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  • Golden Child Brother Got My Fiancée Pregnant So My Family Abandoned Me. After 5 Years of No Contact, He's in a Coma & My Mother Demand I Step Up as Replacement Father for His Child.
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  • @fazormcghee7936
    @fazormcghee7936 3 месяца назад +3871

    His mother says that he will face karma for not helping yet refuses to realize that his brother is currently facing karma for what he did

    • @willambonney
      @willambonney 3 месяца назад +152

      Consequences!!

    • @tomjoad1363
      @tomjoad1363 3 месяца назад +102

      That would have been an excellent comeback !

    • @nicholasbiazevich868
      @nicholasbiazevich868 3 месяца назад

      @@ghost656metal8karma is apart of Hinduism.

    • @JA-im9xs
      @JA-im9xs 3 месяца назад +34

      The irony 😂

    • @HTiDxZombiezx
      @HTiDxZombiezx 2 месяца назад +18

      ​@willambonney I can hear John wicks voice everytime I hear "consequences" 😂

  • @CrimpyPlate
    @CrimpyPlate 3 месяца назад +2551

    If OP had stepped in like the mom wanted, i can almost guarantee they would’ve thrown him aside again once the brother showed even the slightest sign of recovery.

    • @memeking7273
      @memeking7273 3 месяца назад +81

      Obviously

    • @Hiii_yal
      @Hiii_yal 3 месяца назад +57

      Mean n horrible parents

    • @memeking7273
      @memeking7273 3 месяца назад +93

      @@Hiii_yal Hey, remove the word 'parents' on your comment. They don't deserve that tittle

    • @Hiii_yal
      @Hiii_yal 3 месяца назад +31

      Mean horrible people ok better now lol

    • @JohnSmith-bs9ym
      @JohnSmith-bs9ym 3 месяца назад +25

      Whenever people use words like "step up", that's cue for them expecting you to sacrifice for them and you get absolutely nothing in return...

  • @thatonememe_guy
    @thatonememe_guy 3 месяца назад +2229

    The fact some people can be THAT disgusting and still be supported by relatives proves that bad people hold with eachother.

    • @DragonOfTheMortalKombat
      @DragonOfTheMortalKombat 3 месяца назад +92

      Insane family, I'd prefer to be related to aliens than these people lol.

    • @bobbymoore8
      @bobbymoore8 3 месяца назад +47

      Exactly, sometimes I wonder whether these things are happening in the United States because culturally it sounds bizarre at best.

    • @King-crustacean
      @King-crustacean 3 месяца назад +13

      Plan do as they say get back with ex raze child as you’re own become the father get married to ex as she is shallow then before he wakes up get a divorce and take the child when he wakes up his wife got re married and his kid is now under you control and the cut ties he never sees his son again don block him you want him to see how happy you are raising his son

    • @The_chaotic_groudon
      @The_chaotic_groudon 3 месяца назад +4

      ​@@DragonOfTheMortalKombatsame

    • @robertnoble6661
      @robertnoble6661 3 месяца назад +6

      Or because they don't know who's story is true.

  • @JohnDoe-wh6dd
    @JohnDoe-wh6dd 3 месяца назад +1551

    The answer is no. She cheated, got pregnant, left you and the person she left you for is now in trouble? Kick sand.

    • @amanawolf9166
      @amanawolf9166 2 месяца назад +59

      Agreed. The moment she cheated and got pregnant, all bets were off. The brother and his wife could have stepped up to the plate, being adults about things. It could have saved heartache with everyone. Instead, they decided to be jerks. The Mom was the worst, imho. She only cared about someone giving her a grandkid. That's it.

    • @werechicken1969
      @werechicken1969 2 месяца назад +14

      I think we call that consequences of your actions and, at least for white men, we were taught you have to face the consequences of your actions.

    • @archangelized
      @archangelized 2 месяца назад +9

      Actually, just take custody of the child and take the kid from her and not give him back

    • @nerdjournal
      @nerdjournal 2 месяца назад

      No no no. You don't say kick sand. You Say, "Knock rocks, like you knocked boots, you filthy animal"

    • @kos2919
      @kos2919 2 месяца назад +8

      And she has the audacity to apologize. I think she regretted marrying the brother because she now must live with absolute karen and kevin of in laws.

  • @DarkEinherjar
    @DarkEinherjar 3 месяца назад +3003

    Wow... that title and story scream "DO IT FOR DAN!!!"

    • @Rio-ik7nx
      @Rio-ik7nx 3 месяца назад +437

      Lolz the fact that Dan's story is so popular that people now use it as an example is hilarious 🤣

    • @NathanAsd
      @NathanAsd 3 месяца назад +71

      FR💀

    • @DragonOfTheMortalKombat
      @DragonOfTheMortalKombat 3 месяца назад +76

      ​@@Rio-ik7nx I still don't know who Dan is lol or even that there is a story behind it. I assumed that this is popular like the 'Average Joe'

    • @ReinetteRenee16
      @ReinetteRenee16 3 месяца назад

      ​@DragonOfTheMortalKombat it's an epic long story of a golden child. Google it. It's quite the roller coaster. I think Scaling Stories has it all in one video

    • @samojster
      @samojster 3 месяца назад +89

      @@DragonOfTheMortalKombat its the most popular video on the channel

  • @the-nina-beans88
    @the-nina-beans88 3 месяца назад +1009

    What if op was married?
    Would the family demand he divorced and leave his wife / and kids to be a step father to his cheating ex?

    • @Lava8d6c
      @Lava8d6c 3 месяца назад +86

      That's what I'm saying 😅

    • @AutismTakesOn
      @AutismTakesOn 3 месяца назад +66

      That's actually a very good question...

    • @memeking7273
      @memeking7273 3 месяца назад +91

      Given their reaction to the cheating and then Coma, Probably?

    • @AutismTakesOn
      @AutismTakesOn 3 месяца назад +27

      I just thought: What if Chris didn't make it and OP was his kid's stepdad, but still cold towards Karen? And if the child grows up and asks OP why he doesn't interact with mommy, how would someone be able to explain that to them?
      Child: Hey, daddy? Why don't you like mommy, grandma and grandpa? And what happened to my bio-dad?
      OP: Oh, uh..... Funny story....

    • @ComeliaO7
      @ComeliaO7 3 месяца назад +5

      Yes

  • @lucifermorningstar2505
    @lucifermorningstar2505 3 месяца назад +1284

    Not your kid not your problem tell me you have a golden child without saying you have a golden child

    • @henrywade-re1of
      @henrywade-re1of 3 месяца назад +10

      This guy is such a dum dum, just move back with her, rizz her, she's emotional anyway, and then tell everyone lmao

    • @King-crustacean
      @King-crustacean 3 месяца назад +42

      Plan move in get an emotional attatchment with the child become his new father when brother wakes up his child will be more attached to you than him get back with you’re ex steal his family get married to ex get divorced take child from them cut ties

    • @etharino2285
      @etharino2285 3 месяца назад +9

      @@King-crustacean thats crazy

    • @gameislifehamislife
      @gameislifehamislife 3 месяца назад

      WOW THATS SO GOOD,WHY DIDNT HE TRY THAT!!!!!(I actually mean it)​@@King-crustacean

    • @katsarethebest9465
      @katsarethebest9465 3 месяца назад

      That's some novella revenge right there ​@@King-crustacean

  • @cavediver8385
    @cavediver8385 2 месяца назад +192

    OP: Your mother likely cheated on your father. Your father needs to dna-test both of HER kids.

    • @jackspring7709
      @jackspring7709 2 месяца назад +11

      Bingo. Exactly what I was thinking.

    • @hegeliansours1312
      @hegeliansours1312 2 месяца назад +9

      They know. Hence the hostility

    • @beavenjnr4187
      @beavenjnr4187 2 месяца назад +8

      I thought the same. Why else would you be so hated?

    • @rustyhowe3907
      @rustyhowe3907 Месяц назад +1

      Called it!🏆

  • @sassywatermelon3853
    @sassywatermelon3853 3 месяца назад +560

    I'm thinking Op should have told his parents "Wow have some faith that your only son will wake up, You act like there is absolutely hope for him even though he's your only son." Until they leave, but I'm also not nice to narcissists.

  • @Spacemanct
    @Spacemanct 3 месяца назад +519

    Your mom was not there to apologize. That's gaslighting 101. You're still mad at me because we're bad people. I was going to apologize, but now you're the bad guy.

    • @PikUzarD
      @PikUzarD 3 месяца назад +1

      Are you his mother

    • @alext9320
      @alext9320 3 месяца назад +42

      100%. Genuine apologies are not conditional, and her reasoning for not apologizing wouldn't have even made sense. "We wronged you and I was going to apologize, until you said that you were mad at us for wronging you, so now I'm not going to apologize." It makes no sense, if you thought you owed someone an apology, you wouldn't be offended at them being upset at you. She was never going to apologize, she only said that to position him as a bitter person. She wants the moral high ground of offering an apology without actually apologizing at all.

    • @julokreen2074
      @julokreen2074 3 месяца назад +12

      @PikUzarD It's just basic psychology..

    • @PikUzarD
      @PikUzarD 3 месяца назад

      @@julokreen2074 thanks

    • @thesilentgod7863
      @thesilentgod7863 2 месяца назад

      Oh this

  • @bpmomene2737
    @bpmomene2737 3 месяца назад +356

    I highly suspect the OP is an Affair baby. And the weak dad decided to raise him anyway. Its no wonder they treat him like garbage.

    • @johnsmith-xk8nc
      @johnsmith-xk8nc 3 месяца назад +47

      Hence support for the brother. OP should have went back and "comforted" his SIL.

    • @bpmomene2737
      @bpmomene2737 2 месяца назад +12

      @@johnsmith-xk8nc ngl if he was petty enough, he'd give her a baby and disappear

    • @katherinep708
      @katherinep708 2 месяца назад +3

      @@johnsmith-xk8ncwhy would he sleep with his cheating ex fiancée

    • @elithluxe7568
      @elithluxe7568 2 месяца назад +11

      @@katherinep708to ruin her and the brothers life like they ruined his

    • @FourthIdentity-gu2zk
      @FourthIdentity-gu2zk Месяц назад

      It isnt "weak" to care for a child. Seek therapy troll

  • @jerric1228
    @jerric1228 3 месяца назад +294

    I'll never understand stories like this. They cut him out, but when they need him suddenly "blood is blood". How do they not see the manipulation? Blood was not in fact blood, until he was useful to them. The choice is easy and obvious, a different frankly it's the moral one as well, you can't reward people like that, no matter what.

    • @DragonicGamer32
      @DragonicGamer32 3 месяца назад +22

      what confused me more than anything was how the mom claimed she was going to apologize in front of OP's house. I think that's a load of crap. OP just unloaded on her first and so she got defensive and wanted to act as though she were going to take the moral high ground to try and take some of the wind out of OP's wings. It didn't work.

    • @mnomadvfx
      @mnomadvfx 3 месяца назад +3

      Mother cut him out, father didn't and OP basically ignored father's attempts to keep in contact.
      No good sides to this - there's no excuse for blaming his father for his mothers insanity and brother's betrayal.

    • @Echo_9
      @Echo_9 2 месяца назад +11

      it's also stupid how he's not blocking all of them and ignoring all of this

    • @luizandrade6900
      @luizandrade6900 2 месяца назад +12

      ​@@mnomadvfxHis father didn't speak out or try to really oppose any of that either. I know I would feel let down at that, wouldn't you?

    • @3869426384
      @3869426384 2 месяца назад +3

      @@DragonicGamer32 Even if she was going to apologize, she changed her mind when OP criticized her and called out her backbiting. The apology would not have been sincere.
      In the unlikely chance that it was, she'd go back on it, or use it as guilt leverage, the second it was convenient.

  • @PranavRangarajan
    @PranavRangarajan 3 месяца назад +437

    Nah let him suffer. Pretty heartless but ur brother stole ur fiancee.

    • @pixellordm8780
      @pixellordm8780 2 месяца назад +55

      Is it heartless to smack a mosquito that attacked you or to kill a leech? No. The only heartless ones are the things that called themselves his family

    • @PranavRangarajan
      @PranavRangarajan 2 месяца назад +11

      @@pixellordm8780 True bro

    • @louisyama9145
      @louisyama9145 2 месяца назад +2

      ⁠@@pixellordm8780>talks about morality
      >equates people to mosquitoes
      💀

    • @pixellordm8780
      @pixellordm8780 2 месяца назад +8

      @@louisyama9145 I equated someone who actively tried ruining their brothers life for a laugh to a parasite. Because that's how they behaved.

    • @Rixoli
      @Rixoli 2 месяца назад +5

      No, it would be heartless if it was his child. This woman fucked his brother, abandoned their future marriage and abandoned a man who was very clearly fond of her before her infidelity came to light considering they'd been together for over a decade by the sound of it. She broke this guy's heart and is angry she doesn't have a rebound she can foist all her responsibility onto. She violated his trust and his brother was a home-wrecker, they were made for each other and they should stay together even if he's eating through a tube in his throat in a coma.

  • @demonark3391
    @demonark3391 3 месяца назад +396

    If op did return to his "family", I can guarantee that the instant his brother recovered he'd have been kicked out again. His parents went silent for five years and only contacted him because his brother went into a coma. To them, op was just a backup in case something happened

    • @mnomadvfx
      @mnomadvfx 3 месяца назад +3

      They went silent because he refused to interact with his brother after the betrayal, and even then it seems like the OP just ignored his father who was still trying to keep in contact with him and was trying to console him on the day he found out about it.
      I get that it was a blow to find that out after so long a relationship, and his mother is a lost cause - but OP was being a tw@t to his father for no good reason at all.
      I honestly don't see any good people in this story.

    • @demonark3391
      @demonark3391 3 месяца назад +18

      @@mnomadvfx I will admit he was rude to his father by ignoring him, but the father didn't really seem to fight for OP aside from consoling him (although I do wonder how long the attempts to contact OP lasted after the baby was born as that wasn't explained). The father overall just seemed to go along with whatever the mother said, even in the present he just agreed, and went so far as call OP early in the morning just to confuse and yell at him.
      OP does have his faults, but his parents are insane. Makes me wonder if the ex knew about this plan and what she would think about it

    • @ArmyTiny-nz8od
      @ArmyTiny-nz8od 2 месяца назад +20

      ​@@mnomadvfxLike lol, his father didn't step up for OP so OP has right to be rude to the father

    • @tsukiyumio3467
      @tsukiyumio3467 2 месяца назад

      @@mnomadvfxare you serious? If you don’t say anything when someone do something bad to you, that means they tacitly (albeit reluctantly) allow that someone to get away with it. Dad is also an AH for not standing up for OP and not correcting the brother for cuck*ng OP. If I was him, I’m not gonna talk to anybody in the family anymore

    • @Libellulaire
      @Libellulaire 2 месяца назад +3

      @@mnomadvfx
      Why would he have talked to his father ? His father was like "There there, son, I know it sucks" but never actually took his side nor defended him. If he were a good dad who cared about his son he would have told his wife, first son and Karen how f*cked up they all were and how it wasn't a good thing to do. He didn't. He sat with the mother and the two cheaters to give him the news of "Welp, now your girlfriend will be your brother's since she's pregnant."
      The dad only felt bad that OP was sad and upset, he didn't feel bad about the situation itself. He didn't have his son's back at all, no respect for him or his feelings, why would OP still talk to him ?
      Also, how is he supposed to move on and try to forget about the whole situation if he keeps on talking to someone directly involved with the situation and who'd keep him "updated" on everything ?
      The way his dad reacted when he decided not to "step up" and afterwards is a clear proof that the father was NEVER on OP's side.

  • @bobothetroll2873
    @bobothetroll2873 3 месяца назад +143

    I'm a petty bitch so I would have gotten receipts of the parent's request and then forwarded them to the brother once he's out of the coma. Let him know they were that quick in replacing him

    • @pixellordm8780
      @pixellordm8780 2 месяца назад +22

      I would’ve blocked them & sued if they continued to try and contact for harassment

    • @btsismyoxyjin2013
      @btsismyoxyjin2013 2 месяца назад +3

      Exactly

    • @medusawitchful
      @medusawitchful 2 месяца назад

      or I could make that child really love me so much so the child won't need bio dad and mom anymore.

    • @MultiBigbird01
      @MultiBigbird01 Месяц назад

      @@medusawitchful Except OP is not obliged to take responsibility for that child after what OP's ex, brother and whole family did to him. It's shameless for them to demand and guilt him into doing their bidding after them betraying him. Where was this family obligation when his brother cheated him.

    • @TheGrumpyAngelPR
      @TheGrumpyAngelPR 21 день назад

      Exactly! Like wth were they thinking was going to happen if the bro woke from his coma to find out his crazy parents gave him for dead and gone not even 3 days into a coma and asked his estranged brother to basically replace him as father to his kid and husband to his wife. Ridiculous and disgusting!

  • @jstenberg100
    @jstenberg100 3 месяца назад +309

    op is way more forgiving and a kinder man then i would have been

    • @steen275
      @steen275 3 месяца назад +53

      Thats why she cheated.
      the nice guy

    • @legoatjagoat4691
      @legoatjagoat4691 3 месяца назад +27

      Agreed he need to stand on business

    • @DragoEpyon
      @DragoEpyon 2 месяца назад

      OP is a liar looking for internet back pats.

    • @jen6106
      @jen6106 2 месяца назад +16

      Spineless

    • @yaelz6043
      @yaelz6043 2 месяца назад +10

      He's basically a slave at this point.

  • @Xrk-krx
    @Xrk-krx 3 месяца назад +105

    You what they say: "if you aint the father dont even bother"

  • @AutismTakesOn
    @AutismTakesOn 3 месяца назад +189

    OP's parents shouldn't be mad at him for not being there for them when they need OP, since they themselves weren't there for OP when he needed THEM. What OP did to his parents was no different from what they did to him. Actually, what OP's parents did was WORSE because they could've done something about the situation, whereas Chris's accident was beyond OP's control.
    At least Karen's parents seem like good people. Idk why OP never tried to contact THEM. Karen's parents cut contact with her shortly after she cheated. Coincidence? I don't think so.

    • @DragonicGamer32
      @DragonicGamer32 3 месяца назад +36

      Honestly, I probably would have laughed on the phone when dad started yelling.
      Wakes up groggy and hears dad yelling.
      "Pffft hahahahaha"
      "Why are you laughing damnit?!"
      "Because you couldn't be any more transparent. well dad, I'm dead to you, you're dead to me. Why are you talking to a dead and asking them to step up for your still living son?"

  • @keysi06
    @keysi06 3 месяца назад +81

    The fact this guy is confused is showing he is a good guy but not everybody is worthy of that kindness... Just continue with NO CONTACT

  • @kalcibone
    @kalcibone 3 месяца назад +62

    Send parents and karen a Cease & Desist order under threat of lawsuit for defamation and harassment.

  • @TOMMY716
    @TOMMY716 3 месяца назад +64

    You know what's so funny did they ever tell him when you were in a coma we basically just wanted to forget about you and have your brother marry his ex and take your child

    • @Aaron-zt5ee
      @Aaron-zt5ee 2 месяца назад +8

      Seems like they didn’t really even want him to marry hey. It sounds like he was just supposed to be the piggy bank.

  • @runikvarze6191
    @runikvarze6191 3 месяца назад +76

    Oh hell naw! She fucking cheated on you, broke your heart, and tried to make you watch while she lived a happy life with your brother who, in his own right, broke trust with you by getting with your then-current SO! I say bury the family history in a deep, permanent grave.

    • @Amoogus
      @Amoogus 2 месяца назад +6

      Who is worse in this situation? The woman who loved him for years and wanted to settle down with him only to cheat on him with his OWN BLOOD? Or your own flesh and blood brother that knowingly went behind your back to betray you in the worst way possible? As an only child I would’ve gave anything to grow up knowing sibling love. Boils my blood to see that kind of bond perverted.

    • @youthoughtaboutit6946
      @youthoughtaboutit6946 2 месяца назад

      @@Amoogusit’s a really close call, but I’d say the ex.

    • @thenewmorgan5662
      @thenewmorgan5662 2 месяца назад +2

      ​@Amoogus the brother 100% is worse than the ex, but the mother is the worst person in this situation, family is supposed to be the people who have your back before anyone else, not play favorites and betray you. OP's family isn't real family because not all family is blood related.

  • @guyperson754
    @guyperson754 3 месяца назад +40

    Bruh, what if after his brother woke up, he called his brother to tell him their mum asked him to move in with his ex and be a replacement father for his nephew? Like damn, not even three days and mum is trying to replaced one brother with another again. The mum seemingly doesn’t care about either brother, just that her grandson has a traditional nuclear family for photos.

  • @potatoAlive_207
    @potatoAlive_207 3 месяца назад +51

    The family is very unhinged what the heck, family this family that, effed off. They definitely had a favorite, and OP since the beginning is probably a scapegoat it's disgusting really.

  • @frantheman1287
    @frantheman1287 2 месяца назад +17

    The mom cheated. You'll never convince me otherwise. If my family did that to me I would've moved either across the country or around the world. They would never be able to find me. Who needs enemies when you have a family like OP has.

  • @prestow
    @prestow 3 месяца назад +36

    I'd like to say I don't have cockroach blood in me. The father shied away from protecting his son who was right and left the wife to take control of everything.
    Then, five years later, she's terrorizing one son again, and the father is giving his blessing to the absurdity. The screaming at 5 shows how cowardly he is.
    I had my immediate family giving me shit for free, so I don't speak to my father and cut off my two brothers. Everyone else, including my mother, speaks to me normally.

  • @FAY_1m4p0t4t0
    @FAY_1m4p0t4t0 3 месяца назад +63

    This is messed up maybe if his brother didn’t try to get her pregnant he wouldn’t be in his karma state and op wouldn’t be dragged in but life happens but it’s good it happened b4 the whole wedding

    • @motivatedman4630
      @motivatedman4630 2 месяца назад +1

      @@ghost656metal8 probably not. Butterfly effect, you know.

    • @motivatedman4630
      @motivatedman4630 2 месяца назад

      @@ghost656metal8 like I said, butterfly effect. If he didn't marry his brother's girlfriend, he wouldn't get into this situation in the first place. He might not even have car at the time.

    • @Libellulaire
      @Libellulaire 2 месяца назад +1

      For real, despite how awful this whole story is thank God the brother and ex were stupid enough to have a lot of sex without ever using protection. It would have been so much more hurtful and difficult for OP to learn for example 10 years into the marriage that she and his brother had been cheating on him for years. On top of that, I bet that any children born AFTER the wedding would have been considered OP's even if they had been the brother's...

  • @izzatihassan1475
    @izzatihassan1475 3 месяца назад +32

    Anyone want to bet that if the brother fully recovered, OP will be forgotten again?
    Edit: i just finished the video. Oh wow color me surprised 🙄

  • @TwlightBearsCrafts
    @TwlightBearsCrafts 3 месяца назад +51

    I always come back -William Afton
    (Edit: thank you so much I have never gotten this much likes😭)

  • @melindaflick631
    @melindaflick631 3 месяца назад +27

    OP's mother is INSANE. I don't blame him one bit for refusing to see any of them. Truly unhinged levels of INSANE. Honestly, how could he look at his ex and her kid without rage in his heart? They hurt him so much, and that poor kid is the embodiment of that damage. Not good for the kid, or OP. Ex can sink or swim on her own. And if the brother DID come out of his coma, how would he feel about his brother moving back in his home to take care of things? I can't imagine he'd be happy about his loser brother moving in on his ex and their kid? Not that I think OP IS the loser, but I have to think brother would think that.

  • @braydenchan302
    @braydenchan302 2 месяца назад +10

    Op is a better person then me I probably would have laughed on that phone call. A betrayal like that means you’re no longer my family along with anyone how won’t take a hardline stance, you get me or then not both.

  • @williamcortelyou9072
    @williamcortelyou9072 2 месяца назад +13

    My lil bro is a genius, in shape and makes me proud every day i talk to him. But hes a bit shy with girls. Im not. I could never im a million years fathom even kinda hitting on any girl he would ever meet. If she was amazing in every way, that just means lil bro gets more high fives. Ill never get some siblings.

  • @RichGemini1994
    @RichGemini1994 3 месяца назад +19

    So let me guess this straight
    Op lost his ex finance to his golden child brother and his family abandoned him for his brother then 5 years later he is in a coma and op’s mom wants him to step up to help his ex finance with her child and hi e is the bad guy?

  • @cheryljones8875
    @cheryljones8875 3 месяца назад +57

    Absolutely freaking not! Not your kid not your problem….PERIOD!

  • @tomjoad1363
    @tomjoad1363 3 месяца назад +35

    When OP's father said "you had an history with her" I would have reply, Yes! An history of cheating and betrayal !

  • @Logiical11
    @Logiical11 3 месяца назад +26

    After what happened and no one even caring about to give you the thought to even talk to you. They aren’t family anymore and they only came back when they needed you. NTA and definitely do not talk to them again

  • @alliem.182
    @alliem.182 3 месяца назад +15

    Now that their son is "broken", they want to replace him with the backup son. What a bizarre thing to try and impose on everyone - OP, his brother and Karen. Til' death do us part, eh?

  • @djmike9272
    @djmike9272 3 месяца назад +39

    Your biggest mistake was calling your mom and dad in the 1st place. You should have stayed NC all the way!

  • @markmessina7895
    @markmessina7895 3 месяца назад +5

    its a fake story if it was it would be karma

  • @smorphous8928
    @smorphous8928 3 месяца назад +24

    I’m getting “Do it for Dan” vibes from this. It’s good that Ops brother and his ex wife apologized for everything but the parents are the main issue, especially Ops mother.
    I’d say the best revenge is a life well lived, without the toxic people in your life.

    • @asherdales
      @asherdales 3 месяца назад +9

      The ex and sibling aren't truly sorry. They were presented with the finality of life and were seeking forgiveness for their own sake. If they were truly sorry they would have asked for forgiveness any time in between the cheating and coma. The worst thing OP did was forgive them.

    • @motivatedman4630
      @motivatedman4630 2 месяца назад

      @@asherdales OP didn't care, why hold on to it?

    • @asherdales
      @asherdales 2 месяца назад +5

      @@motivatedman4630 Because the only ones who benefit from the forgiveness are the cheaters. He doesn't have to forgive them and just going back to ignoring them.

    • @StarLight-wd6nr
      @StarLight-wd6nr 2 месяца назад

      ​@@asherdalesOP didn't say he forgabe them, he said he didn't care anymore. Forgiveness is an act of self love, trapping yourself for years in sadness, anger, and negative energy is extremely exhausting for your life and yourself. Trapping yourself with these thoughts won't bring you anything, the cheaters are living happily, and no one basically care about your burnout, you're only hurting yourself. Letting go is the best action of self love, when you release yourself from the pain amd anger of what happened you will be able to move on and live your life happily, just like OP did. He said he's happy and didn't care anymore. But he never forget and cut off these people completely. Not letting them get a hold on your thoughts and your life is the best winning for you.

  • @lazallewillemse3617
    @lazallewillemse3617 3 месяца назад +12

    The parents should consider becoming comedians. Their combined stupidity made me laugh nonstop

  • @Mary0-1-0
    @Mary0-1-0 3 месяца назад +4

    Not related to the story, but(the theme was dripping in gold, and three friends were talking Well I’m assuming friends. And one of them was dressing like a love fairy. So I was confused, but I didn’t say anything of course I’m going to mind my business but when it came to see the winners, they all somehow got a place and the love fairy girl got first so I said “Wth” so they said (name)Why did you say “Wth” and then I explained why on how it was unfair then we had a disagreement for likeeee 5 minutes then one of them said I understand it was unfair, but I wouldn’t take it back far (then I disconnected) but I’m confused they were the ones disagreeing with me and saying it was fair but I don’t know now ATAH? (FYI this game is royal high.)

  • @elarianasky
    @elarianasky 3 месяца назад +13

    if the mother wanted to apologise she would've done it as soon as the small talk was over and explained why she was there. girlie was absolutely lying.

  • @gorenchick
    @gorenchick 3 месяца назад +12

    That would be a big fat nope. Karma got'em good so they have to deal with it themselves. You have no responsibility toward you brother, your ex or the affair kid. They abandoned you and if this hadn't happened,they would still be no contact with you.

    • @ghost656metal8
      @ghost656metal8 3 месяца назад

      There's no such thing as karma, the brother would've been in that car accident even if he didn't sleep with OP Fiancée

  • @Kitsune-ur6vz
    @Kitsune-ur6vz 3 месяца назад +11

    Log this one under "Do it for Dan Stories"

  • @hoboonahelo5346
    @hoboonahelo5346 3 месяца назад +10

    Sucks to suck for the brother. I wouldn’t care either, destroy my life then expect me to come to your aid? Wild.

  • @blueflameSM
    @blueflameSM 3 месяца назад +6

    "Hey man, you know your ex-fiance that cheated on you, had a child with your brother? We want you to take care of them and be the dad now that your brother is no longer capable..." Yeah, tough luck. Tell the ex to go get a job. He's not your son, so it's not your problem.

  • @helolady922
    @helolady922 3 месяца назад +7

    The story is so weird. If his ex had cheated on him, gotten pregnant and left him before their wedding for a stranger would his family expect him to step up and help her raise her affair baby if her baby daddy got into a coma. This is not a reasonable expectation to get back together with your ex who cheated on you just because she is going through a hard time. It has nothing to do with him.

    • @FlamesAndShadows
      @FlamesAndShadows 3 месяца назад

      A fair number of stories had secret cheater moms who would've advocated just that, empathizing how much more hurt backstabbers are by rejection (or if any mild consequences made any aspect of their life temporarily harder). And how OPs are the 'real monsters' for choosing anything but doormatting harder and expensively gifting them anything, and anywhen they want for 'emotional trauma' for the rest of their existence. But obviously OP can't be mad for longer that 1 second, because 'it was so long ago'. Its a very dangerous pit of disingenuous advice if the perpetrator is the Golden Child or see themselves in the cheater, instead of feeling sorry for the actual innocent victim

  • @beweartheunown8556
    @beweartheunown8556 3 месяца назад +55

    Hold up the brother is 38 and Karen is 30, they have been together since junior year of high school, so she was 16 and homeboy was 24 😂

  • @kgunitkeese17
    @kgunitkeese17 3 месяца назад +25

    If I was OP in this scenario and my mother demanded that I act like a father to my cheating ex’s affair baby, I would’ve told her to eat 💩 and never contact me again.

  • @Fennni
    @Fennni 3 месяца назад +6

    I don't think I'm sane anymore cuz when I heard what happened to the brother I Instantly went "Womp womp".....

    • @fattiboi2924
      @fattiboi2924 2 месяца назад +1

      i laughed at it, shits too comical. the audacity of these people. too damn funny.

  • @SquirrelsTree
    @SquirrelsTree 2 месяца назад +3

    Not your pigs, not your farm.
    Not your circus, not monkeys.
    Not your horses, not your horses.
    Not your fault, not your problem

  • @frankhanderson37
    @frankhanderson37 3 месяца назад +5

    I'd have not even gotten out of the car. I'd have immediately called the police. And as for the father calling, I'd have told him to go do something unnatural and uncomfortable with himself. And blocked him.

  • @Osxchaos
    @Osxchaos 3 месяца назад +9

    Op should’ve hooked up with his ex as payback and to see how his parents react.

  • @ThePawerStation
    @ThePawerStation 3 месяца назад +2

    Karen and bro knows very well this is karma and forgiveness in that way it's not the same value as actual forgiveness from love and caring.
    That family is not going to have a happy life.

  • @Katezkruru
    @Katezkruru 3 месяца назад +7

    OP absolutely has no reason to step for those a holes. He didn’t create the mess they did. Blood or not they severely wronged you and that cheater doesn’t deserve your help.

  • @avukovic84
    @avukovic84 2 месяца назад +2

    Plot twist: younger brother did hit and run 🤣

  • @BMaura
    @BMaura 2 месяца назад +3

    Bro said he feels bad after his girl cheated on him with his brother had a kid, the family was fine with it and after bro went into a coma, they expect him to help them

  • @khalborg
    @khalborg 3 месяца назад +31

    Personally, i wouldnt do it even if i’m ok with reconciling with the ex fiance. If this happened to me, i dont trust myself to no longer hold any anger against my brother, and i dont trust myself not to take it out on the kid.

  • @jawbon6457
    @jawbon6457 2 месяца назад +4

    Damn my anger issues would never let me be this calm 😂

  • @wingerwc
    @wingerwc 3 месяца назад +7

    Op's girlfriend is very lucky to have someone as kind and as caring as OP

  • @myraarora2011
    @myraarora2011 3 месяца назад +12

    the do it for dan energy is strong in this one

  • @lynx9311
    @lynx9311 3 месяца назад +2

    I would have stepped up. I'd make sure she fell in live with me again and then let the brother know that she went right back to me after he got into a coma.

  • @ashley-cz1sl
    @ashley-cz1sl 3 месяца назад +6

    Not your kid not your problem. Just live your life like you have been and don't give two shit about them

  • @firehot427
    @firehot427 3 месяца назад +4

    These stories keep getting more and more unbelievable. AI ah stories

  • @Scyon13
    @Scyon13 3 месяца назад +8

    I would have said exactly what they said OP said, it was karma too bad the parents didn't get the same treatment.

  • @TehFoamy
    @TehFoamy 2 месяца назад +3

    Imagine yelling at your son for being ungrateful for not helping his former fiancée raise the child that she had after CHEATING ON HIM WITH HIS OWN BROTHER 💀

  • @tgoodfella
    @tgoodfella 3 месяца назад +4

    What pathetic parents especially the father who says nothing what a simp as well

  • @lonewanderer8743
    @lonewanderer8743 3 месяца назад +22

    The fact OP needed to reach out for advice on this is troubling. No way this guy is an actual adult.

  • @treehouse2902
    @treehouse2902 3 месяца назад +5

    Why is the OP still in contact with any of them? He should have changed his number or blocked them.

  • @frankkeachie
    @frankkeachie 3 месяца назад +5

    You owe them absolutely nothing and for them to treat you that way is more than unreasonable stay strong and make the best of what life you have left

  • @pacificdragon1
    @pacificdragon1 2 месяца назад +3

    Betrayed by Brother, Fiancée, Mother, and Father? Tell they to go to Hell and Go No Contact!

  • @wheel-worried5003
    @wheel-worried5003 3 месяца назад +4

    This is the type of family that you need to leave at 18 and never ever contact them ever again

  • @may.096
    @may.096 3 месяца назад +5

    This is disgusting its giving.. "DO IT FOR DAN!" Like hl no

  • @ThepowerofChrist-tm9yu
    @ThepowerofChrist-tm9yu 3 месяца назад +3

    People who started watching now
    👇🏻

  • @iamnotamouseok
    @iamnotamouseok 2 месяца назад +3

    It all seems to be the work of the parents (after the cheating, I mean.)
    The ex isn't reaching out when the brother is comatose. Does she even know what the parents are trying to do? Would she agree to it?
    Does the brother know what they expected of OP? Has anyone told him that they wanted his wife's ex to replace him in his own son's life? Sure he's not a great person, cheating and all, but uh. Somebody should tell him how sketchy his parents are, and how far they went to replace him when things looked bad. Dear old mom and dad might learn that their favored son doesn't appreciate that "help" so much.

  • @Xrk-krx
    @Xrk-krx 3 месяца назад +5

    When she said rlly bad case i said : "Womp Wonp"

  • @shapeless8440
    @shapeless8440 3 месяца назад +5

    Listening to many stories from reddit, i feel like karma really just may exist. These people doing horrible things get some 10x action back every time eventually. Keep being good people whoever reads this comment!

  • @delineherrera5009
    @delineherrera5009 3 месяца назад +5

    This is karma for cheating. Why should they call u to "step up" after all of this?

  • @robertl4522
    @robertl4522 2 месяца назад +4

    God OP is such a saint. If I was in his shoes, I'd be in jail.

  • @tobalaz
    @tobalaz 3 месяца назад +2

    Fell in love with a German girl?
    I did "knot-zee" that coming!

  • @queenrhubarb1676
    @queenrhubarb1676 3 месяца назад +4

    Why is there the craze to have grandchildren? Like the mother burned bridges just to get a grandchild, Jesus Christ.

    • @FlamesAndShadows
      @FlamesAndShadows 3 месяца назад

      Yup, I often think about soon to exist future (grand)children from these OPs. Do those parents not want to be in the life of those? Do they not care about never again having a friendly/close moment with the child they are betraying?

  • @doncjack5913
    @doncjack5913 3 месяца назад +4

    He should have told his brother before he left that they had given up on you while you're in a coma and wanted me to take your place... that should help get them to move on... wonder if Karen knew about what the parents wanted him to do?

  • @loegarl
    @loegarl 3 месяца назад +3

    Do it for Dan, even if I am not the first to say this

  • @EngelinZivilBO
    @EngelinZivilBO 2 месяца назад +2

    After cheating on him, his brother lost the right to call himself even a brother..

  • @maebell227
    @maebell227 3 месяца назад +4

    None of the stepped up for u. They chose Karen and ur brother they can take care of them. U are a grown man u make ur own choices. And when people come to your house and start making a scene just act like it doesn't bother you and walk away and when your neighbors come out wondering what all the noises about just tell him to go ahead and call the cops and shut and lock the door that'll make her leave

  • @luvphoenix956
    @luvphoenix956 Месяц назад +2

    😂😂😂my family tries to guilt me into forgiving my older sister and her demon spawn children absolutely not I hv not spoken to her and her children over 7 yrs now and I don't care

  • @FAY_1m4p0t4t0
    @FAY_1m4p0t4t0 3 месяца назад +7

    Under a day 👀

  • @jetset808
    @jetset808 3 месяца назад +1

    that mom is a narc. Shes the type that uses situations to manipulate people. Something happens and then you have to do this thing even if it fucks your life over because of family. But those people always take

  • @user-ho4tb5qe7v
    @user-ho4tb5qe7v 2 месяца назад +3

    Should get a restraining order on the parents

  • @AreebFC121
    @AreebFC121 3 месяца назад +2

    if i was guy when i recive my mom call and she told me that my brother is on coma i will say womp womp

  • @lthefifteenth661
    @lthefifteenth661 3 месяца назад +4

    I imagine the brother would've been furious to find that OP was caring for the kiddo.

  • @dylanvodden1369
    @dylanvodden1369 2 месяца назад +2

    Who answers their phone at 5 am? Rookie mistake

  • @BaoHadir
    @BaoHadir 3 месяца назад +3

    What I wanna know is if Karen and the brother knew OP's mom was trying to make him take his brother's place. Like, Karen wasn't one of the people harassing OP was far as it was stated, so it seems more likely that it was all the parents' plan. I'd half bet that the brother and Karen would have been pretty pissed at the parents for basically trying to pimp out Karen to a man they knew who could pay her bills.

  • @MateuszJarapud
    @MateuszJarapud 3 месяца назад +2

    what’s the background music it’s so peaceful

  • @Imbalanxd
    @Imbalanxd 2 месяца назад +2

    Peple actually believe these stories are real

  • @Tsunaroo
    @Tsunaroo 2 месяца назад +2

    At the point when his father called him and started screaming at him I honestly would have said; "Go ahead, if my family would abandon me so easily you are not worth it. Besides you dont like me, i dont need you, stop talking to me for all i care."

  • @RedFro95
    @RedFro95 3 месяца назад +2

    The fact that the op was even debating whether to do it or not is absurd. I mean, come on! What is there to be iffy about?? There should have been no arguing, no wondering what to do. Just an immediate and resounding NO. Period. Finé. Done.

    • @mercenery1232
      @mercenery1232 2 месяца назад

      No wonder his parents and brother are that pushy. He's a complete pushover.

  • @Thatkidz123
    @Thatkidz123 3 месяца назад +4

    First view again

  • @DPProductionz
    @DPProductionz 24 дня назад +2

    This would be my villain origin story.