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  • Dad Gave Our Family Business To My Lazy Brother Instead Of Me, A Month Later, He Almost Unalived A Customer With Allergies & Now Dad's Begging Me To Come Back & Fix Everything.
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  • @Crowe0920
    @Crowe0920 3 месяца назад +598

    Oh no. After being humiliated like that, I would not only NOT gone back, I would have gotten a loan and set up a competing business to prove a point.

  • @Permenantlyexhaustedghost115
    @Permenantlyexhaustedghost115 3 месяца назад +5

    Honestly I would’ve never gone back if I were OP.

    • @darcyroyce
      @darcyroyce 3 месяца назад +1

      It's fiction. It's meant to ruffle some feathers. I can assure you that under no circumstances would I ever see that "family" again. As indeed, in real life, I don't.

  • @Anagh1701
    @Anagh1701 3 месяца назад +2

    the moment I got to the return part, I realized something instantly. Derek was fired. He was no longer associated to the business. By accepting, OP would inherit a sinking business and a big lawsuit

  • @Nemiii_16
    @Nemiii_16 2 месяца назад +1

    Imo OP's dad screwed up and it was just stupid so I understand why OP is angry but it's annoying how she talks about her being "the rightful owner" all the time. I understand that she is the better person than her lazy brother but IT WAS the father's decision.

  • @GereldJohnson
    @GereldJohnson 3 месяца назад +4

    Doormat weakling op

  • @franceswilliams2675
    @franceswilliams2675 2 месяца назад +2

    Okay, I'm still kind of confused. I'm assuming you got this in writing in a contract that the business is legally yours and your niche not taking a verbal statement saying you're in charge. Do you own the business or is he going to give it to your brother later on down the road maybe when he passes away?

  • @SakiiiTenmaaa
    @SakiiiTenmaaa Месяц назад

    No way bro.

  • @teamoantony4507
    @teamoantony4507 3 месяца назад

    Op is hella entitled wtf

  • @KentChestnut-rd8wn
    @KentChestnut-rd8wn 3 месяца назад

    Oh daddy!!! I hope that you got everything written down or contact. I think you father will do the same later down the road you only get because he screw up big time had you to fix. I hope you got written contact because if he did it once he will do it again in opinion!!!!

  • @DarkEinherjar
    @DarkEinherjar 3 месяца назад +315

    Father clearly expected OP to work her butt off while his golden baby earned all the credit. Screw that.

    • @MisterMelange
      @MisterMelange 3 месяца назад

      This. Father was probably old school and wanted someone with a penis nominally in charge, even though he knew the daughter would be doing all the real work.

    • @darcyroyce
      @darcyroyce 3 месяца назад +12

      Narcissists, among themselves. 😂

    • @napoespi6985
      @napoespi6985 2 месяца назад +5

      Yet he still came back and helped them.out of the mire like a moron

    • @UrfavLuna1234
      @UrfavLuna1234 Месяц назад

      @@napoespi6985 she

    • @Maria-wi1pj
      @Maria-wi1pj Месяц назад

      ​@@darcyroyce Omg, stop using this goddamn word every time someone acts selfishly. Being selfish ≠ narcissist. Narcissism is an actual mental disorder.

  • @tdexth
    @tdexth 3 месяца назад +697

    Why people think giving an irresponsible person alot of responsibilities and the power to do whatever they please would teach them to be responsible?

    • @Aokiji54321
      @Aokiji54321 3 месяца назад

      Because it's simple
      They lack brain cells

    • @Cc-cb8sq
      @Cc-cb8sq 3 месяца назад +45

      "if we give the lazy bum the job they will stop being a lazy bum and get to be a responsible adult" would be the 'logic'.

    • @AIshaRasuullu
      @AIshaRasuullu 3 месяца назад +1

      𝚃𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚕𝚘𝚐𝚒𝚌 𝚍𝚘𝚎𝚜 𝚠𝚘𝚛𝚔 𝚜𝚘𝚖𝚎𝚝𝚒𝚖𝚎𝚜 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚒 𝚔𝚗𝚘𝚠 𝚊 𝚏𝚎𝚠 𝚙𝚎𝚘𝚙𝚕𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚒𝚝 𝚠𝚘𝚛𝚔𝚎𝚍 𝚠𝚒𝚝𝚑 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚙𝚛𝚘𝚋𝚕𝚎𝚖 𝚒𝚜 𝚒𝚝 𝚠𝚒𝚛𝚔𝚜 𝚠𝚒𝚝𝚑 𝚕𝚊𝚣𝚢 𝚗𝚘𝚝 𝚎𝚐𝚘𝚒𝚜𝚝𝚒𝚌 𝚙𝚎𝚘𝚙𝚕𝚎

    • @Erebus04
      @Erebus04 3 месяца назад +21

      It's hilarious logic "if I give my laziest and worst child with a terrible outlook and walk on life immense responsibility and a duty then surely they will shine like the sun" just amazing

    • @GAPIntoTheGame
      @GAPIntoTheGame 3 месяца назад +4

      Because it sometimes works

  • @Skorge789
    @Skorge789 3 месяца назад +966

    Your dad screwed up and publicly humiliated you and you go back to fix his mistake and inherit a lawsuit all without an apology? Absolutely the wrong choice.

    • @jasonwolf8841
      @jasonwolf8841 2 месяца назад +22

      right i was thinking the same thing what a doormat

    • @sugarbeef
      @sugarbeef 2 месяца назад +8

      That's either some deep seated trauma OP needs to work on in therapy, or this is a fake story and the author couldn't think of anything better.

    • @dimitriasimov2140
      @dimitriasimov2140 2 месяца назад +4

      Then it seems you don't really understand how life works. Sometimes you have to keep your head down, even if it's not right at all. This woman spent 5 years of her life managing that business and knowing all of its ups and downs, knew all of the employees, basically everything. Do you think switching to a new job would have been easier? I doubt that. Even if she were to work as a manager for another restaurant, it wouldn't have been her business, so ultimately she would have been obliged to obey certain orders/rules. It's easy to talk when you are not in her position. Did she step on her pride? Yes. Was it worth it? Yes. One day she will get her father's apology, I am 100% certain of that. And honestly, I am glad that everything turned out fine for her. She has her family back, Dereck is gone and needs to confront the real world as well, but most importantly, she has her dream job/business back as well. It really ain't the same when you don't know what it means to own a business, I can see that in your comment, but maybe you should widen your view and stop being impulsive.

    • @Skorge789
      @Skorge789 2 месяца назад +11

      @@dimitriasimov2140 Or maybe you should get off your high horse and stop making broad sweeping assumptions about people.

    • @dimitriasimov2140
      @dimitriasimov2140 2 месяца назад

      @@Skorge789 you can't even give a pertinent and logical comment, yet you're expecting things from me. Maybe one day you'll understand where my comment is comming from and then your inability to broaden up your views will correct itself. Your first comment was impulsive, this one ain't better at all. But different perspectives come with experience and aeging. And with this, I will not reply to you any further.

  • @blueflameSM
    @blueflameSM 3 месяца назад +1214

    OP is much kinder than me, I would not have gone back until my dad apologized. The ego to refuse a formal apology is terrible. I get it, she wanted to inherit the business but that’s just me.

    • @funtimegenshin6973
      @funtimegenshin6973 3 месяца назад +1

      In all honesty I would tell him to go eat dirt even if he apologized

    • @dikshithaariyawansa1299
      @dikshithaariyawansa1299 3 месяца назад +105

      Yah and i wouldn't have gone back till he legally hands me over the business as well cus who knows when he might do this shit again, i have no trust in him now and damn be his ego, he needs me more than i need him. Simple as that.

    • @Sn0wal_me
      @Sn0wal_me 3 месяца назад +43

      Same I guess most of us have the same personality when it comes to this, maybe not all situations like this but yeah...I would have declined the offer, then open another restaurant just to compete against his business, because he refuses to give me a proper apology... I'm that petty... But yeah op is much kinder than most of us

    • @Drakenn100
      @Drakenn100 3 месяца назад +33

      I thought the exact same. she told him "if you do this, you'll never see me again", if i said something like that and the other person still did what they intended to do, they would need to beg me publicly, head on the ground for me to forgive them. Nothing less. You decide to kill your relationship with me for a stupid decision, if you want to get it back you'll have to feel the shame of what you did in every bone of your body.

    • @Armand358
      @Armand358 3 месяца назад +8

      ​@@dikshithaariyawansa1299 He doesn't need her for nothing, he can just sell the restaurant and go live retirement.
      The mistake here is making this announcement without talking with her before.

  • @16xOrion
    @16xOrion 3 месяца назад +445

    Dad: "DOORMAT! DOORMAT COME BACK AND FIX THIS!"

  • @Withjoy2000
    @Withjoy2000 3 месяца назад +189

    If he wasn’t gonna do a formal apology I would have made him sign over the business so this wouldn’t happen again.

    • @henrysullivan6341
      @henrysullivan6341 3 месяца назад +10

      Facts, if his dad could fire his brother he could get him removed as well

    • @e0o9kii
      @e0o9kii 2 месяца назад +6

      Unfortunately in Update 4, OPs dad red-handed the business to the deadbeat brother with OP just agreeing to stay and work for her deadbeat brother and take the blame for all her brother's future mistakes going forward because she (OP) just loves the restaurant so so much.

  • @SailorLavender
    @SailorLavender 3 месяца назад +144

    "He's a good for nothing with absolutely no experience in business ownership, so I give him my primary source of income."

    • @darcyroyce
      @darcyroyce 3 месяца назад +3

      They're getting high together, I tell ya 😂😂😂

    • @eyeclapback7182
      @eyeclapback7182 2 месяца назад

      😂😂😂😂

    • @eyeclapback7182
      @eyeclapback7182 2 месяца назад

      @@darcyroyce🤣🤣🤣

  • @unaagabii6584
    @unaagabii6584 3 месяца назад +129

    I feel like as soon as the restaurant starts going well, the dad will try to push Derek back into the business and turn Derek into OP's problem

    • @lampostsamurai2518
      @lampostsamurai2518 18 дней назад

      No i think derek got irate and ran off. That hes not living with mommy and daddy anymore is a good sign hes burned that fucking bridge.

  • @ace1gl
    @ace1gl 3 месяца назад +179

    If you are a weak doormat people will treat you like a weak doormat. The dad is horrible and he walks away without losing anything.

    • @hanzelstormborn
      @hanzelstormborn 3 месяца назад +28

      Eaxctly, OP is actually a doormat

    • @laquietagray9323
      @laquietagray9323 3 месяца назад +6

      Doormats at their finest unfortunately.

    • @anonymous-or3re
      @anonymous-or3re 3 месяца назад +6

      Bruh
      I would rather be a happy doormat, than be a miserable person
      Y'know)

    • @darcyroyce
      @darcyroyce 3 месяца назад +5

      ​@@anonymous-or3reillogical, but don't let that stop you from commenting. 😂😂

    • @gdradical5803
      @gdradical5803 3 месяца назад +3

      @@darcyroyceno no they have a point

  • @areszeudion5153
    @areszeudion5153 3 месяца назад +413

    Dad thinks it was humiliating when the truth was that, he DID screw up by picking his son, and insulted OP by fighting with her on the day that was meant to be his retirement party. OP, is NTA, and the dad owes that apology.

    • @mnomadvfx
      @mnomadvfx 3 месяца назад +10

      Not only that but the father is retiring anywya.
      Why does he need to care if he is humiliated when he doesn't need to work with these people anymore?
      It's his daughter who has to work with them AFTER he humiliated her by putting an inexperienced twerp over her.

    • @jaymadre5996
      @jaymadre5996 3 месяца назад +3

      Dude that is HER fault for having the fight in front of people instead of behind closed doors.
      Then she cuts him out of her life when he doesnt give her what she thinks she is entitled to.
      What a brat

    • @shinatina2466
      @shinatina2466 3 месяца назад

      ​@@jaymadre5996what she THINKS she's entitled to. Her brother is lazy and her father was being a dick by doing that. Guess you don't see the golden child syndrome that's blatant. Maybe you're one too

    • @gachatana9656
      @gachatana9656 3 месяца назад +10

      ​@@jaymadre5996 Who THREW the party? Who WORKED HARD FOR 5 YEARS TO SECURE THE BUSINESS? WHO HAS KNOWLEDGE ON HOW IT RUNS DUE TO WORKING WITHIN IT???

    • @areszeudion5153
      @areszeudion5153 3 месяца назад +8

      @@jaymadre5996 OP has every right to inherit the business, since she's the only one of her three siblings who worked there.
      I get fighting in front of everyone might seems bad. But mind you, everyone would instantly blow up when they are treated like that.
      So, I wouldn't call op an entitled brat.

  • @asherdales
    @asherdales 3 месяца назад +61

    A public apology is insane and humiliating but what he publicly did to her isn't? GFSF

    • @darcyroyce
      @darcyroyce 3 месяца назад +2

      Public apology... No, I wouldn't accept one. I think people should be reported and things taken from there.

  • @mattharrell6880
    @mattharrell6880 3 месяца назад +54

    I will go back but you will be signing the entire business over to me, MINUS any settlement debt. Take it or leave it. Otherwise he will let the kid run it and then sell it out from under them OR give it back to Derek when he gets "older and wiser now"

  • @_juju_jojo_
    @_juju_jojo_ 3 месяца назад +27

    “You’re not thinking about your brother’s future!” Bruh not even Derek gives a fuck about his future, why would she?
    Op such an idiot for going back lol

  • @Nirvash89
    @Nirvash89 3 месяца назад +27

    So the father:
    1. Chose a complete and total novice to take over a legacy business instead of a fully-trained and respected staff member.
    2. Publicly declared his intent to support the same novice in front of the staff and his family.
    3. Also publicly shamed and humiliated the same trained and respected staff member, who is his own daughter, by declaring she would need to be her younger brother's minder instead of running the business herself.
    4. Chose to throw his successor, his son, under the bus when that same bratty kid screwed up and caused an actual legal backlash.
    5. Attempted to gaslight his daughter, who he had humiliated previously, into returning by "offering" her the position he had so carelessly handed over to a complete idiot.
    And he has the brass to say that the daughter is asking for too much when she demanded an apology in front of the same people he had humiliated her in front of, as well as admitting to his own idiocy by having the clueless son take over instead of the seasoned daughter?
    Honestly, O.P. is so far from being the @$$hole in this situation, she's not even in the same galaxy as the father. The old man tried to use the "shock and awe" method to force his youngest son to grow up and take responsibility, when they should have been going about other methods, such as forcing him to find a job to pay rent, or the kid is out on his can. This grown baby is 26 years old, and has been a shut-in for 2 years by this point, my parents would have made me either stick with a job to pay bills, or would have tossed me out after only a few months.
    I'm a little disappointed that O.P. didn't stand her ground on this, but at the end, it is something that has been part of her family, so I can't give any grief over her decision to return to help out.

    • @lampostsamurai2518
      @lampostsamurai2518 18 дней назад +1

      I think his excuses for choossing derek are just excuses. He didnt want a wahman to inherit his business is the vibe i got. So instead he tried to set derek up to have op mother him his whole life. If derek hadnt fucked up so royally, theyd probably be begging op to help derek instead.

  • @bspencer6356
    @bspencer6356 3 месяца назад +19

    OMG it goes on and on and on and on …. Get to the freakin’ point!
    Also, OP is a doormat. What she demanded was reasonable and she caved. Dad screwed her, humiliated her, cheated her, and she crawled back. As soon as Derek starts whining again, the Golden Child will be right back. Unless he puts the restaurant in her name she shouldn’t unpack her bags.

    • @romen828
      @romen828 2 месяца назад +3

      I got through 4 mins before I stopped this video. OP is just yapping nonstop repeating the same lines over and over. 4 mins and it’s still “I assumed the business would go to me”! with no actual plot development yet. I can’t handle 14 more minutes of this.

  • @jt27jt27
    @jt27jt27 3 месяца назад +38

    Op is a weak doormat

  • @sanddagger36
    @sanddagger36 3 месяца назад +37

    you'd be surprised how quickly irate customers can be satiated just by learning someone was fired.
    Obviously the customer was in the right about this manager, but i don't think she was trying to protect the public from a dangerous person, she should've tried to get more money from them but hearing he was fired was enough to calm her down.

    • @darcyroyce
      @darcyroyce 3 месяца назад +2

      It depends, I suppose... It's in the magnitude of what was done and the risks and dangers faced. Damages incurred. I choose justice over spirituality. 😂 Bless..

  • @kevinbadger8030
    @kevinbadger8030 3 месяца назад +75

    What slight feelings of sympathy I had for OP went down the toilet when they decided to go back.

  • @happybkwrm
    @happybkwrm 3 месяца назад +33

    OP is a fool. Dad will keep them on, then leave the restaurant to the brother in his will.

  • @EdcelJannMCorre
    @EdcelJannMCorre 3 месяца назад +5

    Somebody get a hold of OP and relay this idea.
    OP sets up another party for dad but rather than tha king him, she says this. "Oh, remember that one time you f'ed up royally by giving your worthless son the business and he almost ran it to the ground and you had to ckme and beg me to save your ungrateful ass? Yeah, I'm still waiting for my apology and what better time to give it than now."

    • @darcyroyce
      @darcyroyce 3 месяца назад

      You're waiting for an apology, or anything? 🙃🙂

    • @EdcelJannMCorre
      @EdcelJannMCorre 3 месяца назад

      @@darcyroyce
      Nope. Don't care about an apology, just the joy of seeing him get humiliated and squirm.

  • @4myzelf
    @4myzelf 3 месяца назад +17

    If I was OP, I'd use that lack of apology, in the future, anytime I hurt the dad's feefee's I'd say "I now realize that was wrong but you taught me that there's no reason to apologize among us so just get over it"

  • @hanzelstormborn
    @hanzelstormborn 3 месяца назад +22

    half way and I am already disappointed when she said I am going back. RIP to a good ending.

  • @jerric1228
    @jerric1228 3 месяца назад +11

    I’m married to an Italian, so I get where both of them are coming from on the pride front, but that doesn’t make it any less unacceptable. He owed that to her but was too small of a man to do it. The sooner she gets it legalized that the restaurant is hers, the better, you can’t trust back stabbers.

  • @VerySassatello
    @VerySassatello 3 месяца назад +12

    I feel like if he did go through with the public apology it would help with the Court case and with they're image to recognize where they went wrong and now they're bringing someone in more experienced and fitting for the manager role.
    Like wtf.
    Drop ur pride man it just a apology it won't hurt u it might actually benefit ya.

    • @darcyroyce
      @darcyroyce 3 месяца назад

      Oh bless. Proper damage control mode, this. 😂

  • @darkness5101
    @darkness5101 3 месяца назад +22

    I keep hearing these different versions of “my dad left the company to my lazy/good for nothing brother” a lot lately

    • @adriannaranjo4397
      @adriannaranjo4397 3 месяца назад +7

      AI stories just regurgitate the same 4 stories over and over

    • @matthew9326
      @matthew9326 3 месяца назад

      ​@@adriannaranjo4397it's not always AI. A lot of time it's "ooh that reddit story got alot of upvotes. I have a story just like that."

    • @maddendadof3453
      @maddendadof3453 2 месяца назад

      Same thing happens on Tik Tok. Every 8-10 stories they repeat and switch the main role from Male to Female, and then run it back.

  • @hiftu
    @hiftu 3 месяца назад +4

    Story: OP has been humiliated, but she has no backbone so after 1 month she went back to its job and she happy being a doormat.

  • @jsullivan649
    @jsullivan649 3 месяца назад +24

    Yet another doormat is used and humiliated and just comes running back, lol.

    • @captaingramcrackergrams5990
      @captaingramcrackergrams5990 3 месяца назад +4

      And the funniest part is the handful of people in the comment section. Trying to act like op made the right choice... It's like okay being a manager at a restaurant is apparently worth giving up your dignity and respect as a human being. I think some of these people are probably doormats themselves and are just looking for validation

    • @darcyroyce
      @darcyroyce 3 месяца назад

      ​@@captaingramcrackergrams5990it's just wishful thinking on their part. They think if they argue on the Internet about a hypothetical situation then things will happen the same way in real life situations as well. Delulus, much? 😉🙂

  • @jemase7931
    @jemase7931 3 месяца назад +11

    If dad can fire the son, he can fire the daughter. Make sure things start getting transferred to your name. He still wants to keep control and doesn't really seem trustworthy.

  • @LODintheshadows
    @LODintheshadows 3 месяца назад +11

    The business was not as much hers as it was the dad's. If it were, she wouldn't have had to have been applying for new jobs due to unemployment. Public apology acknowledging he was wrong is the absolute bare minimum. I would have been so annoyed if she had not demanded that.

    • @LODintheshadows
      @LODintheshadows 3 месяца назад +4

      scratch that, she annoyed me by backing down. instead, she should write a public post after she starts saying "it's good to have the job that should have originally been given to me, after my dad made the massive blunder of giving it to my incompitant brother. Now I will keep striving to bring the business to greater heights". let him sacrifice some of his pride if he actually wants the business to succeed.

  • @Carehuea
    @Carehuea 3 месяца назад +3

    Why TF did the OP go back…?
    Such frustrating update…
    #dhummfk
    #fkndoormat

  • @lumarrandom8144
    @lumarrandom8144 3 месяца назад +15

    Dang what a doormat. Now he knows that if anything goes wrong he can go back to his daughter to fix things.

  • @stevenwilson5556
    @stevenwilson5556 3 месяца назад +5

    The brother should be arrested for assault and go to prison, not just lose the job of manager for intentionally poisoning the person who asked for soy milk.

    • @darcyroyce
      @darcyroyce 3 месяца назад +1

      I think so too, yeah.

  • @ancadiamant
    @ancadiamant 3 месяца назад +7

    So the father can give a private apology but not a public one. WTF!

  • @Pelousek273
    @Pelousek273 3 месяца назад +16

    OP in the argument: "Do you know how much I've sacrificed?!"

  • @xtruejudgementx5017
    @xtruejudgementx5017 3 месяца назад +7

    This is the alt timeline to that jewelry store story

  • @YRAT-mr8jq
    @YRAT-mr8jq 3 месяца назад +8

    Something in writing!? OP is too good for that family.

    • @darth3911
      @darth3911 3 месяца назад +1

      Not really she mentioned she never asked to inherit much less told or expressed interest in inheriting the business.
      Aka she assumed her father would know without ever speaking with him.
      The younger brother probably asked and showed interest in owning the business, spite not having the necessary knowledge and skill.
      This is probably what made him get the business over her.

    • @sTas073-i1e
      @sTas073-i1e 2 месяца назад

      @@darth3911 Ahh yes because working there for 5 years is not showing interest, while sitting at home all day is showing interest... All right

  • @deputyliam5966
    @deputyliam5966 3 месяца назад +4

    Doormat final boss

  • @AryanBlitzkrieg-c7v
    @AryanBlitzkrieg-c7v 3 месяца назад +4

    Make sure younger brother doesn't have a restaurant credit card after he's gone. Announce the new management of the restaurant! No one needs to know why but it could be part of the settlement with the hurt client.

  • @Nexusthegay16
    @Nexusthegay16 3 месяца назад +18

    Of course it went to the youngest 🙄.

    • @Aokiji54321
      @Aokiji54321 3 месяца назад

      I mean when does it not go to the youngest
      Oh and also the youngest one are also the most bitchest of all bitches

    • @darcyroyce
      @darcyroyce 3 месяца назад

      There's no fool like an old fool, as they say. Ew.

    • @greatprofessorbias414
      @greatprofessorbias414 Месяц назад

      Nope, it went to the youngest MALE. If OP had been a male, this story wouldn't exist. Let's be for real.

  • @satrickptar6265
    @satrickptar6265 2 месяца назад +2

    My pride wouldn’t been able to handle it. If the dad betrayed her once, why won’t it happen again?

  • @jondebeer6863
    @jondebeer6863 Месяц назад +3

    Doormat people doing doormat things. Dad will keep doing this bullshit at her expense because all he has to do is say sorry.
    Dad also did the staff dirty. He also was a nepo baby because his father built the business, so he never really had to work in his life, but you don't knowingly hire a bad manager like that.

  • @sensoramp07
    @sensoramp07 3 месяца назад +6

    30 seconds ago😭🙏🏻💀☠️

  • @e0o9kii
    @e0o9kii 2 месяца назад +2

    Update 4: OPs dad re-hired the deadbeat brother as manager of the restaurant, held OP responsible for every mistake he made going forward and OP is now just taking it because she just loves the restaurant so so much.
    OP is now both a doormat and a punching bag for her deadbeat brother/boss and her dad.

  • @debbienkuna6855
    @debbienkuna6855 3 месяца назад +1

    OP's dad knew she was a total push over and a people pleaser. Her younger brother will inherit the family business.

  • @bushyson909
    @bushyson909 2 месяца назад +2

    "This time, im gonna let things go ." yeah i dont think it's just this time and that statement is exactly why u ended up in the position in the first place.

  • @chunellemariavictoriaespan8752
    @chunellemariavictoriaespan8752 Месяц назад +2

    10:02 =Sounds like an episode in Gordon Ramsay's show...

  • @factoryofdivisiveopinions
    @factoryofdivisiveopinions 3 месяца назад +1

    If I was Op, I would've gone full Othelo on the restaurant and make the father regret his live choices. Wtf kind of logic was that? Giving the brother the restaurant was like giving a mentally unstable senile man presidency. Oh wait...

  • @daquanben4984
    @daquanben4984 Месяц назад +2

    op made the dumbest decision yet going back

  • @kagome1000o
    @kagome1000o 3 месяца назад +2

    I would not have gone back and apologized. The dad said what she was asking of him was insane and humiliating, so was what he did to her.

  • @КириллТрифонов-е5ф
    @КириллТрифонов-е5ф 2 месяца назад +1

    AITA thread just doesn’t make sense anymore imo. Every time the stories are one-sides with OP being duped, bamboozled and smeckledorfed by the entirety of United Nations and Dan himself. And final questions being like “AITA for not wanting to k!ll myself, punching puppies and committing massive g9nocides?” sometimes even make me smile. Like how can you even consider yourself as @$$hole in such situations of the story is real and actually happened the way you tell it?

  • @Morticide.
    @Morticide. 2 месяца назад +1

    How many different ways can someone say "I thought I'd inherit the business, but he gave it to my brother instead"???
    It's the SAME point reiterated like 40 times, holy fuck.

  • @thomastheawesome4822
    @thomastheawesome4822 Месяц назад +1

    I disagree with a lot of people saying that OP is a doormat. Op made a choice for her happiness, OP's dad wasn't a complete sack of shit, it was embarrassing and insulting yes and it wasn't a little mistake. But clearly OP still valued the relationship with her father and the restaurant. OP stated she is happy. I'm tired of people thinking that always burning all bridges and cutting all ties is the only way to be happy. There's a time and a place for that, but not every situation is completely unsalvageable. OP didn't just make a decision for her father because she felt she had no choice, OP made a choice for her happiness and fulfillment.

  • @sambrown2322
    @sambrown2322 Месяц назад +1

    These are the consequences of their parents enabling OP's younger brother's lazy entitled behaviour for so long.
    The fact that Derek's ego was that huge, that he ended up risking a customer's health in the process says it all

  • @alphaleader870
    @alphaleader870 2 месяца назад +1

    The OP is a complete doormat.
    Clearly the father refused to give the public apology because he knew that whether he did or not the OP would just roll over and do what he wanted.
    The only response the OP should have given was if you really cared about the family business then you will give that public apology. And that is because until you do I will not be coming back to the business. And I will let the business go under if he refuses to give the public apology.
    So the OP'S father would have either been forced to swallow his pride and publicly apologize. Or lose the family business due to his own arrogance and stubbornness.

  • @liztewliztew
    @liztewliztew 2 месяца назад +1

    Dad erroneously believed that his daughter, who has 5 years of experience and whom he had publicly shamed, would stick around to help the golden son? The same son who everyone knows does not give a sh*t about anyone or anything? Then the sister is supposed to take over the restaurant? The same restaurant that is now being sued due to the incompetence of the golden son?
    Gross. All of this is gross.

  • @AlexandraSaysHi
    @AlexandraSaysHi 3 месяца назад +1

    Nah, op shouldn't have budged until she got that apology. Like it wasn't humiliating for her and how he treated her and how he pulled the rug out from under her at a big party? Op's dad is an ahole and she shouldn't have saved his business. She seems smart enough to start up her own business without dear ol dad pulling shit like that.

  • @monicasalyer8875
    @monicasalyer8875 Месяц назад +1

    In real life, the father would have left the brother in charge and fixed the screw-up, claiming it was a "learning experience".

  • @cagataycetin5314
    @cagataycetin5314 3 месяца назад +3

    Doormat doormat doormat doormat! Gosh, I am very pissed with her.

  • @haziqsaffari9893
    @haziqsaffari9893 2 месяца назад +1

    Another story of favoritism gone wrong for the foolish parent. Always love it when their mistakes bore their inevitable rotten fruit.

  • @Mario285Industries
    @Mario285Industries 3 месяца назад +1

    I love these videos, but is there anyway you can shorten them a bit? A lot of the stuff feels like it keeps repeating.

  • @Xrk-krx
    @Xrk-krx 3 месяца назад +2

    I think op is a bit selfish but he got full right to do that cus he worked super hardnqnd when the dad said : "he wanted to look out for the brother future" if the brother cares he would have looked for a job alsohe accepted that cuz he know op is desrved for the inheritance

    • @Hiyllo55
      @Hiyllo55 3 месяца назад +2

      She… OP said they were 28F. Just wondering (just curious) but does that fact change your perspective/comment?

  • @CodyJonesXD
    @CodyJonesXD 2 месяца назад +1

    *If There's Any New Updates, Please Upload A Video With The New Updates!*

  • @BlazerBS1
    @BlazerBS1 3 месяца назад +10

    so similar to that other story with the family jewellery store thing by the females

    • @Aokiji54321
      @Aokiji54321 3 месяца назад +8

      Where the op's dad gave the jewellery store to op's sis and Fiancee?

    • @areszeudion5153
      @areszeudion5153 3 месяца назад +4

      There's also that one exporting company where the brother was thrown out because mom thinks brother needs something to be responsible for to be an adult, ends up partying, replacing people with friends, and bankrupted the family business in months, eventually led to its reduction in size.

  • @Theloudestmime9
    @Theloudestmime9 2 месяца назад +1

    That restaurant gonna be in the ground before their father💀💀

  • @wofitysgalaxy7317
    @wofitysgalaxy7317 Месяц назад +1

    Hang on, this isn’t the story short I came from!

  • @Learnhowtocube
    @Learnhowtocube 3 месяца назад +3

    I love these stories lol keep up d great work! =D

    • @Tots_lol
      @Tots_lol 3 месяца назад +1

      Fr im addicted to them🙏🏼

  • @curtisaguinaga7021
    @curtisaguinaga7021 3 месяца назад +1

    Im probably in the minority here, but forgiveness is perfectly fine in this situation. OP is happy, she got what she wanted in the end, and is working where she loves. Its a happy ending despite the betrayal....

  • @bunniemochi
    @bunniemochi 3 месяца назад +1

    Just start video from 5:20

  • @FallforcupidD
    @FallforcupidD 3 месяца назад +1

    OP is kinda a doormat lol

  • @redlady120
    @redlady120 3 месяца назад +1

    OP is NTA. A public apology of that level would technically clear you too of anything that may be passed on to you because of Derek's wrongdoings.
    He won't do that, screw it.

  • @markhammond2987
    @markhammond2987 3 месяца назад +2

    I agree with all the comments that the dad owes an apology, but I think she’s twisting the knife with kindness here

    • @darcyroyce
      @darcyroyce 3 месяца назад

      You what!? 😂😂

  • @benjoshvilar869
    @benjoshvilar869 Месяц назад +1

    The op is a doormat

  • @jefmarquez2863
    @jefmarquez2863 14 часов назад

    Can we finally get a Reddit story that doesn’t have a spineless, doormat of an OP?? Please and thank you

  • @DisillusionedAcronym
    @DisillusionedAcronym 12 дней назад

    nah, i ain't nowhere NEAR that kind of grace. you pull THAT bullshit and i'm going to need, at MINIMUM, an apology AND something in writing that you aren't going back to placating your baby boy. again. ESPECIALLY when you only came to me when you were in crisis and desperate as opposed to when things were sunshine and rainbow.

  • @davidmauriciogutierrezespi5244
    @davidmauriciogutierrezespi5244 2 дня назад

    As a person in a creative field I get the sentiment for the restaurant but lets face it, OP is a doormat for not standing her ground or even go and open a competitor business just to spite the father and brother. She made a very reasonable request for returning to the restaurant, the father just doesn't want to accept his mistake.

  • @TheTryingMistake
    @TheTryingMistake Месяц назад

    If you can publicly insult your child, you can publicly admit you were wrong. That's just it.

  • @jessechannon7297
    @jessechannon7297 22 дня назад

    Mug. Once everything is ficed he will probably give it to the son again. Start a new restaurant and make that your passion since your dad obviously doesn't particularly respect you. He can hire a qualified manager to run it or sell it.

  • @shafhussain2378
    @shafhussain2378 25 дней назад

    If I was the OP, I'd tell the dad to suck it up and deal with his own mistake or call other members of his family to deal with it. Plus, as soon as I quit the family business I would've went into business for myself. Set up a brand new restaurant, hire any staff from the old restaurant and build up my own thing. It's their mistake and they can live with it, it's not the OPs fault her brother is an idiot. Let the shame melt her father to ash is what I say.

  • @salthera1673
    @salthera1673 Месяц назад

    NEVER go back to a business that lets you go, then asks you to go back because the business is in trouble and "they NEED you".
    If the business goes under, it'll be your fault. If it succeeds, you will have served your purpose and will be thrown out again.

  • @DemelicosHelsaint
    @DemelicosHelsaint 2 месяца назад

    OP is stupid. Taking on a business that is facing a MASSIVE lawsuit over someone else's mistake is asinine. Let the business burn and take over after it is smoldering. Father made the mistake, the brother made the screw up, they need to take the responsibility and fix it. Not OP.

  • @shakeishah9398
    @shakeishah9398 Месяц назад

    You humiliate your daughter,to appease your useless son, even embarrassing her in front of her staff and family members who knew the job was gonna be hers, but you can’t suck up your pride and apologize to her in front of just that staff it’s sickening

  • @Manhwa-recapped
    @Manhwa-recapped Месяц назад

    Whatever makes her happy, but the OP should completely take over the restaurant, don't share it with that father

  • @samiesam8315
    @samiesam8315 3 месяца назад

    Father humiliated himself by announcing his lazy bum of a son to inherit the restaurant. Like how does giving a huge responsibility such as MANAGING A RESTAURANT to a lazy and inexperienced person teach them anything or make any sense?

  • @fearnes.5272
    @fearnes.5272 Месяц назад

    Next OP knows, dad will leave the restaurant to Derek in his will and forced OP to shadow him or she will get nothing since he knows that Derek won’t be able to support himself ❤

  • @robodestroyer8351
    @robodestroyer8351 2 месяца назад

    Can't wait for part 2: "Golden child brother came back and said he'll only speak to dad if he gets the business so dad gave it to him and now I'm jobless." Or "AITAH for being mad at my dad after he threw me out of the business for my golden child brother again." And guess what she'll be a good little doormat again once he fails... again and come running back to dad once her brother fails...again congrats OP you might have forgive my language but utterly fucked yourself by proving your dad can do whatever he wants and you'll come crawling back after awhile pride and decency as a human be damned!

  • @Ahalaia
    @Ahalaia 2 месяца назад

    NTA, the dad insulted the daughter by picking someone to replace him that wasn't qualified in public in front of others. OP is just asking for him to admit his mistake in front of the same people.

  • @donaldkue2364
    @donaldkue2364 3 месяца назад

    Sounds like my boss. I'm a chef at a thai restaurant. Over a decade of working for him at all 9 locations going back and forth each week, he ends up giving the "management" position to a lower seniority chef. This chef has about 8 years experience but only cooking. No customer service experience, no sauce making experience, doesn't like dealing with problems within the employee circle or with customers. I just facepalmed and after 2 years of that chef as management, you could say business isn't going that great anymore. It went waaaaaaaaay downhill but i can't complain, getting paid the same or more (when i get my raises) when theres barely any business. 😅

  • @Rj-ij6ko
    @Rj-ij6ko 3 месяца назад

    Ahhh yes let’s give the irresponsible failure the business instead of the qualified child who spent years helping with it.
    What could possibly go wrong.
    Ya honestly if i was Op i’d be insisting on an apology and then making it PAINFULLY clear that her failure of a brother doesn’t ever get to set foot in her restaurant again.

  • @morganablackwater2017
    @morganablackwater2017 2 месяца назад

    Lol I wouldn't go back... Id watch them sink and after Id get a loan to buy that restaurant out for myself - actions have consequences
    Don't sell yourself cheap

  • @fayaustin3738
    @fayaustin3738 Месяц назад

    Who had made the "desert" 😂...s/b dessert. AI is only as smart as 'human input'. Pronunciations are off the chain as well.

  • @lindaduran5623
    @lindaduran5623 Месяц назад

    11:38 NTA for wanting a public apology since she was publicly insulted
    13:12 she was very nice for helping her dad