.
I love my family ❤
Dear, same with me but now am 40 year old and now my daughter have same expression as I had years ago 😂
@@SBV80 😁✌😆
same story
Sameeeee
Thankyou guys I cry every time I watch these. I have truly learned to love myself.
I am started loving this channel. I am feeling every word, every emotion. I can not express my thoughts with my parents. No one is ready to hear us.