I’ve been doing research for a year now to understand how to do relationships and literally not die alone. I have been working on healing from trauma and am learning about attachment theory, read the book ‘attached’ and yesterday I discovered this gem of a woman, she explains my problems so well! I really want to become more secure attached and learn how to effective communication and find love.
Never understood this saying. There’s no soul, so “you” don’t die alone. “You” don’t transmigrate anywhere. Isn’t there all the difference in the world between dying alone and dying surrounded by family and friends? You also exist in other people’s memories, so those who aren’t alone literally take longer to die in the form of information.
Too many people approach dating and finding a partner like buying a car. We tend to treat others as objects as fantasized “affection” or “love” rather than unique complex individuals with immense depth.
How does another person "make you happy"? What is being "happy" like? Why is the word "happy" so often used as the goal of being alive? What is perhaps more important is that you are aware of genuinely "mattering" to the other.
When the time comes for you to die, you imagine yourself lying peacefully in bed surrounded by people who, somehow, will reduce your fear and ease your passing. Wanting to make this fantasy real is not a good reason to find a partner. The future might not turn out to be as you plan. You might die suddenly in an accident. You might be completely unaware of your surroundings at the end. Your “loved ones” might be very inept at supporting you emotionally. They might make matters worse. Not wanting to be alone at the moment of dying is a terrible motivation for bringing a person close. I suspect that the title of the video and the book , “How To Not Die Alone “ is misleading. It’s also ungrammatical.
She's basically describing The Sultan's Dowry problem, which has been around in the world of mathematics, since the 1950s... But, here's the thing, we moved on from more sexist times where fathers had to pay to get rid of their daughters.
I’ve been doing research for a year now to understand how to do relationships and literally not die alone. I have been working on healing from trauma and am learning about attachment theory, read the book ‘attached’ and yesterday I discovered this gem of a woman, she explains my problems so well! I really want to become more secure attached and learn how to effective communication and find love.
We all die alone. A relationship won’t change that.
no one is supposed die alone
True
@@anitach5901 Everyone does.
Never understood this saying. There’s no soul, so “you” don’t die alone. “You” don’t transmigrate anywhere.
Isn’t there all the difference in the world between dying alone and dying surrounded by family and friends?
You also exist in other people’s memories, so those who aren’t alone literally take longer to die in the form of information.
@@anitach5901 …according to who?
Too many people approach dating and finding a partner like buying a car. We tend to treat others as objects as fantasized “affection” or “love” rather than unique complex individuals with immense depth.
That is an excellent point. So true.
How does another person "make you happy"? What is being "happy" like? Why is the word "happy" so often used as the goal of being alive? What is perhaps more important is that you are aware of genuinely "mattering" to the other.
I’m over here thinking I know what to look for and I know best..yet I have a 100% failure rate!
Need of the hour ,thank you!
When the time comes for you to die, you imagine yourself lying peacefully in bed surrounded by people who, somehow, will reduce your fear and ease your passing.
Wanting to make this fantasy real is not a good reason to find a partner.
The future might not turn out to be as you plan.
You might die suddenly in an accident.
You might be completely unaware of your surroundings at the end.
Your “loved ones” might be very inept at supporting you emotionally.
They might make matters worse.
Not wanting to be alone at the moment of dying is a terrible motivation for bringing a person close.
I suspect that the title of the video and the book , “How To Not Die Alone “ is misleading.
It’s also ungrammatical.
Even if there are
1000 loving people at your deathbed, You Die Alone
and theres me who cant get far enough away from people
everyone dies alone. Connect with your Spirit and the Spirit of the creator, and you will grow stronger.
She's basically describing The Sultan's Dowry problem, which has been around in the world of mathematics, since the 1950s...
But, here's the thing, we moved on from more sexist times where fathers had to pay to get rid of their daughters.
I'm not looking for a partner in fifties . That's miserable. Cheers
Higher a friend when your time comes its cheaper that way not personal advice 😮😉👍🤔😀
Hire.
She should team.up with Roosh V
I wish I was sparky
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She's pretty