How to Not Die Alone: Overcoming Your Dating Blindspots - Logan Ury

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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 25

  • @ragga7862
    @ragga7862 Год назад +2

    I’ve been doing research for a year now to understand how to do relationships and literally not die alone. I have been working on healing from trauma and am learning about attachment theory, read the book ‘attached’ and yesterday I discovered this gem of a woman, she explains my problems so well! I really want to become more secure attached and learn how to effective communication and find love.

  • @borncrazynotstupid
    @borncrazynotstupid Год назад +20

    We all die alone. A relationship won’t change that.

    • @anitach5901
      @anitach5901 Год назад +2

      no one is supposed die alone

    • @ellie698
      @ellie698 Год назад

      True

    • @JaysonT1
      @JaysonT1 Год назад +2

      @@anitach5901 Everyone does.

    • @aaronclarke1434
      @aaronclarke1434 Год назад +2

      Never understood this saying. There’s no soul, so “you” don’t die alone. “You” don’t transmigrate anywhere.
      Isn’t there all the difference in the world between dying alone and dying surrounded by family and friends?
      You also exist in other people’s memories, so those who aren’t alone literally take longer to die in the form of information.

    • @renzo6490
      @renzo6490 Год назад

      @@anitach5901 …according to who?

  • @_flowuniversity
    @_flowuniversity Год назад +7

    Too many people approach dating and finding a partner like buying a car. We tend to treat others as objects as fantasized “affection” or “love” rather than unique complex individuals with immense depth.

  • @tonyburton419
    @tonyburton419 Год назад +4

    How does another person "make you happy"? What is being "happy" like? Why is the word "happy" so often used as the goal of being alive? What is perhaps more important is that you are aware of genuinely "mattering" to the other.

  • @brianflanagan5173
    @brianflanagan5173 8 месяцев назад

    I’m over here thinking I know what to look for and I know best..yet I have a 100% failure rate!

  • @sundariallen6861
    @sundariallen6861 Год назад

    Need of the hour ,thank you!

  • @renzo6490
    @renzo6490 Год назад +2

    When the time comes for you to die, you imagine yourself lying peacefully in bed surrounded by people who, somehow, will reduce your fear and ease your passing.
    Wanting to make this fantasy real is not a good reason to find a partner.
    The future might not turn out to be as you plan.
    You might die suddenly in an accident.
    You might be completely unaware of your surroundings at the end.
    Your “loved ones” might be very inept at supporting you emotionally.
    They might make matters worse.
    Not wanting to be alone at the moment of dying is a terrible motivation for bringing a person close.
    I suspect that the title of the video and the book , “How To Not Die Alone “ is misleading.
    It’s also ungrammatical.

  • @user-Expos4Ever
    @user-Expos4Ever 7 месяцев назад

    Even if there are
    1000 loving people at your deathbed, You Die Alone

  • @justinwalker4475
    @justinwalker4475 Год назад +1

    and theres me who cant get far enough away from people

  • @mazieluke
    @mazieluke Год назад +2

    everyone dies alone. Connect with your Spirit and the Spirit of the creator, and you will grow stronger.

  • @Jonathan-gy9rx
    @Jonathan-gy9rx Год назад

    She's basically describing The Sultan's Dowry problem, which has been around in the world of mathematics, since the 1950s...
    But, here's the thing, we moved on from more sexist times where fathers had to pay to get rid of their daughters.

  • @anitach5901
    @anitach5901 Год назад +4

    I'm not looking for a partner in fifties . That's miserable. Cheers

  • @prancer4743
    @prancer4743 Год назад

    Higher a friend when your time comes its cheaper that way not personal advice 😮😉👍🤔😀

  • @goldwhitedragon
    @goldwhitedragon Год назад

    She should team.up with Roosh V

  • @JaysonT1
    @JaysonT1 Год назад

    I wish I was sparky

  • @DJSTOEK
    @DJSTOEK Год назад

    💕😷

  • @JaysonT1
    @JaysonT1 Год назад

    She's pretty