Falling in love with each other | BeerSos #66
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- Опубликовано: 1 окт 2024
- Hey guys, Nico & Derek here! On today’s episode of BeerSos, we ask each other The 36 Questions To Fall In Love, and things take a bit of an unexpected turn.
We hope you enjoy it!
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It's only been 2 days and the support and love this episode has gotten is unreal. Thank you all so much for watching and commenting the sweetest things ever, and I hope that my vulnerability arc can push some of you struggling with the same problems to start your healing journey too
💗
Love you guys
the absolute confidence that nico had saying humans have two pancreases is crazy cus no we don’t ??? 😭
Wait we don’t have two pancreases
i hope derek realizes we appreciate him being vulnerable and we like to see that side of them
Watching them discover adult things (like how eating healthy effects you) is hilarious to me.
Why did no one let us in on this eating healthy thing bro 💀
These two have such a beautiful friendship and bond 😭
53:04 I genuinely had to pause, my mom unalived herself and the last thing she texted me was “I’m sorry you hate me” I just wish she had known how much I loved her
Not me tearing up watching Derek and bamm!! His face covering the whole screen... I choked on my spit so bad😭😭
this is the first full episode i’ve watched after seeing a few tik tok clips, and i immediately subbed. as a dude it’s lowkey healing to watch other dudes be honest and open while also being funny and entertaining as hell
Thank you so much!!!!
YESSSSS
Platonic soulmates really wish I had a friendship like this
Seeing how much derek changed is so comforting to me🥹 seeing him enjoying life and being positive gives me so much joy 🫶🏽
I really hope you guys to be famous one day, and can share all those experiences with the world ❤️
as someone who lost their dad i used to take out my anger and resentment on my mom too, i started crying so hard LMFAO then the cut to dereks face made me DIEEEE #thecityneedsme
This episode was nice as it really felt like you two were really connecting with the questions. Also respect to derek for crying on camera, he has definitely grown emotionally
“The City Needs Me” needs to be the title of Derek’s memoir.
My therapist told me that kids are incapable of rejecting what their parents tell them. It is survival instinct. They are wired to please their parents in order to stay fed and alive. However what the parents want are not always what the kid really wants and this imprint can lead to psychological confusion when they grow up and negatively impact their lives. So, some adult problems can trace back to childhood. This is why it’s very important for us to seek help from counseling to help us give the imprints back to the parents and say “this is not what I want and I give it back to you. I want to be me.”
Dear Derek and Nico, I sincerely hope you can get help to find yourselves and become you. The sooner you do this the better you will be. Don’t let the childhood imprints keeping affecting your life that eventually leads to consequences if ignored.
I love you two. ❤
Love you very much legend thank you for this message. Ur therapist is hella smart I never thought about that before. U shared some gasius bars and we appreciate it a lot ❤️
clicking on the episode to laugh just to end up crying
i've been listening to beersos for maybe a month.. but it feels like i've known you guys for years because you grow so fast!! i look up to both of you as individuals but also as a model of an ideal friendship, being able to trust each other so deeply and accept change... u guys are gas
GASIUS MOMENT
Derek eye rizz is crazzzyyyyyy
ngl "I never peed myself again" just completely changed my life perspective not even kidding wtf
was not expecting i would cry over a beersos episode, well derek made it possible
I can’t believe you guys kept such a vulnerable moment, just looking Derek’s face as he was talking made me start crying. My cat even came over to check on me lol. As always, amazing episode dudes. The 36 questions was such a genius idea. Hope you guys are doing well, sending love from Texas 😊
Derek my heart broke into pieces seeing you cry. I really hope you get to mend your relationship with your mom. We love you!
Nico has such a big heart for Derek especially considering that he cried when Derek explained his fathers passing :(
i cannot fucking believe you said you are NOT better than joe rogan. most fucking insane delusional thing youve ever said. this is goated podcast.
1:24:24 Beersos has been my favorite podcast since I discovered it, no big podcast can beat the honesty and relatability of you. Pls don't get too worked up in entertainment, views and performance and keep being this truest authentic version of yourselves!
And just look at the comments y'all have the best followers already, yk it's like the dick size, this is a boyfriend channel, if the numbers go up, the fanbase will change, and in my RUclips experience as a viewer, negatively. I don't want you to be Joe Rogan
I understand your point, but at the same time I want them to grow and have success, they deserve it! Even without the fame, people change and grow. This channel is heading towards a good direction and I hope they get more recognition for the work they’re both doing.
holy shit im crying in the middle of my work,,,,, i cant watch this anymore
53 min had me like why am i gonna cry unloading my dishwasher… y’all are so real for that
Life lesson: don't wait to tell people you're sorry and that you love them. You don't know what you could be missing out on.
53:37 - the next like 5 seconds have me laughing so hard THE CUT HAHAHAHHA
i’m also bad at being vulnerable and watching derek cry over something i also have a similar regret on made me cry too 🥲 we love vulnerable men!!!
If you found out how you were gonna die, and it was "get hit by a car," you finding out how you were gonna die would already be a part of your fate. So, for instance, if after you found out you were gonna get hit by a car, you just stayed inside, a rogue driver would probably crash through your house WHILE you were staying inside. Therefore, if you were unaware of your method of dying, you would've been outside, chillin, living life, and dodge the car that crashed into your house.
I got a nosebleed reading this thank u legend
I was soaking in my tears and then Derek was like 🙂no body mention this 💀
I haven’t cried in MONTHS. Almost A YEAR. I’ve become emotionally numb…..can’t believe I’m shedding tears rn. I’ve always felt guilt when it comes to lashing out on my parents or having a strained relationship with them. Damn…. Thank you for being so vulnerable Derek. I can feel the sincerity through the screen ❤
Ruh roah if this makes me cry I’ll shit myself. I’ll be back in an hour and a half to let u know x. Wish my trousers and I luck.
My pants were not prepped for mummy issues. going to have to quarantine them ngl.
Oh god we r sorry…
im so glad you two have the friendship that you have, that kind of bond is truly irreplaceable
went thru a school shooting scare yesterday (im in America lol) and this helped brighten my day :D you guys truly do have the, “I’m okay” influence
I LOVE BEERSOS FRIDAYS reporting back after I watch
Reporting back: cried at work 😭😭😭🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
NOOOO AMYYY WE R SORRY 😭
the vulnerability and open expression of love in this video have got to be one of the most beautiful things I've seen in a long time. idk how I got to this part of the internet but I'm glad to be here
You guys have become my comfort and seeing Derek's growth is truly amazing and even inspiring. Nico and Derek, you guys are made to be successful wherever you go ✨✨✨
THANK UU WE LOVE U. U r way too kind 🫶😭
Ok but the thing is Palestine war situation was going on for 75+ years I don’t think its funny to joke about that bcz yk ppl are dying….
I think your guys' strong point with your podcast is honestly your authenticity, strong sense of individuality as well as your amazing connection to each other. It's honestly the main reason I keep watching you guys and recommended you to my friends! Mishaps with the camera/audio/editing will always happen, but honestly I like it because it makes it feel so legit and human. I'd recommend to keep up what you're doing and believe in your own visions bc I think you really got gold here. Hearing you trying to compare yourself to other podcasts like Joe Rogan is like, no dude, first of all he started from scratch as well, and also, he's Joe Rogan, you guys are Beersos - very different things! (I genuinely much prefer the latter)
Just my two cents, but I really wanna press that as long as you guys stay authentic, you're golden :) big love 🙌❤
y'all be fr derek has a fucking hot crying face. we luv u
I saw y'all on Instagram and i am locked up bro I can't stop, y'all are so my vibe and the way I started bawling cz I got the same damn trauma 💀😭
Overthinkers by nature and by that you are naturally growing, maturing and making amazing content. Congrats for that
🙏🙏🙏🙏
fuck why yall got me over here tearing up n shit
Personally, I feel like the line is by who it affects. The comparison with the submarine is because the people were billionaires, so they were objectively bad people. But certain murders it’s just about who it affected and how u frame a joke. I think edgy humor about tragedies, if done well can help normalize important discourse and helps to get over collective trauma of events.
Dereks tears are so satisfying to watch
Dude 😭
yooo TUD my future college :)
@@brotbrotbrot not in a bad way. I mean like it’s good to see him open up. Makes me wanna too
@@Mikazuki_augus544 eww.
@@Mikazuki_augus544eww
Does fake dating your friend on valentines count as not alone?
Well, you gotta do what you gotta do
This is valid
@@workingonit940 Well thats true
@@beersospodcast okkkk😌
about comparing yourselves with the gigantic podcasts, I think yall should chill out, yall are the only podcast i was able to stick to, like I actually am excited when a new episode come out, like, me, a brain dead tik tok reel kid, being able to watch a long form content is almost impossible
What a GREAT and LIGHTHEARTED CHILL episode you guys!!!! Love you!!!
i really enjoy yalls podcasts. i just wish yall were more educated on the on going genocide in palestine. has been going on for 130+ days and 75 years. yes other issues are also so bad but plsssss do not compare which is worse! best of luck with ur podcast!!! i hope this can reach you well 💗
1:14:55
there is no line when it comes to kids,babies, and women killed in the hands of a zionist and bombs and snipers. like srsly this made me so :/ over 29,000 Palestinian people got killed in the past few months. pls be educated
You guys have actually helped me mentally. When I get home from school or work I’ll watch you guys to decompress. A lot of what you guys say I resonate with. Especially with Derek and I don’t think he knows how much he’s helped me. I’ll be thinking about things you guys say throughout the day and idk I feel like I’ve mentally grown bc of you guys! Thank you for this podcast keep making more content!
i say this w my whole heart im so grateful i came across yall like never before have i cared this much about a podcast dawg
not y'all mixing up kidneys and liver multiple times in one episode XD
derek crying broke my heart
Episodes of joe rogan and bad friends watched 0
Episodes of beersos watched 66
Keep doing what you're doing, love from Croatia
LOVE UUUU!!
this podcast made me realize that i like listening to podcast because it’s like listening to my friends. and watching this made me realize how i have found my platonic soulmate.🙂
In the middle of this episode I realized you guys look so much how me and my BFF communicate, and that's the reason why I feel so comfortable watching this.
And this episode is now my favorite!
Luiza, my BFF, out of suddenly passed away just a week ago, watching u guys having a fun and truthful time together reminds me of her and me.
Loves from Brazil
i've never wanted to hug someone so bad, i know thats a cliche but genuinely i was like aching to comfort him, i've said it before and ill say it again but this podcast gives me whiplash in the best way, ya'll will talk about eating poop then in the same conversation open up about one of your most painful memories. It's really beautiful tbh.
your guys’s friendship is so endearing love this ep
You're MUCH MUCH more entertaining than Joe rogan. Your bond is so awesome that I feel like on a sleepover with the best friends when listenin to your podcast. That's the superpower of this podcast. Also the atmosphere is everything too which is very satisfying to listen to.
This podcast just makes me so happy...
Like I literally found out about you yesterday from the library show and I've gotten so hooked up that I watched/listened 6eps today. Much love from Finland! Keep going guys, you're ✨awesome✨❤❤
When Derek started to talk about his own personal experience with his mom and and him. I stared crying and thinking because when I was 13-15 my parents went through my messy divorce I just remember having so much resentment towards my mom so much and I can remember just hurting her in anyway possible because I would always just blame her for the whole divorce and for the reason why I was the way I was at the time and I regret so much because it really affected our relationship and I feel so bad and so disgusted in myself for that
19:52 im a brazilian watching you guys. hi.
This ep has me monologuing and love lettering bro 😭:
So this is my second episode of your guys’ podcast (my first one being how to eat p*ssy with Lauren) and I have got to say that your guys’ shit is the realest fucking thing I’ve ever watched. And as someone with no close friends and touch deprived you guys have the most beautiful friendship on this planet like istg your dynamic itches my brain so well.
(by the way I have two older brothers that I’m really close with so don’t worry about that)
I just wanted to say that I think it’s so beautiful how far you guys have come considering your tragic backstories and I hope you’re proud of yourselves because this shit affected me. This episode made an impact like istg probably the single best piece of media I’ve ever consumed tied with the korean movie soulmate. I’ve laughed and cried (sobbed my eyes out until my muscles ached) and I’m now like a dedicated follower of the beer cult.
Thank you so much for this episode you guys are wonderful people and I hope you keep striving and thriving. love yall so much
Came back from the Mother Days podcast. By hearing both of your stories and you guys talking about the relationship with your mom, I can tell you guys had a difficult childhood. You cope by using (dark) humor an although you play nonchalant, I know you guys do care and have some hurt and trauma where your going through. I can find myself in these similar feelings like not being capable to be vulnerable in front of my mother, being embarrassed as a kid about the situation at home,.. I myself often feel unheard by my best friend. I'm really happy, and it warms my heart that you're there for each other. You don't see it enough that guys can be vulnerable and tender with each other.
Hugs! 🩷
the united states is gas: said no one ever sdkjfjkdsf & yall are about to pmo with this vietnamese iced coffee !!!!
53:01 wtf why am I crying too nico has such a sad crying face 😢
put my boyfriend onto this so he can learn how to feel emotions too
I wish I could have conversations like this with my best friend (I dont have a best friend)
If you can't say sorry to your mom then try writing out on paper everything to reherse or try out, what if she gets hit by a astorid and boom you can't say sorry. P.S. Derek crying got me heart broken
Honestly....don't let your vids consume you...there are too many youtubers that become absorbed into their vlogs til their mental state becomes too much and as a result...make permanent decisions where we don't see them anymore 😢
I will have to agree that loosing a pet is so extremely hard
My family just lost our last child hood pet Zeus just last week
Best fur family member since day one
2012-2024
We lost his brother in 2020 at age 15 so I agree it’s worst the pain. It’s so painful but knowing you had them there to love and care for, knowing you gave them the best life they could have had is what makes it worth it
I’m hella high on some dab but I hope what I typed out made sense 😂💀
Yoooo I’m so sorry to hear about that I hope everything is at least semi-ok for u and ur family 🙏 enjoy the weed
@@beersospodcast yall are sweet to reply
I am not high now so I can type better😂
But yeah I believe we are week 3 since his passing and yes it’s going semi okay. I was just crying last night about him I mean it takes time to feel okay/to even think about a loved one who has passed.
I appreciate the support and kindness
I just hope you guys are doing okay too
Us fans are always here if you need us☺️💜
honestly seeing derek crying and opening up is so inspiring dawg cus year or two ago derek woulda gotten the ick from this episode
I still dont know how to spell popinbees
What what’s popping bees
Welcome back to beersos
when i realised that you guys don't even have 10k followers i was literally so shocked, i love this podcast so much and it doesn't even compare to the bigger podcasts for me because beersos is just so much better. i definitely see beersos getting really big in the future so at least i can say i was here before you blew up 😛
You guys make me look forward to Fridays😭🙏 thank you for another fire podcast
1:23 you guys could be staring into the camera doing nothing for 3 hours and id still watch yall
this is by far the best beersos episode yet, and so much hit close to home. and i just want to say how happy it made me to see Derek and Nico being vulnerable with each other and us listeners🫶
My birds name is mango 🫶🏻🫶🏻
57:11 The way i got a shock when Derek said Namibia! Lol fellow Namibian 🇳🇦 here , love and appreciate you guys fr !
12:19 listening to this podcast made my life ok, I have sth to look forward every week 🤍😭🙏
I’m actually bawling my eyes out rn. You guys have helped me so much. I recently started watching Beersos, but so far, you guys have helped me change for the better and improve the way I view life. I’m still struggling with so much, but hearing you guys share your stories has truly helped me know that everything is going to be okay. I'm about to turn into an adult, and I feel like I'm FUCKED, but you guys give me so much hope and comfort. Seeing you guys work hard and live life to the fullest even after all you’ve been through is so motivating. This podcast is so full of raw emotion. I don't know how to word it, but you guys are so fucking real. I’m truly wishing nothing but the absolute best for you two!!!
I had a hard day but now I feel like life is okay
I love you guyssssss and im not in americaaaaa. Lots of love from Toronto, Ontario!!!!!!!
literally everyone dies of cancer so much like even animals bro we asians are not immune wtf 😭😭
I want what Derek and nico have 😔😔
then you're influential already... been going through rough days and assss I work remotly you've been my friends for the past 2 days!
12:01 ; no lie, you guys have succeeded in this, this podcast is so chill but fun it's a nice lil escape
MERICA🗣️🇺🇸🏈WTF IS A KILOMETER🇺🇸🇺🇸
It gets gayer everytime baha
Well, it's because of love that I dare mention it - seeing you Derek break down and be vulnerable with Nico just shattered by heart. And how beautiful that you guys comfort each other. Such a safe, healthy relationship. Nico was correct: this is actually the love of your life. If ever I've seen true love, here it is. Ironically, the more vulnerability, the more we all respond to the conversation. The comedy reels us in, but the heart you show is what keeps us. We're right here rooting for you.
20:05 there’s a listener from South Korea 😔💪
Shit i think im fallin in love with these guys
I was sobbing and then derek be like🙂
As someone who is also part of the dead dad club this episode really got me…
im in love w derek i fear
Ur not alone girl
52:27 broo istg i cried for 5 mins 🙁
I cried w you I am so grateful for your vulnerability
wait you guys are only 21?... yea i mean that makes sense, i never thought of your age but i would have said 21-22
like im turning 21 this year, which is why the specific age was kinda shocking
My day is made.
Crying very much crying